The most Disrespectful Questions that LGBT's have heard!

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  • @_GOEM
    @_GOEM 8 місяців тому +16949

    hello world :) I'm Goem(sujin), the girl with the curly hair. I enjoyed the time with crue because the Production team made me felt comfy and safe even I had a bit of public anxitey. I earned more motivation for move forward to the world with proud, during filming. If you feel lonely like me when I was before in the closet, I hope this film makes you feel not alone. thank you for support queer. thnx all 🤭!

    • @joodi8888
      @joodi8888 8 місяців тому +459

      i love u so much thank u for representing us and making more people aware how annoying these questions are

    • @rendezvous18.6yyy
      @rendezvous18.6yyy 8 місяців тому +361

      you’re so pretty, i was focusing on you the whole time🤭

    • @TheDeathW
      @TheDeathW 8 місяців тому +144

      Thanks to you ! Seeing all the hate comments regards us (LGBTQIA+), persons seriously need to understand that we need to talk about it, not hide.
      Thanks for giving positive representation :D

    • @misterflamingo
      @misterflamingo 8 місяців тому +47

      Thanks so much for sharing! Hope to see more of you and that group of people together talking about this topic more. ❤

    • @Gloulou10
      @Gloulou10 8 місяців тому +61

      Is it really you? You looked really pretty by the way. I think it's so sweet that you commented on how the crue made you feel comfy😊

  • @SOMHEVINHEAVEN
    @SOMHEVINHEAVEN 8 місяців тому +10302

    Hello, I'm Hevin!
    I was happy to shoot this topic with a smile in a light atmosphere And It was such a fun shoot with good cast members.
    Please enjoy watching it, too!

    • @loonaticgowonৎ
      @loonaticgowonৎ 8 місяців тому +134

      You’re so pretty !!

    • @jupitersbby
      @jupitersbby 8 місяців тому +62

      thanks a lot for the representation hevin i love you !

    • @moubiswasEdits
      @moubiswasEdits 8 місяців тому +18

      Thanks for coming to this show❤

    • @Hellokitty_391
      @Hellokitty_391 8 місяців тому +9

      Omg hyein!! I didn't know it was u ❤

    • @Miralanger-jc2fo
      @Miralanger-jc2fo 8 місяців тому +5

      Your literally so pretty

  • @ssalnono
    @ssalnono 7 місяців тому +11193

    Hello friends!
    I'm Yena, a transgender person in the video.
    I was so excited when the producer told me about this project.
    It's been a comfortable and enjoyable shoot.
    It's always a great pleasure for me to talk to a straight person about my identity.
    I believe that one step further is becoming a world where we understand each other.
    I have the same faith in you who watched this video.
    This world we live in together is getting better little by little.
    Thank you for your support.

    • @nainaparihar6521
      @nainaparihar6521 7 місяців тому +228

      You are so confident and pretty ❤

    • @spiiiral
      @spiiiral 7 місяців тому +140

      you are so pretty, confident and amazing in general!

    • @yamashita_1913
      @yamashita_1913 7 місяців тому +69

      You’re so pretty and kind! I love it! 😍

    • @tateupougnac2531
      @tateupougnac2531 7 місяців тому +61

      You're so funny and kind and amazing, it's always a joy to see you appear on Giggle. ❤

    • @SmellyCat-j7n
      @SmellyCat-j7n 7 місяців тому +42

      You took the lead and spoke so well. I just missed the chance to see you explaining what cisgender means to the public. It would be a good opportunity for many people to learn it.

  • @evantesseract737
    @evantesseract737 8 місяців тому +7382

    I didn't expect to cry but hearing a trans woman explain that her father insisted that her mother accept and support her because the world might not... That's so beautiful. I wish all parents understood that, that we need them to be on our side. I'm so glad she has supportive family 💜

    • @evantesseract737
      @evantesseract737 8 місяців тому +72

      Yena, you have my heart 💓

    • @BDOKV
      @BDOKV 7 місяців тому +43

      Yeah I know! that was so sweet and heartwarming!

    • @keeptaiwanfree
      @keeptaiwanfree 7 місяців тому +48

      agreed, I think the best thing a parent could do is to accept their child; it is such a cruel world

    • @nescafein
      @nescafein 7 місяців тому +3

      wm❤ g

    • @hexonyou
      @hexonyou 7 місяців тому +63

      and that is literally the most important thing for parents to understand. So many of us have been told "I just don't want life to be harder for you than it has to be" or "I'm worried for you" to dissuade us from coming out. But in the end, life is always hard, and telling us to avoid standing out so we don't get hurt is just telling us to accept the pain where no one else can see it. My parents told me they didn't want it to be harder. But it was harder, especially without their support.

  • @brunnaoliveira7747
    @brunnaoliveira7747 8 місяців тому +1827

    Making him the same question was a clever move!

  • @outofthisworld93
    @outofthisworld93 8 місяців тому +3700

    Yena has such a great energy, I get the feeling there must never be a dull moment with her. The way she said that her future job was to become Seung Jin's wife was hilarious.🤣

    • @SophiaGardener-sp2pu
      @SophiaGardener-sp2pu 8 місяців тому +65

      Fr I was thinking the same thing right from the start😂I love her energy sm lol

    • @agwarddd
      @agwarddd 7 місяців тому +94

      she has such a candid, dgaf way of speaking that draws you in so easily and the bluntness is so funny. she has enormous charm.

    • @InsectBreathing
      @InsectBreathing 6 місяців тому

      ​@mujahe4dNo one the fuck cares

    • @that.lover.girl-mena
      @that.lover.girl-mena 6 місяців тому +8

      YENA COMMENTED!

    • @music0452
      @music0452 4 місяці тому +15

      Yena caught Seung Jin off guard. 😂😂 We need more videos like this. Maybe people will quit asking stupid questions. Love is love. I would rather be happily in love than miserably married. 😮

  • @aer2195
    @aer2195 8 місяців тому +1784

    I'm LGBT myself and I am learning Korean, so you can't imagine how precious is this kind of show!! 감사합니다!

    • @andrepaulo-1994
      @andrepaulo-1994 8 місяців тому +49

      YES! Im gay and also learning Korean. I’ve been learning so much about their culture and how conservative it still is. It gives hope to see that we are at least a subject of debate nowadays. This is already a victory. 🥹🥰

    • @donkeykong2.0
      @donkeykong2.0 7 місяців тому

      gross. the western propaganda is starting to make its way over to south korea and plague its society. how extremely depressing

    • @lukaajlovanovich1606
      @lukaajlovanovich1606 7 місяців тому

      how can you live ​@@andrepaulo-1994

    • @hypernova9363
      @hypernova9363 7 місяців тому +9

      ⁠@mujahe4dI can assure you that nobody cares. Also, it’s spelt “in” not “jn”

    • @vuesguk
      @vuesguk 7 місяців тому +6

      ​​@mujahe4d no one care good luck btw jn 😂

  • @silkybunnyy
    @silkybunnyy 8 місяців тому +5681

    3:27 the gay panic‼️😭

    • @Pico983
      @Pico983 8 місяців тому +320

      I'm straight but honestly I would melt

    • @spikejonzelover420
      @spikejonzelover420 7 місяців тому +144

      Fr why is the default reaction for us to cover our mouths lmao

    • @mokalic1ous
      @mokalic1ous 6 місяців тому +7

      @mujahe4d oh.

    • @gigireve943
      @gigireve943 6 місяців тому +70

      @@spikejonzelover420to stop the drool duh

    • @kyu3502
      @kyu3502 6 місяців тому +49

      It's not gay panic if they gay, it's just called panic lol

  • @benedictkingdom4292
    @benedictkingdom4292 7 місяців тому +1224

    no, but when she was talking about her relationship with her parents as a trans women, it moved me to tears cause i know my parents would NEVER accept me if i came out as queer

    • @jospinner1183
      @jospinner1183 7 місяців тому +52

      You sound young, and the good news is that once you're financially independent and can live on your own, being queer can get a lot easier. If you're still living with your parents, their rejection can be scary or even dangerous, since they hold all the power in the relationship. However, when you're able to live your own life, you can live authentically as yourself, and yours parents' choice to reject you is only _their_ problem.
      And fortunately, increasing societal acceptance of LGBTQ+ folks means it can be very easy to find a community of friends who love you as you are. Sometimes, "family" is just what you call the people who love you, whether or not they're related by blood. 💜

    • @benedictkingdom4292
      @benedictkingdom4292 7 місяців тому +6

      @mujahe4d okay, good luck with that I guess 🤷‍♂️

    • @littlebitofeverything7874
      @littlebitofeverything7874 6 місяців тому

      @@jospinner1183thank you so much for this reply, it helped to reassure me about the future🫂

    • @Nella_nova
      @Nella_nova 5 місяців тому +11

      ​@@jospinner1183 im gonna have to move countries or something cuz there is a big chance i will get hate crimed and i don't think the police here will care

    • @jospinner1183
      @jospinner1183 5 місяців тому +6

      @@Nella_nova Yeah, unfortunately there are some parts of the world that aren't going to be safe for queer folks no matter how much family support we get. And within very large countries like the US, there's a huge difference in both laws and social pressures between states and even localities. Cities are almost always safer for trans people than rural areas, though the cops tend to be equally useless/dangerous in all areas.
      I'm trapped here in the US due to economic factors, but I've found that even within countries that may not be particularly safe for queer people, there are often _safer_ areas. These are often areas where a lot of LGBTQ+ folks live near each other and form protective networks and community mutual aid groups. Sometimes we have to keep ourselves safe.

  • @Zb1-43
    @Zb1-43 8 місяців тому +1005

    As a lesbian this was so comforting to see. I am also a teen so seeing older lgbt people representing us so well is so touching❤ I really look up to them. Someday I hope to be able to be myself freely and safely.

    • @evantesseract737
      @evantesseract737 8 місяців тому +22

      I hope you find that safety and freedom soon. Take care of yourself - you have a family you haven't met yet waiting for you 💜

    • @mgxzx
      @mgxzx 8 місяців тому +5

      i love your user and pfp 💖

    • @Zb1-43
      @Zb1-43 8 місяців тому +2

      @@mgxzx thank you❤️

    • @Zb1-43
      @Zb1-43 8 місяців тому +1

      @@evantesseract737 that’s so sweet. Thank you so much❤️

    • @stayville-connections
      @stayville-connections 7 місяців тому +4

      fellow stay and lyon lesbian!!! we r literally twins ❣️ i wish you the best

  • @MyLadyLuna
    @MyLadyLuna 8 місяців тому +1111

    Love this!~♡ As a transgender lady, some of those questions are offensive and feel dehumanizing at times. However, there's always a way in life, and it's never usually so black and white as many terrible people make it out to be. So love yourself while respecting others as long as it isn't hurting anyone!

    • @niyatitejwani
      @niyatitejwani 8 місяців тому +10

      I had a question. What gender do you mention in ur legal documents once u have changed the gender ? Having a different face and different gender and a different identity is passport renewal a problem? Coz now u are a lot different so how is that dealt with ?

    • @MyLadyLuna
      @MyLadyLuna 8 місяців тому +44

      @niyatitejwani9963 First, you have to take it to court(I only know about how it's done in America) and pay $150-$300 dollars as a fee(im in TX) to change your legal information. Then you would have to go renew other things you've signed up for, such as a passport, which is a mandatory change the airport has to follow through with in order to allow you to travel. I'm not financially stable yet and still rely on my parents as I'm a high-schooler soon going to college, but I plan to go through the process of changing my legal information.

    • @niyatitejwani
      @niyatitejwani 8 місяців тому +7

      @@MyLadyLuna cool 😲 wow ok I learned something new khamsamnida 🙇‍♀️💜

    • @fr0nk571
      @fr0nk571 8 місяців тому +21

      @@MyLadyLuna damn thats so expensive I'm from canada and I only paid 30$ to send the documents through mail and have them processed

    • @MyLadyLuna
      @MyLadyLuna 8 місяців тому +14

      @@fr0nk571 That's 5 times lower than the minimum price omg ;0;

  • @Raaaaven
    @Raaaaven 7 місяців тому +217

    The girl in the yellow shirt was so sweet and kind. I can tell that she has a nurturing spirit 😊

  • @SleepyCrumpet
    @SleepyCrumpet 7 місяців тому +1103

    “My future job is to become your wife 😄🫶”
    I love her 😭❤

    • @Himinberry
      @Himinberry 5 місяців тому +10

      Yeah that was funny

  • @ScwRocks
    @ScwRocks 8 місяців тому +1061

    I wanted to hear more from the Bisexual girls experience because I'm a BI woman as well and we tend to get ignored in the comuntiry and world. People think you're either gay or straight and that's not true. Sexuality is a spectrum for a lot of people.

    • @TheDeathW
      @TheDeathW 8 місяців тому +172

      Biphobia is an awful thing that even exist within the LGBTQIA+ community.
      I'm sorry for what you went through.
      You're valid ! And always will be.

    • @laurac_351
      @laurac_351 8 місяців тому +6

      @Scwrocks So true.

    • @chuuislovechuuislife
      @chuuislovechuuislife 8 місяців тому +51

      Yes and then it’s also annoying when people conflate bi with pan and everything else…saying every person who experiences multi-gender attraction is the same is like saying everyone who experiences attraction to one gender is the same. I just wish people could understand that sexuality is a spectrum and it’s so much more complex than people think. You don’t have to get it, just don’t tell other people what they are and respect them.

    • @TheDeathW
      @TheDeathW 8 місяців тому +15

      @@chuuislovechuuislife if anyone is confused :
      Bisexual / Biromantic : Someone who may be attracted towards two genders (not necessarily men and women, may be out of the cisgender norm)
      Pansexual / Panromantic : Someone who may be attracted towards any genders
      Hope that helps !
      PS : I like your analogy :)

    • @chuuislovechuuislife
      @chuuislovechuuislife 8 місяців тому +8

      @@TheDeathW thank you 😊 yes I see a lot of people confusing them. I mean bi can also be attraction to two or more genders, as I am technically omni if we’re going by strict definitions…but labels adapt over time

  • @regasaputra4618
    @regasaputra4618 6 місяців тому +527

    Came here again after watching "blue boys" cause I wanna make sure that the cast is him Seung Jin. Indeed, it's him. So great to know that he himself play role in LGBTQ+ series. So proud of him.

    • @alexandrovalladaresfalcon5783
      @alexandrovalladaresfalcon5783 5 місяців тому +14

      Oh really ??? Wow

    • @SkzCompilations
      @SkzCompilations 4 місяці тому +31

      I'm so dumb, I was wondering..where was he from? And it'd the series I have been watching every week🤦‍♀️

    • @moonchild1710
      @moonchild1710 4 місяці тому +20

      Omg that's where I saw him from! I knew he was in a BL but i've seen so many so I couldn't be sure. He's adorable :)

    • @cryslly
      @cryslly 4 місяці тому +4

      Sim ,é ele mesmo, levei um tempo para reconhecer ele. Eu tou adorando essa série, ele é muito fofo. Estou chocada com sua idade, ele não parece ter 28 anos ,no máximo eu daria 17/18 anos para ele 😮

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 4 місяці тому +5

      That man was EATING his partner 😭☠️

  • @ninalandau9703
    @ninalandau9703 8 місяців тому +350

    That’s the most respectful way to have this conversation I have ever seen

    • @hypernova9363
      @hypernova9363 7 місяців тому

      @mujahe4dDude, get a life, you’ve been commenting that everywhere

  • @baolvsq
    @baolvsq 7 місяців тому +128

    A lot of times, because of korean BL, people start to make assumptions and fetishize east asians who are gay. It's really sad.

  • @kay-gk3cu
    @kay-gk3cu 8 місяців тому +455

    i love yena she’s really funny and all the three girls are so pretty!!

  • @thestraltheundead4093
    @thestraltheundead4093 8 місяців тому +297

    I have never met anyone from LGBT community and lots people I see are homophobic but I am glad to learn so many things with this channel. Kindness should not be partial everyone deserves it❤

    • @mutation173
      @mutation173 8 місяців тому +73

      Wanna bet you have met some but they just didn't tell you? :)

    • @evantesseract737
      @evantesseract737 8 місяців тому +54

      We're everywhere! Sometimes people tell me to my face that they've never met a trans person 🤣 and I am one.
      People might not be comfortable or it might just not have come up.

    • @andrepaulo-1994
      @andrepaulo-1994 8 місяців тому +5

      I’m so glad to read that. Thanks ☺️

    • @thestraltheundead4093
      @thestraltheundead4093 8 місяців тому +21

      @@mutation173 yeah they are prolly not open. I mean why would they we had a guy who had a feminine voice and was pretty considerate and talked softly all the guys in our school called him gay. I later became friends with that guy so sweet and he not even gay dude.

    • @rg_888
      @rg_888 7 місяців тому +9

      You definitely have, just not knowingly. According to Gallup surveys, *at least* 5% of the population is LGBT+. That's A LOT... 1 out of 20 people. That means literally every day you probably talk to multiple LGBT+ people without realizing it.

  • @kyliealvey7878
    @kyliealvey7878 8 місяців тому +265

    There's so many stereotypes around Lesbian and gay people. People think they look and act a certain way, but that's not true at all. Regardless of looks, hair, style, personality, likes and dislikes, etc...sexuality is just attraction (sexual and romantic) to the same gender.

    • @TheDeathW
      @TheDeathW 8 місяців тому +22

      This attraction doesn't have to be binary or focused on a single gender, that said !
      Sexual and romantic attractions, gender identities, gender expressions, are whole spectrums ! (I have no problems with what you said, just wanted to be more precise ^^)

    • @kyliealvey7878
      @kyliealvey7878 7 місяців тому +6

      @@TheDeathW thank you for adding that on and no problem 😊

  • @josefmn
    @josefmn 7 місяців тому +96

    I'm kinda shocked with Yena's father being the one convincing the mother to accept her, usually it's the other way around. That's so good to hear tho!

  • @skittlesisokay4526
    @skittlesisokay4526 8 місяців тому +190

    Usually, I'm very adamant about watching LGBT topics on channels like Giggle because they are usually pranks, and even though it's all fun they can be offensive. So I was reluctant to watch it. But I am not disappointed as an LGBT, this is probably the most respeftcul way to approach these unnecessary questions and at the same time, it educates. So all I'm saying is thank you Giggle

    • @evantesseract737
      @evantesseract737 8 місяців тому +22

      I resist too, they've done "find the gay guy" and that was super painful to watch... This one was quite lovely.

  • @ivantillisalive
    @ivantillisalive 7 місяців тому +81

    As a lesbian with a religious family.. i find such videos relatable and makes me feel somewhat less alone ^^

    • @chrrive
      @chrrive 7 місяців тому +5

      haha same, im omnisexual and also from a religious family. my father is a preacher, so i never once considered coming out of the closet...

    • @elinangermann
      @elinangermann 2 місяці тому

      nana !!

  • @wintertree83
    @wintertree83 8 місяців тому +332

    “What if this scene gets edited as the intro?” Lmao

    • @Nyannyanggg
      @Nyannyanggg 7 місяців тому +30

      And it did LMAO 😂

  • @SmellyCat-j7n
    @SmellyCat-j7n 8 місяців тому +123

    Thank you for your content. Glad to see Koreans talking freely about it.

  • @michelleherdian
    @michelleherdian 8 місяців тому +204

    I recognise that Hye-In. She was a contestant on an idol survival show Idol School back in 2017. 😀

    • @SOMHEVINHEAVEN
      @SOMHEVINHEAVEN 8 місяців тому +79

      Ohh! you know me ;)

    • @CreamieBunnies
      @CreamieBunnies 8 місяців тому +27

      @@SOMHEVINHEAVEN You're so cool! I subscribed to your UA-cam Channel!

  • @misterflamingo
    @misterflamingo 8 місяців тому +95

    I loved this group! The dynamic was great and they have a lovely way of talking about complex topics! Hope we see them again!

  • @Cas_May
    @Cas_May 8 місяців тому +130

    I'm transgender on male hormones but in Korea I still used the female public toilets and acted feminine because I didn't feel safe using the mens and as a foreigner you can't really defend yourself if someone tries to hit you or you might get sued, so its best to avoid conflict even if it sucks

    • @hanjis5894
      @hanjis5894 8 місяців тому +31

      It's unfortunate but you have to put your own safety first. Gotta do what you gotta do

    • @evantesseract737
      @evantesseract737 8 місяців тому +20

      I hate those decisions. At this point it's men's room for me no matter what - I would make women uncomfortable if I walked into a women's restroom - but for a while it was a choice I hated making.

    • @jessicaguarin3897
      @jessicaguarin3897 5 місяців тому +3

      although I am not operated, fortunately I have never had any problem in the women's bathroom (PS: I am from Colombia/ South America).

  • @HARUKANAKAMURA18
    @HARUKANAKAMURA18 8 місяців тому +63

    Hevin is so beautiful with long black hair and bangs . Her beauty really captivates me❤❤❤

    • @SOMHEVINHEAVEN
      @SOMHEVINHEAVEN 8 місяців тому +13

      Woohoo!

    • @HARUKANAKAMURA18
      @HARUKANAKAMURA18 8 місяців тому +5

      @@SOMHEVINHEAVEN oh my god you replied .......oh god wow i am so lucky . 💓 Thank you hevin . I also saw your art in insta . You are a talented artist in many fields. Please keep being yourself . I love you. ❤️

  • @Roxadus460
    @Roxadus460 7 місяців тому +13

    Yena is a comdeic genius. The baby question and her response is hilarious. I love giggle cause they always have good episodes that are educational

  • @Jeneri1
    @Jeneri1 7 місяців тому +13

    It makes me happy seeing people being themselves, no matter where they're from. Thanks for this ❤

  • @samgar4216
    @samgar4216 8 місяців тому +56

    Soy mexicana y soy lesbiana, México definitivamente no es el pais mas abierto pero a comparación definitivamente creo que estamos muy avanzados en cuanto a derechos a la comunidad LGBT+, hay mucha gente que nos discrimina pero al mimso tiempo hay muchisima que son parte o que apoyan a la comunidad, tanto es asi que el matrimonio del mismo genero esta aprovado en todo el pais, las cirugias y el cambio legal de género también, la adopción homoparental tambien y tenemos muchos famosos y famosas ennel medio pertenencientes a la comunidas, pero no todo es de color rosa, de que nos sirve tener derechos sino son respetados? los crimines de odio hacia la comunidad LGBT+ no ha desaparecido, el asesinato de mujeres trans en este pais es muy alto, la homofobia igual.
    Cómo dije yo soy lesbiana y experimente los dos lados de la moneda, mientras mis amigos todos me apoyaron, tenia compañeros de clase o incluso maestros que hacian comentarios sobre mi y mi sexualidad, me puedo casar pero no me puedo besar a mí novia en frente de la gente por que tengo miedo de que me griten cosas o me acosen.
    Espero pronto podamos todos vivir en libertad

  • @daveg9474
    @daveg9474 8 місяців тому +60

    Brave of all 5 of you and great job! The more the imaginary barriers can be knocked down, the better.
    I'm in the UK where we of course do have challenges and can be labelled and regarded as weird or worse but it isn't as bad as some other countries.
    In my village when the neighbours heard we were officially a couple, all we heard was 'Congratulations!'.
    Keep up the great work.

    • @PikaJess123
      @PikaJess123 5 місяців тому +2

      Tbh as a bisexual in the UK ive had a lot of people not believing I've even dated women or thinking there's "no need" for me to mention my sexuality because I'm engaged to the opposite gender so... I think there's a lot of work to be done. A lot of bisexuals feel forced back into the closet.

  • @suhluv
    @suhluv 8 місяців тому +149

    yena is so funny 😭😭 i love her energy. and hevin is soooo pretty ❤

  • @sophiaisabelle027
    @sophiaisabelle027 8 місяців тому +12

    We appreciate hearing their insights in detail. Seems like they have wider perspectives than any of us could expect.

  • @caspienjames
    @caspienjames 2 місяці тому +10

    5 months later and that same actor had done two UA-cam series playing a gay character who has gotten a lot praise for their realistic kisses and chemistry. So he has the experience now 😊

  • @himesilva
    @himesilva 7 місяців тому +15

    Okay, the part about how Hevin's friends' boyfriends are always on guard low-key made me happy. Not because I want anyone to be uncomfortable, but because here in the west, men don't really respect WLW relationships and see queer women as irrelevant/no threat to them in the dating world. Like wtf, I can steal your girl too bro 😂

  • @Alchera201
    @Alchera201 8 місяців тому +25

    I immediately recognised Yena from that one video of her meeting a trans man and them discussing their experiences. She completely stole my heart with her humor and quick wit 💜

  • @The_Black_Caps
    @The_Black_Caps 7 місяців тому +97

    The gay guy was too flustered poor him lmao

    • @blusky1420
      @blusky1420 4 місяці тому +12

      ​@damilitanc Huh.

    • @podobunny1
      @podobunny1 2 місяці тому +6

      @damilitancsad life

  • @butterstamp3767
    @butterstamp3767 21 день тому +2

    The gay guy looked relieved to be able to talk aloud about his identity. He was reserved but you could tell he valued this opportunity to feel proud.

  • @IreZico
    @IreZico 8 місяців тому +143

    Idk why everyone is complaining i will take these videos and old videos over the culture stuff any day. That culture content is getting far too repetitive when really we miss, well i miss. The older cast who used to feature till they were clearly no longer required on this channel, and other channels. More of this and reaction videos please!

    • @CottidaeSEA
      @CottidaeSEA 8 місяців тому +4

      I'm not so much upset, just bored. Since I'm probably among the older crowd around here, I've already seen stuff like this so many times and there's little difference between them.

    • @BaldCoryxKenshinfan
      @BaldCoryxKenshinfan 8 місяців тому +11

      @@CottidaeSEA As a person of the LGBTQ+ community, I understand what you mean. I like seeing videos like this made amongst other cultures because it shows that there’s a bunch of us around the world. I also like hearing their experiences.
      I can understand if you find this topic taboo or boring because you’re older or have seen so many videos like this but, I find it nice to hear what other cultures have to say about the LGBTQ+ community ☺️

    • @CottidaeSEA
      @CottidaeSEA 8 місяців тому

      @@BaldCoryxKenshinfan I technically count as LGBTQ+ but I think you have a much stronger connection to it. So therefore it makes more sense for you to also care.
      In my case it's just my sexuality that is a bit different, but nobody ever bothers me about it and never has. So I don't really relate to this either. If I did then it'd likely still be interesting.
      As for my age, my UA-cam account is 17 years old. I think that should be telling enough of how many of these videos I've been able to watch during those years.

  • @fishcake-w2h
    @fishcake-w2h Місяць тому +9

    3:27 she was honestly so real for that😔😔

  • @evalynn-jy7pi
    @evalynn-jy7pi 6 місяців тому +24

    The actor has a drama that I'm currently watching now. Blue Boys. The project is really beautiful and I enjoyed it a lot. He is a good actor.

  • @wintermelody9679
    @wintermelody9679 2 місяці тому +12

    The person asking the questions is actually an actor under SukFilm, a production company on UA-cam. His drama's have actually blown up. I was so shocked to see him here!? Like oh? what are you doing here???

  • @letsgetthisbread4817
    @letsgetthisbread4817 8 місяців тому +73

    8:11 “What if this part gets edited into the intro?”
    Editor: I gotchu

  • @LeliaVoinea
    @LeliaVoinea 8 місяців тому +38

    Lesbian girl is really beautiful. The other two girls are also really cute.

  • @kimberleemartinez8343
    @kimberleemartinez8343 2 місяці тому +3

    The guest, Choi Seung Jin, who is an actor, is a BL actor under SukFilm. He is in Blue Boys parts 1 and 2, and Seoul Blues. He is a really good actor. I think this interview probably helped him with his roles as a gay male who has intimate scenes with the other male actor.

  • @mooomunch
    @mooomunch 4 місяці тому +22

    watching this after blue boys aired and giggling.. asking him if he had experience with men and he said no LOL well now u do!!

  • @anq4274
    @anq4274 7 місяців тому +30

    "Are you plannin to have a baby?"
    An offensive question for the goverment.

  • @andrepaulo-1994
    @andrepaulo-1994 8 місяців тому +17

    Just found your channel and already subscribed because of this video. I hope to see more content featuring LGBTQ+ guests, there is still A LOT to teach.

  • @faustus26
    @faustus26 7 місяців тому +39

    The purpose of this comment is to explain my situation, how I'm going about it and to ask for your help.
    Thx.
    I'm transgender AND gay so I have two "problems". People can say that I'm still a woman, so they say I'm hetero or I'm a man and I'm gay. I prefer the second proposition. Today, I'm scary to say "I'm a man, even if I look like a woman. Please, I'm still the same person, treat me like a normal people".
    The question "How do you use the public toilet" makes me feel like...hurted ? But I can tell you how : recently, I started to use men toilet but only if I wear like a man. I don't really like public toilets in general so, I don't go there often.
    I can also tell you how I bathe in public. I don't really like public swimming pool so I don't go there but for the sea, I don't go there too. I feel strange and like a monster when I wear swimsuit. I'm really scary because of people' looks. So I stay away and I wanna cry because I wanna swim like everyone.
    Also, I came out to my parents, my sister and my friends. At first, my parents were a bit overwhelmed, but they wanna understand me more. My father accept me but my mother doesn't know how it can be possible to be transgender. She said "it's strange but I wanna understand". Today, I have a good relationship with all my family. I just don't know how to take my mother's words. I'm a lil bit hurted...
    One of my friends told me : "I don't know if I'll hurt you but...what's your sexual orientation ?" I tell him : " I'm gay, I'm totally gay" and as a joke and because I knew he could ask : "you don't like me, do you ?" (it's better to laugh than cry) I added : "You're not my type.". He didn't hear that but asked me anyway if it was mean or not : it was mean and I feel bad for this last sentence and because I know that I have two "problems" and then I can't be able to be loved...
    Watching this video was a great experience and I learnt a lot about how I can react but I'm still scared.
    Thx for reading my story. It took the weight off my shoulders so it doesn't matter if you don't care.
    If my relatives happen to read this, please, be gentle and support me, 'cause I'm really down...
    Thx a lot.
    FD

    • @lillysthoughts4402
      @lillysthoughts4402 7 місяців тому +9

      Cheer up, you got this :) I know sometimes dealing with hurtful questions is exhausting and it’s tiring to answer. But a lot of people don’t have harmful intentions and are just not as informed! Stay strong and if someone asks nicely, try to explain how you feel, it will take more weight of your shoulders to have your friends and family understand where you’re coming from ☺️ at the same time, you do not have to endure rude or inappropriate questions just because of your gender identity or sexual orientation! If someone’s being mean, you do not owe them an explanation to anything! You do not have a “problem” at all, you’re a person who has found their truth and is fortunate to be supported and able to live it

    • @SmellyCat-j7n
      @SmellyCat-j7n 7 місяців тому +7

      How old are you? That's okay to be a trans man and gay at the same time. You are double LGBT+ hahaha. Yes, it would be a little harder to explain to people that you transitioned to man but you're still attracted to man. They will assume that you are heterosexual and like girls, but this is not the case for you. There are a plenty gay cis men that will like and love you the way you are. Don't take much energy thinking about it right now. Focus on yourself. Good luck. Bye. ⭐

    • @raapyna8544
      @raapyna8544 7 місяців тому +5

      I was actually a bit surprised that all the people on the video were just 'one thing'! In my experience, a lot of people are trans or nonbinary and gay or bisexual at the same time. So you are not weird at all, in the queer community!
      I hope you find other lgbt friends, so you may feel less alone. Maybe try an art class? Good luck!

    • @ei9310
      @ei9310 7 місяців тому +2

      Wishing you strength ❤

    • @Hellokitty_391
      @Hellokitty_391 6 місяців тому +1

      I think there are also stereotypes that if ppl become trans then they automatically become straight, when in fact, it's not always like that. I'm so sorry for you i hope you're doing great

  • @loveIetter
    @loveIetter 7 місяців тому +6

    i hope the guy can have a conversation with his family:-( even if they already know and don’t mind i think it’s always better to express how you feel and get it off your chest

  • @from_maria04
    @from_maria04 8 місяців тому +14

    Yena's charisma omg😂 she's so funny and sweet❤😊

  • @raxacorico
    @raxacorico 6 місяців тому +41

    3:29 was the most lesbian moment ever

  • @mayajade6198
    @mayajade6198 4 місяці тому +10

    The last question was really funny to me, because in America we often joke that if one member of your high school friend group comes out as gay or trans, withon a few years it will turn out that all of them were, because weirdos and people who are different can smell each other and group together even if they don't yet understand _how_ they're different. >~

  • @zeenatali5424
    @zeenatali5424 6 місяців тому +58

    When you realised the host is in Blue boys bl series ❤️

  • @za_wavbit
    @za_wavbit 8 місяців тому +11

    This seems like a cool bunch of people, and much braver than me, I could never do something like this. Yena looks so good, goals fr

  • @ofanichan
    @ofanichan 3 місяці тому +7

    «My future job is to be your wife» LETS GOOOOO!! She ATE

  • @alivangelista
    @alivangelista 8 місяців тому +48

    THE FATHER OF THE TRANSWOMAN HAS A PURE HEART ❤

    • @MaRiyaZZZ1
      @MaRiyaZZZ1 6 місяців тому +3

      @damilitancWTH is wrong with you 😭💀

    • @Kaiii287
      @Kaiii287 5 місяців тому

      ​@@MaRiyaZZZ1ignore them. They don't deserve the attention

  • @lilymoore-sx8pk
    @lilymoore-sx8pk 3 місяці тому +8

    “And my future job we’ll be your wife” was smooth af

  • @dwikyadriansyah3853
    @dwikyadriansyah3853 8 місяців тому +23

    Chan Gyu hyeong😭 neomu handsome❤😍... saranghae. I'll always support you... loving you... even u don't know me and far away, I do hoping you got all happiness

    • @Hellokitty_391
      @Hellokitty_391 8 місяців тому +1

      Omg i think you like him so much 😅

  • @Dear-Rhiannon
    @Dear-Rhiannon 7 місяців тому +18

    Proud of all of them for speaking, it's hard in general but obviously way more difficult here.
    Much love from a bi~ 🏳️‍🌈💖💜💙

  • @nghb9747
    @nghb9747 7 місяців тому +17

    South korea produce so many kdrama every day but i don't know when they are going to include LGBTQ on their shows

    • @nghb9747
      @nghb9747 7 місяців тому +2

      @damilitanc have fun with that weird shit😂

    • @nhfjnm2v
      @nhfjnm2v 6 місяців тому +3

      ​@@nghb9747 nah because she's commenting it under every single comments. she has nothing to do fr

  • @mely1022
    @mely1022 7 місяців тому +5

    I applaud these people for coming for this kind of video ❤ Yall are beautiful individuals 😊
    This was a very cute and kind video. Im glad that SK is slowly getting more open about these topics. Everyone deserves to love whoever they want. ❤

  • @arsoncat2146
    @arsoncat2146 7 місяців тому +10

    I love seeing other lgbt people living their lives truely in countries other than america and england. As someone who isnt from a place that's very overtly accepting it's really comforting seeing ppl with more similar experiences to my own in this aspect.
    No hate to the ppl from more supportive places tho, im not trying to diminish your struggles (and i see the shit ur governments are trying to do to youse atm), it's just different.

    • @arsoncat2146
      @arsoncat2146 7 місяців тому

      @damilitanc hello...? who tf asked

  • @G63045
    @G63045 7 місяців тому +12

    ‏‪0:18‬‏ they're all so cute

  • @ianpolitano07
    @ianpolitano07 8 місяців тому +10

    이 비디오 보고 감동좀받았어요 정말!

  • @Unknownismyromanempire
    @Unknownismyromanempire 6 місяців тому +32

    That actor who is questioning have played in bl web drama named" blue boys" . 😅

  • @NICK11624
    @NICK11624 8 місяців тому +94

    Idk why people are so offended by other's sexuality?. I mean it's their life, their choice man. If they find happiness that way than why it's affecting u insecure people?.

    • @TheDeathW
      @TheDeathW 8 місяців тому +1

      Fear of something they don't understand or / and try to. Of course, they will always argue it isn't lgbtphobic since it's not a problem to them in their opinions, just "facts" / "reality", that a phobia is hatred / fear and they don't have that (when such feelings can be expressed and felt differently that what persons think)
      This is sadly beyond being offended, seeing how hate crimes and such are yet again growing more and more against us. In the USA (which I don't live in), they multiplied by 4 nationwide since anti-LGBTQIA+ bills...
      In my country, which is supposed to be quite safe, as well as my living place, I've been physically attacked several times...
      Honestly it's just scary and it's worrying about our future
      But we bite back :) and will always exist, like we always did !

    • @Hellokitty_391
      @Hellokitty_391 8 місяців тому +15

      Fr like idc if someone's straight or not alas they don't murder me 😭

  • @gabby9025
    @gabby9025 7 місяців тому +6

    Beautiful video! Love this. Very powerful ❤

  • @xoxo.gossipgirly
    @xoxo.gossipgirly 4 місяці тому +12

    omg it’s seung jin?? I LOVE HIM HES SO CUTE🤭🫶🏼 he recently just acted in the bl series “blue boys”! he’s so talented, everyone should go watch!!!

    • @TheDragonshadow1231
      @TheDragonshadow1231 3 місяці тому

      lol the transgender ask 'Have you slept with other male" How to tell you are 100% straight away lol

  • @svyatchip
    @svyatchip 8 місяців тому +6

    It’s a good topic to talk about. The video was really useful and inspiring!

  • @chaennelchaennel
    @chaennelchaennel 5 місяців тому +11

    They have such understanding parents, I didn’t expect that, as we’re talking about Korean people. What a relief!

  • @guineverebbatatotwilight2145
    @guineverebbatatotwilight2145 8 місяців тому +23

    Those dad's are so sweet, if u compare it to my asian parents.. ain't no way.

  • @WobblewobblerDouble
    @WobblewobblerDouble 7 місяців тому +5

    i saw hevin and i clicked the vid right away, I MISS HER SO MUCH YALL DONT UNDERSTAND

  • @Lovintheblworld
    @Lovintheblworld 3 місяці тому +4

    Seung Jin may be straight, but I absolutely adore his acting as a gay guy....

  • @joanofarcsinus
    @joanofarcsinus 19 днів тому +1

    Im glad their families didnt react badly, its always happy to see that people are more accepting now :( I was beaten up when I first came out

  • @desmeisme
    @desmeisme 8 місяців тому +6

    Thank you so much for this, I enjoyed watching it and seeing everyone’s commentary ❤️

    • @desmeisme
      @desmeisme 7 місяців тому +1

      @mujahe4d that’s your issue. You clicked on this video when you didn’t have to. You’re looking for trouble, you shouldn’t click on videos you don’t like. To me, and to many, Love is love bro. If you don’t like it don’t look

  • @Neexienous
    @Neexienous 8 місяців тому +15

    As a Gay from Poland 🇵🇱 Europe 🇪🇺
    I felt offenned by some question. AISHHH ~~~ 😂😂😂
    And yes we have friends. About me most of my friends are straight. ❤
    Changyu is so cute I think I have a crush on him. 🥰🤭

    • @thilq
      @thilq 8 місяців тому +2

      OMG HI POLAND,u mnie akurat wszyscy moi znajomi są biseksualni❤

    • @Neexienous
      @Neexienous 7 місяців тому +2

      @@thilq LGBT rządzą ♡

    • @thilq
      @thilq 7 місяців тому

      @@Neexienous PRAWDA❤️

  • @jenniboo9441
    @jenniboo9441 6 місяців тому +5

    He clearly doesnt have any problem with kissing another boy and acting in a BL so I think he's very open-minded

  • @chloesantos8637
    @chloesantos8637 4 місяці тому +2

    It's always nice to see LGBT representation, especially bisexual and trans people! Happy Pride 💖💜💙

  • @Lola-fd2xw
    @Lola-fd2xw 2 місяці тому +4

    OMG the guy that's asking the questions is an actor I saw on channel SUKFILM and he does both straight and gay films!!!!!!
    I LOVE ALL HIS SERIES❤❤❤❤

  • @chuubutae
    @chuubutae 8 місяців тому +11

    WAIT the bi girl..... SHE USED TO BE AN IDOL??!??! Dont u guys remember her? I just checked her yt channel and i saw the 'same here' song i used to listen many years ago 😭

  • @DaMi-vs6to
    @DaMi-vs6to 8 місяців тому +12

    Hi everyone!
    If you are looking for gl series, I highly recommend this one:
    BLANK the Series (A Thai Series with English Subtitle).
    It's still an on-going show.

    • @hiidk6859
      @hiidk6859 8 місяців тому

      omgggg tyyyyy for this recommendation !!! It’s so hard to find gl series😭

    • @DaMi-vs6to
      @DaMi-vs6to 8 місяців тому

      @@hiidk6859 If you like, try to watch "Gap the series" (Thai series) too.

    • @CherryBerry-bm2wx
      @CherryBerry-bm2wx 8 місяців тому

      u r a angel 💗💗🙋🏻‍♀️👑

    • @DaMi-vs6to
      @DaMi-vs6to 8 місяців тому

      @@CherryBerry-bm2wx No, I'm not. Just kidding... Thanks.

    • @nataliavarela-os7us
      @nataliavarela-os7us 7 місяців тому

      @@hiidk6859 Gap: The series too. Its a great serie

  • @bojongkia123
    @bojongkia123 7 місяців тому +2

    Chan Gyu is cool and easy going with his sexual preference. He made a bold step in taking part in the gay dating reality show. My salute! 공유해 주셔서 정말 감사합니다!😊😊

  • @lilyvanderwood2225
    @lilyvanderwood2225 8 місяців тому +4

    OMG Hevin!!!!!!! I remember she was on the show Idol School!! She's grown up so beautifully wow

  • @necrosterias
    @necrosterias 3 місяці тому +3

    i’m a lesbian, my mom and my brother accept me but my dad is homophobic, i send love to all the queer people who are afraid and still in the closet, you are not alone. ❤

  • @aliceshin030
    @aliceshin030 7 місяців тому +18

    don't care about the haters. you guys are very brave ❤

  • @STKTSTKT
    @STKTSTKT 8 місяців тому +2

    I WANT THESE BRIGHT HUMANS TO KNOW THEY ARE LOVED FOR WHO THEY ARE AND TO IGNORE HATEFUL PEOPLE ❤

  • @AsterLee-v3c
    @AsterLee-v3c 6 місяців тому +22

    한국에서 LGBT이기 힘든데 이렇게 멋있게 사는 사람들이 있으니까 힘이 되요! 저도 아직 옷장 깊숙이살고 있지만…언젠가 나올 수 있기 안전한 때가 오면 좋겠어요. 영상 잘 봤고 진짜 감사합니다!

  • @재하-m6l
    @재하-m6l 8 місяців тому +27

    굄님 미모 열일한다! 굄님 너무 큐트하고 멋있고 예쁘고 다 한다ㅠㅠ 굄님이 좋은 사람들과 편한 분위기 속에서 즐겁게 촬영한 것 같아서 기뻐요ㅎㅎ 그나저나 너무 옛날부터 있었던 고정관념이 변함이 없는 것 같아서 그게 많이 아쉽네요... 패션 업계에서 젠더리스라는 패션도 생겼고 요즘 성별이 모호해보이는 사람도 엄청 많아진 추세라 이젠 성별을 따지는게 오히려 촌스럽다고 생각해요. 개인적으로 제가 범성애자여서도 더 그렇지만 사람이 사람을 좋아하는데 이유를 찾는게 너무 별로라고 생각해요. 여자여서, 남자여서가 제가 제일 싫어하는 말이에요. 사람은 사람으로 봅시다.

  • @kfavis0210
    @kfavis0210 8 місяців тому +77

    In my book..... i'm just gonna assume everyone is Gay until they come out as straight... that's just how it is 💁‍♀🌚🌝

    • @miysoi
      @miysoi 8 місяців тому

      Have you ever heard of the saying; don't judge a book by its cover?
      It's wrong to think that way even in vice versa, but if you do no harm to no one and only live in your fantasies, I guess it's fine

    • @BaldCoryxKenshinfan
      @BaldCoryxKenshinfan 8 місяців тому +35

      @@miysoi people usually assume you’re straight until you come out as gay, lesbian, bi, trans etc and then they become incredibly rude towards you. Also, I’m sure OP’s comment was a joke but if it’s not, Just dont assume anyone’s gender identity or sexual orientation and, don’t outright get rude if they’re gay, straight etc as everyone deserves respect regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation.
      Idk if I worded this correctly 😅

    • @kfavis0210
      @kfavis0210 8 місяців тому +22

      @@miysoi it’s a joke hun….. we gay people love to joke 💁🏽‍♀️

    • @miysoi
      @miysoi 8 місяців тому

      @@kfavis0210 Sorry, I'm so bad at jokes🙇‍♀️

    • @Hellokitty_391
      @Hellokitty_391 8 місяців тому +1

      Agree 👍👍👍

  • @sapphirenightcore9139
    @sapphirenightcore9139 6 місяців тому +4

    The question "Are all your friends gay?" is so funny to me because when I was in high school I was the only straight cis person in all my friend groups. All of my friends were in fact gay despite me not being on the LGBT spectrum 🤣

  • @user-cblfYlkcBHhjhsMin8
    @user-cblfYlkcBHhjhsMin8 4 місяці тому +5

    rewatching this because it's on my timeline again and i just realized it was JAEMIN FROM BLUE BOYS SERIES WOAAAAH i watched this back then for changyu haha

  • @cheylikespie
    @cheylikespie 3 місяці тому +1

    This amazing video has made me realize that we queer people are the same all around the world. It felt like watching a Korean version of my college friend group.

  • @yinanaaaa
    @yinanaaaa 8 місяців тому +3

    The part where chan gyu talks abt the coming out part!!😦🙁🫶

  • @Judith-fj2ep
    @Judith-fj2ep 8 місяців тому +10

    I'm bi and omg can i just say how pretty the bi girl in the video i was like : 🤭

    • @Pfiouteuse
      @Pfiouteuse 5 місяців тому

      @damilitanc Maybe you should seek some psychological help. I wish you a nice life cause you seems to be already fucked up.

  • @jonki_a
    @jonki_a 8 місяців тому +4

    This reminds me of that time when I asked my sister how'd she feel if I dated a girl - with myself being one - and she answered "don't you want to try dating a guy firstt??"
    It hurt so much

  • @jayzepickle6637
    @jayzepickle6637 6 місяців тому +2

    As a Bi girl ca I just say that all 3 of the girls in this video were absolutely STUNNING. Like holy cow. Their fashion, their personalities, their looks?!? ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Ayalaula
    @Ayalaula 8 місяців тому +15

    Yena is the best 😍😂 since the first video I saw her in I've loved her energy and personality... she needs to be the host of a show I think she'd be amazing! 👏🏻👏🏻 (And of course everyone else in thia video is lovely as well 😊)