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@@TheHoonJin I don't think that was the point of the comment though, I feel like it kind of has to do with attitudes towards sexual stuff. For instance, Americans tend to be more lenient and flexible, Koreans are more reserved and shy, and Korean-Americans are kind of a mix between the two by means of morals, etc. I could be wrong of course.
@@juliajade4173 It also depends on the age and generation. I'm fifty years old and Korean-American. But I also went to church every week. So my dating style was very conservative even though I was very aware of the dating culture in America. There is a generational shift towards faster hooking up in the West because of the internet and dating apps and even more causal attitude towards sex and Kelsey is really representative of that millennial generation. I 'm just surprised at the level of Kelsey's awareness since she is a Korean Korean as she claims.
This was too funny. “Candy is candy.” - best Danny line yet. Kelsey was a great addition to the mix. Would be great to see her collab with you guys again in the future. Love seeing DKDKTV relaxed. 💯💯👍🏻👍🏻
As a westerner I prefer the Korean way of dating. Here in the states dating is very rushed and is heavily focused on sex. I like the idea of taking things slow. I think it’s more romantic and sweet.
*Damn Kelsey is wild* 👀... *But seriously, I love how she's not afraid to express her opinions and also I love listening to her talk, like her voice is just weirdly soothing. Loved this collab. Def will check out more of her videos right now.* ❤❤
Imagine the perfect mix of Korean and Western dating. Where the guys treat the girls nicely and respectfully and there is more romance like in Korean dating but at the same time, the people don't feel pressure to go slow if they feel the vibe and feel comfortable to move faster like in Western dating and do it without worrying about being judged. That'd be pretty cool.
@@zefersanity6537 As someone who has lived in western Europe (Spain, France, Belgium etc) I would say they go fast as well... I mean in France you can see people doing the deed on public transport or public parks lmao. So no--- I don't think they're slow either. Maybe north europe?
Wow you guys just met her 5 minutes ago but looks like you guys have known each other for a decades.. She is So comfortable with you guys wow.. Need another collab with her.. So fun this video 👍👍
Tip on holding hands: you can say something “hey let’s go to there(...)” and you grab their hand as if you’re guiding them - it won’t feel creepy as it is justified. Don’t let the hand go and keep walking as a couple lol, if you feel them letting go of your hand then 🤷🏻♀️ good luck next time I guess.
I hugged a Korean guy I made friends with once in Korea-just a goodbye hug before I left-because his long time american/korean friends said it would be fine and encouraged me to do so. Needless to say...later found out he thought we were basically dating long distance after that lol. Welp. 💀
I'm French but I really identify with the Korean style of dating. I'm married now and live in Seoul. I liked that my husband planned out dates in the beginning. We took it slow, he didn't touch me until we were in a relationship. I felt respected. We didn't live together before getting married either. We only moved in together two weeks after our marriage. When I met his parents in the beginning, I guess they were scared I would be a "Woohoooo" open-minded 외국인 but they were reassured when they realized I had that traditional side. I often hear that I have a Korean atmosphere. So, I'm on your side, David. ^^
@@KM-gp2yz no but you can live together before marriage. That makes it known how it is after the marriage. Who'll do the dishes , is the guy respectful enough to cook and so on. It's all about opinions. I am indian and i hate the culture here. Apparently even dating is a big no sometimes.
I laughed way too hard, Kelsey is so hilarious and her laughter is adorable, she's just won me as a subscriber 😂 I LOVED how she made both flinch in embarrassment at times, definitely want to see more collabs with her!
Hmm I’ve heard from conservative Americans who prefer to stay friends and get to know each other for months before they enter an official relationship, while in Korea the man and woman date 3 times and have to decide if they want to enter into an official relationship. They get hooked up fast and break up just as fast. Not exactly slow...
@@EVL-xj5vc The same goes for the U.S. Not everyone, myself included, is interested in a fast pace relationship and would rather take things slow and date for months or even years. My parents dated 10 years before they got married.
i 'm kinda in the korean's side since as an asian myself , i can say that you have to be careful about dating women and take everything slowly . rushing things in relationships can put you on the bad side . anyways loved your discussion .
So literally if you don't want to get in a serious relationship (further marriage). You can't do all the other variables without being judge by society?
I think when she said that the westren don't care, it's not entirely right. They just talk behind your back and with everyone , judgment is the same lol.
@@_lisa_8332 In high school maybe. But in the adult world, the amount of judgement is definitely not the same, at least not in general. I'm sure you could find specific cases that are but that's besides the point.
@@TropicL3mon Really? In Germany the judgement behind your back is normal. I tell you this because people actually told me in the face (that they like to talk behind somebodies else's back - it's call acting friendly 😂😤)
I would like point out a strong distinction between "shaking your ass" and "wagging your butt". . "shaking your ass" has a strong mature and often sexual connotation. Usually related to dancing. . "wagging your butt" is usually more of a cute and non-sexual thing and is similar in context and movement to when dogs wag there tails (and sometimes whole back ends) when their are happy/excited. . so which is it that David does? it makes a difference.
@@jocelyncarrillo7663 it's not necessarily that deep but how things are phrased can significantly change the meaning. . and you have to keep in mind the David, while fluent and extremely good in English, still has it as a second language and may not be aware of or naturally think of conceptual differences in similar English phrases and terms. . so while it may not be a significant thing in your mind, it can be extremely helpful for people who are not native in English. and the same goes for all other languages. it's not cool, quirky, or funny for you to try and shame or talk down to others that are genuinely trying to help. You may not think of it in this way, but leaving comments like "it's not that deep" is discouraging to people trying to help while also, inadvertently gatekeeping the subject in question (in this case it's language and cultural context in relation to it). . restricting knowledge (whether you do it on purpose or as an accidental side effect of you actions) is one of the easiest ways to cause completely avoidable misunderstandings.
Knowing your own preferences and limits and being able to communicate them, is the most important thing. It doesn’t matter where you are from. And lots of people feel as you do.
Yes I agreed, its not really about geographical area. But more to your UPBRINGING & CLOSE CIRCLES. Like how do you value your potential relationship and potential bf. For me personally, i hang out with guys i dated for a while before any physical contacts, and the relationship lasted min 2 years+ and my current BF more than 3 yrs, and we seeing each other friends/families and of course intend to marry each other, even though later on broke up. I’m 30 yrs old now, i have 3 serious r/ship and a few just lasted for months only. I also have experienced like Kelsey & Danny’s approach on dating, but it never lasted > 3 mths. Cz obviously it was more to temporary desire than a deep emotional connection. Based on experience, i will be definitely conservative when dating cz I’m looking for a serious relationship rather than ONS. The guy’s intention when dating is really important, and for me to meet your friends/family are also equally important. Im surprised when David / Danny says their family doesn’t even know their GF. I will be hurt if I’m being hidden like that.
There is definitely a place for the David’s in the world! It’s nice to be dating someone without expectations of sex from the off. I like those first few dates and texting etc, the chase, that’s the best time, however, I think it probably would prove frustrating if someone wanted more but won’t/can’t due to “social expectations” or caring too much about people’s judgements. I’m on Danny’s side for this one, if you both want something, then go for it, it really doesn’t matter about anyone else’s views or opinions. A mix of the two would be a great combo!
Omg! She actually came! Dkdktv! Make more videos with her. I love how free and open minded she is, plus she also has expierience in and out of korea as you guys. Next video with her could be about how koreans percieve korean americans like what are the advatages and disadvantages.
I'm latina so this is reaaally interesting, like both sides have struggles and benefits. However I would like to acknowledge that the person I`m dating is really into me, like some kind of clear signal and not wait 3 dates to hold only my hand, maybe like in the second date if we vibe and then at the third date a kiss, and then a continous progress Kelsey is real, I like it ! PS: cuando David dijo que una vez que una chica haya salido con un Koreano, you can never go back to western. I was thinking "once you go black you never go back" does that make any sense??!! lol
I'm not even finished the video yet, but I'm enjoying it so so much! It's just so fun to watch Danny and David triggering each other and Kelsey fanning the flames, and then everyone breaks down cackling. So much fun! Great collab, everyone!
I absolutely adore Kelsey!!! I loved how she was the same with you guys as she is in her videos. N didn't get all timid n shy... Keeping it real!!! So so funny!!!!!
It was so much fun to see such an open and entertaining discussion! 😋♥️ Going slow and actually being chivalrous is so rare these days, that if you find a guy like that - you automatically think it's Sus. 😅😂
@DKDKTV There is great chemistry between the three of you. I think a segment for topics such as this with Kelsey should be added to your line up. This was fun to watch she is the perfect balance between the both of you. I look forward to seeing more in the future good luck.
David you're totally my type! We should date I say haha! (I'm also learning Korean lang lmaoo) Loved this video, absolutely love Kelsey and her channel! Xoxo
I think a lot of us Americans are upset with the current dating culture. I’ve heard so many people complaining about it and saying they don’t know how to fix it. We went from wanting to get to know someone to just wanting to get into their pants. Lookin at you Tinder👀 One of my friends actually went from telling me about all the new guys she kept meeting and then sleeping with shortly after to swearing off all sex until marriage. Her current bf must truly love her for who she is because he respects her decision.
David is adorable - love his attitude and style of dating. Danny is a typical ‘gimme sex now cuz that’s all I give a shit about’ kinda guy. Love that Kelsey is in the mix for this.
I am raised in the west. I think Kelsey needs to stop "glorifying"the western"standard regarding sex.Fast Sex cheapens and lead to"relationship"based on hormones rather than mutual values that is necessary for lasting relationship. Not against premarital sex, just this"must make out by 2nd date". WHY?
@@anyone1111 True, I had not seen in England or the West (Artists) even in Concerts where they do all of fan service. It was so new to me. But now I have gotten used to it.
If that is the dating culture in Korea right now than gays and lesbians must have it so tough over there. I wonder if Korea has places like gay bars yet. Or as someone who is in the lgbtq community would I have to hide who I am while visiting the country? I have so many questions lol.
hi !! a Korean lgbt person here, yes there are gay bars like in hongdae but definitely not as many as in the U.S or other Western countries, mainstream bars, clubs and other places to hang out either romantically or as friends are heterosexual and conservative so options for us lgbt Koreans are limited. i'm lucky to live in Seoul because its a big city there are a few open and tolerant neighbourhoods with gay bars but if you're in a rural area you're even more fucked
@@private5787 It'd be interesting to have a video like this that includes a LGBTQ perspective. I feel like the dating culture would have to be very different from what it is for straight people.
Same! Plus, I am 6 ft tall with a short haircut and as a woman I feel like they would rank me out in a bad way because of the judgment heavy conservatism there. I would love to go though!
@@mochi_salamanders Not really, in places like hongdae and itaewon people wouldn't even care, maybe in rural areas they might judge, but other that you wouldn't have much problem.
@Christina Freeburn There's are a lot of gay bars in S. Korea. There's a place called "lgbt+ street" in seoul and there are a lot of clubs and bars and safe places for lgbt+ there. Seoul in itself has a huge gay scene. S. Korea isn't as conservative as people make it out to be.
It only proves that Asians are more traditional and old fashioned in some aspects. Most people here in the Philippines are quite judgemental too when it comes to these kinds of topics.
I love this collaboration. I did watch Kelsey's video as well as the collabs she did with Annie Nova. My perspective is that we are all products of our cultures/environments/upbringing/generation. It's interesting to learn about other cultures and social norms...and they may seem awkward or foreign, but I think we should try to learn and understand versus judge.
Great video, loved the vibe that she had with you guys, would love to see more in the future of the three of you guys commenting on the Korean culture of dating!! Interesting subject!
You guys clicked together it's so fun to watch, Kelsey has great communication skills it's like she made it okay for both of Danny & David worlds to exist
In Brazil Hold hands ITS NOT the first step hahaha, in fact it is kinda the last one cause this could means attachment. People use to hang out for quite long before start to dating like boyfriend and girlfriend hahaha
i personally prefer the korean dating culture bc i don't like moving forward too fast either. it takes time for me to open up to people and be comfortable around them.
Love this interview and Kelsey. Laughed hard.. very entertaining. Love Danny and David.. Kelsey was a wonderful mixed of a young woman point of view. Great job!
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More! Of! These!
Please do more content with her, she brings out that free spirit in you all
Indian content indian content indian content indian content
Plz plz plzplZ
Please more!!!!
I'm actually glad that Kelsey is present here for this particular topic
Aww thank u XD
@@KelseytheKorean luv your channel 💖💕
Kelsey is just spectacular. I'm in love with how unfiltered and raw she is. Best trio on UA-cam. Looking forward for more videos of you 3.
Agreeddd
David: Korean
Kelsey: Korean/American
Danny: American
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 true
i think kelsey is korean, she just lived in US for an exchange program or smth
@@TheHoonJin I don't think that was the point of the comment though, I feel like it kind of has to do with attitudes towards sexual stuff. For instance, Americans tend to be more lenient and flexible, Koreans are more reserved and shy, and Korean-Americans are kind of a mix between the two by means of morals, etc. I could be wrong of course.
@@juliajade4173 It also depends on the age and generation. I'm fifty years old and Korean-American. But I also went to church every week. So my dating style was very conservative even though I was very aware of the dating culture in America. There is a generational shift towards faster hooking up in the West because of the internet and dating apps and even more causal attitude towards sex and Kelsey is really representative of that millennial generation. I 'm just surprised at the level of Kelsey's awareness since she is a Korean Korean as she claims.
This lady keeps it real without going over line she seems very lively and free too, but it was too short would wish for longer content
Aww thank u! I really try to not cross the line ☺️
@@KelseytheKorean you're amazing... I love your personality
@@KelseytheKorean
Cross the line? What line? I thought morals are subjective...according to liberals?
@@glas4849
Yes and what is on that line?
@@glas4849thats subjective , im okay with it
This was too funny. “Candy is candy.” - best Danny line yet. Kelsey was a great addition to the mix. Would be great to see her collab with you guys again in the future. Love seeing DKDKTV relaxed. 💯💯👍🏻👍🏻
watching David be uncomfortable for 14 minutes and 32 seconds straight is so entertaining LMFAO
🤣😂Facts
She was side glancing at him to check his reaction. 😂
As a westerner I prefer the Korean way of dating. Here in the states dating is very rushed and is heavily focused on sex. I like the idea of taking things slow. I think it’s more romantic and sweet.
Same
Me too
Is just not things "slow".... There are a lot of other things that are not that great.
@@ignaciopazgarcia5370 I only like the “slow”
@@neocrackheadtechnology2893 yeah, that comes to preference. But it comes with the whole package of other stuff. Still, is up to you
I can’t believe Kelsey actually came to the show lmao
It's something I needed in my life
who is she?
confirmed: danny is american 😂😂😂
*Damn Kelsey is wild* 👀... *But seriously, I love how she's not afraid to express her opinions and also I love listening to her talk, like her voice is just weirdly soothing. Loved this collab. Def will check out more of her videos right now.* ❤❤
I love how honest and comfortable she is while talking about this kind of topic
Imagine the perfect mix of Korean and Western dating. Where the guys treat the girls nicely and respectfully and there is more romance like in Korean dating but at the same time, the people don't feel pressure to go slow if they feel the vibe and feel comfortable to move faster like in Western dating and do it without worrying about being judged. That'd be pretty cool.
europe is closest to that
@@zefersanity6537 yes, but europe is too broad. I think it would differ from country to country.
@@lechatnoir482 ya mostly western europe has that culture
It’s literally Western Europe lmao
@@zefersanity6537 As someone who has lived in western Europe (Spain, France, Belgium etc) I would say they go fast as well... I mean in France you can see people doing the deed on public transport or public parks lmao. So no--- I don't think they're slow either. Maybe north europe?
Asians are generally conservative. Thats the answer. HAHAHA
not after watching japanese adult movies😂😂
Not all they are just more cultured than westerners
@@user-ti5um5ek1t in what way are they more cultured?
@@user-ti5um5ek1t Yeah, no. You can piss off with your ignorant xenophobia.
@@user-ti5um5ek1t what do you mean by more cultured?
Wow you guys just met her 5 minutes ago but looks like you guys have known each other for a decades.. She is So comfortable with you guys wow.. Need another collab with her.. So fun this video 👍👍
Indeed! ❤️️
Fact: Kelsey is LIT!!!
Tip on holding hands: you can say something “hey let’s go to there(...)” and you grab their hand as if you’re guiding them - it won’t feel creepy as it is justified. Don’t let the hand go and keep walking as a couple lol, if you feel them letting go of your hand then 🤷🏻♀️ good luck next time I guess.
Ohhh that’s actually a really good tip!!👍
surely better than Danny’s “ let me see how big is your hand” LMFAO
@@solvesoul727 that legit would send the hairs on my arms raising
I hugged a Korean guy I made friends with once in Korea-just a goodbye hug before I left-because his long time american/korean friends said it would be fine and encouraged me to do so.
Needless to say...later found out he thought we were basically dating long distance after that lol. Welp. 💀
Tell us what happened next 👁👁
Whattttt!!!! Please update
No way wtf
what the hell
There are some ppl who thinks everything is a hint of you liking them....
I admire how David date in an old fashioned way. Respect is way more important than physical attraction for a longer and happier relationship.
As someone who hasn't had a serious physical relationship, I would appreciate the slower approach. But I can see both sides of the discussion.
I'm French but I really identify with the Korean style of dating. I'm married now and live in Seoul. I liked that my husband planned out dates in the beginning. We took it slow, he didn't touch me until we were in a relationship. I felt respected. We didn't live together before getting married either. We only moved in together two weeks after our marriage. When I met his parents in the beginning, I guess they were scared I would be a "Woohoooo" open-minded 외국인 but they were reassured when they realized I had that traditional side. I often hear that I have a Korean atmosphere. So, I'm on your side, David. ^^
Wow.. I really like your story . Coz everybody's talking about having sex so casually
@@ngzual7325 yes, to each their own but I agree with you. Nowadays, I think people sexualize themselves a bit too much.
You can tell that Kelsey seems to be a self hating and probably thinks that everything in the western way is better.
@@KM-gp2yz bro what
@@KM-gp2yz no but you can live together before marriage. That makes it known how it is after the marriage. Who'll do the dishes , is the guy respectful enough to cook and so on. It's all about opinions. I am indian and i hate the culture here. Apparently even dating is a big no sometimes.
I laughed way too hard, Kelsey is so hilarious and her laughter is adorable, she's just won me as a subscriber 😂 I LOVED how she made both flinch in embarrassment at times, definitely want to see more collabs with her!
Kelsey is honest and candid and very entertaining ! You go, girl!
you guys really invited Kelsey! yay!!!
This is basically Danny and Kelsey ganging up on David. Lol 😂😂
😂🤣👏Yes
I honestly really prefer Korea dating culture. They go slower with their relationship. America goes to fast and just date for hookup.
Hmm I’ve heard from conservative Americans who prefer to stay friends and get to know each other for months before they enter an official relationship, while in Korea the man and woman date 3 times and have to decide if they want to enter into an official relationship. They get hooked up fast and break up just as fast. Not exactly slow...
I heard that Korean relationships go very fast too. Like they progress in their feelings faster. And they become bf and gf faster I hear too.
@@katelady1370 because coupling is a culture there. Most (not all of course) like to experience romance.
@@EVL-xj5vc The same goes for the U.S. Not everyone, myself included, is interested in a fast pace relationship and would rather take things slow and date for months or even years. My parents dated 10 years before they got married.
@@ppjskh wow 10 years!! 👏🏼
i 'm kinda in the korean's side since as an asian myself , i can say that you have to be careful about dating women and take everything slowly .
rushing things in relationships can put you on the bad side . anyways loved your discussion .
So literally if you don't want to get in a serious relationship (further marriage). You can't do all the other variables without being judge by society?
Not all women want slow paced committed relationships. It depends on the person. Some women like casual relationships whcih are fast paced
@@sk8aintstr813 not many women though
@@chrystianaw8256 it's not a small percentage. It's a handful of women who aren't extremely prudish or modest in their romantic or sexual endavours
I think when she said that the westren don't care, it's not entirely right. They just talk behind your back and with everyone , judgment is the same lol.
Where are you getting this from? It sounds like you're basing your views off of teen dramas like Mean Girls or something.
@@TropicL3mon No it's really like that though
@@_lisa_8332 In high school maybe. But in the adult world, the amount of judgement is definitely not the same, at least not in general. I'm sure you could find specific cases that are but that's besides the point.
@@TropicL3mon Really? In Germany the judgement behind your back is normal. I tell you this because people actually told me in the face (that they like to talk behind somebodies else's back - it's call acting friendly 😂😤)
@@ooupskitty7006 empfinde ich auch so. finde es am extremsten bei nachbarn und schülern untereinander 🥴 vor allem an gesamtschulen
really enjoyed this adult-talk session. more videos with Kelsey would be awesomeee
Kelsey is absolutely fantastic !!
I absolutely LOVE the chemistry between you three!! I love Kelsey and you three were sooo funny together! Please invite her for other videos ❤
Ouuuuu David Kim I ain't knew you was a freak 🌝🤭
Looking all innocent
David so innocent he wouldn't even harm a fly🤣
You guys all mesh well together. This is hysterical. 😂
We need more David's in this world 😁
I would like point out a strong distinction between "shaking your ass" and "wagging your butt".
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"shaking your ass" has a strong mature and often sexual connotation. Usually related to dancing.
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"wagging your butt" is usually more of a cute and non-sexual thing and is similar in context and movement to when dogs wag there tails (and sometimes whole back ends) when their are happy/excited.
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so which is it that David does? it makes a difference.
bruh its not that deep
@@jocelyncarrillo7663 it's not necessarily that deep but how things are phrased can significantly change the meaning.
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and you have to keep in mind the David, while fluent and extremely good in English, still has it as a second language and may not be aware of or naturally think of conceptual differences in similar English phrases and terms.
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so while it may not be a significant thing in your mind, it can be extremely helpful for people who are not native in English. and the same goes for all other languages.
it's not cool, quirky, or funny for you to try and shame or talk down to others that are genuinely trying to help.
You may not think of it in this way, but leaving comments like "it's not that deep" is discouraging to people trying to help while also, inadvertently gatekeeping the subject in question (in this case it's language and cultural context in relation to it).
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restricting knowledge (whether you do it on purpose or as an accidental side effect of you actions) is one of the easiest ways to cause completely avoidable misunderstandings.
@@kairallison bruh lol..take it easy.. i guess everyone got it what he was trying to say...
As a white American it’s so crazy I always end up agreeing with David in these videos lol I guess I’m just not that bold
Not sure if you live in a conservative area in the US (like the Bible belt) so that could also be a factor.
White American here and agree with David also!
Black girl from the Caribbean here. I almost always agree with David too 😆
Knowing your own preferences and limits and being able to communicate them, is the most important thing. It doesn’t matter where you are from. And lots of people feel as you do.
Yes I agreed, its not really about geographical area. But more to your UPBRINGING & CLOSE CIRCLES. Like how do you value your potential relationship and potential bf. For me personally, i hang out with guys i dated for a while before any physical contacts, and the relationship lasted min 2 years+ and my current BF more than 3 yrs, and we seeing each other friends/families and of course intend to marry each other, even though later on broke up. I’m 30 yrs old now, i have 3 serious r/ship and a few just lasted for months only. I also have experienced like Kelsey & Danny’s approach on dating, but it never lasted > 3 mths. Cz obviously it was more to temporary desire than a deep emotional connection. Based on experience, i will be definitely conservative when dating cz I’m looking for a serious relationship rather than ONS. The guy’s intention when dating is really important, and for me to meet your friends/family are also equally important. Im surprised when David / Danny says their family doesn’t even know their GF. I will be hurt if I’m being hidden like that.
Fact: David feels like he's being watched. 😂😂😂😂
I'm so glad Kelsey was part of this! Thank you Kelsey! Your perspective is needed! I so vibe with you! Loved it!
guys make her a regular the vibes and chemistry are amazing
There is definitely a place for the David’s in the world! It’s nice to be dating someone without expectations of sex from the off. I like those first few dates and texting etc, the chase, that’s the best time, however, I think it probably would prove frustrating if someone wanted more but won’t/can’t due to “social expectations” or caring too much about people’s judgements. I’m on Danny’s side for this one, if you both want something, then go for it, it really doesn’t matter about anyone else’s views or opinions. A mix of the two would be a great combo!
2:59 The way Danny spilled the tea 🍵
Omg! She actually came! Dkdktv! Make more videos with her. I love how free and open minded she is, plus she also has expierience in and out of korea as you guys. Next video with her could be about how koreans percieve korean americans like what are the advatages and disadvantages.
I hav a feeling its going to b epic
I'm latina so this is reaaally interesting, like both sides have struggles and benefits. However I would like to acknowledge that the person I`m dating is really into me, like some kind of clear signal and not wait 3 dates to hold only my hand, maybe like in the second date if we vibe and then at the third date a kiss, and then a continous progress
Kelsey is real, I like it !
PS: cuando David dijo que una vez que una chica haya salido con un Koreano, you can never go back to western. I was thinking "once you go black you never go back" does that make any sense??!! lol
this was so funny, honestly I find material for a series you three had a natural good chemistry. Loved it!
I'm so hyped for this I wanted y'all to interact ever since I saw your reaction video! This is gonna be gr8!!!🎉👍
I waited for this desperately. @kelsey thank you for showing up, @DKDKTV thank you guys for bringing her to the channel.
I'm not even finished the video yet, but I'm enjoying it so so much! It's just so fun to watch Danny and David triggering each other and Kelsey fanning the flames, and then everyone breaks down cackling. So much fun! Great collab, everyone!
I absolutely adore Kelsey!!! I loved how she was the same with you guys as she is in her videos. N didn't get all timid n shy... Keeping it real!!! So so funny!!!!!
It was so much fun to see such an open and entertaining discussion! 😋♥️ Going slow and actually being chivalrous is so rare these days, that if you find a guy like that - you automatically think it's Sus. 😅😂
True, most men are not mature due to many reasons. I love discussions like those. Btw are you single?
"Forward faster bam bam" 👌 Golden words.
Very interesting and I really appreciate Kelsey presence ☺️
@DKDKTV There is great chemistry between the three of you. I think a segment for topics such as this with Kelsey should be added to your line up. This was fun to watch she is the perfect balance between the both of you. I look forward to seeing more in the future good luck.
This was an awesome discussion. It made me think of the dating rituals when I was younger.. Things have changed so much..
How so?
Lmao “candy is candy” 🤣 I could have watched a half hour of this tbh. Y’all are hilarious together.
David you're totally my type! We should date I say haha! (I'm also learning Korean lang lmaoo)
Loved this video, absolutely love Kelsey and her channel! Xoxo
Ooooo what a video to be out on my birthday~
advance Happy birthday
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
@@DKDKTV Tysm!!
@@harryjay246 aww thx
Aww happy birthday!!🥳👏
Nah what did Kelsey try to give her boyfriend in the cinema? WHAT DID SHE TRY TO GIVE HIM?? WHY DID YOU BLEEP IT 😂😂😂😂
What do you think 👀👅
Candy🍭
Handj0b
I was like did she try to give a HJ of BJ? 🤣🤣
When hands has jobs. 😂
I think a lot of us Americans are upset with the current dating culture. I’ve heard so many people complaining about it and saying they don’t know how to fix it. We went from wanting to get to know someone to just wanting to get into their pants. Lookin at you Tinder👀 One of my friends actually went from telling me about all the new guys she kept meeting and then sleeping with shortly after to swearing off all sex until marriage. Her current bf must truly love her for who she is because he respects her decision.
Im so glad to see her here. This was a fun video and Im grateful for the variety of topics. Kelsey seems really fun. I enjoyed this one.
My Favorite UA-camrs collabing😍💜💜
David is adorable - love his attitude and style of dating. Danny is a typical ‘gimme sex now cuz that’s all I give a shit about’ kinda guy. Love that Kelsey is in the mix for this.
12:30 "i don't wanna defend myself" mood
I keep watching this video again and again. It's never not entertaining! I love Kelsey with Danny and David.
Team David
I personally like the Korean/Korean approach.
I’m North American and I hate how relationships work here.
This is very funny and natural. Kelsey should be on your show more. You three have great chemistry and it shows!
Kelsey is so fun and entertaining lol. Hope you guys have her on the channel more!
Loved the dynamic between the three of you and hearing all the different perspectives was super interesting.
I am raised in the west. I think Kelsey needs to stop "glorifying"the western"standard regarding sex.Fast Sex cheapens and lead to"relationship"based on hormones rather than mutual values that is necessary for lasting relationship. Not against premarital sex, just this"must make out by 2nd date". WHY?
Throw-away friends. What an interesting category. 🤣
I LOVE this collab :D Kelsey should be a regular!
Very true!! When I see grown ass men on variety shows asking idols to do aegyo and they go crazy about it makes me cringe at the from their reactions.
Same here, then I think is it because my culture is different. I always go 🙈🙈🙈
Idk I think it’s a clear culture difference. I’m not used to that either because I don’t live and see that all the time but it isn’t that bad to me.
@@anyone1111 True, I had not seen in England or the West (Artists) even in Concerts where they do all of fan service. It was so new to me. But now I have gotten used to it.
I think if the guy has a natural aegyo then it's cute. But when they force it then it's cringy...
@@lindavel43 Yep!!!!!!
Awe I’m so glad you guys collabed! Kelsey is hilarious and open! Yes!!
“ let me see how big your hand is”
WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK DANNY I LOST IT LMFAO
I was waiting for this video!! It was definitely worth the wait! You 3 should do more together!
If that is the dating culture in Korea right now than gays and lesbians must have it so tough over there. I wonder if Korea has places like gay bars yet. Or as someone who is in the lgbtq community would I have to hide who I am while visiting the country? I have so many questions lol.
hi !! a Korean lgbt person here, yes there are gay bars like in hongdae but definitely not as many as in the U.S or other Western countries, mainstream bars, clubs and other places to hang out either romantically or as friends are heterosexual and conservative so options for us lgbt Koreans are limited.
i'm lucky to live in Seoul because its a big city there are a few open and tolerant neighbourhoods with gay bars but if you're in a rural area you're even more fucked
@@private5787 It'd be interesting to have a video like this that includes a LGBTQ perspective. I feel like the dating culture would have to be very different from what it is for straight people.
Same! Plus, I am 6 ft tall with a short haircut and as a woman I feel like they would rank me out in a bad way because of the judgment heavy conservatism there. I would love to go though!
@@mochi_salamanders Not really, in places like hongdae and itaewon people wouldn't even care, maybe in rural areas they might judge, but other that you wouldn't have much problem.
@Christina Freeburn There's are a lot of gay bars in S. Korea. There's a place called "lgbt+ street" in seoul and there are a lot of clubs and bars and safe places for lgbt+ there. Seoul in itself has a huge gay scene. S. Korea isn't as conservative as people make it out to be.
I've waited so long for this collaboration and we want more! 😁
And btw, team David all the way! 😂👌
I am so happy about this collaboration! This was funny!
It only proves that Asians are more traditional and old fashioned in some aspects. Most people here in the Philippines are quite judgemental too when it comes to these kinds of topics.
I think it's everywhere besides the west .
Que buen videoooo tan real y abierto, me gusto mucho la colaboración. Gracias.
PLEASE collab with Kelsey again! Love the easy-going and fun chemistry all 3 of y'all have together
You guys should def make more vids together...was quite fun watching this 🤣🤣
Thanks for having Kelsey, she is the best!!!!🥰🥰🥰
Kelsey's personality is everything!
It's DKKTKDK TV!! I LOVE this vibe! 🙋🏼♀️👏🏼🙏🏼👍🏼✌🏼
This was hilarious! I love Kelsey's channel too. I want to be featured on both of your channels one day. Manifesting it now 😜
I love this collaboration. I did watch Kelsey's video as well as the collabs she did with Annie Nova. My perspective is that we are all products of our cultures/environments/upbringing/generation. It's interesting to learn about other cultures and social norms...and they may seem awkward or foreign, but I think we should try to learn and understand versus judge.
Great video, loved the vibe that she had with you guys, would love to see more in the future of the three of you guys commenting on the Korean culture of dating!! Interesting subject!
Oh glad they actually collab. So funny to see the reaction.
You guys clicked together it's so fun to watch, Kelsey has great communication skills it's like she made it okay for both of Danny & David worlds to exist
I agree with David. I go to the movies to watch the movie!
4:21 "Was that me?" David's being a little too obvious 🤭👀
I was like.... did they perhaps...
Love how Danny's been repping DIVE studio merch since he's got it ☠️ like almost every video ♥️
😂😂😂 Yes!!! Love this video. Definitely gonna go check Kelsey’s page 😁😁
I was laughing the whole video!!! You made my day
In Brazil Hold hands ITS NOT the first step hahaha, in fact it is kinda the last one cause this could means attachment. People use to hang out for quite long before start to dating like boyfriend and girlfriend hahaha
I think she will be fun to watch in DKDK often not talking just about these kind of topics but in general she is very open minded and direct 👏
This video had me laughing so hard 😂. As a westerner I’d prefer David and the Korean way I’m sick of the lack of romance and respect.
i personally prefer the korean dating culture bc i don't like moving forward too fast either. it takes time for me to open up to people and be comfortable around them.
Same. It is not that commonnhere in Germany and I literelly don't care how fast others move, like go for it. But my own comfort zone wouldn't let me.
Love this interview and Kelsey. Laughed hard.. very entertaining. Love Danny and David.. Kelsey was a wonderful mixed of a young woman point of view. Great job!
What did you love about it?
I think everyone can agree , Kelsey is one of the coolest gals out there ☺️ We love you Kelsey !