Thank you sir😊 Sir you are not just helping us in our answer writing but making us build our personality in this journey of UPSC by cultivating these virtues✨
Intro... Forgiveness - "The interpersonal virtue" In which an individual overcomes the feeling of anger and resentment with reconciliation at front. Body.. [Attribute of strong - Defines COURAGE]~ Heading * It takes courage to forgive in face of public opinion. For eg: Eva Mozes kor (victim of Holocaust)- Publicly forgiven the Nazis and Adolf Hitler * It demands immense strength to face the pain. * The feeling of bearing the offender as the one with whom to reconcile with is most threatening and filled with valour. For eg:- GACACA COURTS in Rawanda - "reconciliation initiative at top . " * It is risking the vulnerability means individual become strong enough to behold inner self with more audacity. Conclusion Thus forgiveness liberates one from ills of anger, pain, vengeance and paves the way for reconciliation and heals mental health thereby makes a gallantry being. Thank you sir😊
@@hemavathisrinivasan6593 when you forgive you become vulnerable to another hurtful action, the only way handle the risk of vulnerability is to be careful whom you are forgiving, they must deserve your forgiveness and further the repentance has to be there. This is way you ensure that they are sincere in seeking forgiveness and it is the sincerity that ensures that they don’t prey on your vulnerability.
Remarkable work sir ....this kind of value addition content is very rare on UA-cam. In answers we need to go beyond basic ethical theories and bring some new theories and examples...and your efforts are really needed. Thankyou so much sir. Plzz bring more such vidos on regular basis so that we can enrich our content to the best level. ❤
Actually nice one 🎉, but i think instead of forgiving wrongdoer for the cognigence crime, isn't this acknowledge us as the coward, or insted of giving the punishment to him we are making us more vulnerable again to face the same as prithviraj chauhan forgive mahmud gauri then we all know what he has done to prithviraj and with india, what if he didn't forgive gauri the entire history of india will change. So its very important to find the intention of wrongdoer if his remorse is fake or real. And never reconcile with them. Forgiveness is the another name of cowardness, if you are not able to take resentment.
Hmm…thanks for the perspective…forgiveness as a virtue needs to be practiced wisely. Forgiveness is a virtue that needs a liberal dose of wisdom as one needs to understand whom we are forgiving, their intentions, their remorse, the action that one intends to forgive…
That's why it's advised to be forgiving not to be forgetting... If prithivi raj had not done the later then the result of 1192CE would have been different.
@@ethics101 Sir i think one can forgive… let go the resentment and then be cautious of the one’s own action so that one doesn’t become vulnerable that anyone can wrong us( ideal case). Like this one will be at peace and be secure too !
True, getting over that anger and the negative feeling needs courage and patience. The anger or to be accurate the resentment dilutes with time. The negative feeling associated with the harm depends on number of factors: the nature of harm, intensity of injury, the degree of emotional scar. Therefore, the process of getting rid of anger differs from individual to individual and also the emotional resilience of the victim also matters.
Forgiveness for Gandhi was strength for only the stong could forgive, not the weak. Revenge and an eye for an eye can make the whole world blind Be it mandela who forgave colonial apartheid, or be it milkha singh forgiving partition violence . Ot is about finding peace within oneself rather than making it about the perpetrators. Ashoka forgave himself after kalinga. Forgiveness doesn't mean you forget, remember the lesson for it makes you wise in life. Exercise it cautiously, a rapist cant be forgiven by collective conscience of society. Nor do a terrorist . Forgiveness must be contexual.
Will you really forgive a person who murders your entire family sir in reality? Where what you have constructed for years has been devastated by minutes or seconds Im curious to your response since we had been taught of forgiveness by you sir. Im not seeking a response to be written in some paper but for real. I will be glad to know your response
Hi, there are certain things one needs to consider while forgiving. = to forgive or not to forgive is a personal decision, therefore it is the victim’s call whether to forgive or not = the perpetrator must be regretful and must repent for the action = forgiveness must be deserved Coming to your question about forgiving in reality, we have had instances where individuals have forgiven grievous harms.
@@ethics101 okay sir, now that i understood your reasoning in forgiveness from one's point of view. What will be your action when you are put in the above situation? Will you or will you not forgive sir?
Sir are conditions neccessary ? Becz forgiving is more of a personal decision and doesn’t depend on what the offender does ? Eg > ua-cam.com/video/6Z-hvklEcD8/v-deo.htmlfeature=shared
Yes, forgiveness is a personal decision. Some may forgive unconditionally but others may not. That’s why if certain conditions are met people may think of practicing forgiveness
Thank you sir,wonderful session 🙏 Sir, can we quote Rahul Gandhi's Speech that he acknowledges the wrong doing of his Grandmother's Emergency Provision. Thank you sir, Have a Good Day
Thank you sir😊 Sir you are not just helping us in our answer writing but making us build our personality in this journey of UPSC by cultivating these virtues✨
@@harikalinganagari always welcome 🤗
Intro...
Forgiveness - "The interpersonal virtue"
In which an individual overcomes the feeling of anger and resentment with reconciliation at front.
Body..
[Attribute of strong - Defines COURAGE]~ Heading
* It takes courage to forgive in face of public opinion.
For eg: Eva Mozes kor (victim of Holocaust)- Publicly forgiven the Nazis and Adolf Hitler
* It demands immense strength to face the pain.
* The feeling of bearing the offender as the one with whom to reconcile with is most threatening and filled with valour.
For eg:- GACACA COURTS in Rawanda - "reconciliation initiative at top . "
* It is risking the vulnerability means individual become strong enough to behold inner self with more audacity.
Conclusion
Thus forgiveness liberates one from ills of anger, pain, vengeance and paves the way for reconciliation and heals mental health thereby makes a gallantry being.
Thank you sir😊
Thanks for compiling.
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Well structured, glad to note that you used the video quite well. 👍
@@ethics101 Thank you sir.. Please suggest the needful corrections if possible🙏
@@shalusoni1316 if corrections are needed, I will let you know
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Wonderful session sir. How to handle the risk of vulnerability?
@@hemavathisrinivasan6593 when you forgive you become vulnerable to another hurtful action, the only way handle the risk of vulnerability is to be careful whom you are forgiving, they must deserve your forgiveness and further the repentance has to be there. This is way you ensure that they are sincere in seeking forgiveness and it is the sincerity that ensures that they don’t prey on your vulnerability.
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Remarkable work sir ....this kind of value addition content is very rare on UA-cam. In answers we need to go beyond basic ethical theories and bring some new theories and examples...and your efforts are really needed. Thankyou so much sir. Plzz bring more such vidos on regular basis so that we can enrich our content to the best level. ❤
Sure, will plan more such videos. Thanks for the feedback…❤️
Actually nice one 🎉, but i think instead of forgiving wrongdoer for the cognigence crime, isn't this acknowledge us as the coward, or insted of giving the punishment to him we are making us more vulnerable again to face the same as prithviraj chauhan forgive mahmud gauri then we all know what he has done to prithviraj and with india, what if he didn't forgive gauri the entire history of india will change. So its very important to find the intention of wrongdoer if his remorse is fake or real. And never reconcile with them. Forgiveness is the another name of cowardness, if you are not able to take resentment.
Hmm…thanks for the perspective…forgiveness as a virtue needs to be practiced wisely. Forgiveness is a virtue that needs a liberal dose of wisdom as one needs to understand whom we are forgiving, their intentions, their remorse, the action that one intends to forgive…
That's why it's advised to be forgiving not to be forgetting... If prithivi raj had not done the later then the result of 1192CE would have been different.
@@satyamgupta3578so the whole point is that protest of doctors in Kolkata is not virtuous. They should have forgive him and let thing go?
@@ankitbishtt1734 sir's comment is the answer...check that out
@@ethics101 Sir i think one can forgive… let go the resentment and then be cautious of the one’s own action so that one doesn’t become vulnerable that anyone can wrong us( ideal case). Like this one will be at peace and be secure too !
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sir can you please provide PPT/PDF of the video as well.
Let me think about it
What should one do about the inherent anger that comes with being wronged? The anger hinders forgiveness process.
True, getting over that anger and the negative feeling needs courage and patience. The anger or to be accurate the resentment dilutes with time. The negative feeling associated with the harm depends on number of factors: the nature of harm, intensity of injury, the degree of emotional scar. Therefore, the process of getting rid of anger differs from individual to individual and also the emotional resilience of the victim also matters.
Coming to what should one do, to start with one must stop nurturing the anger, the more one nurses it, the more difficult it becomes to get over it.
Forgiveness for Gandhi was strength for only the stong could forgive, not the weak. Revenge and an eye for an eye can make the whole world blind
Be it mandela who forgave colonial apartheid, or be it milkha singh forgiving partition violence . Ot is about finding peace within oneself rather than making it about the perpetrators. Ashoka forgave himself after kalinga.
Forgiveness doesn't mean you forget, remember the lesson for it makes you wise in life. Exercise it cautiously, a rapist cant be forgiven by collective conscience of society. Nor do a terrorist . Forgiveness must be contexual.
Thanks, like the phrase “exercise it cautiously”
Will you really forgive a person who murders your entire family sir in reality? Where what you have constructed for years has been devastated by minutes or seconds
Im curious to your response since we had been taught of forgiveness by you sir.
Im not seeking a response to be written in some paper but for real.
I will be glad to know your response
Hi, there are certain things one needs to consider while forgiving.
= to forgive or not to forgive is a personal decision, therefore it is the victim’s call whether to forgive or not
= the perpetrator must be regretful and must repent for the action
= forgiveness must be deserved
Coming to your question about forgiving in reality, we have had instances where individuals have forgiven grievous harms.
@@ethics101 okay sir, now that i understood your reasoning in forgiveness from one's point of view.
What will be your action when you are put in the above situation? Will you or will you not forgive sir?
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Sir are conditions neccessary ? Becz forgiving is more of a personal decision and doesn’t depend on what the offender does ?
Eg > ua-cam.com/video/6Z-hvklEcD8/v-deo.htmlfeature=shared
Yes, forgiveness is a personal decision. Some may forgive unconditionally but others may not. That’s why if certain conditions are met people may think of practicing forgiveness
@@ethics101 Thankyou Guru Ji! 🙏🏼🌸🌼
Thank you sir,wonderful session 🙏
Sir, can we quote Rahul Gandhi's Speech that he acknowledges the wrong doing of his Grandmother's Emergency Provision.
Thank you sir, Have a Good Day
Sure, you can. Thanks for watching
@@ethics101 welcome sir,
Thank you sir ❤
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