Simple Ways to Help Your Husband Feel Loved - Kathi Lipp

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  • Опубліковано 18 лип 2019
  • Kathi Lipp offers insights to wives on how to take a look at their husband's personality and discover simple, practical ways to build him up through words of affirmation and acts of service and love. Listeners can learn how to tune up their marriage from this fun and engaging conversation.

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  • @GoldenPalm24
    @GoldenPalm24 3 роки тому +70

    This channel is addicting

  • @dodiereynolds7763
    @dodiereynolds7763 3 роки тому +23

    It’s about time this was spoken about. The most important issue today. Look at all the broken homes and the sad empty children.

    • @MK-fq3fk
      @MK-fq3fk 2 роки тому +2

      May the Lord heal and Fill our children with His love

  • @janet6560
    @janet6560 2 роки тому +28

    We all love and need encouragement no matter our personality type.

  • @virginiawango3968
    @virginiawango3968 11 місяців тому +2

    We are not stuck in the marriage we're in, we have a great ability to change the direction the marriage that we have.

  • @DanielleBraiden
    @DanielleBraiden 5 років тому +27

    Bless you. I am seeking healing in my marriage. So encouraging to me.

  • @heikewatson306
    @heikewatson306 Рік тому +9

    Very helpful! Thank you Jesus for this Channel!

  • @melodymast1302
    @melodymast1302 3 роки тому +15

    I was waiting to hear the phrases an amiable needs to hear... It wasn't included.

  • @saintamerican6105
    @saintamerican6105 Рік тому +1

    i love her, i could watch her speak for hours shes soooo lovely

  • @Maria__57
    @Maria__57 3 роки тому +29

    Their Is one type of person that you have NOT addressed..THE NARCISISTIC PERSON. .that you CANNOT show LOVE..bc It takes advantage of. his/her partner..& i think you should talk about It ..with helping indications..bc. we are full of these people..

    • @Maria__57
      @Maria__57 3 роки тому +12

      @@QuiteTheLady you DON'T know what your talking about..First live. with a NARC...then You Will understand..what It really means...not what you THINK..but what It Is...

    • @autumn4115
      @autumn4115 Рік тому +6

      That's exactly the situation with me was. 20 years I poured my heart to loving my husband. It was never ever ever enough. NEVER ENOUGH! I eventually died on the inside and I totally gave up...

    • @autumn4115
      @autumn4115 Рік тому +5

      @@QuiteTheLady I didn't know about narcissism until this year. But I poured my heart and all I had to my husband of 20 years and it was never enough. At one point we attended a session at church where we learned about love languages and for a while (a couple of months) it seemed like it was working. And of course he started pulling away and degrading me. When I told him he was draining the love tank and adding nothing in, he raged and told me the love language concept is garbage and that by the way he attended the session because I dragged him there. What do you do with a person like that?

    • @michelepascoe6068
      @michelepascoe6068 Рік тому +4

      Two great helps for understanding it better and what to do:
      Dr Les Carter UA-cam channel, including his video entitled Calm Confidence, and the book Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft.
      Learn not to JADE (Justify, Argue, Defend or Explain)
      Peace and courage to you.

    • @michelepascoe6068
      @michelepascoe6068 Рік тому +4

      @@QuiteTheLady it's also not for you to judge people here

  • @shamgod3003
    @shamgod3003 Рік тому +1

    This is AMAZING!!!! Most have heard of the 5 Love Languages, but this is that next level that should accompany those love languages

  • @hedgemist691
    @hedgemist691 2 роки тому +1

    I typed 'How to help your WIFE feel loved' and this was number two on the list. Sigh, I give up, I really do.

  • @sarahmontognese5428
    @sarahmontognese5428 3 роки тому +6

    I needed to watch this and truly hear the words . Thank you

  • @ashlealove2402
    @ashlealove2402 5 років тому +10

    Thank you really insightful

  • @noryloydnarvaez327
    @noryloydnarvaez327 3 роки тому +4

    Insightful, wow!

  • @HomeImProveMentHow
    @HomeImProveMentHow 3 роки тому +3

    This is Excellent. Blessings

  • @lisaharper7185
    @lisaharper7185 Рік тому +1

    This was great
    I’m expressive and dating an analytic
    This was helpful

  • @marionr4319
    @marionr4319 3 роки тому +2

    This speaks to me alot

  • @anavenegas7826
    @anavenegas7826 Рік тому

    What a wonderful explanation

  • @patsavinda1703
    @patsavinda1703 5 років тому +27

    Hi, I just subscribed to this & scrolling thru reading the topics. What about ways for a husband make his wife feel loved😕

    • @christineb3669
      @christineb3669 5 років тому +4

      Pat Savinda you might enjoy this radio interview that Focus on the Family did called “Practical Ideas for Loving Your Wife” with Jay Payleitner.
      www.focusonthefamily.com/media/daily-broadcast/practical-ideas-for-loving-your-wife

    • @Maria__57
      @Maria__57 Рік тому

      It's a. Narcist video..the women has to do all the work..& the Narc ALWAYS... takes... draining. the partner..GIVING BACK NOTHING.. but hate ..

  • @autumn4115
    @autumn4115 Рік тому +12

    Seeing this topic makes me cringe. I loved my husband for 20 years, but it was just never ever ever enough. I always did something wrong even if I did everything he told me. The goal post was always moving until I totally gave up

    • @sownpeace
      @sownpeace Рік тому +2

      Yeah, this doesn't work for marriages where there is a mental illness substance abuse. I think her points are valid for most other circumstances, but those things are more prevalent than most Christian acknowledges.

  • @helenmiller8241
    @helenmiller8241 Рік тому

    Love all your teachings ❤️

  • @lorikorstanje2964
    @lorikorstanje2964 5 років тому +3

    New information that we all need thanks

  • @amandapeterson3659
    @amandapeterson3659 2 роки тому

    I have those same two love languages she does lo!

  • @JM-rf4be
    @JM-rf4be 2 місяці тому

    I have an important question
    How do we discover our husband 's personality in order to love him in an appropriate way? Hope you can help

  • @lovedandhighlyfavord
    @lovedandhighlyfavord 3 роки тому +1

    So what are the amiable phrases? Didn’t hear that, to help him feel love

  • @shamgod3003
    @shamgod3003 Рік тому

    Where can I get the material for home please??!!!! The 4 personalities...wow

  • @noryloydnarvaez327
    @noryloydnarvaez327 3 роки тому +6

    Focus of the family is great, but there seems to be only one host, haha.. i mean 90% of the talking is by Jim.. Ha, an expressive!

  • @nadmel
    @nadmel 3 роки тому +1

    20:02 Does anybody know this verse?

  • @GinKirk7256
    @GinKirk7256 4 роки тому +1

    What happened to my comment and the one I responded to?

  • @Mrs.T305
    @Mrs.T305 11 місяців тому

    How does this work with a man who has narc tendencies??

  • @ricecristi
    @ricecristi 3 роки тому +4

    There seems to be a lot of content on what women should be doing.

    • @hedgemist691
      @hedgemist691 2 роки тому +2

      Oooh, there always is. This one is aimed at women , but if you look for the advice for men, you'll not find as much.

  • @mariaalfonsi4746
    @mariaalfonsi4746 Рік тому

    Help, I'm 2 of these personalities & my husband is the opposite 2. It's a challenge b/c he's a driver, esp. control & UN emotional, & I'm amiable, his strong personality usually overwhelms me & I can't stand up for myself.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Рік тому

      I'd take a time out to pray and fast to hear from the Lord. Can u get away for a few days? This is no way to live. Bad for your health in every aspect. He doesn't sound like a true Christian. Get FOTF resources and a Godly counselor.

  • @csmoviles
    @csmoviles 2 роки тому

    🙏❤🙏❤🙏

  • @avonnii372
    @avonnii372 11 місяців тому

    Trouble is when an expressive is married to an amiable

  • @sarahko2014
    @sarahko2014 5 років тому +4

    What if you aren't sure what your husband's personality is? Do you have a checklist to help determine it?

    • @bigphoneold5824
      @bigphoneold5824 5 років тому +1

      Saved this video to watch later but after seeing your comment, I think I'll watch sooner than later.
      Another guest simply mentioned asking each other "What makes you feel loved?"

    • @focusonthefamily
      @focusonthefamily  5 років тому +3

      Sorry for not responding sooner, Sarah. We don't really have a checklist, but this article might help you understand your husband's love language and communication style: bit.ly/2KO6Upp. Hope it helps. God bless!

    • @cheyennewright6481
      @cheyennewright6481 4 роки тому +5

      Love languages book is also helpful to love your spouse in the best way.

    • @juniper_woods9508
      @juniper_woods9508 4 роки тому +4

      This is on her blog describing the four types. I screenshot them, sent it to my husband and asked him which one he thought described him best. I was shocked to find out his answer wasnt even close to what I thought! Hope that helps www.kathilipp.com/2012/09/marriage-and-the-four-personality-types/

  • @tubeyou2184
    @tubeyou2184 3 роки тому +2

    I'm a driver amiable

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    @rhondamintac3414 4 роки тому +1

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    @emmymac2 3 роки тому +1

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  • @blanchehanstein3450
    @blanchehanstein3450 Рік тому

    I really love these sessions, I learn so much from these. 🫶

  • @nonamehi
    @nonamehi 3 роки тому +4

    This was such a fun guest!