Margaret’s 1000 lb Father - My 600 Pound Life Reaction

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  • @NathanP1980
    @NathanP1980 6 місяців тому +1211

    Mom: "We'll get her looking like me!'
    Dr. Now: "....I think we can do better than that"

    • @toniburdine1393
      @toniburdine1393 6 місяців тому +88

      Ouch lol

    • @tracisawyer7681
      @tracisawyer7681 6 місяців тому +39

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ronneehoffman3337
      @ronneehoffman3337 6 місяців тому +27

      😂😂😂😂

    • @Holly-zp5fu
      @Holly-zp5fu 6 місяців тому +112

      ​@@toniburdine1393
      It makes you wonder if that mother has a mirror. There is something about Mommie Dearest that makes me cringe.

    • @lyndakozar3329
      @lyndakozar3329 6 місяців тому +13

      HaHaHa 😂!!!

  • @chicagogrl2422
    @chicagogrl2422 6 місяців тому +444

    Mom absolutely plays for the camera crew. She is Soo phony

    • @PrincessofPower84
      @PrincessofPower84 6 місяців тому +18

      Damn right!

    • @zxyatiywariii8
      @zxyatiywariii8 6 місяців тому +20

      Exactly! It's so gross.

    • @Anna.T.
      @Anna.T. 6 місяців тому +17

      Yeah. The mun is defo … off.

    • @mzcrystallover93
      @mzcrystallover93 6 місяців тому +5

      dorothybschaffner905 wow negative much?? If you don't like his videos go watch something else jeesh

    • @Hank760
      @Hank760 6 місяців тому +3

      ​@dorothybschaffner905 it's a podcast. Go away

  • @ginnypenepent8575
    @ginnypenepent8575 6 місяців тому +98

    That mom is creepy, tacky, and gross. Mean and controlling.

    • @Mike-bf9sm
      @Mike-bf9sm Місяць тому

      Actually you are describing that lazy 30 plus year old whiny Margaret

    • @drhyshek
      @drhyshek 29 днів тому

      The mom talks to her like she’s mentally retarded. My mom never talked to me like that, thank God.

  • @AJAXKID123
    @AJAXKID123 6 місяців тому +492

    I’m a nurse and seeing people naked in a professional capacity is no big deal to me. However, the physical therapists assessing their client in the full-on nude made me very uncomfortable. I know that Margaret didn’t seem to care, but I would’ve asked to cover her private parts with a towel or something. It’s a boundary and dignity thing. Maybe they felt they had to carry on, as is, because they had to grab the opportunity as they were initially denied. I don’t know, but that was weird as hell.

    • @vickihunter1913
      @vickihunter1913 6 місяців тому +43

      I felt the same way!!

    • @TheBeautifulOne_Char
      @TheBeautifulOne_Char 6 місяців тому +34

      I concur 💯

    • @olivia-dior6863
      @olivia-dior6863 6 місяців тому +33

      I agree! That’s all I was thinking when watching that scene.

    • @urmommabear5monthsago
      @urmommabear5monthsago 6 місяців тому +48

      They always show them naked or showering and it’s so creepy because they know a lot of their viewers it’s a fetish thing unfortunately. The rest are people having lost or losing weight like most of us.

    • @stiffk666
      @stiffk666 6 місяців тому +21

      I did think it was weird with these strange people filing in and her just lying there naked. Could they actually see anything though? I never know whether they blur things out automatically or if there is anything visible under all the layers

  • @HeyShayShay
    @HeyShayShay 6 місяців тому +720

    That mom is NOT a victim. She likes to feed ppl til they die. The way she babytalks to Margaret is disgusting- she encourages her *while* killing her, its deranged.

    • @patriciamurfitt4590
      @patriciamurfitt4590 6 місяців тому +46

      That's one 💩 mom for sure. We all make mistakes with motherhood but DAMN!!!

    • @patterdale54
      @patterdale54 6 місяців тому +8

      Agree …

    • @ronneehoffman3337
      @ronneehoffman3337 6 місяців тому

      She's a very sick twisted woman

    • @patterdale54
      @patterdale54 6 місяців тому +29

      Vicious co dependancy

    • @loribethartist6353
      @loribethartist6353 6 місяців тому +31

      Absolutely… I have requested for Sean to do this one many times. It’s the most dysfunctional family dynamic I have ever seen!

  • @gloriabarberi1292
    @gloriabarberi1292 6 місяців тому +121

    Her mother feels guilty for having abandoned her as a child, so now she is trying to take back the lost time, making her daughter a little child again. And the saddest thing is that the daughter WANTS to remain a child, because growing brings so many responsibilities. 😢

    • @MimiRAM0NE
      @MimiRAM0NE 4 місяці тому +17

      She wants that good childhood she didn't get and every child deserves. Unfortunately, there are no do-overs.

    • @heathergreenakers
      @heathergreenakers Місяць тому +4

      Or she is a Munchausen Mommy and wants people to depend on her, or she’s getting a check for being her daughter’s caretaker.

  • @fencarroll9463
    @fencarroll9463 6 місяців тому +362

    I'm really starting to believe that Margaret is either developmentally delayed or she needs about six-12 months in a psychiatric facility (low contact with Mom). I've lost track of how many times in an hour that she has reacted to events like a toddler/pre-schooler would react. That's concerning, deeply. I wish her well.

    • @hairbabe2u
      @hairbabe2u 5 місяців тому

      Yes made me wonder if low iq or like the maunchousen girl that killed mother in kc.

    • @johannas.l.brushane2518
      @johannas.l.brushane2518 5 місяців тому +24

      I wonder if she have something like borderline personality with attachment issues? She seem to view things/situations and people through a very black and white lens. The good thing if so they are very receptive to therapy.

    • @dianehess5520
      @dianehess5520 5 місяців тому +28

      I agree, she doesn’t seem capable of caring for herself. She falls apart emotionally every 15 minutes😢 and needs her mommy.

    • @angelmarie140
      @angelmarie140 4 місяці тому +16

      My son is a preschooler and acts more mature, she's definitely emotionally stunted and I blame her mom for that because her mom is narcissistic as hell and immature as well

    • @lollafala2949
      @lollafala2949 3 місяці тому +15

      Her mom treats her like a child so Margaret behaves like one. Seems like her emotional and mental development was stunted by the trauma and her mom’s feeds into it by the way she treats her.

  • @evang6919
    @evang6919 6 місяців тому +473

    The mom is super creepy and manipulative. Every nice / positive thing she says feels fake and performative.

    • @shmandyfit
      @shmandyfit 6 місяців тому +31

      Right? I kept thinking she gives off weird vibes but I couldn't work out exactly why.

    • @WobblesandBean
      @WobblesandBean 6 місяців тому +29

      The whole family is messed up, Margaret included. She even admits to being abusive if her mom doesn't bring her food.

    • @RoseRose-hp4rq
      @RoseRose-hp4rq 6 місяців тому +15

      She makes everything about herself

    • @queeb70
      @queeb70 6 місяців тому +18

      Performative! That's the descriptor I was groping for. The other word I kept wanting to use was "brittle."

    • @sydneysomer9958
      @sydneysomer9958 6 місяців тому +15

      The daughter is also a problem, she is 35 YEARS old.

  • @denisemay6807
    @denisemay6807 5 місяців тому +73

    Congratulations mom, you have a 600-pound baby. You get to change her diapers, bathe and feed her and teach her to walk.

  • @Weissguys6
    @Weissguys6 6 місяців тому +375

    Mom put her abusive husband first. These children have had no one who put them first. Motherhood is more than giving birth. 💔

    • @johntaeowens1248
      @johntaeowens1248 6 місяців тому +23

      That means that the mother chose an abusive 1,000 pound man over her own children, especially her daughter Margaret

    • @8B8B8B88
      @8B8B8B88 6 місяців тому +24

      There's more to it than that. The mom was also a product of the abusive husband.
      She's cycling it on.

    • @johntaeowens1248
      @johntaeowens1248 6 місяців тому +3

      @@8B8B8B88 What do you mean by that

    • @8B8B8B88
      @8B8B8B88 6 місяців тому +11

      @@johntaeowens1248 well, if he was abusive towards everyone, it was obviously towards his wife first, and as well.
      (as stated on show)
      I can't speak for another person, but it makes sense, sadly, that she reciprocated in kind, towards others around her.
      Hence- cyclical

    • @johntaeowens1248
      @johntaeowens1248 6 місяців тому +4

      @@8B8B8B88 Oooh okay

  • @kathy_beauty1955
    @kathy_beauty1955 6 місяців тому +1083

    My grandson who is non verbal autistic is told everyday, without fail that he is the most handsome, smartest boy in the world. He is also SHOWN that he is loved so very much. He is the happiest, most well behaved child. He understands everything you say. ALL children deserve this growing up.

    • @valentine-br1ok
      @valentine-br1ok 6 місяців тому +65

      every child no matter what age autistic or not understands everyhting you say and remembers EVERYTHING you say and do to them, yes it is SOOOO important children KNOW when they grow up that they’re loved because they won’t ever know their worth if you just don’t tell them or show them how much they mean to the world. my brother is also autistic, he functions basically the same as a five year old, but he remembers EVERYTHING, and i mean EVERYTHING, he will bring up something my mother said out of anger maybe ten years ago and try and talk about it. it’s why we always make sure that all he ever hears nowadays are GOOD things, because that’s what he’s gonna wanna remember and think about.

    • @lydiaj7492
      @lydiaj7492 6 місяців тому +42

      Oh that made me tear up 🥹. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for being this kind of parent. The more people validate and affirm children regularly, in this world, the more society will be stronger and more whole 💐

    • @goatbabe0666
      @goatbabe0666 6 місяців тому +32

      🎶All ya need is love... love is all ya need 🎶

    • @StAlphonsusHasAPosse
      @StAlphonsusHasAPosse 6 місяців тому +14

      You're awesome

    • @user-fy7gz6sw8e
      @user-fy7gz6sw8e 6 місяців тому +14

      Damn straight

  • @derrickbonsell
    @derrickbonsell 5 місяців тому +45

    Millie doesn't want Margaret to succeed. Margaret being as heavy as she is makes Millie feel better about her weight loss. She gets to point to her daughter and say "at least I'm better than she is." She's only a mother in the sense she carried Margaret for 9 months. Beyond that? There's no maternal love.

  • @jaxbutterfly9186
    @jaxbutterfly9186 6 місяців тому +431

    Sean, I can't help it, but everytime I look at you I'm just so damn proud of you. Not only because of your weight loss, but because you are helping so many people with your story. You are a remarkable young man. 70 in Hawaii 🌴🌺

    • @patriciamurfitt4590
      @patriciamurfitt4590 6 місяців тому +11

      Spring in Indiana catching up with you.
      Already (10am) 70 😅
      Hitting 80 later. Enjoy 💙

    • @Seanofsteel
      @Seanofsteel  6 місяців тому +98

      Thank you, that’s very kind of you. I don’t think I’m helping that many people. But if I can help just one that’s enough for me.

    • @TaliaMargherita
      @TaliaMargherita 6 місяців тому +27

      @@Seanofsteel You helped yourself. I'll bet you're helping others, too.

    • @elizabethprater-hughett8021
      @elizabethprater-hughett8021 6 місяців тому +33

      ​@@SeanofsteelSean, you are helping alot more people than you think. Including me! 👍

    • @veronicawesson5772
      @veronicawesson5772 4 місяці тому +5

      @@Seanofsteelthe blue thing on the bed is for the cords like the telephone or a fan if she requested one it’s a cord divider so the cords won’t get tangled together 😂😂but you’re interpretation of what you thought it might be was to funny

  • @MosDaft
    @MosDaft 6 місяців тому +198

    The fact that she thinks nothing of being completely naked in front of total strangers, at any size, is shocking.

    • @laurielynn1699
      @laurielynn1699 6 місяців тому +19

      Zero class with no dignity! I felt so embarrassed for her.

    • @CanMoose
      @CanMoose 6 місяців тому +14

      At that size I guess she no longer cares

    • @lilliechternacht79
      @lilliechternacht79 6 місяців тому +22

      @@CanMoose She's behaving like an overgrown baby! :(

    • @jillfarrell6388
      @jillfarrell6388 6 місяців тому +9

      She has no shame...

    • @robinfa-84-tx79
      @robinfa-84-tx79 6 місяців тому +3

      😢😢😢

  • @J.William78
    @J.William78 5 місяців тому +82

    I can't imagine how utterly disgusted starving people from poor and impoverished country's would feel watching My 600lbs greedy life.
    Well done for losing so much weight and getting control Sean. Keep up the great work.

  • @evang6919
    @evang6919 6 місяців тому +214

    So weird that she was laying there totally naked while the physical therapist was evaluating her.

    • @PrissyHippie
      @PrissyHippie 6 місяців тому

      Just nasty, she has zero pride, no shame

    • @decyattysyachpchyol
      @decyattysyachpchyol 6 місяців тому +8

      It gets hot in TX. Once, I spent summer in southern US, and even at 75 kilos wanted on some weeks to be naked for all the time.

    • @micheles.2151
      @micheles.2151 6 місяців тому +34

      They don't care. No self-respect whatsoever.

    • @zxyatiywariii8
      @zxyatiywariii8 6 місяців тому +8

      ​@@decyattysyachpchyol Yeah but even in Arizona in August, I wouldn't be caught dead in shorts or a swimsuit. She's more comfortable in her skin than some average weight people are in ours.

    • @PrettyGhostX
      @PrettyGhostX 6 місяців тому

      Because she was naked under the covers. She probably never gets cloth because it's to much work. So it's easier that she's just naked.

  • @TheRealfan1
    @TheRealfan1 6 місяців тому +269

    "I can't keep going on like this. I can't keep living like this." -When I got to 315 lbs., I realize I need to lose weight. Got down to 268 lbs from summer time.

    • @nerdzombiegoddess3407
      @nerdzombiegoddess3407 6 місяців тому +22

      I felt that way at 265. I can’t imagine getting to 750 lbs.

    • @lydiaj7492
      @lydiaj7492 6 місяців тому +22

      That's AMAZING!! That took so much determination and work, and YOU did all that. Keep going!

    • @beverleymatthews5624
      @beverleymatthews5624 6 місяців тому +18

      Sean, first I love watching you. You're wise beyond your years.
      My weight was almost 400 lbs at one point. I learned through therapy that women who are raped or molested subconsciously gain weight because in their mind, they think if they're big and unattractive, men won't be attracted to them and they won't get raped or molested again.
      You've come a long way. I saw a video the other day and actually didn't recognize you. That's great you've come so far in your weight loss journey 😊😊😊

    • @briskettacos
      @briskettacos 6 місяців тому +8

      Great job, man!

    • @baddie1shoe
      @baddie1shoe 6 місяців тому +10

      What a super good job!! Congratulations! I’m very similar-I got to 326 (for the second time in my life getting that high and losing weight) I am now around 260? Not sure. I’ve been taking Ozempic and it’s helped.
      It makes such a huge difference in mobility-right?
      I was broken down. Lost my 18 y/o daughter in ‘21, my mom in ‘22, and I had uterine cancer in early ‘23. At that point I decided it was time to face the scale and I started watching this channel. I look so much healthier.
      I want to lose more but I do what I can because I’ve been through it. I try to stay under 1200 every day.

  • @RachelWilson-l3n
    @RachelWilson-l3n 4 місяці тому +67

    Mumma and Margaret remind me of the relationship between Gypsy Rose Blanchard and her Mumma was. .Even the way Mumma talks and acts!

  • @YSong411
    @YSong411 6 місяців тому +233

    Also, nurse here, those blue handles I’ve only seen on bariatric beds and those are called “line organizers” to keep all the cables and cords the patients might need. But I’m gonna start calling them shuffle board handles from now on lol

    • @bonnieweeks7601
      @bonnieweeks7601 6 місяців тому +18

      I'm retired after 30+ years as a hospital RN. It's really important to keep a sense of humor. I love it. I always made some kind of sound effect during shots or pulling bandages off. Take care of yourself. You know how that goes.

    • @ylenagreen4084
      @ylenagreen4084 6 місяців тому +10

      @@bonnieweeks7601long term patient here, mum was a nurse. I call my CVC line my bewb tewb 😂 one of a billion ridiculous names/short hand phrases for the medical equipment that’s slowly invaded our lives 😂

    • @kriegmarshal
      @kriegmarshal 6 місяців тому +14

      Doctor here, this is correct, cable/chord management. I’m definitely going to suggest an official name of “shuffle board handles” given to these

    • @alex-qd6of
      @alex-qd6of 6 місяців тому +13

      ​@@ylenagreen4084dialysis patient... I call the socks that prevent fluid from accumulating in my lower legs, squeegee socks.

    • @ylenagreen4084
      @ylenagreen4084 6 місяців тому +6

      @@alex-qd6of oooh I’ve got them too! I used to have a abdominal compression sleeve and we called it my human sausage sheath 😆 but I’m stealing squeegee socks 😂

  • @boosqueezy2418
    @boosqueezy2418 6 місяців тому +442

    “love does not equal lasagna” 😂 sean quotable

    • @Seanofsteel
      @Seanofsteel  6 місяців тому +58

      Lasagna is good though 😂

    • @jaxbutterfly9186
      @jaxbutterfly9186 6 місяців тому +7

      ​@@Seanofsteelit sure is...70 in Hawaii 🌴🌺

    • @stephenthomas1492
      @stephenthomas1492 6 місяців тому +3

      Stouffer's doesn't pull your strings. Lol. I'll tell ya, I really like those Stouffer's chicken breast and mash potatoes tv-dinners.

    • @zxyatiywariii8
      @zxyatiywariii8 6 місяців тому +4

      Oh yeah, I could devour a "family sized" pan of lasagna when I was obese, that stuff is delicious!

    • @babble2leeza
      @babble2leeza 6 місяців тому +4

      We need merch! Food does not equal love and Thats what she said quotes

  • @ShirleyCopeland-c2p
    @ShirleyCopeland-c2p 6 місяців тому +48

    If her mom is making her food then it makes me wonder if she is fixing her shakes wrong on purpose so she will gain weight. She acts all loving in front of the doctors then she is snotty when they are alone.

  • @Likeapigeon86
    @Likeapigeon86 6 місяців тому +144

    This woman was one of my most frustrating episodes to watch. She is just such an adult toddler. And her mother is a horrible enabler. Like way worse than most on the show

    • @ruthbashford3176
      @ruthbashford3176 6 місяців тому +8

      The worst woman on the show was Penny Saeger in my opinion.

    • @Seanofsteel
      @Seanofsteel  6 місяців тому +8

      I know I thought about just deleting the recording lol

  • @Gwenllian5762
    @Gwenllian5762 6 місяців тому +95

    I somehow get the feeling that Margaret truly doesn’t understand what went wrong. I don’t think Mum is to be trusted not to sabotage Margaret’s house efforts unbeknown to her.

    • @Ginamm13579
      @Ginamm13579 6 місяців тому +5

      I was thinking the same exact thing….

  • @monicahendricks8563
    @monicahendricks8563 5 місяців тому +38

    As a trained therapist myself I don’t think it is conducive for mom and daughter to be seen together to begin with. Mom is controlling the session and the daughter is not going to be able grow from therapy. Mom is in the way.

    • @MsButterflyJan1976
      @MsButterflyJan1976 28 днів тому

      That makes perfect sense and we can see that from this first session. They should have done individual sessions first then started family sessions.

  • @kinsley7777
    @kinsley7777 6 місяців тому +140

    I think Mom is overcompensating for the guilt she feels about being a sheeeet mom to Margaret years ago …
    annnnnd, Margaret is lapping it up because she feels that mom abandoned her as a child and I think she’s enjoying being a child to a mom who cares … just my 2 cents 😉

    • @brandicaudill8539
      @brandicaudill8539 6 місяців тому +10

      Yeah I totally agree with your whole analysis here.

    • @hildahilpert5018
      @hildahilpert5018 6 місяців тому +3

      Probably correct.Often just the average person has a better grasp of what,s going on and the under lying causes behind it than some shrinks

    • @kinsley7777
      @kinsley7777 6 місяців тому +7

      @@hildahilpert5018
      that could be because psych people go from HS to college and, for some, med school then into residential type jobs, etc. .. they don’t really have a grasp on real life imo …
      I think that if you want to know about human nature, ask a senior; preferably female … they know EVERYthing 😉

    • @myinfo9406
      @myinfo9406 6 місяців тому +3

      That’s what I thought too but more and more it started to feel more like a control issue. I think she kept her daughter this way as best she could so she had to rely on her. And Margaret felt she was doing everything she could to lose weight, which is very limited because of her difficulties with mobility, so it’s not like she was getting up and sneaking food, and that’s why I think her mom was messing with her portions a bit to keep her where she is. And she seemed mad that Dr. Paradise wanted to shift the bond they had, rather than sad about distance being put between them, which would be the more likely outcome for the narrative she wanted to portray.

    • @crystaltheo8494
      @crystaltheo8494 6 місяців тому +1

      What about the dad? 😂😂 was she over compensating with him?

  • @robinmartinez4070
    @robinmartinez4070 6 місяців тому +59

    That mom is toxic. I work in the hospital and I can tell you right now she’s the kind of patient’s family member who yells at us for doing our job.

  • @spikesgirl9371
    @spikesgirl9371 6 місяців тому +226

    My 30 year old son is my baby. I'd never, ever call him that to his face or to anyone else. It's my secret and I treat him like the grown ass man that he is. That's what mom's who truly love their children do.

    • @Chapterhouse86
      @Chapterhouse86 6 місяців тому +20

      *Woop woop* Good Mom alert! Haha! Great comment.

    • @ohmyjesselyn
      @ohmyjesselyn 6 місяців тому +20

      Yes! It’s still our job as a parents to make sure our kids become positive, functional people in society, even if they’re our baby!

    • @dianebays5484
      @dianebays5484 6 місяців тому +5

      Amen! Me too only my son is 40. It doesn't change when they get older. He'll tell people he's a mamas boy and proud of it.

    • @lifeofatruckerswife
      @lifeofatruckerswife 6 місяців тому +3

      Same for both my kids... My son struggles with his weight.... but I'll be damned if anyone.... literally ANYONE talks badly about him...same for my daughter...my half sister called her a bitch once.... that was the first and last time anyone called my girl out her name....no one has the right to talk to or about my babies like that (my daughter is 21, and my son 17)

    • @PatsyStone8
      @PatsyStone8 5 місяців тому +5

      My mom is 91 & still reminds me ( doesn’t call me), I’m her baby!

  • @lwscijunkie
    @lwscijunkie 6 місяців тому +103

    I know, for a fact, that there is no way I could lift over 700 lbs with my legs. The fact that Margaret can, if not for long, is actually kind of amazing.

    • @tiana4102
      @tiana4102 6 місяців тому +7

      She should take up strength training when she loses some weight, she has a head start atleast.

    • @ButteredToast32
      @ButteredToast32 4 місяці тому +2

      Most of the people I’ve seen on this show that are her size are immobile and bedridden. It’s crazy she can still walk.

  • @elizabethprater-hughett8021
    @elizabethprater-hughett8021 6 місяців тому +76

    Why is she completely nude during the physical therapy assessment? As an RN, this is so degrading and disrespectful to the patient. And, totally unnecessary for a PT evaluation.

    • @joannegregory3024
      @joannegregory3024 6 місяців тому +9

      Agreed 😢

    • @MimiRAM0NE
      @MimiRAM0NE 4 місяці тому +17

      Margaret seemed to be using nudity to try to make people uncomfortable enough to leave/ punish them for being there. She did not want the physical therapists there and was trying to sabotage the appointment. She did the same after she got angry at Dr. Paradise and started flashing her nethers and refusing to stay covered.
      She likely refused to be covered for PT. I think they were trying to get the assessment done because it was for an urgent surgery. We didn't see the whole appointment. I don't think they were unprofessional at all, just doing their best.

    • @sheilagalvin9342
      @sheilagalvin9342 3 місяці тому

      This is a scripted tv show so the more shots of her nude and looking like a bloated human maggot the more she gets paid and the better they like it. The fact is you can't give a 700lb baby dignity if you tried.

    • @dreaaa810
      @dreaaa810 3 місяці тому +2

      Even though I go to pelvic physical therapy and sometimes do my spine, I was STILL covered no matter. It boogles me that she is just there naked in front of her PT, no sheet or towel just there. If I was regular PT and see this...not too for sure if I will be able to work with them unless they covered themselves.

    • @bettyjean740
      @bettyjean740 Місяць тому

      It is strange. I believe it reflects how completely disconnected she is from her body. With how huge it is, she hasnt been able to even see her breasts or below for decades likely. Something in the brain/ reward system is disconnected as well I think that is why these obese people never feel "full" I wonder what their brainscans look like. My dad passed from dementia and that was one of the early signs..he couldnt get full feeling at a buffet. He wasnt overwt though. The other common dynamic Im seeing is the child gets disability for their wt, the parent begins caring and living off their disability. So the parent has a vested interest in keeping the child disabled!. Telling her she's a baby and keeping her dependent instead of promoting her independence is so toxic and sick.​@@dreaaa810

  • @micheleerwin2848
    @micheleerwin2848 6 місяців тому +153

    They will need to send 2 people from home health to help her bathe. One person will not be able to turn her over and bathe her. It's a hazard to anyone to try to turn 750 pounds.

    • @ChristiColonel
      @ChristiColonel 6 місяців тому +4

      That is my nightmare. I ain't fat, but it still is terrifying.

    • @crazeet9614
      @crazeet9614 6 місяців тому +11

      I am so totally not in that field cuz I could never do it but I think you guys need to be paid more than football players. Not kidding at all

    • @zxyatiywariii8
      @zxyatiywariii8 6 місяців тому +13

      More than two, I would think? That could destroy someone's back!

    • @PrettyGhostX
      @PrettyGhostX 6 місяців тому +19

      2?! We had a obese patient who weighed about 550-600p, and we had to be at least 4 people to do any care of that patient. It's so hard to pull and lift such a huge person. And as soon you do anything, they cry and that it hurt, and upon that, they want you to take it slow. Like you can lift that huge person slowly and just hold their weight like nothing. It's absolutely crazy.

  • @DiscoJamLore-
    @DiscoJamLore- 2 місяці тому +10

    “playin like you don’t know what’s goin on??” I love when Dr Now’s Texan comes out 🤣

  • @aubnwa01
    @aubnwa01 6 місяців тому +91

    Her mom has infantilized her to the point she acts like a 3 year old.

    • @ERMACHANEY-h4l
      @ERMACHANEY-h4l 3 місяці тому +2

      I DON'T THINK WE SHOOD BLAME HER MOTHER,SHE COULD HAVE CHOSE ANYTHING BUT FOOD,THAT DOSEN'T HURT ANYONE BUT HER,I WOYLD HAVE GOTTEN A JOB AND GOTTEN THE HELL OUT OF THERE.FOOD TRAPS YOU ,WHERE YOUR AT ,YOU ARE STUCK CAN'T WORK-KEAVE THE HOUSE, THIER ARE MANY ALTERNATIVES BESIDES FOOD!!

    • @dizziechef9502
      @dizziechef9502 3 місяці тому

      @@ERMACHANEY-h4l. children can blame parents but adults are responsible for themselves. Accountable for their own challenges.

    • @mikestarr6204
      @mikestarr6204 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@user-xc3fr1cw2p I think in order to get a job you need to know how to spell basic words.

    • @RobinLawurce
      @RobinLawurce 3 місяці тому +2

      Yeah, baby powder and all

  • @micheleerwin2848
    @micheleerwin2848 6 місяців тому +101

    I'm 67, am 5'5", and 248 pounds. My body is giving out on me. I've had 20 surgeries, and I am waiting to have both shoulders replaced. I have scoliosis, stenosis, and spondylitis in my lower back. I fear falling. I can get up, but I have to crawl to something sturdy in order to get up.
    A few months ago, I was outside and hit the tow hitch on my 4 runner. I hit the hard ground on my chest, and it was so painful to breathe or get in and out of bed. It really sucked.
    I am well aware of the fact that my surgeon will make me lose weight before he will replace my shoulders. I have begun to lose weight, but its hard. I'm not really a comfort eater. I'm more of a bored eater. I am home a lot and enjoy food. Chocolate is delightful, but I've given it up. At bedtime, I eat berries. I try to stay away from carbs.
    Sean, I am addicted to your videos. You are an inspiration to me and many others. I've learned a lot and I'm grateful to you.
    I had a crappy childhood. My father was a drunked abusive jerk. Instead of turning to food, I turned to drugs and alcohol. I've been clean since 1987, my 30th birthday.
    You can do this, people. Do it for yourself.

    • @patriciamurfitt4590
      @patriciamurfitt4590 6 місяців тому +16

      65 year old here😅 very similar situation 💙 We made it this far, will keep on truckin' 😅

    • @Weissguys6
      @Weissguys6 6 місяців тому +4

      God bless you, Michele! Never give up. You got this ❤.

    • @BOLOforJESUStheTRIBULTIONear
      @BOLOforJESUStheTRIBULTIONear 5 місяців тому +5

      I am small framed-I gained 60-70 lbs and upon waking my shoulders would started to kill me and any sudden arm movements-I shed about 20-30lbs and the shoulder pain disappeared!! Hold off on your surgery and shed some of that weight and it might go away on its own. Good luck & Blessings to you!!

    • @emilythompson3605
      @emilythompson3605 5 місяців тому

      Berries are full of sugar just like other fruits. That’s why fruits are forbidden on most workable diets.

    • @emilythompson3605
      @emilythompson3605 5 місяців тому +3

      I lost down to 109 pounds and have maintained it for 5 years. I only eat twice a day and only healthy food. I eat to live now, not live to eat. I will be 77 in a few weeks. It’s just a mindset you have to form. Just forget the eat everything on your plate, don’t waste food, and no “there are people in China that wish they had what’s on your plate”.

  • @loridoolaghty3453
    @loridoolaghty3453 6 місяців тому +38

    One thing i learned a few years ago is😊 NOBODY is coming to save you. At some point in time you have to do for yourself. I know personally this thinking has changed my life. I pick myself up, dust myself off, and try again. I dont mean to sound harsh. Its my reality and it worked for me. Love yourself. ❤

    • @TamisNomadicRVLife
      @TamisNomadicRVLife Місяць тому

      Well said, and it needs to be said way more often!
      Thank you

    • @Elizabeth-n3v2u
      @Elizabeth-n3v2u 29 днів тому +1

      This right here is the only positive takeaway from my abusive, neglectful childhood. Unfortunately it taught me to try to save everyone else, too, because that was the expectation. But I wouldn't have survived long without knowing nobody will do it for me.

    • @TamisNomadicRVLife
      @TamisNomadicRVLife 29 днів тому

      @@Elizabeth-n3v2u I have been doing and telling people this my whole life! You have to love and take care of you, or else you will fall hard. I too was an abused child in every area, I remember telling myself, wait till I am grown up!
      And then when you have children teach them the same thing! We have to take care of us, no one will do it for us! Be blessed you all!

  • @igray5311
    @igray5311 6 місяців тому +92

    OMG this girl is a toddler. Actually I've seen children act better than this. Sean as always you're great.

    • @annblachly8068
      @annblachly8068 4 місяці тому

      She didn't have time to be a child guided by a sane adult and never entered the work force to learn from her peers, so yes, he maturing was severely stunted.
      She was put back into babyhood and doesn't know any other way.
      Dr. Paradise was excellent to begin the separation and growth for Margaret and help the mother step back and get out of Margaret's learning that should have happened gradually 30 years earlier.

  • @oreng5791
    @oreng5791 6 місяців тому +88

    I'm very glad your mother gave you high confidence as a child, Sean. My father never said a single good thing about me and only picked out issues/called me names, etc. I can see how that has molded me into the person I am now, and I am just thankful for every parent out there who is good to their children.

    • @Seanofsteel
      @Seanofsteel  6 місяців тому +27

      She’s a good mom for sure. Also you’re beautiful and amazing don’t forget it.

    • @lifeofatruckerswife
      @lifeofatruckerswife 6 місяців тому +9

      I'm so very sorry you went through that as a child. My dad was a piece of work also when I was a kid... Raging alcoholic and all the things... Those words still hurt

    • @gohawks3571
      @gohawks3571 5 місяців тому +3

      ​@@lifeofatruckerswifeI'm so sorry 😞

    • @gohawks3571
      @gohawks3571 5 місяців тому +6

      I totally agree with you, I am always happy when I hear people had great parents ❤️ I didn't have that either...

    • @Lynda-vq5yl
      @Lynda-vq5yl 2 місяці тому +1

      I had awful parents, my father told me at seven years old that they never wanted me and were going to put me in a home, I came last in my mother's attention or affection. I hope people with great parents know how lucky they are and give thanks.

  • @asherdash12
    @asherdash12 6 місяців тому +31

    It's so crazy how the people on this show are so comfortable being naked with legs open in front of the whole town 😩. Even if I looked like Angelina Jolie I couldn't do that 😂

    • @desperanzza
      @desperanzza 4 місяці тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @Saftey1992
      @Saftey1992 4 місяці тому

      And in front of your mom! I would die. I don’t even wanna be in underwear infront of my mom as a grown women. I know she gave birth to me but like…. Vagina just out no thank you

  • @Bildgesmythe
    @Bildgesmythe 6 місяців тому +267

    I can't stand that mom.

    • @chocolatte522
      @chocolatte522 6 місяців тому

      One heck of a manipulator and gaslighter

    • @Seanofsteel
      @Seanofsteel  6 місяців тому +43

      She’s a bit of a hussy 😅

    • @momsorrell
      @momsorrell 6 місяців тому +26

      Margaret can be a bit mean and nasty herself too Not just mama. They deserve each other

    • @WobblesandBean
      @WobblesandBean 6 місяців тому +16

      ​@@momsorrell This. They're both just, awful people.

    • @BassGal92
      @BassGal92 6 місяців тому +12

      I'm actually triggered by the mom because my dad was like that with me (he backed off once I got diagnosed with autism and multiple anxiety disorders). I don't know if I can finish the episode.

  • @GradKat
    @GradKat 6 місяців тому +94

    Margaret needs to get away from her mom - but unfortunately this is impossible. I’d like to think she managed to turn things around, but it didn’t look too hopeful. 😢

    • @jb6712
      @jb6712 2 місяці тому

      As of the most recent info online (06/2024), Margaret does still live with her mother, but she has also lost 286 pounds, so is a more mobile 464 pounds now.

  • @dlamancha5697
    @dlamancha5697 2 місяці тому +9

    Um...if the mother is talking 7-8 hours on the phone, who the hell is WORKING AT HER JOB? That's an automatic firing in any job. This story is way crazy.

  • @onebourbononescotch
    @onebourbononescotch 6 місяців тому +150

    2 cups of Salad dressing 😮😮😮 that's 1000 calories right there. Who uses 2 cups of dressing?

    • @babble2leeza
      @babble2leeza 6 місяців тому +28

      I would just not eat. I'm terrible. I'm terminal, on prednisone and other rx that make me gain easily. I weigh 200. So now I have to be careful about what I eat because my digestion system has stop moving. I try to not eat anything solid. It comes down to truly fighting for each day. She needs to realize how serious her situation is. I miss eating but I enjoy my grandkids and pets more.

    • @mistyblue9610
      @mistyblue9610 6 місяців тому +14

      That HAS TO be a mistake 😅
      2 cups?! How much salad was she eating?!

    • @chocolatte522
      @chocolatte522 6 місяців тому +8

      ​@mistyblue9610 not excusing it but I'm hoping it's souffle cups and not an actual whole pint.

    • @Apryll.
      @Apryll. 6 місяців тому +11

      Do you think she got to be over 700lbs by eating proper portions

    • @lisastevens2431
      @lisastevens2431 6 місяців тому +5

      I, too, like a little salad with my dressing, but no way 2 cups worth! That would make it a sloppy mess!

  • @kimberlyelliott7933
    @kimberlyelliott7933 6 місяців тому +26

    Sean, I've lost 35 lbs since October thanks to you! ❤
    Only 5-10 more to go!
    Thank you for all of your great advice!
    You rock 🎉

  • @sandydee8148
    @sandydee8148 6 місяців тому +8

    As a mom to a 23yo whose getting his Masters in Clinical Psychology, seeing this so - called mom treating Mags as a child, just grinds my gears! As much as I would want him to never leave home, I know, that's not how this works & I keep my crazy mom thoughts to myself ! I'm proud of what a good young man he's become & as hard as it is, selfishly for me, I DO have peace of mind knowing he's going to be OK! Treating your kids like babies is only hurting them. I hope Mags lost the weight & grows the hell up! 😅

  • @karensmurthwaite1485
    @karensmurthwaite1485 6 місяців тому +239

    Hi Sean from thirsk thanks for your videos I have cerebral palsy and depression and you help me loads I watch you every day

    • @Seanofsteel
      @Seanofsteel  6 місяців тому +69

      That’s very kind of you. Happy I can make you laugh. Love yourself, you have to see the beauty in the struggles too. ❤

    • @jenniferdaulby5519
      @jenniferdaulby5519 6 місяців тому +16

      Hi Karen, am thinking of you & best wishes from Australia 🇦🇺 ❤

    • @smugandsmarmy
      @smugandsmarmy 6 місяців тому +17

      Hey Karen - Sean definitely has a way of bringing some laughter into my day as well! Hope you’re well & ♥️ from Florida!

    • @ptsdsucks9069
      @ptsdsucks9069 6 місяців тому +22

      Hi Karen, my name is Karen too! Hi from West Virginia, USA. I struggle with depression too, so I can relate. I really enjoy Sean’s content too, his humor is great stress relief. God bless 🥰❤️🌸💕

    • @murlepeterson6028
      @murlepeterson6028 6 місяців тому +11

      Karen , may you have a beautiful day ! Yes! The positivity here is great along with Sean's funnie takes in life ! Best to you always from here in NY state. If you like check this area out . NASCAR at the Glen , finger lakes, town of Chemung rural NY on pa/ NY line. Ithaca / Cornell University. Elmira ,NY, mark Twain & the Langdon family.

  • @tiffanylewis7633
    @tiffanylewis7633 6 місяців тому +37

    Her whole family is toxic 😮..I don't like her mother at all 😒

  • @Juli-sq4un
    @Juli-sq4un 6 місяців тому +30

    No way would I leave my kids alone for ANY amount of time!! She WANTED to leave her kids😡

  • @BlueGiraffes01
    @BlueGiraffes01 6 місяців тому +52

    The way she talks about “momma” and the way she talks about herself saying she’s been a good girl..
    ewww
    Just eww

    • @Weissguys6
      @Weissguys6 6 місяців тому +17

      I caught this too! And her mom uses “we” like she’s talking to a toddler. I agree, ewwww.

    • @maryamdear2122
      @maryamdear2122 6 місяців тому

      it is giving me major major heebie jeebies, and her mother plays into it as well. Idk which came first, probably the mom infantilizing her? but that good girl stuff made me lose my appetite

  • @ion4mar455
    @ion4mar455 6 місяців тому +134

    Good morning Sean and SOS CREW!!! Hope all is well with everyone and their journey. Let’s see what’s going on today!! 😊

    • @Seanofsteel
      @Seanofsteel  6 місяців тому +19

      Good morning 😊 hope you have an amazing day.

    • @Professionalasshole
      @Professionalasshole 6 місяців тому

      I found out yesterday I might have TB or pneumonia. It's the cough that's killing me. I have 4 days to go before I'll know anything. But your face, and smile always brighten my day! Thanks Sean!! ❤️ from, Ohio!!

    • @nincure
      @nincure 6 місяців тому

      ​@@SeanofsteelHey Sean, I love your commentary on these shows! Especially My 600lb Life. You're hilarious, I love your sense of humor! And I'm so proud of you for losing the weight!!! I think you'd be awesome to hang out with, if you ever find yourself in Dallas, it would be awesome to hang out! 😂😂😂
      Hope you're having a good day and rest of the week. I have been feeling shîtty today, but I'm glad you uploaded a video! It'll take my mind off of the crap in my head!!
      Take care man, keep up the good work! Congrats on your 100k subs!! (It took me forever to even get from 800 something to 1k after they changed the monetization rules!)
      If you're interested, my channel is all live music videos. I go to a lot of concerts and I video record all of them. The whole show. I have over 1k videos, so there might be something from a band you like! I don't really know what your music taste is though. 😂😂😂
      Seriously though, keep up the good work!! Much love dude!! You're absolutely one of my favorite UA-camrs! 💚🫶🏻

    • @369blueneptune
      @369blueneptune 6 місяців тому +2

      👋 Good morning! ☀

    • @nincure
      @nincure 6 місяців тому

      ​@@SeanofsteelI wrote a whole comment that seems to have disappeared. Anyway, I appreciate you Sean, you're awesome, and I think you'd be awesome to hang out with!! If you ever come to Dallas, I'd love to hang out! 😂😂 You're doing an awesome job with your weight loss. I know you don't know me but I'm super proud of you!! Congrats on the 100k subs! I'll never get to that point on my channel 😂😂😂 if you want to check it out, it's all videos of concerts that I've filmed. Mostly full concerts. I have over 1k videos, so there might be a band or two that you might like!
      Hope you have a great rest of the week and weekend! Much love, take care. And thanks for the video today, I was kinda depressed, so this is taking my mind off of that! So thank you again for making these videos. Even though I've seen every episode of this show, but I love rewatching with your commentary, it's great! Your sense of humor is awesome too. I crack up every time you say "that's what she said", among other things you say that are hilarious!!!
      Can't wait for more videos! Hugs! 🤗

  • @brightballoon
    @brightballoon 6 місяців тому +22

    Why the mom looks pissed off when she's not: She clearly has tooth loss which changes the face markedly, causing downturning of the ends of the mouth, the chin pokes out more sharply (kind of mimicking an expression of defiance), the nose becomes more beak-like. It can create quite a scowl. The solution is dental implants, to prevent further bone loss. Dentures can help the immediate appearance issues, but actually accelerates the bone loss caused by not having any teeth. You can see facial change progressions on UA-cam from tooth loss.
    Sean, you're so clever to have gotten this little niche in the UA-cam world that you have. 70K views 3 days after you post, and there are some ppl out there who set up the most elaborate things for UA-cam and still don't get the views you do. I think I've seen all these episodes, and yet I still so enjoy 'watching with you.' (And it always motivates me unexpectedly, too. I don't struggle at all w/ weight issues, but I have addiction issues of another kind, and I love your message.)

    • @annblachly8068
      @annblachly8068 4 місяці тому

      As Margaret was losing weight you could see she will resemble her mother's mouth and chin features.

  • @DaylanTheAngrySauerkraut
    @DaylanTheAngrySauerkraut 6 місяців тому +248

    That mother is an aggressive, overbearing cow. Feeder absolutely

    • @ValerieJean-fo6lc
      @ValerieJean-fo6lc 6 місяців тому +34

      I totally agree. Margaret is also the most immature crybaby in the series....she cries constantly.

    • @hungrylittlebean
      @hungrylittlebean 6 місяців тому +21

      The mom is utterly annoying.

    • @ItsBunnyBuns
      @ItsBunnyBuns 6 місяців тому +10

      Agreed with everything you said.

    • @DontTouchMyDolly
      @DontTouchMyDolly 6 місяців тому +6

      Their voices are almost identical

    • @ptsdsucks9069
      @ptsdsucks9069 6 місяців тому +17

      Definitely Munchousen by Proxy vibes for sure.

  • @jt8572
    @jt8572 6 місяців тому +74

    "What she ate a gallon of honey mustard?" I love Dr Now so much 😂

  • @Sn-zo2jj
    @Sn-zo2jj 6 місяців тому +91

    Dr. Paradise really had to work for his money this episode

  • @Jazzy.girl.Sarah2023
    @Jazzy.girl.Sarah2023 6 місяців тому +5

    I appreciate your message and your calm & humorous approach to these episodes.
    As a person who is also struggling i think it helps me kerp my focus. I definitely want to watch all episodes with your commentary!

  • @WillParkforcheese
    @WillParkforcheese 6 місяців тому +54

    Thanks for posting! You’re making my OCD symptom relapse a lot more tolerable. You’re hilarious and the show helps me gain perspective on how good I have it. It’s a win win

    • @Seanofsteel
      @Seanofsteel  6 місяців тому +14

      It definitely helps to look at your own life more favorably.

    • @jessicavoyles8935
      @jessicavoyles8935 6 місяців тому +5

      @WillParkforcheese you're not alone 🖤 & I watch SOS for the same reasons!

    • @littleboots7950
      @littleboots7950 6 місяців тому +1

      same, friends.

  • @crystalmagill9353
    @crystalmagill9353 6 місяців тому +25

    Wow Dr paradise has his work cut out for him. My god this is horrible. I would never do this to my children. She is a sick sick person.

  • @kathykay6602
    @kathykay6602 3 місяці тому +10

    The mother should not be present at her therapy. Its a very toxic mother and daughter relationship.

  • @_BigEllie
    @_BigEllie 6 місяців тому +48

    immediately paused at “my daddy ate up all the food” 😭😭 girl what?

    • @darlam3917
      @darlam3917 2 місяці тому +4

      Yeah, how was she over 100 pounds at 6 years old if they were starving ?? The math isn’t matching with that statement. All her little kid pictures she looks healthy even plump to me definitely far from starving . Unless she felt that only one full plate of food wasn’t enough so her young brain thought she was starving…

  • @8B8B8B88
    @8B8B8B88 6 місяців тому +39

    There are 4,448 calories in 2 cups of honey mustard
    *Tablespoons in a cup- 16
    *2 cups- 32
    *1 tablespoon of honey mustard in
    calories-139
    *139x32

    • @lilliechternacht79
      @lilliechternacht79 6 місяців тому

      No!!!

    • @blueStarKitt7924
      @blueStarKitt7924 6 місяців тому

      ​@@lilliechternacht79No?

    • @lilliechternacht79
      @lilliechternacht79 6 місяців тому +7

      @@blueStarKitt7924 It cannot be true! Who in their right mind would ingest 2 cups of dressing? :)

    • @blueStarKitt7924
      @blueStarKitt7924 6 місяців тому +3

      @@lilliechternacht79 Right. Hopefully!

    • @8B8B8B88
      @8B8B8B88 5 місяців тому

      @@lilliechternacht79 I TRULY do want to think she just meant those little cups

  • @participation_trophy_wife
    @participation_trophy_wife 6 місяців тому +8

    The way my heart melted when you said where your confidence comes from. As a mom that strives to tell my son how wonderful and important he is every chance I get, this helps me know that it can make a difference!

  • @chrissmith-no3bo
    @chrissmith-no3bo 6 місяців тому +31

    The one thing I hate more then a liar is crying liar.

  • @davidwaring6815
    @davidwaring6815 6 місяців тому +38

    "Are you ready to eat?" Something never needed to be asked on this show!

  • @carriehalsey2443
    @carriehalsey2443 3 місяці тому +13

    Her mother don't even let her speak for herself

  • @user56gghtf
    @user56gghtf 6 місяців тому +13

    Infantilization is when an adult is being treated like a child, even though nothing about their mental, physical, social, or intellectual wellbeing requires such treatment.This can happen in any relationship
    Excessive neediness: For example, constantly seeking affirmations, compliments, or attention.
    Constant contact: Always staying connected through text, phone, or social media.
    Downplaying someone's thoughts or accomplishments: Instead of expressing pride, they undermine the other person in order to make them feel less important.
    Questioning complex and simple decisions: Instead of accepting choices, the person will interrogate each choice, asking "Are you sure?," or even trying to make other suggestions.
    Gaslighting: Engaging in behaviors but then denying it to make a person question their reality.

    • @grenade8572
      @grenade8572 2 місяці тому

      My mom infantilizes me a lot (I'm mid 30s and live in my own home that I paid by myself !). Twice, I had t fight her physically about it, because she was doing things in my house she wasn't supposed to do and didn't want to stop. After a week without talking to each other (wich is normal: we're not in constant contact), she called me and invited to her home. She asked me if I was still mad, and I reminded her she stold me that she should have let me die in the crib. I know she didn't mean it (I almost died 3 times in my first year because of early birth and illnesses, and she was always there to take care of me), but she says awful things when someone contradicts her. She never apologizes and gaslights (it's really amazing she even recognizes having told me that she should have let me die in the crib, but still denies I'm hurt by it).
      So, for years, I've been low contact with her. We see each other once a week or so, but I must NEVER talk to her about my life because, apart that everything I say can be hold against me for YEARS, she questions (as you point in your list) everything i say or do, wich makes me really insecure.

  • @AltClev37
    @AltClev37 6 місяців тому +61

    Oh my god this woman is an absolute BABY!!!! What has her mother done to her???!!

    • @lilliechternacht79
      @lilliechternacht79 6 місяців тому +12

      I had shamefully neglectful and verbally & physically abusive parents, but I'm not running around bare-assed in front of a camera crew and therapists. Margaret decided that she wanted to regress to infancy, and I'm surprised Dr. Paradise was able to handle her so effectively.

    • @jb6712
      @jb6712 2 місяці тому

      Yes.

  • @marycoats6697
    @marycoats6697 6 місяців тому +55

    Margaret's mother is a piece of work. She likes to dominate the conversations; let your daughter be independent!

    • @angelmarie140
      @angelmarie140 4 місяці тому +1

      My sister does the same thing and was diagnosed as having narcissistic personality disorder by a state doctor

    • @ericrivera8410
      @ericrivera8410 3 місяці тому +1

      Sje got tv time so ahes making it all about her

    • @Lynda-vq5yl
      @Lynda-vq5yl 2 місяці тому

      Yes, I felt sorry for her at first, but oh my god! she smothers her.

  • @WandaG.Ratcliffe
    @WandaG.Ratcliffe 21 день тому +1

    You are so correct Sean,...at the end of our lives all we have left is the memories we leave the world ..I would like to leave the good seed of kindness,thoughtfulness,to touch the heart of any stranger on the streets as well as family and friends.

  • @kathleenroberts6931
    @kathleenroberts6931 6 місяців тому +27

    "You've got to be your own hero" 😊 Another Seanism, that I love. I always like & share, & being your own hero is excellent 😊 Thanks, Sean ❤

    • @Seanofsteel
      @Seanofsteel  6 місяців тому +4

      Thanks 😊

    • @kristopherguilbault5428
      @kristopherguilbault5428 6 місяців тому

      ​@@Seanofsteel"The only hole you can't dig yourself out of is the grave!!". My favorite :D

    • @jb6712
      @jb6712 2 місяці тому

      Actually, that saying has been around a very long time. I'm almost 72 and very clearly remember my severely injured 30 year old father telling my mother when he had to relearn to do basic things on his own, that he "had to be his own hero because there wasn't another coming along." And Dad had heard that from his own father, so it's at least 120 years old.

  • @monkeynumbernine
    @monkeynumbernine 6 місяців тому +89

    Ugh-
    I'm 30 pounds overweight at 155 and it is hard on my joints.
    I can't imagine what kind of misery these people are going through.

    • @Seanofsteel
      @Seanofsteel  6 місяців тому +41

      Please 155 you probably look great. Look yourself in the mirror every morning and tell yourself damn I look good. Thats what I do 😂

    • @LadyTsuki
      @LadyTsuki 6 місяців тому +8

      Yeah, I'm about 150-160 (not sure exact weight) but I'm also 4'6" so it looks worse than it may sound. I'm trying to lose weight. I don't eat a lot, but the little I do eat isn't great and I drink sugary things. Trying to give those up has been hard. I'm trying to find substitutes. I also have severe fibromyalgia and scoliosis, so that hurts my joints. I want to lose weight to make it so my joint pain isn't as bad since both conditions get worse with age. Looking better would be nice, but it's mostly for the pain. But yeah, if our joints hurt with our excess weight, imagine being THAT heavy. Ugh, seems like hell.

    • @pamelamorrisonn
      @pamelamorrisonn 6 місяців тому +7

      @@LadyTsuki Fibromyalgia is constant terrible. I can barely walk few times a week. Can't imagine having scoliosis too. You are definately a trooper. Dr will only give me gabapentin but they only make me drowsy so I don't take them..

    • @LadyTsuki
      @LadyTsuki 6 місяців тому +2

      @@pamelamorrisonn Yeah, it is quite difficult. I walk around my apartment but it can be hard and I hold on to things a lot during bad days. My scoliosis is also very severe and my fibro is the whole body variant. So I admit it's not a fun time. I do have some pain meds, but they keep getting lowered dose-wise cause of the reaction to the crisis with such medication. I feel bad you can't take gabapentin. I can see why it'd make you too sleepy. I never had that effect. It just didn't work for me very well. Annoyingly, my tolerance to things is ungodly high.
      All we can do is try our best and keep our spirits up... easier said than done but we can try. ^^

    • @monkeynumbernine
      @monkeynumbernine 6 місяців тому +4

      @@Seanofsteel 😃❤️
      Thanks so much, I appreciate you for telling me that 🎉

  • @donnachatterton6298
    @donnachatterton6298 4 місяці тому +8

    It’s amazing she doesn’t choke on the huge amount of food she eats while lying down.

    • @valkyriesshield
      @valkyriesshield 15 днів тому

      Same. Eating lying down and shoving as much as possible in their mouths.

  • @stiffk666
    @stiffk666 6 місяців тому +48

    Imagine the smells Dr Now has had to be professional through. Then go and eat his lunch.

    • @brandicaudill8539
      @brandicaudill8539 6 місяців тому +8

      When Steven Assanti was on there and Dr. Now said people were in the waiting room throwing up from his smell. Well he lifted his stomach up and underneath it looked like someone had spread mayonnaise in the fold. I have a strong stomach but seeing that made me sick as my stomach.

    • @8B8B8B88
      @8B8B8B88 6 місяців тому +9

      He mentioned her hygiene every visit

    • @scullyofficer1248
      @scullyofficer1248 4 місяці тому

      😝 😝 😝

    • @Saftey1992
      @Saftey1992 4 місяці тому +1

      @@brandicaudill8539I think about this way more than I’d like too…. 🤮

    • @RobinLawurce
      @RobinLawurce 3 місяці тому +1

      😂😂that's what I keep thinking all throughout watching these

  • @Nicholas_Brunette
    @Nicholas_Brunette 6 місяців тому +37

    I think this is the worst case Dr. Paradise has had to deal with.

  • @cathysmiley1938
    @cathysmiley1938 Місяць тому +2

    Sean, you are such an inspiration. I’ve been trying to lose weight. I’ve lost 50!lbs in the last year and I’m trying to lose 30 to 40 more pounds. Watching your show shows me in a very visceral way what can happen if you don’t get control. I have severe kidney issues. I pass kidney stones almost every day and my kidneys spasm a lot. This disease progressed until in 2002 I was passing stones daily. Moving while enduring such pain is difficult. But I am pressing myself to do as much as possible. Seeing what can become if I don’t have a healthy diet and exercise really inspires me to work harder. Thank you for sharing your own journey so openly. It is so brave.

  • @roh677
    @roh677 6 місяців тому +48

    "Love does not equal lasagna."
    I want that embroidered on a pillow.😂

    • @missliss1571
      @missliss1571 6 місяців тому

      Close... now-weight-loss-journal-weight-loss?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=dr+now&ref=sr_gallery-5-35&pro=1&content_source=34520686d35ea876909e449bcff720b038dc8aff%253A1026097493&organic_search_click

    • @buzzzzzz69
      @buzzzzzz69 6 місяців тому +1

      Don't tell Garfield 🐈😅

  • @Theaddora
    @Theaddora 6 місяців тому +23

    Margaret was one of the most annoying patients of Dr. Now. Also, at age 35 she acted 10.

  • @Jillrussell-mj4yw
    @Jillrussell-mj4yw 6 місяців тому +4

    Thankyou Sean, you are such a kind and respectful man and I enjoy listening to you ❤

  • @brennboo
    @brennboo 6 місяців тому +32

    I feel like I’m alone here in not feeling that bad for Margaret. Mom is gross and so is she. She has no problem standing up for herself like the therapist said was “good.” All she does is whine and cry and plead her case.

    • @lilliechternacht79
      @lilliechternacht79 6 місяців тому +3

      I think that might be a bit unfair? I didn't see Margaret standing up to Dr. Now; instead, she cried and carried on to the point where it was painful to behold. I do think Dr. Paradise did a good job, which I know I wouldn't have been able to do.

    • @monicacarolina6480
      @monicacarolina6480 6 місяців тому +6

      same here. Margaret is pretty explosive, commanding and emotionally extreme unstable. How she barks at her mother, does not want to work for a while with PT and dr. Paradise. Mom is nuts too.

    • @kimac7852
      @kimac7852 Місяць тому +1

      @@lilliechternacht79 did you see her cursing at her mom, just for being asked to get up for the day? Cursing in Dr. Nows office and saying she's leaving when he said something she didn't like? Refusing PT? refusing Psychiatry appointments? Her mom didn't do those things, she did. Mom is an awful enabler, but I agree w/OP, ppl are weirdly ignoring Margarets' own actions, only blaming the mom when she clearly has a mouth & is actively participating in bad choices.

    • @lilliechternacht79
      @lilliechternacht79 Місяць тому +1

      @@kimac7852 It's complicated. :(

  • @clovis_the_spook
    @clovis_the_spook 6 місяців тому +22

    The mother definitely wants to keep her daughter dependent on her.

    • @armandinagarcia641
      @armandinagarcia641 2 місяці тому

      The mother just wants the government assistance that Margaret is getting. I imagine that she is also getting paid to be the caregiver. She sucks at being a mother and as a care giver as well. They also need to get rid of those nasty dogs. It disgusts me to see the dogs licking the bed where Margaret has her but on. I think that the dog is licking the poop that Margaret leaks onto the sheets

  • @vickycollins5259
    @vickycollins5259 6 місяців тому +8

    I’m a single mum if 3 amazing kids and I have definitely skipped meals so my kids had food and I would never put a man before my kids I don’t understand these people that don’t make there kids a major priority love u and vids Sean ❤

  • @kathy_beauty1955
    @kathy_beauty1955 6 місяців тому +75

    Margaret is so pretty when she smiles. Bless her heart, she has been so traumatized throughout her life. It's a doubt battle to overcome that and her weight!!

    • @ronneehoffman3337
      @ronneehoffman3337 6 місяців тому +6

      I noticed too, she does have a beautiful face

    • @rainbows9060
      @rainbows9060 6 місяців тому

      Yes she has a very beautiful face,it's so sad that she has missed out on dating falling in love and doing all the normal things a young woman should be doing,like going out with friends dancing and hanging out. Instead she has been confined to a bed bedsheet for clothes and having dogs smelling her crotch.its so sadly unfair. Such a pretty woman too.

    • @diane3304
      @diane3304 6 місяців тому

      Margaret is a manipulative liar in my opinion. A 35 year old toddler that loves to be a victim. She doesn't make sense at all. I don't believe her for one minute! She's so annoying!

  • @deborahholm824
    @deborahholm824 6 місяців тому +63

    That "salad" is ridiculous. That would feed me for a whole day.

    • @fabulousm659
      @fabulousm659 6 місяців тому +16

      With the 2 cups of dressing. That took me out.

    • @sydneysomer9958
      @sydneysomer9958 6 місяців тому +4

      Yes and the Mom has had the surgery. She KNOWS it was too much food but served it anyway!!!

  • @karenculpepper973
    @karenculpepper973 6 місяців тому +6

    This mom is why this girl is in the shape she is in. This girl is spoiled and has been given everything she wants…even food.

  • @jenniferdaulby5519
    @jenniferdaulby5519 6 місяців тому +50

    Hi Sean & SOS'ers, talking about 'goody bags' - I'm dealing with a stage IV Malignant Melanoma atm & got a goody bag from the Melanoma Institute here in Australia. It had some good stuff; sunblock, makeup with sunscreen, hat, long sleeved shirt, mug, stress ball, sunglasses, lip sunblock, anti-nausea gummies (for chemo), etc etc. It was like Christmas! Such a nice thing to get. Best wishes from Australia 🇦🇺 ❤

    • @simona_ab
      @simona_ab 6 місяців тому +11

      Best wishes from Italy, you can do it! ❤🎉

    • @patriciamurfitt4590
      @patriciamurfitt4590 6 місяців тому +10

      I pray that you kick Cancer's ass!!! 🥰

    • @jenniferdaulby5519
      @jenniferdaulby5519 6 місяців тому +8

      @@patriciamurfitt4590 Thanks Patricia, there's no doubt about it - I will! 😊 Best wishes from Australia 🇦🇺 ❤

    • @Mermare
      @Mermare 6 місяців тому +6

      Hugs from Arizona in the U.S. southwest.

    • @nancygalloway5341
      @nancygalloway5341 6 місяців тому +2

      Love. And prayers from ga ❤.

  • @InTheMindOfDavid
    @InTheMindOfDavid 6 місяців тому +37

    I’ve never heard someone dying from a blood clot in their lung being described as dying “very courageously” 😂 Someone jumping in front of a bullet to save someone, running back into a burning building to save children, jumping on a grenade to save the your comrades, dying in defiance of tyranny, dying to protect your family from a threat, those are courageous deaths. A blood clot in the lung is one of the most passive deaths a person can have. 😂 Can we please stop overstating the banality of just being alive as if that’s some heroic deed?

    • @elizabethprater-hughett8021
      @elizabethprater-hughett8021 6 місяців тому +15

      Yes, I thought she was going to say her aunt jumped in front of a speeding train to push a child out of the way or something like that. I don't think Margaret understands the definition of "courageous".

    • @laurenhedgpeth2289
      @laurenhedgpeth2289 6 місяців тому +5

      Thank you!! I was like died heroically?? Ummm think this chick doesn't understand the meaning of the word 🤔

  • @lindavanocker1841
    @lindavanocker1841 6 місяців тому +8

    Shes eating 5 years of food ahead of time ! Oh Dr Now ! You crack me up !! You always hit the nail on the head !!

  • @ptsdsucks9069
    @ptsdsucks9069 6 місяців тому +29

    Hi Sean from West Virginia. I’ve watched My 600 lb Life since it first started. Like you’ve said before, it’s fascinating how the fat is stored so differently for each person. It’s still shocking that a human body is able to expand like it does and carry that much weight. You would think most people would die of a heart attack long before.
    You’re hilarious and sharing your journey makes watching these shows very entertaining. I’m disabled from injuries and struggle with depression. I look forward to your videos and your wicked sense of humor. Keep it up! 👍🏼 😂🤗

    • @Seanofsteel
      @Seanofsteel  6 місяців тому +4

      You’re close by to me then in Frederick. Happy I can cheer you up. Tough times don’t last tough people do. Don’t ever forget that

    • @ptsdsucks9069
      @ptsdsucks9069 6 місяців тому +1

      @@Seanofsteel I actually grew up and spent most my life in Montgomery County, MD. Have friends in Urbana. Moved to Berkeley County WV 18 years ago. I saw in one of your videos that you’ve been to Hagerstown. I go there frequently.

  • @poptartnomore
    @poptartnomore 6 місяців тому +54

    ICU nurse here, it’s for organizing the cords that are attached to the patient so they aren’t as messy and tangled. Shuffleboard sounds way more fun though✨

    • @DarkbutNotsinister
      @DarkbutNotsinister 6 місяців тому +3

      I thought it was one of those “grabber” things.
      I would believe you, I was guessing.

    • @poptartnomore
      @poptartnomore 6 місяців тому +4

      That would be helpful in a way, but some patients might start swinging at us😅

    • @Seanofsteel
      @Seanofsteel  6 місяців тому +5

      Lmao I’m still gonna pretend it’s for shuffle board 😅

    • @TheBeautifulOne_Char
      @TheBeautifulOne_Char 6 місяців тому

      ​@@Seanofsteel I have been watching Your videos every single day, one of my favorite videos are the Steven Assanti ones 😂😂😂😂😩😩😩
      Keep the content coming 💯💯

    • @zxyatiywariii8
      @zxyatiywariii8 6 місяців тому

      I love the shuffleboard name! 😂

  • @GrannyJB
    @GrannyJB Місяць тому +2

    Sean, I have been watching all of your videos since I found you a couple of weeks ago. I love your commentary because you speak from experience. But, also, your great sarcasm and little funny comments make me feel so happy! You are so adorable. (I am a 72 year grandma, so I can say adorable to people even in their 50s!) 😂

  • @Shuronda-qx2xx
    @Shuronda-qx2xx 6 місяців тому +94

    That's a crazy thing about this show is the enablers are afraid to make the person mad but at the same time they can't even get out the bed and walk so what they going to do just sit there and be mad

    • @Seanofsteel
      @Seanofsteel  6 місяців тому +21

      Yeah I don’t really understand it. Some people will be people pleasers till they die.

    • @mintybadger6905
      @mintybadger6905 6 місяців тому +16

      My husband likes to dream up imaginary arguments with a cranky fat person. He’s forever yelling at the TV to “come chase me then!”

    • @Tella_as_it_is
      @Tella_as_it_is 6 місяців тому +4

      You just said what everyone else has always been thinking! Lol!

    • @ThimbleFox350
      @ThimbleFox350 6 місяців тому +5

      Yeah lol I'm always like okay let them be mad and you can just go outside and enjoy your day unbothered, why do they let that get to them?

    • @zxyatiywariii8
      @zxyatiywariii8 6 місяців тому +5

      Ikr, this is one of the things I never understand. If the enabler refused to give the person anything except healthy food, then the person would eventually have to eat that -- or nothing. They'd eventually eat it when they got hungry enough.

  • @LadyCaspar
    @LadyCaspar 6 місяців тому +44

    If I found out that my daughters felt less than the queens they are it would crush me! I try to uplift those girls every chance I get. It’s showing through my 17yo and what a smart and responsible young woman she’s turning into.

    • @Mermare
      @Mermare 6 місяців тому +7

      Anyone can have kids. It takes constant effort to be a good parent. ❤❤❤

    • @Seanofsteel
      @Seanofsteel  6 місяців тому +6

      That’s great make sure they know they are amazing beautiful young woman. You’re a great mom for doing that.

    • @LadyCaspar
      @LadyCaspar 6 місяців тому +3

      @@SeanofsteelI truly appreciate that.

    • @Scourge88Monastik14
      @Scourge88Monastik14 6 місяців тому

      They aren't queens they're NOTHING

    • @Anna.T.
      @Anna.T. 6 місяців тому

      @@Scourge88Monastik14Wtf

  • @e3jen153
    @e3jen153 6 місяців тому +6

    Totally agree, my baby is 27. Having said that, my job was to make her a functioning adult which is what I did. 😊😊

  • @weddingkim
    @weddingkim 6 місяців тому +30

    all these patients eat their food like they don't know when the next meal is coming, huge amounts on the fork and eaten at breakneck speed.

    • @PrettyGhostX
      @PrettyGhostX 6 місяців тому +6

      And they can eat it while laying down on their freaking backs. It's a special skill to lay down and eat

    • @deloreslate4028
      @deloreslate4028 5 місяців тому +2

      They eat like it’s their last supper before the death penalty being carried out.

  • @hungrylittlebean
    @hungrylittlebean 6 місяців тому +50

    I would not be able to handle Margaret crying constantly. 😮

    • @valkyriesshield
      @valkyriesshield 15 днів тому

      She does it on purpose to manipulate ppl.

  • @LazyVampireSS
    @LazyVampireSS 3 місяці тому +5

    I saw a comment somewhere else on this 700lb baby. " I can't believe she has her muff out in front of Dr Paradise" This echo's my own sentiments but why doesnt her mother tell her to cover herself. Margaret has lots of self pity, but NO shame.

  • @user-is7xs1mr9y
    @user-is7xs1mr9y 6 місяців тому +37

    Her mom REALLY freaks me out. I can't explain it.

    • @karen9041
      @karen9041 6 місяців тому +3

      i agree….something is off

    • @_stillborn
      @_stillborn 4 місяці тому

      Blanchard vibes. But somehow even more white trashy

  • @KATSUvo
    @KATSUvo 6 місяців тому +18

    The momma makes me uncomfortable, the baby talk and the lack of understanding, but the "I wanna help" attitude.

  • @eyeoftheleopardleopard8829
    @eyeoftheleopardleopard8829 3 місяці тому +6

    The snippet with Dr. Paradise shows just how skilled a therapist the guy is. He’s good. Mommy dearest has Muchausens by proxy. Keeping ppl sick so they need her is her schtick. The co-dependency she fosters and encourages is sickening. It’s called “enmeshment.”

    • @jb6712
      @jb6712 2 місяці тому +2

      You're probably correct in assessing that the female incubator exercises Munchausen by Proxy---she certainly seemed to want to keep Margaret in 'little child' mode and mentality, for whatever reason (MBP is a severe mental illness, and isn't anything to make fun of, so I'm not trying to be humorous about it).

  • @suzannejohnson9109
    @suzannejohnson9109 6 місяців тому +20

    Margaret is very emotionally immature.

    • @theneedyelf8867
      @theneedyelf8867 3 місяці тому +2

      Yeah, I am thinking intellectual disability or the result of trauma that left her emotionally the same as when the trauma occurred

  • @kisspurr
    @kisspurr 6 місяців тому +51

    Mama’s face has roads of a hard life

    • @PrettyGhostX
      @PrettyGhostX 6 місяців тому +6

      She probably hasn't gotten any teeth in her lower jaw, or are missing many of them

    • @monicacarolina6480
      @monicacarolina6480 6 місяців тому +6

      @@PrettyGhostX it's not just that. Not her jaw. Her skin, shadows around the eyes....yeah this woman had rough times

    • @juliesnider7840
      @juliesnider7840 6 місяців тому +1

      Yes

    • @_stillborn
      @_stillborn 4 місяці тому

      Love your pfp

    • @Serenitynow958
      @Serenitynow958 3 місяці тому

      She reminds me of the actress who plays “ Patty The Daytime Hooker”.

  • @karenjayne24
    @karenjayne24 2 місяці тому +6

    Of all of the people that have been on the show, she has had the most or one of the most devastating childhoods. She has had a lot to overcome. Mom already knew about the dangers of eating with her own bypass. She should never have enabled this weight gain. I still question her mother's motives about everything. The entire family is messed up.

  • @blakematthews892
    @blakematthews892 6 місяців тому +50

    My dad was a binge eater and it caused me and my sisters to all develop either BED or bulimia because we grew up knowing that anything that was good that was in the house would only last a day

    • @Seanofsteel
      @Seanofsteel  6 місяців тому +8

      I’m sorry that’s sad. But hopefully you are much stronger and happier today.

    • @blakematthews892
      @blakematthews892 6 місяців тому +7

      @@Seanofsteel Than you. I still struggle with bulimia but I am working toward healing

    • @Saftey1992
      @Saftey1992 4 місяці тому +2

      I’ve struggled with bulimia for 20 years and it’s torture. I have a lot of sympathy for these people because I understand food addiction. I’ve never been overweight, I have anorexia b/p sub type, but I can only imagine what it’s like to wear your addiction like a lead suit.
      I always hope the best for everyone on the show but sometimes the ones who just throw away this insane opportunity makes me angry.