Dissecting Absurd Reddit Theories - You Can Sit With Us Ep. 97
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Maggie, Becky, and Ariel are your new best friends. In their weekly podcast they dive into female friendships, current events, and what's going on in their lives. Sit down with them, and enjoy!
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Someone's probably already mentioned this but Heartstopper(both the show and the comics it was based on) was written by Alice Oseman, who is queer! 🍂 🌈
Edit: y'all Heartstopper has been renewed for TWO MORE SEASONS🥳💕💕
alice oseman (writer of heartstopper) is actually aro/ace and uses she/they pronouns. very queer and based off of her own experiences!!
Hey!! So Heartstopper actually was written by a queer person, the author is not a straight white woman. It’s based off of a webcomic that became a book, and the same person who wrote the books wrote the script for the show. Just think it’s really important to mention!!
Yeah! Would’ve been good Aro/ace representation on the pod if they had known
hey, what’s the time stamp for this?
27:33
Its super cool to hear that Heartstopper was actually written by a queer person, esp one who uses she/they pronouns. One of the few comment sections on youtube thats pleasant to read more often than not
Alice Oseman is not a “straight white woman”. I know that sometimes they talk about stuff on the podcast that they didn’t plan to talk about, so obviously they can get things wrong (nobody needs or has the capability to know everything) - but it would be nice to have a little note on the side when they do get things wrong, just as an acknowledgment.
I remember seeing something similar on the guys’ pod where they talked about Harry Styles and they said he was straight, while he never said he was and constantly talks about not wanting to label himself. They just assumed he was straight because he never said otherwise, which as I’m sure they know, it not correct… being straight is not the “default” sexuality.
Anyway, I know the Try crew is very aware of these things, but I feel like we could all do a bit better sometimes, and this is an improvement I would like to see.
Love the podcasts and all of you guys! Hope you’re all safe and doing well
I know a lot of people already commented this but I’m just gonna add - the writer of Hearstopper isn’t actually a straight woman, they are aromantic and asexual and uses she/they pronouns. I had the same assumption as Eugene until I said something to one of my best friends about how I was annoyed about it (I’ve had books in the past that I loved and then found it they were either wlw stories written by straight men or mlm stories written by straight women that have semi-ruined it for me) but they (my friend) corrected me and told me that Alice Oseman is queer which is exciting because that means its a queer love story written by a queer person that was turned into a Netflix TV show which makes me happy. Anyway, I understand the confusion and hope someone tells Eugene and hopefully it brings him joy.
I'm loving seeing all the comments from everyone stating the writer of Heartstopper is part of the queer community. I have never heard of the show or the creator but to see so many people open about INCLUDING aces in the queer community is amazing. I feel they should be included but being ace myself, I've seen some really hurtful things from others within the queer community saying we aces don't belong.
Right?? I was so glad to see it too! It's very refreshing :) And if you're ever in need of something to read I recommend checking out Loveless by Alice Oseman (creator of Heartstopper), it's a really good coming of age story witih an aroace protag, it's also how I first heard about Alice.
I'm so sorry to hear that. You're definitely included and important (as a queer person myself) 💜
you belong bb!! 💕 we're a community of open arms, even if some think otherwise ♥️🧡💛💚💙💜
Thank you so for the kind words. It took me a long time to realize that nothing was actually "wrong" with me and that I'm just a heteroromatic asexual. I just recently learned that asexuality is a broad spectrum and that me thinking I was asexual when I was a teen (long time ago) was actually correct. I felt SOOOOOO out of place. Still do because I feel like I can't talk to anyone about this.
I feel so loved. Thank you!
me too
You guys should watch Our Flag Means Death! It’s so so so good. The first two episodes are a little bit slow, but after episode 3 it really picks up. I’m absolutely obsessed with it.
To avoid a bunch of TV show spoilers (or if you can't afford 8,000 streaming services and you'll never watch all these shows)
1:11 Severance
3:25 Euphoria
7:55 Pachinko
9:35 Gilded Age
11:10 Bridgerton
12:40 The Wilds
13:25 Yellow Jackets
15:15 ad read followed by topic change
26:30 - 27:50 Heartstoppers
31:30 title topic begins
Thank you for this, I don’t watch any of these shows😂
An angel among us 🙏❤️
Bay Leaves Important!!! Especially if they are dried - they're sharp enough to cut up your esophagus. In chef training they taught us it could be a lawsuit to leave them in the soup. That's why you don't eat them
THANK YOU!! I literally came over to the UA-cam video to shout this! I was shocked that this wasn’t a common know fact 😰😰😰😰
Lol my mum leaves them in, and our family has just become used to it, maybe it’s a brown thing
can we get a masterlist of becky's recommendations?? with streaming platforms and everything omg
The author of Heartstopper is one of the kindest people I know - we’ve been tumblr-friends for years and she’s helped me plan travels to the uk 💖 She does intense research and uses mostly tumblr to connect with the types of people she writes about to get it as authentic as possible. Sorry for rambling, I just.. love this 😩
Im so confused that cilantro is the reason Becky does not really eat PHO. Nothing wrong with not liking cilantro but you can eat pho with out adding the cilantro thats on the plate plate of lime/bean sprouts/basil/mint/cilantro
Best day of the week is when the new pod is out! Never fails to brighten my day. Hope all are having a lovely day 🌸
for you gilded age fans - it was shot 15 mins from my house (I live on the same
island just two towns over) and they’ve been shooting season 2 recently !
Matt made me think of being in Spain when he talked about Lays chips with a cocktail. any bar in Spain will automatically give you bar snacks for free at your table or whatever, and usually it's a bowl of regular Lays chips (sometimes with shaved jamon on top of the chips), and that was my every night in Madrid, white wine and some chips, a perfect evening.
aw dont make fun of Ariel for watching later, she's got kiddos yall and is a busy woman, i get it! love you Ariel
I'm not Ariel's huge fan, but this was exactly what I thought too - why on earth would they make fun of anyone for not having watched something? People have lives that don't always include watching shows, and it's more than ok that way.
@@madnessqueen yeah 100%. I also think it’s perfectly fine to not watch trendy shows or watch them when you feel like it vs when it came out… there’s so much out there and I personally don’t prioritize what’s trending. I know Becky is super tuned into pop culture and loves shows and that’s great for her, but like be respectful of other peoples preferences. I like all of them but I will say that what I like about Ariel is she’ll never judge someone for a different preference or yuck someone’s yum. I feel like Becky can sometimes be a little judgmental and it bothers me when that happens. I also don’t get why they were dissing Matt’s chip preference lol though I know they’re friends and it’s just teasing. Like what you like! Lol
@@andyqv-goodvibes1900 Yep, exactly, like what you like! :)
mte, I don't think Euphoria is something she can exactly watch with Wes and Finn being around! it would've been funny if she turned it around like "well I know exactly what's happening on Paw Patrol!" because we know that's what she's watching with the boys when they're awake!
I’d love more content about jobs and when to quit/not quit and how to talk to your coworkers, I found the last part really helpful as I’m considering quitting my job to do more creative things
my main thing abut the job i wish they wouldve talked about is that the person wouldnt have ANY pto for the rest of the year.... that would definitely make me quit
but it was fun to learn about other jobs theyve had
If your job is toxic and you are miserable, move on. It isn't worth it. Learn how to make money doing something that you are at LEAST interested in, if not passionate about.
Kudos to Becky for mentioning/suggesting Pachinko. Definitely everyone should watch Pachinko, it's so good. Although, I suppose if you're not used to or aren't into K-dramas, it might be a bit difficult for you to get through. But I love K-dramas...so it was good for me. I mostly watched it because Lee Min Ho was in it, lol.
Alice is queer and a lot of the cast are too it’s honestly very good representation 😭
I wish I had that much time to binge these series 😭
To the person who wants to quit their job to go on a "long" vacation, if all else fails and you do quit, would this job take you back after your vacation ? If not would you have a new job lined up afterwards ? These are also things to consider. Just because you don't pay rent doesn't mean you don't need money ;)
i love "sneaking" food into the theaters. now its just some snacks and a can of soda but back when i was a teenager we would bring purses that could fit multiple footlong subs for us all or we would get tons of food from surf n turf and stack the Styrofoam and the people in the theater never cared as long as we didnt leave anything behind. i remember 3 of us going to see Penelope together and we all had our own fully packed styrofoam to go container filled with fried rice and chicken from the providence place mall cafeteria below the theater. memories
Thank you for shining some light to Pachinko! It really shows a lot of the Korean history that many of us are not taught. I really appreciate it as a Korean myself 💛
Thank you guys! Always look forward to Tuesday 💕
As so many lovely people have commented already Alice Oseman the author of Heartstopper is Queer!! Their pronouns are they/she and they’re aroace! I just couldn’t sit still and had to come here to comment after seeing you guys say she’s straight…I cry…Alice is so fantastic and 100% not straight or a cis woman…I am pretty sure they’re white tho lol. Anyways I can highly recommend heartstopper to everyone, it’s fantastic!
Severance is one of THE best shows I've watched in a while. Loved it!
Not me coming to YT just to see the Heartstopper comments 3 mins into the Spotify listen. Kit, Joe and the entire cast can have MY HEART AND SOUL!!!!!!
Bayleaves have a strong flavour if you just steep them in water. Try making a tea with it and you’ll be able to notice the flavour in your soup. It totally does something!
And, you could probably grow it in our yard because you’re in a warm place. Called a bay Laurel tree. It’s featured in Greek mythology too.
To the entire podcast crew regarding the discussion on dipping Doritos in different things - ok, but...have you ever tried Cooler Ranch Doritos in French Onion dip? I highly recommend trying that combo, it's so good. If your local stores sell it, I recommend using Smith's French Onion Dip in particular.
Was listening on spotify and had to rush to youtube so i could leave this on the comments: as a filipino who loves adobo (soy chicken dish), i can really attest that adding a few dried bayleaves makes SUCH a difference!!!
loving becky's hair for some reason! though everyone always looks great ✨
"Pho is choose your own adventure" LMAO
Dude I am so happy Becky brought up Pachinko by Min Jin Lee--it is truly one of the best books I have ever had the pleasure of reading.
Can we get OOTD details on Maggie’s outfit?!
Yes plz omg obsessed
Unpop opinions: 1. Bay leaves are removed cause they are unpleasant to eat/chew. They don't exactly break down easily, but they add flavor. 2. Sounds like a cleanliness preference. I eat Cheetos with chop sticks cause I dont like the dust all over my fingers. 3. Appetizers are a waste of money most the time. They're always overpriced in my town. 4. Yeah, not really an opinion.
Agreed. 100%!
About the Pachinko game, my family used to go to this KBBQ place that had a Pachinko machine. You put in a quarter and it slides down, bumping against the pegs. If it goes into the right one, you win a bouncy ball, but if not then you get a gumball.
Tostitos has their hint of lime chips and they’re so amazing, I need more chip talk😂
I have to say thank y'all for posting on Tuesdays
Lol Ariel out the gate with the Elizabeth Holmes impression 😆
I love watching you guys! You're all just so fun and adorable
I grew up initially being younger than the characters in the comics and now I’m older and it’s been so nice growing up reading heartstopper and now watching it
Halfway thru and I have yet to hear a Reddit theory.... On a side note I missed Matt last week 🥰
26:58 just casually glossing over the SA and ED content 🙃
Seriously the scenes with his ex are definitely not suited for children
@@Greenhouseghost7 exactly!
Also the homophobia, mentions of transphobia, and several fight scenes and mental breakdowns :/
A walking taco is 100% a small bag of Doritos with taco meat, with lettuce, tomato, cheese, and sour cream. And you eat them out of the small bag.😂
I do actually like using larger spoons and forks (not like a ladle or serving size level) but holding larger cutlery feels better for my arthritis because even like writing a note with a typical ball point pen hurts like a mother so wider handles just feels better.
My boyfriend’s daughter actually loves eating Takis with chop sticks so I get Maggie all the way in that regard.
Also they are basically describing tapas which is just smart and lovely for sharing.
rainie laughing in the background at ariel talking about euphoria was slaying me haha
Same!
This is the earliest I ever been~ Love you all~ 🥰
My siblings and I were playing a card game and my brother brings out a spoon to finish his bowl of white cheddar popcorn and we all were like wtf lol
Loved Heartstopper (books and the show!) Also recommending Pitch, oldie but a goodie
This reader letter makes no sense. 😂 I agree. But just work and go into debt. Haha def don't quit
Matt reevaluating his life at 4:47
Have any of you ladies watched The Flight Attendant, not a show I expected to like but I'm hooked and the second season so far is even better.
I remember when Cool Ranch Doritos first came out. They were literally the best thing ever. I was 11, and that's the perfect age to discover the best chip in the world, lol.
I have and will forever eat my popcorn with a plastic spoon. It's just the only way.
Also a recommendation: Tomorrow on Netflix. Tearjerker, controversial at times. Deals with heavy matters.
Bayleaf definitely does something. Adobo (yes, the Filipino dish) has to made with bayleaf in it, if you want to make a proper one. It adds aroma and it does have a distinct flavor if it's not in a dish with too many herbs and spices interrupting with it. You have to try it.
My favorite day of the week!!
RANK KING CHIPS???? WHEN IS THAT COMING?!
Here for the hot dish. Love my Minnesota friends. Most popular hot dish is cream of mushroom soup, green beans, and ground beef, topped with tater tots!
Thank you Ariel for enjoying the broth of pho before adding all the stuff! The broth is the key thing in a good pho. Eat it how you want but appreciate the broth 😀
Time to get Matt into the intro now.
I'm completely on board with cutlery for snacks that leave residue on my hands, like Cheetos or Doritos. I just don't like the feeling or the risk of getting it on other things.
Idk if they make them anymore, but Lay's limon chips pair soooo well with margaritas omg
I always have a problem with Euphoria going out of its way to show nudity of people portraying character that are meant to be minor. Pretty icky to me.
Dry herbs are way stronger then fresh herbs, because they are concentrated! You use far lees dry herbs when cooking with them!
Lots of Latinx commonly use bay leaves! They do add to flavor for many of our dishes across Latin American countries :)
@lisa simpson 🥰🍃
Tacos in a bag…. Doritos and then all the taco toppings (in the doritos bag) and shake! Super popular on college and university campuses here..
WE NEED BECKY ON GUILTY PLEASURES PEOPLE
why is nobody talking about ariels voice at the beginning HAHAH WHATT
Shout out to Ariel's jumpsuit. Its gorgeous! Im on season 4 of handmaids tale. Its amazing. Cant wait for season 5.
Bay leafs definitely enhance flavor. Also, you need more fresh herbs in a recipe than you do dried. Dried herbs are more intense.
Cool ranch + sour cream is the best snack. Matt is right ❤️😂
As someone who also loves just plain lays and also thinks they’re the perfect salty snack I guess I also have to ask my mom what deep seeded trauma caused this. 😂
I'm the same way! I craved them too when I was pregnant 🤣
I thought I heard the vacation question as the vacation was IN 6 weeks and will be gone for three days so she had 6 weeks to decide if she wanted to go or not 😅
I literally can't imagine tomato soup or some of our cream sauces without bay leaves, they do add flavour.
Also, employment policies in the US seem to be harsh. In my country, when you are fired, you usually get a few months' notice (unless you are in a probation period, which usually takes a few months, or unless you do something exceptionally bad, then you don't get that luxury of course). Also, our law guarantees each employee four weeks of paid holiday and most employers add one week extra to that (a few even more). That being said, it doesn't mean at all that August is a no-work month. Most people are "rationing" their time off very carefully to be with their kids when school's off, or to distribute their time off evenly (a week in the spring, maybe two weeks in the summer, a week around Christmas, etc.). The situation is a little different in Scandinavian coutries where it is very common for people to be off for four or five weeks during summer, so maybe that's what you guys meant.
In most parts of the US, employers are not required to give any PTO. There are federal laws surrounding medical, family, or parental leave, but they are NOT required to pay a dime for any of it. Many workers in the US are lucky to get two weeks of paid vacation or sick time per year.
Oh, and you can be let go from a lot of jobs without any notice. Plus childcare and preschool are typically exorbitantly expensive.
@@TaylorBrown419 That's so wrong.
Thank you Becky for your shout out to Pachinko!!!
spicy nacho is the best dorito flavor imo omg also actually cool ranch doritos are good in hummus.. my sister did an appetizer platter once with that and i asked her what chips are these and she said cool ranch doritos and my mind was blown
Matt, Frito-Lay is the brand, Lay’s Potato chip is the name of the potato chip. Or maybe you were talking about Frito’s the corn chip also made by Frito-Lay? Dorito’s are also made by Frito-Lay. They will probably send you some swag! 💖 I also like a thin plain chip with a cocktail. 🥰
I love how well you guys said pho 👏🏻
I work a corporate job and we get extra weeks the longer our tenure - I started with 4 week, but got an extra week after my 5 year anniversary. people with longer careers/higher positions get extra weeks off including mandatory time off.
Here's my take with cutleries on snacks.. During the pandemic I started using spoon/chopsticks when eating chips or bite sized snacks. I think it's more sanitary that way. Also, when I started having long nails. Eating chips with cutlery is practical. Just cause, for example, when I'm eating chips the powder/flavoring got stuck between my nails.. It's a bit disgusting. If you eat with cutleries you have none of those problems.
Cool Ranch Doritos dipped in sour cream was my pregnancy craving lol
My SO eats snacks, particularly messy ones like Smartfood, with a spoon and I eat them with chopsticks lol
100% co-sign the The Wilds recommendation!!
Fresh bay leaves are a different beast than the dried leaves. It is still subtle, but it accentuates other flavors.
is that liquor or iced coffee becky, we need to know
I need to see Maggie's entire outfit! 💓
LOVE Maggies outfit!!! I need to know where she got her green set😍
Yellow
I am so fucking glad you were talking about heartstopper!!!! I almost threw my spoon.
Did you read the comics?
My Husband and I always have food to take home or that goes unfinished. Even though he can eat way more than me, he still can't finish a normal American dish. We never get appetizers unless that's just my meal and never get dessert. Most of the time we find one huge meal that we both like and split it. But please make sure you tip as if you are tipping on two meals! We always make sure we do this. Sometimes they will even give us two plates and split it for us and it winds up as more food somehow. So please tip accordingly!
Not putting anything in your pho broth is not nuts Ariel 😂you can do whatever you want!
I still think it's weird that Americans call the main dish an entree, which literally means "to start" in french.
I always have a 5 week summer vacation. Our whole office shuts for july. I would not survive working in the States.
When I was a kid, my best friend’s mom would make cheese (probably velveeta) dip with ground beef in it and we would dip Doritos in it 🤤 I hadn’t thought about that in years!
We make this every year for Christmas day lol but usually add jalapeños. We call it barf dip 😂
My high school job that gave me a hard time about taking time off for my grandpa's funeral... It was my HIGH SCHOOL job... It was not needed, I definitely threatened to quit.
Where did Eugene get that information 😭
Where is Maggie’s outfit from!? It’s too cute and I need it!
Salsa verde Doritos in salsa is amazing
Can't believe the slander against The Wilds lol it's a great show!
I want YCSWU to give Heartstopper another chance 🥺 I love the show! It’s so wholesome.