Phem Zoo Los Muaj Tus Txiv Thiaj Muaj Nqi. 3/25/23
Вставка
- Опубліковано 18 жов 2024
- Phem Zoo Los Muaj Tus Txiv Thiaj Muaj Nqi
Join this channel to get access to perks:
/ @hmongstory
Please Subscribe & Share for more stories.
Thank You for Listening & Watching.
Subscribe: / angel3sistersproduction
© 2019-2023 Hmong Story Channel.
This grandma was born, raised in a difficult and turbulent time in Hmong women history. She lived and accepted the life that she was dealt with. We don’t wear her shoes and shouldn’t judge her and the choices she made. We Hmong women who are born or raised here in America don’t understand, have not gone through any of the struggles and hardships this grandma and countless women of her time went through. I’m just glad I was raised here and brought up my children differently and equally regardless of gender. Living here in America being single is no big deal because we are educated, work and pay our own bills. Having a husband has different meanings back then but not in todays time: Equal value and pull your own weight.
I totally agree!
Amen!
Fully agree! If I was her I would do the same. It's bout survival.
Listening to this kind of stories, it makes me sad and I am blessed to be in this country.
Thank God for America.
This grandma had a very difficult life but she learned how to cope and made the best of it! You deserve all the happiness this world has to offer you. I hope you reconnect with your sister soon.
I already hate this title. “Have a husband to have worth.” Like my mother tells me I don’t have a life because I don’t have a husband. It’s because I don’t have a husband that I’m living my best life.
Agreed! 💯 I go by the saying, "I am my own man." Lol 😎
That’s what alot of us Hmong women think, that’s their mindset of seeing their worth in having a husband, no good husband..still seeing as worthy
💯
Yes! But sadly back then women did not have the same rights as we do now, this is why I can sympathize with women’s decision back then. Now a days there’s no excuse for the women here in the US that still choose to be in a relationship being the first or second wife.
I totally agree. Being a spinster is so much better!! Drama free and you dont have to put anyone feeling before your own lol. I want to try woman too, for once. But no relationship tie lol. Single is better 🙃
Txoj kev ntsuag txoj kev txom nyem raug leej twg ces leej twg thiaj paub lub neej niam tshiab ces tu siab tshaj plaws li tiag os lawv.
Koj siab zoo tiag tiag li os
Tus niam tais koj ua yog lawm. Vim koj twb ntsib kev txom nyem thaum me los mus koj thiaj txawj xav. Nyob rau nej lub sij hawm qub2 ntawd ces koj yeej ua yog lawm vim phem zoo los koj tus txiv tseem hlub neb tej me nyuam es koj thiaj siab ntev taus. Muaj tus txiv zoo dua li cia tej me nyuam ua ntsuag li koj lub neej tag los. Koj yog ib leej niam zoo.
Hlub koj os niam tais ws. And thank you for being a good mom to your children. Thank you for changing the direction of your sale. Thank you for being the strong woman that you are.
The luxury to complain about your spouse is privileged to people who have parents. You did what you had to, to survive in the situation that you were born into. No one can fault you for that.
Koj Ua tau ib tus me Leej Niam zoo2 kawg nkaus os me Niam tsev Thov lub Ntuj Foom Koob Hmoov rau koj nawb mog
Zaj neej neeg no tu siab heev li o😊😂😂
Niam tais aws cas koj lub neej yuav tu siab ua luaj os!
Koj zoo zoo nkauj lawm os
Kuv tu siab heev li os zaab neej neeg no na
❤ txau tus siab heev li os
Koj yog Ib tus poj niam siab zoo tshaj plaw li thov qhuas koj o
Yog txhawb tus txiv thiab niam yau li no nas yog tsiv neej lub hom.phiaj jawg njaus
Feem coob coob tus neeg txom nyem yeej yog cov txawj xav dua.
Eb cas hai tu siab luaj no kv lub neej ces zoo li no ntag o tutu222222222 siab
Niam tais aw koj txoj kev xav yog lawm nawb. Txhob muab qhov phem coj los xav, xav 6 txoj kev zoo uas nws ua xwb es thiaj xav hlub nws thiab thiaj li tsis ua 6 koj nyuaj siab yuav pab 6 koj noj qab nyob zoo.
This father have a cold heart to the point you rather have one meal over have your kid for the rest of your life smh unbelievable
Zaj dab neeg no hais Tau zoo kawg yus Tus txiv TSI hlub lo tshiav yus Tau NWS lub npe ua txiv xwb zoo Dua ua poj nrauj.
Kv hmoog es kv quaj quaj tsi tau li os tu siab heev li os
Zoo kawg li os mog
This is the saddest story i have heard, and can not hold my tears, thanks for sharing your story…
Niam tais aws...koj twb tau tuaj txog rau teb chaw American no lawm es txhawb nqa koj tus me niam hluas xwb ces nws yuav tsi txom nyem lawm os mog yog koj tsi txhawb nws ces nws tseem yuav txom.nyem tshaj no es luag yaj yam yuav tsi hlub koj tus me niam hluas, hos yog koj txawj txhawb nws ces luag yuav ntshaw nws ces lawv yuav rov tig hlub koj tus niam hluas thiab os mog...
Kuv tu no lo yeej raws txiv thiab as...kuv tsis nyiam zom zij...luag zij tu yuav kov yuav xuas li cas lo tsis paub...nyias mus nyias xwb...
tu siab kawg.quav yeeb tas npaum kom.tseem muaj neej thiab tso tej me nyuam txom nyem. tas npaum kom
Pab koj tu siab os tus niamtai
Cas koj txoj moos yuav pem ua luaj
Thov kom koj noj qab nyob zoo rau tom ntej
❤️หนูขอเป็นกำลังใจให้นะคะ😭ขอร้องไห้ด้วยคนค่ะ
Hmoob ntseeg 2 mab dawb quav yeeb thoob ntuj lawv lom kom hmoob puas tsuaj los hmoob nim qhuas tias yog lawv hlub 2 es lawv pab tus ua luam yeeb muaj nyiaj ces yuav niam yau tham hluas nkauj vaj tse ntxov quav niab siab ntsws dub ncwb nciab hos cov quav yeeb ces ciaj luag qhev me tub me nyuam ces ciaj luag dev zov tsev tu siab tshaj li os hmoob aw
What a very sad story being orphans children!!!
Hmong people back in the early days are fnk heartless...no remorse for anyone...smfh.
Good story! Hard to drive while listening to this story 😢
The language of love is universal.
Yus cov niam txiv ib plab es thiaj hlub yus.
This woman has a beautiful heart. Greedy, jealousy, anger, and revenge are not in her mind. She simply want to do her best for everyone, including her husband. If there is ever a next life, she has earned her credits for having a better life next time.
Tus mi ntxhsis aw kuv hnov koj zaj neej neeg no Mas kuv niam pab koj guaj 2 os , kuv twb yuav luag zoo li koj thiab kuv ib tug tij laug twb mag mag li koj tus niam hluas lawm nws yog niam hlob tub os
Koj txiv yog ib tus dab ntxwj nyog haus ntshav xwb siab phem ntais ntuj yuav tau lub neej tsi zoo li lawm os. Peb yeej muaj txiv xwb tabsis peb txiv yeej yog ib tus txiv tsev tiag tiag es tu tau peb cov nus muag yog 4 leeg menyuam ntsuag lawm nawb. Tso tom niag pog khaus phim mas ntxim ntxub kawg li os. Koj yog tus niam tsev zoo tshaj plaws tswv ntuj yuav pov puag koj tsev tib neeg zoo zoo mog.
Very sad indeed 😢
Koj ma ❤❤🎈
It’s not worth it for the title of this story I rather b healthy,lonely,sad than carry the name have a husband sorry ladies I’m single n happily divorced
⁰ⁿ⁰00p9p
99p99p90ppp9
9p
0
L
l8
And u don't even live in that time so I don't even know why u think ur opinion matters to her story. It's a story of survival back in war torn Laos to old age in America. Ur opinion isn't relevant
@@gigisong81 same shit different year Hmong ppl don’t change don’t learn that’s why we still the way we are now
Aw yuav tsum txawv xav li kov ces good good nawb.
So sad… I thought my life is sad but my life is actually nothing sad compared to this.
I’m glad you were able to find and be with your siblings. ❤️
Tutu sisb li yo
Cas kuv tsua hnov tiag niam tshiab, niam ntxawm, niam hlob, pog, hauj phem thiab tsim menyuam ntsuag tag li xwb es poj niam nyob lub qab ntuj no yeej siab phem los
Yog kawg. So sad 😭
Niam Ntsuabteev, xav kom koj muab koj cov npe neeg cais kom meej zog xws li "niam tshiab " ces koj txhob muab hu ua " niam" no li koj hais hauv no nws ua rau peb nkaj siab nyuaj thiab tsis yog lawm.
I'm happy that you and your siblings were reunited and can support one another.
This grandma's life story only applies to life from her generation. Her priority was to not starve and survive in the Hmoob community. She is content.
🥺😭😭😭🥺
This is America... does not applied...
😂😂😂😂😂😂
She is the perfect example of a great shaman wife.
Tiam no pua muaj cov poj niam zoo zoo li no lawm os lawv aw
What a sad story, peb xaiv tsis tau los yug. Cov niam txiv zoo ntawv ces xwm txhob muaj chaw ua neej cas tseem yuav txawj pw ya ke thiab.
Tư siab kawg li 😭
Eb…lawv aws, cas mloog tej niag neej no mas nim
ua rau yus tej me siab ntsws mob nrog nej os hmoob. cas peb nim yug los yog ib tus pojniam es nim raug txoj me kev mob mob siab los nim hais tsis tau li cas os.
I just don't understand how anyone can be so cruel to children especially your own.
It is a very sad story may. May can you please help her find her sister. I love her too much.
Thanks for sharing your story sis. It's so sad but a happy ending love you siblings💙💙💙
Cov niag txiv neej Yawg uas yuav Tau Niam tshiab Los tsim Tej me nyuam xwb mas Tuag mus txhob ua Neeg Zoo dua. Kuv yog nws li kwv tij Ces Kuv Ncaws ua nws Niag Teb Leb Tawg kiag mus xwb mas nawb Niag Tsov Tom kob Fuam ntawd na nawb.🤮🤮🤮.???
Real O G!!!
😭
Likewise!
Trauma runs deep in the Hmong community. Hopefully her kids don't follow their dad's footsteps. I understand the mom's purpose but I'm not a fan of my husband marrying a 2nd wife. My relationship ends the minute I know he's cheating. Sorry not sorry and not willing to set that example for my children to learn and continue the cycle.
So sad 😭, but really you didn’t have a husband for a long time. You only needed him for those spiritual stuff so technically you don’t need a husband. Hmong people need to stop living with this mentality. Us ladies can do without a husband.
That’s what I’m saying.
She claims she’s worth while because of having a husband. OMG. Truly, she’s suffering because the txiv in her life. The addict heartless father and the heartless husband, who just slaved and slaves her away. She’s just all them men’s slave. She may even slave for her sons too.
How’s all these slavery muaj nqis in her mind? 🤔
We shouldnt blame her for thinking like this-she have literally no support except for her husband so even though she is mistreated this is literally the only love she has ever know her whole life versus us who says this is not love because we know what love is cause we come from a loving and supportive family.
Oh no I’m not blaming her. It’s the culture and way of life I’m blaming. Her life experience brought her up so she really didn’t have a choice, but to stay. It’s just sad.
Agreed
For real. We're so much happier and better off. Especially with Hmong men's like these.
Very sad Hmong storied tub ntsoj ntxhais ntsuag.
Ua txiv neej qhev thiab raug txiv neej tsim ib txhis es muaj nqis li cas na lawv?
Ua ua txiv quav yeeb qhev tawm plaws mus ua txiv quav niam yau qhev. Oh, muaj nqis dua ntais ntiaj teb nqis lawm os 😮
Niam tais no raug tsim ib sim es hlwb npwb tag, ntshaw txiv neej txoj kev hlub ib sim es loog tag li lawm os nws na
To have a husband in order to be worth in the Hmoob communities is an old thinking that was implanted by the OGs from long long time again. In my life the women are the strongest than all of the men because they are ones who survived and lived years after years their husbands died!! Husbands are there to be useless and wanting to be serve by us wives and women. Have them are just like having another child to take care for that is what I see in my life and other Hmoob families.
This story is too sad, I wish and hope for a happy ending for you and your family!
Koj txiv yog ib tug neeg phem tsis hlub me nyuam. Koj tus txiv los tsuas siv koj thaum laus los tu nws thiab niam yau xwb.
😢😅😮😅😅😅😮😅😮😅😅
Boring story!!!!
I'm not sympathetic to this lady's reasoning and thinking. But I do understand some of it. But to stay for a man's name and that she value respect because he's still a figure husband head... I'm so freaking glad I'm not in that mind frame. Nope that will not happen. He'll be wiping his face off the floor.
It's not just the mindframe. It's legit a totally different era of survival. I don't even understand how u don't get that. We don't need to even understand it nor judge it. We just accept that she lived thru trauma n had to endure for the time she lived in. Period.
@@gigisong81 no its still an on going thing with these Hmong women. They're so groomed and low self esteem that they have to have a man to live or that they're Nothing without a man. That having his name makes her whole and important. No honey you are the one that make his name and you are the reason he has a name. He is who he is in public as well as in his life because of your hard work and sacrifices, your undying support in everything is what put him on that position. Hmong men's absolutely Nothing without the women unless you are gay.
You might say that living in the US and this age but imagine living during that time with no parents and no other way to survive. I bet you that you'll be in the same boat...lol...so have a little sympathy for this lady.
Muaj tu txiv ce yeej yog muaj nuj muaj nqi 😂
Koj hais heev li os 👍😭😭 mloog tu siab heev
😢
This kind of story resort to I'm low already and that's all I deserve so I'll stay where I belong.