The fact that you said beautiful women often harm themselves hit deep. Honestly the emotional abuse towards beautiful women, especially those who have light and naturally stand out without even trying, should not be taken lightly. I was also naive as well or more so I didn’t understand that people could feel envy this deeply. The fact that I was also a people pleaser my whole life, just made things worse but I’m happy to say that I’m slowly growing out of it.
@@Lamarization you left two comments stating this exact same thing i hate when people bring up men when someone is talking specifically about women🤦♀️
@@princessaroyale no you obviously were the one triggered because you responded to me first talking about what you hate! Not vice versa baby. Like I said move tf around troll face
I know what you're talking about I'm a guy and it happens me, it's like a good thing but at the same time you're a target for evil people, so you need to start to protect yourself and stay away from that people, life gives you experience identifying them.
@@Diegosanchez-lw8ij I love when I get messages from men I feel a lot out experiencing this but are afraid to talk about it. Thank you for your input ✨🫶🏾
FACTS! It definitely happens to men, especially gay men! I never understood envy/jealousy because that wouldn’t make you have whatever the other person has. It’s honestly pathetic asf and shows insecurity
'No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.' ~Eleanor Roosevelt. Another's opinion of YOU is nothing more than a reflection of their OWN values, biases, or fears. Ignore it.
@@writerforlifeifyidk i don’t think you’ve been a teenager in a school full of mean girls who just want to make your life miserable, hard to ignore as a 13 year old girl personally :(
@@CherryRabbitXOX Sure, I did. I had to contend with jealous girls. Plus, I was at the top of most of my classes in terms of my grades. I recall only one mean-girl incident, age 16, that unsettled me (reduced me to tears) in the classroom. But for the most part, I was a confident scholar of a teen.
@@writerforlifeify Honestly that’s amazing that you manage to get through drama and stuff! ❤️ I’m often called a showoff or a nerd because I like to do well in my classes and work, and people say I’m stuck-up or narcissistic for wearing lipgloss and I don’t even know why it makes me really sad and uncomfortable because it feels like I’m not good enough and that I can’t please everyone (I’m not a people pleaser but I do hate when people hate me) but I want to continue to excel at studying and being good at exams since it’s all I can really do now 😞🫶🏻
Yes to everything! As with yours, my parents never expressed jealousy toward anyone. Being envious was never a thought in my mind. It’s so unnecessary and insidious. Great video.
Envy really is unnecessary, and it’s so toxic. It’s amazing to hear that you grew up in an environment where that wasn’t a thing as well, it really does shape how we see the world. Thank you so much for watching and supporting the channel.
Absolutely! Society often overlooks the struggles of beautiful women, assuming they should always be happy. Additionally, being overly nice can lead others to dismiss you. It's important to be kind, but also to be mindful of how much you share and to whom you invest your time, as some may take advantage of your generosity and treat you poorly.
Your struggles are even laughed at...When I talked about this on other vid I can't believe someone says"But still,I would choose to be beautiful I don't care if I get invalidated"
@@baddiezone Your struggles are even laughed at...When I talked about this on other vid I can't believe someone says"But still,I would choose to be beautiful I don't care if I get invalidated"
Thank you.. my mom gets so jealous of everyone, including me. When my daughter was born I’ve made the decision to raise her differently. I never speak about things like someone is better or worse. I truly appreciate this video 🥰
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 celebrate yourself mama, you just broke a generational spirit/cycle. that shows you are powerful, and thanks to you your child will live a different life and have a better mindset, be better prepared for the world. take a moment to recognize your own power and beauty, take a day to treat yourself to something. what you did is not easy, you are strong and God values you and loves you! God bless you and your family, hopefully your mom will come to her senses that being that way is poisonous. ❤
Same! I'm glad you were able to pass on the pretty genes. There are so many women out there who cockblock, and men who don't talk to women because they're too pretty. Pray I can meet someone (a good man). We're gonna make it, boys!
I related to this so deeply. I’ve felt jealousy and hated it. So I worked on myself relentlessly til I got to a great place in my life. Then realized how people treated me so poorly with no real reason. It was envy. I didn’t wanna believe it. Me? Envy me?! I’m no Beyoncé or Rihanna. Some of these people had so much more than me but still envied me. It’s a harsh truth I live with and I’m very careful with people because adoring your awesomeness can easily become someone doing everything they can to destroy it.
Yes! I can relate women with husband and what appeared to be a beautiful life have treated me poorly or envy me. That was always so confusing as a young teen grown up without a mom.
My chin is a little recessed, similar to Adriana Lima, but with worse bone structure in my bottom half. It takes a lot from my face, nevertheless people think I’m beautiful. My face is also noticeably asymmetrical, my nose is bulbous, not huge, but slightly bigger than my lips. I feel bad about myself constantly, but I don’t hurt other people, in contrast, I’ve met so so so many beautiful girls with amazing bone structures, symmetry, and feature distribution who envied me, bullied me or stopped being my friend out of the blue. I could never understand why because they were objectively more beautiful than me. I just assume that either can’t see their own beauty, or that they’re greedy for more. It makes me upset… so I’m with you on that!
So relatable. I thought the envy would subside as I grew older but sadly it got worse. There is something very disturbing about mature women who are envious and try to destroy women with this light.
same. i’ve had coworkers stalk me through the cctv cameras, have pictures of me on their phones, one hr lady told me she “didn’t see what was so great about me” (the boss everyone licked ass for wouldn’t stop hyping me up and wanted to promote me to the big leagues) and said i could “clock out and go work at a corner”. this woman was 5-10yrs older than me, married, AND A MOM. it’s sickening. at the end of the day, we face a lot of injustices as beautiful people, but at least we don’t wake up every day with all that bitterness and contempt that these people must feel on a 24/7 basis, only feeling slightly better when they target you and make weirdo attempts at destroying you. thats truly a miserable life.
I concur that if you don't know how to manage your beauty, people may treat you harshly as if you were just an object. It's unfortunate, but some individuals have even lost their jobs and way of life because of jealousy.
@Cloudyrain21 sadly, most of these bitter women don't seek the help they need so the women they target (like myself) go into therapy to heal from all the triggers and trauma. I'm learning that I can't ever change them so I'm working on my myself daily and rebuilding my self esteem. It's a long journey. I hope everyone here realizes how worthy they are of living a beautiful life despite attempts to destroy your self-worth. ❤❤❤
One of many reasons Marilyn is loved by many because most of us can find something in her that we relate too. You are very smart. Keep creating great content.
We were raised similarly. I don’t understand why anyone would be jealous and comparative, like what’s the point? I’m glad I didn’t grow up with an insecure mother.
I grew up with one but I never understood being jealous or competitive either because everyone should just be themselves and everything else will follow, we are all born beautiful
@@pbee.njayay444 I have a very jealous and insecure father’s wife and till this day my existence sends her into a rage. I wonder if certain people are predisposed to just be jealous. I hope life has been good to you❤️
@@munequa81 girl..we should be friends. I can relate very thoroughly!! But I am sorry you can relate bc what comes with resilience brings emotional pain..It’s been a year since I stopped talking to her too and her narcissistic ass refuses to reach out to me herself and uses other people to email me and call me lmao. Never heard from her since last August, and life got a BILLION TRILLION times better without her and her little flying monkeys in it. I know how that pain feels too well when the one woman you expect to support you unconditionally, treats you as competition…I hope life has treated you with love too
Use that jealousy to reflect and ask yourself what that person possesses that makes you jealous. Take it as a learning experience and work on that insecurity. Jealousy is just your brain telling yourself that you actually desire that quality/trait.
No jealousy is not ok nor is it normal... when people are jealous they always act on it... problem is, most people who feel jealousy aren't self aware and they don't know when they are showing their jealousy.
I’m a Gemini who has experienced envy and jealousy all my life from other women as well and I love Marilyn Monroe and Aaliyah I always felt like I could relate to them on so many levels! I appreciate your channel.💖💖💖
Yh, girl I totally get it being a Gemini too, I understand that energy on a deep level. Marilyn and Aaliyah are icons for a reason, and it’s wild how their stories reflect so much of what we go through with envy and jealousy. I’m so glad you’re resonating with the channel it’s all about shedding light on these things and empowering each other. Thank you for being here🙌💓
Tropical/western geminis would be considered Taurus in sidereal, Indian/Vedic astrology.. and it falls in two and a half degrees of the Taurus sign constellation.. one of that degree is in rohini (Marilyn’s Vedic sun sign) which is known as the favourite wife of the moon.. vedic being more centered towards the moon as the main sign.. rohini has relations towards the story of Alice of wonderland (a girl that is delulu towards the attention she’s getting from her surroundings as she is trapped in her own mind) and as well having connections to the story of adam and eve.. a very innocent woman that is deceived by by a snake into taking a bite of the fruit of knowledge.. where of course it ends up being the first sin as it’s forbidden knowledge. (Secrecy) this degree in the constellation is also known for ENVY, OBSESSION and being in love triangles.. similarly it’s opposite sign of Scorpio has a certain degree called Jyestha.. Naomi campbell has this actually in her vedic moon which also faces the same qualities of envy( evil eye), obsession and love triangles.. 🤷🏻♀️
I know exactly what you’re talking about! I have had women dislike me for no reason at all and it used to hurt my feelings back in the day! What really got me was when there were people who had more than me etc. dislike me ?! I never understood that until a woman named Geraldine told me one day she said I had a beautiful free spirit & and light and people would hate me for that and don’t worry about it because that’s they’re problem not mines but just stay prayful & be myself. I never forgot that. But the minute I peep a person has a spirit of jealousy or envy on them I cut them off period! I close off any and all access to me & mines because people are indeed very wicked!
Girl I feel you. As a short, feminine sparkli Girl... It took me years to understand Just how many People mostly women, especially close to me were envy of me... My love goes for you! Keep yourselves safe, beautiful Girls!
Girl, I love you already and that hair is phenomenal. I'm super grateful for people like you on this platform. Envy leads to all sorts of bullying and kind, blameless people getting hurt
Woh. I relate to you so much. I don’t understand jealousy and envy that causes people to act out. That radiance makes people act crazy instead of working on themselves to get to obtain the qualities they admire. Thank you so much for your content as I have been experiencing this kind of behavior from others and still wrapping my head around it.
I am just now realizing a lot of women are and were envious of me. I would always get treated badly in high school and even in the workplace. But the attractive women were always nice to me. I'm just noticing my beauty privilege that a person with little money can't buy like a defined chin, hourglass shape, full lips, and perfect teeth; it looks like I bought mine. I'm not trying to toot my horn or anything, but I could see why some people just can't get those things fixed. Even with body shapes and proportions, you can work out all you want with certain shape definitions, etc. You can't get unless you have $$
@@rchljeanne2315 This was me too I didn’t realise until later on that whoa 😳 they were bullying me. We were just so naive on how much beauty is a currency in this world. They want us to be “humble” so they can continue to benefit from us. We absolutely should toot our own horn. Doesn’t mean we are shouting it from the roof tops but it’s a inner knowing. Like how the rich won’t go screaming they’re wealth but you will know by their circle, their boundaries, how they talk, how they carry themselves, who they accept into their lives. What they entertain and don’t entertain etc. I’m fact it would be dangerous for them to have no boundaries just like it’s dangerous for women like us to not have boundaries. We have to be a bitch.If this information was widely spread how will men benefit off us for less and how will women use us as an emotional punching bag and to boost their egos. So unless we figure this out for ourselves or luckily through family member or friend or maybe online then you won’t find this information being widely spread. 💕
Thank you and all of you who shared your experience. I also have been the victim of jealousy from other women. It does hurt. As said though, I never felt comfortable speaking about it, since I fear being called conceited. I truly appreciate all of you for sharing your stories. It gave me the confidence to also open up. Being a beautiful woman is a very lonely life. You try to balance being polite, but not flirty. To be honest, but not overly assertive. To be judged and treated poorly by other women. To have to prove that you are intelligent. Trying to dress nice, but not sexy.
I’ve always resonated with Norma Jean! When you’re an independent person, free of caring about what and how others perceive you, you’re a threat! Like how dare you be secure in yourself!😂 I’d always rather be the wild horse than the tamed one🤷🏾♀️❤ I’m a cancer ♋️ same birthday as Missy Elliot, Pam Anderson and The Princess of Wales Diana. An empathetic crew we are😂
Exactly they hate when you’re a wild woman✨ you’ll never catch me conforming ever again💅 and wow that’s a powerful birthday 😳 I just did a princess Dianna one and I’m about to do Pam Anderson 😳you must be on the receiving end of this a lot huh🫣😂💓
@@SapphireLovee this is the comment I was talking about! I got spooked when I saw the Diana video. Like are we on the same wavelength or something?! I’m the Barbie that suggested Pam Anderson! Great, feminine, empathetic minds, think alike!😘
This happen to handsome masculine men too...I think beautiful women and handsome men go through the same relatable things in life. But the sad reality is that you hardly see them dating, they usually go for low hanging fruits...To me that screams manipulation
I disagree… men have a certain privilege in society due to patriarchy, while women experience the opposite due to patriarchy . For women , being beautiful just puts more of a target on you and you attract more men, men are predators while women are prey in this society. It’s like being a pretty , healthy, lean gazelle in front of a den of hungry lions
Clock it…I’m not saying pretty people should only date pretty people but I feel like the “personality>looks” trend in the dating world (esp in highschool) lands pretty people dating these roaches who are just as ugly on the inside as they are on the outside but wear a facade cause they know it’ll work (trust I know from 3rd wheel experience)
I had a “friend” in the past who would pick apart my appearance in a negative way, and she’d laugh if someone in our group made fun of me. But would appear angry when I received attention from men. Towards the end of our friendship, she told me that she was jealous of me because she thought I was pretty. I DIDNT EVEN THINK I WAS THAT PRETTY. I felt bad for her and reassured her that she was pretty too , but she didn’t believe me
don't put her too much on a pedestal though. she cheated with president kennedy and the first lady was deeply hurt by this. On the topic of envy, I grew up with a beautiful sister. She is so beautiful people from other cities and towns have heard of her through word of mouth, meanwhile I was the ugly sister (but this changed as i went through puberty). I overcame my envy through love and finding my own self. she is my big sister and I only look up to her, she is my hero. Which is why I became confused when i got older and my face changed, I didn't understand why people were aggressive to me for no reason despite not doing anything to them. I feel that envy is unfair because it is not the person's fault to be a certain way, to be something that you wish you were/had. my two cents, but i'm trying to change my mindset now to your wisdom.
I really love Marilyn but she was never a girls girl. Let’s be real with what she put Jackie through that was very disrespectful. Marilyn was beautiful but she had a lot of trauma which in my opinion made her a pick me constantly wanting validation from others esp men. Thts not an attack on her or her character. It’s just my opinion and an honest take from what I’ve seen of her. I love her but I gotta say the truth as well
@@Rebecca-x yep Marilyn was lost especially since she had a rough start to life. She always seeked love outside of herself. Turned into a pick me towards the end because of her trauma
Jackie was no angel. She stole her sisters boyfriend and married him, slept with her married brother in law and her final companion was also a married man. Her behavior was just as bad plus she married JFK KNOWING he was a womanizer. She ended an engagement with another man to pursue JFK because of the status her provided. She ran in upper class circles and was fully aware of the kind of man he was. Her own father Jack Bouvier paraded his mistresses in front of his wife and daughters. Marilyn was not a girls girl and she was no angel herself but it’s pretty unfair to paint her so badly when Jackie was just as bad.
The concept of a pick me didnt even exist back then. You're judging her based on todays time, ideology, standards and social values. The world was vastly different then and cellphones didnt even exist let alone a computer. She was messy for getting involved with a married man but at the same time no woman had a responsibility to any woman back then and that concept didnt exist. Men were the source of power, wealth, freedom and opportunities. You couldn't survive back then without a man unless you came from wealth, inherited wealth or was an actress / celebrity and didnt need a mans money. Every man in history cheated. JFK, Bruce Lee, MLK JR, Trump, Obama didnt cheat but it was exposed that he wanted a white woman and was hardcore chasing this woman and she turned him down then he settled with Michelle later. You'd be hard pressed to find a powerful man who can ignore ALL women and just stick to one. Thats a poor mans mindset
@SapphireLovee she was never a pick me. She had a position in society no other woman had for her time period ahd the entire social structure of the world back then resolved around men. Women were not bonded like that or pushed to be. If women didn't know each other it was every woman fot herself. Marilyn owed Jackie nothing and Jackie was deluisonal for not realizing nearly every man cheats back then. She was the perfect wife on paper but not embodying the sex, the thrill, the ego appeasing wit that women like Marilyn had. Jackie didnt know how to be desirable and what appealed to men like that.
@@XanastaciaEXACTLY!!! Jackie also rumored to have cheated after JFK messes around with Marilyn and thus its theorized that the handsome son she has with JFK that died in the plane crash, JFK JR, was by a man she was always taking summer trips with cause the son was extremely handsome and different from the other kids.
i have a co-worker that is jealous of me because my parents got me a great car to commute such a far distance to work and this *grown man* is a failed rugby player and now he's stuck as an assistant. He accuses me of being boujee and thinking that I'm better than them. But I've accepted that he is jealous and I shouldn't internalise his hostility. Even though it is very hard because he is physically aggressive, I've been told by many colleagues that I'm a courteous lady and I can't wait to leave! God bless every girl that has worked in a toxic workplace xoxo
Girl this…I had this one dusty that was mad bc I never gave his existence any attention. He tried to curse me out, but I ended that aggressive behavior real quick, and he ended up looking foolish and stupid. It’s annoying when you have to work with loser individuals.
I love how we unintentionally relate to certain people and realize we have the same zodiacs. Veronica Lake, Hedy Lemarr and Gene Tierney are all scorpios and are my fav old Hollywood girls. I love the energy they gave 🤍
Marylin Monroe was brightest star , not only extremely beautifull , feminine woman , she was rare diamond among all, she stands out among brightest hollywood stars of all time , but people are still so envy and jealous of her!! Some women are literally caniballs they want to eat her alive.
The envy in the entertainment industry is wild. SMH. They also hated on Britney Spears as well cause she was the “It girl”. Many women aided in the destruction & smear campaign of Britney Spears. Funny how Britney & Marilyn look alike. Women need to get it together instead of allowing patriarchy to manipulate & pit us against each other.
Britney dealt with it too! Christina Aguilera, Jessica Simpson, all these young girls at the time. It was so bad that they couldn’t help but shade her in interviews! Even men were jealous of Britney example, Timbaland 🤦🏾♀️
I agree, that’s why I felt like Brittney made that song , lucky she had all material gain and power, however she was so unhappy. and I definitely feel like man were threatened by Brittney’s beauty and the power she held
@@JESUSLOVESYOU219 yeeess so many people shaded her back in the day! There’s a video compilation floating around about it, timbaland was salty cause she turned him down & chose to work with his protege instead, even Diane sawyer sounded like a hater probably cause her husband also fantasized about britney at the time smh lol. The hate was REAL.. They were happy to see her demise. T
@@trapsource_goddess yup I almost forgot about that! Allegedly they’re 9th cousins because they had the same great (9 generations back) grandmother.. makes you wonder!
this happens to me all the time, i was just harrased at worked (physically) by a female coworker unprovoked - the police got involved and she was fired on the spot, my whole life i've been experiencing this and realize that im not occupying the right spaces because i thought i still need to build relationships where im at so ill limit what i do as to not ward off or intimidate potential friends/partners but that has gotten me nowhere and given me the short end of the stick where im consistently leaving others behind
One thing I've learned about being attractive is that you need to carry yourself as if the world revolves around you. The reality is, you are more fortunate than those around you, and you have to learn how to navigate life with that beauty-it's simply the truth.
Jackie truly had a more stable life in regards to marriage ,children and age.|People loved Jackie in a more well rounded way. Can you give historical examples of Jackies envy of Marilyn? Marilyn was a fragile, feminine, intellectual artist that essentially made her a loner RIP
Haha I’ll be honest, I did mention Jackie Kennedy for engagement purposes in this video, 😅🙈I want to focus on a deeper truth about Marilyn Monroe’s life her death was ultimately caused by envy. Marilyn couldn’t turn to women for support because many were afraid she would steal their husbands, and she couldn’t go to men either. Men were envious of her power and allure, often refusing to take her seriously. This lack of meaningful support left Marilyn isolated, leading to the anxiety and drug use that ultimately contributed to her tragic downfall. However to answer your question I would say Another example of Jackie Kennedy’s jealousy toward Marilyn Monroe can be found in the accounts of conversations Jackie reportedly had about Marilyn’s relationship with John F. Kennedy. According to biographer Christopher Andersen in his book These Few Precious Days: The Final Year of Jack with Jackie, Jackie was aware of Monroe’s affair with her husband. In a candid conversation with a friend, Jackie supposedly said that she wasn’t worried about Monroe because she knew JFK would never leave her for Marilyn, as Marilyn was not considered “wife material” in Jackie’s eyes. She reportedly remarked to her friend that if JFK wanted to leave her for Monroe, he could, but he would have to deal with the consequences, like the political fallout and public scrutiny These stories paint a picture of Jackie Kennedy as fully aware of her husband’s infidelities and of Monroe’s role in his life, leading to some level of jealousy, even if she outwardly projected composure and confidence. If she was so confident she would have attended his birthday bash but she skipped it out because she knew she would be overshadowed by Marilyn. I truly believe Jackie knew how to pretend. She did play her role well. The underlying tension and her sharp responses suggest that the affair with Monroe certainly affected her.
Jackie was a notorious home wrecker. Research her and Onassis. Jackie went behind her own sister's back and started dating her sister's boyfriend... Look it up. It's public knowledge.
This one ☝️If the rumors were indeed factual then Jackie did have legitimate reasons not to like Marilyn. The woman was having an affair with her husband. Jealousy has nothing to do with it. I’m with you when you are right and not when you are wrong.🤷🏽♀️ It’s giving Marilyn wayyy too much credit.🥴 The fact that black women are obsessed with this woman is so strange.👀 My Hollywood scarlet is most definitely Dorothy Dandridge.😏
@@Imustbefromanotherplanet If Jackie was a homewrecker then that mean she is no different then Marylin. Who also went with married men. It would mean Jackie played the Good women role when outside. While Marlyn played the Bad Girl openly
@@torrenciamcdaniel3272I’m surprised that didn’t come up in my research but yh that makes sense . Marilyn did so much for the black community at the time too
Omg im glad ur talking about this . Ive experienced this as well and couldn't figure out what whas happening. I have low self esteem so I never considered myself attractive but there has been several times where I was envied for my looks and being free like you mentioned. A "friend" kept 'complimenting' me but in a snide way.u After a while she started trying to sabotage my life and friendships. She harrased me for years even after we stopped hanging out.
Girl, I feel you 100%! It’s crazy how people can disguise their envy as fake compliments and then turn around and try to sabotage your life. I’m glad you shared this because more of us need to recognize this type of energy for what it is. You deserve to be free and surrounded by love, not negativity!
I’m a part of the Gemini club and the envy is REAL…I’m just trying to live. Just breathing and blinking get some ppl upset. I discussed with someone that making genuine and sincere friends is hard bc they all come w smiles and sincerity…at first; but I’ve now been conditioned to wait for the “other shoe to drop” bc it’s just a matter of time before the betrayal and backstabbing begins. So my interactions with ppl are shallow on purpose.
My estranged husband started to envy all of the qualities that he used to compliment me for. He was no longer happy with my beauty or my other talents. However, he doesn't want a divorce.
@elisabettabubola4927 We get it you’re jealous lol what’s the point in negging her? All it does is make you look pathetic and insecure. Work on loving yourself and you will realize how silly this behavior is 💖
❤ love this video and your energy. I got to say, Marilyn Monroe was the first victim of MK Ultra from the government. They created all her alters to have women behave like her. Docile, sweet and a sex object. Notice how her voice changes to a little girl. No grown woman talks like that. Britney Spears, Megan Fox (who has a tattoo of her in her arm), Mariah Carey and many more celebrity victims are programmed with the “Marilyn Monroe Alter”, to model her behavior for the benefit of rich men. Sex slavery for the elite. I really do suggest you dive deep into “MK Ultra Mind control” project also known as “Project Paperclip”. It’s a sad reality.
@@AlotusNine I’m so happy you believe this too. I didn’t mention it in the video as it would take it off topic but I love things like this since I was a kid searching mk uktra and “conspiracy theories”. Now I feel safe to talk about it I’ll be touching more on it too. Also Britney middle name is Jean like Marilyns real name, Norma Jean 👀 and I heard they were 9th cousins. I could talk about this all day haha😅😆 and thank you for your kind feedback and support 💓
I love her too she passed away when I was in the 2nd grade. I was so sad and I thought to myself the fairy princess is gone . I still love her 😊❤❤ You look like Aleia😊 as long as you look beautiful and have a high vibration they will hate you even in old age. I'm 72 and they still hate I'm so tired of this.
Heavy on the pretty girls that don’t post. I don’t post anymore because, I would get so much hate anytime I posted myself. Even at work I was labeled as a mean girl. When I keep to myself.
I was raised exactly like you. I’ve dealt with envy and jealousy my whole life from former friends, and men who I’ve dated. It’s so isolating and really takes a toll on your mental health. People will never admit that you triggered their insecurities by just simply being your genuine self. They become mean and nasty trying to break you down and humiliate you and make you feel bad about yourself 🙏🏿😓💗thank you so much for your channel. I’ve been binging for a few hours now and completely hooked. Please never stop posting. I knew I wasn’t crazy when trying to explain this phenomenon to others. I’m very humble yet beautiful and kind. People just think I’m talking crazy and bragging when I explain my life experience with unwarranted insecurity, jealousy, and envy from others 🙏🏿
@@SapphireLovee thanks girl. You’re so bright for someone who is only 25. I wish I knew all this back then. Glory be to God today is my 32nd birthday and I feel so blessed to be alive, receive such wisdom, and to have my lifetime experiences acknowledged with actual facts. Your videos are so powerful! 🙏🏿💗
I think both envied each other Jackie ( Marylin’s appeal) and Marylin (how people respected Jackie and took her serious as 1st lady) I think both had sad lives they centered men too much but that was common in those days
The Self Aggrandizement and Consistent references to how beautiful charismatic or unique you are honestly getting the way of the Psychological Breakdown and Analysis of Marilyn Monroe Life Legacy and Experiences.
Wow I totally get it because of the kids. When I cut my close friends off I just kept telling myself it’s better now than later 😭 preserving energy and hiding accomplishments and mirroring is your best options for now 👠
I don't get jealous either. It just doesn't occur to me. My mom was pretty envious, but I don't have the same idea about ownership that envious people do. If someone is born wealthy, for example, that's their money. They owe me nothing.
Female high school teachers hated me and failed to properly teach me on the subjects, then fail me on purpose. I hated school and went to college for a few semesters and just quit all together. But I did get attention from wealthy single men who took me under their wings to show me the world and showed me how the affluent world works. I didn’t like it either. 😂
Arrogance is where Envy comes from. People who think that they are better or more privileged than others are the ones who get envious. Humble people who don't think more of themselves than they should don't get envious. Humility is a state of mind that frees people from Envy. Arrogance is a state of mind that imprisons a person into becoming an Envious person. If people would practice wanting for others what they want for themselves this would uproot envy in all of us! One wise man said that an Envious person is the worst kind of person for they will kill you! And I heard another wise person say that Envy is the Mother of Murder. Envious people hate God because God is the giver of all gifts and so if someone hates you for the gift God gave you then they not only hate you but they hate the One responsible for you having that gift and that is God Himself. Humility is the way everybody! Not thinking more of yourself than you should is the way everybody!
@@robertepps2834 I was just saying something similar to a friend👏👏👏 humility will free you from envy. “Envy is the mother of murder” whewww that is DEEP because it’s true. 😳😳
Marilyn was a rebel of the times, where everyone was always very strict and polite with manners at the time, owning your sexuality was quite shocking & daring especially for a woman but was highly attractive because she was ahead of her time… as you can see that now a days everyone has become more and more vulgar but Marilyn also had a way of upholding her class at the same time. She was always sexy but never trashy about it. I’m sure that’s what drove people crazy about her, that she could get away with it .
Marilyn could not get away with it. She got depressed because men only saw her as a sex conquest and not as a person. Had she had people around her that grounded her, she could have found her worth but Marilyn killed herself because she wanted to be loved but men hovered around her like vultures while women scorned her for that
If I’m being honest, I always compare Marylin Monroe to Beyoncé. I can’t ever imagine what it’s like to be that beautiful and gorgeous and talented and treated so badly by people.
Marilyn Monroe is an example of why i despise when people say "there are no disadvantages to pretty privilege the (inhumane) treatment of pretty women is the experience of all women" because its so dismissive of not only how men or people higher up treat extraordinarily beautiful women but also how ordinary women who make such comments treat pretty women with contempt and hostility and harbor jealously and envy. Literal bombshells have been murdered for their beauty and to dismiss that is just ignoring a very serious problem that arises when it comes to lookism.
The hardest part about dealing with this for me is being a hairstylist. I even have clients who are envious, and i can't help but see it even though they try to hide it.. its really weird..
I experience this so much and it’s sad cause all I want is too love everyone. Was never able to make friend And all my woman family stayed away from me.
@@Chosenshines it’s sad when you realise loving everyone is a problem. Look sometimes I feel we are born on the wrong planet😂 don’t stop being you but gatekeep your love and stay protected 💕
Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy was shocked by Arthur Millers callous manner and flippant comments about his ex wife Marylin. They were at a gala/dinner.. He threw her under the bus and rode on her coattails. She wasn't materialistic at all. She died in her little bungalow. The only property she bought on her own.
I’m a Leo like Jackie. I would thought Marilyn was just precious. I’m Aquarius rising so quirky. I would never envy I love to bring everyone up. My favorite Marylin line, “ You just want to marry my son for money. That’s not true. I’m marrying him for your money.” Lol
The whole thing about possession is SO true. This is what people don't understand about pretty women. We're seen as a luxury good, therefore, we're still seen as objects. A Rolls Royce doesn't have pretty privilege. Having human rights is a privilege.
Right "the blond"and the brunette". Stay safe" and aware ". A lot of deep insecurities". The blonde hair the mole the eyebrows and the eyes the voice " and figure" all in one" a betty boo" qualities ".
I'm also a Gem. Yes, she was also a redhead, and she died her hair blonde. I have a very similar perspective in life to hers. But there were also a lot of Black women in that era who had to pretend to be White. That was survival. Not only being pretty, but being an unconventional beauty is scary.
@@Poodle_Gun I love red heads 😻 For sure I can only imagine the struggle they faced. So many had to lie about their ethnicities. More of a reason we should own our “unconventional beauty” in present day 🤗💋
People put Marilyn Monroe on a pedestal and don't know the truth. Marilyn Monroe Stole the style, walk and elegance of another woman who was her friend. That woman was a Black woman named Dorothy Dandridge. Marilyn met Dorothy and took her Mannerisms, her syle of dress, her walk ( that natural twist and stride that black women have when they walk) Marilyn tried to mimic it by making one of her heels on each pair of her shoes shorter than the other to cause her to walk as such. She Marilyn Monroe copied Dorothy's hair style down to her mole on her face down to her red and orange lipsticks. People are still going on about Marilyn when she Stole the style of a Dorothy Dandridge the True Beauty Icon of Hollywood.
Jackie was not envious of Marylin. She cried on her husband’s birthday because she got emotional since she had recently had a miscarriage. She never said anything bad about Marylin, they even shook hands after wards and had a good conversation. People are just weird and always want woman to be best friends even though they have nothing in common. Marylin lived in California and was a Hollywood star. Very extroverted and down to earth. Jackie Bouvier was from an old money Hamptons, New York family. She was very reserved and only socialized with people from her social class. Jackie Kennedy’s mother was a known Gold digger and taught her daughters to marry well. she literally divorced their dad because he went broke and married a rich guy in about a year after. 😅 That’s no wonder why Jackie did the same, she married 3 rich husbands in her life time. I am a big fan of both of them because I love the 60’s. But I enjoy both of their differences. There’s no evidence of Marylin having an affair with President Kennedy and his brother. People made up nasty rumors about Marylin, which is what you talk about in this video. It’s sad what they did to her.
I feel Marilyn had to ultimately play small to be a bombshell she could've left an bigger impact on the world if she was allowed to expand under patriarchy.but people needed her to just be a bombshell. Beautiful women often have to isolate because of all the abuse of the world but if she was allowed to be more dynamic man the lengths
The fact that you said beautiful women often harm themselves hit deep. Honestly the emotional abuse towards beautiful women, especially those who have light and naturally stand out without even trying, should not be taken lightly.
I was also naive as well or more so I didn’t understand that people could feel envy this deeply.
The fact that I was also a people pleaser my whole life, just made things worse but I’m happy to say that I’m slowly growing out of it.
This is so true. People talk about pretty privilege but they don’t talk about this, it can be very damaging
Me too
They hate you guts on another level it's Horrifying to deal with
They hate your Guts
@@lisalove6327I know the feeling 😢 Also you are absolutely GORGEOUS🥹😍
Yes! This is so true! What's really sad is when men are envious of women! It's very strange as well!
And vice versa! Women can be jealous of men too! Especially gay men
@@Lamarization you left two comments stating this exact same thing i hate when people bring up men when someone is talking specifically about women🤦♀️
@@princessaroyale girl idgaf! I can comment whatever I want just like you can. Move around baby
@@Lamarization you responded tho🤣🤣🤣🤣 triggered
@@princessaroyale no you obviously were the one triggered because you responded to me first talking about what you hate! Not vice versa baby. Like I said move tf around troll face
I know what you're talking about I'm a guy and it happens me, it's like a good thing but at the same time you're a target for evil people, so you need to start to protect yourself and stay away from that people, life gives you experience identifying them.
@@Diegosanchez-lw8ij I love when I get messages from men I feel a lot out experiencing this but are afraid to talk about it. Thank you for your input ✨🫶🏾
@@SapphireLovee Well said
THIS PART!! It happens to men too, but I don’t think it’s open to be discussed like with so many things regarding men and vulnerability
FACTS! It definitely happens to men, especially gay men! I never understood envy/jealousy because that wouldn’t make you have whatever the other person has. It’s honestly pathetic asf and shows insecurity
I’d like to know your story! How is it like, and what do you mean?? Do other men envy you, or women?
I always told my kids, “people remember how you made them feel” and to think that leads to being envied, is so sad.
'No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.' ~Eleanor Roosevelt.
Another's opinion of YOU is nothing more than a reflection of their OWN values, biases, or fears. Ignore it.
Yes, even though it’s unintentional
@@writerforlifeifyidk i don’t think you’ve been a teenager in a school full of mean girls who just want to make your life miserable, hard to ignore as a 13 year old girl personally :(
@@CherryRabbitXOX Sure, I did. I had to contend with jealous girls. Plus, I was at the top of most of my classes in terms of my grades. I recall only one mean-girl incident, age 16, that unsettled me (reduced me to tears) in the classroom. But for the most part, I was a confident scholar of a teen.
@@writerforlifeify Honestly that’s amazing that you manage to get through drama and stuff! ❤️ I’m often called a showoff or a nerd because I like to do well in my classes and work, and people say I’m stuck-up or narcissistic for wearing lipgloss and I don’t even know why it makes me really sad and uncomfortable because it feels like I’m not good enough and that I can’t please everyone (I’m not a people pleaser but I do hate when people hate me) but I want to continue to excel at studying and being good at exams since it’s all I can really do now 😞🫶🏻
So refreshing to hear someone say they don’t get jealous.
We’re out here. We get inspired not jealous. We love ourselves too much to do that 🙏🫶🏾✨
@@SapphireLoveeI wish I was like you
@@lindamonsivais6028 💯 It's a horrible wasted emotion.
Yes to everything! As with yours, my parents never expressed jealousy toward anyone. Being envious was never a thought in my mind. It’s so unnecessary and insidious. Great video.
Envy really is unnecessary, and it’s so toxic. It’s amazing to hear that you grew up in an environment where that wasn’t a thing as well, it really does shape how we see the world. Thank you so much for watching and supporting the channel.
I'm actually always just so happy when I meet other pretty women who get it. So, remember there are people out there who are HAPPY you're alive too.
It is true when you’re beautiful you aren’t taken seriously
Absolutely! Society often overlooks the struggles of beautiful women, assuming they should always be happy. Additionally, being overly nice can lead others to dismiss you. It's important to be kind, but also to be mindful of how much you share and to whom you invest your time, as some may take advantage of your generosity and treat you poorly.
Your struggles are even laughed at...When I talked about this on other vid I can't believe someone says"But still,I would choose to be beautiful I don't care if I get invalidated"
But you can receive way more by being smart about your pretty privilege...
@@baddiezone Your struggles are even laughed at...When I talked about this on other vid I can't believe someone says"But still,I would choose to be beautiful I don't care if I get invalidated"
Thank you.. my mom gets so jealous of everyone, including me. When my daughter was born I’ve made the decision to raise her differently. I never speak about things like someone is better or worse. I truly appreciate this video 🥰
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 celebrate yourself mama, you just broke a generational spirit/cycle. that shows you are powerful, and thanks to you your child will live a different life and have a better mindset, be better prepared for the world. take a moment to recognize your own power and beauty, take a day to treat yourself to something. what you did is not easy, you are strong and God values you and loves you! God bless you and your family, hopefully your mom will come to her senses that being that way is poisonous. ❤
Same! I'm glad you were able to pass on the pretty genes. There are so many women out there who cockblock, and men who don't talk to women because they're too pretty. Pray I can meet someone (a good man). We're gonna make it, boys!
I related to this so deeply. I’ve felt jealousy and hated it. So I worked on myself relentlessly til I got to a great place in my life. Then realized how people treated me so poorly with no real reason. It was envy. I didn’t wanna believe it. Me? Envy me?! I’m no Beyoncé or Rihanna. Some of these people had so much more than me but still envied me. It’s a harsh truth I live with and I’m very careful with people because adoring your awesomeness can easily become someone doing everything they can to destroy it.
Yes! I can relate women with husband and what appeared to be a beautiful life have treated me poorly or envy me. That was always so confusing as a young teen grown up without a mom.
My chin is a little recessed, similar to Adriana Lima, but with worse bone structure in my bottom half. It takes a lot from my face, nevertheless people think I’m beautiful. My face is also noticeably asymmetrical, my nose is bulbous, not huge, but slightly bigger than my lips. I feel bad about myself constantly, but I don’t hurt other people, in contrast, I’ve met so so so many beautiful girls with amazing bone structures, symmetry, and feature distribution who envied me, bullied me or stopped being my friend out of the blue. I could never understand why because they were objectively more beautiful than me. I just assume that either can’t see their own beauty, or that they’re greedy for more. It makes me upset… so I’m with you on that!
@@renethomas6575you were a threat. They possibly felt that their husband would want you and wanna sleep with you. It’s all their insecurity
Even being on Beyonce or Rihanna's life isn't easy, there's no reason everyone should envy anyone
I envy wives who don’t have to constantly socialize with their in-laws on a regular basis.
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So relatable. I thought the envy would subside as I grew older but sadly it got worse. There is something very disturbing about mature women who are envious and try to destroy women with this light.
same. i’ve had coworkers stalk me through the cctv cameras, have pictures of me on their phones, one hr lady told me she “didn’t see what was so great about me” (the boss everyone licked ass for wouldn’t stop hyping me up and wanted to promote me to the big leagues) and said i could “clock out and go work at a corner”.
this woman was 5-10yrs older than me, married, AND A MOM. it’s sickening. at the end of the day, we face a lot of injustices as beautiful people, but at least we don’t wake up every day with all that bitterness and contempt that these people must feel on a 24/7 basis, only feeling slightly better when they target you and make weirdo attempts at destroying you. thats truly a miserable life.
I concur that if you don't know how to manage your beauty, people may treat you harshly as if you were just an object. It's unfortunate, but some individuals have even lost their jobs and way of life because of jealousy.
@@milesdewar2413I hope you’re ok, those people are weird and need therapy.
indeed!!!!
@Cloudyrain21 sadly, most of these bitter women don't seek the help they need so the women they target (like myself) go into therapy to heal from all the triggers and trauma. I'm learning that I can't ever change them so I'm working on my myself daily and rebuilding my self esteem. It's a long journey. I hope everyone here realizes how worthy they are of living a beautiful life despite attempts to destroy your self-worth.
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One of many reasons Marilyn is loved by many because most of us can find something in her that we relate too. You are very smart. Keep creating great content.
Telling her he’s scared of her triggered me! I’m the tiniest girl and I’m told often ppl are scared of me
We were raised similarly. I don’t understand why anyone would be jealous and comparative, like what’s the point? I’m glad I didn’t grow up with an insecure mother.
Facts 💕
I grew up with one but I never understood being jealous or competitive either because everyone should just be themselves and everything else will follow, we are all born beautiful
@@pbee.njayay444 I have a very jealous and insecure father’s wife and till this day my existence sends her into a rage. I wonder if certain people are predisposed to just be jealous. I hope life has been good to you❤️
@@munequa81 girl..we should be friends. I can relate very thoroughly!! But I am sorry you can relate bc what comes with resilience brings emotional pain..It’s been a year since I stopped talking to her too and her narcissistic ass refuses to reach out to me herself and uses other people to email me and call me lmao. Never heard from her since last August, and life got a BILLION TRILLION times better without her and her little flying monkeys in it. I know how that pain feels too well when the one woman you expect to support you unconditionally, treats you as competition…I hope life has treated you with love too
I honestly think jealousy is an okay emotion to feel it’s totally normal and natural just like insecurity what’s not okay is acting on jealousy
i agree
Use that jealousy to reflect and ask yourself what that person possesses that makes you jealous. Take it as a learning experience and work on that insecurity. Jealousy is just your brain telling yourself that you actually desire that quality/trait.
EXACTLY I TOTALLY AGREE @@UNKNOWN-ci7fu
Jealousy in the spirit world is not a good thing you can actually manifest, demonic entities, and that’s how people harm people
No jealousy is not ok nor is it normal... when people are jealous they always act on it... problem is, most people who feel jealousy aren't self aware and they don't know when they are showing their jealousy.
I’m a Gemini who has experienced envy and jealousy all my life from other women as well and I love Marilyn Monroe and Aaliyah I always felt like I could relate to them on so many levels! I appreciate your channel.💖💖💖
Yh, girl I totally get it being a Gemini too, I understand that energy on a deep level. Marilyn and Aaliyah are icons for a reason, and it’s wild how their stories reflect so much of what we go through with envy and jealousy. I’m so glad you’re resonating with the channel it’s all about shedding light on these things and empowering each other. Thank you for being here🙌💓
Naomi Campbell is also a misunderstood Gemini.
@@BayouBarbie504 we are very misunderstood people, we are sensitive to energy
Why do us Gemini women get this..
Tropical/western geminis would be considered Taurus in sidereal, Indian/Vedic astrology.. and it falls in two and a half degrees of the Taurus sign constellation.. one of that degree is in rohini (Marilyn’s Vedic sun sign) which is known as the favourite wife of the moon.. vedic being more centered towards the moon as the main sign.. rohini has relations towards the story of Alice of wonderland (a girl that is delulu towards the attention she’s getting from her surroundings as she is trapped in her own mind) and as well having connections to the story of adam and eve.. a very innocent woman that is deceived by by a snake into taking a bite of the fruit of knowledge.. where of course it ends up being the first sin as it’s forbidden knowledge. (Secrecy)
this degree in the constellation is also known for ENVY, OBSESSION and being in love triangles.. similarly it’s opposite sign of Scorpio has a certain degree called Jyestha.. Naomi campbell has this actually in her vedic moon which also faces the same qualities of envy( evil eye), obsession and love triangles.. 🤷🏻♀️
I know exactly what you’re talking about! I have had women dislike me for no reason at all and it used to hurt my feelings back in the day! What really got me was when there were people who had more than me etc. dislike me ?! I never understood that until a woman named Geraldine told me one day she said I had a beautiful free spirit & and light and people would hate me for that and don’t worry about it because that’s they’re problem not mines but just stay prayful & be myself. I never forgot that. But the minute I peep a person has a spirit of jealousy or envy on them I cut them off period! I close off any and all access to me & mines because people are indeed very wicked!
Girl I feel you. As a short, feminine sparkli Girl... It took me years to understand Just how many People mostly women, especially close to me were envy of me... My love goes for you! Keep yourselves safe, beautiful Girls!
Girl, I love you already and that hair is phenomenal. I'm super grateful for people like you on this platform.
Envy leads to all sorts of bullying and kind, blameless people getting hurt
@@Persephonesbookshop What a lovely message thank you so much sunshine. I appreciate the love ❤️
Woh. I relate to you so much. I don’t understand jealousy and envy that causes people to act out. That radiance makes people act crazy instead of working on themselves to get to obtain the qualities they admire. Thank you so much for your content as I have been experiencing this kind of behavior from others and still wrapping my head around it.
I am just now realizing a lot of women are and were envious of me. I would always get treated badly in high school and even in the workplace. But the attractive women were always nice to me. I'm just noticing my beauty privilege that a person with little money can't buy like a defined chin, hourglass shape, full lips, and perfect teeth; it looks like I bought mine. I'm not trying to toot my horn or anything, but I could see why some people just can't get those things fixed. Even with body shapes and proportions, you can work out all you want with certain shape definitions, etc. You can't get unless you have $$
@@rchljeanne2315 This was me too I didn’t realise until later on that whoa 😳 they were bullying me. We were just so naive on how much beauty is a currency in this world. They want us to be “humble” so they can continue to benefit from us. We absolutely should toot our own horn. Doesn’t mean we are shouting it from the roof tops but it’s a inner knowing. Like how the rich won’t go screaming they’re wealth but you will know by their circle, their boundaries, how they talk, how they carry themselves, who they accept into their lives. What they entertain and don’t entertain etc. I’m fact it would be dangerous for them to have no boundaries just like it’s dangerous for women like us to not have boundaries. We have to be a bitch.If this information was widely spread how will men benefit off us for less and how will women use us as an emotional punching bag and to boost their egos. So unless we figure this out for ourselves or luckily through family member or friend or maybe online then you won’t find this information being widely spread. 💕
Thank you and all of you who shared your experience. I also have been the victim of jealousy from other women. It does hurt. As said though, I never felt comfortable speaking about it, since I fear being called conceited. I truly appreciate all of you for sharing your stories. It gave me the confidence to also open up. Being a beautiful woman is a very lonely life. You try to balance being polite, but not flirty. To be honest, but not overly assertive. To be judged and treated poorly by other women. To have to prove that you are intelligent. Trying to dress nice, but not sexy.
I’ve always resonated with Norma Jean! When you’re an independent person, free of caring about what and how others perceive you, you’re a threat! Like how dare you be secure in yourself!😂 I’d always rather be the wild horse than the tamed one🤷🏾♀️❤ I’m a cancer ♋️ same birthday as Missy Elliot, Pam Anderson and The Princess of Wales Diana. An empathetic crew we are😂
Exactly they hate when you’re a wild woman✨ you’ll never catch me conforming ever again💅 and wow that’s a powerful birthday 😳 I just did a princess Dianna one and I’m about to do Pam Anderson 😳you must be on the receiving end of this a lot huh🫣😂💓
@@SapphireLovee this is the comment I was talking about! I got spooked when I saw the Diana video. Like are we on the same wavelength or something?! I’m the Barbie that suggested Pam Anderson! Great, feminine, empathetic minds, think alike!😘
@@BayouBarbie504 oh yess !definitely vibrating on the same frequency it seems 🫶🏾✨hehe
This happen to handsome masculine men too...I think beautiful women and handsome men go through the same relatable things in life. But the sad reality is that you hardly see them dating, they usually go for low hanging fruits...To me that screams manipulation
I disagree… men have a certain privilege in society due to patriarchy, while women experience the opposite due to patriarchy . For women , being beautiful just puts more of a target on you and you attract more men, men are predators while women are prey in this society. It’s like being a pretty , healthy, lean gazelle in front of a den of hungry lions
Clock it…I’m not saying pretty people should only date pretty people but I feel like the “personality>looks” trend in the dating world (esp in highschool) lands pretty people dating these roaches who are just as ugly on the inside as they are on the outside but wear a facade cause they know it’ll work (trust I know from 3rd wheel experience)
I had a “friend” in the past who would pick apart my appearance in a negative way, and she’d laugh if someone in our group made fun of me. But would appear angry when I received attention from men. Towards the end of our friendship, she told me that she was jealous of me because she thought I was pretty. I DIDNT EVEN THINK I WAS THAT PRETTY. I felt bad for her and reassured her that she was pretty too , but she didn’t believe me
don't put her too much on a pedestal though. she cheated with president kennedy and the first lady was deeply hurt by this.
On the topic of envy, I grew up with a beautiful sister. She is so beautiful people from other cities and towns have heard of her through word of mouth, meanwhile I was the ugly sister (but this changed as i went through puberty). I overcame my envy through love and finding my own self. she is my big sister and I only look up to her, she is my hero.
Which is why I became confused when i got older and my face changed, I didn't understand why people were aggressive to me for no reason despite not doing anything to them. I feel that envy is unfair because it is not the person's fault to be a certain way, to be something that you wish you were/had. my two cents, but i'm trying to change my mindset now to your wisdom.
I love your confidence and self love! You are so beautiful!!!
@@CeeceeJacobsencc Woww Ceecee thank you !! what a kind soul mwhua 💋🫶🏾🫶🏾✨
@@SapphireLovee You are so welcome, thank you for sharing yourself so openly!
I really love Marilyn but she was never a girls girl. Let’s be real with what she put Jackie through that was very disrespectful. Marilyn was beautiful but she had a lot of trauma which in my opinion made her a pick me constantly wanting validation from others esp men. Thts not an attack on her or her character. It’s just my opinion and an honest take from what I’ve seen of her. I love her but I gotta say the truth as well
@@Rebecca-x yep Marilyn was lost especially since she had a rough start to life. She always seeked love outside of herself. Turned into a pick me towards the end because of her trauma
Jackie was no angel. She stole her sisters boyfriend and married him, slept with her married brother in law and her final companion was also a married man. Her behavior was just as bad plus she married JFK KNOWING he was a womanizer. She ended an engagement with another man to pursue JFK because of the status her provided. She ran in upper class circles and was fully aware of the kind of man he was. Her own father Jack Bouvier paraded his mistresses in front of his wife and daughters. Marilyn was not a girls girl and she was no angel herself but it’s pretty unfair to paint her so badly when Jackie was just as bad.
The concept of a pick me didnt even exist back then. You're judging her based on todays time, ideology, standards and social values. The world was vastly different then and cellphones didnt even exist let alone a computer. She was messy for getting involved with a married man but at the same time no woman had a responsibility to any woman back then and that concept didnt exist. Men were the source of power, wealth, freedom and opportunities. You couldn't survive back then without a man unless you came from wealth, inherited wealth or was an actress / celebrity and didnt need a mans money. Every man in history cheated. JFK, Bruce Lee, MLK JR, Trump, Obama didnt cheat but it was exposed that he wanted a white woman and was hardcore chasing this woman and she turned him down then he settled with Michelle later. You'd be hard pressed to find a powerful man who can ignore ALL women and just stick to one. Thats a poor mans mindset
@SapphireLovee she was never a pick me. She had a position in society no other woman had for her time period ahd the entire social structure of the world back then resolved around men. Women were not bonded like that or pushed to be. If women didn't know each other it was every woman fot herself. Marilyn owed Jackie nothing and Jackie was deluisonal for not realizing nearly every man cheats back then. She was the perfect wife on paper but not embodying the sex, the thrill, the ego appeasing wit that women like Marilyn had. Jackie didnt know how to be desirable and what appealed to men like that.
@@XanastaciaEXACTLY!!! Jackie also rumored to have cheated after JFK messes around with Marilyn and thus its theorized that the handsome son she has with JFK that died in the plane crash, JFK JR, was by a man she was always taking summer trips with cause the son was extremely handsome and different from the other kids.
i have a co-worker that is jealous of me because my parents got me a great car to commute such a far distance to work and this *grown man* is a failed rugby player and now he's stuck as an assistant. He accuses me of being boujee and thinking that I'm better than them. But I've accepted that he is jealous and I shouldn't internalise his hostility. Even though it is very hard because he is physically aggressive, I've been told by many colleagues that I'm a courteous lady and I can't wait to leave! God bless every girl that has worked in a toxic workplace xoxo
Girl this…I had this one dusty that was mad bc I never gave his existence any attention. He tried to curse me out, but I ended that aggressive behavior real quick, and he ended up looking foolish and stupid. It’s annoying when you have to work with loser individuals.
He sounds like such a dusty. He wishes he were you.
I love how we unintentionally relate to certain people and realize we have the same zodiacs. Veronica Lake, Hedy Lemarr and Gene Tierney are all scorpios and are my fav old Hollywood girls. I love the energy they gave 🤍
Marylin Monroe was brightest star , not only extremely beautifull , feminine woman , she was rare diamond among all, she stands out among brightest hollywood stars of all time , but people are still so envy and jealous of her!! Some women are literally caniballs they want to eat her alive.
I completely agree with everything you said. Marilyn had a very unique and powerful energy. ❤
Thank you so much for this video! It helps me feel less alone.
The envy in the entertainment industry is wild. SMH. They also hated on Britney Spears as well cause she was the “It girl”. Many women aided in the destruction & smear campaign of Britney Spears. Funny how Britney & Marilyn look alike. Women need to get it together instead of allowing patriarchy to manipulate & pit us against each other.
Britney dealt with it too! Christina Aguilera, Jessica Simpson, all these young girls at the time. It was so bad that they couldn’t help but shade her in interviews! Even men were jealous of Britney example, Timbaland 🤦🏾♀️
I agree, that’s why I felt
like Brittney made that song , lucky she had all material gain and power, however she was so unhappy. and I definitely feel like man were threatened by Brittney’s beauty and the power she held
And her middle name is Jean
@@JESUSLOVESYOU219 yeeess so many people shaded her back in the day! There’s a video compilation floating around about it, timbaland was salty cause she turned him down & chose to work with his protege instead, even Diane sawyer sounded like a hater probably cause her husband also fantasized about britney at the time smh lol. The hate was REAL.. They were happy to see her demise. T
@@trapsource_goddess yup I almost forgot about that! Allegedly they’re 9th cousins because they had the same great (9 generations back) grandmother.. makes you wonder!
Her voice is everything omg😍
this happens to me all the time, i was just harrased at worked (physically) by a female coworker unprovoked - the police got involved and she was fired on the spot, my whole life i've been experiencing this and realize that im not occupying the right spaces because i thought i still need to build relationships where im at so ill limit what i do as to not ward off or intimidate potential friends/partners but that has gotten me nowhere and given me the short end of the stick where im consistently leaving others behind
One thing I've learned about being attractive is that you need to carry yourself as if the world revolves around you. The reality is, you are more fortunate than those around you, and you have to learn how to navigate life with that beauty-it's simply the truth.
Jackie truly had a more stable life in regards to marriage ,children and age.|People loved Jackie in a more well rounded way. Can you give historical examples of Jackies envy of Marilyn? Marilyn was a fragile, feminine, intellectual artist that essentially made her a loner RIP
Haha I’ll be honest, I did mention Jackie Kennedy for engagement purposes in this video, 😅🙈I want to focus on a deeper truth about Marilyn Monroe’s life her death was ultimately caused by envy. Marilyn couldn’t turn to women for support because many were afraid she would steal their husbands, and she couldn’t go to men either. Men were envious of her power and allure, often refusing to take her seriously. This lack of meaningful support left Marilyn isolated, leading to the anxiety and drug use that ultimately contributed to her tragic downfall.
However to answer your question I would say Another example of Jackie Kennedy’s jealousy toward Marilyn Monroe can be found in the accounts of conversations Jackie reportedly had about Marilyn’s relationship with John F. Kennedy. According to biographer Christopher Andersen in his book These Few Precious Days: The Final Year of Jack with Jackie, Jackie was aware of Monroe’s affair with her husband. In a candid conversation with a friend, Jackie supposedly said that she wasn’t worried about Monroe because she knew JFK would never leave her for Marilyn, as Marilyn was not considered “wife material” in Jackie’s eyes. She reportedly remarked to her friend that if JFK wanted to leave her for Monroe, he could, but he would have to deal with the consequences, like the political fallout and public scrutiny
These stories paint a picture of Jackie Kennedy as fully aware of her husband’s infidelities and of Monroe’s role in his life, leading to some level of jealousy, even if she outwardly projected composure and confidence. If she was so confident she would have attended his birthday bash but she skipped it out because she knew she would be overshadowed by Marilyn. I truly believe Jackie knew how to pretend. She did play her role well. The underlying tension and her sharp responses suggest that the affair with Monroe certainly affected her.
Jackie was a notorious home wrecker. Research her and Onassis. Jackie went behind her own sister's back and started dating her sister's boyfriend... Look it up. It's public knowledge.
This one ☝️If the rumors were indeed factual then Jackie did have legitimate reasons not to like Marilyn. The woman was having an affair with her husband. Jealousy has nothing to do with it. I’m with you when you are right and not when you are wrong.🤷🏽♀️ It’s giving Marilyn wayyy too much credit.🥴 The fact that black women are obsessed with this woman is so strange.👀 My Hollywood scarlet is most definitely Dorothy Dandridge.😏
@@kameralkutie5594lots of bw relate to being used and growing up in poverty and abuse and having no sense of family
@@Imustbefromanotherplanet If Jackie was a homewrecker then that mean she is no different then Marylin. Who also went with married men. It would mean Jackie played the Good women role when outside. While Marlyn played the Bad Girl openly
This channel is so special.14:33 R.I.P Norma Jean Mortenson🕊️💕✨
Jackie was not the prettiest but her fashion was A1💯
@@cindyl760 yess ! I do love her style I was even going to add my pearl necklace to give a touch of Jackie but couldn’t find it haha
@@SapphireLovee Jackie was also racist. But Marilyn was not.
@@torrenciamcdaniel3272I’m surprised that didn’t come up in my research but yh that makes sense . Marilyn did so much for the black community at the time too
I mean this in all good will but when you're not pretty you NEED To be fashionable to make up for it
@@60wwediva sksksk😂😂
Omg im glad ur talking about this . Ive experienced this as well and couldn't figure out what whas happening. I have low self esteem so I never considered myself attractive but there has been several times where I was envied for my looks and being free like you mentioned. A "friend" kept 'complimenting' me but in a snide way.u
After a while she started trying to sabotage my life and friendships. She harrased me for years even after we stopped hanging out.
Girl, I feel you 100%! It’s crazy how people can disguise their envy as fake compliments and then turn around and try to sabotage your life. I’m glad you shared this because more of us need to recognize this type of energy for what it is. You deserve to be free and surrounded by love, not negativity!
Well done hun 💯💯💯💕💕💕 people definitely need to work on their insecurities ,they hardly do
I’m a part of the Gemini club and the envy is REAL…I’m just trying to live. Just breathing and blinking get some ppl upset. I discussed with someone that making genuine and sincere friends is hard bc they all come w smiles and sincerity…at first; but I’ve now been conditioned to wait for the “other shoe to drop” bc it’s just a matter of time before the betrayal and backstabbing begins. So my interactions with ppl are shallow on purpose.
I loved Marilyn but Jayne Mansfield was my girl! they both experienced jealousy while being so sweet
Jayne Mansfield wasn`t sweet , she was a creep and envy stalker of Marylin
This is 1000% relatable to me!
I love Marilyn so much omg ❤
My estranged husband started to envy all of the qualities that he used to compliment me for. He was no longer happy with my beauty or my other talents. However, he doesn't want a divorce.
Who cares what he wants, what do you want? Put yourself first if he is being abusive
That’s crazy I really relate to Marilyn and Aaliyah too
You're definitely insanely beautiful, one of the prettiest nigerian girls ive ever seen 😍. God bless you 💖
@@Zoe-nl1jn Zoeee God bless youu🫶🏾💕 Thank you for your kind words sweetheart 👑💋
@@SapphireLovee i think that witout mahe up she'd just above avaerage, Marylin was beautiful, period.
@@elisabettabubola4927 Good thing what you think matters zero lol 😍😍😍
@elisabettabubola4927 We get it you’re jealous lol what’s the point in negging her? All it does is make you look pathetic and insecure. Work on loving yourself and you will realize how silly this behavior is 💖
@@SapphireLovee idk why I thought you were American. Your English is GOOD.
❤ love this video and your energy.
I got to say, Marilyn Monroe was the first victim of MK Ultra from the government.
They created all her alters to have women behave like her.
Docile, sweet and a sex object.
Notice how her voice changes to a little girl. No grown woman talks like that.
Britney Spears, Megan Fox (who has a tattoo of her in her arm), Mariah Carey and many more celebrity victims are programmed with the “Marilyn Monroe Alter”, to model her behavior for the benefit of rich men. Sex slavery for the elite.
I really do suggest you dive deep into “MK Ultra Mind control” project also known as “Project Paperclip”.
It’s a sad reality.
@@AlotusNine I’m so happy you believe this too. I didn’t mention it in the video as it would take it off topic but I love things like this since I was a kid searching mk uktra and “conspiracy theories”. Now I feel safe to talk about it I’ll be touching more on it too. Also Britney middle name is Jean like Marilyns real name, Norma Jean 👀 and I heard they were 9th cousins. I could talk about this all day haha😅😆 and thank you for your kind feedback and support 💓
@@SapphireLoveecan’t wait!!!
I love her too she passed away when I was in the 2nd grade. I was so sad and I thought to myself the fairy princess is gone . I still love her 😊❤❤
You look like Aleia😊 as long as you look beautiful and have a high vibration they will hate you even in old age. I'm 72 and they still hate I'm so tired of this.
You do not look 72. 😳
@@Poodle_Gun Thank you ❤️😊
Heavy on the pretty girls that don’t post. I don’t post anymore because, I would get so much hate anytime I posted myself. Even at work I was labeled as a mean girl. When I keep to myself.
Oh yes I relate too ..also aliyah she was so stunning ❤
I was raised exactly like you. I’ve dealt with envy and jealousy my whole life from former friends, and men who I’ve dated. It’s so isolating and really takes a toll on your mental health. People will never admit that you triggered their insecurities by just simply being your genuine self. They become mean and nasty trying to break you down and humiliate you and make you feel bad about yourself 🙏🏿😓💗thank you so much for your channel. I’ve been binging for a few hours now and completely hooked. Please never stop posting. I knew I wasn’t crazy when trying to explain this phenomenon to others. I’m very humble yet beautiful and kind. People just think I’m talking crazy and bragging when I explain my life experience with unwarranted insecurity, jealousy, and envy from others 🙏🏿
I appreciate you so much, I love comments they keep me going on my purpose. God bless you. May we continue shining bright 🤗💎
@@SapphireLovee thanks girl. You’re so bright for someone who is only 25. I wish I knew all this back then. Glory be to God today is my 32nd birthday and I feel so blessed to be alive, receive such wisdom, and to have my lifetime experiences acknowledged with actual facts. Your videos are so powerful! 🙏🏿💗
Interesting perspective. I never looked at it that way being an average looking person. Thank you for sharing; enlightening.🤔
Thanks for being a decent person. ❤
I think both envied each other Jackie ( Marylin’s appeal) and Marylin (how people respected Jackie and took her serious as 1st lady) I think both had sad lives they centered men too much but that was common in those days
The Self Aggrandizement and Consistent references to how beautiful charismatic or unique you are honestly getting the way of the Psychological Breakdown and Analysis of Marilyn Monroe Life Legacy and Experiences.
My best friend has serious envy but I tolerate it because of the history we’ve been friends 17 years and our kids are best friends
Wow I totally get it because of the kids. When I cut my close friends off I just kept telling myself it’s better now than later 😭 preserving energy and hiding accomplishments and mirroring is your best options for now 👠
You look amazing !
I don't get jealous either. It just doesn't occur to me. My mom was pretty envious, but I don't have the same idea about ownership that envious people do. If someone is born wealthy, for example, that's their money. They owe me nothing.
Female high school teachers hated me and failed to properly teach me on the subjects, then fail me on purpose. I hated school and went to college for a few semesters and just quit all together. But I did get attention from wealthy single men who took me under their wings to show me the world and showed me how the affluent world works.
I didn’t like it either. 😂
That's true. You have to move differently.
What happened in college? I just hate social dynamics, the subjects are hard enough plus dealing with people’s garbage is just too much.
Great video, glad that this showed up in my recommended vids!
Arrogance is where Envy comes from. People who think that they are better or more privileged than others are the ones who get envious. Humble people who don't think more of themselves than they should don't get envious. Humility is a state of mind that frees people from Envy. Arrogance is a state of mind that imprisons a person into becoming an Envious person. If people would practice wanting for others what they want for themselves this would uproot envy in all of us! One wise man said that an Envious person is the worst kind of person for they will kill you! And I heard another wise person say that Envy is the Mother of Murder. Envious people hate God because God is the giver of all gifts and so if someone hates you for the gift God gave you then they not only hate you but they hate the One responsible for you having that gift and that is God Himself. Humility is the way everybody! Not thinking more of yourself than you should is the way everybody!
@@robertepps2834 I was just saying something similar to a friend👏👏👏 humility will free you from envy. “Envy is the mother of murder” whewww that is DEEP because it’s true. 😳😳
@@robertepps2834 wonderful comment
Marilyn was a rebel of the times, where everyone was always very strict and polite with manners at the time, owning your sexuality was quite shocking & daring especially for a woman but was highly attractive because she was ahead of her time… as you can see that now a days everyone has become more and more vulgar but Marilyn also had a way of upholding her class at the same time. She was always sexy but never trashy about it. I’m sure that’s what drove people crazy about her, that she could get away with it .
Marilyn could not get away with it. She got depressed because men only saw her as a sex conquest and not as a person. Had she had people around her that grounded her, she could have found her worth but Marilyn killed herself because she wanted to be loved but men hovered around her like vultures while women scorned her for that
If I’m being honest, I always compare Marylin Monroe to Beyoncé. I can’t ever imagine what it’s like to be that beautiful and gorgeous and talented and treated so badly by people.
You look pretty as Marilyn.
Thank you💋❤️
Wow. “I’m beautiful and I look like Marilyn Monroe.” 😮
Bro u just helped me so much
Thanks sis! ♥️
your so pretty you look like marilyn and aaliyah together!! i loved her as a kid too gemini queen
She astrologically has Neptune in her 1st house!!! ✨🌟💫
which means...
Marilyn Monroe is an example of why i despise when people say "there are no disadvantages to pretty privilege the (inhumane) treatment of pretty women is the experience of all women" because its so dismissive of not only how men or people higher up treat extraordinarily beautiful women but also how ordinary women who make such comments treat pretty women with contempt and hostility and harbor jealously and envy. Literal bombshells have been murdered for their beauty and to dismiss that is just ignoring a very serious problem that arises when it comes to lookism.
I am just going through people's profile pictures on this video and you all are beautiful
@@jourdainmbiana9696 They are aren’t they 😍🥰
It's a bit lonely. But it has to be accepted. Comes with the package.
It’s like Britney Spears everyone was jealous
And they’re cousins 🥰
I always get emotionally abused because of my fashion choices it’s crazy…that’s true about the self harm I sometimes do it.
The hardest part about dealing with this for me is being a hairstylist. I even have clients who are envious, and i can't help but see it even though they try to hide it.. its really weird..
I experience this so much and it’s sad cause all I want is too love everyone. Was never able to make friend And all my woman family stayed away from me.
@@Chosenshines it’s sad when you realise loving everyone is a problem. Look sometimes I feel we are born on the wrong planet😂 don’t stop being you but gatekeep your love and stay protected 💕
Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy was shocked by Arthur Millers callous manner and flippant comments about his ex wife Marylin. They were at a gala/dinner.. He threw her under the bus and rode on her coattails. She wasn't materialistic at all. She died in her little bungalow. The only property she bought on her own.
Godbless Marilyn, Selena Q, Aaliyah, Amy winehouse, and Whitney
No specific order at all
My personal favorites
rest in paradise 😮🙏🏽❤
I literally dont feel jealousy lol i thought i was autistic or something because people try to say thats an emotion everyone feels.. its not!
I really enjoyed this.
I have her facial birthmark exactly where it is
I’m a Leo like Jackie. I would thought Marilyn was just precious. I’m Aquarius rising so quirky. I would never envy I love to bring everyone up. My favorite Marylin line, “ You just want to marry my son for money. That’s not true. I’m marrying him for your money.” Lol
The whole thing about possession is SO true. This is what people don't understand about pretty women. We're seen as a luxury good, therefore, we're still seen as objects. A Rolls Royce doesn't have pretty privilege. Having human rights is a privilege.
Awesome video
Notice how the First Lady speaks I’ll of Marilyn
My own fam envies me so I keep my distance it’s always random women trying to insult me so it’s very annoying
Right "the blond"and the brunette". Stay safe" and aware ". A lot of deep insecurities". The blonde hair the mole the eyebrows and the eyes the voice " and figure" all in one" a betty boo" qualities ".
I'm also a Gem. Yes, she was also a redhead, and she died her hair blonde. I have a very similar perspective in life to hers. But there were also a lot of Black women in that era who had to pretend to be White. That was survival. Not only being pretty, but being an unconventional beauty is scary.
@@Poodle_Gun I love red heads 😻 For sure I can only imagine the struggle they faced. So many had to lie about their ethnicities. More of a reason we should own our “unconventional beauty” in present day 🤗💋
People put Marilyn Monroe on a pedestal and don't know the truth. Marilyn Monroe Stole the style, walk and elegance of another woman who was her friend. That woman was a Black woman named Dorothy Dandridge. Marilyn met Dorothy and took her Mannerisms, her syle of dress, her walk ( that natural twist and stride that black women have when they walk) Marilyn tried to mimic it by making one of her heels on each pair of her shoes shorter than the other to cause her to walk as such. She Marilyn Monroe copied Dorothy's hair style down to her mole on her face down to her red and orange lipsticks. People are still going on about Marilyn when she Stole the style of a Dorothy Dandridge the True Beauty Icon of Hollywood.
Lmao never fails 😂😂😂😂
Negative. Stop lying 😂😂😂😂
People calling themselves beautiful or pretty is cringy. Then really feeling like you and Marilyn shared common issues 😂
You know what else is cringey? Being this insecure and pathetic
10:05 Exactly‼️❤😢
She had Lilith in the first house… in Leo ♌️ 🦁
Houuuu 🔥
No wonder 😂
Love ❤
Can we get a hair tutorial ? You look so pretty ✨
She was sleeping with the Kennedies. So, I think it unfair to even use Jackie in this context. It's extremely unbalanced.
Jackie was not envious of Marylin. She cried on her husband’s birthday because she got emotional since she had recently had a miscarriage. She never said anything bad about Marylin, they even shook hands after wards and had a good conversation. People are just weird and always want woman to be best friends even though they have nothing in common. Marylin lived in California and was a Hollywood star. Very extroverted and down to earth. Jackie Bouvier was from an old money Hamptons, New York family. She was very reserved and only socialized with people from her social class.
Jackie Kennedy’s mother was a known Gold digger and taught her daughters to marry well. she literally divorced their dad because he went broke and married a rich guy in about a year after. 😅 That’s no wonder why Jackie did the same, she married 3 rich husbands in her life time.
I am a big fan of both of them because I love the 60’s. But I enjoy both of their differences.
There’s no evidence of Marylin having an affair with President Kennedy and his brother. People made up nasty rumors about Marylin, which is what you talk about in this video. It’s sad what they did to her.
Great video! I
I feel Marilyn had to ultimately play small to be a bombshell she could've left an bigger impact on the world if she was allowed to expand under patriarchy.but people needed her to just be a bombshell. Beautiful women often have to isolate because of all the abuse of the world but if she was allowed to be more dynamic man the lengths
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