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  • Iyanla Vanzant shares words of wisdom from author Byron Katie with those who are grappling with guilt. Find out what happens if you argue against reality. Plus, Iyanla encourages viewers to take responsibility for how they respond to any given situation, including matters of the heart. For more on #lifeclass, visit bit.ly/1nPCfuF
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  • @MsChantae
    @MsChantae 6 років тому +53

    "is she frozen?" SCREeaMINNGGGGgggg!!!

  • @mamabagaskara
    @mamabagaskara 9 років тому +103

    i wish they have lifeclass in DVD..i am learning a lot. i want the whole episodes!!

    • @northfloridatrans
      @northfloridatrans 7 років тому +5

      Asti Upiastirin I wish it was on DVD also; so far I've been unlucky in finding it

    • @sandrarobinson8380
      @sandrarobinson8380 6 років тому

      @@OWN I keep making the same mistakes in finance

  • @oneinamillion8037
    @oneinamillion8037 6 років тому +85

    Oprah would you please let her talk!

    • @shawnhill946
      @shawnhill946 4 роки тому +7

      I was thinking the same, I also think she loves and appreciates the work so much she gets over excited

    • @sandilekhumalo6152
      @sandilekhumalo6152 3 роки тому

      @@shawnhill946 yeah that's true.

  • @latonyawallace9701
    @latonyawallace9701 6 років тому +23

    I totally agree. I have been miserable on the job and I hated it and I suffered because I thought the people on the job would change but they didn't. I ended up leaving and being unemployed but at least being happy that I wasn't there anymore.

  • @dsathyanarayanan6442
    @dsathyanarayanan6442 7 років тому +42

    At times Oprah interprets too much between the talks, we miss the essence of oration. Someone got to remind her.

  • @sheenaahmed
    @sheenaahmed 7 років тому +30

    Your inner child is seeking revenge against daddy lol

    • @MyraValdez
      @MyraValdez 4 роки тому

      Ouch

    • @MsJoyce31202
      @MsJoyce31202 3 роки тому +2

      Sometimes THAT along with seeking revenge against those who really deserve it. Daddy or mommy issues color the reason why we pick certain folk.

  • @livelovelight1021
    @livelovelight1021 8 років тому +15

    This is the first time I understood "acceptance." I'll look for reality and then take response-ability.

    • @awakenednaligned
      @awakenednaligned 6 років тому +2

      LiveLoveLight acceptance is the answer to all our problems/suffering (not accepting reality). .

  • @looper5070
    @looper5070 7 років тому +6

    "is she Frozen".... creeped Ms V out lol!

  • @tubailey2459
    @tubailey2459 4 роки тому +1

    Stop being a victim of your own story

  • @fashionistoxo
    @fashionistoxo 7 років тому +17

    This just saved my life

  • @Fudge_Fantasy
    @Fudge_Fantasy 7 років тому +15

    iyanla need her own talk show cause Oprah talk to much and don't know how to be a partner she wanna take over. the type that will always be single.

    • @Myfriendismultiple
      @Myfriendismultiple 6 років тому +4

      Fudge Fantasy you are so judgmental, let her be who she is and her authentic self is never to say nasty things about others. A page you cauld take from her book.

    • @kellygervais3440
      @kellygervais3440 5 років тому +3

      Ummm she is not single...

    • @Fudge_Fantasy
      @Fudge_Fantasy 2 роки тому

      @@Myfriendismultiple Sounds like you ok with disorder.

  • @jennyrayman3402
    @jennyrayman3402 8 років тому +15

    iyanla the great! i love this woman. such wise sister!

  • @simonmuriithi3454
    @simonmuriithi3454 8 років тому +11

    That's very profound and I totally agree Iyanla.

  • @christajoy88
    @christajoy88 12 років тому +6

    I love this. It gives us so much more control over our life instead of just complaining about what is happening to us.

  • @BrendanDean99
    @BrendanDean99 6 років тому +9

    Response-ability.....amazing!

  • @lianelayman7577
    @lianelayman7577 7 років тому +14

    I worked with people who hated their job. And I think, what's keeping you here?There's the door, leave.

    • @msquan1991
      @msquan1991 6 років тому +9

      Liane Layman I work a job I literally dispise but hate being homeless more.

    • @KLB1218
      @KLB1218 5 років тому

      Da'quandra Ingram Yup!!

    • @patrickvanhamel1826
      @patrickvanhamel1826 4 роки тому

      Well, leaving a job without savings or other perspectives ,just because you hate its irresponsable ,fulish ! It can lead to be on thé streets
      However its often possible to prepare , trained etc for something we like .Some of us did not get a good éducation , did grow up with almost zéro opportunities
      Yet they have to make a living somehow !

  • @RandomActsOfSnacks
    @RandomActsOfSnacks 9 років тому +4

    Wow. What a simple phrase, but it has reshaped my reality. So powerful. Thank you!

  • @Indiabarbie12
    @Indiabarbie12 10 років тому +7

    Lyanla is great inspiration and looks like whoopi Goldberg sorry but they do favor. Hello Oprah, those are to lovely ladies that helps people all over the world and Dr Phil to.

    • @rondie8404
      @rondie8404 8 років тому +1

      yeah, I noticed a long time ago that they look alike

  • @kimmielovesparis1
    @kimmielovesparis1 8 років тому +6

    Wow! I think I needed to hear this...

  • @LoriWattnz
    @LoriWattnz 9 років тому +5

    respond creatively

  • @samueljames4216
    @samueljames4216 10 років тому +3

    That lady on the screen on the screen. Is she a relation of Elizabeth Taylor or something - uncanny!

  • @reikiwarrior8888
    @reikiwarrior8888 4 роки тому +2

    oprah reminds me of my older sister she has narcyness about her

  • @Fudge_Fantasy
    @Fudge_Fantasy 3 роки тому +1

    Oprah talk over anybody.

  • @albionangel
    @albionangel 11 років тому +1

    I usually cant stand these self help gurus, but Iyanla's right on.

  • @annegelebart3397
    @annegelebart3397 5 років тому +2

    I love them both. Blessed us that they exist💟💟

  • @rowena6872
    @rowena6872 9 років тому +2

    Yes 👏👏 wise words from a wise woman !

  • @pinkoctober4113
    @pinkoctober4113 5 років тому +1

    Wow! I just love these ladies so much..

  • @vanaphill2454
    @vanaphill2454 7 років тому +1

    When you argue against reality, you will suffer. trump needs to hear this!

  • @butoliza
    @butoliza 11 років тому +1

    Thanks Iyanla and Oprah. Great women and positive role models .. I thank you....

  • @nehemilia5033
    @nehemilia5033 2 роки тому

    Wow stress is cominh from not being authentic that IS accepting thé reality of life.

  • @tsich3226
    @tsich3226 6 років тому +1

    Oprah-let her talk.

  • @phillypanda1
    @phillypanda1 12 років тому +1

    this has been helpful to me and she has changed the way i look at situations

  • @blackblessed3130
    @blackblessed3130 6 років тому +1

    This truly resignated with me 🙏.

  • @1q2w3e2w1q
    @1q2w3e2w1q 7 років тому +1

    Wow, how deep this hit me in my life right now...

  • @MegaVernon42
    @MegaVernon42 11 років тому +1

    Okay that was good, I just learned something!

  • @manuelag2128
    @manuelag2128 4 роки тому

    A good protection Not to fail and live in denial, IS to circle some true, honost people around you, WHO dont need you, so they are bold enough, to Tell you The truth,when you need IT,or you will BE decived.
    And another Thing to both Woman, please dont Mix Up Philosophie, Religion and humanisman, while clai
    Ming to be GOD s child.
    In some Videos that got my attension before, please get yourself clear in that issue, many Woman Look Up to you, please dont deceive Them, because you are compromising The WORD.
    God Bless you all with truth.

  • @joannadziokan3267
    @joannadziokan3267 3 роки тому

    The black/gold top that Oprah is wearing - what brand is it? Who knows, guys? It's beautiful...... Thank you :)

  • @memoirsofamariah211
    @memoirsofamariah211 3 роки тому +1

    0:58 me when I see Elsa

  • @nehemilia5033
    @nehemilia5033 2 роки тому

    Thé reality is bé Real about how you feel so that you Can heal

  • @jungersrules
    @jungersrules Рік тому

    No truer words said. Acceptance actually helps. People confuse acceptance with validation.

  • @jungersrules
    @jungersrules Рік тому

    Had to do this looking at my stocks plummeting beginning last year. I was in shock/denial. It still hurts, but wanting the situation to be different just made me suffer more.

  • @irismontwedi8398
    @irismontwedi8398 9 років тому +1

    that's lips and not jelly....he is cheating

    • @michelleottley5292
      @michelleottley5292 5 років тому

      My mom's spouse used to walk around with stains and she would make pies and yell I'm married!! Alady across the street told me that everyone knew although my mom was keeping up appearances SMH he can only do what you "Allow "

  • @faithlutta351
    @faithlutta351 7 років тому +2

    what if its a job contract that i cannot leave n its killing me...

    • @brentduanefoster
      @brentduanefoster 7 років тому +3

      Faith Lutta Fulfill your contract to the best of your ability, then move on. I had to do that with my military service. I realized that it wasn't for me long term, so I got through my contract, and got out.

    • @faithlutta351
      @faithlutta351 7 років тому +1

      Brent Foster am trying as hard as I can

  • @WesleyGW
    @WesleyGW 12 років тому

    I love the "hoots" from the audience LOL! GO GIRL!

  • @mightymight4348
    @mightymight4348 3 роки тому

    A relationship 😟

  • @isisheggs8065
    @isisheggs8065 3 роки тому

    So true this is a jewel!! when you don't expect reality the way it is you go against the grain peace comes when you can see it for what it is and then act accordingly

  • @exdoode
    @exdoode 6 років тому

    Not everyone has the privilege to be able to change their reality. Take the job example for instance.

  • @Megan-q9u
    @Megan-q9u Рік тому

    FOLLOW PEACE. ❤

  • @rolaalmasri5857
    @rolaalmasri5857 Рік тому

    ❤❤

  • @premapoojitanananda7947
    @premapoojitanananda7947 3 роки тому

    ♥️🌸

  • @MrAllysonn
    @MrAllysonn 5 років тому

    Amen

  • @GodsgraceGodsgrace
    @GodsgraceGodsgrace 2 роки тому

    Truth serum

  • @MsJoyce31202
    @MsJoyce31202 3 роки тому

    If you live against reality you're in big trouble.

  • @123CREATIONS
    @123CREATIONS 11 років тому

    really?? are you serious cmon now..why people always got to turn something into religion..get outta here..she is helping people...ugh!!

  • @whosdatgirl1
    @whosdatgirl1 6 років тому

    Absolutely true and resonates x

  • @BernardSchultz
    @BernardSchultz 11 років тому

    Oprah - girl, I love that vest or shirt or whatever it is - styling!

  • @Rlilmonster
    @Rlilmonster 12 років тому

    very interesting.

  • @christinehaigh9807
    @christinehaigh9807 8 років тому +1

    I won't accept what I don't like!

    • @khangelwakhathi508
      @khangelwakhathi508 6 років тому

      Accept that it has happened and choose to deal with it by either moving on or staying but remember to forgive so you wont always be resentful

    • @spencer5113
      @spencer5113 5 років тому

      Then you’re going to be miserable and jaded.

  • @mariadantas9335
    @mariadantas9335 2 роки тому

    ❤👌

  • @elisab5958
    @elisab5958 7 років тому

    woah i learn so much watching oprah!

  • @lizgichora6472
    @lizgichora6472 7 років тому

    Profound!....lovely

  • @YelloWhiteFlowers
    @YelloWhiteFlowers 12 років тому

    That's well explained :3

  • @flower1921
    @flower1921 12 років тому

    That lady is funny!

  • @COURTNEYSTEELE23
    @COURTNEYSTEELE23 3 роки тому

    Preach

  • @lashikapalmer5818
    @lashikapalmer5818 6 років тому

    whoa life lesson!!!!!

  • @SakaBoyy
    @SakaBoyy 11 років тому

    Amin

  • @raea3588
    @raea3588 11 років тому

    THANK YOU SOOO MUCH FOR THIS LESSON!

  • @mariannedompreh2133
    @mariannedompreh2133 6 років тому

    Thanks😊💖

  • @steve20032
    @steve20032 12 років тому

    Love it!

  • @lacemitchell9895
    @lacemitchell9895 8 років тому +9

    I feel like in a sense she's right. However what's so wrong with going against the status quo? It kind of sounds like she's saying it's wrong being a revolutionary or thinking outside the box is wrong. Going against the realities of some of society's rules has brought many good things.

    • @queenesreina7424
      @queenesreina7424 8 років тому +21

      I think what she was saying wasn't an argument against thinking outside the box.
      My take on it was that, in order to respond to a situation in a meaningful way, one first needs to identify the situation *honestly* -- to acknowledge the _reality_ of it.
      As she said in the video, once you acknowledge what the situation really is, you can then choose how to respond to it...be it in a conventional or in a "revolutionary" way.
      You can choose a revolutionary way to respond to a broken car part (maybe you'd have been the first to try duct tape or Bond-o...), but, if you don't accept the reality that the part that's *really* broken/cracked is the gas tank and not the carburetor(sp?), you will suffer for it, if for no other reason than the fact that you won't have been effective at resolving the actual malfunction (or dysfunction, as the case might be).

    • @lacemitchell9895
      @lacemitchell9895 8 років тому

      Queen Es Reina k.

    • @matthew6190
      @matthew6190 8 років тому +1

      That was my take on it too, very well said.

    • @jewellfoster2974
      @jewellfoster2974 7 років тому +2

      Lace Mitchell
      Yes but there is suffering in the cause for change! You cannot go against what is without it. Ao what she is saying is true. Jesus died for the same reason...well one of them.

  • @1951kvk
    @1951kvk 9 років тому +5

    While I like Oprah, it's important to recognize that she is picking and choosing from a number of religious and new age traditions. There is never a mention of sacrifice, it's only about fulfilling our own immediate needs. Talk about non reality.

    • @just4funlive4eva
      @just4funlive4eva 8 років тому +3

      She does what sells sweetie. She brought you here now didn't she lol. They couldn't care less about our internal development lol

    • @queenesreina7424
      @queenesreina7424 8 років тому +5

      "Take the good and leave the rest behind."
      As for Oprah's methodology or intentions, only God can know for sure.
      I'll give her the benefit of the doubt that her intentions are good...even if she _is_ seeing a profit from it.
      Ultimately, the choice is ours as to what we actually _do_ with what she's presenting to us; so is the responsibility.

    • @jewellfoster2974
      @jewellfoster2974 7 років тому +1

      Queen Es Reina
      "Chew the meat and spit out the bone" is the quote. In the bible, Matthew 7 teaches DISCERNMENT even tho this quote is not biblical the nature of it is the same.

    • @awakenednaligned
      @awakenednaligned 6 років тому +1

      yea if we don't who will. see you're not accepting her or her light... your suffering. keep it to yourself.

  • @desertgirlwarrior1921
    @desertgirlwarrior1921 3 роки тому

    Love LOVE Iyanla!!! Such wisdom & balm for the soul🙏❤️

  • @ProphetsOfRockTV
    @ProphetsOfRockTV 11 років тому

    I FOUND A GEM!!!!!!!LOVE THIS!