Dating YOUNGER Men Can Work With THESE 7 Keys
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Dating YOUNGER Men Can Work With THESE 7 Keys...Here are some great tips for dating a younger man. In this dating advice video, I'll discuss dating a younger guy as an older woman. Take heed to this relationship and dating advice video, and watch to the end.
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My fiancé is nearly 5 years younger… and we are perfect for one another. I wasn’t searching for someone younger, he just came along and he is everything that I was looking for. Ladies: don’t be afraid of younger men!
I have been RUNNING!!! Thanks for the advice.
Thank you for sharing this ❤
I have felt so uncomfortable about even considering it • ty for the encouragement + I wish you both all the happiness your two hearts can hold ♥️♥️🥰
I’m dating a man almost 2 years younger but he’s very mature and the love of my life
Glory to God sis…congratulations 🥰
My bae is 13 years younger than me and I wasn’t expecting this level of maturity and excitement from him ❤ I LOVE IT HERE
Hello, I'm just curious. How old are u, and how old is he??
Seeing a younger Christian man and he is amazing. Mature, communicative, deep connection, accomplished, intelligent, masculine and soulful. Numbers mean nothing. He leaves all the other men in the dust!!
That is awesome to hear
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Thank you for this message, as well as so many others, Stephan! The Lord has used you to help me so much the past 1 1/2 years. I honestly don’t feel I would have been ready for this great man if not for you as well as Joyce Meyer’s teachings. I thank God for you, the wisdom He gives you, and His unquestionable anointing upon you. Bless you!!!✝️
I love this! Same with the one that I met. He leaves others in the dust.
I love this, I hope you both the best and this is beautiful!!
I'm 61 and dating a man that is 45. It's not about the age difference but more leans into connection, emotional intelligence, and shared values. We both work toward keeping it 100 24/7, respectfully.
❤ HOLLAR JACKSON MS. I'm 65 yo woman in an exclusive, respectful, passionate, my man masculine 45 yo n I'm his woman feminine relationship for 1yr n 1mos. Communication is also the key!!!!
Married in 2001. He was 25 I was 38. Still together
Thank you for sharing this. It gives me hope. I'm going to be 40 soon and all these fears about men not finding me attractive anymore started creeping in...
I'm 61 and I am always approached by younger men. I've never been open to dating younger men. However, I am finding younger men more attractive.
I was so happy to hear this dialogue and see these comments. I'm in my 60s and seeing a wonderful guy in his 40s. We have a definite connection. I wasn't searching for someone younger but it happened and things clicked. Stephan is giving wonderful advice.
Best relationship of my life and he is younger and it was so fun and heathy that I married him. ❤ Stop depriving yourself of what could be the best experience of your life!
My mom is 10 years older than my step dad and they have the best marriage. My mom is so much fun around him .. she was never like that with my dad who was her age . ❤
My man 14 years younger than me he’s 29 and I’m 43 our relationship is beautiful ❤💕
I’m 43 and met a man also 29, 14 years younger, we get along great and laugh and joke a lot together it’s a nice change.
Same 42 and 29
@@MelModica that age means nothing at all I love my young fella🥰🥰🙏🏾
but what about the kids issue ? this is a real issue for me , ty🤔
37 my man is 25😊
I couldn't agree more! Age does NOT determine maturity 🙌🏽🙌🏽
I agree
It most definitely does not
Agree! My dad is past 60 but behaves like a 6 year old sometimes.
I met women flirting with me that are slightly older than me. Each of them admired my serious and quiet vibe for my age at 22. Definitely some guys mature way quicker and earlier compared to others.
@@christianrodriguez5346 that's so true. I really admire younger men who are sensible and mature I hope you meet a real woman who can appreciate that regardless of her age
Let me also say I do believe in old souls in younger people and younger souls in older people.
Yeah, I have come across that a lot
Creepy
So true. That applies to me for sure.
Exactly IM a young person but aside from dating people always say you have a lot of wisdom for my age as woman@MeetStephanSpeaks
@@anyamiranda9452nope
I was 19 years older . We were together 15 years. but unfortunately he died first. So, you never know .
So sad for me
Think positively. You have been healthy to live long
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing.
I’m so sorry
Please accept my deepest sympathy ❤🙏❤️
So sorry for your loss ❤🙏🙏
I've met someone 10.5 years younger than myself, but we have so much in common, same values, beliefs, have had similar experiences and we have a strong mental and spiritual connection and no we haven't slept together yet. It's very easy to talk with him and be myself. Never thought this would happen, had given up on dating but this is wonderful so I'm moving forward to see where it goes.
Patricia, I literally could have written your comment.exactly...wow. 🕊️
Does he financially provide? That's the big question 🙃
I hope all works out for you God Bless.
My man is 60 in 2 months, I’m 70!! 👍🏽👏🏾🙏🏽😃
Get Dwn 😂👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️….love it 👍🏽
This is awesome!
I’m so glad you’re bringing this content to the forefront. I’m a 53 year old woman, however, I look like I’m in my 30’s and this seems to be the age bracket of men that are approaching and pursuing me❤
Wow! What's your secret for looking young? Please don't tell me by dating younger men lol
This is my experience also..I'm 49 but I look like 30
Phew! Nice to hear from pple with similar experience 😂 Am 52 and they place me at 35-40 and so also get approached by much younger men 😅😅😅
My mother was 6 years older than my father, they got married in 1968 ,
she was 35 years old !
( In Greece, it plays a huge role !!! )
They had a wonderful relationship and marriage !!! As long as children, she gave birth to my brother in 1972 and to me in1975 when she was 43 years old !!!
I’m 68, he’s 41….and he’s perfect in every way for me. I was widowed, married to a wonderful man 9 years older than me…but I believe God brought this gentleman into my life for some very good reasons. I love the advice…and will have those discussions about the future…we’ve kind of talked about it but I want to make sure he knows what he could be getting into.
Good for both of you
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Happy for you ❤
When he's 68 and still feeling good will you br able to satisfy him at your age? Or will he be placing you in a nursing home. Think about that.
Enjoy eachother ❤❤
I never ever thought I’d like to date a younger man. Then on a dating app I met one. He’s an amazing man. We are 21 years apart. We didn’t become a couple because he wasn’t sure if he wanted children and I cannot give them to him ( post menopause). But we are friends and I have to say one of the best people to ever come into my life. Educated. Well mannered. Steps up. I’m glad I went out of my comfort zone
But u said u guys didn't become couple. So how u date? If you haven't become exclusive and official, it's still hard to see through the real him. Alot of men only reveal their true self after marriage.
@@jasg771she said they're friends, not that they are dating. But they met on a dating app.
I recently met a guy on a dating app that is 27 years younger. He is emotionally mature, intelligent, patient, caring, open, honest, a good communicator, fun to be with... and hot af 🔥 He is polyamorous and I am monogamous. He lives 3 hours away. I know it's not going to last forever, but hey... nothing lasts forever. I may have another 20 years on the planet of I'm lucky and I just want to be happy and enjoy the time that I have left.
@@jasg771 Which is an excellent reason not to get married.
Currently dating a man who is 21 years younger. I show respect. He is committed and devoted. It’s beautiful. We are 5 years now.
How old are you? I just turned 31, the 21 year old I'm seeing is having doubts and honestly it makes me so sad because I really like him
There is a 9 year age gap between he and I. And I am a single parent....... I wasn't looking for him it just kind of happened.
@@amberbenally9884
Hi Amber. Well, I’m a bit older than you. I’m 59 and my boyfriend is 38. So we are 21 years apart. But I look very young for my age. Thank goodness he’s not having doubts. I’m so sorry that your young guy is having doubts about your situation. Really sorry. I hope he changes his mind and that it works out for you guys.
Im 49 and my person is 27 - i never felt so insecured in my life until i met him and fell inlove with a younger man, which i never dare of entertaining younger men before
Omygosh give me some pointers because i just met a man 17 yrs younger than me , the first time we saw each other it was like magic but i keep holding back cuz our age gap
There is a terrible stigma about a woman who dates younger men like people regarding her as if she is some kind of terrible person, almost like a pedophile, even though the man is an adult and even if HE is the one who INITIATED and PURSUED the relationship. Also a younger mans family, friends, and especially his mother can come down on the woman acting like she is some lecherous person preying on younger men only for sex… a typical unfair stereotype. The woman may regard the man as a soulmate not a sex target. And there are a lot of struggles that can come up such as the fact that the guys friends may not be able to relate to his older woman and he may be subject to many jokes and disrespectful attitudes from people in his life that may be important to him. no matter how much genuine LOVE is there, there are just too many struggles digestives that the couple is up against preventing them from growing together and enjoying life together. A hopeful reality is the example of President Immanuel Macron of France who is married to his prior teacher and she is 30 years older than him. He would never trade her for anyone else and they have been together for decades. They are a beautiful couple whose love has endured all of these stigmas and stereotypes and hurtful attitudes from others, and managed to continue to cherish each other all these years regardless of any barriers. They are intellectual soul mates and she is the only woman he has ever loved according to him. I love their love story and the fact that they let nothing and no one stand between them.
Older men do not like me. Only younger men are interested in me. Crazy.
Like Stephan said do not listen to outsiders nine times out of ten they are jealous because they don't have a love like that.
My daughter is 34 and her new boo is I think 26. They seem so in love, their birthdays are only 3 days apart too. She has 4 children. Honestly, I think she is around his age emotionally. Praying God’s will be done. They work we’ll together.
I am blown away! Another great video. I am very happy you made this one,😀✋🏾 because I believe the same thing and I would like everyone else to understand it's not a crime. Real love and connection has nothing to do with age...Thank you Stephan! Thank you💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏽💚🙌🏾
My pleasure 🙂
I met an amazing man in 2017, who remains my best friend and 'go to person' when I need to talk. We dated for 7 years and at 72 I am 12 years older. We are pursing different dreams and while we are not currently together, we talk almost daily, and still support, encourage, learn from each other. This is love too!
Early this morning, I posted an introduction to this group (awaiting approval) where I shared my journey after being celibate for 27 years. What I didn't say was I decided to enter into a relationship with a man who was 12 years younger than myself. Because I felt God sent him into my life. It's quite remarkable how God works in mysterious ways. Just as I was reflecting on my experience this video came out addressing this very topic. This reinforces my believe in divine timing and the importance of sharing our stories and learning from each other.
Sorry but after 27 years of celibate younger man is PERFECT 🤭
I was celibate for 11 years once, then I started seeing a guy who was 21 years younger. I knew he wanted to keep things casual, but I ended up catching feelings. I tried to tell him, but then he said he loved me and we were f buddies off and on for 4 years. What I learned from that experience is to value myself more.
When a much younger man is interested in me, my best friend gets so upset and very critical. I don't share anything with her anymore.
She is not your best friend...! She is not even your friend..!
Exactly ppl always think older prey on younger or its just sex or transactional and it isn't the case for all
😂…. she may want one….lol
She's jelous
@@reginapolo3357came to make this same comment
Amen!!! Age does not determine maturity. ❤ Absolutely not!!!
💯 indeed
Absolutely not the guy I was dating was 20 years younger and alcoholic. He was so immature and insecure. !
I think that’s why he drinks
55yr guy with 75 yr girl. He liked my sexiness walking down the park path and made a move! Thank you for thoroughly going over this topic.
I’m 43 dating a 32 year old we been in this for 2 years. First time I felt like a meet a MAN!!! He is very mature given certain circumstances in his life. It’s a challenge but what relationship isn’t. I’m scared but we are in love
Age doesn't dictate maturity men I have met in 60's and seventies acting like their 18 and I've met men in late 40s or mid to late 50's who had a maturity of much older. You can be young once but imnature forever.
Exactly!
I love that last quote, I'm going to have to remember this!!
love that quote!!
I much prefer younger men. Just watch for red flags like him wanting a mommy, a therapist, or a sugar mama. I don't feel or act my age so I look for someone thats my mental partner.
Often times men my age are looking for a "wife" or caretaker. I'm done with that. I want a man who still has some life in him, thank you very much.
Yes 🙌 agree with all you say
I’m 55 and I’ve been dating men in their 30’s and it’s been wonderful for me. I’m very young at heart, I workout every day. This video helped me sooo much because I have had many reservations. Thank you.
Many Blessings
I prefer younger men. They ask me out.
Older men don't ask u out?
@@jasg771 Not really.
I meet only younger men 10 years or younger. I don’t go past 10 years. If I could have been his mother….it’s a no go,
Same! 😬
Just be happy ❤
I’m hearing that from a lot of women
Haha how about his grandmother… well, love is love that’s all there is to it
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I love younger men I’ve gone as much as 15 years younger because I don’t look my age
I have been seeing this topic so much lately but the comments from men have been that older women are delusional to think younger men want anything serious with us older women. And it’s sad because I am turning 47 June 3rd, I don’t look my age, and I don’t “act” as they would expect. So I attract guys 30-35 somehow.
I had a guy on this topic tell me how ridiculous I was because these guys are close to my children’s ages..even though he didn’t know me, he assumed. And also goes on to say, he’s trying to warn us “delusional women” from getting cheated on. That younger men just want to take advantage of older women in some way shape or form and do not see marriage or commitment.
I don’t have a problem with dating a younger man. The issue I have ran into is those who still want children. My oldest is 26 ..youngest 16.
I appreciate you sir for giving a mature perspective on this matter. Giving hope to those who do find themselves in these sorts of connections
Funny thing is there are so many middle aged men still needing a mommy to feed and house them. How are we getting anything different from older men who are still out here cheating and womanizing? I think it’s delusional to think that age will guarantee anything different. I say have fun and if it leads to more, great! If not, at least a young man has the stamina to keep up 😉
I am 47 and have the same issue. Happy early birthday 😊
@@tonid773thank you boo. Fellow Toni lol ❤
Happy Birthday!!! I think a big age gap could become an issue, but a small one, maybe 5 years or less, no problem at all!!
But date who you want, and leave the haters in your dust!!😉
❤😂@@luckylady2992
Amen on the age difference. I was talking to a guy in his early 50s, and he definitely had the mindset of a 18 year old boy. VERY SAD 😔 I have also encountered a man in his late 30s, and he had more maturity than the 50 year old. Age is definitely a mindset and spiritual.
Stephan speaks the truth ! I know many people who are married and have children where the woman is 6, 7 even 12 years older. Some men just don't care, like stephan said, don't shoot yourself in the foot, as long as the guy wants and is looking for a serious relationship , as long as you have common goals, a male therapist told me, if you are both older than 25, your age doesn't matter !
I am 15 yrs older than my very sexy, charming, intelligent, beautiful and mature Man. We had 2.5 yrs together, separated because life happened to us both. We were connected from the beginning, our connection allowed us to agree to separate, because we weren't available to each other at that point. 1 yr later I reached out, he responded extremely happily, we again realized our connection drew us back together and he is even more sweet and loving and attentive than before. I never would have thought someone this much younger would be such a perfect match for me in my current life and vice versa. We have much more in common than not. We literally spend more time with each other than most married couples and we always have great convos, experiences and so much fun together, every single day. It's awesome, he is awesome and I wouldn't trade him or try to change him for anyone else.
I love this !! My man is 34 and I’m 43 and we’ve been together 8 years . The best relationship I’ve ever had ❤️
That is awesome to hear
I’m with a man 12 years younger than me. We both have kids the same age too! It works really well for us. We love and enjoy each other like no other. It has been the most healthiest relationship I been in so far. I don’t feel the age gap nor does he. We both agree we’ve never laughed and loved like this before
I'm 44. I always preferred older guys. I met someone in person at a public event. We hit it off. He's 9 years younger. So far, he's the most mature and respectful man I've ever dated. He's the best at eye contact. He's the most consistent, reliable, dependable, hard working, and the best communicator I've ever dated. He's both very intelligent and has a fantastic sense of humor. It has a lot to do with their background and choices and their inner work. The chemistry is amazing. He often talks about our future and makes plans. And yes, in the beginning I was very scared he would lose interest and want a younger woman. But he's shown me that he knows what he wants.
Exactly my case.
I used to be so hung up on age but honestly as time passes the less I care . Just cause someone’s older doesn’t make them more credible to be your spouse . You could be blocking your blessings all because of a few years but the soul & bond should always be more important then age .(reasonably ofcourse)
I am 41, and the man I am dating is 35, he is the man I need.
That’s not a big age difference. I hope you two will be very happy
I'm 41 and there's this 28 year old I connect with but I'm terrified lol
Thanks, Stephan. I came out of a 18 year gap relationship and 2 years later into a 15 year age gap relationship. I nearly sabotaged my relationship with all of the things you said women do and are insecure about. I'm accepting his proposal now. I prayed and God led me to hear your podcast.
My husband is 34 and I'm 39 and tomorrow we have our 3rd marriage anniversary. And we are really happy together ❤❤❤
That is really awesome to hear 🙌 congrats!
I am 44 and was online dating with an age range of 40-50. For fun one day I lowered my age range to 37. That day I met my 38 year old soul mate ❤. He’s incredible, my age doesn’t matter to him and we are so perfectly matched.
My son is 14 yrs younger than his wife of 20 yrs. I see as much love now between them as I did 20 yrs ago..
I prayed for a good man. I for one could not be with a younger man. But GOD sent me a younger man. He’s not too much younger than I. So I can get with that. I am grateful for that. Go ahead GOD!!!
10 to 15 years younger has been much better than men my age. They are more vulnerable, more self-aware, more positive, and more communicative!
Yes age does not define a person because some younger people have more common sense than a grown up😊
You can say that again lol
🎯🎯🎯
I’m 50 soon to be 51 and was approached by a 35year old. I saw him watching me from a distance. In my head I was thinking… you better not even try me. He came over and was the perfect gentleman. At the end of our conversation he asked for my number. I was flattered and skeptical at the same time. Needless to say I did not give him my number. He was stunned and looked at me like why … not.
Why didn't you give him your #? I'll be 60 this month, and I recently started seeing a 32 year old. He gets me out of my comfort zone and we have a lot of fun.
If he was a perfect gentleman then you might have missed something great....
If God is in that relationship, it will work. If not, it won't. They also need to be on the same page and connect.
I dated some very young and it wasn't good! So this video gave me an insight that age doesn't define a mens personality. Definitely need someone to be in the same page as me.
I agree
If he is man enough and makes you feel feminine it will work even in the long run...Nature works by that rule...Age is just an illusion
My date is 15 years younger 🙏
This is one of my favourite if not the favourite video you made. The first time I fell for a younger guy (and ever since) I've realized I had much more in common with mature or somewhat mature men in younger generations (up to 8 years for me) than men my age or older. My generation and older are way too cynical on average and less willing to be themselves. There are many other things that just don't work for me. Ofc, there are always exceptions, but even when I compare the exceptions I've met/been with, younger men seem to work better for me.
And around, you just hear most women saying "he's too young, he's immature." I've met men who were more mature at 20 than lots of others at 30-40. And vice-versa ofc.
Thank you
In the early stage Im 12 years older . He is great I'm so nervous
Same sis
My boyfriend is 3 years younger and at first I was insecure about this age difference. Now, more than 2 years later he is the best man I know and I am so grateful for him. How the man treats you and his intentions is way more more important than his age difference.
Exactly!
But I do think that if any woman is dating a younger man
You definitely have to be looking young yourself if it's a
Contrasts hey how about someone telling you wow
Your son is handsome 🤣🤣🤣
Highly recommend the younger man just don’t worry about the age difference if your connection is strong and you get on I’ve found men my age are very boring don’t look after themselves and just don’t have the same happy outlook
I dated a guy who was 8 years older than me (76)… I know, what was I thinking…he had nothing to show for his life, not even children, he was living in a room in a house belonging to a friend, on a paltry SS payment. I’m not judging…but I know he was looking for someone with a real house, real money, and who could take care of his myriad of health issues. No no and no.
@@Ziggimomspal68He was looking for a nurse with a purse.
Was skeptical at first but has been the most beautiful experience. They value and make you feel so cherished. They walk with you with such pride making you feel so special🥰👑🫠🔥🫶🏻
It’s the making assumptions for me, that hit a nerve. Thank you for this video. Sometimes we need to get out of own way ❤
My pleasure ❤️ I’m glad it was helpful to you
With how excited Stephan was in this video, man looks like he’ll happily date an older woman as a younger man. Love it 😂🎉😍
My father in law and his wife are 30yrs difference and theyve been together for over 35yrs. He is now 91 and she is 61, they have 2 adult children
I've dated many younger mature men, 12 to 20 years younger. Not immature men. Younger men like an older woman's independence, her education, she's established, financially stable. I wouldn't date any man if he doesn't have a job & lives in his car. Don't ever lend or give any man money. I wouldn't let a man move in with me. If you get married, please be sure to make him sign a pre-nuptial agreement. Don't get caught up with the Lovey- Dovey stuff. There are men, young & old who will target older women for their money. Don't be used.
I have such a deep connection with a 22yo and I am 44. Such a deep love. I decided to just live it and not question too much.
Thank You for talking about this
This topic needs to be out in the open
I needed to hear this from a man. Thanks, Stephan!
Hi Stephan,
This is a very worthwhile topic to discuss. Proper communication and proper respect are the most important nuances to consider.
All relationships will thrive when total respect is given to each other, regardless of the age gap.
I wanted to weigh in on this discussion. I'm 69 years old, and in the past 27 years of not dating, I've had many men in their 50's express interest in me. When I tell them my
age.They are often surprised but undeterred. These men seem to be looking for a mother figure rather than the genuine romantic partner. Personally, I don't believe in dating men that much younger than myself. It's important to understand the dynamic of what both parties are seeking in this relationship. Looking forward to your thoughts.This is only my opinion.
What makes you see yourself as a mother figure, especially when it spotlights you two in the bedroom? Men don't want sex with Mom....
Very likely these men didn't want kids anymore, so they are fine.
About to be 68 , seeing a man 20 years younger - he sees me as a grown , Feminine Woman - no “ games “ being played here . Be your Authentic Self , expect the same , plus he’s a Christian man , . He’s mature , respectful - and hot ❤
Also , to your point , i find that it truly depends on the “mental maturity” of the people involved . I cant Tell you of the men my age or close to it , who still think they’ll attract and keep/satisfy a younger woman … it seems to be a “ mindset “ more than age . 😏🙏
I listened while crying ….the guilt, shame and burden of what will society say has been hell for me now that I have a relationship where my partner is younger . I didnt look for it we found each other and the connection has been absolutely so different from my first boyfriend and my husband all same age . All conflict aside the connection has communication and eloquent to top it off . Everything everything I can go on how right you are even the old guys can be old but act 20 fit what you said …thank thank you for bringing this more light thank you more for liking yourself to betterhelp! Ps this is gold !
No comment, personally every thing, Is up to GOD! HE SEES the HEART 💜 and SOUL.
I'm 45 my guy is 26❤
And I must say he's so far the most manly and matured man I have ever met.not to mention sweet and very thoughtful
Not to mention the sex is great.😎
I recently starting seeing someone who is 27 years younger than me.
I am attracted to someone about that much younger than me, but I fight it with all my might. Much ❤to you and him.
Same!!! ❤❤❤❤
@moni1952 Thankyou, I think I'll need it 💜
hope yall have a good time
@@moni1952 You shouldn't fight it.
Yes God knows best for us 🙏🙏🙏
He truly does
I like younger men and they seem to like me too.
Well that’s good to hear
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How young?
This is weird and scary, honestly.
Kkkk😂😂😊
The last guy I dated was 31 going on 32 by time we went out on 1st date. He finally during the date respectfully asked if he could guess my age. He guessed 45 and I said GOOD GUESS😅 However I have been TOLD by my GROWN Men...MA stay OFF tha PLAYGROUND! 😂🤣🤩
I'm almost 57, and of young mind and spirit. I'm told often I don't look my age and frequently have much younger men (10-20yrs) shoot their shot. I do need to check myself with some of these points your making. Thank you, message received!! 😊
@kimsugars1898 You are right about the not looking your age part. You do look like you are definitely 40 at a minimum based on your picture, but I would say that anything above that would be a guess if people didn't know what you just told us. I have been told that I look younger too. I am 41.
If he is man enough and makes you feel feminine it will work even in the long run...Nature works by that rule...Age is just an illusion..
I suppose it's important to have the confidence in all parts yourself, as the older woman, in order to truly feel safe and trusting that he won't leave you for someone younger.
I don’t naturally try to meet younger men but I’m 36 and look about 26. Lately, I’ve met men who are around 30 and it’s been okay. They are fun to date but not really established as I am or ready for anything serious.
Sadly, many younger men now are seeking older girlfriends just for experience. It's hard to tell if they are serious or just hoping onto the trend of dating older women
@@jasg771 doesn’t matter… we all have our intentions. I trust myself to be discerning and do what’s best for me
This is how I feel. They’re interesting to date but keep options open for maybe a younger one or enjoy life. The comments here make it seem as if everything is tropically beautiful
@@jasg771Spot on!
My youngest son is 23 years old. I think that he should ask God to give him an older woman because of his mindset. He's mature, brilliant, and successful.
I am a friend with benefits with a younger man... he's 37 and I'm 68
He is a very attractive also, but we give each other the space we need, and when we spend time together, it's beautiful
He's a gentleman outside, but show his love in actions on our alone time, we have much in common as earth signs, and I really don't let his age bother me, he's all man❤
I do agree the age gap can work, I like younger men and they like me. But plenty men suddenly decide they want kids in their 40's so you've poured how ever many years into this relationship but that desire to be a dad you cannot either fulfil or deny 💔
Very few women can be arsed to have kids once they're grown up themselves - they see the foolhardiness of it 😂
Thanks for addressing this topic
You’re welcome ❤️
This is scary indeed! But the tips were spot on. Thank you Stephan for approaching this subject. 🙏♥
I love dating younger men I'm 43 but won't go past 9 years younger 🤷🏼♀️
47 divorcee and parent of an adult that could be best suited for my partner of 32; beautiful being! We're coming to a yr now! We laugh, travel, love deeply, support each other, intimacy is ..... 🤲🏽, and it's a beautiful experience with someone who has not been jaded as I was. I've healed, and owe unconditional love as it was offered to me.
Please stop limiting and "should-ing" things. Explore in Freedom and you will find freedom within self to experience life as you've never imagine. let that person see your kid self, they will eat it up!!!
What about 24 years younger .
That is a lot of difference but also depends on the age of the man .
If the gap is to large it looks as your son 😅
Stephan thank you for this video. It confirms what I've been thinking all alone, that It's ok to love a younger man. They're the only age group that show interest. With the right man from God it can work.I'm going to embrace the thought🙏🏼♥️👑
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💯😍
I like older men, but I was three years older than my husband
You are so encouraging..... I was wondering if this was a new trend because lately, I have been getting approached by younger men. I mean quality men....
I just keep running..... Thanks, I'm going to give it a try!
Thats what women do Steph...they Always assuming. It is what it is.
Happens way too much
@@MeetStephanSpeaks FR. SMH
I don’t mind dating younger guys but the ones I’ve met were very immature and too focused on sex from jump ! And true they’re in their 40’s 50’s acting immature too! They don’t know how to communicate . They’re intimidated, their self esteem is low ! They text you “ wyd “ 😂it’s ridiculous! Not good morning , how your doing , just “wyd” 😂they have no communication skills! And many still living at home with momma 😂
I just met a 29year old man soon 30 lol and I literally turned 40 and we are in the dating stages and I'm loving the fact that we are just so naturally connected we're learning more about each other even with me have two kids and him non he is understanding and considers me time. He works 7 days a week and he still makes time for me. We are both in our grown and inner child selves.
Conversation are good self awareness is good and it can only get better. And he is emotionally mature, aware, available and its great.
it's got to be said..... a lot of men did not have good, proper, caring mothers...... that's a big hole that older women can fill so beautifully, it's irresistible to them. That's what relationships are all about...... filling each other's needs
I agree and ppl act like only younger males have that issue
@@chanellemckinney1436 that's a good point. But it seems parenting is getting much worse so the younger generation seems to have a lot more ppl who have big gaping holes. It breaks my heart
It truly is more about the connection between you and the other person that will determine where the relationship goes and if the potential is there between both people to make it last. My opinion. 💯 Mr. Steph-fine. 😁
I dated a man two months ago (18 years age gap). As soon as we had conflict, he was out. I tried it once and won't do it again. I loved how much we have in common, our deep connection, his kindness, and how attentive he was. We also met organically, and he approached me.😘
I dated a man and ended things recently because I ended up doing a lot of the initiating communication and meeting up. He is very sweet, a gentleman, and I enjoyed my time with him. I just don’t chase men which is a boundaries of mines. He said in couple occasions that he should text more but his actions weren’t matching up with his words. He wasn’t much younger maybe by two years
If he wasnt willing to resolve the conflict, there was zero hope of a relationship
U r so right! ...in this case.. lets give it a shot 😂 Since u said it! Waiting for contact. Individually.
Im 44..my man is 25..to my surprise he is emotionally mature..age doesnt define maturity really
If a person already has children around in there 30's or 40's it wouldn't seem right because they'll be like another Son, or Daughter. H-E-L-L🤨Naw!!!!
Don’t have luck with that, they do “dismiss” you because of your age even tho they tell you it’s not a problem. They are waiting for something better to come along.
I agree 💯
Thank you for this video. It was very refreshing considering I have a really big crush on a younger Christian man.
I’m happy this was helpful to you
Talking to God should’ve been number one……🤷🏽♀️ Just saying!
Thank you for this as I often questioned my attraction and deep emotional connection due to his age. We are 21 years apart and he is everything I ever wanted in a mate and represents the first person I have ever been in love with ❤
45 and 24
Omg.. Get out of my head Stephan!! 🤯😅Lol. God bless U 💕