I’m in love with a Cancer man. I’m a Leo with Cancer rising, and I refuse to listen to people who tell me we’re mismatched 😂 We’re not, because I’ve done a LOT of work to become an evolved Leo (more painful than anything I’ve done though, aka de-centring myself completely). I trust his moods, I allow for his back and forth tidal type emotion. He is wise and misunderstood. A thousand people in one. People really don’t get Cancers, hey. I see you. I adore you. I appreciate you.
Leo & Cancer are very compatible & this coming from a Leo Sun/Cancer Venus who attracts Cancers I get along with them very well & they treat me with respect don’t have any issues with them
I love my cancer man. I give him space and reassurance.. He is definitely moody lol..but me being a scorpio, we have great balance. Were still a work in progress but his efforts continue to increase.
I love my Cancer man! He can be crabby at times but he has a heart of gold. Cancer men make great lovers they are very sensual and intellectual my cancer man has taught me so much about life. Cancer men make great fathers,friends,lovers. I love you @poloalmighty
Cancer men need martial arts, meditation and to be very physically active to counter the wavering emotions and sensitivity. Knowing how to fight also helps with the insecurity we are prone to
Cancer guy I'm seeing. Im a capricorn. I cant ask him for anything monetary, but he will just cash app me when HE wants to. He ALWAYS wants to feed me. Cook for me or take me out to eat. Will clean for me. He nurtures me. And for some reason I can not tell him no. I just want to care and nurture him as well. Cuddle him, rub him, hold his hands, I cant keep my hands off of him. When he gets into his many emotional fits, I just talk calmly to him, rub him, coddle him, and then he'll be back in no time. I swear he finds things just to be upset about because he's bored 🤦🏽♀️
One thing I don't understand is what makes them go m.i.a when things seem to being going well or the actions not matching the words when they claim they care 🤦🏾♀️
This happens with Cancer a lot the intention is there but the life stage we’re in at the moment might be different or we just don’t know if that person truly loves us. If that person who claims wanting to be with us told us they only want us for a while or one night stand or for the fun of it we appreciate it more and it’s such a relief rather than pretending it’s the WHOLE show when it’s not! Hell, we might even join you. Haha cheers
I’ve recently started hanging out with a cancer man and I find that he’s in his head a lot. One moment we’ll be having a good time, and the next he shuts down and he tells me he’s not sure how he feels. I’ve confronted him about this and he tells me it’s because he’s never had a relationship with a girl and he’s confused about how he feels and that sometimes he thinks maybe I don’t really like him. I think they just overthink things and this causes them to hide in there shell
I'm Cancer dating a Cancer man. When he is in his true nature wealth is about security not greed. They are looking for their equal and those who will help them aquire that security. When they are very Masculine they are men who don't mind if their women makes more money than them.
I'm a Taurus woman. Just blocked a Cancer after a rocky 2.5 months of so-called dating. I refuse to deal with the secretiveness, mood swings and disappearing acts. 😒
That one nah ur concine a real cancer man won’t even care u block mostly if he is unevolved I mean the badass cancer man like burna boy,wizkid and 50cent lol 😂
...im on the cusp June 21st...and I will tell u this. Cancers do not like loud mouth women. Women that always gotta be out partying or living the night life. Women that tend to have lots of guy friends or make friends with the opposite sex easy. Women that tend to have ex's as friends. Women that curse or are very Blunt when speaking. Women that gotta leave out looking sexy just to go to Walmart... Women that stay in the mirror caked up in makeup. Women that got children 2-3 or more different Baby Daddy's. If your caught flirting while in a relationship with 1 of us, its pretty much the beginning of the end even if we don't break up with u on the spot...soft shell areas become patched up to the degree of concrete QUICK!...we do better in long-term relationships BUT relationships gotta start somewhere 😏 so sometimes we end up running across these types of women, and most times we don't wanna break up with someone or go through that process BUT now that I'm older and know myself better I don't give these kind of worldly women a chance + I already know what road they are on and refuse to be picked up as a passenger, but when I was younger I was hooking up with these types of women and the results were what she was saying in this video...pretty true 👍...but thats because I wasn't honest to myself from the beginning and led a lot of women on that I wasn't really feeling. If the cancer man didn't really like u from the beginning then yes most of what she is saying is true "The love was never there " Some women want the cancer man so bad and they pursue but really underneath the surface he doesn't feel the same way towards her but he won't come out and say it < its a dealing with other people's feelings issue > we don't like hurting people's feelings or seeing them cry.. BUT truthfully the kind of Woman the cancer man wants is RARE and hardly ever seen, we are not really talking about looks because there are beautiful women all over but we are talking about the type of woman that enjoys staying home "homebodies" ...she probably doesn't have a huge circle of friends or travel much, she likely enjoys cooking and everything centered around a home life and pretty much he knows her routine when away from home. Clingyness comes from the women he wants but can't have EVEN if they are in a relationship its like she has a life outside of their relationship and this can drive us nuts because this means there are places he can't go physically and emotionally unless she opens the door and lets him in - trust issues may occur -...this in return may make him feel powerless when he wants to be her everything lol...also if he finds her very attractive but she lacks everything I mentioned above this can add to his clingyness...but he has to realize this is not the right woman for him and move on...we are guilty for trying to change these women into our dream lovers...and when u start trying to change people to be different from who they are it rarely ends good... So although there are somany UA-cam videos I see bashing cancer men i believe we as cancer men must remain grounded for what we truly want and not settle for less in relationships with women we know are not right for us, the worldly women don't understand us as u can see in the UA-cam videos... so do ur part and understand yourselves and don't waste ur time and theirs in relationships that won't even last a year...Stay single and ready to mingle and stress free for we are long-term lovers often guilty for moving to fast to have the 1 we want in a committed relationship, but if u can restrain yourself from 1 nightstands and casual hooks when u do meet the 1 for u, u will be nothing like the signs shes had before, she will know ur not just some guy trying to get laid, why? Because u wanna get to know her well before just sleeping with her..reserved and cautious women do this to men and as a cancer man u have feminine traits so use this to your advantage...the majority of men will take sex the moment it is offered to them and then worry about capability issues later, but be wise and smart and check for capability issues 1st before entering into a woman, this will help keep u Strong and out of relationships that only bring drama that u could have avoided by not sleeping with her so soon...the power of sex to the cancer man OR men in general can make them weak, most men hand over their balls to her and become pleasers and servants to a woman they really don't even know, this adds to the devastating blow when she walks away or ends the relationship 💔 . I myself am picky and fast women are a turn off, quite and reserved women I have a appetite for, the cancer man if Black may only find himself wanting a relationship with a woman of different nationality or upbringing. ..if so I completely understand☝️🤭 They say good girls want a bad guy, but Cancer men only want a good women/ wifey material although secretly they do possess fantasies of wanting a freaky lover in the bedroom lol....i hope all i said helps Man or Woman reading this comment 😁✌.
Wow this describe my cancer friend to the tee!! But unfortunately he is a few years younger than me and I’m ready to settle down I’m the homebody not going out don’t have a lot of friends type of girl but I have a tough side because of my child hood and upbringing i have to be that way but I know how to soften up when I’m at home … but he is very stingy doesn’t check on me I believe he only wants sex lol which was ok except the fact it hasn’t been that good the few times we did try lol but he doesn’t want me to go on with another guy lol it’s like whattt do want from me lol. And doesn’t like to talk AT ALL then o just discovered he’s taking x and he has a trauma childhood so he’s hurt so he’s hurting me because really we’re not even friends but he won’t stop popping up out the blue. He use to block me anytime I had something to say now he seems to be maturing we had a long talk but the sex wasn’t good (that x stuff) NO GO and then he got mad and sent me home hungry and high lol. Has an attitude problem doesn’t want me to reach out to him . But won’t block me so I wrote him a 3 paragraph message but haven’t sent yet we’ll I sent and deleted before he read it hopefully lol I’m Tryna figure out how to end this thing nice and sweet but with revenge because he has been mean as HELL . He has to go !!
I’m a cancer man I turned 31 last July I made some mistakes in my 20s in my last relationship I really hurt my ex I been doin my best to better myself and reflect havin more time to be free and explore my hobbies like djing music / working out learning to express my opinions without fearing hurting other peoples feelings & to control my emotions
I’m glad I’m not the only one having an “experience” understanding my Cancer man lol. I’m a Sagittarius. We’re straight shooters. It seems like I hurt his feelings.
Dated a Cancer man, being a Cancer woman myself, I did all the talking in one date, he sat back and watched, he didn’t want to discover everything about me after we got in a relationship (must be due to my Gemini venus) we broke up after a year of friendship 1 month of dating. Years after I still feel the stranglehold of him not wanting to let me go or having really obscure emotions on the situation. All in all, I’m just happy I’m free. I still crave that spiritual bond but now looking for someone different.
I’m married to a cancer man and some of the things said here are not true. My husband can’t cook and that’s fine with me because I can. My husband spoils the hell outta me and has never told me to ask my dad for anything. What type of cancer do I have??
This is so spot on it makes me want to cry . I was with a Cancer . . . I am an Aries woman . Shamed him for being too emotional . He is irresponsible & unreliable but the sweetest person in the world but for me I needed more stability. Needless to say things ended we have a child together and I am seriously considering taking him court for a more consistent outcome but am afraid to because I don’t want the court to fuck him over either just need consistency but all his negative actions are really not helping .
The problem with those cancerian men is they are not open, they lie. Why do that and create problems. Everyone man and everyone face financial struggles and challenges from other humans and from the capitalist system. But they are not there to help you. As his woman, they create problems for you. It is good ,sometimes to take them to court. Cancerian men are very manipulative they bully you, they bully others they try to hide to get things behind your back and not get caught. They are more mean then you think. Everybody have challenges and weakneses and face problems but they talk about it, they are humble, cancerian men are not humble. They use power for bad things and with bad intentions, that is the reason why things mess up soo badly for others because of them.
" i act like shit don't phase me, but inside it drives me crazy" - eminem " i act like i don't care to keep my heart intact, best believe me dog that's the hardest act" - IAMSU
I'm a Libra and On behalf of All Libras we cant claim that girl that did not want to cuddle you. I'm with a cancer now one I've been with three years and he never had to tell me to cuddle because we are naturally both cuddlers. I can be a hard ass but underneath my tough exterior is a fragrant sweet and loving person. I can say the same for cancer men. I've dated two in my lifetime and now it would be hard to date another just because the way cancers nurture and protect is admirable. No they are not perfect but who is? This was the biggest challenge for me considering I strive for perfection but who wants a perfect love story anyway? Cancer men can be the most loyal and sincere man on earth just listen to him, understand his moods, be open to new things and be sentimental. They say Libras and Cancers dont mesh but actually we do it just takes a little more effort and the bond is strong. Libra Women listen up, allow yourself to be nurtured you need it and here's a man who will give it to you without you having to have to ask... sounds good to me!
This!!! ❤❤❤ unfortunately tho some women don't know how to understand. (Fires signs ehem lol) them looking for an evolved man but they don't know, they aren't as well.
@@SomeOnce9 That's because Libra Woman is the ONLY woman that accepts Cancer Man as is, poor communication and all... she truly accepts his whole being. Which makes Cancer Man that much more in love with Libra Woman and being that Cancer Man loves loves loves all things beauty and beauty Libra Woman is it works out just perfectly well not a perfect match but damn near close to it... (cheesy smiley face) I love love love this cute match. Libra Woman and Cancer Man is a cute match alert. And, the reason why others can't accept Cancer Man's nature and his natural poor communication nature or infamous "mood swings" is because they ain't got it like Libra Woman, she is who she is... very accepting of others' behaviors, not violent or bad behavior, mind you, of course not. And, that's the biggest difference between her and Aries Woman is that Aries Woman NEEDS her man the way she NEEDS him because of her infamous "freedom" I like to call it her natural RAM'S "space" or "break" in life but nonetheless yep. And, no there's absolutely nothing neither of them need to change. They are who they are and that's not a bad thing and even if there were something they need to change.. it's not like Aries Woman gonna change... she's a blessed chick either way. But anyway, Yes yes yes... I love Libra Woman and Cancer Man long-term committed relationship or marriage or however both see it... one of my favorite matches.😊🥰💯😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍👐🏾🙌🏾😍😍 Plus, it's not natural to any of the zodiacal woman's nature other than Libra Woman to accept Cancer Man as is... but, if Cancer Man didn't have that poor communication he would LITERALLY be EVERY ZODIACAL WOMAN'S dream man and yes that includes Aries Woman too...
Im a cancer and dating a cancer man it’s my first time and I really like him and he is very attentive and I think it’s going to be a great time with him ❤❤❤❤
@@Benjiman6th I understand what your saying it's just that I found that they are great until they have to be great. One thing I cant understand is there inability to conform.
@@keyannalucky506 That is true what you are saying. And Benjamin explains the reasons behind their lunatic. Your analysis is also amazing too. I dont agree with the part caring . No one disrespects you for being a caring man. SPEAK UP DO NORMAL. be honest. The whole world is starting to understand that cancerian men are unstable and not caring nor sweet, but having chicks everywhere. The want to be taken care of instead of taking care of you, It is the opposite.
@@myassessmentadres1349 In a relationship they are carrying but so that they are mirrored...its a set up...for example if a cancer man goes to the store for you, and comes home puts your money in your hands....this is rare because, that is hard for them they will lay it on the table but for some strange reason they cant put it in ones hand...but if they do that is a way of them telling you this is how I would like to receive my change....mirror me!
And another thing lol...dont get me started on how they pull you into their world/feelings...or how they are so smart and they are! However, just like that energy can be extra so can the mouth and the know it all ness! If they have had talks with you multiple times and they think they know what your going to say...the convo was played out in their head and had already so while you are talking they look like they are not listening while listening
Bae is cancer sun and scorp moon with aqua rising he has cancer north node too. Wow so interesting u mentioned the whole being separated from ur child unjustly. He acts a lot more scorp like and cap like in my opinion. Very hard working with very high standards. He is a great speaker too. 50 cent is definitely a crazy cancer lol. Im a taurus and im very affectionate
Why nobody talks about Cancer men grieving the loss of their mother.. My baby just loss his mom and I don't know how to instill that I'm here besides the NORMAL cliche of "I'm so sorry...." " I'm always here..." And u know checking in on him with a text
Oh snap. You are ringing true as my cancer “friend” is separated from his kids and one exwife berated him on Facebook for the world to see and he keeps on his profile to see. I’m not seeing victim yet but damn.
Kelly Burge speaking from experience of every cancer man I’ve had a thing with it’s not worth it. They victimise the fuck out of themselves and somehow try to manipulate you into thinking you’re the problem 🤣 but as always make sure you check all their placements before judging but a lot of cancer is just a no no
This is so funny to me. I’m a cancer. I was with a Capricorn in my 20s and wow she took my life in directions i wish i didn’t go. (Obviously I’m also to blame but she was VERY coercive) (lessons learned). I was just with an Aquarius for 9 months and she started disrespecting me and just being short and rude several times when I was going so far out of my way to help her rebuild her home. Treat me like dirt when I'm helping you.. for me it was just like Boom! Over. I’m gone. Aquarians are great at first but they become too often aloof and cold for me to handle. She would also disclose her MANY past sexual experiences randomly and often and for me that felt very inappropriate especially since I told her months ago that I don't want to hear about that. There were just way too many WTF? moments. Incredible people in other ways though and honestly power to them. Its also hilarious because ya I’ve been doing kickboxing for over a year now too! This video is on point. Should we give into our cancerian ways or should we try to change? Feels strange to think I'm like a fixed and predictable personality type.
I have a Cancer ♋️ man I’m Leo woman and he is like that we been noing each other 4 20 more years we going throw things but he do and be there for me and I’m going too do the same
That specific libra moon was probably in Taurus was my first thought and then you mentioned Taurus women after that 💫 😆....and I'm guessing your fron ny ? Lol .
@ratedbenjamin do you have any advice for how to handle A shut down crab? This is our first big blow up and hes MIA. I definitely pushed the envelope a bit but I had to stand my ground as he was accusing me of false things. We generally get along for the most part but this has to do with family....
Men you blaming us genius sensual mysterious cap ladies .whattttttt. this cancer men is smothering me . And I am nit sure how to bring him down a notch . I want his to be living but just a bit overboard
So what your basically saying is they are trying to find stability where that be in relationships family and kids to fill the void of the non stability in there money... wow
I’m in love with a Cancer man. I’m a Leo with Cancer rising, and I refuse to listen to people who tell me we’re mismatched 😂 We’re not, because I’ve done a LOT of work to become an evolved Leo (more painful than anything I’ve done though, aka de-centring myself completely). I trust his moods, I allow for his back and forth tidal type emotion. He is wise and misunderstood. A thousand people in one. People really don’t get Cancers, hey. I see you. I adore you. I appreciate you.
Leo & Cancer are very compatible & this coming from a Leo Sun/Cancer Venus who attracts Cancers I get along with them very well & they treat me with respect don’t have any issues with them
I’m a Leo and my cancer would kill for me 😅❤
I love my cancer man. I give him space and reassurance.. He is definitely moody lol..but me being a scorpio, we have great balance. Were still a work in progress but his efforts continue to increase.
That’s what’s up 💯
I’m a scoprio dating a cancer man too, were suppose to be the best zodiacs signs together
me too! i am scorpio and he is a cancer🥰
Me too! It's like fire and ice! LOL
I guess other water signs are the only ones who understand us cancers
I love my Cancer man! He can be crabby at times but he has a heart of gold. Cancer men make great lovers they are very sensual and intellectual my cancer man has taught me so much about life. Cancer men make great fathers,friends,lovers. I love you @poloalmighty
Spot on
Herbology with Koko love you too bitch
yep, thats us... Perfection has its flaws lol
Cancer men need martial arts, meditation and to be very physically active to counter the wavering emotions and sensitivity. Knowing how to fight also helps with the insecurity we are prone to
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Cancer guy I'm seeing. Im a capricorn. I cant ask him for anything monetary, but he will just cash app me when HE wants to. He ALWAYS wants to feed me. Cook for me or take me out to eat. Will clean for me. He nurtures me. And for some reason I can not tell him no. I just want to care and nurture him as well. Cuddle him, rub him, hold his hands, I cant keep my hands off of him. When he gets into his many emotional fits, I just talk calmly to him, rub him, coddle him, and then he'll be back in no time. I swear he finds things just to be upset about because he's bored 🤦🏽♀️
One thing I don't understand is what makes them go m.i.a when things seem to being going well or the actions not matching the words when they claim they care 🤦🏾♀️
I totally know what you mean
Its annoying cuz you either gonna be all in or gone no in between
This happens with Cancer a lot the intention is there but the life stage we’re in at the moment might be different or we just don’t know if that person truly loves us. If that person who claims wanting to be with us told us they only want us for a while or one night stand or for the fun of it we appreciate it more and it’s such a relief rather than pretending it’s the WHOLE show when it’s not! Hell, we might even join you. Haha cheers
I’ve recently started hanging out with a cancer man and I find that he’s in his head a lot. One moment we’ll be having a good time, and the next he shuts down and he tells me he’s not sure how he feels. I’ve confronted him about this and he tells me it’s because he’s never had a relationship with a girl and he’s confused about how he feels and that sometimes he thinks maybe I don’t really like him. I think they just overthink things and this causes them to hide in there shell
I go mia if there is something I don’t like or is it something you have done
I'm Cancer dating a Cancer man. When he is in his true nature wealth is about security not greed. They are looking for their equal and those who will help them aquire that security. When they are very Masculine they are men who don't mind if their women makes more money than them.
Bingo. Thanks
Big facts ❤
I'm a Taurus woman. Just blocked a Cancer after a rocky 2.5 months of so-called dating. I refuse to deal with the secretiveness, mood swings and disappearing acts. 😒
That one nah ur concine a real cancer man won’t even care u block mostly if he is unevolved I mean the badass cancer man like burna boy,wizkid and 50cent lol 😂
Yes exactly to secretive and liars
How long did he disappear for? Mines been gone for a week now
Cancer men have to nurture himself wholeheartedly without thinking and believing its selfish to do so. Cancer men are alpha men.
#levelup
yeah man please give me some time
...im on the cusp June 21st...and I will tell u this.
Cancers do not like loud mouth women.
Women that always gotta be out partying or living the night life.
Women that tend to have lots of guy friends or make friends with the opposite sex easy.
Women that tend to have ex's as friends.
Women that curse or are very Blunt when speaking.
Women that gotta leave out looking sexy just to go to Walmart...
Women that stay in the mirror caked up in makeup.
Women that got children 2-3 or more different Baby Daddy's.
If your caught flirting while in a relationship with 1 of us, its pretty much the beginning of the end even if we don't break up with u on the spot...soft shell areas become patched up to the degree of concrete QUICK!...we do better in long-term relationships BUT relationships gotta start somewhere 😏 so sometimes we end up running across these types of women, and most times we don't wanna break up with someone or go through that process BUT now that I'm older and know myself better I don't give these kind of worldly women a chance + I already know what road they are on and refuse to be picked up as a passenger, but when I was younger I was hooking up with these types of women and the results were what she was saying in this video...pretty true 👍...but thats because I wasn't honest to myself from the beginning and led a lot of women on that I wasn't really feeling.
If the cancer man didn't really like u from the beginning then yes most of what she is saying is true "The love was never there " Some women want the cancer man so bad and they pursue but really underneath the surface he doesn't feel the same way towards her but he won't come out and say it < its a dealing with other people's feelings issue > we don't like hurting people's feelings or seeing them cry.. BUT truthfully the kind of Woman the cancer man wants is RARE and hardly ever seen, we are not really talking about looks because there are beautiful women all over but we are talking about the type of woman that enjoys staying home "homebodies" ...she probably doesn't have a huge circle of friends or travel much, she likely enjoys cooking and everything centered around a home life and pretty much he knows her routine when away from home.
Clingyness comes from the women he wants but can't have EVEN if they are in a relationship its like she has a life outside of their relationship and this can drive us nuts because this means there are places he can't go physically and emotionally unless she opens the door and lets him in - trust issues may occur -...this in return may make him feel powerless when he wants to be her everything lol...also if he finds her very attractive but she lacks everything I mentioned above this can add to his clingyness...but he has to realize this is not the right woman for him and move on...we are guilty for trying to change these women into our dream lovers...and when u start trying to change people to be different from who they are it rarely ends good...
So although there are somany UA-cam videos I see bashing cancer men i believe we as cancer men must remain grounded for what we truly want and not settle for less in relationships with women we know are not right for us, the worldly women don't understand us as u can see in the UA-cam videos... so do ur part and understand yourselves and don't waste ur time and theirs in relationships that won't even last a year...Stay single and ready to mingle and stress free for we are long-term lovers often guilty for moving to fast to have the 1 we want in a committed relationship, but if u can restrain yourself from 1 nightstands and casual hooks when u do meet the 1 for u, u will be nothing like the signs shes had before, she will know ur not just some guy trying to get laid, why? Because u wanna get to know her well before just sleeping with her..reserved and cautious women do this to men and as a cancer man u have feminine traits so use this to your advantage...the majority of men will take sex the moment it is offered to them and then worry about capability issues later, but be wise and smart and check for capability issues 1st before entering into a woman, this will help keep u Strong and out of relationships that only bring drama that u could have avoided by not sleeping with her so soon...the power of sex to the cancer man OR men in general can make them weak, most men hand over their balls to her and become pleasers and servants to a woman they really don't even know, this adds to the devastating blow when she walks away or ends the relationship 💔 .
I myself am picky and fast women are a turn off, quite and reserved women I have a appetite for, the cancer man if Black may only find himself wanting a relationship with a woman of different nationality or upbringing. ..if so I completely understand☝️🤭
They say good girls want a bad guy, but Cancer men only want a good women/ wifey material although secretly they do possess fantasies of wanting a freaky lover in the bedroom lol....i hope all i said helps Man or Woman reading this comment 😁✌.
Wow this describe my cancer friend to the tee!! But unfortunately he is a few years younger than me and I’m ready to settle down I’m the homebody not going out don’t have a lot of friends type of girl but I have a tough side because of my child hood and upbringing i have to be that way but I know how to soften up when I’m at home … but he is very stingy doesn’t check on me I believe he only wants sex lol which was ok except the fact it hasn’t been that good the few times we did try lol but he doesn’t want me to go on with another guy lol it’s like whattt do want from me lol. And doesn’t like to talk AT ALL then o just discovered he’s taking x and he has a trauma childhood so he’s hurt so he’s hurting me because really we’re not even friends but he won’t stop popping up out the blue. He use to block me anytime I had something to say now he seems to be maturing we had a long talk but the sex wasn’t good (that x stuff) NO GO and then he got mad and sent me home hungry and high lol. Has an attitude problem doesn’t want me to reach out to him
. But won’t block me so I wrote him a 3 paragraph message but haven’t sent yet we’ll I sent and deleted before he read it hopefully lol I’m
Tryna figure out how to end this thing nice and sweet but with revenge because he has been mean as HELL . He has to go !!
Been a while, are you available for a question? I'm dating a cancer man and.....
I’m a cancer man I turned 31 last July I made some mistakes in my 20s in my last relationship I really hurt my ex I been doin my best to better myself and reflect havin more time to be free and explore my hobbies like djing music / working out learning to express my opinions without fearing hurting other peoples feelings & to control my emotions
I’m glad I’m not the only one having an “experience” understanding my Cancer man lol. I’m a Sagittarius. We’re straight shooters. It seems like I hurt his feelings.
I'm also lady Sag. Whats your favorite part of dating him? Currently interested in one 🥰
Same here
Dated a Cancer man, being a Cancer woman myself, I did all the talking in one date, he sat back and watched, he didn’t want to discover everything about me after we got in a relationship (must be due to my Gemini venus) we broke up after a year of friendship 1 month of dating. Years after I still feel the stranglehold of him not wanting to let me go or having really obscure emotions on the situation. All in all, I’m just happy I’m free. I still crave that spiritual bond but now looking for someone different.
I’m married to a cancer man and some of the things said here are not true. My husband can’t cook and that’s fine with me because I can. My husband spoils the hell outta me and has never told me to ask my dad for anything. What type of cancer do I have??
He makes you afraid to date a cancer😄 my man is a cancer and he's nothing like that. He spoils me like crazy! Idk
My cancer spoiled me as well always goes above and beyond
Cancer husband yes they need to be a victim and also likes to rescue the victim
ahh i see... no wonder his all crabby when I say "I can handle it myself" lol.
Lioness here, in a relationship with a Cancerian and you are so right. I appreciate hearing about Cancerians from a Cancerian man; thanks much.
Thanks for sharing!!
Do more videos about Cancer men pls n thnx
I’m a cancer man and I agree with everything you said in this video.
lol
love these types of videos!
Cool 🖤
Bro... No BS you on point. Im a cancer man and this brings clarity to my life.
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Wya because I love cancer men ❤🤞
This is hands down the most accurate on cancer men on UA-cam. This video should have more views
🙌🏽 I appreciate that 🤜🏽🤛🏽 💯
Great video! Thank you .
Glad you liked it!
This is beyond true about the current guy I know & im seeing .
Interesting. Thank you
The thing with the libra woman is you have to be nice to us. We are not like other signs.
Bullshit
This is so spot on it makes me want to cry . I was with a Cancer . . . I am an Aries woman . Shamed him for being too emotional . He is irresponsible & unreliable but the sweetest person in the world but for me I needed more stability. Needless to say things ended we have a child together and I am seriously considering taking him court for a more consistent outcome but am afraid to because I don’t want the court to fuck him over either just need consistency but all his negative actions are really not helping .
The problem with those cancerian men is they are not open, they lie. Why do that and create problems. Everyone man and everyone face financial struggles and challenges from other humans and from the capitalist system. But they are not there to help you. As his woman, they create problems for you. It is good ,sometimes to take them to court. Cancerian men are very manipulative they bully you, they bully others they try to hide to get things behind your back and not get caught. They are more mean then you think. Everybody have challenges and weakneses and face problems but they talk about it, they are humble, cancerian men are not humble. They use power for bad things and with bad intentions, that is the reason why things mess up soo badly for others because of them.
Cancer woman here, just screw him over! Get that money for your child, pride up and run.
@@myassessmentadres1349 OMG YOU'RE RIGHT THEY'RE SO EMOTIONALLY MANIPULATIVE
We don’t like Aries
Danielle Destiny Love Aries!! ♋️
Benjamin always gonna keep shit 💯 him and uncle fernado
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Your a true cancer man, ik this cause I relate to basically everything he said and understand it completely
They want to love you the way they want to even if you object....they are huge victims
I can relate for I have a cancer influenced decanate (minus the victim part). My love is either accepted or rejected.
@@Benjiman6th So, is there no reason in which you would amend your love style toward your partner, if it pleased them more?
" i act like shit don't phase me, but inside it drives me crazy" - eminem
" i act like i don't care to keep my heart intact, best believe me dog that's the hardest act" - IAMSU
I'm a Libra and On behalf of All Libras we cant claim that girl that did not want to cuddle you. I'm with a cancer now one I've been with three years and he never had to tell me to cuddle because we are naturally both cuddlers. I can be a hard ass but underneath my tough exterior is a fragrant sweet and loving person. I can say the same for cancer men. I've dated two in my lifetime and now it would be hard to date another just because the way cancers nurture and protect is admirable. No they are not perfect but who is? This was the biggest challenge for me considering I strive for perfection but who wants a perfect love story anyway? Cancer men can be the most loyal and sincere man on earth just listen to him, understand his moods, be open to new things and be sentimental. They say Libras and Cancers dont mesh but actually we do it just takes a little more effort and the bond is strong. Libra Women listen up, allow yourself to be nurtured you need it and here's a man who will give it to you without you having to have to ask... sounds good to me!
This!!! ❤❤❤ unfortunately tho some women don't know how to understand. (Fires signs ehem lol) them looking for an evolved man but they don't know, they aren't as well.
@@SomeOnce9 That's because Libra Woman is the ONLY woman that accepts Cancer Man as is, poor communication and all... she truly accepts his whole being. Which makes Cancer Man that much more in love with Libra Woman and being that Cancer Man loves loves loves all things beauty and beauty Libra Woman is it works out just perfectly well not a perfect match but damn near close to it... (cheesy smiley face) I love love love this cute match. Libra Woman and Cancer Man is a cute match alert. And, the reason why others can't accept Cancer Man's nature and his natural poor communication nature or infamous "mood swings" is because they ain't got it like Libra Woman, she is who she is... very accepting of others' behaviors, not violent or bad behavior, mind you, of course not. And, that's the biggest difference between her and Aries Woman is that Aries Woman NEEDS her man the way she NEEDS him because of her infamous "freedom" I like to call it her natural RAM'S "space" or "break" in life but nonetheless yep. And, no there's absolutely nothing neither of them need to change. They are who they are and that's not a bad thing and even if there were something they need to change.. it's not like Aries Woman gonna change... she's a blessed chick either way. But anyway, Yes yes yes... I love Libra Woman and Cancer Man long-term committed relationship or marriage or however both see it... one of my favorite matches.😊🥰💯😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍👐🏾🙌🏾😍😍
Plus, it's not natural to any of the zodiacal woman's nature other than Libra Woman to accept Cancer Man as is... but, if Cancer Man didn't have that poor communication he would LITERALLY be EVERY ZODIACAL WOMAN'S dream man and yes that includes Aries Woman too...
I'm a libra and felt everything you said 💯
After he calls her a bitch and gets physical with her , it’s her your not claiming? Wow you’re crazy
Ladies! Don't do it stay far away please
lol 😂
This is great! Thank you 🙏🏼 ... I’m cap sun woman dating cancer man 🥰 I think we compliment one another very well... lots of love for this
DANIELLE I’m cap sun, Aquarius moon, Gemini rising, Venus Scorpio ... he’s cancer sun, Leo moon, cancer rising, and Taurus Venus
Wait- how are you gonna be upset with the Libra woman for not letting you cuddle her, when you never let her cuddle you before??
Bc cancer men get mad over everything and everything hurts their feelings. Babies 😒.
@Huncheaux G 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Because she is rejecting him. No man likes to be rejected, especially a cancer man.
Im a cancer and dating a cancer man it’s my first time and I really like him and he is very attentive and I think it’s going to be a great time with him ❤❤❤❤
You are giving them tooooo many excuses these men need help
Clarify if you can. Excuses are not terrible things, they are explanations for defense.
@@Benjiman6th I understand what your saying it's just that I found that they are great until they have to be great. One thing I cant understand is there inability to conform.
@@keyannalucky506 That is true what you are saying. And Benjamin explains the reasons behind their lunatic. Your analysis is also amazing too. I dont agree with the part caring . No one disrespects you for being a caring man. SPEAK UP DO NORMAL. be honest. The whole world is starting to understand that cancerian men are unstable and not caring nor sweet, but having chicks everywhere. The want to be taken care of instead of taking care of you, It is the opposite.
@@myassessmentadres1349 In a relationship they are carrying but so that they are mirrored...its a set up...for example if a cancer man goes to the store for you, and comes home puts your money in your hands....this is rare because, that is hard for them they will lay it on the table but for some strange reason they cant put it in ones hand...but if they do that is a way of them telling you this is how I would like to receive my change....mirror me!
And another thing lol...dont get me started on how they pull you into their world/feelings...or how they are so smart and they are! However, just like that energy can be extra so can the mouth and the know it all ness! If they have had talks with you multiple times and they think they know what your going to say...the convo was played out in their head and had already so while you are talking they look like they are not listening while listening
Oh boy I’m a Libra with a cancer moon. I’m taking to a cancer man whom I can identify things in him that’s in me as my cancer moon.
Bae is cancer sun and scorp moon with aqua rising he has cancer north node too. Wow so interesting u mentioned the whole being separated from ur child unjustly. He acts a lot more scorp like and cap like in my opinion. Very hard working with very high standards. He is a great speaker too. 50 cent is definitely a crazy cancer lol. Im a taurus and im very affectionate
I think cancer men are nuts lol 😂
lol but you think about them
lmao im a cancer and this was posted on my birthday
accurate af
Why nobody talks about Cancer men grieving the loss of their mother.. My baby just loss his mom and I don't know how to instill that I'm here besides the NORMAL cliche of "I'm so sorry...." " I'm always here..." And u know checking in on him with a text
Oh snap. You are ringing true as my cancer “friend” is separated from his kids and one exwife berated him on Facebook for the world to see and he keeps on his profile to see. I’m not seeing victim yet but damn.
I am a Cancer man ♋🦀❤️💯💪
I’ve never dated a cancer man before. I’m a cancer woman but have never been around or gotten to know one so this is so interesting.
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Don’t be interested in anything to do with them. They’re headaches.
Lubnaa Atcha Hahahah. I’ve crossed Gemini’s out for good 👉 So I understand that POV.
Kelly Burge speaking from experience of every cancer man I’ve had a thing with it’s not worth it. They victimise the fuck out of themselves and somehow try to manipulate you into thinking you’re the problem 🤣 but as always make sure you check all their placements before judging but a lot of cancer is just a no no
I think you'll enjoy time with scorps and taurus or Leos.
Apart from the lunatic (moon mad) explaination, I loved the archetypal analysis. Like your work🙏🏿
Thank you
Ayy this video was posted on my b day ahaha. Cancer sun , Scorpio moon here
Thank you so much. This helps me understand my two cancer friends so much
Marcia Ham you’re welcome Marcia 😊
I am cançeeeer man the heroooo of this city
ooooooooooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh morri de aids e de cancer de prostata
Spot on......everything. From our way of thinking to our actions...spot..on. 🙏🏽
Yep. we go base on facts.
Your saying over compensate nah we fullfil our duties and be there for our loved ones.
On point !!!
Appreciate that 💯
Spittin facts non stop
This is so funny to me. I’m a cancer. I was with a Capricorn in my 20s and wow she took my life in directions i wish i didn’t go. (Obviously I’m also to blame but she was VERY coercive) (lessons learned). I was just with an Aquarius for 9 months and she started disrespecting me and just being short and rude several times when I was going so far out of my way to help her rebuild her home. Treat me like dirt when I'm helping you.. for me it was just like Boom! Over. I’m gone. Aquarians are great at first but they become too often aloof and cold for me to handle. She would also disclose her MANY past sexual experiences randomly and often and for me that felt very inappropriate especially since I told her months ago that I don't want to hear about that. There were just way too many WTF? moments. Incredible people in other ways though and honestly power to them. Its also hilarious because ya I’ve been doing kickboxing for over a year now too! This video is on point. Should we give into our cancerian ways or should we try to change? Feels strange to think I'm like a fixed and predictable personality type.
Great video cancer here new sub
Thanks Ronald!! Appreciate the sub!!
My childhood crush and I made love in 2015 and I can not stop thinking about him. Gemini Sun & Cap Moon
Hot 🔥 🔥 😁
Why in the world are Cancer suns always so drawn to Capricorn moons? I just don't get it. 😅
That big dick energy.
😩 Leo Sun Cap Moon 1st love Cancer too. I think it’s the cardinal energy for real.
Taurus and cancer 44yrs ❤
Makes sense!
I am a 47yr Cancer male. To call US lunatics is a bit harse but I knw your using the word to be desrciptive . great video
Ever heard of the phrase 'father' ? Also a nurterer but in -his- way.
thanks brother for giving me info on myself
Have a cancer ever cheated ?
Anybody is capable of cheating...has nothing to do with zodiac sign...has everything to do with the person.❤
Benji I thought you was a Aries or A Scorpio
Nah
I'm a Pisces.
what signs are great empathizers? heard cancer was one of em
Cancer, Pisces, Libra, Scorpio
@@Benjiman6th So true! I'm always empathizing with someone on something...#Scorpionation
What is the podcast?
Benji ❤
I have a Cancer ♋️ man I’m Leo woman and he is like that we been noing each other 4 20 more years we going throw things but he do and be there for me and I’m going too do the same
theda coates go bk to school. I could hardly read what u said
What do you think about the two signs
That specific libra moon was probably in Taurus was my first thought and then you mentioned Taurus women after that 💫 😆....and I'm guessing your fron ny ? Lol .
Definitely from NY 💯😄
@@Benjiman6th lol 😆 I know my people #NY ...great content 🙏🏽
NYC standup ✊🏼😎, thank youuuu 🙏🏼
Damn homie i swear you ain't lie on this one. Pi sun can moon can as.
Happy (late) Fourt of July! 😄 🇺🇸
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On point 👌
@ratedbenjamin do you have any advice for how to handle A shut down crab? This is our first big blow up and hes MIA. I definitely pushed the envelope a bit but I had to stand my ground as he was accusing me of false things. We generally get along for the most part but this has to do with family....
Men you blaming us genius sensual mysterious cap ladies .whattttttt. this cancer men is smothering me . And I am nit sure how to bring him down a notch . I want his to be living but just a bit overboard
Um those aren't your children.
Love your videos so much. But, keep in mind to discuss Taurus Women in a more positive light, not every Taurus is the same
So what your basically saying is they are trying to find stability where that be in relationships family and kids to fill the void of the non stability in there money... wow
My ex. wife is Sagittarius. I'm Cancer.
They’re big ass babies
Soooo. I'm basically fucked😐. Damn son.
Too emotionally unstable
Way too sensitive
Wow
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This man is very annoying!!!
Karma.. I’d bet you’re the same to someone else
In what way is he annoying? 💀 you’re dumb
Girl you clicked on this video, gtfo