A Time of Change: Confronting AIDS

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  • Опубліковано 24 лип 2024
  • Update (11 April 2023)
    It is with great sadness, that we announce that one of the documentary’s original creators, and our dear friend, Albert Lavalley passed away this morning. Al was an amazing human being and he will be missed by all who loved him. While his achievements in life, his anecdotes, and the names of the notable personages with whom his many varied paths in life crossed could fill volumes, those who truly got to know him understood that what was impressive about Al was his capacity to love, his compassion, and his kindness towards others. He was loved by many and will be sorely missed.
    Original Description (April 2016)
    Interviews were done in 1983-1984. It was broadcast on public television in 1986. One of the first of its kind, A Time of Change: Confronting AIDS, is a seminal documentary about the experience of the AIDS crisis. It illustrates how far we have come in understanding HIV/AIDS, and how far we have to go in achieving a generation without the devastation of HIV/AIDS.

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  • @NickanM
    @NickanM 5 років тому +317

    I was there, and I saw it. I'm a flamboyant heterosexual woman, and my best friend was gay. Not easy for him in a small town. So I was his "girlfriend" from we were 15 to 20 years old. In the 80's it was dangerous to be a gay man in certain places, so we were very much in "love" then. He catched this disease from hell and he passed away in 1994 at age 28. I held his hand when he died. Young people today will never understand. Never.
    Rest in peace Andy, I know I will see you again, I miss you so much, and I wish that you had seen my two sons grow up. ❤️

    • @rhodabrands3469
      @rhodabrands3469 5 років тому +10

      7.756.935 im sorry for your loss ill say a prayer for you .

    • @donsang5976
      @donsang5976 5 років тому +6

      😥😥😥😥😥😥

    • @geoniko3031
      @geoniko3031 5 років тому +20

      Sad so many people died . I am straight but no one deserves thus disease

    • @maxlegend1374
      @maxlegend1374 5 років тому +4

      I think it's just as scary in a way these days the fear is just numbed by our advancement in technology which has given us prevention medications and self preserving medicine

    • @frankchambers3042
      @frankchambers3042 4 роки тому +12

      The part about your sons just made me cry. I'm sorry

  • @Brenko69
    @Brenko69 Рік тому +163

    My uncle died of AIDS in 1994. His parents, my grandfather, never fully accepted that he was gay and when he got sick my grandfather lied to my mother about his diagnosis. My mom, who was a nurse, had cared for hundreds of AIDS patients and figured out quite quickly what the truth was. My grandfather swore her to secrecy, a pact my mom never intended to uphold. When I got a little older, into my teens, my mom told me the truth. She said there was no shame that he was gay and certainly no shame in how he died. My uncle died 2 months after his 30th birthday. He, along with so many others, deserved so much better. RIP Uncle Ken, you're never forgotten.

    • @jdmmg4904
      @jdmmg4904 Рік тому +1

    • @liberoAquila
      @liberoAquila Рік тому +4

      I was too young to remember the 80s but I heard it was big, an automatic death sentence. Therapy became widely available in 1996.

    • @rthelionheart
      @rthelionheart Рік тому +8

      If only he had been straight as he was expected to be... he may well still be around.

    • @acstair
      @acstair Рік тому +3

      My condolences to you.

    • @FMP177
      @FMP177 Рік тому +1

      Blame Fauci

  • @manuelpena6827
    @manuelpena6827 3 роки тому +129

    Princess Diana would shake hands and hug infected people, and I remember my mom saying "God bless her soul" for being human and compassionate

    • @booth2710
      @booth2710 2 роки тому +8

      Yes - she really was The Queen of Hearts'

    • @dondamon4669
      @dondamon4669 2 роки тому +2

      And then look what happened to her

    • @dollymadison2397
      @dollymadison2397 2 роки тому +6

      ❤️ Princess Diana ❤️One of the biggest blessings God ever dropped on the planet! ❤️

    • @dollymadison2397
      @dollymadison2397 2 роки тому +10

      @@dondamon4669 Princess Diana was too good for this world/for us. That's what I have to tell myself to not get furious & bawl-y all over again. Even after all these years- I love her forever. What an amazing mother &. Humanitarian.

    • @sarahchristopher436
      @sarahchristopher436 2 роки тому +1

      My mother admired Princess Diana as well.

  • @lorrieturner4800
    @lorrieturner4800 6 років тому +183

    I am a 60 year old heterosexual woman that was only diagnosed HIV+ four years ago. So believe me when I say, this fight is not over, in fact it has only begun. I am now on meds that have rendered my disease undetectable for the last 3 1/2 years, but the stigma of this disease still remains. And because of this stigma, the spread of this disease continues. People must continue to work to educate people and everyone should take precautions and NEVER have unprotected sex!

    • @thatgirl9759
      @thatgirl9759 5 років тому +4

      Bless your heart Lorrie. I'm so glad that you are doing good! Love you sister!

    • @thatgirl9759
      @thatgirl9759 5 років тому +5

      Ashu Ku, that is inappropriate and very hurtful.

    • @ceilesmammy
      @ceilesmammy 5 років тому +3

      Prayers with you 💜💜💜

    • @jjsjjs93
      @jjsjjs93 5 років тому +7

      It's kind of hard to populate earth if everyone only has protected sex.

    • @MickeyMorandini1
      @MickeyMorandini1 5 років тому +2

      you have a lot of years left. stay positive

  • @JBeauregard-no6rh
    @JBeauregard-no6rh Місяць тому +14

    My cousin died of AIDS at Beth Israel hospital in NYC, in August of 1992. I never knew him, as he moved to Florida when I was a baby. From what I can tell, he did not have an easy life. His mother had severe mental illness and his father was never in his life. He was raised by my very Catholic grandparents until he was a teen, when he then moved back with his mother. I doubt they were very accepting of him being gay. At some point he moved to NYC. My father and uncle went to visit him when he was near the end, they recalled him standing at the window, watching them leave. I hope he did not die without any loved ones near, however I suspect he did. He was only 27. I don’t have any photos of him and don’t ever remember anyone talking about him when I was growing up. It’s like he never existed. It’s so horrible how so many people have stories similar to his. I hope somewhere there is someone who remembers him with love. RIP Glen Halpin

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 29 днів тому +1

      By 1992, AIDS had been around for over 10 years and it was fairly clearly understood how the virus was transmitted and which populations were at greatest risk. It's really quote a shame that your Cousin Glen didn't take the proper precautions to safeguard his life.

  • @Wolfsky9
    @Wolfsky9 4 роки тому +92

    As an RN in The City, in 1980, I saw the start of the holocaust . I'm hetero---------my Brother was Gay. ---------I saw it begin & I watched my brother die , holding him as he did. It was on my 40th B-Day, 9/24/1986, at 0515 hrs. -------------My heart, goes to all who suffered this terrible disease, & their sexuality never mattered at all, to me. --------------------------------Wolfsky9, 73 y/o

    • @thatgirl9759
      @thatgirl9759 4 роки тому +6

      I'm sorry for your loss. He was lucky to have you. 💗

    • @ownSystem
      @ownSystem 3 роки тому

      RIP handsome fly high with the rainbows. 🌈

    • @PaoloMeidrano
      @PaoloMeidrano 3 роки тому +2

      Sorry for your loss. Thank you for being there for him and holding him while he passed. 💕💙

    • @soft_serve_666
      @soft_serve_666 3 роки тому +1

      I'm so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for being there for those that had no one.

    • @wordscontrolminds
      @wordscontrolminds 3 роки тому +3

      Holocaust isn't an exaggeration, it was a wilful ignorance of Reagan and the Republican party, the bigotry of their evangelical representatives. Seems they have the same attitude today in the midst of Covid.

  • @neasacoyne2706
    @neasacoyne2706 5 років тому +150

    Imagine turning your back on your child after he disclosed he had a terminal illness. Just so sad 😢

    • @shayekisitu
      @shayekisitu 4 роки тому +13

      I could never do that to my own child. It would kill me from the inside.

    • @Shahjahan951
      @Shahjahan951 4 роки тому +9

      I think ,she mainly hated her son because of his homosexuality.

    • @neasacoyne2706
      @neasacoyne2706 4 роки тому +5

      Jannah Bint Al Yusuf aka Jannah225 Neither would I , I have two children whom I could never see myself turning my back on them. It was a terrible time, families turning their backs on their children because of their sexual preference and then this awful disease.

    • @---jv4ke
      @---jv4ke 4 роки тому +1

      @Brett R did you come out as gay to him?

    • @golddustwoman4993
      @golddustwoman4993 4 роки тому +5

      @Brett R that's so sad to hear. I would love my son no matter what. My sweet sweet boy. Brett you deserve love no matter what!

  • @charliebarrow7086
    @charliebarrow7086 2 роки тому +22

    Abandoning my children, no matter what, is unthinkable. I love them so deeply, they are the most precious people in my life and not loving them is beyond my imagination.

  • @krapug11
    @krapug11 4 роки тому +26

    There is a special place in Heaven for people like Rita Rocket and all those who provided care and compassion for those suffering from AIDS. There is also a special corner of Hell reserved for those parents who abandoned their sons suffering from AIDS.

  • @BabsLongfellow
    @BabsLongfellow 3 роки тому +60

    I grew up and lived in the Bay Area when this was filmed. I was 21 then. My brother's companion of 14 years (couldn't get married back then) died of AIDS in 1995 after a six year battle. My brother was also diagnosed and I'm happy to report he is still here, 2021. I am beyond grateful for the progress that has been made . . . you can now "live with AIDS" . . . back then it was an absolute death sentence. SO many beautiful lives lost.

    • @co9971
      @co9971 2 роки тому +1

      did your brothers have a lot of friends dying? im 36 and seems like all the guys i talk to in their mid 50's to 70 had friends that were dying left and right. its an unbelievable thing to go through.

    • @BabsLongfellow
      @BabsLongfellow 2 роки тому +2

      @@co9971 yes, he lived in the heart of San Francisco and as he said to me during the worst of the AIDS crisis “everyone is dying“. It was a horrible time.

    • @beanj580
      @beanj580 2 роки тому +1

      You cannot live life with AIDS, but you can manage HIV today

    • @BabsLongfellow
      @BabsLongfellow 2 роки тому +2

      @@beanj580 AIDS varies from person to person. Some people die soon after getting infected while others live relatively normal lives for many years, even after being officially diagnosed with AIDS.

    • @JJ-iq8mi
      @JJ-iq8mi 2 роки тому

      You can live with HIV, not AIDS

  • @yellyman5483
    @yellyman5483 5 років тому +48

    R.I.P. to all of these beautiful people...It`s so sad to see this documentary..

  • @brittneybrisbin744
    @brittneybrisbin744 3 роки тому +26

    I'm happy that videos like this exist, and that they've been preserved and posted online. They're important pieces of history. It's so easy to look at black and white photos, or read words on an internet article, and not really fully get the impact this illness had (and still has) on the world. Seeing things like this, where you can see the fears and hopes of these people, listen to their experiences and how their lives differ so much from the stereotypes of the time, really leaves a greater impact. I truly feel so bad for the people whose families didn't want to see them, and I applaud them for keeping smiles and positivity on. I also applaud the activists who were pushing for change, and the families and friends who were kind, loving, and helpful. RIP to all the beautiful souls we lost.

  • @krazyk3842
    @krazyk3842 2 місяці тому +19

    Every time I watch something about aids during the early years it breaks my heart. People were treated so badly. If you could just go back and at least hold their hand. Many people refused to even look at them.❤i wish i just say youre not being punished. This was during a time if you came out gay your parents would kick you out after they beat your ass, and never speak to you again. I can only imagine how they felt going to their parents, and letting them kno they had aids during this time. Gays nowadays have no idea what it is to struggle. These were pioneers.

    • @Jasmine-ju2yf
      @Jasmine-ju2yf 2 місяці тому +6

      I was diagnosed last week with hiv I have not stopped drinking since I have already start taking my medicine I am 26, I have no one to talk too about it really I told my parents and my dad broke down I just have to take a pill every day but I don’t want to die of cancer but sometimes I just want to die hits a sad world after u are diagnosed

    • @juliekulatunga4188
      @juliekulatunga4188 2 місяці тому +3

      @@Jasmine-ju2yf God Bless you. We are all here for you. You are not alone pet xx

  • @gingermiller436
    @gingermiller436 2 роки тому +24

    It is inconceivable to me that any mother or father could turn their back on their children.

  • @ted1091
    @ted1091 3 роки тому +36

    It was a hellish 15 years. I worked 18 hour days most of it pro bono. It was a never ending stream of need. I was healthy, thank God, but I never recovered from the trauma, not even 25 years later.

    • @LostInThisGardenofLife
      @LostInThisGardenofLife 3 роки тому +11

      Thank you, and bless you for all that you did.

    • @mickeymouse2able
      @mickeymouse2able 3 роки тому +5

      Hero❤

    • @soft_serve_666
      @soft_serve_666 3 роки тому +9

      Thank you so much for being there for these scared men. I can't imagine the fear of catching HIV/AIDS in the early days.

  • @michaellazzeri9439
    @michaellazzeri9439 2 роки тому +38

    I was in SF when it hit , beginning in the summer of 1980--------young men began coming to the ED at SF General --------young men with fever, shortness of breath, weight loss & there was no common thread, except that they were Gay. As an RN, I took extra cautions , but truthfully, never feared for my own safety in doing what I was educated to do as a Nurse. Being hetero, I remember, the loose sex of the 70's, was gone. but still, I never feared to care for a patient with AIDS--------Not ever. -----------MJL< 74 y/o

    • @pooddescrewch8718
      @pooddescrewch8718 2 роки тому +3

      Sexual Liberation did not understand the adaptibility of the viruses that are sexually transmitted . Evolution beats antibiotics eventually . At this time people were sure that whatever they might catch could be cured with pennicillin .

    • @US_ARMY_25_INF._DIV.
      @US_ARMY_25_INF._DIV. Рік тому

      it is crazy that gay men kept getting sick even if they knew the dangers...the male sex drive is the most powerful and destructive force in the universe....my brother is gay and had been with about 1500 sexual partners....he has hiv now...as with a lot of gay men after he had zero conversion he did not test or get treatment and almost died from full blown aids....i love him but in many ways he is just pathetic...

  • @deependofshallow
    @deependofshallow 6 років тому +56

    Please upload this on other sites and make sure it always works on youtube. This should be mandatory viewing. We have come so far from this that now there are drugs available to treat AIDS but drugs are not a cure. The people who fell from this disease before a viable treatment deserve our rememberance and we as a people need to be forced to remember that there was a time when this disease was a death sentence. Thank you from the depths of my soul for putting this up. Please make sure it is available always. It is that important.

  • @keashiadantzler9801
    @keashiadantzler9801 4 роки тому +23

    Rip Phil shippy you had such a wonderful smile so young only 28 I cried even googled you may u sleep in peace

  • @smittyk6888
    @smittyk6888 6 років тому +65

    So sad. I grew up in the 80s. We heard of it and looking back we were kind of oblivious to the danger. This documentary helps to shed light on how HIV was unfolding in the early 80's. I had classmates that started dying in less than ten years after graduation. To date I know more than thirty people that have died. Thank god for the new treatment therapies that are available.

  • @ShamrockParticle
    @ShamrockParticle 2 роки тому +16

    I've seen a lot of drama shows and movies but nothing comes close to these 100% real documentaries. thank you for posting this

  • @bernadettelouise5735
    @bernadettelouise5735 2 роки тому +27

    so sad these men all died :( may they rest in peace

  • @amandasinelli139
    @amandasinelli139 3 роки тому +20

    When Mrs Rodriguez started talking about unconditional love, that touched my heart and got in the feels so much. It made me tear up.

  • @candycoatedcyanide3267
    @candycoatedcyanide3267 4 роки тому +63

    Im so proud of Mrs Rodriguez that’s a real mother loving, compassionate and non judgmental.. need more humans like her ❤️

    • @wordscontrolminds
      @wordscontrolminds 3 роки тому +5

      Here here! The boundless nurturing and compassion of the female spirit is the only thing that will save the planet.

    • @skipeastport5529
      @skipeastport5529 3 роки тому +4

      Mrs. Rodriguez was like my mom. Every parent should be like them. My heart goes out to kids who get rejected by their parents for the stupidest reasons.

  • @BoardroomBuddha
    @BoardroomBuddha 6 років тому +39

    Thank you very much for posting this video. It was a very scary time I remember. So sad and strange how random it was that some PWAs survived and other perished. Thanks for the reminder of the tens of thousands of souls that were lost.
    It was also interesting to see how things like alternative medicine, patient's rights, same-sex marriage rights, and even the concept of defining your own family in the face of rejection, were borne out of the AIDS crisis.

  • @JoeyNYSDnomad
    @JoeyNYSDnomad Місяць тому +6

    Dr .Volberding has always been a steady, rational voice of reason during this tragedy.

  • @beritter
    @beritter 2 роки тому +32

    the mother to Jess Rodriguez...now that is love, that was beautiful, to see how she embraced his partner as well. made me cry.

    • @Chris-ln6so
      @Chris-ln6so 2 роки тому +11

      It’s beautiful. Unconditional love as she says and that is exactly how it should be. Heartbreaking to think so many died without that.

    • @Truename586
      @Truename586 10 місяців тому

      🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮

  • @patr70
    @patr70 5 років тому +30

    Fantastic Upload. This is one of the better films done on the Aids crisis in the 1980s. It was VERY Inspirational. A True Gem!! ✨✨

  • @fernandomazzini4718
    @fernandomazzini4718 5 років тому +21

    i am so impressed by gary walsh, his message and words of introspection. what a loss. i wish i had known him. rip. and all my love.

  • @halliganful
    @halliganful 2 роки тому +16

    Thank you so much for putting this incredibly powerful piece of living history on your channel. Just devastated right now. Such sweet souls. Thank you for keeping their memories alive.

  • @rolltide_rhiannon
    @rolltide_rhiannon 2 роки тому +29

    The interview with Phil Shippy broke my heart. All those 'Christian' family members and none of them offered a kind word or support. Jesus said take care of the sick not crucify them. It breaks my heart that these people were soo judged and alone.

    • @FrightNight1980
      @FrightNight1980 2 роки тому +6

      Those are "good" and "caring" Christians for ya. It's pretty much the same nowadays, nothing has changed - just the topics that get them wound up.

    • @blondespitfire
      @blondespitfire 2 роки тому +6

      @@FrightNight1980 What we now call “Trump supporters.”

  • @ds8290
    @ds8290 19 днів тому +9

    I remember my mom’s friend died of AIDS in the 90s. He was a gay man and his partner died of AIDS before he did. This man loved me as if I was his own daughter, especially when I didn’t have my father around. His kindness was neverending. I will never forget going to see him in the hospital in San Francisco and how skinny and emaciated he looked. We knew he was dying and I didn’t want him to. Even in his pain and suffering, he still managed to smile and tell me how much he loved and cared for me. RIP Roland, you’re not forgotten.

  • @lionellambert5118
    @lionellambert5118 5 років тому +18

    This kind of documentary is a good thing to remember all these good, beautiful, courageous people gone too soon.

  • @effinyu9554
    @effinyu9554 2 роки тому +18

    It's so strange watching this knowing the people talking about having it are dead. This was before they even knew what it really was and there was nothing to offer any hope.

  • @walking5760
    @walking5760 5 років тому +16

    Felt so sad to see those struggling for being alive. Also so proud for those who put their lives to give them some dignity. I am devastated.
    Thanks for sharing.

  • @rellman85
    @rellman85 5 років тому +62

    Gary Walsh is one of the most beautiful human beings I've ever encountered.

    • @yellyman5483
      @yellyman5483 5 років тому +8

      You knew him personally? He seemed to be a very beautiful human being.

    • @stuartlee6622
      @stuartlee6622 4 роки тому

      So is Hillary Clinton.

    • @soft_serve_666
      @soft_serve_666 3 роки тому +2

      I'm so sorry. What a tragedy.

    • @salahnasser1056
      @salahnasser1056 3 роки тому

      Why is he the most beautiful man? I dont understand.

    • @joelles.9327
      @joelles.9327 3 роки тому

      It us you in the documentary?

  • @madoak5597
    @madoak5597 3 місяці тому +9

    44.07 that physician is wonderful. Also great seeing Rita Rocket. God bless them both for their kindness and humanity.

  • @kenallan2049
    @kenallan2049 3 роки тому +19

    If there was ever an Angel on Earth, it's Rita Rockett, and she is still doing her part to this day !

  • @elly1523
    @elly1523 6 років тому +12

    Thank you for sharing this video. I found the personal testimonies very moving and thought provoking. It has opened my heart to a greater depths of compassion as I became involved with each person's struggle.

  • @lyndaburn6428
    @lyndaburn6428 5 років тому +7

    Thank you for uploading this. I’m going to make sure my son watches this. We should never forget what these wonderful people had to endure and the discrimination they faced.

  • @jondishmonmusicandstuff2753
    @jondishmonmusicandstuff2753 5 років тому +74

    For those of us that did not catch the disease in the 80's let me tell you something, it was hell to always be looking over your shoulder. Every time I go a sore throat or a cough. A normal bruise. I wasted so many years being afraid. Just waiting for the other shoe to drop. It was exhausting.

    • @walking5760
      @walking5760 5 років тому +7

      True. I felt just like that in the 80s. I was also afraid of kissing... Dark times...

    • @crocodile1313
      @crocodile1313 5 років тому +2

      @@geoniko3031 Umm, it can be transmitted between man and woman during heterosexual sex. Don't believe me? Ask Magic Johnson about it.

    • @geoniko3031
      @geoniko3031 5 років тому +3

      @@crocodile1313 it happens but its rare..extremely rare

    • @finessejenkins6061
      @finessejenkins6061 5 років тому +1

      Geo Niko I was thinking he caught it from a dude too. I mean he was in La

    • @dawn112170
      @dawn112170 5 років тому +8

      @@geoniko3031 It is not rare

  • @MrJerryjweis
    @MrJerryjweis 3 роки тому +29

    RIP Dr Joseph Brewer October 2019

  • @jstcarmn2623
    @jstcarmn2623 6 років тому +5

    Thank you for sharing. One of the best documentaries I have watched.

  • @gracequreshi5952
    @gracequreshi5952 3 роки тому +19

    So sad 😭😭😭 for everyone who died from aids I lost my friend Corey and Claudia to aids she was 30 and Corey was 20 rest in peace 😢 to all the ones who died from aids.

  • @kendrawood3910
    @kendrawood3910 26 днів тому +4

    Y friend died of AIDA at 18 hemophiliac. Any loss to this is a tragic loss..Who cares how you got it REALLY COMPASSION PEOPLE!!

    • @Lucy-el9mm
      @Lucy-el9mm 14 днів тому

      Always be a stigma around getting it sexually. It’s shitty but the truth unfortunately

  • @applejellypucci
    @applejellypucci 5 років тому +13

    My first time seeing this documentary. Thank you for sharing, Thomas.

  • @shannonludden8283
    @shannonludden8283 6 років тому +28

    God bless all of these beautiful, brave men. The one that pulls at my heart the most is Phil. He just seems like such a gentle soul, he's not bitter even when he talks about his family and how they blame him for being sick.

    • @thatgirl9759
      @thatgirl9759 5 років тому +10

      There is a little bit of a back story to him. His family belonged to The Followers Of Christ Church in Idaho. They believe in faith healing only and not doctors. Several children have died from very curable diseases and illness. It's a cult. He was very brave to break away from them. If you google "Shippy children Idaho" several stories come up.

    • @thisspace7183
      @thisspace7183 5 років тому +3

      @@thatgirl9759 Thank you for the background. I'd love to learn more about some of the individuals featured here. Gary Walsh is quite well known but what about those like Sean Rendely or Matthew Congelosi?

    • @thatgirl9759
      @thatgirl9759 5 років тому

      @@thisspace7183 --Not to sound like a stalker, but according to Rita Rocket's facebook, it appears that she is all smiles and happy.

    • @crocodile1313
      @crocodile1313 5 років тому +1

      @@thatgirl9759 He was a male stripper or porn star from what I understand. His stage name was Beau Matthews I think.

    • @timmarkell402
      @timmarkell402 5 років тому

      Sean Rendely died in April 1986

  • @itsnice420
    @itsnice420 2 роки тому +56

    I really wish some of you would stop comparing HIV/AIDS and COVID….They are nowhere near comparable.

    • @jackwatson3944
      @jackwatson3944 2 роки тому +2

      Covid kills way more in a much short time.

    • @anothernumber9753
      @anothernumber9753 2 роки тому +3

      Both are viruses so both are unable to reproduce without a host. People can limit their exposure to both by making appropriate lifestyle modifications like condom use or mask wearily for HIV or Covid respectively. People have managed to make the vaccines for Covid so quickly because of our improved understanding of the genetic nature of viruses a lot of this reader has has its origins in hiv research sure they’re have different routes of transmission and different pathologies but actually there are some important similarities between them.

    • @crocodile1313
      @crocodile1313 2 роки тому +26

      Dr. Synapsis-- As a physician myself, I completely agree. People can talk all day about both COVID and HIV being viruses, but the similarity ends there. In my career I have never seen an infectious agent as lethal as HIV. Before the modern medicines came out in 1996, HIV was almost 100% fatal....CV-19's mortality rate in the USA is under two percent. With the exception of untreated rabies, there has been NO virus in human history that kills almost everyone it infects like HIV did pre-1996.

    • @chrissimpson6701
      @chrissimpson6701 2 роки тому +6

      @@crocodile1313 I agree with you. AIDS make COVID look like a joke. And it's still killing, and there is no cure.

    • @blondespitfire
      @blondespitfire 2 роки тому +4

      @@crocodile1313 The difference between COV19 and HIV is the total numbers of infections and deaths. While HIV may be more lethal, it’s not as infectious, and the transmissibility is profoundly lower than with COV19. Since 1981, 675,000 have died in the US from AIDS vs 1.02 million deaths from COV19 in just 2 1/2 years. Thank God for the current vaccines for COV19, because without them we could’ve easily wound up with a billion deaths worldwide.

  • @nigeldallas9054
    @nigeldallas9054 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for posting this. I will be sharing it with friends. We must continue to educate folks. God rest their sweet souls.

  • @ShannonNfromCT
    @ShannonNfromCT 5 років тому +6

    The strength and bravery displayed here still resonates 30+ years later.

  • @katiee4396
    @katiee4396 3 роки тому +16

    My mom went to medical school in the middle of the AIDS epidemic (early 90s) and they had just started the AZT trials and treatments. It's interesting to see how far we have come to treat the disease now.

    • @catharperfect7036
      @catharperfect7036 Рік тому

      AZT is straight poison. Luckily the science has moved on from that.

    • @kevinprior3549
      @kevinprior3549 5 місяців тому

      AZT was almost a pointless drug to so-called help people with AIDS.

  • @markgiordonello6710
    @markgiordonello6710 11 місяців тому +18

    you know these men are stronger and more courageous in the face of death than anyone I've seen and anybody who says their being punished by god for their lifestyle are the real cowards

  • @dariusanderton3760
    @dariusanderton3760 3 роки тому +15

    you know a lot of years have gone by when the past starts to feel like a different country.

  • @kevinprior3549
    @kevinprior3549 5 місяців тому +9

    Jim Henry's partner's deterioration was scary. Really scary!

  • @marciusnery1284
    @marciusnery1284 3 роки тому +5

    Excellent heartfeling and upfront documentary showing us pretty accurately and with dignity the multitude of feelings and complex experiences that those heroic souls had to endure in the most scary times of contemporary history. So many young beautiful creative lives lost in the most excruciating manner. It's heartbreaking just to think about it! Those beautiful souls will be forever missed and remembered. Gratitude for teaching us the fragility of being human and the importance of love in our lives. 🙏🙌

  • @GregShieldsOutdoors
    @GregShieldsOutdoors 2 роки тому +15

    A lot of great men on here that I would have liked to known personally.....Gary in-particular. What a strong person......all of them. Rest in peace brothers....you all now know that death was only the beginning.

  • @Gooneress
    @Gooneress 4 роки тому +7

    Thank you for the invaluable public service of uploading this hugely powerful documentary. I can't imagine how traumatic the 1980s and 1990s were for everyone with full-blown AIDS - back when it was a certain death sentence. This excellent documentary gives us a very clear picture of the horror.
    Kudos to those who cared for the sick and dying and thank you to the brave men featured, long gone but speaking to us from beyond the grave. May they continue to rest in peace.

  • @stevesims5729
    @stevesims5729 5 років тому +9

    As a healthcare provider, I love seeing all of the good medical professionals taking care of the people with AIDS. And once a year, I try to read "And the Band Played On." It's both heartwarming and heartbreaking to see some faces to put with names. God bless all of them and their loved ones.

    • @freddiemercury4evr
      @freddiemercury4evr 5 років тому

      Outstanding book. The movie And the Band Played On is also great.

  • @philcoleman7569
    @philcoleman7569 5 років тому +3

    Rita, you certainly need a mention. For being there for them and for cheering their life up, even though some days may have appeared doubtful and depressive.

  • @jaydepalma1071
    @jaydepalma1071 2 роки тому +15

    Such beautiful men and so courageous - rest in peace, gentlemen.

  • @vortexworld4806
    @vortexworld4806 2 роки тому +18

    I wish these people did not have to go through this

  • @mazesavage3239
    @mazesavage3239 3 роки тому +18

    These men was filled with love and they was all brave x

    • @timwarcloud
      @timwarcloud 3 роки тому +2

      BAAAHHHAAA 😂 They were filled with something alright...

  • @KimPhilby203
    @KimPhilby203 2 роки тому +10

    Thanks for the upload.. Fantastic Doc

  • @KimPhilby203
    @KimPhilby203 6 років тому +53

    God bless all those suffering this illness

  • @wilfordfraser6347
    @wilfordfraser6347 4 роки тому +9

    All these guys who should still be with us taken in the prime of life. It's like seeing the faces of a lost generation.

  • @veevintage2619
    @veevintage2619 5 років тому +21

    The callousness of some of the so called “mothers” that are capable of ostracizing their own sons because of religion is mind blowing. These guys are already dealing with a devastating diagnosis and the depression that ensues, to also be dealing with bigotry and rejection from the people that are supposed to be the ones that would live them no matter what?? Unbelievable.

    • @shebbs1
      @shebbs1 5 років тому

      Not just parents, I work throughout Asia, and the attitude is generally either heads-in-the-sand or callousness. The governments generally claim there is no HIV infection I their countries, conspicuous signs in Myanmar are most memorable. This disease is used for propaganda purposes, and not just in the communist ones but they are the worst.

    • @veevintage2619
      @veevintage2619 5 років тому

      Robert Ward And THIS is what I mean by callous.

  • @geoffdb9638
    @geoffdb9638 3 роки тому +20

    When news reports first aired in 1981 I remember being so confident that our government would quickly find a vaccine/cure and we would bid farewell that this terrible disease. Then, the reports began to grow widespread and globally...then we knew that it was much worse. My God...this has hurt our whole country. I am African-American Christian Democrat and I have so much love for gay people. The Bible does not teach us to hate people and we do live in a free democracy. The words are respect, compassion and understanding...the main word is love.

    • @countrygirlcopenhagen5095
      @countrygirlcopenhagen5095 3 роки тому +5

      GEOFF - what a beautiful comment. Love and respect from Denmark.

    • @panfu4944
      @panfu4944 3 роки тому

      Take care of yourself. Wise words. Greetings and love from Poland

    • @michaeltnewyorknights8413
      @michaeltnewyorknights8413 2 роки тому

      You could count on one hand who was writing about this unyet named disease in 1981 so not sure what "news reports" you're referring to

  • @KimPhilby203
    @KimPhilby203 4 роки тому +8

    These guys are so inspiring..as a str8 person who cant comprehend the terror of epidemic and to carry this much suffering on their shoulders is beyond me

  • @abhisek2091
    @abhisek2091 6 років тому +64

    I am a gay Hindu Bengali ... a Biotechnologist from India 🇮🇳 ... this video caused tears rolled my ears ... my condolences goes to our seniours who suffered ... 😞

    • @nicolo296
      @nicolo296 6 років тому +3

      Another Biotechnologist here! from italy

    • @SassyUnicorn86
      @SassyUnicorn86 4 роки тому

      Breaks my heart we lost almost a whole generation of young gay men. :(

    • @audreyabdo7719
      @audreyabdo7719 4 роки тому +1

      Abhishek Ray , I know how you feel. I cried tears for loved ones and friends and a singer I adored. In India are they still prejudiced against gay people? I know some countries still are and I guess it is here. Stay strong and stay safe. I am proud of you for being you. Take care.

    • @abhisek2091
      @abhisek2091 4 роки тому

      Audrey Abdo Well currently am living in Australia with my Australian Husband who I joined last year... well in India I would say there is no institutionalised homophobia.. but accepted of a same sex couple is kinda taboo people don’t talk about it ... marriage laws being extremely confusing (although marriage laws don’t state marriage is an union between man and women )but still people of same sex can’t marry mostly except special circumstances. Workplace discrimination protections were legislated last year but don’t know how much its implemented although there are openly lgbtq people being made head of government institutions but they are rare. people in general have become a bit more accepting but then again they would always want their children to br straight. All these in urban don’t much know about rural areas.

  • @jocekhiy626
    @jocekhiy626 2 роки тому +18

    The saddest thing was many died alone because their families/freinds ect were afraid to even have them around or touch or be near them. They would say you can't come here(at this point they were near death) and we can't come see you I'm sorry. It was like you're on your own bruh. A guy on one of these videos said so many of his freinds then had family members say well I'll come when its near the end or just not even contact them again. It's was sad reading it .

    • @US_ARMY_25_INF._DIV.
      @US_ARMY_25_INF._DIV. Рік тому +1

      it is crazy that gay men kept getting sick even if they knew the dangers...the male sex drive is the most powerful and destructive force in the universe....my brother is gay and had been with about 1500 sexual partners....he has hiv now...as with a lot of gay men after he had zero conversion he did not test or get treatment and almost died from full blown aids....i love him but in many ways he is just pathetic...

    • @blondespitfire
      @blondespitfire Рік тому +1

      @@US_ARMY_25_INF._DIV. That’s very sad. There is no reason for a gay man to not practice safe sex or get tested when there are medications to control the disease today.

  • @ceilesmammy
    @ceilesmammy 5 років тому +25

    How brave all these people are. My heart goes to all people living with HIV or aids. You all are so courageous 💜💜

    • @Mr.Majestic77
      @Mr.Majestic77 4 роки тому

      ms connolly hey I'm just now seeing this. Very sad. Im heterosexual and now in 2020 this virus has turned it ugly head to the Black male gay & bi-sexual community and Black female community.
      I think this COVID 19 pandemic has the same type if feel, which every time you turn around someoone is infected with COVID 19 for the gay & straight community.

  • @user-gz1ty3qu7f
    @user-gz1ty3qu7f 10 місяців тому +12

    People really need to learn compassion...

    • @Shegosushimi
      @Shegosushimi 4 місяці тому

      SHOW COMPASSION FOR WHO ??? GO TO GOD STOP DEPENDING ON PPL.

    • @thecajunphoenix
      @thecajunphoenix 2 місяці тому

      Agreed.
      Nobody deserves to be infected with HIV and eventually die of AIDS.
      Ignore the trolls who claim otherwise because they don't know what they're talking about and have nothing to offer except bullying and hate speech.

  • @Julianakun
    @Julianakun 5 років тому +19

    Rita Rockett is the sweetest thing. A complete saint. 💗

  • @alliechampagne1404
    @alliechampagne1404 3 роки тому +3

    Just beautiful. Heart-breaking, yet beautiful. Thank you.

  • @em-or7qc
    @em-or7qc 6 років тому +11

    Thanks for this. I read and the band played on a couple years ago. All these people are in the book.

  • @dpb8780
    @dpb8780 2 роки тому +15

    30 years on we are applauding athletes when they come out and make a ton of money off of it while not supporting AIDS research or having any good causes, we have really short memories!

    • @paulo0e
      @paulo0e Рік тому +1

      I guess that’s just how humanity works. After reading Leonard Mlodinow’s “Subliminal”, I got the certainty the human kind is, at best, doomed

  • @jpeopolis
    @jpeopolis 4 роки тому +10

    I remember seeing "And the Band Played On" when it premiered, I BELIEVE on HBO. Could be wrong. I would've been about 8, but was familiar with AIDS living in the DC metro area. We'd go to museums every weekend and see the oldest young men you could ever imagine being pushed around by their equally-young companion. Anyhow, when I was a little older, probably around 11, my parents let me read the book. I learned all about Walsh, Brewer, the various doctors, Krauss. It's weird to see the faces of these individuals I've admired for decades staring back at me. I wish I'd had an opportunity to meet them.

  • @AmundBlixAaeng
    @AmundBlixAaeng 2 роки тому +10

    Heartbreaking to watch this, no cure at that time, now you can pretty much live out a full lifetime with the right medication.

  • @caledoniankittyOfficial
    @caledoniankittyOfficial 4 роки тому +2

    This was moving, such beautiful people taken too soon. So brave and so selfless to share their stories, I would have been proud to have had them as a friend or relative ❤

  • @KrisWolf4
    @KrisWolf4 6 років тому +10

    Riveting, thanks so much!!

  • @madesimple101
    @madesimple101 3 роки тому +10

    What an excellent video!! If we all could look upon suffering without turning away, thus become more compassionate. No one gets out of this alive so why not learn from those who are facing their death with dignity in order to face our own morality.

  • @miker4430
    @miker4430 9 місяців тому +8

    So sad for so many of our fellow human beings

  • @Voytasss
    @Voytasss 3 роки тому +17

    When I realise that all these men probably didn’t survive - 2021… beautiful souls. I wish the medicine had the same pills back then as we do have right now prep pep and tasp

  • @michaellane3017
    @michaellane3017 4 роки тому +2

    Very well done video! Love Rita!

  • @jwalt8019
    @jwalt8019 4 роки тому +4

    This just breaks my heart. For those who have passed, may their soul rest in peace.

  • @msdixieblues
    @msdixieblues 5 років тому +3

    Thank you so much for uploading this. Very poignant and I remember these names from the Randy Shilts book.

  • @lanea397
    @lanea397 3 роки тому +13

    Watching Archival footage of Freddie Mercury led me here. I wish he’d made it to see the medicine could’ve saved his life 😢

  • @killjoy4540
    @killjoy4540 Рік тому +21

    I was a child and taken on AIDS ward’s I saw a young boy i could hear him some nights he was mostly alone I was told hardly anyone came
    I met so many kind handsome young men I’ll never forget them all

  • @drew5988
    @drew5988 3 роки тому +16

    This is heart breaking. May we never forget the angels who died from this horrendous disease.

  • @mazesavage3239
    @mazesavage3239 3 роки тому +12

    its sad what happened to these lovely men in the 1980's such a great loss of life

  • @mjeffries4749
    @mjeffries4749 4 роки тому +4

    Great documentary! RIP to all the men interviewed...they’re all gone.

  • @ArizonaWillful
    @ArizonaWillful 4 роки тому +11

    So many beautiful human beings gone far before their time.

  • @rubydawn1
    @rubydawn1 4 місяці тому +4

    the mothers are so amazing to stand by their sons. It must of been so hard for them and the way they supported each other is amazing. I love doing butterflies too I think this documentary is great for all things that we don t know about.

  • @kenallan2049
    @kenallan2049 2 роки тому +23

    If there was ever an Angel on Earth it's Rita Rockett !

  • @candicegdaniec2405
    @candicegdaniec2405 Рік тому +13

    Lost many loved ones behind this terrible disease 💔 😔 😢 😪

  • @pooddescrewch8718
    @pooddescrewch8718 2 роки тому +15

    This was both an awesome and equally scary time for me . I was a hetero teen but I knew that viruses do not descriminate . I had brakes on my libido I might not normally have had .

  • @figgiepooh81
    @figgiepooh81 3 роки тому +11

    Wow Rita Rockett..what a beautiful human being.

  • @ClassPresidentAlejandro1999
    @ClassPresidentAlejandro1999 3 роки тому +6

    thanks for the video

  • @yaraviera4444
    @yaraviera4444 Рік тому +13

    Well said unconditional love.. that's truly being a parent. To support them through what that hard moment they are going through.

  • @deadraccoon5210
    @deadraccoon5210 Рік тому +6

    so important to remember this and educate ourselves (when we are born after this) on this time.

  • @Jc22ny
    @Jc22ny 5 років тому +7

    Truly powerful and moving! A must see for todays generation.

    • @katiekuchen9694
      @katiekuchen9694 3 роки тому +1

      Absolutely! I grew up in the 90s and it still feels fresh to me. When I look at the generation that came after me whilst some a educated on the subject I fear not enough. It wasn’t a reality to them like those who lived through the worst of it.