Doing one thing - Motivation for INTPs

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  • @restlessmosaic
    @restlessmosaic 2 роки тому +139

    The quintessential INTP experience is bumping into things. Bumping into physical things from trickster Se. Bumping into emotional things from inferior Fe. That ends up feeling like a lack of agency in this world, that the world is the enemy. Combine that with the nihilism of a Ti-Si loop, and it's easy to see how an INTP can feel trapped into irrelevance.
    But when an INTP finds their agency - often in a niche - and can Ne that niche out into other things, like helping people with it, it's glorious. When doing things becomes the restraining order against despair, then the world becomes a place to act instead of be acted upon. And then there's nothing the INTP would like to do more than do stuff, in part because there was a whole life of feeling like stuff couldn't be done.
    This is just my experience. But I suspect at least half of this is true for you if you're an INTP.

    • @takeiteasy1133
      @takeiteasy1133 7 місяців тому +1

      😮,wow,beautiful words!

    • @Mosstera
      @Mosstera 4 місяці тому +1

      This is so accurate

  • @radyokafaucubedennefretedi6085
    @radyokafaucubedennefretedi6085 2 роки тому +18

    "I went to the dentist"
    Girl i am procrastinating it for 2 years

  • @ukrlee
    @ukrlee 2 роки тому +29

    "The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing."--Socrates
    I don't know if I'll ever find the motivation to become slimer or know if I made the right decisions in the past but I know there is wisdom in knowing nothing

  • @BlackSailPass_GuitarCovers
    @BlackSailPass_GuitarCovers Рік тому +9

    "Start by doing it badly. But do it."
    - Jordan Peterson
    I always found these simple words inspiring. We can get so caught up in overthinking and perfectionism that it's hard to take a first step. Once we do, the momentum starts to build.

  • @nehemiah9190
    @nehemiah9190 2 роки тому +27

    I often feel like when I am daydreaming and learning about new things and experiences around the world, coming down to reality often feels like my wings have been clipped and I find myself sinking back into a dread and despair. Like the saying goes, "behind every skeptic is a disappointed optimist". But now, ever since I was introduced to MBTI and learning more about myself and people who experience life like me, I feel like I have a new lease on life to pursue all of these dream scenarios I keep finding myself in regularly.

  • @Koalasq119
    @Koalasq119 2 роки тому +8

    so weird that i’ve lived my whole life and never known another intp. i’ve never felt like i really related to another person. ever. i’ve never felt understood. and somehow, you’ve built this whole community of people who are really, truly like me. and you’ve made all these videos showing us that you understand. and it doesn’t fix everything else going on but at 21, i feel understood for the first time in my life. thank you so much for everything.

  • @doctordamien
    @doctordamien 2 роки тому +32

    No stopping an INTP once we make a move. I still go to the gym everyday, mainly to swim (Scorpio) and getting better at guitar after setting it aside for a number of years...now about my writing? You are an inspiration, Lili! My Renaissance Wonder Woman! 🤓👾😘

    • @NGC1433
      @NGC1433 Рік тому

      Have you done any of these things? I mean - outside of your head...

    • @doctordamien
      @doctordamien Рік тому +2

      @@NGC1433 Of course! Running marathons is better than sex Guitar too. Albeit I like doing all this and more in my head. Rabbit Hole work. Endurance swimming is tops and working with genetics in my greenhouses...but I am just as content thinking about. Put me in jail and throw away the key and I will stll be exploring all the ruins on Mars and elsewhere.

  • @lishayost44
    @lishayost44 2 роки тому +5

    In 12 step programs we have a slogan, "Just do the next right thing."

  • @hebatullahhesham4356
    @hebatullahhesham4356 2 роки тому +56

    I'm an INTP Egyptian girl and I've been watching you since you had about 3000 subscribers, I always wonder when I see your videos and feel that you look like the picture I imagine of myself in my daydreams, I suffer from maladaptive daydreaming since I was 10 years old, I always get angry because I didn't achieve anything from what I imagine. I am in a struggle between myself and the ideal image of myself that I have in my mind. But i started to make tiny steps, maybe it's not that perfect, maybe there are hardships, But I hope became better with these steps. I hope that you doing will in your life, keep drawing the smile in our day by your videos, your video made my day after I was very sad. I loved the animations in the beginning of this video, BTW My English is not that perfect but you are the only foreign youtuber I can understand Him/Her english very well!

    • @mannamalist
      @mannamalist 2 роки тому +3

      Heyyy, so nice to meet a fellow INTP, and an Egyptian. A7lan w sa7lan!

    • @hebatullahhesham4356
      @hebatullahhesham4356 2 роки тому +4

      Sorry for my late reply, Nice to meet you too! You know some arabic words that's very nice. Shokran 7abibti 🌹✨

    • @Unknown-bj8ls
      @Unknown-bj8ls 10 місяців тому +1

      نفسك احس كوني intp في مصر هو معاناه و الأسوء اني فتاه مما يكسر الصورة النمطية المجوده في مصر و يتم النظر لي على اني غريبة اطوار

    • @ShadzX1
      @ShadzX1 2 місяці тому

      I wanna interview u.​@@Unknown-bj8ls

    • @ShadowZx22
      @ShadowZx22 2 місяці тому

      I Wanna interview u.@@Unknown-bj8ls

  • @alext-rex5492
    @alext-rex5492 2 роки тому +48

    I am really satisfied with our collaboration! :)
    Animating for you is a great pleasure, Lili!
    Very sincere and moving video!

    • @nehemiah9190
      @nehemiah9190 2 роки тому +2

      I really feel like you captured the INTP spirit (from a fellow INTP), and the whimsy that Lili tries to capture in her videos. Job well done!

    • @alext-rex5492
      @alext-rex5492 2 роки тому

      @@nehemiah9190 thank you. being an intj, i am also lost in my imagination sometimes, so i just knew what you guys are doing constantly ;)

  • @odi.5880
    @odi.5880 2 роки тому +72

    Thank u so much, you inspired me, not that I'm going to do something now but I'm starting to feel like I really want to do something but I don't know what.. keep it up you're great and your content is amazing

  • @freregregoire2685
    @freregregoire2685 2 роки тому +10

    Inferior Fe talking, when you worry about killing the vibe even when you didn't :)
    But thanks for the video, loved it.
    And IMO snow looks better in the pictures than experienced physically...(this coming from an INTP from Northern Europe)

  • @luna_11204
    @luna_11204 2 роки тому +34

    Omg i'm almost crying bcoz of how inspiring this video is. I've been passing a lot of things this last two or three weeks and I've been feeling less motivated than i usually feel, and seeing and listening to this makes me feel way better with myself.
    This video made me realise a lot of things that I've improved or that i know/do now that i didn't knew/did before, things like understeanding and speaking english (i speak spanish bcoz #/chilean), helping in my house, hanging out with friends, being closer with some ppl of my family that i never thougt i would be (my sister, my mom, my grandma), etc.
    Really, thank you so much for doing this video♡

  • @jamie_johns
    @jamie_johns 2 роки тому +25

    Everything in this video is cute, the intro, the message, the little Lili, the grow up Lili in snow... but I'm a cat person, the cutest is Ghost/Kiwi (is Mochi ok?).
    Thanks Lili, I was needing to hear something like that. 🥰

    • @LiliAqvq
      @LiliAqvq  2 роки тому +4

      Mochi is ok!!! Except for the fact that he is a jealous catto 🐱 and that they havent got used to each other, but he is healthy and strong! 😁🤍

  • @Justwannaswim
    @Justwannaswim 2 роки тому +12

    Nice illustration

  • @febrasko
    @febrasko 2 роки тому +8

    I'm really happy that you're developing yourself and getting past the INTP struggles. You make me want to actually do things in the real world and stop overthinking everything lol.

  • @mysticforest9607
    @mysticforest9607 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so, so much! I am also INTP and I've been procrastinating ALL THE TIME. In the middle of the video I started jumping up and down because I immediately got motivated. Thank you! **runs to my room to write my book**

  • @anarosales2444
    @anarosales2444 2 роки тому +3

    Yep. Currently trying to get out of my mind and into the real world, where everybody says I'd do great. But we are very good with interior design, aren't we? My mind has like little puffs and a library, and cookies and puppies... so cozy.
    So it's a true struggle. But all good things happen out there, so...

  • @Mosstera
    @Mosstera 4 місяці тому +1

    I just want to say thank you so much for your videos. Because as an INTP, I always felt kind of broken. (Not because I knew I was INTP because I didn't) But after watching a lot of your channel, It has made me feel like I can still do things and I won't just be making the world worse. Also, I have felt stuck for a while, and I don't know if it will ever go anywhere, but this video has inspired me to start writing again. Or just creating things. So I just hope that wherever you are, you are happy. Also, I hope that you keep doing things for yourself.

  • @Happy-hippy
    @Happy-hippy 2 роки тому +8

    Wish I could watch at premier time but some people have to work :(
    Love the illustration! I’m so excited to see the video!!!

  • @ntsomewhere885
    @ntsomewhere885 2 роки тому +13

    Cool animation and excellent video!

  • @zombiemolly9711
    @zombiemolly9711 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for being so loving with INTP's....

  • @m41437
    @m41437 2 роки тому +5

    I've seen snow only once. I was almost 5 years-old and it wasn't what I expected it to be. The last thing I thought it could be was wet, even though it's basically water. I don't know what I was thinking when I dug my hands in the snow.
    I know the snow part was mostly a metaphor, I just wanted to point out I also thought snow was way different from what it really is.

    • @mage3690
      @mage3690 2 роки тому +1

      To be fair, if it's really cold out (which is how it is in most movies that show snow), snow is so dry you can't even make snowballs with it. That powder-dry snow is the best to go sledding on, because when you crash, it's like jumping into the softest pile of leaves that don't scratch, but they melt and run down your neck and make you _really_ cold if you aren't wearing a scarf. Bonus if the snow is like a meter deep or more. In that case, it's damn near impossible to hurt yourself unless you run into a tree.

    • @m41437
      @m41437 2 роки тому

      @@mage3690 So you are saying that snow isn't wet if it's cold enough?
      It makes a lot of sense if you consider that the temperature here rarely gets below 0ºC at night in winter. And when it snowed back in 2007 the snow was probably less than 5 cm deep.
      This clearly shows that my experience with snow is worthless.

    • @mage3690
      @mage3690 2 роки тому +1

      @@m41437 yeah, below about -10C it becomes hard to pack into snowballs, and it's most definitely dry. Of course, if you work it enough with bare hands, it will still melt, but the overall texture is dry and fluffy rather than the dense, wet, almost slushy stuff that exists above -3C.

  • @lemmerideshotgun8975
    @lemmerideshotgun8975 2 роки тому +7

    Pretty solid and inspiring advice. Thank you, I needed that today. And no you didn't kill the vibe back there. That whole loop you went on about doing something,not like right now but eventually.... though sometime soon. That urge to convey an idea as precisely as possible yet struggling to find the perfect words for it. It just made the entire video(and the message) a whole lot more INTPy and authentic.

  • @squid.com8927
    @squid.com8927 2 роки тому +1

    “It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.” -Theodore Roosevelt

  • @bluecheekz
    @bluecheekz 2 роки тому +5

    THANK YOU this video was probably something i needed to hear. i hope i can get my lazy ass to do actuall things instead of only thinking about them. youre such a nice person lili, im sure you inspired so many people.

  • @erenozklnc9427
    @erenozklnc9427 2 роки тому +2

    im an intp and i never said "you cant do anything" to myself and every other intp i saw was very melancholic and depressed. I dunno why but most intps are unhealthy. just get estp friends and you'll be okay.

    • @otakus1216
      @otakus1216 2 роки тому +2

      "Just get friends" 😂

  • @arnabidutta6682
    @arnabidutta6682 2 роки тому +14

    This was indeed motivating. Great video Lili🌟

  • @VasuAmpaipan
    @VasuAmpaipan 2 роки тому

    You guys know how that ONE damm thing is so freaking HARD!!!

  • @imexploring4460
    @imexploring4460 2 роки тому +1

    Considering that how hard for us intps to start literally even one thing, this video is encouraging and inspiring!

  • @LateNiteReflections
    @LateNiteReflections 2 роки тому +1

    Ok I'm just going to ask my past self what she has to say..... Right now. Because if I don't do it now, then I'll probably forget... I think my past self...wants me to be brave again. 😭 (Thanks for taking the risk Lili.)

  • @mrdroubi3310
    @mrdroubi3310 2 роки тому +6

    Wow! Really inspirational video Lili that was as relatable for me as an INFP as for INTPs, thank u!

  • @DuepassitraiTarocchi
    @DuepassitraiTarocchi Рік тому +1

    Thank you. 🖤

  • @val9696
    @val9696 2 роки тому +1

    that just hit right in the heart ...
    -intp

  • @yourmotherspetunicorn
    @yourmotherspetunicorn 2 роки тому +6

    dude I’m so happy for you! doing stuff is hard, it’s really cool about what you’ve accomplished. as a fellow intp your videos are inspiring 💖

  • @mangopyxi
    @mangopyxi 2 роки тому +2

    Lili, you are amazing. As an INTP, I find you very inspiring, and I know what you mean about adding just a little heart! Since my wonderful INFJ husband started helping me deal with my emotions, I realized that is what was missing all along. I was afraid to feel and express feelings, and it's like my husband helped me find the key to unlocking my magic. ❤

  • @slq4358
    @slq4358 2 роки тому +3

    Not sure what the frick my type is but maaan who gave you permission to destroy with one video all the lies I've been hiding behind just so I could escape life and avoid its risks, failures and pain? I'm only 29 after all, got time ha... Or not. Thank you for this

  • @wilcreationhub
    @wilcreationhub 2 роки тому +1

    I am here for the motivation and reading the comments.

  • @minombreesleon
    @minombreesleon 2 роки тому

    Me siento increíblemente identificado con todas tus referencias de INTP.

  • @yustinussetyoyuniarto4816
    @yustinussetyoyuniarto4816 5 місяців тому

    Omg, that is so cute of you.
    Love from intp here in Indonesia.

  • @lujinzaki2000
    @lujinzaki2000 2 роки тому +3

    This is wonderful!!! I don’t know were to start from the illustrations to the words 😍😍😍😍

  • @LightofDawn
    @LightofDawn 2 роки тому

    wtf now im tearing up bc you saw snow :'( this is my favorite video of yours

  • @logazer
    @logazer 2 роки тому +2

    Man, you just gotta love cats

  • @sonias9722
    @sonias9722 2 роки тому

    "..and I started dreaming"
    *stares into nothingness with a blank expression*

  • @Astralzsq
    @Astralzsq 2 роки тому +3

    This is one of the best video you have made.....Thank you very much 😊😊😊

  • @NezukoChan-mm5nm
    @NezukoChan-mm5nm 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks I think a lot of us needed that

  • @snailintheforest894
    @snailintheforest894 Рік тому +1

    Thanks so much for this video! I'm really glad you did that one thing, and that it lead you to so much more, like this video. I find myself stuck in inaction quite frequently, and it feels so constraining. I forget that the answer can be so simple, and I'll probably forget again. But thank you for reminding me and making me laugh. I feel a bit more courage to move forward after hearing your story. I'll try to do that one thing very soon. I hope you are well and are continuing down a path that brings you happiness!

  • @sashinova8189
    @sashinova8189 Рік тому

    This video was so calming after the slew of intp videos I just went through, thank you.

  • @lLOLYl22
    @lLOLYl22 2 роки тому

    I'm not an INTP but I liked your video
    wish you fulfil your dreams and be happy❤

  • @annaengland1841
    @annaengland1841 2 роки тому +3

    Oh, Lili!!!! I needed this, thank you!💜

  • @mrdan523
    @mrdan523 2 роки тому

    I’m happy to have discovered this Channel.

  • @adelabendova2912
    @adelabendova2912 2 роки тому +1

    I was always thinking about what is it like to not know how snow feels. I am really trying, but I just can't imagine that. Maybe it's similar to not knowing what it's like to swim in the ocean? I don't know that.
    Anyway, I just wanted to lie the thought here.
    This video is sooo relatable, and believe it or not, I needed that just now. Thank you, keep going 🔥

  • @milkycookie6499
    @milkycookie6499 2 роки тому +1

    THAT REALLY MOTIVATED ME SOMEHOW

  • @Noone-rz4er
    @Noone-rz4er 2 роки тому +3

    Great videos!

  • @jeremyholmesqvq8593
    @jeremyholmesqvq8593 2 роки тому

    Snow - is something cold white sand.

  • @salemsmith2878
    @salemsmith2878 2 роки тому

    Hollywood has already beat this idea into a dead horse, but what if ENTP and INTP got stuck in an infinite time loop?

  • @TaylorSwiftsBestFriend
    @TaylorSwiftsBestFriend 2 роки тому

    I love the animated intro !!

  • @kjouip7953
    @kjouip7953 2 роки тому +1

    muchas gracias, estaba pasando por momentos muy dificiles, en serio me siento mucho mejor...espero poder seguir tus consejos de la mejor manera posible, thanks

  • @ilikemydonutswithjaminthem5606
    @ilikemydonutswithjaminthem5606 2 роки тому +2

    I'm an INTJ but it helped!

  • @TAKEULTIMATETOTHEFACE
    @TAKEULTIMATETOTHEFACE 2 роки тому

    Thanks, I think I needed this .....especially rn, maybe I'll even make my own youtube videos and upload them

  • @katyanikala
    @katyanikala 2 роки тому +1

    Lili lili whattttaaa video ❤️❤️❤️👌🏼

  • @robbyroo.29
    @robbyroo.29 2 роки тому +1

    As an INTP most of your personalities are same with mine:).

  • @violet.9165
    @violet.9165 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you very much ..i was really depressed until i saw this video..ur such an inspiration now❣️

  • @lishayost44
    @lishayost44 2 роки тому

    Cats always know when you're trying to do something important. LOL

  • @sraton_handsome
    @sraton_handsome 2 роки тому +1

    Asking as an ENTP - what gives you the sustained motivation to do this one thing? What made you start pumping out videos one after the other on the regular basis? It feels like I have periods when I start finally doing something and my whole life awakens from slumber, but they don't really last for me. I always wanted to make music, it's been 10 years now, but finishing songs doesn't come easy for me (even though I finished some), and posting them out there for the public doesn't feel like it makes any difference, with only a handful of friends seeing it. How do you manage not to drop your own hobby and stay consistent with it?

  • @aekapatchunwiriyakul4154
    @aekapatchunwiriyakul4154 Рік тому

    Honestly This video is give me something. Thank you very much.

  • @albertojosesayago8421
    @albertojosesayago8421 2 роки тому +1

    I must admit this video is inspiring :)

  • @psbusne558
    @psbusne558 2 роки тому

    Me encanto tu video. Hace poco que aprendi sobre esto de las personalidades mbti y me di cuenta de que es muy probable que sea un INTP, y al mismo tiempo descubri tus videos y me senti como conectado con la forma en la que te expresas en tus videos, lo que comunicas en ellos. Esta bueno saber y ver que hay gente que piensa y ve como "nosotros", que le da mil vueltas a las cosas.
    Siempre me cuesta hacer las cosas y dejar de procastinar, pero quizas tu ejemplo y tu consejo me sean de ayuda :).
    Un saludo desde Argentina y espero que sigas haciendo videos!!

  • @JR-ow8xg
    @JR-ow8xg 2 роки тому

    I’m happy for you Lili! My Se child loves to consume life experiences of other people. Thanks for giving a part of your life. I hope you’re doing great!

  • @lucilaaida9735
    @lucilaaida9735 2 роки тому

    Aún no entiendo del todo el inglés, pero el concepto del video de algún modo me las apañé para entender, eres una persona bastante agradable!!, realmente disfruto de tus vídeos, lo último que tengo que agregar es que amé las partes de tu gatito :'^)

  • @hindrashahadji1489
    @hindrashahadji1489 2 роки тому +1

    You are so cute! Thank you for thenice motivation, it really helped

  • @eurabio
    @eurabio 2 роки тому

    Hola, esto fue hermoso. Tu historia es tan parecida a la mía. Recientemente descubrí esto del MBTI y tus videos sobre como es el día al día de uno de nosotros me mataron de la risa. Saludos desde México!
    PD: quieres ser mi novia?

  • @zeemonrollin8340
    @zeemonrollin8340 2 роки тому +1

    nice drawing of yourself.

  • @coreymay918
    @coreymay918 2 роки тому

    Just one thing eh? One baby step...

  • @otakus1216
    @otakus1216 2 роки тому

    Aye my inner world is purple too 👽🤙

  • @jamesspencer5728
    @jamesspencer5728 2 роки тому

    You are amazing inspirational and you are extremely beautiful

  • @digimon5036
    @digimon5036 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you

  • @jojomojo9823
    @jojomojo9823 2 роки тому

    For anyone who loves pictures and videos of snow, look up the 2014-2015 Boston snowmagedon. And anyone from Australia who would rather live in a place with snow, contact me. We can make a deal.

  • @calien-oz5id
    @calien-oz5id 2 роки тому

    Please make more video about intp. I love you KSJSJAKSJJAAJ

  • @takeiteasy1133
    @takeiteasy1133 7 місяців тому

    Thanks you so much for your videos ❤

  • @NightinMoskau
    @NightinMoskau 2 роки тому

    Thank you Lili.

  • @NNoovvaame
    @NNoovvaame Рік тому

    It was an amazing video!❤

  • @girlblogger3524
    @girlblogger3524 2 роки тому

    This is great :) thank you for your videos

  • @pinain
    @pinain 2 роки тому

    didn't even know i needed that.
    me tocaste la fibra

  • @lyrics7405
    @lyrics7405 2 роки тому +2

    Mama dima t9oul " nahna 3lina bl harka w rabbi 3lih bl barka "

  • @snudgegalbraith3447
    @snudgegalbraith3447 2 роки тому

    Lovely lili

  • @blake1337royale
    @blake1337royale 2 роки тому

    Dope! Fellow Intp ...I love your shit !!! please keep making more shit🤣😂👏🏿🤯😊 I concur

  • @artemissrijan473
    @artemissrijan473 2 роки тому

    My past self really did a lot of things, and I'm glad I have them.
    Oof 😁

  • @chikoonneko9674
    @chikoonneko9674 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this video I really needed to see it. It will take time to understand it completely but after this video it will be easier for me. •~•

  • @LilacSnowBun
    @LilacSnowBun 2 роки тому

    You’re an amazing person! 🌷🌷🌷🐇

  • @DrMd-jr3xt
    @DrMd-jr3xt 2 роки тому

    Welcome back! Thank you for this video! It will be very good for me to listen again to what you have to say.

  • @tessweet5912
    @tessweet5912 2 роки тому

    Ilysm, Your awesome keep it up🔄

  • @miaomiao8576
    @miaomiao8576 2 роки тому

    Thank u soo much,I’m experiencing the part of the story,my mind just can’t stop creating things,ideas,pictures,videos these months,and I slept bad,in the daytime, I had another hard work to do that didn’t need my creation ,it should be another hard Monday till I watched your video(yeah it still can be uneasy)so thank you really,and by the way can I ask for your permission to reupload (repost) your videos to a Chinese video platform called Bilibili? I think there must be someone else needs it

  • @parsasharafi2305
    @parsasharafi2305 2 роки тому

    Really inspiring.. thanks 🌱

  • @claudiaroncayolo4933
    @claudiaroncayolo4933 2 роки тому

    4:04 omg that was so cute lol

  • @josearturomorenososa4966
    @josearturomorenososa4966 2 роки тому

    Amo tus videos

  • @YoutubSosetXui
    @YoutubSosetXui 2 роки тому

    Thank you.

  • @sanakarim83
    @sanakarim83 2 роки тому

    Downloaded!

  • @francesco4382
    @francesco4382 2 роки тому

    Beyond Order [...] , rule 7

  • @saraalbuquerque5767
    @saraalbuquerque5767 2 роки тому

    Estava realmente precisando ouvir isso! Muito obrigada!!