7 here! Been through the whole not avoiding pain thing. I talked to a therapist and have started meditating to bring out emotion!!! Look into that - it's very helpful! Besides that, I force myself to spend time in my own head. Some days I have spend ten hours just thinking and that has really helped me to get to the bottom of who I am and why I am having the negative feelings I am experiencing. It was hard at first, but now I kind of enjoy spending time in my own head. I'm an extrovert, but I have nutured my introverted side to gain access to emotions. Hope that helped a little:)
@@sphendwandwe9232 7 here! Been through the whole not avoiding pain thing. I talked to a therapist and have started meditating to bring out emotion!!! Look into that - it's very helpful! Besides that, I force myself to spend time in my own head. Some days I have spend ten hours just thinking and that has really helped me to get to the bottom of who I am and why I am having the negative feelings I am experiencing. It was hard at first, but now I kind of enjoy spending time in my own head. I'm an extrovert, but I have nutured my introverted side to gain access to emotions. Hope that helped a little:)
I’m a 70 year old 7 and an ENFP. Thanks to my faith and efforts to slow down and listen I no longer am “hyper” about all the things. However, I still struggle with grief (blocking it out), and pain avoidance. You definitely nailed an unhealthy 7 (and even a semi-healthy one).
@@AbbeyHowe Lol I am. But you were head on in this video. I have this mindset that I need to stay joyful, so I numb my feelings other than happiness but it surely catches up with me later. It took a friend to tell me it's okay to not me happy all the time.
"Sevens like to share.." Lol sometimes too much 😂😂😂 Btw. I'm a 7 and I concur but since I'm leaning on 8 (7w8) I hate pity parties. That is one party I will never go to lol
I'm a 7 but this is completely one-dimensional. Sure, I'm sure I can be like that when I'm happy and want to share with anyone who will listen, but generally life has deflated much of that in my mid 40s and I'm a lot more neutral & even cautious in the way I come across. This makes 7's seem extremely flighty and surface-y. Not at all the case with most 7's who add depth, intellect and intuition to making the world of possibilities come to life. That said, I still love your content, energy, "stage presence" and have recently subscribed. I'm in a relationship with a 2 and those videos have really helped me understand him so thx:)
Kristin Hanson Can’t agree more with this. It makes all 7’s seem surface and flighty. However, people live in varying degrees of these habits. Some are high and others are lower. Most 7’s I know have incredible depth, intellect and intuition and definitely love the change of activity and adventure, yet are deep and insightful.
My dad is a 7w8, when he was younger he was super reckless got into fights and liked the adrenaline, he’d do impulsive things all the time and is very much my sister kind of 7 (though thinking she may be an 8- defo an ESTP) but now he’s matured a lot and slowed down, he has his hobbies he’s settled on after trying mostly everything, it was mostly becoming a dad I think, he’s so much more cautious now but what makes him a 7 is his positivity, his desire to be chill and happy and to help everyone else get through hard times. I’m also a 7 and get that from him- we are also both ENFP’s
I'm the same noticed alot of cues people sent me mostly losing friends growing up due to headstrong and blabbering nature. I Still have enthusiasm but with plenty introspection I've learned when to avoid expressing myself in most situations. Also my interests aren't mainstream by any means so that alone Anoys plenty of individuals.
I'm a 7. During hard lockdown (In South Africa) one night at around 3am my anxiety got so bad I was contemplating getting up, driving cross country and getting locked up (it was illegal to cross the provincial borders). I had this whole thing figured out - how fun jail would have been and how good the change of scenery would have been for me. Thank goodness for good friends and family.
This is hilarious. I’m a seven and can relate to all of these. My husband says I’m an “extreme.” I can’t do anything half way, like eating chocolate cake! 😂 also the FOMO! My husband said that’s why I really really really want to take advantage of the current audible deal. It’s SUCH a good deal!
Everything was hilariously relatable except the last one. I pretty much never feel like I got a bad lot in life. Refer back to the silver lining trait.
LMAO relate so much. Especially about burying negative emotions. I rationalise them so quickly and twist it into a positive that I don't realise it 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Uncommon fact: Us 7's aren't by nature afraid of negative feelings. We often deal with them head-on (We're in the aggressive stance meaning face situations/problems directly) Our weakness is gluttony, so we just believe a lie if I had more good things that will fix negative emotions. We're not running away from them because we're scared of them. We're trying to fix them the wrong way! Sidenote: What we're really afraid of (like she said) is boredom. We live for experiences (that's the gluttony). If you see a 7 suddenly become moody, they probably are just bored or feel stagnant in life. We'll blow up negative emotions when we're bord just so we can feel some kind of experience. Which shows my first point. We're not actually afraid of negative emotions.
How can I be a Sagittarius and a type 7, but an INFP??? I like to be in the house and I don't like people, but still don't like to be left out 😭 I'M A MESS 😭
As a 7 sometimes parodies make us too 'up', but this was rather spot on. I get excited over the tiniest things. I resent it when friends don't want to drive across the mountains and have a fun day in Seattle, because 'I need to see the water today and go to better restaurants,' but they are worried about the snow storm. Then I'm stuck at home and have to find a different way to occupy myself that involves responsibility. The gluttony issue is right on, I hate to feel like I'm missing out. Self-talk, 'I'm going on a diet tomorrow so this is my last day to get a croissant.' But then tomorrow comes and it's my last day to get an Egg McMuffin with extra cheese, and the next day, it's a brownie, and the next day it's a chocolate chip cookie. At one point I wondered if I had ADHD because I couldn't focus on one thing for long before I was onto the next thing I was excited about. It was freeing to discover this is because I'm a 7 and don't have adult ADHD!
Thanks for your perspective!! I agree that sometimes 7 parodies make 7s just an adult hyperactive child, but they are so much more than that! I also enjoyed your self-talk example about the diet... might use that example in future videos!! 💜
@@AbbeyHowe I showed your 4 video to my 4 husband, we had to keep pausing to laugh or evaluate on both of them. You were spot on at so many levels. As a 7 when he was in overly-melancholy I'd always try to cheer him up. Since I've discovered the enneagram, I see he's wired to be that way, so I feel freedom to leave him alone and let all the feels out. However it's very dangerous for a 4 to stay in their heads for too long because the woe is me led him to fall off the wagon of many years of sobriety. Pairing his constant yearning for the grass is greener, and my 7's adventurousness, has led us to some disastrous moves as well. On envy, within first 6 months of marriage his friend recorded an album and it was brilliant. But, oh the whining, 'I'll never be as good' and 'I wish I could do that,' it went on for months! Since learning the enneagram, he spots those things now and clips them before they get out of control.
@@Catsclawful ha! Too bad cupcakes aren't my thing. But I was at Seatac last night and stopped at 13 Coins. They have great fried icecream, hazelnut capaletta and french onion soup. :) Fave restaurant in the world however is in Seattle. Gorgeous George's Meditteranean Kitchen. Once you've had his hummous, and nazareth salad you can never go back.
#2 is spot on. I hurt my foot in the last 24 hours of our trip to Italy and told my husband I’d hobble around Rome if he could find me crutches. He found one crutch and I used it to spend our last day seeing the Colloseum, Roman Forum, Spanish Steps and Trevi Fountain. When we got to the airport, they wouldn’t let me get on the plane and instead sent me to an Italian hospital where i found out my foot was broken and later in the US they found part of my ankle bone was chipped off. But the thought of missing Rome (and my 7 husband missing it too) would have been more painful.
Type 7: getting very excited about ideas or plans (they will never actually put in reality). Me type 9: Listening deeply, getting super invested, going with their flow and idea, even thinking about it in my bed. Next time I meat up with the 7: the whole plan already changed, even turns out it never was a real plan and they just loved fantasizing about it. Me as type 9: Oh my god I wasted so much of my precious energy on this🤨😂
Woooooow. As a math teacher, I'm so hurt by that math test comment! Haha. What's funny is that the only 7 I know is ALSO a math teacher!! So, you know her class is fun!
This sounds very Sagittarian.. I am not a hyper 7. Love adventure and spontaneity but I am able to deal with the deeper things and boredom doesnt bother me. I live more in today than wishing for tomorrow. I think that is meant to be a 7 trait...
Me, a 7, watching this after waking up at 4 AM to finish an assignment so that I can go out with my friends tonight because I have massive FOMO, sometimes wondering if I have no emotions: 👁👄👁
Just getting in to this test and find that I have been a typical 7 my WHOLE young life. But there has been so much growth! So I'm 31 and finally okay with having nothing to do on a Friday night 😂😂but I fill my home life with constant hobbies and busyness
I thought I was a 5 for a very long time, definitely a 7. Those are all pretty spot on. I’m also an INFJ, quarantine was almost a blessing for me. But today it would drive me crazy, I was a bit younger back then.
As a 7, this is hilarious! Been working for a long time on personal development, Tai Chi has been an amazingly grounding and centering practice to keep me in a healthy balance!
You nailed it, and you're so funny! And I'm not being overly enthusiastic, I took notice of all the times that I giggled through your video (and you can count giggling as laughter because I hardly ever laugh with a video, giggling is the highest I go, and it is awesome!) and I compared those giggles to the average educative comedy that I watch, and you broke my gigglemeter! I have the theory that your jokes are funnier because they are true. :)
Oh my goodness, yes. I am a 7, and I NEVER miss an opportunity to go out and socialize. And I'm always trying new things and forgetting about other things I've started. When I'm bored I just open a useless app on my phone and waste time. Yeah, healthy 7's adopt traits from 1's and unhealthy 7's adopt traits from 4's.
I have literally taken math tests for fun before to avoid boredom, hahaha. I now understand why I feel so crazy when I'm bored. Luckily I have LOTS of hobbies I cycle through to avoid being bored at all costs.
damn all these are so true esp once u said the first one, i feel like i got attacked hshshshs i really am a chaos person sheesh how could someone could know my life but they lived from other side of world. enfp type 7 is the most uncontrollable person, proud of my family and friends could handle me so far. oh ye the boredom is indeed the most disliked thing by me. i still dont get why i choose and how i survived living in a hostel during highschool. no wonder im good at math and sciences, i literally did math just to avoid the boredom life of hostel...
The third one is so true. It’s like if we find out we are good at something, it may be like our new career, you know? We may actually make something of it. But then we dump a majority of it to the side.
I always wondered if ADHD is really just being a 7 / ESTP, but society isn't structured around us so it seems like we are "deficient", when really we are stuck in a society set up for type A ppl.
I never believed I was a 7 until I watched this...I am 29 switched majors 4 times. One point I wanted to "make it" as an basketball player. Took up guitar and piano, gave that up. Now I am pursuing a career in photography. super spiritual, every time I find something new I MUST share it. I terrible fomo, rather loose self that miss out on events. MY LIFE SUCKS, I HATE THIS VIDEO, I also love this video
I relate so hard to the boredom one! I hate being bored I go crazy doing anything I can think of yet depressed and unmotivated at the same time! It’s weird!
INFJ-A, personality 7, soul urge 3, life path 1, capricorn rising, scorpio moon, aquarius sun. I feel like I live in a space jet lost going 1000mph. but it works!!!
HAHA this is SO accurate!! I feel like I'm either extremely grateful and optimistic or the LITERAL opposite: pessimistic and thinking I was dealt the worst hand in the history of the earth...a bit dramatic hehe
I only just learned about the enneagram and I was really debating with myself if I was a 7 because I'm not always very enthusiastic about everything. Especially now that I have been depressed (and stressed) for a few years, I felt more like a 1 or 2 at certain points. But after seeing this video I can really see how I still have those small enthusiastic moments (even if they can annoy other people sometimes 😂) Watching this video made me feel very happy, cause the last year I really thought I was losing myself in my depressing but this just made me see that I still have those moments even if I have them less then before. Thank you for making this video 😊😊
i laughed so hard, thank you! Spot on!! As a 7 I had to chamge quite. a lot. Now I am teaching Yoga and Meditation..It brings me into the body, out of my head. still every now and then I act like all of the above 😃
It’s interesting for me that I was struggling to find my enneagram type for months of studying the topic and everything was falling apart. Today I finally put everything together and realized I’m a 7. Videos like that made it a lot harder for me to understand my type. I’m not a typical 7, I’m not running from my problems, I’m not focused on social events and I’m not afraid of boredom. But now I know I’m a 7. The reasons why I always get high score for 8 and 5 is because I’m a 7. The reason why I become obsessive and perfectionistic in stress is because I’m a 7. I know these videos are just for fun but they make a harmful and stereotypical picture that get in the way for actually understanding the enneagram
I’m a 7w (tho quite unhealthy) and ENFP 😂 it’s fun. But yeah I don’t deal with negative emotions or boredom at all. I use humour and blind optimism to not feel sad. Cause who wants to feel sad, and honestly that over positivity is my worst trait for me and everyone else, but like I don’t know how to not do it.
I'm type 7 and I laugh a lot, I'm in process of been more healthy finish my projects and feel the things around me, friends are helping me. And I totally see myself in this video, perfect kkkkkk
Guilty! Shelter at Home has not been a good look for me!! I am a 74 year old true "7", double Leo, extrovert. Need some fun and soon!!!! Employers loved me because I could tackle 12 projects at once. But, I always careful to choose 1's to work on my team to do all the details!!
I'm not 100% sure I'm type 7, only done one test so far but it seemed to resonate a lot with my life. In terms of all the negative traits I've had to come up with methodologies to counter all of these during my teen and adult years.
OMG, this is me!! i am 'the enthusiast, all the way! &, yes, i really DO talk like this. i say 'OMG!!" all the time & use ambersands constantly. YOU know what i mean--AMBERSANDS!!! they're the things that look like this "&" . . .
Yesterday I came down stairs and excitedly said "it's time for COFFEEEEE!!" Like I was singing. And my husband promptly asked "are you sure that's necessary??" I am a 7.
When I was younger and unhealthier... my 7 wing 8 was crazy making lol now 10 years on from first learning about me...I am more an 8 wing 7..or that's how I test now..interesting.. or maybe that's just how a healthy me is? ...I do know I need to start taking me time, it's been a busy busy year..
I'm a 4 who has been married to my 7 wife for 18 years. We have 5 kids. We have separated once. We are deeply in love and totally hurt each other at the same time. We are only now discovering our enneagram types. Thank you so much for your effort into this. This is funny and sad at the same time.
Thats why i dont really like when someone say, "im sorry for your loss" like dude its not even your fault why you say sorry? Chill, Im okay. Look, do i look like im sad??
Lmao that was literally me working from home every day 😭 i spend most of my day pacing around trying to find something to do & get about 30 minutes of work done lol
Share this with the 7️⃣ in your life! 🎉
Abbey Howe where is number 9️⃣??
Hi Morgan! 👋 Type 9 video should be up in March! 💜
Abbey Howe Thank you! ❤️☺️
In the test I took it said I was a 6w7 but I’m like in the middle of both broo😂
But I’m not super social😂
7’s in quarantine is literally hell on earth
i’ve cried every single day
cryspbacon same lol
yeah I literally would kill for a solution to this pandemic
Oh my gosh I know what you mean
Ian Cron says we have chewed our house down to the studs...
Can't tell if I'm a 7 or if I'm just struggling with my ADHD
for me its both...
You are not a seven. They don't worry about ADHD.
Same
Oh BABY ITS BOTH 💕💕💕
it's for sure both...
I’m a 7, and I’ve done A LOT of work to make sure I don’t avoid pain anymore.
Alyssa Orozco I’m a 7 and just started on this journey. It’s so hard!!! Any tips?
Yes same! Any tips on how to deal with pain?
7 here! Been through the whole not avoiding pain thing. I talked to a therapist and have started meditating to bring out emotion!!! Look into that - it's very helpful! Besides that, I force myself to spend time in my own head. Some days I have spend ten hours just thinking and that has really helped me to get to the bottom of who I am and why I am having the negative feelings I am experiencing. It was hard at first, but now I kind of enjoy spending time in my own head. I'm an extrovert, but I have nutured my introverted side to gain access to emotions. Hope that helped a little:)
@@sphendwandwe9232 7 here! Been through the whole not avoiding pain thing. I talked to a therapist and have started meditating to bring out emotion!!! Look into that - it's very helpful! Besides that, I force myself to spend time in my own head. Some days I have spend ten hours just thinking and that has really helped me to get to the bottom of who I am and why I am having the negative feelings I am experiencing. It was hard at first, but now I kind of enjoy spending time in my own head. I'm an extrovert, but I have nutured my introverted side to gain access to emotions. Hope that helped a little:)
You are my role model
I'm a seven type but an introvert. So, technically these things are all in my head and not coming out. XD
ugh YES!!!! 🤣🤣
Same here!
oMG SAME
SAME!
SAMEE
I’m a 70 year old 7 and an ENFP. Thanks to my faith and efforts to slow down and listen I no longer am “hyper” about all the things. However, I still struggle with grief (blocking it out), and pain avoidance. You definitely nailed an unhealthy 7 (and even a semi-healthy one).
I am the type 7 and I introduced all my friends with enneagram , definitely no coincidence there wow.
I'm 5 , I can't actually share enneagram with my friends without being afraid that they'll judge me. So I really do think you're quite amazing.
why is this me
I am Seven and a Sagittarius welcome to my LIFE 😆😭😆!
haha, loving this comment, Takyra!! You seem like a fun person! 💜
@@AbbeyHowe Lol I am. But you were head on in this video. I have this mindset that I need to stay joyful, so I numb my feelings other than happiness but it surely catches up with me later. It took a friend to tell me it's okay to not me happy all the time.
Me too !
Takyra Thomas sane!
Me too lmaoo im a sag and a 7w6 😭😭😭
"Sevens like to share.."
Lol sometimes too much 😂😂😂
Btw. I'm a 7 and I concur but since I'm leaning on 8 (7w8) I hate pity parties. That is one party I will never go to lol
@Demon Windu certainly
7w8 here too i also hate pity parties and when people play the victim card
I'm a 7 but this is completely one-dimensional. Sure, I'm sure I can be like that when I'm happy and want to share with anyone who will listen, but generally life has deflated much of that in my mid 40s and I'm a lot more neutral & even cautious in the way I come across. This makes 7's seem extremely flighty and surface-y. Not at all the case with most 7's who add depth, intellect and intuition to making the world of possibilities come to life. That said, I still love your content, energy, "stage presence" and have recently subscribed. I'm in a relationship with a 2 and those videos have really helped me understand him so thx:)
Kristin Hanson Can’t agree more with this. It makes all 7’s seem surface and flighty. However, people live in varying degrees of these habits. Some are high and others are lower. Most 7’s I know have incredible depth, intellect and intuition and definitely love the change of activity and adventure, yet are deep and insightful.
My dad is a 7w8, when he was younger he was super reckless got into fights and liked the adrenaline, he’d do impulsive things all the time and is very much my sister kind of 7 (though thinking she may be an 8- defo an ESTP) but now he’s matured a lot and slowed down, he has his hobbies he’s settled on after trying mostly everything, it was mostly becoming a dad I think, he’s so much more cautious now but what makes him a 7 is his positivity, his desire to be chill and happy and to help everyone else get through hard times.
I’m also a 7 and get that from him- we are also both ENFP’s
I'm the same noticed alot of cues people sent me mostly losing friends growing up due to headstrong and blabbering nature. I Still have enthusiasm but with plenty introspection I've learned when to avoid expressing myself in most situations. Also my interests aren't mainstream by any means so that alone Anoys plenty of individuals.
As a 7 I will say roller skating rinks are amazing and I would never miss out on that! ;)
roller skating rinks ARE amazing!!!
I'm a 7. During hard lockdown (In South Africa) one night at around 3am my anxiety got so bad I was contemplating getting up, driving cross country and getting locked up (it was illegal to cross the provincial borders). I had this whole thing figured out - how fun jail would have been and how good the change of scenery would have been for me.
Thank goodness for good friends and family.
This is hilarious. I’m a seven and can relate to all of these. My husband says I’m an “extreme.” I can’t do anything half way, like eating chocolate cake! 😂 also the FOMO! My husband said that’s why I really really really want to take advantage of the current audible deal. It’s SUCH a good deal!
😂 😂😂 this is golden. (but also can SO relate to the chocolate cake thing!!!! 🍰)
You're not a 7 just annoying
Everything was hilariously relatable except the last one. I pretty much never feel like I got a bad lot in life. Refer back to the silver lining trait.
Agree. I feel very blessed in my life.
Yes!! Glad it's not just me.
Well she did say unhealthy
Never crashed as a 7 ?? It doesn't always last long, but it's inevitable.
LMAO relate so much. Especially about burying negative emotions. I rationalise them so quickly and twist it into a positive that I don't realise it 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Uncommon fact: Us 7's aren't by nature afraid of negative feelings. We often deal with them head-on (We're in the aggressive stance meaning face situations/problems directly) Our weakness is gluttony, so we just believe a lie if I had more good things that will fix negative emotions. We're not running away from them because we're scared of them. We're trying to fix them the wrong way!
Sidenote: What we're really afraid of (like she said) is boredom. We live for experiences (that's the gluttony). If you see a 7 suddenly become moody, they probably are just bored or feel stagnant in life. We'll blow up negative emotions when we're bord just so we can feel some kind of experience. Which shows my first point. We're not actually afraid of negative emotions.
OMG this affirms my 7-ness, especially the part about painting/neglecting the new saxophone and the plans to work on the table.
How can I be a Sagittarius and a type 7, but an INFP??? I like to be in the house and I don't like people, but still don't like to be left out
😭 I'M A MESS 😭
My best friend is an ENFP, Sagittarius, type 7.. I am an INTJ, Capricorn, type 5. So um lol
Hourglass this is me (7) and my husband too! Except we are not the same signs. It rocks being married to an INTJ, they’re always my favorite people.
I’m an 7w8 ENFP and my best friend in the entire world is a 5w4 INTP. It’s an amazing friendship.
Currently live with a seven during quarantine and she's unraveling. Im a 9 and I've just been reading on our balcony.
As a 7 sometimes parodies make us too 'up', but this was rather spot on. I get excited over the tiniest things. I resent it when friends don't want to drive across the mountains and have a fun day in Seattle, because 'I need to see the water today and go to better restaurants,' but they are worried about the snow storm. Then I'm stuck at home and have to find a different way to occupy myself that involves responsibility. The gluttony issue is right on, I hate to feel like I'm missing out. Self-talk, 'I'm going on a diet tomorrow so this is my last day to get a croissant.' But then tomorrow comes and it's my last day to get an Egg McMuffin with extra cheese, and the next day, it's a brownie, and the next day it's a chocolate chip cookie. At one point I wondered if I had ADHD because I couldn't focus on one thing for long before I was onto the next thing I was excited about. It was freeing to discover this is because I'm a 7 and don't have adult ADHD!
Thanks for your perspective!! I agree that sometimes 7 parodies make 7s just an adult hyperactive child, but they are so much more than that! I also enjoyed your self-talk example about the diet... might use that example in future videos!! 💜
@@AbbeyHowe I showed your 4 video to my 4 husband, we had to keep pausing to laugh or evaluate on both of them. You were spot on at so many levels. As a 7 when he was in overly-melancholy I'd always try to cheer him up. Since I've discovered the enneagram, I see he's wired to be that way, so I feel freedom to leave him alone and let all the feels out. However it's very dangerous for a 4 to stay in their heads for too long because the woe is me led him to fall off the wagon of many years of sobriety. Pairing his constant yearning for the grass is greener, and my 7's adventurousness, has led us to some disastrous moves as well. On envy, within first 6 months of marriage his friend recorded an album and it was brilliant. But, oh the whining, 'I'll never be as good' and 'I wish I could do that,' it went on for months! Since learning the enneagram, he spots those things now and clips them before they get out of control.
No, really pls come visit us in Seattle- we need more 7s to offset the rain! We have amazing cupcake places :)
@@Catsclawful ha! Too bad cupcakes aren't my thing. But I was at Seatac last night and stopped at 13 Coins. They have great fried icecream, hazelnut capaletta and french onion soup. :) Fave restaurant in the world however is in Seattle. Gorgeous George's Meditteranean Kitchen. Once you've had his hummous, and nazareth salad you can never go back.
#2 is spot on. I hurt my foot in the last 24 hours of our trip to Italy and told my husband I’d hobble around Rome if he could find me crutches. He found one crutch and I used it to spend our last day seeing the Colloseum, Roman Forum, Spanish Steps and Trevi Fountain. When we got to the airport, they wouldn’t let me get on the plane and instead sent me to an Italian hospital where i found out my foot was broken and later in the US they found part of my ankle bone was chipped off. But the thought of missing Rome (and my 7 husband missing it too) would have been more painful.
I’m a enneagram 7 and Enfp I just found out about enneagram! ITS SO COOL!! I love mbti too
Like the Bear! He should have his own series.
Alan Novak he is quite the handsome bear 🐻
I can’t remember the last project I actually finished. Yay!
OMG THIS IS ME TOTALLY! IT REALLY MADE ME SHOCKED HOW SPOT ON THIS IS ME.
The silver lining bit certainly hit for me. I’ve had a habit of avoiding feeling sad at all (most) costs. Toxic positivity if you will.
I can't believe how accurate this was! Including singing that exact Rent song!
Type 7: getting very excited about ideas or plans (they will never actually put in reality). Me type 9: Listening deeply, getting super invested, going with their flow and idea, even thinking about it in my bed. Next time I meat up with the 7: the whole plan already changed, even turns out it never was a real plan and they just loved fantasizing about it. Me as type 9: Oh my god I wasted so much of my precious energy on this🤨😂
Woooooow. As a math teacher, I'm so hurt by that math test comment! Haha. What's funny is that the only 7 I know is ALSO a math teacher!! So, you know her class is fun!
you caught me. I've had bad experiences in math classes growing up... but I'm sure with a cool math teacher like you, it wouldn't be as painful!!
I am a 6 on eneagram, but when you showed 7 doing hundred things at once, but never finishing. It reminded of myself.
This sounds very Sagittarian.. I am not a hyper 7. Love adventure and spontaneity but I am able to deal with the deeper things and boredom doesnt bother me. I live more in today than wishing for tomorrow. I think that is meant to be a 7 trait...
I don't like how accurate this is
Me, a 7, watching this after waking up at 4 AM to finish an assignment so that I can go out with my friends tonight because I have massive FOMO, sometimes wondering if I have no emotions: 👁👄👁
Even in my own house that coffee table is still waiting to be built😂😂
Same - literally. Well it’s technically an end table - I bought it from LLBean like 5 years ago and still in the box LOLZ.
Just getting in to this test and find that I have been a typical 7 my WHOLE young life. But there has been so much growth! So I'm 31 and finally okay with having nothing to do on a Friday night 😂😂but I fill my home life with constant hobbies and busyness
I thought I was a 5 for a very long time, definitely a 7. Those are all pretty spot on. I’m also an INFJ, quarantine was almost a blessing for me. But today it would drive me crazy, I was a bit younger back then.
As a 7, this is hilarious! Been working for a long time on personal development, Tai Chi has been an amazingly grounding and centering practice to keep me in a healthy balance!
Oh wow I wish I had used Tai Chi in the video that I did about each type working out ... thanks for sharing Suz!
I'm a 7 and you got it sooo right!! You presented an accurate AND playful taste of who we are!!!
You nailed it, and you're so funny! And I'm not being overly enthusiastic, I took notice of all the times that I giggled through your video (and you can count giggling as laughter because I hardly ever laugh with a video, giggling is the highest I go, and it is awesome!) and I compared those giggles to the average educative comedy that I watch, and you broke my gigglemeter! I have the theory that your jokes are funnier because they are true. :)
I am a 7 and laughed through this entire video. It's so on target 😂
Oh my goodness, yes. I am a 7, and I NEVER miss an opportunity to go out and socialize.
And I'm always trying new things and forgetting about other things I've started.
When I'm bored I just open a useless app on my phone and waste time.
Yeah, healthy 7's adopt traits from 1's and unhealthy 7's adopt traits from 4's.
Spot on but I have learned to stabilize my mood and don't do the pity party thing. I do the fun avoidance things instead.
I have literally taken math tests for fun before to avoid boredom, hahaha. I now understand why I feel so crazy when I'm bored. Luckily I have LOTS of hobbies I cycle through to avoid being bored at all costs.
7 and Aquarius holy shit i am basically like if bubbles were human
My daughter is a 7 and you pegged her. Good job.
They resonated so much that i could hear the echo.
Yup. 7 here. Looking at a box of yarn I bought because apparently I was going to crochet during quarantine.
Just completed the enneagram test, I'm a 7 with balanced wings. Love the video! I've never been more seen!! LOL!!
I’m a 7w6 and I never get bored because I have so many ideas. Downside is that I struggle to finish any of them >.>
damn all these are so true esp once u said the first one, i feel like i got attacked hshshshs i really am a chaos person sheesh how could someone could know my life but they lived from other side of world. enfp type 7 is the most uncontrollable person, proud of my family and friends could handle me so far. oh ye the boredom is indeed the most disliked thing by me. i still dont get why i choose and how i survived living in a hostel during highschool. no wonder im good at math and sciences, i literally did math just to avoid the boredom life of hostel...
The third one is so true. It’s like if we find out we are good at something, it may be like our new career, you know? We may actually make something of it. But then we dump a majority of it to the side.
I always wondered if ADHD is really just being a 7 / ESTP, but society isn't structured around us so it seems like we are "deficient", when really we are stuck in a society set up for type A ppl.
This is so me lol I change jobs like every 3-6 months and usually have a different career choice every year sometimes quarterly.
This hit so home - much more than I am willing to admit
My 7 people! This is crazy accurate and I feel so connected. But you’re saying I have to connect with pain? Ick.
I never believed I was a 7 until I watched this...I am 29 switched majors 4 times. One point I wanted to "make it" as an basketball player. Took up guitar and piano, gave that up. Now I am pursuing a career in photography. super spiritual, every time I find something new I MUST share it. I terrible fomo, rather loose self that miss out on events.
MY LIFE SUCKS, I HATE THIS VIDEO, I also love this video
I relate so hard to the boredom one! I hate being bored I go crazy doing anything I can think of yet depressed and unmotivated at the same time! It’s weird!
INFJ-A, personality 7, soul urge 3, life path 1, capricorn rising, scorpio moon, aquarius sun. I feel like I live in a space jet lost going 1000mph. but it works!!!
I just came across your channel and as a 7 I was SO HERE for this! You nailed it! Great job & I will def be watching more of your channel :)
HAHA this is SO accurate!! I feel like I'm either extremely grateful and optimistic or the LITERAL opposite: pessimistic and thinking I was dealt the worst hand in the history of the earth...a bit dramatic hehe
Oh man that’s so all of me…you do such a good job!
Hahahahaha!!! When it got to the picture frame and going back to adjust it again I died 😂😂
I feel personally attacked!!! Hahahahaha!!! Spot on! We’re you filming me?! I love being a 7!
hahaha yes I was filming you!! 🤣
I only just learned about the enneagram and I was really debating with myself if I was a 7 because I'm not always very enthusiastic about everything. Especially now that I have been depressed (and stressed) for a few years, I felt more like a 1 or 2 at certain points. But after seeing this video I can really see how I still have those small enthusiastic moments (even if they can annoy other people sometimes 😂)
Watching this video made me feel very happy, cause the last year I really thought I was losing myself in my depressing but this just made me see that I still have those moments even if I have them less then before. Thank you for making this video 😊😊
i laughed so hard, thank you! Spot on!! As a 7 I had to chamge quite. a lot. Now I am teaching Yoga and Meditation..It brings me into the body, out of my head. still every now and then I act like all of the above 😃
It’s interesting for me that I was struggling to find my enneagram type for months of studying the topic and everything was falling apart. Today I finally put everything together and realized I’m a 7. Videos like that made it a lot harder for me to understand my type. I’m not a typical 7, I’m not running from my problems, I’m not focused on social events and I’m not afraid of boredom. But now I know I’m a 7. The reasons why I always get high score for 8 and 5 is because I’m a 7. The reason why I become obsessive and perfectionistic in stress is because I’m a 7. I know these videos are just for fun but they make a harmful and stereotypical picture that get in the way for actually understanding the enneagram
I’m a 7w (tho quite unhealthy) and ENFP 😂 it’s fun. But yeah I don’t deal with negative emotions or boredom at all. I use humour and blind optimism to not feel sad. Cause who wants to feel sad, and honestly that over positivity is my worst trait for me and everyone else, but like I don’t know how to not do it.
I’m a laid back 8w7 dating a 7. Omg we have so much fun ❤️❤️
It feels like you are following me around taking notes!!??? HOW did you get this so right!!
I'm type 7 and I laugh a lot, I'm in process of been more healthy finish my projects and feel the things around me, friends are helping me. And I totally see myself in this video, perfect kkkkkk
I'm Irish and live in Ireland so I don't know much about Kamala Harris, but her constant smile suggests she may be a Seven. Any ideas?
I have to say..... You nailed this one!
Thanks Brandon!
Guilty! Shelter at Home has not been a good look for me!! I am a 74 year old true "7", double Leo, extrovert. Need some fun and soon!!!! Employers loved me because I could tackle 12 projects at once. But, I always careful to choose 1's to work on my team to do all the details!!
I'm not 100% sure I'm type 7, only done one test so far but it seemed to resonate a lot with my life. In terms of all the negative traits I've had to come up with methodologies to counter all of these during my teen and adult years.
I'm not sure if I'm a 7 or not but no. 5 was 100% me last weekend! and no. 6 + 7 are totally me when I'm stressed !!!
OMG you have nailed every single one of my annoying things! Made me laugh! Gail 'The Enthusiast! thanks for making me laugh I needed it today x
OMG, this is me!! i am 'the enthusiast, all the way! &, yes, i really DO talk like this. i say 'OMG!!" all the time & use ambersands constantly. YOU know what i mean--AMBERSANDS!!! they're the things that look like this "&" . . .
Sevens: how could people find us annoying, we are delightful!
Other enneagrams playing the video for us: ...
Sevens: ahhhh I see it now 😆 lol
Yesterday I came down stairs and excitedly said "it's time for COFFEEEEE!!" Like I was singing. And my husband promptly asked "are you sure that's necessary??" I am a 7.
The way I found the enneagram is through a 7 too!!!
haha that's awesome Makynzie! what would we do without them?
My 7 and 8 have been years super close to each other. I think growing up made me 8w7.🤭 Oh and now there's 3 in the mix too.
I’m a seven and you described perfectly how I am xD
When I was younger and unhealthier... my 7 wing 8 was crazy making lol now 10 years on from first learning about me...I am more an 8 wing 7..or that's how I test now..interesting.. or maybe that's just how a healthy me is? ...I do know I need to start taking me time, it's been a busy busy year..
I'm a 4 who has been married to my 7 wife for 18 years. We have 5 kids. We have separated once. We are deeply in love and totally hurt each other at the same time.
We are only now discovering our enneagram types.
Thank you so much for your effort into this.
This is funny and sad at the same time.
Tried to go a day without face timing as a type seven and i was crying screaming and Breaking shit all at the same time
i really got summarized in a single video huh LMFAOOOO
Somehow it’s so true 😭😭😭😭 I’m took a test it came 7w6
It was so funny the thing in the minute 4, I am exactly like that when I am bored xD
This is perfect! Spot on, good job. 🤣
Thanks Niki! 💜
i’m an aries, type seven, and an enfp ✋
YES. I DESPISE BOREDOM. Gimme that math test
I'm a 4 (I'm watching this because a character I'm writing is a 7), but I relate to things 1, 3, and 7 on this list.
I'm gonna share this with my 7 wing.
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Thats why i dont really like when someone say, "im sorry for your loss" like dude its not even your fault why you say sorry? Chill, Im okay. Look, do i look like im sad??
I am a 5 and I NEED to be around 7's. They bring me out of my little annoying habits.
Lmao that was literally me working from home every day 😭 i spend most of my day pacing around trying to find something to do & get about 30 minutes of work done lol
The jumping from thing to thing personally victimized my 7 ass.
ahahahah this was awesome
How can this be so me.... I literally see my self on the video😂
This is so accurate I almost turned it off. It's like she interviewed me right before she made this.