No thanks! There's nothing like having that peace of mind and tranquility in life. After my divorce from my narcissistic wife, I went 13+ years of celibacy. Actually, I discovered it to empowering. My health was great, and every body part works fine. As a healthy straight man, I never thought I would say that "sex is overrated." Y'all be careful out here.😊
Going into my 11th month without sex now and I must say it feels very empowering, I never thought it was possible but once you get used to it it’s smooth sailing.
@@peacemaker4814 i got y'all beat, im in my mid 40s and ive NEVER had sex, never had it, never will, and that is 95 percent choice(mine) and 5 percent being revenge of the fugly, well, revenge of the fugly has nightmares of me, and i wouldnt change it for ANYTHING, i know what i can expect, what i dont have to worry about: 1: whoever the lady is lying about her age(eek!) 2:no one ringing me up to say "i just called,,,, to say i,,,,, tested POS-IT-IVE" 3:no one knocking on my door saying "im pregnant, its yours!"or "see this kid? you knocked me up!" 4:dont have to worry about the lady cheating on someone who might re-arrange my face(or being cheated on) 5: dont have to worry about someone who, while legal age, isnt responsible enough for sex(and i include the risk of the lady bein gsomeone who might try to blackmale me with something like "do what i say or ill accuse you of rape") give me a choice between needing a condom or having a good bowl of beans, im makin' some cornbread and grabbing a can opener.
I am a male doctor. Much of what is said in this video, is more debatable than scientific. Too much sex can do harm. Nocturnal erections take care of little or no sex. A man’s penis reacts to temperature and weather, contracting or lengthening. A good diet and exercise are far more important to long term penile health than too much sex. Men who ejaculate too much shorten their lives. Semen is a very precious bodily substance containing vitamins and minerals and enzymes. Excess depletes bodily strength and longevity.
'Men who ejaculate too much shorten their lives.' I'm sorry, but what the hell did I just read. 'Semen is a very precious bodily substance containing vitamins and minerals and enzymes.' Don't be ridiculous. It's a tiny amount of fluid, made mostly of water and plasma. MALE doctor, what, you went to a special school for repressed doctors? Look after your reproductive organs people, and your prostates if you have them.
I'm 70 years old and don't have a problem. Your mental and emotional state has to be in the right frequency. There was an article I read several years ago that the fountain of youth is intimacy. 🧐🤔😊❤️
Your wife must be very happy yo have "you" as her husband in her life,I wish and I pray to god that he granted your wife's life 30years more for you guys to show the world how a husband and wife should love their partner in a married couple lives
The biggest concern is to have a willing partner. In our society, you out of luck if you are not married and even then so many, too many women use sex as a control mechanism. For a man to have his sexual needs met is just not that easy.
@@DrJenCaudle I didn't realize that was such a shocking revelation. I feel for young men that aren't married. From a moral standpoint, we don't suppose to have sex out of wedlock?????
To the point: 1. shrinkage 2. erectile dysfunction 3. blood flow decrease 4. lack of ejaculation But... you have "peace of mind" when not dealing with a female partner.
Am a doctor too,my opinion is only cross the bridge when you reach it,many youths will jump into sex because of unnecessary worries then later on their sexual life is cutoff by deadly STIs, therefore don't just rush take your time, being a virgin has never killed anyone,and then marriage is beyond sex ,peace❤
why you relate premarital sex with sti??? are you a priest? you sound like one. I had a lot of premarital sex, and never had sti. maybe, there was no sti in my circle of friends, and there is a lot in yours?
Hi Dr. Caudle, I just found your page, and I subscribed after this video. My wife and I retired this past January. We were both shift workers, so we did not have a lot of time together. We are trying to get back into things in our mix 60's. This is very easy, but we are trying. Thank you for posting this video, it is greatly appreciated.
Been divorced 16 years . no girlfriends or other , and you are exactly right . I have lost it all but that's ok . Don't have to impress anyone so i live with it .
Hi, doctor. I am 28 here and never had sex. For some reason, I used to *think* it was something to be ashamed about but I was wrong. I talked to people and realized that my choice to wait for the right person to have sex with is mature and I am on the right path and nobody has the right to judge for that. FTH!
Good man I wished you to marry a virgin girl, Because you are poured I had the same experience,as yours after I had miserable life , when a women but not all women preferred man with big pens than a well Respected man us your self Make sure the girls you marry is a virgin
Lots of really good information here. These conversations should not be uncomfortable. Is it wrong to crave intimacy and affection? Is it wired to not crave love and intimacy? Is it crazy to be completely fed up with people, so being alone is better? What about the married couple? One needs this, and the other doesn’t. Good health and happiness is the goal, but sometimes that in itself is tough to achieve, whether it’s being in love or alone.Evaluating where you are and having realistic expectations is something worth visiting.
It's like not lifting weights, if you don't lift for a period of time, you'll lost size and shrink, everything in life has these principles, you reap what you sow
There are a lot of Vietnam vets who were exposed to Agent Orange (Dioxin) and developed prostate cancer. I am one of them. The prostate was very enlarged and I'm sure the surgeon had to cut through the fine nerves around it. So the result was and is severe ED. Crazy part is that my Libido is very strong. I'm 76 but hope for the younger guys that our medical technology can reverse the ED.
How bless you and thank you for serving our country- we are forever indebted. I hope that more solutions can be found too and that you can also benefit from these treatments 🙏🏾
I heard a doctor speak at a seminar years ago. One of the things he mentioned was erectile dysfunction. He said "the bacteria that accumulates in the mouth, due to poor oral hygiene and lack of proper oral healthcare, can lead to erectile dysfunction." I found this very interesting.
I am 70 years old ,I never had sex but I never felt the need for sex, so it just never happened, I see a lot of controversy over it and never thought it was a big deal, I guess everyone is different and I am going to be fine never having sex ,so hopefully a lot of people don't see it as any issue
You never had natural body urges for sex..?? not that you should automatically act on them but were you diagnosed as to why your body doesn’t react..??
I didn't get married until I was 51. However, I had a very active sex life especially during college and after graduation when I got my first jobs in Vietnam and Thailand. Never had time for a girlfriend since my company kept me on the move but paud me very well. I figured I probably had more sex than a married man since there were so many Thai and Vietnamese women that made themselves available whenever and where ever. Finally met a Thai women at 51 that changed my lifestyle, she was also in the medical field as a pharmacist. At 60 my son was born only because my wife stopped taking the pill. Today I am 77 and still sexually active with out using the blue pill. Maybe it is because my wike is 24 years younger than me, or it is because I work out at a gym 5 days,a week and still in excellent health. Or it could be that my wife is the best sex partner I have ever had and there were many, many before her.
Wow. Awesome on the wife being the best sex partner you've had. You see if you use it you don't lose it. Strong attraction and a fit body and good sex life equals rock hard erections.
Yep! No surprise there I wish more men would pay more attention to their overall health. As the Dr stressed, it’s all about blood flow. Too many young men (below 50) nowadays experiencing ED just coz they don’t lead an healthy lifestyle. Then they try to make women feel like it’s their fault. Women have to go through so much, from menstruation, childbearing to menopause, yet we keep functioning. Men only have ONE job (to be agile and meet women’s sexual needs) yet many failed. Very frustrating for us!🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
No!!!! Men are healthier than they were 20-50 years ago across the board. The knowledge has been disseminated. What is different than years past is many women will NOT be in a feminine role, she will be seeking control or having control, this is the sign of the times. A controlling mean woman is not good for erections! Many men in our culture with "ED", leave the country, go to another nation where more traditional feminine and masculine roles remain, and magically the "ED" problem no longer exists!!! Listen more to see what is REALLY going on.@@llcoolg52001
IMO, as long as you use it regularly, it keeps working way into old age. I noticed that when I stopped having a partner or self pleasuring, well, I lost my ability to hold it as long as I wished
Thank you for the verification, or assurances of what my mind had told me over 40 years. 1st, I told one of my doctors that if when I had a flu or cold, and ejaculated, the flu or cold left in a day or two. The other things I totally agree from experience. 👍🏼
Dr. Jen, I agree with you entirely. Edging helped exercise my part several times daily. It helped maintaining size (girth & length) and also extend in bed performance time, now lasting 20-30 min of full engagement. That being said, you might say that's great. However, there's been situations that the women reached climax but I hadn't. Woman can get hurt if the session is too long for her. 😮
Not surprising. It's the closest you can get to another person physically. Except for gestating in the womb of your mother, then, you dont remember that bit, thank God!
Jackpot, you hit the nail on the head for me. Thank you for your input. I am in the over the hill zone and had a prostectamy a few years ago and thought that I was doomed for the rest of my life as far a having sex ever again. Although mentally and emotionally I look forward to the opportunity once I find the right woman who would understand and who supports and who would work with me. Your inspiration has given me hope that someday my wish will come true. Thank you
I have a question. Why do people still have sex? Sex is very gross, nasty, messy, and disgusting! I don't see how sex is a good thing. Why don't humans just remove sex from this world? Women can still get pregnant without sex (there's a lot of ways women can get pregnant without sex including artificial insemination). Sex does cause a lot of problems, so the world might be a much better place without it.
Thank you for the information. I was in a sexless marriage and I got away from it as there was abuse as well. My first couple chances with new people were awful. She would say she understood and then disappear- after 6 dates and gone. I know more now but I wish women would understand that a man can be crazy attracted to you and have feelings for you and sometimes the body doesn’t cooperate- seriously it had been so long since I even felt a woman’s touch.
Litsen you sad clown with a sad story, here some advice, if you not getting no kitty kat, forget the abusive wife go vasline your hand/palm and get the wacking 😂
You got to move slower the problem is dating today sex on the 1st and 2nd date is very common nowadays and for a lot of guys you get a shy penis it doesn't mean you have ed dysfunction at all because it works fine but just it's shy around new people and it's actually common.. Order some good Viagra and that will force it to work until you get more comfy
You have to understand that a woodpecker is more mental than physical. You have to find what you’re seeing sexually appealing. Your partner may be all that you ever wanted in a caring sense, but if they’re not sexually appealing, you’ll be softer than cotton.
I can definitely confirm this being a contributor to having a healthy prostate... I've had some issues in the past few years. Injuries, digestive issues, and a few other things I won't mention. With that said. I've noticed that when I would not have sex. I would get blocked up feeling clogged. After seeing my urologist. He stated that my left side of the prostate area was swollen. Causing more issues. Anyhow, after sex only time I felt relief was after ejaculation/ intercourse. I regret to say the massive amount of pills did nothing but cause more problems. I hate pills or meds in general. So I quit taking all medications. Mainly supplements such vitamin D B12 iron E Because they were causing a major blockage. Me having Injuries not training or moving as much. Wasn't allowing my liver n kidneys to filter and regulate the body properly. Causing weight gain. Excessive sweating. And many n so much more. Low blood oxygen filtration. I quit taking everything 1 yr ago this month, November. And I feel a tone better. Times when I don't have sex. I can feel the build-up and clogging on the left side. And when I do. I feel the urine flow stronger and flows smoother. I'm able to perform many tasks as if I were in my 20s again. After many years of suffering. So, with all the rambling, I just did. Lol, I can truly attest to this being a solution yo prostate health and potentially preventative of prostate cancer... #frewil
There has never been a documented case of a prostate becoming clogged in any way whatsoever. If one side of your prostate is swollen, a biopsy would have been ordered as fast as humanly possible. It sounds like general prostatitis. You either have an idiot of a urology, or, more likely and what my money's on, you never went to a urologist. You described stuff a urologist would have acted on IMMEDIATELY so they didn't lose their medical license. You lied dude. A LOT. Sincerely, A Urologist Physician Assistant, State of Texas Licensed.
All jokes aside....my fiances dad has problems as well. Its due because he hasnt had a woman in god knows how long! I mentioned had he been having sex ..his prostate would be healthier!
But masturbation does the same thing. I mean, all we're talking about here is getting erections and ejaculating. It doesn't matter HOW you do it, just as long as you get regular erections and ejaculate from those erections. I cite a recent study in Men's Health. 5,000 men between 20-40 over a 20 year period; those that masturbated at least 5 times a week so less erectile dysfunction and less prostate problems later in life when they were between 50-70. Well, good luck finding a woman to have sex with you 5 times a week ... the only option for most of us guys, if that "5 times a week" is your goal, is to simply use "Rosy Palm and Her 5 Sisters" - a woman and her sisters I have "dated" often over my 50+ years of existence!
Dr Jen very interesting topic. Seems like many try avoid this topic. Must be very private to many. Everyone's body is not the same. I been celibate for over a decade by choice. I have the powerful freedom to choose. I choose to be responsible, self controlled, healthy, trust-worthy with a divine conscience. (Hope this does not sound too deep). I was not always this way throughout my life. I just naturally became disciplined through time. I still have desire and attraction to beautiful women but I do not pursue with aggression. My self control is very strong. Glory to God.
I’m a Christian and against premarital sex. I’m 29 and never had sex before. My sexual health is 100% okay. Once it shrinks, it get back to the normal size when I marry
Yes, I am a Christian too and haven't got married yet, and I have not had sex in a very long long time and my penis is perfectly healthy. We cannot afford to believe the lies on the internet that wants to remove us from our faith God and start to live sexually immoral lives.
At 29 biologically you should be married. Testosterone levels will dip from 30.....let's not use Christianity to camouflage natural life..... you will be tempted... Get married.
I don't believe it. Are you telling us that there is no way possible that you could ever have safe sex? You don't have any desire for human intimacy either? All I can say, this is really crazy. What year is this anyway? When did you become a Catholic Priest? On second thought!
What happens to muscles you don’t use often? There goes your answer. The doctor is mostly correct. Lack of use causes the muscle to not be a strong. If/when you use certain muscles we require blood flow to that/those muscles etc. Of course when needed it will be hard but continual use gets it tougher……….not talking over use but just use. It’s a muscle…….an involuntary one.
Im in my mid 50 and in good shape. Still getting it usually at least once a week. I also find getting with a younger fit women makes it even better and stronger. If you are with the same woman for too long you will lose the drive. To add to that I think ED can be caused by being with the same woman for too long.
My wife lost interest in having sex about 15/20 years ago, and all the things you said have happened, my wife refuses to talk about it, so I suffer in silence. My mental health is suffering to, I have depression and all I want to do all day now is sleep, as it's the closest thing to being dead.
Thank you Dr. Caudle for this informative video presentation on the effect on the penis for not having regular sex. However, I would be very grateful if you would be kind enough to address the effect on physiologic and mental health when you don't have sex (for a Long Time).
That said, I think she should have mentioned that these apparent health benefits (i.e., frequent erections and frequent ejaculations) could just as easily be obtained from masturbation without any of the downsides of sexual intercourse (i.e., STIs/STDs, unwanted pregnancies or the cost of condoms ... or the risk of them breaking). I cite a recent study in Men's Health. 5,000 Australian men between 20-40 over a 20 year period; those that masturbated at least 5 times a week had less erectile dysfunction and less prostate problems later in life when they were between 50-70. Well, good luck finding a woman to have sex with you 5 times a week ... the only option for most of us guys, if that "5 times a week" is your goal, is to simply use "Rosy Palm and Her 5 Sisters". You still get the benefit of an erection and ejaculation without sexual intercourse with another human being. So masturbation isn't just "normal" anymore; it's healthy too!
I’m 51, at 49 I had colon cancer. Had to have colorectal resection surgery. Well after that it’s very very hard to have erection. And after surgery it caused retro grade orgasm as well. The worst feeling in the world is, laying next to my wife every night and it doesn’t work.. it’s horrible
@@SecondChance972 hey, we have talked and she understands.. it’s hard to deal with, it’s a huge part of a marriage.. we been ok with it. I wish it was different.. but I’m alive. We have a great and wonderful marriage, she is my best friend. I appreciate the comment. Thank you
Okay, But all of us just can't go out and find a sex partner. All of us aren't a Chad or Tyrone. Yes it's nice to have sex on a regular basis. But it doesn't come that easy for everyone.
Bro. I am only telling you this because you seem to need it, but most of what she is saying is a lie. Infrequent sex actually leads to more testosterone, have you heard of semen retention? It’s all about diet, mental and spiritual health. Even the show Seinfeld pointed out the benefits when George Constanza took a break from sex, he was super focused. Are there more benefits to sex? Of course. My experience with it is that when anxiety ruled my life that’s what affected me down there, not a sexless life. If anything you improve mentally and spiritually. Don’t believe in the things of this world brother, trust in yourself and God. I came here by accident but of all the messages yours stood out to me because I have been there. It’s not about numbers, it’s about quality. God can help you find the right woman if you trust in Him. My message might sound strange but; Matthew 11:15 Amplified Bible (AMP) - He who has ears to hear, let him hear and heed My words. Don’t focus on being a Chad or Tyrone, be you and find your purpose. The right woman will follow you to the ends of the earth. Genesis 2:18 “The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” If this doesn’t convince ask yourself this, why is it there a pandemic of sexually frustrated men some with ED in their marriage if sex is supposed to prevent that? Bro. Married or unmarried, sex or no sex it’s about the heart. If you’re not in the right place then you won’t be able to find that one special person. So focus on that, don’t let others determine who you are. Don’t seek validation in women, validate yourself and they will come. But above all, if you want true wisdom and greatness seek Christ. Peace brother
If your constantly meeting women you will find some... I hear guys complain about the type of girls who approach them. i seen some of these women they have great body parts but the face aint much to look at. i use to complain about the girls i got too. mostly light skin pretty girls. many had great bodies. but i always wanted variety and darker skin chicks. so i use to complain while other guys be like dude she a is 10 how can you not be happy she wants to talk to you. To me she looks exactly like all the other girls who would approach me. Not bragging but there are girls who like you, but you may not want them because your use to getting girls like that. An they may not even be mid or bad looking. some guys only attract chubby ones, there are some pretty chubby chicks out there too with nice donkadonks. So go for them if thats what likes you.... But you guys forget about these things: Pretty girls dont care about your looks. you dont have to be chad or tyrone to get pretty girls. Chad and Tyrone pulls mostly average and below average and BBWS chicks. But the pretty girls are sapiosexuals in nature. Vibe Chemistry Connection Spark Learn how to make a woman feel any of these things an you will be able to get lucky alot. if you learn how to cultivate all these things you will be getting lucky too much an will turn down way more than you can get. Learn how to communicate effectively, learn how to be logical, clear, articulate and concise. Learn how to state your opinions and views and stick to it, dont flip flop. Learn to be persavaive and charming, Charisma is everything. If your an average dude, who breath dont stank and your body odor is not problem alls you need is an average personality. just be cool and laid back and girls will sleep with you in droves.
Does low testosterone have any negative with everything you are talking about in this video? Does TRT really have a noticeable improvement for ED and s drive? Thank you to you and anybody's reply.
Great job, Dr. Jen. Sad info for so many in my situation. I haven't had sex in 25 years. Being disabled sucks. Unfortunately not many people want relationships with the disabled. Those that are lucky enough to find someone, hit the lottery.
Plenty of people never have sex again 3 months after getting married. Most women are psychopaths in this regard, withholding as a punishment or control. Then men just say.. I'll do it myself don't talk to me again because I'll be somewhere else saving my prostate. But being disabled is much more troublesome.
Very interesting. I had a conversation with a woman who is a little socially awkward and a very anxious person. She told me she hadn't dated in almost a decade. I then asked when was the last time she had sexual relations she said "about thirteen years." Granted her situation is not the same as yours. It is a shame that so many people go without feeling desired
There are so many men (in Western countries) that never had any relationship with a woman, (and no sex of course) and they are not even disabled, they are just average and introverts (or ugly, thus invisible to women) , so they are 30+ and still virgins.
Just like this doctor it seems like a lot of women don’t understand that the vast majority of men aren’t drowning in sex like women are so it would be nice to hear about solutions on maintaining size for the men who just aren’t as sexual active but still would like to keep their actual size or most of it.
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Thank you for caring so much about penises. Truly, most get very little attention from strangers. I've been saying for years that weed, porn and masturbation are healthy in moderation.
Wow! This confirms certain suspicions of mine. In my late 50s and 12th year of celibacy. I have noticed a little shrinkage. On the few occasions that I have an erection early in the morning, I've realized it's weak. I've lately been told (after having a test conducted on me) that the strength of my erection has gone down and my prostate is gradually getting enlarged . If the more one ejaculates, the less risk one faces in terms of prostate issues, what are the options available for one who seem to have lost interest and faith in marriage and/or relationships? I hardly get fazed when I encounter women face to face. I mostly look past them as though I never saw them. However, I admire them greatly when friends send me pictures or videos of relatively young women. How does one look for and establish FWB to safeguard one's health, especially, when you don't want to deal with pros
You can CONSCIOUSLY workout your prostate and make USE of that stored energy while inadvertently increasing testosterone..Mantak Chia has been teaching about this for 50 years... /watch?v=TJdA08msuvY You can send the energy / secretions / fluid UP THE SPINE and have an orgasm within the brain. This is the basis for sooooo many ancient practices it is absurd.. releasing the mind from material/sexual urges and finding states BEYOND this reality.
The studies she is talking about are questionable at best. The issues you are having are common for men your age. Celibate or not. Masturbate when you get the urge to do so and monitor your health in general. As for being in a romantic relationship, that should always be viewed as an option. Not a requirement. Be happy alone first, and then decide if you want to share your life with someone else.
Hey Dr. Jen I haven't seen anyone mention it in my scrolling so far. For those guys who haven't had sex in a long while and probably haven't thought to ask....what do you have to say about them using sex toys like fleshlights to help them keep things in working order in lieu of having sex with someone else in the meantime? Can that help them avoid some of these problems you've outlined?
I'm a 53 year old virgin, and my equipment works just fine. There is very little evidence of any problems arising from it. Some studies suggest frequent ejaculations can reduce prostate cancer risk. But that's extremely debatable. Simple masturbation works well enough for me. There is no need for any special toys.
I'm 73, and not having sex with my wife for 18 years, I don't know if I function anymore. About a year or so ago, she decided she was too old (at 67). Won't discuss it with me. So I'm very frustrated. At this point, I stay away from her as much as I can without being obvious.
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I love how doctors who talk about the benefits of having sex always seem to act like anyone can just have sex whenever they want to. Not always that easy lady. When your in a long-time marriage with a woman who has no interest in sex, or even intimacy, you’re screwed, metaphorically speaking. Are you advocating cheating? Why not talk about how to maintain your prostate and overall health when sex is not an option?
Age and health issues should be the only acceptable reason for a married woman not to have sex and the age I mean maybe she is 60+ and the if the husband is in the same age group i would say the feeling will almost be the same..lost sex interest..
As mentioned Dr. Not having sex for along period of time that certainly causes shrinkage or less erecting. Is there possibility of getting inclined to sidelines as called Peyron Or it might be resilient enough to normalize again? Please advise?
Seriously your asking a woman who just made up crap in this video. Either way how could a female family practitioner possibly answer this. Don't you people have drs. why would anyone ask people questions such as this to someone they don't even know if they're really even drs. Even if they are like her this isn't her specialty so whatever answer she gives you is a guess
Thanks for the info. Unfortunately for a ton of men, they don’t really get sex frequently or at all. So what advice can you give them that’s different from the advice they already gotten? They most likely have already been told to go out their and meet women but are still in that situation.
At least change the oil once or twice a week to keep your prostate healthy and everything running right until you do meet someone. As sue Johansson (talk sex with sue) said “if you don’t use it, you lose it”
Question: I'm a 35 year old man and I have never had sex before, though I get frequent erection multiple times daily. Most of the time I wake up in the morning when I'm very hard. Sometimes it happens to me even at work and I would delay some activities waiting to cool off. So do you think I will still suffer those effects that you explained?
Thank you Dr. Jen for the information. I've been celibate for about 4 years by choice, this is great knowledge to know. Again, thank you for the information.
Not only does this video trivialize people who can't find partners, but masturbation would have very similar benefits. Why was this never mentioned? This came off as more of a shaming discussion.
Excellent video! I just realized I hadn't subscribed to your videos but I am now 😊! You explain a lot of things that I hesitate to talk to my Doctor about but you have convinced me to do so ❤❤❤!!!
I tried to tell my ex wife that lack of sex was bad for both of us! I wound up with prostate cancer and had to have it and my bladder removed! Now I have severe ED
@arthurbiggz6990 I'll cheat & won't feel the slightest bit of guilt because I was aware of these facts years ago. I won't compromise my health to keep a woman happy 🤷🏾
YEP! At some time you have to look after yourself, that's part of being a man. You can't blame her either, women have this weird thing they do where they know the right thing for oyu to do is cheat, but they think you are too "weak" to do it and if you don't she loses even more respect from you for putting up with it. @@angelicsoulz
@@angelicsoulzThat's what I did. Now I'm divorced. Now I'm married again and wifey is holding out. I might have to start cheating so I don't have prostate cancer or Ed.👀
I was diagnosed with inflamed prostate several years ago. My Dr prescribed 2 different pills for me, and they work well. He also said I need to orgasm maybe daily for prostrate health. I asked him to put that in writing ,as My GF would never buy that coming from me. He did haha ! I will never forget the look on her face 😅
Ain't that the truth!!!!!! And I had to have a hysterectomy and of course that throws into early menopause..... I wasn't big on sex from the beginning after being SAed as a child.... But now, I don't want it at all and I'm not even 50.... I've only had one serious boyfriend since my husband passed away unexpectedly from a massive heart attack going on 7 years ago and he wanted sex all the time and I even went to OB and got put on some cream and stuff and I still didn't want to have sex..... I ended the relationship because I absolutely hated being alone with him because I knew he would want to have sex.....
Debunking the lies: lack of sex could lead to penis shrinkage. The first consideration you should have taken was the sensitivity of this topic, for men that are currently sexually addicted or are recovering from the addiction, hence the psychological impact from a non-scientific opinion. This video could be detrimental to many men that are currently struggling with this topic. Without clear scientific evidence, it would generate confusion and it could also have a negative impact on their lives. More studies must be conducted in order to establish a hypothesis with a baseline such as the following. 1. How long are the studies and quantity of individuals? 2. How long were the studies and type of environment? 3. What lifestyles did each one have? 4. How was their metabolism and nutrition? 5. Did they have any habits that could cause neurological issues? 6. Did they have insulin resistance? 7. Did they have any chronic issues, addictions, or history of violence? The list can go on… Why would you post a video with such a lack of evidence? Also, I was a sex addict and recovering and I am here to debunk your nonsense. I am in my fifties with 5% body fat. I eat 6-12 eggs daily, cheese, salmon, liver, hearts, avocados, fermented food and sprouts with garlic, butter, olive oil, animal fat and low carbs. Well, I do not masturbate and my penis gotten bigger, because I learned about nutrition and keto diet by listening to doctors such as Sten Eckberg, Hyman, Fung, Berg…
No thanks! There's nothing like having that peace of mind and tranquility in life. After my divorce from my narcissistic wife, I went 13+ years of celibacy. Actually, I discovered it to empowering. My health was great, and every body part works fine. As a healthy straight man, I never thought I would say that "sex is overrated." Y'all be careful out here.😊
Going into my 11th month without sex now and I must say it feels very empowering, I never thought it was possible but once you get used to it it’s smooth sailing.
2 and 1/2 years no sex and im 52.
Honestly feel pretty good and less trouble in life. Focus on cardio and personal growth. MONK MODE!
@@peacemaker4814 i got y'all beat, im in my mid 40s and ive NEVER had sex, never had it, never will, and that is 95 percent choice(mine) and 5 percent being revenge of the fugly, well, revenge of the fugly has nightmares of me, and i wouldnt change it for ANYTHING, i know what i can expect, what i dont have to worry about:
1: whoever the lady is lying about her age(eek!)
2:no one ringing me up to say "i just called,,,, to say i,,,,, tested POS-IT-IVE"
3:no one knocking on my door saying "im pregnant, its yours!"or "see this kid? you knocked me up!"
4:dont have to worry about the lady cheating on someone who might re-arrange my face(or being cheated on)
5: dont have to worry about someone who, while legal age, isnt responsible enough for sex(and i include the risk of the lady bein gsomeone who might try to blackmale me with something like "do what i say or ill accuse you of rape")
give me a choice between needing a condom or having a good bowl of beans, im makin' some cornbread and grabbing a can opener.
ah, so you're a man with a penis, not a person? (sorry, couldn't resist after listening to her) Obviously it's not just men who have penises... 🙄
I feel you but I met the right one finally after my last 2 narcissistic gfs
I am a male doctor. Much of what is said in this video, is more debatable than scientific. Too much sex can do harm. Nocturnal erections take care of little or no sex. A man’s penis reacts to temperature and weather, contracting or lengthening. A good diet and exercise are far more important to long term penile health than too much sex. Men who ejaculate too much shorten their lives. Semen is a very precious bodily substance containing vitamins and minerals and enzymes. Excess depletes bodily strength and longevity.
Wow, take that lady Doctor!!
So semen retention is true?!
You're right. What this lady is saying is mostly crap, that makes her look like a fake doctor.
You're 💯% very correct.
I like your reply, Sir. 👍
'Men who ejaculate too much shorten their lives.'
I'm sorry, but what the hell did I just read.
'Semen is a very precious bodily substance containing vitamins and minerals and enzymes.'
Don't be ridiculous. It's a tiny amount of fluid, made mostly of water and plasma.
MALE doctor, what, you went to a special school for repressed doctors?
Look after your reproductive organs people, and your prostates if you have them.
I'm 70 years old and don't have a problem.
Your mental and emotional state has to be in the right frequency.
There was an article I read several years ago that the fountain of youth is intimacy.
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A young 70! Go get em Mr. Tiger.
My wifes battling cancer its been like 3 years for me and i dont miss it at all anymore id rather have the love of my life with me.
What a sweet thing to say. We’re praying for her and you ❤️
@@DrJenCaudle Thanks
Praying for your wife. You are a good husband
Your wife must be very happy yo have "you" as her husband in her life,I wish and I pray to god that he granted your wife's life 30years more for you guys to show the world how a husband and wife should love their partner in a married couple lives
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The biggest concern is to have a willing partner. In our society, you out of luck if you are not married and even then so many, too many women use sex as a control mechanism.
For a man to have his sexual needs met is just not that easy.
I’m sorry to hear that
@@DrJenCaudle I didn't realize that was such a shocking revelation. I feel for young men that aren't married. From a moral standpoint, we don't suppose to have sex out of wedlock?????
LOL! If you have a pair of hands you will be alright!
Don't have hands? Never masturbated?
Sex is available to anyone with 80 bucks.
To the point:
1. shrinkage
2. erectile dysfunction
3. blood flow decrease
4. lack of ejaculation
But... you have "peace of mind" when not dealing with a female partner.
Really? That So. Ha ha ha what? Whatever.
Wrong, wrong, wrong and wrong oh and wrong !!!
The biggest pro naturally outweighs the cons
@@Iknowyoumadnow Really? You don't know how to interact with a woman. Pity party for you. HEE HEE Funny Sucks to be you
I can relate to you,cause I have poor circulation in my penis,no,blood no erecetion,,
Am a doctor too,my opinion is only cross the bridge when you reach it,many youths will jump into sex because of unnecessary worries then later on their sexual life is cutoff by deadly STIs, therefore don't just rush take your time, being a virgin has never killed anyone,and then marriage is beyond sex ,peace❤
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Many youths jump into sex because at that age, you get a woodpecker if the bus goes over rail road tracks.
Thank you very much I am like that, and I enjoy it
@@SamPeace-oi8wg I WAS like that. Unfortunately age is catching up with me
why you relate premarital sex with sti??? are you a priest? you sound like one. I had a lot of premarital sex, and never had sti. maybe, there was no sti in my circle of friends, and there is a lot in yours?
Hi Dr. Caudle, I just found your page, and I subscribed after this video. My wife and I retired this past January. We were both shift workers, so we did not have a lot of time together. We are trying to get back into things in our mix 60's. This is very easy, but we are trying. Thank you for posting this video, it is greatly appreciated.
I love your story and so glad you and your wife are enjoying your time after retirement! Yay! And thanks for subbing!
Been divorced 16 years . no girlfriends or other , and you are exactly right . I have lost it all but that's ok . Don't have to impress anyone so i live with it .
Don’t give up- it can come back. Hang in there
@DrJenCaudle I'm a 31year old spring chicken with a nice healthy pickle. 🐔 🐥 🐣 🍆
Dam
@@karenwilliams7685 I do. And I'm proud of it.
@@DrJenCaudle I don’t think hang in there was the right choice of words😅
Hi, doctor. I am 28 here and never had sex. For some reason, I used to *think* it was something to be ashamed about but I was wrong. I talked to people and realized that my choice to wait for the right person to have sex with is mature and I am on the right path and nobody has the right to judge for that. FTH!
Make sure you shave it clean and it has no odor because your first time won't be a good one.
@@jarrellseymour312 Thank you for the advice you have given me by sharing your experience.
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Good man I wished you to marry a virgin girl,
Because you are poured
I had the same experience,as yours after I had miserable life , when a women but not all women preferred man with big pens than a well Respected man us your self
Make sure the girls you marry is a virgin
@@JoJoTheBunny I know right. Damn right *"💀💀💀"*
Lots of really good information here. These conversations should not be uncomfortable.
Is it wrong to crave intimacy and affection?
Is it wired to not crave love and intimacy?
Is it crazy to be completely fed up with people, so being alone is better?
What about the married couple? One needs this, and the other doesn’t.
Good health and happiness is the goal, but sometimes that in itself is tough to achieve, whether it’s being in love or alone.Evaluating where you are and having realistic expectations is something worth visiting.
Thanks so much for your comment. So helpful
It's like not lifting weights, if you don't lift for a period of time, you'll lost size and shrink, everything in life has these principles, you reap what you sow
Yes, even though not a muscle, penis will suffer atrophy from underuse too.
Dont use it, lose it.
I lost my mojo years ago. 😥
@Thenogomogo-zo3un I havnt had sex in 12 months, nor even masterbated over 12 months, you can do through the lord
The main thing in life is health and be happy with yourself. I found out that I may have cancer. Go live, everyone .
Very helpful explanation on an issue which no one gives attention or /not brave to talk about.
Glad you think so! This means a lot to me!
Don't you only wish even a little bit of it were true ? It's a shame it's not
@@DrJenCaudleHe knows not what he says just as you don't.
There are a lot of Vietnam vets who were exposed to Agent Orange (Dioxin) and developed prostate cancer. I am one of them. The prostate was very enlarged and I'm sure the surgeon had to cut through the fine nerves around it. So the result was and is severe ED. Crazy part is that my Libido is very strong. I'm 76 but hope for the younger guys that our medical technology can reverse the ED.
How bless you and thank you for serving our country- we are forever indebted. I hope that more solutions can be found too and that you can also benefit from these treatments 🙏🏾
Hi @@DrJenCaudle
I heard a doctor speak at a seminar years ago. One of the things he mentioned was erectile dysfunction. He said "the bacteria that accumulates in the mouth, due to poor oral hygiene and lack of proper oral healthcare, can lead to erectile dysfunction." I found this very interesting.
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Well bad breath is not exactly an aphrodisiac
@@robinac6897 odors in other places are a deal breaker as well🤢🤮
REALLY , wal--avoiding oral sex seems to be the answer ?
@@MrDaiseymay - whats a 'wal' ?
it is tremendously fulfilling to see a person talking about the opposite sex in such a constructive and objective way.
FINALLY!! Someone is addressing the issue that I've been dealing with since 2009. I'm so glad to have found your video.
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Not bad I been dealing with not having sex for 9 years I know it's was something going on
@@DrJenCaudle plz share your email .. I Wana talk to you very important
Especially in a marriage sex can be good or important but peace and respect between your spouse goes so much further
Married people don’t have sex
Wedding cake reduces a woman's libido
@@sammyg805 Damn it. Don't tell my wife! I tricked her again and again.
I am 70 years old ,I never had sex but I never felt the need for sex, so it just never happened, I see a lot of controversy over it and never thought it was a big deal, I guess everyone is different and I am going to be fine never having sex ,so hopefully a lot of people don't see it as any issue
Yah,
Different! How can someone doesn't feel the need of it...already problematic...Imao
I'm happy for you.
No Shit !!! 😳
Lol
You never had natural body urges for sex..?? not that you should automatically act on them but were you diagnosed as to why your body doesn’t react..??
You're one of the most beautiful doctors I've ever seen ❤️
Wow, thank you!
I didn't get married until I was 51. However, I had a very active sex life especially during college and after graduation when I got my first jobs in Vietnam and Thailand. Never had time for a girlfriend since my company kept me on the move but paud me very well. I figured I probably had more sex than a married man since there were so many Thai and Vietnamese women that made themselves available whenever and where ever. Finally met a Thai women at 51 that changed my lifestyle, she was also in the medical field as a pharmacist. At 60 my son was born only because my wife stopped taking the pill. Today I am 77 and still sexually active with out using the blue pill. Maybe it is because my wike is 24 years younger than me, or it is because I work out at a gym 5 days,a week and still in excellent health. Or it could be that my wife is the best sex partner I have ever had and there were many, many before her.
Wow. Awesome on the wife being the best sex partner you've had. You see if you use it you don't lose it. Strong attraction and a fit body and good sex life equals rock hard erections.
Yep!
No surprise there
I wish more men would pay more attention to their overall health. As the Dr stressed, it’s all about blood flow. Too many young men (below 50) nowadays experiencing ED just coz they don’t lead an healthy lifestyle. Then they try to make women feel like it’s their fault. Women have to go through so much, from menstruation, childbearing to menopause, yet we keep functioning. Men only have ONE job (to be agile and meet women’s sexual needs) yet many failed. Very frustrating for us!🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
No!!!! Men are healthier than they were 20-50 years ago across the board. The knowledge has been disseminated. What is different than years past is many women will NOT be in a feminine role, she will be seeking control or having control, this is the sign of the times. A controlling mean woman is not good for erections!
Many men in our culture with "ED", leave the country, go to another nation where more traditional feminine and masculine roles remain, and magically the "ED" problem no longer exists!!! Listen more to see what is REALLY going on.@@llcoolg52001
Gross!
IMO, as long as you use it regularly, it keeps working way into old age.
I noticed that when I stopped having a partner or self pleasuring, well, I lost my ability to hold it as long as I wished
Thank you for the verification, or assurances of what my mind had told me over 40 years. 1st, I told one of my doctors that if when I had a flu or cold, and ejaculated, the flu or cold left in a day or two. The other things I totally agree from experience. 👍🏼
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@@DrJenCaudleyour talking absolute crap
I haven't had a cold in years .
@@southlondon2051Loooool.
@@DrJenCaudle how does zinc help with sex or the penis ?
Dr. Jen, I agree with you entirely. Edging helped exercise my part several times daily. It helped maintaining size (girth & length) and also extend in bed performance time, now lasting 20-30 min of full engagement. That being said, you might say that's great. However, there's been situations that the women reached climax but I hadn't. Woman can get hurt if the session is too long for her. 😮
Men have a reset time, women do too. She might be ready again in 15-30 minutes. Do whatever until she is ready again.
And what happened to the vagina if you never have sex
Sex has been discovered to be the strongest emotion that human beings can experience physically....
Damn right! Take that all you pinheads out there.
Not surprising. It's the closest you can get to another person physically. Except for gestating in the womb of your mother, then, you dont remember that bit, thank God!
Jackpot, you hit the nail on the head for me. Thank you for your input. I am in the over the hill zone and had a prostectamy a few years ago and thought that I was doomed for the rest of my life as far a having sex ever again. Although mentally and emotionally I look forward to the opportunity once I find the right woman who would understand and who supports and who would work with me. Your inspiration has given me hope that someday my wish will come true. Thank you
I have a question. Why do people still have sex? Sex is very gross, nasty, messy, and disgusting! I don't see how sex is a good thing. Why don't humans just remove sex from this world? Women can still get pregnant without sex (there's a lot of ways women can get pregnant without sex including artificial insemination). Sex does cause a lot of problems, so the world might be a much better place without it.
Thank you for the information. I was in a sexless marriage and I got away from it as there was abuse as well. My first couple chances with new people were awful. She would say she understood and then disappear- after 6 dates and gone. I know more now but I wish women would understand that a man can be crazy attracted to you and have feelings for you and sometimes the body doesn’t cooperate- seriously it had been so long since I even felt a woman’s touch.
Litsen you sad clown with a sad story, here some advice, if you not getting no kitty kat, forget the abusive wife go vasline your hand/palm and get the wacking 😂
You got to move slower the problem is dating today sex on the 1st and 2nd date is very common nowadays and for a lot of guys you get a shy penis it doesn't mean you have ed dysfunction at all because it works fine but just it's shy around new people and it's actually common..
Order some good Viagra and that will force it to work until you get more comfy
Women don’t care they’re vile.
You have to understand that a woodpecker is more mental than physical. You have to find what you’re seeing sexually appealing. Your partner may be all that you ever wanted in a caring sense, but if they’re not sexually appealing, you’ll be softer than cotton.
Get an Escort lol
I can definitely confirm this being a contributor to having a healthy prostate... I've had some issues in the past few years. Injuries, digestive issues, and a few other things I won't mention. With that said. I've noticed that when I would not have sex. I would get blocked up feeling clogged. After seeing my urologist. He stated that my left side of the prostate area was swollen. Causing more issues. Anyhow, after sex only time I felt relief was after ejaculation/ intercourse.
I regret to say the massive amount of pills did nothing but cause more problems. I hate pills or meds in general. So I quit taking all medications. Mainly supplements such vitamin D B12 iron E
Because they were causing a major blockage. Me having Injuries not training or moving as much. Wasn't allowing my liver n kidneys to filter and regulate the body properly. Causing weight gain. Excessive sweating. And many n so much more. Low blood oxygen filtration. I quit taking everything 1 yr ago this month, November. And I feel a tone better.
Times when I don't have sex. I can feel the build-up and clogging on the left side. And when I do. I feel the urine flow stronger and flows smoother. I'm able to perform many tasks as if I were in my 20s again.
After many years of suffering.
So, with all the rambling, I just did. Lol, I can truly attest to this being a solution yo prostate health and potentially preventative of prostate cancer...
#frewil
You would not have those issues if you mastrubated. You don't need to have seggs.
There has never been a documented case of a prostate becoming clogged in any way whatsoever. If one side of your prostate is swollen, a biopsy would have been ordered as fast as humanly possible. It sounds like general prostatitis. You either have an idiot of a urology, or, more likely and what my money's on, you never went to a urologist. You described stuff a urologist would have acted on IMMEDIATELY so they didn't lose their medical license. You lied dude. A LOT.
Sincerely,
A Urologist Physician Assistant, State of Texas Licensed.
Thanks for that information!! Because my friend suffers with kidney disease, swollen prostate and he had not been having sex!! So thank you!!
All jokes aside....my fiances dad has problems as well. Its due because he hasnt had a woman in god knows how long! I mentioned had he been having sex ..his prostate would be healthier!
But masturbation does the same thing. I mean, all we're talking about here is getting erections and ejaculating. It doesn't matter HOW you do it, just as long as you get regular erections and ejaculate from those erections. I cite a recent study in Men's Health. 5,000 men between 20-40 over a 20 year period; those that masturbated at least 5 times a week so less erectile dysfunction and less prostate problems later in life when they were between 50-70. Well, good luck finding a woman to have sex with you 5 times a week ... the only option for most of us guys, if that "5 times a week" is your goal, is to simply use "Rosy Palm and Her 5 Sisters" - a woman and her sisters I have "dated" often over my 50+ years of existence!
Dr Jen very interesting topic. Seems like many try avoid this topic. Must be very private to many. Everyone's body is not the same. I been celibate for over a decade by choice. I have the powerful freedom to choose. I choose to be responsible, self controlled, healthy, trust-worthy with a divine conscience. (Hope this does not sound too deep). I was not always this way throughout my life. I just naturally became disciplined through time. I still have desire and attraction to beautiful women but I do not pursue with aggression. My self control is very strong. Glory to God.
Thank you for sharing this!
Very useful and good to know to have a healthy and long life. Thanks to you for the advice.
Thank you for the info Jen. What I think is that I'll do more research about this, so that I can take care of my health and myself a bit more better.
Wow...that's very interesting. ❤❤❤❤❤❤Thanks for the information as always you're the best, Dr. Jennifer
You are so welcome!
Thank you Dr for all the advices❤❤❤ you are amazing.
Awesome video, thank you.
Thank you
I’m a Christian and against premarital sex. I’m 29 and never had sex before. My sexual health is 100% okay. Once it shrinks, it get back to the normal size when I marry
I was finally looking for this Christian believer comment ❤😊. It will grow perfectly fine after having after getting married good point 😊
Yes, I am a Christian too and haven't got married yet, and I have not had sex in a very long long time and my penis is perfectly healthy. We cannot afford to believe the lies on the internet that wants to remove us from our faith God and start to live sexually immoral lives.
At 29 biologically you should be married. Testosterone levels will dip from 30.....let's not use Christianity to camouflage natural life..... you will be tempted... Get married.
LOL. Nope. ;)
What a dope.
Jesus didn't write one single word of the Bible.
What an illiterate jerk who didn't share one single word of his illustrious wisdom.
No sex equals no diseases, clearer mind and self love. 😊😊😊
[No sex = no diseases, clearer mind & self love]
True
I don't believe it.
Are you telling us that there is no way possible that you could ever have safe sex? You don't have any desire for human intimacy either? All I can say, this is really crazy. What year is this anyway?
When did you become a Catholic Priest? On second thought!
@@DrJenCaudle How about the additional risk of prostate, heart, stroke and mental health issues associated here boy O boy? Sexual health is health.
I just discovered Dr. Jen Cudle. What a great communicator!
Aww thanks! So glad you’re here!
Aren't you regretting it now. After this nonsense
Thank you Doctor Jen for the sharing this vital information. It was indeed inspirational. What is the cure for Erectile Dysfunction?
What happens to muscles you don’t use often? There goes your answer. The doctor is mostly correct. Lack of use causes the muscle to not be a strong. If/when you use certain muscles we require blood flow to that/those muscles etc. Of course when needed it will be hard but continual use gets it tougher……….not talking over use but just use. It’s a muscle…….an involuntary one.
A dick is not a muscle.
Thank you for that information
Dr Jen
Im in my mid 50 and in good shape. Still getting it usually at least once a week. I also find getting with a younger fit women makes it even better and stronger. If you are with the same woman for too long you will lose the drive. To add to that I think ED can be caused by being with the same woman for too long.
Of course. Younger women have a cast iron vagina. Keep you up for hours. As women get older it’s like throwing a hot dog down a hallway
Same hole gets boring
That's only your problem. not everybody's.
100 percent fact!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@rascal211yeah but enough younger women will increase that along with friendly cooperativeness adding to that.
I have been trying to find out about this but I don’t know how to get to the right person. Thank and appreciate your input on this matter.
No problem
I learned a lot in this short video so thank you! I’ll be sharing it with my husband and friends.
Oh yay and thanks!
My wife lost interest in having sex about 15/20 years ago, and all the things you said have happened, my wife refuses to talk about it, so I suffer in silence. My mental health is suffering to, I have depression and all I want to do all day now is sleep, as it's the closest thing to being dead.
Get a good fuck-mate! Part time one! 😊👀
U said this so true continue on your good work
Thank you Dr. Caudle for this informative video presentation on the effect on the penis for not having regular sex. However, I would be very grateful if you would be kind enough to address the effect on physiologic and mental health when you don't have sex (for a Long Time).
Yes good idea!
Don't thank someone who is just flat out lieing
That said, I think she should have mentioned that these apparent health benefits (i.e., frequent erections and frequent ejaculations) could just as easily be obtained from masturbation without any of the downsides of sexual intercourse (i.e., STIs/STDs, unwanted pregnancies or the cost of condoms ... or the risk of them breaking). I cite a recent study in Men's Health. 5,000 Australian men between 20-40 over a 20 year period; those that masturbated at least 5 times a week had less erectile dysfunction and less prostate problems later in life when they were between 50-70. Well, good luck finding a woman to have sex with you 5 times a week ... the only option for most of us guys, if that "5 times a week" is your goal, is to simply use "Rosy Palm and Her 5 Sisters". You still get the benefit of an erection and ejaculation without sexual intercourse with another human being. So masturbation isn't just "normal" anymore; it's healthy too!
I’m 51, at 49 I had colon cancer. Had to have colorectal resection surgery. Well after that it’s very very hard to have erection. And after surgery it caused retro grade orgasm as well. The worst feeling in the world is, laying next to my wife every night and it doesn’t work.. it’s horrible
What is retro grade orgasm?
Go bananas with your tongue.
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Smoke Some Marijuana
@@SecondChance972 hey, we have talked and she understands.. it’s hard to deal with, it’s a huge part of a marriage.. we been ok with it. I wish it was different.. but I’m alive. We have a great and wonderful marriage, she is my best friend. I appreciate the comment. Thank you
Okay, But all of us just can't go out and find a sex partner.
All of us aren't a Chad or Tyrone.
Yes it's nice to have sex on a regular basis. But it doesn't come that easy for everyone.
True. That is true
speak on how men are suffering to get sex.
Bro. I am only telling you this because you seem to need it, but most of what she is saying is a lie. Infrequent sex actually leads to more testosterone, have you heard of semen retention? It’s all about diet, mental and spiritual health. Even the show Seinfeld pointed out the benefits when George Constanza took a break from sex, he was super focused. Are there more benefits to sex? Of course. My experience with it is that when anxiety ruled my life that’s what affected me down there, not a sexless life. If anything you improve mentally and spiritually. Don’t believe in the things of this world brother, trust in yourself and God. I came here by accident but of all the messages yours stood out to me because I have been there. It’s not about numbers, it’s about quality. God can help you find the right woman if you trust in Him. My message might sound strange but; Matthew 11:15 Amplified Bible (AMP) - He who has ears to hear, let him hear and heed My words. Don’t focus on being a Chad or Tyrone, be you and find your purpose. The right woman will follow you to the ends of the earth. Genesis 2:18 “The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” If this doesn’t convince ask yourself this, why is it there a pandemic of sexually frustrated men some with ED in their marriage if sex is supposed to prevent that? Bro. Married or unmarried, sex or no sex it’s about the heart. If you’re not in the right place then you won’t be able to find that one special person. So focus on that, don’t let others determine who you are. Don’t seek validation in women, validate yourself and they will come. But above all, if you want true wisdom and greatness seek Christ. Peace brother
Men will be suffering like that cartoon dog named droopy😂
If your constantly meeting women you will find some...
I hear guys complain about the type of girls who approach them. i seen some of these women they have great body parts but the face aint much to look at.
i use to complain about the girls i got too. mostly light skin pretty girls. many had great bodies. but i always wanted variety and darker skin chicks. so i use to complain while other guys be like dude she a is 10 how can you not be happy she wants to talk to you. To me she looks exactly like all the other girls who would approach me. Not bragging but there are girls who like you, but you may not want them because your use to getting girls like that.
An they may not even be mid or bad looking.
some guys only attract chubby ones, there are some pretty chubby chicks out there too with nice donkadonks. So go for them if thats what likes you....
But you guys forget about these things: Pretty girls dont care about your looks. you dont have to be chad or tyrone to get pretty girls.
Chad and Tyrone pulls mostly average and below average and BBWS chicks.
But the pretty girls are sapiosexuals in nature.
Vibe
Chemistry
Connection
Spark
Learn how to make a woman feel any of these things an you will be able to get lucky alot. if you learn how to cultivate all these things you will be getting lucky too much an will turn down way more than you can get.
Learn how to communicate effectively, learn how to be logical, clear, articulate and concise. Learn how to state your opinions and views and stick to it, dont flip flop.
Learn to be persavaive and charming, Charisma is everything.
If your an average dude, who breath dont stank and your body odor is not problem alls you need is an average personality.
just be cool and laid back and girls will sleep with you in droves.
Does low testosterone have any negative with everything you are talking about in this video? Does TRT really have a noticeable improvement for ED and s drive? Thank you to you and anybody's reply.
Great job, Dr. Jen. Sad info for so many in my situation. I haven't had sex in 25 years. Being disabled sucks. Unfortunately not many people want relationships with the disabled. Those that are lucky enough to find someone, hit the lottery.
I’m so so sorry to hear what you’re going through but I do want you to have and hold hope. You’re amazing- promise!
Plenty of people never have sex again 3 months after getting married. Most women are psychopaths in this regard, withholding as a punishment or control. Then men just say.. I'll do it myself don't talk to me again because I'll be somewhere else saving my prostate. But being disabled is much more troublesome.
Very interesting. I had a conversation with a woman who is a little socially awkward and a very anxious person. She told me she hadn't dated in almost a decade. I then asked when was the last time she had sexual relations she said "about thirteen years." Granted her situation is not the same as yours. It is a shame that so many people go without feeling desired
There are so many men (in Western countries) that never had any relationship with a woman, (and no sex of course) and they are not even disabled, they are just average and introverts (or ugly, thus invisible to women) , so they are 30+ and still virgins.
Can you at least beat your meat?
Thank you Dr Jen for always providing important health education.
Aww thanks
What you always thank people who have absolutely no idea what they're saying . And j6st make crap up. She's the biggest bullcrapoef ever
Thank you Dr.Jen for such important information, as always, you are spot on, thank you very much !!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽👸🏽👸🏽👸🏽🌹🌹🌹❤️🔥
Glad it was helpful!
It shrinks pure and simple!!
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It is very true, and I can personally attest to that.
Just like this doctor it seems like a lot of women don’t understand that the vast majority of men aren’t drowning in sex like women are so it would be nice to hear about solutions on maintaining size for the men who just aren’t as sexual active but still would like to keep their actual size or most of it.
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Thanks Dr Jen for the knowledge and discussions about this important organ.👍🏼
My pleasure!
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Practical info. So what is the healthy frequency? Is it once a week or once in a month?
A useful video on an important topic. In case you want some feedback, just relax, slow down, and breathe. You're doing well.
Thanks for the tips!
The problem with modern society is that men are actually shamed more often than not for having erections, and even mocked quite often.
We need to show our erections proudly. We need to let the world see them.
Eat less sugar, more vegan diet, and exercise, circulate the blood.
"Shamers" are the ones you shouldn't listen to and certainly don't share any information.
Men and women are on unequal ground. Women can always fake it. Men have to get it up and KEEP it up
"To people who have penis's" ... a phrase one never would have heard just a few years ago
It should simply say, to all MEN. Only men have Penis.
and it's still as ridiculous as it seemed the first time it was said
@@onesong2001 yes .. perhaps even more so.
well, men are now cutting it off; hence!
@@caribbeangtr8077 that is a fair point
Use it or lose it. Very useful info.
After my wife became disabled she was told that she should never have sex again cause it could kill her. So I've been with out sex for 8 years
That’s a totally different and unique situation. As a man and a husband, you have to make that sacrifice for her.
@@grazz7865 I did do that
I'm very curious what condition causes her to die if she has sex?
@@KlutzyBoss she had really small blood vessels in her brain that could cause her to die from the excited and the blood flow through her body
@@KlutzyBoss only thing I can think of is an STD
That was really helpful and educative,trust me you've said it all ✌🏼
Glad it was helpful!
@@DrJenCaudle does masturbation count
👌🏾👍🏾👍🏾Good to know.😊Thanks Dr. Jen for that information.
You are so welcome!
Thank you for informing me very interesting.
Any time!
Thank you for caring so much about penises. Truly, most get very little attention from strangers. I've been saying for years that weed, porn and masturbation are healthy in moderation.
Ah ok thank you for sharing
Thank you for confirming that sex should be a right for men with all these things you just said
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@@DrJenCaudleare you seriously not challenging that male entitlement?
Wow!
This confirms certain suspicions of mine. In my late 50s and 12th year of celibacy. I have noticed a little shrinkage. On the few occasions that I have an erection early in the morning, I've realized it's weak. I've lately been told (after having a test conducted on me) that the strength of my erection has gone down and my prostate is gradually getting enlarged .
If the more one ejaculates, the less risk one faces in terms of prostate issues, what are the options available for one who seem to have lost interest and faith in marriage and/or relationships?
I hardly get fazed when I encounter women face to face. I mostly look past them as though I never saw them. However, I admire them greatly when friends send me pictures or videos of relatively young women.
How does one look for and establish FWB to safeguard one's health, especially, when you don't want to deal with pros
Stay celibate bro it's not worth being in a relationship just focus on yourself
You can CONSCIOUSLY workout your prostate and make USE of that stored energy while inadvertently increasing testosterone..Mantak Chia has been teaching about this for 50 years... /watch?v=TJdA08msuvY You can send the energy / secretions / fluid UP THE SPINE and have an orgasm within the brain. This is the basis for sooooo many ancient practices it is absurd.. releasing the mind from material/sexual urges and finding states BEYOND this reality.
The studies she is talking about are questionable at best. The issues you are having are common for men your age. Celibate or not. Masturbate when you get the urge to do so and monitor your health in general. As for being in a romantic relationship, that should always be viewed as an option. Not a requirement. Be happy alone first, and then decide if you want to share your life with someone else.
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Well, masturbating is a no no for me.
WOW - NICE - THANK YOU DR. JEN CAUDLE AND HAPPY 2024.
Same to you!
Very,very informative and useful video indeed. Thanks a lot doctor.
So nice of you
Hey Dr. Jen I haven't seen anyone mention it in my scrolling so far. For those guys who haven't had sex in a long while and probably haven't thought to ask....what do you have to say about them using sex toys like fleshlights to help them keep things in working order in lieu of having sex with someone else in the meantime? Can that help them avoid some of these problems you've outlined?
Masturbation IS sex! Just rub it out! Your body cannot TELL the difference!
She won't answer cuz it doesn't benefit women and denies their potential "bailout" when you mess up and impregnate them.
@@ludwig7974 LOL!
@@ludwig7974 damn who hurt you? WTF?
I'm a 53 year old virgin, and my equipment works just fine. There is very little evidence of any problems arising from it. Some studies suggest frequent ejaculations can reduce prostate cancer risk. But that's extremely debatable. Simple masturbation works well enough for me. There is no need for any special toys.
Great Topic Doctor thank you 😊 . Thank God I'm still fully functional ,At the age 62.
Wonderful!
@@DrJenCaudle of course Doctor
I'm 73, and not having sex with my wife for 18 years, I don't know if I function anymore. About a year or so ago, she decided she was too old (at 67). Won't discuss it with me. So I'm very frustrated. At this point, I stay away from her as much as I can without being obvious.
@@DrJenCaudle Thank you Queen 👑 im grateful and humble.
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Well ,Dr. How many times do you have intimacy for the whole week?
Watch this for the answer: HOW MUCH SEX IS NORMAL? How MUCH SEX SHOULD YOU HAVE & How MUCH IS TOO MUCH? A Doctor Explains
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This channel is dumb. This lady talks out her ass 😂
Definitely helps - ! I have lots of male friends so this is so important! .
Glad it’s helpful!
Take them out that friend zone.
men in women can’t be friends.
I love how doctors who talk about the benefits of having sex always seem to act like anyone can just have sex whenever they want to. Not always that easy lady. When your in a long-time marriage with a woman who has no interest in sex, or even intimacy, you’re screwed, metaphorically speaking. Are you advocating cheating? Why not talk about how to maintain your prostate and overall health when sex is not an option?
Age and health issues should be the only acceptable reason for a married woman not to have sex and the age I mean maybe she is 60+ and the if the husband is in the same age group i would say the feeling will almost be the same..lost sex interest..
I didn’t say it was easy I just said it was helpful for some things
Get a side chick
As mentioned Dr. Not having sex for along period of time that certainly causes shrinkage or less erecting. Is there possibility of getting inclined to sidelines as called Peyron Or it might be resilient enough to normalize again? Please advise?
Thank you for your sound medical education.
Thanks
Thanks for the info 🙏🏿 what your opinion on semen retention?
Seriously your asking a woman who just made up crap in this video. Either way how could a female family practitioner possibly answer this. Don't you people have drs. why would anyone ask people questions such as this to someone they don't even know if they're really even drs. Even if they are like her this isn't her specialty so whatever answer she gives you is a guess
Thanks for the info. Unfortunately for a ton of men, they don’t really get sex frequently or at all. So what advice can you give them that’s different from the advice they already gotten? They most likely have already been told to go out their and meet women but are still in that situation.
At least change the oil once or twice a week to keep your prostate healthy and everything running right until you do meet someone. As sue Johansson (talk sex with sue) said “if you don’t use it, you lose it”
Pomegranate and cayenne pepper
Masturbate
My situation is eve worse because I'm in gulf countries where to even meet a lady it's a miracle two years contract 😁😁
@@paulkiriru8598 that’s where the right hand comes in handy and you occasionally cheat with the left hand
Question:
I'm a 35 year old man and I have never had sex before, though I get frequent erection multiple times daily. Most of the time I wake up in the morning when I'm very hard. Sometimes it happens to me even at work and I would delay some activities waiting to cool off. So do you think I will still suffer those effects that you explained?
Not necessarily but everyone is a little different
you talking pure shit.@@DrJenCaudle
Your kidding, right?😅 . Find an ugly girl
Does masterbaction help
@@floydambersley2035 - Sure !! "Masterbaction" helps ... especially when spelled correctly !!
Very interesting information, I love the way you cover such a variety of topics! And you are absolutely Beautiful ❤❤❤!!!😊
Thank you so much!
@@DrJenCaudle 😇😇😇!!!
Maybe she covers to much and is mixing up her notes. Because this must be for some other problem. Because this video is nit true whatsoever
Thank you and God bless you for sharing. 🙏❤
You are so welcome
Thank you Dr. Jen for the information. I've been celibate for about 4 years by choice, this is great knowledge to know. Again, thank you for the information.
You are so welcome!
Mrs. Palmer still visits tho doesn't she?
Thank you doc❤for healthful info❤
You’re welcome!
To be married to a woman who thinks like this…is a dream 😭. Your husband must be a blessed man!
Not only does this video trivialize people who can't find partners, but masturbation would have very similar benefits. Why was this never mentioned? This came off as more of a shaming discussion.
Masturbation is different from sex. Its phycological effect on the body soul and spirit is not dsame as sex
@@tboy5443 The video was about what happens to one's penis, not their body and soul.
Good information and informative, thank you 😊
Glad it was helpful!
Excellent video! I just realized I hadn't subscribed to your videos but I am now 😊! You explain a lot of things that I hesitate to talk to my Doctor about but you have convinced me to do so ❤❤❤!!!
Wow thank you so so much! This means a lot to me!
@@DrJenCaudle 😊💖💖!
Woman Dr Jen is so informational
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I love this information thank you so much for this. I definitely took notes.
Glad it was helpful!
I like her high level of Enthusiasm.
Thanks
I tried to tell my ex wife that lack of sex was bad for both of us! I wound up with prostate cancer and had to have it and my bladder removed! Now I have severe ED
Should've cheated bruh.
@@angelicsoulz🤣🤣 Exaaaaactly! A very valid point....!!! playing saint doesnt help for real
@arthurbiggz6990
I'll cheat & won't feel the slightest bit of guilt because I was aware of these facts years ago. I won't compromise my health to keep a woman happy 🤷🏾
YEP! At some time you have to look after yourself, that's part of being a man. You can't blame her either, women have this weird thing they do where they know the right thing for oyu to do is cheat, but they think you are too "weak" to do it and if you don't she loses even more respect from you for putting up with it. @@angelicsoulz
@@angelicsoulzThat's what I did. Now I'm divorced. Now I'm married again and wifey is holding out. I might have to start cheating so I don't have prostate cancer or Ed.👀
I was diagnosed with inflamed prostate several years ago. My Dr prescribed 2 different pills for me, and they work well. He also said I need to orgasm maybe daily for prostrate health. I asked him to put that in writing ,as My GF would never buy that coming from me. He did haha ! I will never forget the look on her face 😅
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Thanks Dr Jen i am just looking back at your videos.
THANK YOU!
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Wow, thank you
When I sees You're Beautiful Smile joy comes with inside of me Thank You so much 💕💕💕
@@DrJenCaudle You're Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️ and so sweet I Love You
I Love You this the only way I sees this All Good
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if you don't use it you lose it!!!! Thank you for bringing some light to this issue. Much appreciated, love your channel.
My pleasure!
Man, Jesus loves you ❤️ 🙏
It’s so annoying because menopause is such a set back. It’s hard to even get into it.
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Ain't that the truth!!!!!! And I had to have a hysterectomy and of course that throws into early menopause..... I wasn't big on sex from the beginning after being SAed as a child.... But now, I don't want it at all and I'm not even 50.... I've only had one serious boyfriend since my husband passed away unexpectedly from a massive heart attack going on 7 years ago and he wanted sex all the time and I even went to OB and got put on some cream and stuff and I still didn't want to have sex..... I ended the relationship because I absolutely hated being alone with him because I knew he would want to have sex.....
@@rhondatucker4217Are you serious about what you just said?
Menopause is affecting your 🍆???
@@rhondatucker4217Oh my gosh I understand everything you said and can totally relate.
Debunking the lies: lack of sex could lead to penis shrinkage.
The first consideration you should have taken was the sensitivity of this topic, for men that are currently sexually addicted or are recovering from the addiction, hence the psychological impact from a non-scientific opinion.
This video could be detrimental to many men that are currently struggling with this topic. Without clear scientific evidence, it would generate confusion and it could also have a negative impact on their lives.
More studies must be conducted in order to establish a hypothesis with a baseline such as the following.
1. How long are the studies and quantity of individuals?
2. How long were the studies and type of environment?
3. What lifestyles did each one have?
4. How was their metabolism and nutrition?
5. Did they have any habits that could cause neurological issues?
6. Did they have insulin resistance?
7. Did they have any chronic issues, addictions, or history of violence?
The list can go on…
Why would you post a video with such a lack of evidence?
Also, I was a sex addict and recovering and I am here to debunk your nonsense.
I am in my fifties with 5% body fat. I eat 6-12 eggs daily, cheese, salmon, liver, hearts, avocados, fermented food and sprouts with garlic, butter, olive oil, animal fat and low carbs.
Well, I do not masturbate and my penis gotten bigger, because I learned about nutrition and keto diet by listening to doctors such as Sten Eckberg, Hyman, Fung, Berg…
What happens when a man goes on a long semen retention streak? For example if a person has been retaining for a month.
That’s a good question. The longest I can go is a week and if I do that, it’s three strokes and done
All very informative thank you 😊
Glad it was helpful!
If I loose 2 centimetres, there is nothing left 😂😂😂
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Dear Dr Jen, I am also a family physician doctor. I want to have some discussion about this topic. Let me know that if you feel ok for that.