Men and women are not the same, When a man gets a degree, money, rich and carrer he has more options and can date down woman who are socially and economically lower than him like a hot young chick at McDonald's or living with her mom Now when woman earns a career, money, degree she shrinks her pool of men to date fron since they can only date up and want a guy who has more than her problem is those men are few and have all the options and rather have a fresh hot, beautiful, tight young chick rather than a ran threw 25 to 30 year and up high maintenance, Carter, college educated, old used up left over woman with mental baggage and masculine.
You have to relaize something a former feminist who used to work for Cosmpolotan magazine said she used to spread coperate propaganda in the 1960s to scare woman from being housewives and that husbands are unreliable inorder to join the workforce and to be consumers since they are the biggest spenders and hold the most debt Carrer college educated woman are the 80% and highest initiators of divorce and lesbian couples are highest compared to heterosexual and gay men couples Like yiu said when modren woman pursue these college education and careers do to hypergamy they now want a 1% man no longer above average is good enough, only 20% of the population make 6 figures that's not including ugly men, short, gay men, woman So if they don't land a guy to destroy his life through divorce they end up hitting the wall childless and die alone and miserable Successful, childless carrer woman are the most depressed demographic Moderen woman have a overinflated value of themselves through the marketing propaganda like for example loreal "your worth it", thisbis something the former feminist mentions and the fact moderen woman think their dating/marrige value is evergreen and that attraction between men and woman is symmetrical the same , that they can't wait it off after they havebacchivedbtheir degreesnand carrers and because of that a man will want to marry them even though men are attracted to younger woman and don't care about a woman's degree but rather have a traditional housewife who will cook and clean and take care of the children Moderen woman expect men to hold traditional values of going out and being the workhourse to provide while they expect to absolve themselves of traditional values
Married over 15 years and have two beautiful children. The joy my husband and children bring does not compare to any ‘job’ or career I have. Btw I am highly educated
trust, u never see a happily married women talk about how happy she is because she doesn't need validation and everyone knows she is happy but these single women loves to beat the drum on how "happy" they are.
It's called the Epiphany Phase (29-31) and it's something the Red Pill recognized over a decade ago now. It a time in women's lives when they are forced to acknowledge and rationalize their aging out of the sexual marketplace:
I don't think I've ever seen brothers stick up for each other the way these sisters stick up for each other. Even if the sister is promoting deviant ideas and sinning openly, you'll have a thousand feminists and simps sticking up for her just because she's a woman. It truly is a gender war in my opinion. Their side generalizes and attacks all men. Their allegiance lies to their gender, feminism, liberalism first, not Islam.
a younger women is more desirable than a older women, so these older single women are just jealous of the younger ones and hence dont want them to get married either, all the comments on her tiktok are from miserable older women. This doesn't really apply to men, u would never see a older single man telling a younger man to not get married coz us men dont that aspect of jealously.
@@ameerhamza1581 The problem is people are not having kids. Being jealous of younger men is r3t@rded because people have to keep the human species alive. It doesn't matter how much money you made if you didn't reproduce.
I agree, career women should never settle. You go, queen. You'll find your 6 foot 6 figure 6 pack prince with a chiselled jaw if you delay marriage enough. Just another 10 years, I'm sure you can do it! Settling is for chumps.
@Samir I always tell women and challenge them why don't they stay single until they turn 70 and let's see if you can find a man who wants them for their amazing personality 😂
Not sure if I will get married but when I decide to, I plan to go back home and marry a family oriented woman!. This western women are lost!. “29 is too young” really!!! Lol
They're weeding themselves out for us, it's no longer our job. Thanks ladies, you're really helpin us out here. We want real women, y'all continue doing yo thang. I'm sure the western lifestyles and women you are emulating will save you as you (quickly) age alone and your biological clock is done and you're tired of cleaning your last cat litter box. Growing and dying alone must be the new things all the kids are doing.
Thing you have to understand and other men should understand is women are not gonna regret missing out on you or me. Life doesn't work like that so instead of holding on to some revenge fantasies in our heads were better off focusing on our own lives. Instead of focusing your time and energy on women who will never want you go out there and find the woman that will. I promise you they will never wake up and think in 20 yrs "man I sure regret not marrying snskejuice" but I bet in 20 yrs you'll wish you had lived life and not given so much of your power and resentment to those who don't even know you exist and have no regards for your livelihood.
@@loverofhumanity Wtf are you on about? You act like we're concerned or are resentful for their actions? Wallahi could care less. I have women from overseas, keep your western najasa away from me. If I wanted a western chick, I had many opportunities as well and still do. But I'm not that much of a moron to actually pick a girl from here in Murrica. "focusing your time and energy on women" 😂😂. Already got my women, watchu so salty about? Wallah you act like we're desperate for these independent/CEO "women" bahahaha. Why would we choose steel/copper when there are diamonds for the taking?
as a woman i hate the feminist propaganda. Its disgusting and just feeding negative energy. yes, it is good to have a bach degree, because you never know what happens in life and you (the woman) might need to work to help with money. Nothing wrong with studying, but if its taking away from what is natural, marriage, babies and whatnot. I totally disagree with it. And i am a woman who is submissive by nature here😂
I know women become, ‘marriage counselor’ after divorce. And i have a feeling that’s their insecurity that they want to ‘counsel’ other women to get divorced as well. Single women mostly (obviously not all) will ‘advise’ other women to stay or become single.
a younger women is more desirable than a older women, so these older single women are just jealous of the younger ones and hence dont want them to get married either, all the comments on her tiktok are from miserable older women.
😆 so a divorced woman will say how to keep a marriage? 😆 that is like a soccer ⚽️ goalkeeper who can't even catch a ball telling you how to be goalkeeper.
@@Marwadear512 Since sister you responded to me respectfully, I partially agree with you. I am not saying the if a woman is divorced it is her fault. Unless that divorced counselor married again, I can understand her being a marriage counselor though. True, I as a man admit, us men are not perfect either, as much as I hate these ethnic Muslimah women in the west chasing Kuffaar men, let us be honest, if us Brown Muslim men didn't treat our ethnic Muslima women bad and didn't market it to the entire world that we are some 'wife-beaters' like you see these some Arab Salafi Gulf Sheikhs and some Non-Arab Sheikhs do, we wouldn't be seeing Muslima women run after these kuffaar men. With that all being said Muslimah women should also know better and not generalize. The brother might not have the best facial looks and is struggling but might be the nicest Muslim brother you will ever see and the right man for you. Pickyness when it comes to Muslim men, will just lead you to more fitna. You will be picky when it comes to Muslim men in their 20s and 30s, and in your 40s when no Muslim man is interest in you, the Shaitan will suggest you to go for the Kuffaar man.
Statistically, single women are happier than married women. Google it. Its always single men that are the most miserable. Don’t compare yourself to women. Men need women. Women don’t need men
@@IipriincessiI men want women. Women need men. Men do everything the house you live in was built by men the roads the street lights highways. Everything. So who needs who
@@hamedkorin2693 yet the only reason u are here is because Allah fashioned u inside the womb of a woman. We both want & need eachother, & that's ok to admit
@@hamedkorin2693 Im talking about marriage you moron. We only need you for money. And now, we can earn ourselves and no longer need to be slaves for you Thats why youre so mad. Independent women threaten you because they dont need you. And if women wants kids, they can adopt. What are you needed for? To boss her around and make her clean up after you? No thanks lol
Ibrahim ibn Maysarah said: “Tawus said to me: ‘Either you get married, or I will say to you what ‘Umar said to Abu’l-Zawaid: There is nothing stopping you from getting married but either impotence or immorality!’ According to al-Mirwadhi, Ahmad said: ‘Celibacy has nothing to do with Islam. Whoever calls you not to get married is calling you to something other than Islam.’”
Mahdi I know so many women in their 30's who are only looking for a guy who is no more than 3 years older than her! So even if a decent value man in his 30's wants a woman in her 20's, it virtually impossible. They not only want minimum height requirements but also theres a maximum age restriction. It's crazy!
The single never married Muslim women i know who are under 35 will ALL only go 3-5 years older max, also never married and also have to be virgins. Most women i know in their 40s won’t go for men more than 5 years older than them either. I’ll go up to 12 years but that’s only because I readjusted my number once I got it had for a brother in his early 50s. Took me a while to feel like that wasn’t too old, though. Tbh.
@K. Kong Alhumdulillah I’ve found all that amongst men my age, even with my first marriage. Probably heavily depends on location. Also I was never against starting out poor and building together. That’s how my parents and grandparents did it.
Don't settle queeeeen!!. When you get into your 30s there's a rich, 6 foot hunk waiting for you! He will love to forgo fatherhood for a sagging boss woman!
I say this; if my daughter is having these thoughts I will instill fear in them by making it evidently clear I will remove them from my support. Part of the problem is that parents out of sympathy continue giving support- emotional or other. And these sisters know they have a place where they can go at the end of the day. THIS does not help them and we men know better, we have to push them to do what they don't want to do by removing whatever that is binding them which stops them from getting married and closer to their natural fitrah.
You have hit the nail on the head brother! On top of that, a good father should go out of his way to make his married daughter know that his house is no more hers to fallback on unless she has a very valid reason like husband is not earning, violent, beating, cheating, alcoholic in all other cases father should not support his daughter at all. This will bring down the percentage of khula initiated by so many women for childish reasons.
@@AmineElimrani you have to use wisdom obviously, like if a person is going through suicide thoughts you wouldn't criticise them at those moments as one usually does to his friends for their benefit
Need a marriage counselor? Find an older shaykh or imam. Run away from the female counselors, especially the hijabi ones. Most of them are bitter divorcees themselves who hate Muslim men.
@@Dont-worry1618 just how Mehdi is marrying older women with kids from previous marriages, this woman can also be someone else's second wife. In fact,, She should sign up to his no strings attached nikkah site
@@Dont-worry1618 lol mA that's nice :) but I'm talking about his ex wife, she can join the site & be someone else's second wife with kids, init, & she's younger than him
I'm so so glad Rollo Tomassi explained the epiphany phase in his book The Rational Male and it's something the Red Pill recognized over a decade ago now. It a time in women's lives when they are forced to acknowledge and rationalize their aging out of the sexual marketplace.
That’s the thing most of these women will go to the grave refusing to see the catastrophe they have adopted. Men work like crazy because we are made to handle stress. The way I deal with stress versus my wife is quite striking. The fact that men work longer hours and harder jobs gives credence to the fact that women are not built to work their whole lives.
These women have no idea what a child is ... I have seen my wife look at our kids ... the love she has for them makes them strong and the happiness she gets from doing anything they want is unexplainable...
@@TheMrpalid You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it. Morpheus, The Matrix
This was comforting, jazak'Allah kheyr. I tend to feel insecure about my career/uni situation, thinking that a man may not be interested in me if I earn less than him. LOOOL.
Tf? No man actually cares about a woman’s job as long as she’s not a stripper or anything like that. Maybe there are some cultural reasons why a man would say he cares, but at most he just thinks he does, rather than because he ACTUALLY does.
The higher the woman earns, more degrees she has, the less attractive she is regarding marriage in the man's eyes. If a girl had told me she is not going to enter the formal workforce for any reason, there's something attractive about that to me and to any real men and maybe even to liberal men. Maybe even at a deep biological level, it indicates she comes from a resourceful environment, with a strong father, where she is provided for as she is ideally supposed to. Even coming from that environment and girls are still pushed into jobs and career, compete with men, there something very masculine and off-putting about that in a man's eyes
Mashallah you chose well. You can still get educated and take time to study and work from home. But you took care of the really important milestones in life.
My wife works for 2 doctors… - 1st divorced his wife and married the nanny/caregiver - 2nd was similar to Leo changed girlfriends annually, Howe had finally somewhat settled down with a stay at home type who packs him his lunch.
I am a 32 years old Turkish woman living in France and single since forever and never get any proposals. At 1st when I was younger my family had always fear me about men, that I have to be far from them and never approach men cause it is haram, I was student at this time. But now they force me to marry and meet someone in order to marry.. the problem is that they put me those barriers before and now they are pushing me to marry...By the way now all the men in my surroundings are married and I dont know any single muslim man. No one is helping me to marry a good muslim man even my family doesnt help to meet someone🤦♀
I was 19 when i married. Completed my bachelor during my marriage and now doing my masters. It can go hand in hand with marriage. Marriage and children will never stop you from doing what you like you only need to know your priorities. Will choose marriage anytime over anything.
The funny thing is, they will talk about how any man pointing these facts out is “insecure because he can’t have them”, which is categorically saying that the women these men end up marrying are lower quality women than them by definition, a SEVERE display of ego and deviance from Allah’s decree because they attribute their own selves the role of decider and judge who is better and who is worse, based on materialistic and useless characteristics such as “career” and “salary” when in hindsight, it’s how pious they are. Not my words, just the words of the prophet SAAW.
Another good video. Its a huge shame that we have many nice sisters out there who just don't get it. Living in this secular independent that produces more broken homes than anything obviously doesn't help, but when we have Islam as a guidance and we can't mould ourselves to it and look for any option to fulfil our selfish nafs and I can go on, our sisters go through very hard times to eventually (hoping) realise they got it all wrong and by then it's too late. There needs to be sisters out their who can hopefully reiterate what the brother is saying so sisters can get the message across esp their mothers. And father's need to also not get caught up in this nonsense when it comes to their children. Parents can be at fault at this first by giving the wrong advise as well as how they talk to their daughters. In fact there needs to be a lecture in weak father's too.
I love how they're still wearing the hijab and putting this on display for everyone to see. May the ummah be cleansed of such ignorance. And ladies, you wanna do this, fine. But take off the hijab, what you are teaching does NOT in any way, shape, or form represent our deen. Whether you like it or not, that's what you are representing.
@@sh-tz2xs This ayah answers your question. "O you who have believed, do not enter the houses of the Prophet except when you are permitted for a meal, without awaiting its readiness. But when you are invited, then enter; and when you have eaten, disperse without seeking to remain for conversation. Indeed, that [behavior] was troubling the Prophet, and he is shy of [dismissing] you. But Allāh is not shy of the truth. And when you ask [his wives] for something, ask them from behind a partition. That is purer for your hearts and their hearts. And it is not [conceivable or lawful] for you to harm the Messenger of Allāh or to marry his wives after him, ever. Indeed, that would be in the sight of Allāh an enormity." Surah Ahzab ayah 53
I agree most of these comments but I know someone who got married at 40 and now is at her seven child at 50. Not to say also an old friend of mine had her fifth child at her early 40’s and I met another woman who has her last daughter in her 50’s and I met her beautiful healthy daughter. So him downgrading women, and saying are useless is very unintelligent and ignorant of him.
Whenever I hear about low quality man and woman what comes to my mind is a person who is not loyal, abusive, toxic, who gaslight, extremely possessive, thinks they are superior... Basically someone with a bad character! Aren't they talking about that? Are they really talking about a guy who is not 6ft tall with a PhD super rich etc? Because I've studied too, University and all..and I really don't mind if he's a PhD a doctor mega rich or not! There's many ways of becoming successful in life! As long as he meets my standards when it comes to character , appearance (I won't lie, it matters) and working..has means to create sustainace! Then it's cool. I come from a South Asian background and believe me all I see around me are toxic relationships, failed and abusive marriages! I can understand why these women don't want marriage, because it seems like they're background is whether south Asian or middle eastern! Which tend to have really toxic marriages! Plus being bombarded everyday and everywhere about how man are trash and no good ones left! It messes with your head, I used to tell myself that I don't want marriage too, due to alll of that! But today I understand that we generalise wayyy too much and there's actually really good man out there, not perfect no Prince charming but good guys! Both of these women are beautiful and yes, still young, they can find really good guys if they want! On the other side if they don't want to be married that's on them, we should learn to respect people's own decisions! Without letting those decisions affect us!
give them 5 years and their market value will go down drastically. believe me when i say this men dont care if females have degrees, i live in the west and almost all my friends looked for wives back home in villages!
Well said! 👏🏻 The problem really isn't that they themselves have decided to stay unmarried but that they are promoting fitna amongst young women by posting this on social media.
It's called the Epiphany Phase (29-31) and it's something the Red Pill recognized over a decade ago now. It a time in women's lives when they are forced to acknowledge and rationalize their aging out of the sexual marketplace:
If you want to grow your audience, think about giving feedback towards some issues we see amongst the brothers in our communities as well. I've enjoyed your insight thus far, but unless I am missing the other videos your content is similar to many other commentators who focus their commentary on the conduct of women.
"The more successful a man becomes the less he values your academic success"-Mahdi Couldn't have said it any better,alhamdulilah as a successful practicing Muslim man, I do not care about the education level of my future spouse, as long as she is able to take good care of the household and makes it peaceful place for me. Ofcourse, she has to be practicing muslimah aswell, and always strive to be better Muslim. Those are much greater values for a successful wealthy man who can care less about his spouse's education or work. Man and woman are not same...
I know many women who had their first child after 35 and went on to have 3 children!!!!🙄 What are you saying mahd??? The problem of having children late is that you don't have the same energy looking after them and not being around for longer with your children. But that goes for men too.
@@livinia296 we r not talking about your family sister we r talking about whole female population. So in comparison to whole female population your six family members are considered as exceptions
LIFE IS NOT FAIR, Brother this is a VICTIM's statement. ALLAH IS FAIR, HIS RULES ARE NECESSARILY FAIR. IF WE CAN'T SEE THE SYSTEM, WISH NATURALLY WE CAN'T SINCE WE ARE HUMANS , WE ARE NOT THE MOST WISE, IT IS IGNORANCE TO SAY LIFE IS NOT FAIR, ALLAH SAID IN THE QURAN[17:85] :{and you were given only a little knowledge.}
Dude, stop being a snowflake ! L8fe is not auppose to be fair , cause it's suppose to be test ! Why one brother who looks like model gets all the women he is trying to escape and other who is 3'5 can't get any ? Is that fair? Nope, but they both have different tests and different expectations as long as they keep Allah in their heart
It seems like you didn't bother to understand my comment. SO I WON'T TRY HARD TO EXPLAIN, ALL I'M GONNA SAY IS: ALLAH SAYS HE IS THE MOST JUST , saying his test isn't fair, means you still lack understanding of your faith.
Truth isn't Subjective. ISLAM teaches us bring your proof if you are truthful The example of the brother is already bordered in the first comment i made wich is we can't see the full picture therefore we can't see Allah's justice . On the day of judgment no one will be able to point a single oppression from Allah, Why because on that day we'll understand what we can't understand in this dunia. So don't stop the brother from thinking and researching this point by saying you both are right, for it will benefit his aqeedah and belif to do some research in chae Allah, if he wants to of course
@@jeffreyepstein4310 Quran translation [67-2]:{It is He Who has created death and life so that He may reward you (after trying you as to) which of you excels in doing good deeds. He is the All-Mighty, the Great Protector}. Life is a test and a fair test, and No One Is saying that Allah doesn't know the results from the Start, Since he knows Everything including what happened, what's happening, what's going to happen, and what did not happen if it did how it will happen.
I feel sad that you are personally attacking these Muslim women in hijab who are representing themselves. You are making personal comments about their appearance and age. But these Muslim women don’t live in a vacuum, they have family. Thank Allah swt that he gave us protection in the form of our fathers and brothers and uncles, to protect us from men who make insults.
These women can't even fulfill basic Islamic responsibilities (how many wear no makeup, perfume, pray 5 times a day, etc?), yet are trying to come at practicing Muslim men? Lol.
Seems like this generation is screwed. I feel sorry for the brothers and sister alike. I am thankful I got married more than a decade ago and I don't have to deal with these types of women.
Both of these women know that they are exceptionally pretty so for them they believe (from thier perspective )that they will not fall short for men regardless of thr age but its a whole different story from a guys perspective. Plus they wont just marry any guy it will have to be on thier same social/ career status
Mahdi is coping, low quality means, short, ugly and ethnic not academic, monetary or status achievements. I've seen muslim brothers in the marriage market for years not able to find anyone. As soon as a white a white revert comes into the market, he gets scooped up instantly. Mahdi stop the cope, please. Women love double speak.
@@jeffreyepstein4310 that's a fetish wanting to be fulfilled and a small minority, if they were given an oppurtunity during their marriage to start again and marry a white guy or white passing berber, they would. By then, no one wants her.
I agree, I can’t stand when women speak like this. They can speak for themselves. I like men and am not content without one in my life. I hate the “Women don’t need a man” junk. Yes, yes, we do. Anyway, to know why they’re saying a man might not respect them, look at how the videos and comments on this UA-cam page talk about women. Providing for and looking after a woman doesn’t mean he respects her. Two different things.
Women need men and men need women. We were created for eachother. And at the end of the day, the good women will find the good men and vice versa. "Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men are for corrupt women; good women are for good men and good men are for good women. The good are innocent of what has been said against them; they will have forgiveness and a generous provision." ~Quran 24:26
@K. Kong Not well said. She is blaming everything on men. Read the second part of her comment. Women never take any responsibility of their mistakes. They always blame it on someone else.
Ask these women to work until the day they die. I have seen videos of women on Tik tok realizing that they will have to slave away in that office or cubicle farm for their entire natural lives. It’s a shock that hits them because they can’t retire or take a break. They can’t just stop one day and let their husband take care of the household.
The Prophet Muhammad said (PBH) Three generations after me, my people will not be of me. This thread represents exactly what he meant. Brothers and sisters are now lip professors…Now the world can watch it… very said state of affairs..
I don't any problem if someone don't want to get married. Its life choice. Am not interesting marriage either who am I to judge. Do what makes you happy and worship your CREATOR
They are getting attention now from 35 year old regular Abduls and 50 year old professionals its going to drop like a rock in 5-10 and all they will be left with is retirees looking for 2nd wives
I agree !! Because i hate how recenetly everything is like, oh youd only get married if you have a degree. My parents included and i disagree with their ideology
Exactly I told my mother to get me married she says once you become independent. I'm so tired and all girls of my age have boyfriend whether hijab or abaya they're having bf and sleeping around. I'm 21 may god put sense in my mother liberal brain
@@PureLuv21 True brother. I don't wear hijab because I live in society where if I wear will get more attention all boys will look at me because I'll be highlighted and Islam told to avoid male attention. But one hijabi told me that hijabis are pearl cover in shell and non hijabis are stone found everywhere. It made me cry literally even Allah hate looking down his creation. But the strange thing is that I saw the same girl with 2 non mahram and one was having hands on her waist she was laughing. A lot of hijabi have boyfriend I never made boyfriend never did zina only go for lunch with my family and female friends no male friends. I wonder why hijabi even if she had done zina had more honour and prestige than me just because she wear hijab and appear religious. Wallahi a lot of muslim are so racist
@@PureLuv21 Maybe but I live in a non muslim town and they don't like muslim if I wear hijab I'll be highlighted and be in danger that's why I don't wear. You don't know most of girls wear hijab to look cute and get attention not to avoid as stated in islam but leave allah know me well.
The guys these sister claiming to Be low value , you know the guys who worked in construction , who build those high towers , men who worked day and night to build the electric system , who laid down the lines with their lives , those same low value brothers who build those heavy trucks , those giant ships , those dangerous jobs , the same brothers who worked miles down in the mines , yep those same low value brothers who did all that while fasting , never missing a fast , working hard under that heat , my question is sisters , who are you calling low value ? You can’t live one day without them , not even one day
WAllahi, these women have no shame. These sisters have fathers who worked day and night to provide for them, they had to broke their backs, and now how do they repay them? By attacking their contributions to society, their families. These women are an embarrassment to their fathers and the Ummah.
Nah those aren’t low quality men. Low quality men are those who don’t actually care about their wife, her well-being, her personality, her dreams and her thoughts but marry her because she’s young and can cook 🤡
Lmaooo this dude has me rolling! “Lonely spinsterhood”🤣🤣 “the taxes must be paid in full.” “Wrinkly, and overweight .” bro I’m dead! This nigga’s use of satire is hilarious. Funny how many people get so pissed at him, can’t take a damn joke. Granted what he’s saying is true. Lol
Allah already give us the solution...its call polygamy..A woman will only do anything for the man she see n like n falling in love with ....n if she a real beautiful woman...she will only want a handsome ...but she hav to share that handsome man too because more beautiful woman will want him too...so Allah allows us men to have 4 wives ...case closed....its sad n sinful world...man..
We women are actually very very happy without a man if he is not a good man , specially if he is polygamous to be unmarried forever and practice ur deen and make ur own money is infinite times better then marrying a man who is polygynous or not a good man
This sucks, but at the same time how can we actually resolve the problem of our needs when it seems like the market is becoming more limited by the day?
Not sure if I will get married but when I decide to, I plan to go back home and marry a family oriented woman!. This western women are lost!. “29 is too young” really!!! Lol
@@SIGSEGV1337 well, I get the urge sometimes and videos like this then make to double down on any hopes!. I personally think if someone can hold it to when he’s 35, by then, our sex drive will reduce and we can sustain to the rest of our lives without getting attached to any woman!. Imagine dealing with women like this all your life, no Demure in them no smiley face no femininity!. It’s sickening!.
@@alpharays3667 Thats why you have to practice polygamy if the 1. doesnt work out , then you go to the 2. and replace the 1. with a 3. , offense is the best defense.
I'll throw a spanner in the works and try to defend the educated women. When the bros do marry the village girl but then it doesn't work out - what does she have to fall back on? And if women want to pursue a career then they can always get married and continue to do so? I think the issue people have is a single minded mentality: that everything should be done in steps. First get educated, then get a job, then get married. But for a lot of people it never works out and they end up broken
The problem that you my friend adress is less than 1% in the real world its the media who make it seem like its happening everyday and that shows that you're deeply rooted in the matrix
@@nedjme1325 Actually I and people who are like me - sophisticated - can't Tolerate trash talk. So Professor Peterson and Mufti Abu Layth are my inspirations👌
"borderline useless" . Nothing makes a woman useless apart from her being disbeliever. This is so hurtful to term anyone as useless. Fear Allah Akhi . What's wrong with you Algerian? Brothers and sisters just have faith in Allah SWT ; don't compete in worldly matters but on deen and study about what "Ehsaan" means in Islam. "Ehsaan" is what is missing from today's preaching mostly. You all will turn old and die(some would die before that). Would it be worth dieing knowing that you could have been more kind and shown mercy on others but you didn't? Sisters make it easier for men to approach you for nikkah ; bear difficulties in marriage and don't call off for divorce at the behest of some incident which can be forgiven. Brothers make it easy for sisters to stay in marriage ; help them wherever you can without compromising on your deen and limits of gairat and haya. Be kind to your kids. Don't go the way of pagans who are disgracing each other while they can ;wherever than can. You all have to die leaving everything but your intentions and your doings in this world. Make them as good as you can. Anyone can be cheated .It's the Qadar of Allah SWT and any beautiful woman can be divorced. So don't worry too much. Make dua and hold on the rope of Allah SWT.
You wrote a whole bunch of excess- he clarified useless in terms of biological pregnancy… it’s like me saying a man without legs is useless in the world of football- not the same as saying he’s a useless human being is it.
@@civildiscourse7626 yeah i agree. Some people don't have time or acumen to comprehend what's in the video but quick to write an essay. Also Mahdi's message is more apt towards elders and parents who are a complete and utter failure imo. Just blindly following kufr, raising daughters like males or just letting Western media raise the child,encouraging them to career and degree. No idea about society, the dangers and no idea about biology. Very pathetic
@@ghurabaa114xx the thing is, it sounds harsh but actually it’s not wrong if used in the correct context…he’s not saying they are useless humans- she may still be smart, a hard worker, a great sister, friend daughter, cook or whatever but in terms of biological pregnancy if you can’t have kids then unfortunately you are useless in that regard… just like a man without sperm would be. We need to differentiate between incorrect speech and speech that just doesn’t sound nice.
@@civildiscourse7626yes, it's not wrong, but it is harsh. So there are better ways os saying it, especially considering the audience he is trying to address are emotional by nature - he needs to be wise
Its all cool and games if you believe that marriage is not good , but if you commit zina while saying that then you entered a whole nother level of disgustingness like I would call you a straight munafiq and wouldnt attent your funeral , sounds brutal but thats how disgusting that position is to my heart.
If this women doesn’t want to get married you don’t need to tell us you don’t want to follow the sunnah of Muhammad pbuh then don’t then when you get in your late 30s don’t come to the young men crying and begging them to marry you cuz they won’t be interested in you and if they do get married to you it will probably be very messy and not last very long and the chances of that kind of marriage succeeding is very very very low.
@@juxtapositionMS And biology probs has made you so ugly that u need to bitch about other women to make u feel better. Prophet Muhammad married Khadija and she was in her late 20s. I dont remember him spreading this sort of toxic messaging.
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Men and women are not the same, When a man gets a degree, money, rich and carrer he has more options and can date down woman who are socially and economically lower than him like a hot young chick at McDonald's or living with her mom
Now when woman earns a career, money, degree she shrinks her pool of men to date fron since they can only date up and want a guy who has more than her problem is those men are few and have all the options and rather have a fresh hot, beautiful, tight young chick rather than a ran threw 25 to 30 year and up high maintenance, Carter, college educated, old used up left over woman with mental baggage and masculine.
She got one thing right that those men in the SVU market are low quality but she don't reliaze that she is low quality herself
You have to relaize something a former feminist who used to work for Cosmpolotan magazine said she used to spread coperate propaganda in the 1960s to scare woman from being housewives and that husbands are unreliable inorder to join the workforce and to be consumers since they are the biggest spenders and hold the most debt
Carrer college educated woman are the 80% and highest initiators of divorce and lesbian couples are highest compared to heterosexual and gay men couples
Like yiu said when modren woman pursue these college education and careers do to hypergamy they now want a 1% man no longer above average is good enough, only 20% of the population make 6 figures that's not including ugly men, short, gay men, woman
So if they don't land a guy to destroy his life through divorce they end up hitting the wall childless and die alone and miserable
Successful, childless carrer woman are the most depressed demographic
Moderen woman have a overinflated value of themselves through the marketing propaganda like for example loreal "your worth it", thisbis something the former feminist mentions and the fact moderen woman think their dating/marrige value is evergreen and that attraction between men and woman is symmetrical the same , that they can't wait it off after they havebacchivedbtheir degreesnand carrers and because of that a man will want to marry them even though men are attracted to younger woman and don't care about a woman's degree but rather have a traditional housewife who will cook and clean and take care of the children
Moderen woman expect men to hold traditional values of going out and being the workhourse to provide while they expect to absolve themselves of traditional values
These are damaged chickens Mahdi.
You can hear
emotional halfcry
underlying in
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voice/tone.
Married over 15 years and have two beautiful children. The joy my husband and children bring does not compare to any ‘job’ or career I have. Btw I am highly educated
u are the high quality men are looking for , and women need to be influenced by.
I love my husband and child too. My heart overflows with love and peace
If you don't know classical Arabic nor tawheed you never had an education. Highly education means fit to work for a boss. Cut the crap
@@Hamza-iq6gw bro chill
Of course because it's the only joy you have, it becomes the "joy"
Those two women who are putting on a display “we are happy as single women. Our lives are great.” This is secretly a cry for help.
trust, u never see a happily married women talk about how happy she is because she doesn't need validation and everyone knows she is happy but these single women loves to beat the drum on how "happy" they are.
@@ameerhamza1581 true
It's called the Epiphany Phase (29-31) and it's something the Red Pill recognized over a decade ago now. It a time in women's lives when they are forced to acknowledge and rationalize their aging out of the sexual marketplace:
Are you jealousy
@ameerhamza1581 they definitely want attention.
I don't think I've ever seen brothers stick up for each other the way these sisters stick up for each other. Even if the sister is promoting deviant ideas and sinning openly, you'll have a thousand feminists and simps sticking up for her just because she's a woman. It truly is a gender war in my opinion. Their side generalizes and attacks all men. Their allegiance lies to their gender, feminism, liberalism first, not Islam.
a younger women is more desirable than a older women, so these older single women are just jealous of the younger ones and hence dont want them to get married either, all the comments on her tiktok are from miserable older women. This doesn't really apply to men, u would never see a older single man telling a younger man to not get married coz us men dont that aspect of jealously.
And the most disturbing part of it, is that they're wearing hijabs while doing this
Very true. But we have to leave them alone. Marriage is not Fard/obligatory
@@ameerhamza1581 The problem is people are not having kids. Being jealous of younger men is r3t@rded because people have to keep the human species alive. It doesn't matter how much money you made if you didn't reproduce.
@K. Kong yes, men do have group mentality, they have it for the members that came out of the same womb as them
I agree, career women should never settle. You go, queen. You'll find your 6 foot 6 figure 6 pack prince with a chiselled jaw if you delay marriage enough. Just another 10 years, I'm sure you can do it! Settling is for chumps.
If they wait long enough a muslim 7ft nba player marries them by default.
@@mk-ld8ih no he'll reject these old r**stie women whilst he can have always you fresh chicks
After 10 yrs not even 60 yr olds want her
They completely forget about going through menopause
@Samir I always tell women and challenge them why don't they stay single until they turn 70 and let's see if you can find a man who wants them for their amazing personality 😂
may Allah protect our sisters from this dangerous anti-marriage rhetoric that goes against the Qur’an and authentic Sunnah
Ameen
Ameen
Aameen Yaa rabbi
It's scary to me how there will be so many single men and women in the future. Due to this, Zina will increase a lot. May Allah protect us.
What is going to happen and bound to happen, will indeed happen.
It's happening right now like crazy most Muslimahs and men here in North America are AWFUL
@@ulama7828 😢😢😢
Not sure if I will get married but when I decide to, I plan to go back home and marry a family oriented woman!. This western women are lost!. “29 is too young” really!!! Lol
It’s not at all
@@NM-ru2qj youre mad wrong
KING👑
@Moneyxl00 100%
@@bdndella69 I’m saying it’s not young dummie. By 29 a woman should definitely b married with at least one baby .
They're weeding themselves out for us, it's no longer our job. Thanks ladies, you're really helpin us out here. We want real women, y'all continue doing yo thang. I'm sure the western lifestyles and women you are emulating will save you as you (quickly) age alone and your biological clock is done and you're tired of cleaning your last cat litter box. Growing and dying alone must be the new things all the kids are doing.
@MKAY lolllllll muzmatch
Thing you have to understand and other men should understand is women are not gonna regret missing out on you or me. Life doesn't work like that so instead of holding on to some revenge fantasies in our heads were better off focusing on our own lives. Instead of focusing your time and energy on women who will never want you go out there and find the woman that will. I promise you they will never wake up and think in 20 yrs "man I sure regret not marrying snskejuice" but I bet in 20 yrs you'll wish you had lived life and not given so much of your power and resentment to those who don't even know you exist and have no regards for your livelihood.
@@loverofhumanity Wtf are you on about? You act like we're concerned or are resentful for their actions? Wallahi could care less. I have women from overseas, keep your western najasa away from me. If I wanted a western chick, I had many opportunities as well and still do. But I'm not that much of a moron to actually pick a girl from here in Murrica. "focusing your time and energy on women" 😂😂. Already got my women, watchu so salty about? Wallah you act like we're desperate for these independent/CEO "women" bahahaha. Why would we choose steel/copper when there are diamonds for the taking?
as a woman i hate the feminist propaganda. Its disgusting and just feeding negative energy. yes, it is good to have a bach degree, because you never know what happens in life and you (the woman) might need to work to help with money. Nothing wrong with studying, but if its taking away from what is natural, marriage, babies and whatnot. I totally disagree with it. And i am a woman who is submissive by nature here😂
@@nataliaava5480 💯 Yeah education is good because the husband can pass way and she has to provide for the kids, God forbid.
I know women become, ‘marriage counselor’ after divorce. And i have a feeling that’s their insecurity that they want to ‘counsel’ other women to get divorced as well. Single women mostly (obviously not all) will ‘advise’ other women to stay or become single.
a younger women is more desirable than a older women, so these older single women are just jealous of the younger ones and hence dont want them to get married either, all the comments on her tiktok are from miserable older women.
Yes its snake behaviour keep your women away from such deviant demons.
@@Marwadear512 good on you, may Allah reward and bless you
😆 so a divorced woman will say how to keep a marriage? 😆 that is like a soccer ⚽️ goalkeeper who can't even catch a ball telling you how to be goalkeeper.
@@Marwadear512 Since sister you responded to me respectfully, I partially agree with you. I am not saying the if a woman is divorced it is her fault. Unless that divorced counselor married again, I can understand her being a marriage counselor though. True, I as a man admit, us men are not perfect either, as much as I hate these ethnic Muslimah women in the west chasing Kuffaar men, let us be honest, if us Brown Muslim men didn't treat our ethnic Muslima women bad and didn't market it to the entire world that we are some 'wife-beaters' like you see these some Arab Salafi Gulf Sheikhs and some Non-Arab Sheikhs do, we wouldn't be seeing Muslima women run after these kuffaar men. With that all being said Muslimah women should also know better and not generalize. The brother might not have the best facial looks and is struggling but might be the nicest Muslim brother you will ever see and the right man for you. Pickyness when it comes to Muslim men, will just lead you to more fitna. You will be picky when it comes to Muslim men in their 20s and 30s, and in your 40s when no Muslim man is interest in you, the Shaitan will suggest you to go for the Kuffaar man.
our community have plauged with western value
No no, it always has been like this but now they act like kids and they are more narcissistic
Western value vs Easter values = Sam’s humans with the same big egos
The sisterhood really act as if they got each other’s back but the reality is they don’t want a woman who may have the potential to be happy , happy
Facts akhi couldn’t have said it better
Statistically, single women are happier than married women. Google it. Its always single men that are the most miserable. Don’t compare yourself to women.
Men need women. Women don’t need men
@@IipriincessiI men want women. Women need men. Men do everything the house you live in was built by men the roads the street lights highways. Everything. So who needs who
@@hamedkorin2693 yet the only reason u are here is because Allah fashioned u inside the womb of a woman. We both want & need eachother, & that's ok to admit
@@hamedkorin2693 Im talking about marriage you moron. We only need you for money. And now, we can earn ourselves and no longer need to be slaves for you
Thats why youre so mad. Independent women threaten you because they dont need you.
And if women wants kids, they can adopt. What are you needed for? To boss her around and make her clean up after you? No thanks lol
Ibrahim ibn Maysarah said:
“Tawus said to me: ‘Either you get married, or I will say to you what ‘Umar said to Abu’l-Zawaid: There is nothing stopping you from getting married but either impotence or immorality!’ According to al-Mirwadhi, Ahmad said: ‘Celibacy has nothing to do with Islam. Whoever calls you not to get married is calling you to something other than Islam.’”
Mahdi I know so many women in their 30's who are only looking for a guy who is no more than 3 years older than her! So even if a decent value man in his 30's wants a woman in her 20's, it virtually impossible. They not only want minimum height requirements but also theres a maximum age restriction. It's crazy!
the small age gap only works with young marriages
The single never married Muslim women i know who are under 35 will ALL only go 3-5 years older max, also never married and also have to be virgins. Most women i know in their 40s won’t go for men more than 5 years older than them either. I’ll go up to 12 years but that’s only because I readjusted my number once I got it had for a brother in his early 50s. Took me a while to feel like that wasn’t too old, though. Tbh.
@K. Kong Alhumdulillah I’ve found all that amongst men my age, even with my first marriage. Probably heavily depends on location. Also I was never against starting out poor and building together. That’s how my parents and grandparents did it.
Maximum age restrictions are completely normal. Why is there a shock
Minimum age as well 😂 they probably wouldn't marry younger than them
Don't settle queeeeen!!. When you get into your 30s there's a rich, 6 foot hunk waiting for you! He will love to forgo fatherhood for a sagging boss woman!
Said no man ever
@@ghurabaa114xx said every deluded women
Like your mom
@@user-ve4zw6jp9i why u inviting people to insult your mom? do you hate her?
I say this; if my daughter is having these thoughts I will instill fear in them by making it evidently clear I will remove them from my support. Part of the problem is that parents out of sympathy continue giving support- emotional or other. And these sisters know they have a place where they can go at the end of the day. THIS does not help them and we men know better, we have to push them to do what they don't want to do by removing whatever that is binding them which stops them from getting married and closer to their natural fitrah.
You have hit the nail on the head brother! On top of that, a good father should go out of his way to make his married daughter know that his house is no more hers to fallback on unless she has a very valid reason like husband is not earning, violent, beating, cheating, alcoholic in all other cases father should not support his daughter at all. This will bring down the percentage of khula initiated by so many women for childish reasons.
@@AmineElimrani Who cares about this types?
Wallahi, my heart melts down just by thinking how much they will regret later 🥰
may Allah have mercy on our parents for their tarbiyah
Yes, I got engaged at 24 only because I’d been in my own since I was 16 and was tired of struggling.
@@AmineElimrani you have to use wisdom obviously, like if a person is going through suicide thoughts you wouldn't criticise them at those moments as one usually does to his friends for their benefit
Need a marriage counselor? Find an older shaykh or imam. Run away from the female counselors, especially the hijabi ones. Most of them are bitter divorcees themselves who hate Muslim men.
just like mahdi... lol
One of his wives were the ones that asked for divorce. Once he divorced, his wife asked 3 times to take him back and he denied. He was not miserable
@@Dont-worry1618 just how Mehdi is marrying older women with kids from previous marriages, this woman can also be someone else's second wife. In fact,, She should sign up to his no strings attached nikkah site
@@ghurabaa114xx That is not his type. That woman on the left looks older than my mom and she is 50 with 5 kids.
@@Dont-worry1618 lol mA that's nice :) but I'm talking about his ex wife, she can join the site & be someone else's second wife with kids, init, & she's younger than him
My dad was 33 when he married my mum at 19
Ain't anything wrong in that
I'm so so glad Rollo Tomassi explained the epiphany phase in his book The Rational Male and it's something the Red Pill recognized over a decade ago now. It a time in women's lives when they are forced to acknowledge and rationalize their aging out of the sexual marketplace.
That’s the thing most of these women will go to the grave refusing to see the catastrophe they have adopted.
Men work like crazy because we are made to handle stress. The way I deal with stress versus my wife is quite striking. The fact that men work longer hours and harder jobs gives credence to the fact that women are not built to work their whole lives.
These women have no idea what a child is ... I have seen my wife look at our kids ... the love she has for them makes them strong and the happiness she gets from doing anything they want is unexplainable...
i cant understand how sisters hate Brother Mahdi when he is so objective and balanced.
100%
Truth hurts
Because he’s not
@@Marwadear512 butthurt
@@TheMrpalid You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it.
Morpheus, The Matrix
This was comforting, jazak'Allah kheyr. I tend to feel insecure about my career/uni situation, thinking that a man may not be interested in me if I earn less than him. LOOOL.
Tf? No man actually cares about a woman’s job as long as she’s not a stripper or anything like that. Maybe there are some cultural reasons why a man would say he cares, but at most he just thinks he does, rather than because he ACTUALLY does.
The higher the woman earns, more degrees she has, the less attractive she is regarding marriage in the man's eyes. If a girl had told me she is not going to enter the formal workforce for any reason, there's something attractive about that to me and to any real men and maybe even to liberal men. Maybe even at a deep biological level, it indicates she comes from a resourceful environment, with a strong father, where she is provided for as she is ideally supposed to. Even coming from that environment and girls are still pushed into jobs and career, compete with men, there something very masculine and off-putting about that in a man's eyes
@@Pagalchhagal true
Why do you women have no clue about male nature?
29 is ancient🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💔
“29 is ancient” 💀 thank god I’m 29 married for 8 years with four beautiful healthy children alhamdulilah 🎉shout out from London
29 in a dinosaur
Mashallah you chose well. You can still get educated and take time to study and work from home. But you took care of the really important milestones in life.
My wife works for 2 doctors…
- 1st divorced his wife and married the nanny/caregiver
- 2nd was similar to Leo changed girlfriends annually, Howe had finally somewhat settled down with a stay at home type who packs him his lunch.
really appreciate your brother! you got a lot of wisdom
some women are just delusional
I am a 32 years old Turkish woman living in France and single since forever and never get any proposals. At 1st when I was younger my family had always fear me about men, that I have to be far from them and never approach men cause it is haram, I was student at this time. But now they force me to marry and meet someone in order to marry.. the problem is that they put me those barriers before and now they are pushing me to marry...By the way now all the men in my surroundings are married and I dont know any single muslim man. No one is helping me to marry a good muslim man even my family doesnt help to meet someone🤦♀
misery loves company
Why can’t women accept the scientific fact, biological fact about probabilities of pregnancy at older years?
This guy is on point
This comment section is weird not every women’s goal in life is to get married some genuinely don’t want to get married or be in a relationship
Our Prophet Muhammad S.A.W (PBUH) said that “Whoever marries has achieved one half of one's religion.”
I was 19 when i married. Completed my bachelor during my marriage and now doing my masters. It can go hand in hand with marriage. Marriage and children will never stop you from doing what you like you only need to know your priorities. Will choose marriage anytime over anything.
MIND BLOWN 🤯🤯
The funny thing is, they will talk about how any man pointing these facts out is “insecure because he can’t have them”, which is categorically saying that the women these men end up marrying are lower quality women than them by definition, a SEVERE display of ego and deviance from Allah’s decree because they attribute their own selves the role of decider and judge who is better and who is worse, based on materialistic and useless characteristics such as “career” and “salary” when in hindsight, it’s how pious they are. Not my words, just the words of the prophet SAAW.
Another good video. Its a huge shame that we have many nice sisters out there who just don't get it. Living in this secular independent that produces more broken homes than anything obviously doesn't help, but when we have Islam as a guidance and we can't mould ourselves to it and look for any option to fulfil our selfish nafs and I can go on, our sisters go through very hard times to eventually (hoping) realise they got it all wrong and by then it's too late. There needs to be sisters out their who can hopefully reiterate what the brother is saying so sisters can get the message across esp their mothers. And father's need to also not get caught up in this nonsense when it comes to their children. Parents can be at fault at this first by giving the wrong advise as well as how they talk to their daughters.
In fact there needs to be a lecture in weak father's too.
Just marry abroad and let these women be single
@MahdiTidjani very informative, nailed it spot on! Jazak Allah khair swt brother.
Nailed it once again my man. The bitter truth 💯
Good video, straight to the point
I love how they're still wearing the hijab and putting this on display for everyone to see. May the ummah be cleansed of such ignorance. And ladies, you wanna do this, fine. But take off the hijab, what you are teaching does NOT in any way, shape, or form represent our deen. Whether you like it or not, that's what you are representing.
Bad advice
@K. Kong proof ?
@K. Kong but how did the prophet's wives dealt and had conversations with his companions then ?
@@sh-tz2xs This ayah answers your question.
"O you who have believed, do not enter the houses of the Prophet except when you are permitted for a meal, without awaiting its readiness. But when you are invited, then enter; and when you have eaten, disperse without seeking to remain for conversation. Indeed, that [behavior] was troubling the Prophet, and he is shy of [dismissing] you. But Allāh is not shy of the truth. And when you ask [his wives] for something, ask them from behind a partition. That is purer for your hearts and their hearts. And it is not [conceivable or lawful] for you to harm the Messenger of Allāh or to marry his wives after him, ever. Indeed, that would be in the sight of Allāh an enormity." Surah Ahzab ayah 53
@@hamzajamil1281 is there a tafsir cause we take the ayah and hadith with context not just copy pasting verses u know
ahhahaha somebody clip that part when my brother says : '' erghem erghem, Twenty nine is ancient''
Great lecture! Highly recommend you listen to it all the way.
I agree most of these comments but I know someone who got married at 40 and now is at her seven child at 50. Not to say also an old friend of mine had her fifth child at her early 40’s and I met another woman who has her last daughter in her 50’s and I met her beautiful healthy daughter.
So him downgrading women, and saying are useless is very unintelligent and ignorant of him.
Excellent analysis. Easily one of your best videos bro!
I hope those women watch this.
Hit the nail on the head with this one 💯
Someone needs to ask these women, "are you a Muslim first, or are you a liberal, feminist, educated, career woman first?". I
Whenever I hear about low quality man and woman what comes to my mind is a person who is not loyal, abusive, toxic, who gaslight, extremely possessive, thinks they are superior...
Basically someone with a bad character!
Aren't they talking about that? Are they really talking about a guy who is not 6ft tall with a PhD super rich etc?
Because I've studied too, University and all..and I really don't mind if he's a PhD a doctor mega rich or not!
There's many ways of becoming successful in life! As long as he meets my standards when it comes to character , appearance (I won't lie, it matters) and working..has means to create sustainace! Then it's cool.
I come from a South Asian background and believe me all I see around me are toxic relationships, failed and abusive marriages!
I can understand why these women don't want marriage, because it seems like they're background is whether south Asian or middle eastern! Which tend to have really toxic marriages! Plus being bombarded everyday and everywhere about how man are trash and no good ones left! It messes with your head, I used to tell myself that I don't want marriage too, due to alll of that!
But today I understand that we generalise wayyy too much and there's actually really good man out there, not perfect no Prince charming but good guys!
Both of these women are beautiful and yes, still young, they can find really good guys if they want!
On the other side if they don't want to be married that's on them, we should learn to respect people's own decisions! Without letting those decisions affect us!
give them 5 years and their market value will go down drastically. believe me when i say this men dont care if females have degrees, i live in the west and almost all my friends looked for wives back home in villages!
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Wow sister , just wow, you just brought down the entire building ! Bam ! Your husband is one lucky fella!!
Well said! 👏🏻
The problem really isn't that they themselves have decided to stay unmarried but that they are promoting fitna amongst young women by posting this on social media.
It's called the Epiphany Phase (29-31) and it's something the Red Pill recognized over a decade ago now. It a time in women's lives when they are forced to acknowledge and rationalize their aging out of the sexual marketplace:
This woman has severe anxiety and depression. She is not happy with her life so she needs single Allies.
Müslim families are being destroyed and mosque Imams don't speak on such issues
If you want to grow your audience, think about giving feedback towards some issues we see amongst the brothers in our communities as well. I've enjoyed your insight thus far, but unless I am missing the other videos your content is similar to many other commentators who focus their commentary on the conduct of women.
feel free to do it. if its worth it, we'll gladly listen. cos last i checked men have been the ones been called out from time immemorial
make an offer then
Nah feminism has been around for 70 plus years. Give that suggestion in another 65 years.
"The more successful a man becomes the less he values your academic success"-Mahdi
Couldn't have said it any better,alhamdulilah as a successful practicing Muslim man, I do not care about the education level of my future spouse, as long as she is able to take good care of the household and makes it peaceful place for me. Ofcourse, she has to be practicing muslimah aswell, and always strive to be better Muslim. Those are much greater values for a successful wealthy man who can care less about his spouse's education or work. Man and woman are not same...
Women ((obviously not all)) give women they love bad advice from a position of wanting good for them, & i just witnessed this yesterday 💔
Great video...great video.
I know many women who had their first child after 35 and went on to have 3 children!!!!🙄 What are you saying mahd??? The problem of having children late is that you don't have the same energy looking after them and not being around for longer with your children. But that goes for men too.
Exceptions don't make rules my sister
@@mdfaizhussain7718 6 women in my family is not an exception.
@@livinia296 we r not talking about your family sister we r talking about whole female population.
So in comparison to whole female population your six family members are considered as exceptions
@@mdfaizhussain7718 😂
This is crazy what young people believe in nowadays.
LIFE IS NOT FAIR, Brother this is a VICTIM's statement.
ALLAH IS FAIR, HIS RULES ARE NECESSARILY FAIR.
IF WE CAN'T SEE THE SYSTEM, WISH NATURALLY WE CAN'T SINCE WE ARE HUMANS , WE ARE NOT THE MOST WISE, IT IS IGNORANCE TO SAY LIFE IS NOT FAIR,
ALLAH SAID IN THE QURAN[17:85] :{and you were given only a little knowledge.}
Dude, stop being a snowflake ! L8fe is not auppose to be fair , cause it's suppose to be test ! Why one brother who looks like model gets all the women he is trying to escape and other who is 3'5 can't get any ? Is that fair? Nope, but they both have different tests and different expectations as long as they keep Allah in their heart
It seems like you didn't bother to understand my comment. SO I WON'T TRY HARD TO EXPLAIN, ALL I'M GONNA SAY IS:
ALLAH SAYS HE IS THE MOST JUST , saying his test isn't fair, means you still lack understanding of your faith.
Truth isn't Subjective.
ISLAM teaches us bring your proof if you are truthful
The example of the brother is already bordered in the first comment i made wich is we can't see the full picture therefore we can't see Allah's justice . On the day of judgment no one will be able to point a single oppression from Allah, Why because on that day we'll understand what we can't understand in this dunia.
So don't stop the brother from thinking and researching this point by saying you both are right, for it will benefit his aqeedah and belif to do some research in chae Allah, if he wants to of course
@@bigdaddy7729 life isnt a test, if it was then god wouldn't know our results before we even took the exam.
@@jeffreyepstein4310
Quran translation [67-2]:{It is He Who has created death and life so that He may reward you (after trying you as to) which of you excels in doing good deeds. He is the All-Mighty, the Great Protector}.
Life is a test and a fair test, and No One Is saying that Allah doesn't know the results from the Start,
Since he knows Everything including what happened, what's happening, what's going to happen, and what did not happen if it did how it will happen.
Absolutely 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 agree .
I feel sad that you are personally attacking these Muslim women in hijab who are representing themselves. You are making personal comments about their appearance and age. But these Muslim women don’t live in a vacuum, they have family. Thank Allah swt that he gave us protection in the form of our fathers and brothers and uncles, to protect us from men who make insults.
Simp
So u should marry ur Father brothers and uncles
These women can't even fulfill basic Islamic responsibilities (how many wear no makeup, perfume, pray 5 times a day, etc?), yet are trying to come at practicing Muslim men? Lol.
Marriage used to be for companionship, now it's for financial gains.
Too many truths in one vid.
Seems like this generation is screwed. I feel sorry for the brothers and sister alike.
I am thankful I got married more than a decade ago and I don't have to deal with these types of women.
She invested all of those years into becoming the men she wanted to marry. Lol. You hit the mark, bro. Exactly what i don't get with women these days
Both of these women know that they are exceptionally pretty so for them they believe (from thier perspective )that they will not fall short for men regardless of thr age but its a whole different story from a guys perspective. Plus they wont just marry any guy it will have to be on thier same social/ career status
Mahdi is coping, low quality means, short, ugly and ethnic not academic, monetary or status achievements. I've seen muslim brothers in the marriage market for years not able to find anyone. As soon as a white a white revert comes into the market, he gets scooped up instantly. Mahdi stop the cope, please. Women love double speak.
BP is real
Blacks get even more muslim women, in France maghrebi men got so mad they make fun of women for choosing black men
But yeah, Muslims are racist af. White reverts dont even need to be handsome, just be white theory.
@Wiznsnw Qosnew data shows shows white women don't like ethnic men
@@jeffreyepstein4310 that's a fetish wanting to be fulfilled and a small minority, if they were given an oppurtunity during their marriage to start again and marry a white guy or white passing berber, they would. By then, no one wants her.
I agree, I can’t stand when women speak like this. They can speak for themselves. I like men and am not content without one in my life. I hate the “Women don’t need a man” junk.
Yes, yes, we do.
Anyway, to know why they’re saying a man might not respect them, look at how the videos and comments on this UA-cam page talk about women. Providing for and looking after a woman doesn’t mean he respects her. Two different things.
Yeah, husbands have to sweep your feet otherwise they are not respecting you.
Women need men and men need women. We were created for eachother.
And at the end of the day, the good women will find the good men and vice versa.
"Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men are for corrupt women; good women are for good men and good men are for good women. The good are innocent of what has been said against them; they will have forgiveness and a generous provision."
~Quran 24:26
@@Therebelliousprince001 indeed
@K. Kong Not well said. She is blaming everything on men. Read the second part of her comment. Women never take any responsibility of their mistakes. They always blame it on someone else.
@K. Kong Man you need to decrease your commenting frequency on this channel. YT flagged you and deletes your comment.
Yes geriatric pregnancy is 35 and after
"the tax has to be paid in full"
I'll take one for the team...menopause is gonna hit these gayals in 10 years time
Raise your value ….NOT … please raise your volume… let us get more benefits from your deep voice 😊, struggling to listen
Ask these women to work until the day they die. I have seen videos of women on Tik tok realizing that they will have to slave away in that office or cubicle farm for their entire natural lives. It’s a shock that hits them because they can’t retire or take a break. They can’t just stop one day and let their husband take care of the household.
The Prophet Muhammad said (PBH) Three generations after me, my people will not be of me. This thread represents exactly what he meant. Brothers and sisters are now lip professors…Now the world can watch it… very said state of affairs..
Do you know what Ph.D. stands for? PotHead 🤣
I don't any problem if someone don't want to get married. Its life choice. Am not interesting marriage either who am I to judge. Do what makes you happy and worship your CREATOR
They are getting attention now from 35 year old regular Abduls and 50 year old professionals its going to drop like a rock in 5-10 and all they will be left with is retirees looking for 2nd wives
Mahdi, any thoughts on fathers instilling this on their daughters from an early age? Being career oriented and not being wives, having kids etc
I agree !! Because i hate how recenetly everything is like, oh youd only get married if you have a degree. My parents included and i disagree with their ideology
Exactly I told my mother to get me married she says once you become independent. I'm so tired and all girls of my age have boyfriend whether hijab or abaya they're having bf and sleeping around. I'm 21 may god put sense in my mother liberal brain
@@zia4550 Amen Sister!
@@PureLuv21
True brother. I don't wear hijab because I live in society where if I wear will get more attention all boys will look at me because I'll be highlighted and Islam told to avoid male attention. But one hijabi told me that hijabis are pearl cover in shell and non hijabis are stone found everywhere. It made me cry literally even Allah hate looking down his creation. But the strange thing is that I saw the same girl with 2 non mahram and one was having hands on her waist she was laughing. A lot of hijabi have boyfriend I never made boyfriend never did zina only go for lunch with my family and female friends no male friends. I wonder why hijabi even if she had done zina had more honour and prestige than me just because she wear hijab and appear religious. Wallahi a lot of muslim are so racist
@@PureLuv21
Maybe but I live in a non muslim town and they don't like muslim if I wear hijab I'll be highlighted and be in danger that's why I don't wear. You don't know most of girls wear hijab to look cute and get attention not to avoid as stated in islam but leave allah know me well.
After this video
I have more respect for you
Women in this era are victims of the harsh society standards
They arent victims you simp. They are also responsible.
The guys these sister claiming to
Be low value , you know the guys who worked in construction , who build those high towers , men who worked day and night to build the electric system , who laid down the lines with their lives , those same low value brothers who build those heavy trucks , those giant ships , those dangerous jobs , the same brothers who worked miles down in the mines , yep those same low value brothers who did all that while fasting , never missing a fast , working hard under that heat , my question is sisters , who are you calling low value ? You can’t live one day without them , not even one day
WAllahi, these women have no shame. These sisters have fathers who worked day and night to provide for them, they had to broke their backs, and now how do they repay them? By attacking their contributions to society, their families. These women are an embarrassment to their fathers and the Ummah.
Mahdi calls them low value as well.
Can u calm down please
Nah those aren’t low quality men. Low quality men are those who don’t actually care about their wife, her well-being, her personality, her dreams and her thoughts but marry her because she’s young and can cook 🤡
@@Sumayyak47 but these women mean low quality men including not tall enough and definitely not earning enough .
Kevin Islam-uels over here 👀
Lmaooo this dude has me rolling! “Lonely spinsterhood”🤣🤣 “the taxes must be paid in full.” “Wrinkly, and overweight .” bro I’m dead! This nigga’s use of satire is hilarious. Funny how many people get so pissed at him, can’t take a damn joke. Granted what he’s saying is true. Lol
Allah already give us the solution...its call polygamy..A woman will only do anything for the man she see n like n falling in love with ....n if she a real beautiful woman...she will only want a handsome ...but she hav to share that handsome man too because more beautiful woman will want him too...so Allah allows us men to have 4 wives ...case closed....its sad n sinful world...man..
We women are actually very very happy without a man if he is not a good man , specially if he is polygamous to be unmarried forever and practice ur deen and make ur own money is infinite times better then marrying a man who is polygynous or not a good man
Prophet Muhammad is polygynous
When you are old than you will notice how unhappy you are were you fight have your own daughter or son.
Village girl who will drive you insane!!! That village girl isn't going to stay 19. You will be left with a headache.😂
False. They are happy with their husband so long as they are given their rights
@@therepublic7708 Please do it! And you will see.👍
@@livinia296 it is already happening and increasing massively.Women are become feminism will push men away from them to other women.
@@therepublic7708 Then men have to make sure the woman follows Qur'an and sunnah. They must vet the women.
This sucks, but at the same time how can we actually resolve the problem of our needs when it seems like the market is becoming more limited by the day?
Not sure if I will get married but when I decide to, I plan to go back home and marry a family oriented woman!. This western women are lost!. “29 is too young” really!!! Lol
@@alpharays3667 You should get married akhi, it's important that the ummah grows and that we raise children with their head screwed on right
@@SIGSEGV1337 well, I get the urge sometimes and videos like this then make to double down on any hopes!. I personally think if someone can hold it to when he’s 35, by then, our sex drive will reduce and we can sustain to the rest of our lives without getting attached to any woman!.
Imagine dealing with women like this all your life, no Demure in them no smiley face no femininity!. It’s sickening!.
@@alpharays3667 I'd rather have some fun smashing my life to bits than be bored alone tbh
@@alpharays3667 Thats why you have to practice polygamy if the 1. doesnt work out , then you go to the 2. and replace the 1. with a 3. , offense is the best defense.
Look at her colorful clothing and that costume. She tells you everything you need to know.
I'll throw a spanner in the works and try to defend the educated women. When the bros do marry the village girl but then it doesn't work out - what does she have to fall back on? And if women want to pursue a career then they can always get married and continue to do so? I think the issue people have is a single minded mentality: that everything should be done in steps. First get educated, then get a job, then get married. But for a lot of people it never works out and they end up broken
The problem that you my friend adress is less than 1% in the real world its the media who make it seem like its happening everyday and that shows that you're deeply rooted in the matrix
@@nedjme1325 And you're listening to too much Andrew Tate "my friend" 🤙
@@mhassan9784 who wouldn't, unless you are gay or something(not you "friend") he's TOP G
@@nedjme1325 Actually I and people who are like me - sophisticated - can't Tolerate trash talk. So Professor Peterson and Mufti Abu Layth are my inspirations👌
@@mhassan9784 trash talk like what excatly? and peterson's with the jews
All women want family and children.
some just realise it too late.
Yes they do!!! But they love their freedom, freetime, sleep. More.🙄
She might be 29, but she looks like freaking 49!!! (The one is yellow hijab)
Not really. Also consider she’s not wearing makeup or at least not heavy makeup
Big Daddy a bit rude
Why say that
"borderline useless" . Nothing makes a woman useless apart from her being disbeliever. This is so hurtful to term anyone as useless. Fear Allah Akhi . What's wrong with you Algerian? Brothers and sisters just have faith in Allah SWT ; don't compete in worldly matters but on deen and study about what "Ehsaan" means in Islam. "Ehsaan" is what is missing from today's preaching mostly. You all will turn old and die(some would die before that). Would it be worth dieing knowing that you could have been more kind and shown mercy on others but you didn't? Sisters make it easier for men to approach you for nikkah ; bear difficulties in marriage and don't call off for divorce at the behest of some incident which can be forgiven. Brothers make it easy for sisters to stay in marriage ; help them wherever you can without compromising on your deen and limits of gairat and haya. Be kind to your kids. Don't go the way of pagans who are disgracing each other while they can ;wherever than can. You all have to die leaving everything but your intentions and your doings in this world. Make them as good as you can. Anyone can be cheated .It's the Qadar of Allah SWT and any beautiful woman can be divorced. So don't worry too much. Make dua and hold on the rope of Allah SWT.
You wrote a whole bunch of excess- he clarified useless in terms of biological pregnancy… it’s like me saying a man without legs is useless in the world of football- not the same as saying he’s a useless human being is it.
@@civildiscourse7626 yeah i agree. Some people don't have time or acumen to comprehend what's in the video but quick to write an essay. Also Mahdi's message is more apt towards elders and parents who are a complete and utter failure imo. Just blindly following kufr, raising daughters like males or just letting Western media raise the child,encouraging them to career and degree. No idea about society, the dangers and no idea about biology. Very pathetic
@@civildiscourse7626 then say they are not as useful, saying useless even like that is a bit. . . .wrong
@@ghurabaa114xx the thing is, it sounds harsh but actually it’s not wrong if used in the correct context…he’s not saying they are useless humans- she may still be smart, a hard worker, a great sister, friend daughter, cook or whatever but in terms of biological pregnancy if you can’t have kids then unfortunately you are useless in that regard… just like a man without sperm would be. We need to differentiate between incorrect speech and speech that just doesn’t sound nice.
@@civildiscourse7626yes, it's not wrong, but it is harsh. So there are better ways os saying it, especially considering the audience he is trying to address are emotional by nature - he needs to be wise
Walahi that's so true.
Its all cool and games if you believe that marriage is not good , but if you commit zina while saying that then you entered a whole nother level of disgustingness like I would call you a straight munafiq and wouldnt attent your funeral , sounds brutal but thats how disgusting that position is to my heart.
This is because the western countries that’s why these women are like this
If this women doesn’t want to get married you don’t need to tell us you don’t want to follow the sunnah of Muhammad pbuh then don’t then when you get in your late 30s don’t come to the young men crying and begging them to marry you cuz they won’t be interested in you and if they do get married to you it will probably be very messy and not last very long and the chances of that kind of marriage succeeding is very very very low.
let them. less dirt left more fish in the sea.
They aren't even properly wearing hijab. Wearing heavy make-up and barely covering the hairs.
29 is not too young lol. But i don't agree with someone saying " just because a woman is 29, she is not good enough for marriage."
it’s not the age per say, but it’s the accumulation of years of chasing the lifestyle of a man that adds baggage and damages the fruits of femininity
@@wealthwisdom1656 spot on.
Biology doesn't wait for who agrees or who doesn't agree.
Most men get married because they want kids. Women lost 80% of their eggs by age 30 and risk of Down syndrome kids increase by 57% after 30yo.
@@juxtapositionMS And biology probs has made you so ugly that u need to bitch about other women to make u feel better. Prophet Muhammad married Khadija and she was in her late 20s. I dont remember him spreading this sort of toxic messaging.
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