Is She Wife Worthy If She Doesn't Wear Hijab?

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 123

  • @Noor-rr4dr
    @Noor-rr4dr 2 місяці тому +14

    If you want your wife to wear hijab marry the one who already wears it and in islam there is no forcing dont marry her if you know you dont like her lifestyle simple

    • @redemissarium
      @redemissarium 2 місяці тому +3

      Nah its normal to ask her to wear after marry, not a big deal. Just dont push it too fast coz everything need process. As long as she is not bikini-calendar or victoria model type usually it wont cause too big conflict 😁

  • @Newname1234
    @Newname1234 2 місяці тому +11

    If a woman wears niqab or hijab for a man or anyone other than Allah, it will most likely come off when the couple argue or the marriage ends. OR it won’t be respected and done properly because she will complain about it and think of it as a burden or she won’t even wear it properly. We all know a woman should wear the correct hijab regardless of intentions because it’s still an obligation but brothers be aware of the risk that comes with a woman who isn’t wearing the hijab or niqab for Allah. The intentions can change and become for Allah but it is still a risk.

    • @BintGumby
      @BintGumby 2 місяці тому

      Ive seen niqab come off so many sisters after divorce

  • @mitroman100
    @mitroman100 2 місяці тому +5

    Problem is sisters can say they want to improve but not mean it because they are emotional in the moment.

  • @razer0072073
    @razer0072073 2 місяці тому +52

    I gave my wife an ultimatum to wear niqab, and she wears it now.

    • @TheRedM856
      @TheRedM856 2 місяці тому

      Well well

    • @giuseppedifraia8773
      @giuseppedifraia8773 2 місяці тому +5

      @razer0072073
      Just out of Curiosity, Please.
      What Ultimatum Did You Give Your Wife, To Wear
      The Niqab.
      I Ask,
      Because When I Get Married,
      I Want To Use The Same Ultimatum
      That You, Gave To Your Wife.
      If My Wife, Doesn't Want To Wear Niqab.
      Thanks!

    • @jujibuu9426
      @jujibuu9426 2 місяці тому +1

      What type of ultimatum? you didn't do the divorce one right

    • @CamelJockey562
      @CamelJockey562 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@giuseppedifraia8773is you tell your wife you want her to wear niqab, or else you'll divorce her her.

    • @yyc246
      @yyc246 2 місяці тому

      Did u threaten her w a second wife? It has to come from her welling from heart. U forced that on her

  • @rizwanfarooq-gf1no
    @rizwanfarooq-gf1no 2 місяці тому +8

    Do not marry someone who does not wear Hijaab. It really is simple as that. Who will say nowadays, they don't want to improve, they don't want to do better? Of course they will. But if it's your requirement (that she wears hijaab/niqaab), then don't settle for anything less.

    • @Misterpennymoney
      @Misterpennymoney 2 місяці тому +1

      you acting like theres hijabis not out here trickin on instagram with 100k+ followers. Hijab is no guarentee.

    • @rizwanfarooq-gf1no
      @rizwanfarooq-gf1no 2 місяці тому

      @@Misterpennymoney you're right but I'd argue those kinda people, do they even fulfil what Hijaab is? So do we technically call them hijabis? If you don't fulfil the conditions of something, how can you call yourself that same thing. Hence why, further investigations and discussions should take place, with due diligence done from both sides when it comes to marriage talks.

  • @InfiniteCuriosity1210
    @InfiniteCuriosity1210 2 місяці тому +8

    Brother Mahdi what are you wearing? clothes are a little tight

  • @lakman2026
    @lakman2026 2 місяці тому +6

    that was actually a really good advice! Barrak Allahu feek!

  • @jinkeezpasha2769
    @jinkeezpasha2769 2 місяці тому +28

    Naaah, can't lie u took the L on this one.
    How u telling the mandem to improve and upgrade in every aspect of their lives than telling them after all that to be with a sub standard woman ( in terms of deen in this case)? How many women will marry next man in the HOPE that he will become rich and shredded one day? Even if he shows the potential ( being evidently smart, regularly in the gym), if he's not on that finish line barely any woman wants him, and that's what you've been preaching this whole time.
    I'm telling you man to detach yourself from this scarcity mentality and know that there's plenty of fish in the OCEAN, beautiful sisters with taqwa that not only wear hijab but full niqab.

    • @93boxing81
      @93boxing81 2 місяці тому +1

      Na he is right. Women are almost all in the west brainwashed by feminism so they are lacking in some form of deen one way or another. You will have to delete hər feminist software and reinstall it regardless.

    • @zuhasbekillin3461
      @zuhasbekillin3461 2 місяці тому

      Facts

    • @zaydthebeast6494
      @zaydthebeast6494 2 місяці тому +3

      Where does it tell you to wear niqab? Hijab is good enough

    • @jinkeezpasha2769
      @jinkeezpasha2769 2 місяці тому +12

      @zaydthebeast6494 i ain't gonna argue if niqab is obligatory or not but if you're a guy I'm assuming you would prefer your spouse to be a niqabi 🤷‍♂️

    • @Lancer5ive
      @Lancer5ive 2 місяці тому +4

      Facts, we have to improve to become top 5% but also must settle for every day below average mutabarrijah…. It makes no sense😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @Abdullah_muslim1
    @Abdullah_muslim1 2 місяці тому +5

    I'm sorry akh but i don't agree with you on this one. "Can you see if she's interested in getting better" it's very dangerous to assume her word is gonna be upheld when you get married. She can be saying stuff in the moment just to finalize the deal out of desperation.
    She should be atleast wearing a hijab (no disrespect to the non hijabis) and not wearing tight clothing ( ideally abaya) and then you can ask her on her thoughts on wearing niqab.

  • @user-bk9xs3hy7y
    @user-bk9xs3hy7y 2 місяці тому +7

    I don't know about anyone of you, but when ever i see your videos Mahdi I feel, I won't get married you literally make me get scared of the men wallahi. Sorry to say this but its the truth I pray to Allah that he brings me the man that understands me and my family and grow together and won't say he wants 4 wife, yaraby Ameen. I believe there are good men outside i do believe that deeply

    • @user-bk9xs3hy7y
      @user-bk9xs3hy7y 2 місяці тому

      @@ChickenTenders388 yes true but it depends, but still most of them say they want 4wives because they are not satisfied if you know what I mean.
      Mahdi him self said that so honestly I don't know

    • @hasansyed_
      @hasansyed_ 2 місяці тому +6

      ​@user-bk9xs3hy7y Look, it's natural not to want to share your husband, but be careful of your way of thinking. The prophet Muhammed (saw) has been intimate with 9 of his wives in one night. We are given spouses in order to fulfill our desires and for companionship and partnership. Nothing wrong with marrying another wife to control their desire. It is not under their control to have less desire. However, if you truly want a husband that only marries you, nothing wrong with that just put a clause in the contract. But do not judge the men who desire to marry multiple wives.

    • @mohammada3116
      @mohammada3116 2 місяці тому

      @@user-bk9xs3hy7y the reason the husband does it should not conecern the wife, it is his given right as long as he is fair and fulfill his responsibilities. This is why it’s so dangerous for young sisters to be in social media, ur minds will be filled with corruption and delusion and western propaganda. May Allah guide u and calm u down

    • @user-bk9xs3hy7y
      @user-bk9xs3hy7y 2 місяці тому +1

      @@hasansyed_ true I understand, indeed prophet mohammed did married more than 4wifes plus let us keep that in mind that he married after his beloved wife Kadija(R.A) died, but nevertheless many men do marry more than one wife and some women do really like when a men handles more responsibilities.....
      It's just I don't want other men to shame the one who has one wife.... cuz they do and that's not fair to manipulate him..
      Overall may Allah make it easy for us all

    • @BilboBoris
      @BilboBoris 19 днів тому

      ​@@user-bk9xs3hy7yBe honest, this is not about shaming the man with one wife, you just don't want to share. That's alright, but when you say men are bad for practicing polygamy you are going down the progressivist pathway of thinking. Just keep that in mind.

  • @Sergeexposed1
    @Sergeexposed1 2 місяці тому +6

    How can he advise the brother to marry someone non practising based on his life experience? Wallahi things get stranger day by day

    • @SIR-sg2td
      @SIR-sg2td 2 місяці тому +2

      he literally said “does she want to do better” and that’s how you would know before marrying her if she is someone he wants 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @Sergeexposed1
      @Sergeexposed1 2 місяці тому

      Of course every person will say they want to get better, given the state of divorcé nowadays how can you gamble your future so casually. We judge people on actions not words. But you know better bro

    • @1saadx
      @1saadx 2 місяці тому

      He mentions to discuss beforehand if she's willing to improve and to keep hijab as a requirement in nikah contract. I've known a hafiz who married non Muslim MUSHRIK and helped her revert to Islam then marry her. This guy's telling you to marry muslimas.

  • @mtdollaz
    @mtdollaz 2 місяці тому +7

    W take, lot of brothers watch born, cant pray, fat, weak and broke but want a niaqbi ulema, work on yourself and she will follow your example

    • @mohammada3116
      @mohammada3116 2 місяці тому +1

      I’ve never seen this but agree with the last part

  • @bruce.wayne.00007
    @bruce.wayne.00007 2 місяці тому +10

    This brother has trait of dayooth(the one who asked the question). According to salafs

    • @Abdallah_79916
      @Abdallah_79916 2 місяці тому +3

      😂 what?! How? I didn’t see any of his women folk

    • @bruce.wayne.00007
      @bruce.wayne.00007 2 місяці тому

      @@Abdallah_79916 salaf said

    • @bruce.wayne.00007
      @bruce.wayne.00007 2 місяці тому

      @@Abdallah_79916 i still remember in school, i had a classmate and I liked her, but never involved in a relationship as it's haram. İ thought one day i will get married to her. When I saw her having male friends, i cancelled her.

    • @elsenorputoamo1743
      @elsenorputoamo1743 2 місяці тому

      How? Care to explain?😊

    • @TheRealAceReeve
      @TheRealAceReeve 2 місяці тому +1

      Ayo Batsy!
      Stay in the dark homie!

  • @Lancer5ive
    @Lancer5ive 2 місяці тому

    Why on earth is the questioner not listening to scholars advice (which is backed by authentic ahadeeth) and listening to this guy who goes against it quite clearly.
    Very strange indeed.

  • @xavihernandes8262
    @xavihernandes8262 2 місяці тому

    Bro doing cardio and giving lessons for us at the same time 🤓

  • @prhasn
    @prhasn 2 місяці тому +1

    God bless you brother and you are spot on.

  • @humadi2001
    @humadi2001 2 місяці тому +1

    "smash in halal"🤣

  • @MrYouExtra
    @MrYouExtra 2 місяці тому +2

    Good video man

  • @CoyoteOfSC
    @CoyoteOfSC 2 місяці тому +8

    Fun fact, believing in things without evidence is ignorant... that is all.

    • @KittycatLeo
      @KittycatLeo 2 місяці тому

      TRUE. But it is evident that Quran is the word of God.

  • @mecaomega4968
    @mecaomega4968 2 місяці тому +5

    I have itchy balls 😂😂😂 go take care of that brother

  • @dodgysmum8340
    @dodgysmum8340 2 місяці тому

    Isn’t your wife the person who reported you for assault against her and your children? How are you in a position to give advice FFS?

  • @rationalbeleiverz8195
    @rationalbeleiverz8195 2 місяці тому

    Bro give some advice for muslims in India

  • @kingjulian7674
    @kingjulian7674 2 місяці тому +3

    Why u walking like tht Mahdi? hope you didnt cross to the darkside

    • @mohamedadan6678
      @mohamedadan6678 2 місяці тому +1

      why you so focused on how a brother walks? lol

    • @kingjulian7674
      @kingjulian7674 2 місяці тому

      @mohamedadan6678 well he used to walk straight. Something happened 😂

    • @inzykhan415
      @inzykhan415 2 місяці тому

      Yeh seems like he’s batting for the other team 😅 his hole must opened up the way his walking

    • @kingjulian7674
      @kingjulian7674 2 місяці тому +3

      @@inzykhan415 geeeze khan take it easy bruv

  • @adama.3178
    @adama.3178 2 місяці тому

    Salam leave your pockets empty it’s looking like you got a BBL bruv 😅🙈

  • @imranochannel7339
    @imranochannel7339 2 місяці тому

    Good balanced video.
    Bints looking lol 😂❤

  • @kjy05
    @kjy05 Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @malikid1000
    @malikid1000 2 місяці тому +1

    Sounds like his running out of content, so his making videos of other people’s questions

    • @user-op8di8bq1i
      @user-op8di8bq1i 2 місяці тому +6

      mate his content is giving advice thats why people ask him questions for ADVICE because of his knowledge

    • @One.reason
      @One.reason 2 місяці тому +2

      Learn to stop hating

    • @malikid1000
      @malikid1000 2 місяці тому

      @@One.reason it’s called having an opinion

    • @One.reason
      @One.reason 2 місяці тому

      @@annon33 @malikid1000 has found himself a new little fan boy! How that sound fan boy!

    • @One.reason
      @One.reason 2 місяці тому

      When you hate on petty/irrelevant things then your a petty hater, like there's no worth in your hate lol. When you have genuine reasons to hate someone/thing then you oppose the idea with truth.
      Moral is to Stop being an online Karen.

  • @leventyldz1108
    @leventyldz1108 2 місяці тому

    first