The Psychology of Career Decisions | Sharon Belden Castonguay | TEDxWesleyanU

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  • Опубліковано 6 тра 2018
  • Did you choose your career, or did someone else do it for you? Adult developmental psychologist and career counselor Sharon Belden Castonguay unpacks how personal identities intersect with cultural influences to unconsciously affect our choice of work-and how self-awareness will be the key to success in the Fourth Industrial Revolution. Sharon Belden Castonguay, EdD, is an adult developmental psychologist and career counselor with twenty years of experience working with professionals at all levels of their careers. She is the Director of Wesleyan University's Gordon Career Center and the host of two podcasts, Careers by Design: The Interviews and First Year Out. Prior to joining Wesleyan's team she was the Director of the Graduate Career Management Center at Baruch College's Zicklin School of Business. She has also served as a career counselor at Harvard University and at Boston University's Questrom School of Business. Through her career consulting practice she has worked with many other top universities, and has been an invited speaker at Columbia, Dartmouth, Harvard Medical School, The New York Academy of Sciences, and Princeton, among others. She received her doctorate in human development from Harvard. She also holds an MA in Education from the University of Michigan and a BA in Government from Smith College. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

КОМЕНТАРІ • 284

  • @fatemehmosafa4413
    @fatemehmosafa4413 Рік тому +1282

    Things that stand out in her speech for me was : "our problem is we don't know who we are before deciding who we wanna be"

    • @belle3055
      @belle3055 Рік тому +37

      Trying to know who I’m has taken me years and I still don’t know sht. I’m not going to wait for that miracle anymore. I’m just going to do whatever I have to.

    • @MaruskaStarshaya
      @MaruskaStarshaya Рік тому +3

      ​@@belle3055I feel sorry for that, maybe it was not a lot of opportunities for you to try everything you'd like to, because people usually tend to be attracted to some amount of thing at least

    • @KaylaCassidy
      @KaylaCassidy Рік тому +4

      this and when she said "this has always been a messy process, embrace it"

    • @shanmugapriyamohan6481
      @shanmugapriyamohan6481 Рік тому

      @@belle3055 Rightly said!

    • @cashmerecaveman
      @cashmerecaveman 11 місяців тому

      Powerful.

  • @Myra159753
    @Myra159753 4 роки тому +1386

    What I got from this is that I should take a chance and pursue what I want to do for my life even if it might possibly be a bust. If i succeed, I'm happy with my career and If all else fails at least I know I tried and can move onto the next thing with no regrets.

    • @skyhart615
      @skyhart615 3 роки тому +9

      Go for it ! Best luck 👍

    • @juleeanng
      @juleeanng 3 роки тому +9

      Thank you. I'm trying to reason myself out or in.

    • @douglasabdullah8162
      @douglasabdullah8162 2 роки тому +2

      You all prolly dont care at all but does someone know a tool to log back into an Instagram account..?
      I somehow forgot my password. I would love any tips you can offer me.

    • @lman5637
      @lman5637 2 роки тому +2

      @@douglasabdullah8162 well I've heard that you can use the help function and hey will contact you to assist further but proof of your identity will be rigorous

    • @poornachanderreddy
      @poornachanderreddy 2 роки тому

      👍🏻👍🏻

  • @californiacoast7021
    @californiacoast7021 11 місяців тому +86

    Our problem is that the cost of living takes priority over the cost of pursuing our "passions" in life.

  • @cindyhalpern3187
    @cindyhalpern3187 Рік тому +60

    I was a career counselor and a social worker, a teacher's assistant, and now a writer.
    I never made a lot of money, and I never will. But at least I like what I do.

  • @lailaalfaddil7389
    @lailaalfaddil7389 Рік тому +422

    Thanks for this amazing information !! If you don't find a means of multiplying money, you will wake up one day to realize that the money you thought you had, has finished. Investment is key, I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life

    • @susannnico
      @susannnico Рік тому

      Very true, I started investing before the pandemic and that same year I pulled a profit of about $750k with no prior investing experience, basically all I was doing was seeking guidance from *ROCHELLE DUNGCA-SCHREIBER* who's a guru in the game, you can be passively involved with the aid of a professional.

    • @sairanikhatimam
      @sairanikhatimam Рік тому

      Such a beautiful message. Laila. Stay blessed

  • @studycess3132
    @studycess3132 3 роки тому +111

    if you're reading this, get that college course you love to prevent regrets in the future. Do not listen to others, they don't know who you really are and they will not spare any seconds, too, to know you. SO, GET THAT COURSE.

    • @juleeanng
      @juleeanng 3 роки тому +9

      Omygosh I feel like you're talking to me out of hundreds of people in the room.

    • @abdeldjouadi
      @abdeldjouadi 2 роки тому +7

      what if i dont love anything at all ،even though iam considered an great student .

    • @josephinepapin8858
      @josephinepapin8858 2 роки тому +2

      I did! I took the minor I wanted to study because well it’s just a damn minor and also I love it!

    • @danyliv2028
      @danyliv2028 2 роки тому +4

      @@josephinepapin8858 wait I want to do the same! I'm a chemistry major and want to take a minor in criminology just because I love that topic (but I don't want a career in it). People around me say that I'm wasting my time I should take a minor in biology/biochemistry/deep chemistry instead😭

    • @kolo_5705
      @kolo_5705 2 роки тому +2

      who are you to say that lmao?

  • @dimariobell8499
    @dimariobell8499 3 роки тому +179

    My gosh... I took away from it that align career with who you are, not blindly chasing the one thing you're passionate about, but 1. understanding who you are and what works for how you're wired is important and 2. Understanding that who one is isn't just a singluar thing/identity and that finding one's career is a journey for some

  • @InspiredByTor
    @InspiredByTor 5 років тому +456

    I love that she focused on self-awareness because this is an area that I think a lot of people forget about in regard to influences on career decisions, ESPECIALLY with the college population!

    • @flyingknee23
      @flyingknee23 2 роки тому +3

      I mean this wouldn’t be an issue if everybody didn’t distract themselves on their off time lol

    • @chrisandrews7215
      @chrisandrews7215 2 роки тому +2

      Absolutely agree. To me, awareness in both self and our surroundings, including the people in them, is the key to really taking ownership of your own life and the direction it takes.

  • @qisiangng1611
    @qisiangng1611 Рік тому +87

    I have a big issue with this notion of career identity. What happens if our career identity is one that is a dead end? What if society and the market do not value the talent and uniqueness we bring? In a perfect world, what she says is correct. But the disturbing truth is that many of us will not have the opportunity to live out our identity. You can be anything you want to be, as long as it is banker, tech entrepreneur, or programmer. The rest of us may just have to make do…

    • @naseem7927
      @naseem7927 10 місяців тому +12

      An excellent question, that unfortunately has an obvious negative solution. The current world we live in is competitive and ever changing, like fashion trends. So the best solution is to have multiple skills that can be useful in landing a job and helps one be the best in whatever field they are in.

    • @timothyufr
      @timothyufr 8 місяців тому +7

      I think if there's a passion that you've discovered through understanding yourself, you just to try to make it happen. Just try and see what happens. If you fail, congrats, you tried very hard to achieve something that is very important to you, look at the man/women you've become, look at the journey you went through and the challenges that you've faced but thought at first that are too hard for you but you still overcame them. That's it really.

  • @skyjeanne7232
    @skyjeanne7232 3 роки тому +251

    Everything needs time, even recognizing ourselves. Most people don't have that patience. But we can't blame them either for maybe they have loans to pay and don't even think that their passion is important and those time we reflect on ourselves won't pay any of our paychecks. But to those who have the priviledge to know their passion, and can follow it, I hope they have patience to endure anything that happen because I always remember this phrase "with a great power comes great responsibility", so it will never be easy. Thx for this talks Sharon.

  • @DigitalDiego
    @DigitalDiego 2 роки тому +78

    It's never too late! I just graduated med school and decided to follow my passion instead, and I'm the happiest I've ever been in life. :D

    • @hritwik4655
      @hritwik4655 2 роки тому +2

      What is your passion?

    • @DigitalDiego
      @DigitalDiego 2 роки тому +17

      @@hritwik4655 Music.

    • @ngxoxo
      @ngxoxo 2 роки тому +2

      @@DigitalDiego similar story to me but with law school...what do you do in music? so lovely to see other people changing too

    • @DigitalDiego
      @DigitalDiego 2 роки тому +7

      @@ngxoxo Nice! And I make music to inspire and encourage people to follow their dreams/God. What about yourself?

    • @waronamogobye436
      @waronamogobye436 2 роки тому +5

      Man my parents would kill me😭
      This must be very important to u...where can I listen to ur music?

  • @MaruskaStarshaya
    @MaruskaStarshaya Рік тому +38

    Professional orientation should be a subject at school as mathematics and chemistry are. We should start our journey of looking what we like and want do all our life as early as possible.

  • @time4chai995
    @time4chai995 4 роки тому +61

    This is well-informed and sheds light on how impactful it is to become aware of the systems in which we live and have learned to identify ourselves within! Identity absolutely matters, and this is because of the way our society works today and the system of values and hierarchies that are so deeply ingrained. To learn about the world is to learn how we've ended up exactly where we are..

  • @bipclaire
    @bipclaire 3 роки тому +29

    Thanks for sharing. So much of our career is affected by conscious and unconscious factors. However, we also can allow ourselves to creating our own career identity.

  • @nomaalkali4009
    @nomaalkali4009 2 роки тому +23

    Deciding what manner of person we wish to be is truly a daily self discovery journey... I think we all need to embark on.. Thank you so much for this insightful presentation 🤗

  • @gumliromin1761
    @gumliromin1761 2 роки тому +8

    A wonderful presentation and you beautifully explained it! You gave me a different perspective to my understanding to the vision to Career and the truth. Highly appreciated!

  • @whyttitude1073
    @whyttitude1073 3 роки тому +55

    Passion is overrated. We should focus on internal liking and disliking. Allowing yourself to make mistakes.

  • @poojamankhedkar6776
    @poojamankhedkar6776 2 роки тому +73

    Great talk! Self awareness is important to make better career choices. It is who you want to be that should guide your decision

  • @aryamodanwal5666
    @aryamodanwal5666 Рік тому

    This is the first time i watched a ted talk video without using much subtitles but also had to go back again and again to get the meaning clearly but i am happy to see me understanding the foreign accent... 🎉🎉

  • @ronchambers7972
    @ronchambers7972 2 роки тому +8

    I have been blessed to have had long lasting jobs that I loved. Now that I have relocated I need to find a new career in my new chapter of life. This video encouraged me to seek that next enjoyable and fulfilling job/career and not settle for anything else.

  • @shriyasahu663
    @shriyasahu663 3 роки тому +6

    Great advice
    Learned a lot
    Thanks for your wonderful talk

  • @stealthdoglabs523
    @stealthdoglabs523 8 місяців тому +3

    Spot on. My research suggests not only career choices but studies in school are decided by subconscious. Your presentation is excellent

  • @AS-kf1ol
    @AS-kf1ol Рік тому +17

    Maybe be this just me but, making money makes me happy. There's a wide range of things I can be happy enough doing if I get paid enough.

    • @create306
      @create306 Рік тому +4

      Nothing wrong with that! Go for it! In the end, we have to look deep inside ourselves to see what we really want and most importantly who you want to become

  • @jellybean5626
    @jellybean5626 4 роки тому +54

    Her ted talk requires a lot of internalization, and that's the beauty of it.

  • @Dilwarda
    @Dilwarda Рік тому +17

    We must be aware of the different options available and try each of what we think suits us one by one. We should not held biases which are influenced by family, friends, society, culture, relegion etc.

    • @create306
      @create306 8 місяців тому +1

      Only way we can find out is by taking action. Well said.

  • @alagirilaw
    @alagirilaw Рік тому +5

    Very interesting. Changing career paths can be challenging, however, it may be worth the challenge in the end if you find your new career more fulfilling.

  • @maxhodgeson6853
    @maxhodgeson6853 2 роки тому +40

    What an amazing talk! I found listening to inspiring people very helpful when looking to make important decisions in my life. I also find that free guides on UA-cam were helpful as well as a course I found online called the Career Enhancement Network. It was quite cheap and I had access to many webinars and guides that helped me as well. I always like to keep my options open when looking for career advice and there is no such things as too much information! I hope everyone finds what they are looking for in life!

    • @paulovemx2222
      @paulovemx2222 11 місяців тому

      I'm curious, did you find a career path that you're currently heading towards?

  • @johnshorba
    @johnshorba 2 роки тому +64

    Its a very ironic time we live in. We want nice things, we want a well functioning society we want order, but then it’s hard for us to accept it. Some of the most boring jobs are vital to a good society. I agree with people, I myself struggle with the same thing, I hate boring jobs. So it’s a struggle and battle. If we all went and made a lot of money or everyone chased their dream it would be hard on a well functioning society. But at the same time the we all want freedom and creativity. Paradoxical time period we live in. Also, as we further our economy and technology things are becoming easier to consume on a large basis, not to long ago a small house with a few basic items we’re a blessing, now having so many nice things are normal. Again I am on both sides, I love technology and traveling and living a fun life, but at the same time it makes it harder to enjoy a simple life

    • @damanredarnishu5509
      @damanredarnishu5509 2 роки тому +7

      But there are no boring jobs, hard yeah but not boring. Careers that you think are boring are prolly someones else's dream jobs. For me being a teacher or a lawyer or a nurse is very boring but I know a lot of people that love these things.

    • @nowrin_8193
      @nowrin_8193 2 роки тому +3

      @@damanredarnishu5509 like me , I think teaching is one of the greatest jobs .

    • @frog6054
      @frog6054 Рік тому +1

      What is this boring jobs you're talking about?

    • @johnshorba
      @johnshorba Рік тому +3

      @@frog6054 Like to some people, assembly line, office work, ect. some people like that, most people don't

    • @krox477
      @krox477 6 місяців тому

      Technology is increasingly automating everything

  • @PinkYellowGreen2023
    @PinkYellowGreen2023 10 місяців тому +5

    Any decision you make in regards to your career is personal. The way you make money is serious business. Hope everyone watching this video is doing something they love for a living.

    • @MiyobaMiyanda
      @MiyobaMiyanda Місяць тому

      Not realy working but am in school am in grade 12 at arakan girls and my name is Astridah and am trying to research on how to choose a career, please help me because many people discourage me about my career I want which Aviation to be specific a pilot.

  • @MrsBrown-fw7zr
    @MrsBrown-fw7zr 3 роки тому +2

    Inspiring...thank you

  • @freeyolow0-086
    @freeyolow0-086 4 роки тому +132

    Passion is an emotion. It changes, stop saying passion will fulfill you blablabla

    • @skyhart615
      @skyhart615 3 роки тому +6

      I can't agree more !!!

    • @MrsBrown-fw7zr
      @MrsBrown-fw7zr 3 роки тому +8

      So...change with it 😎🔥😱

    • @youtubingbabs
      @youtubingbabs 3 роки тому +9

      It's also a noun. A thing you find energizing. A topic/activity/skill you focus on easily and naturally. The word implies a long term and built-in relationship with whatever it is. So I get what you mean... But.. Yeah... You're saying dig deeper to things that transcends that beginner's high you get when you decide to learn, say watercolors. Now you're in art school and hate painting but can't admit it to yourself. Lol.

    • @hasnaab5294
      @hasnaab5294 3 роки тому +4

      Disagree!
      Passion is the HOW you do things

    • @samikun9328
      @samikun9328 2 роки тому +3

      fulfilment is also an emotion lol

  • @janebeatriz261
    @janebeatriz261 Рік тому +5

    Excelente orientação!

  • @targetone274
    @targetone274 2 роки тому +14

    "Believe you can and you’re halfway there.”
    -Theodore Roosevelt

  • @msc4en9qu7m
    @msc4en9qu7m 24 дні тому

    ambitions to help others maybe is the best therapy but if this is a low point to be discriminate causes sometimes dispoints in ours movement so you are the inspiration to come on to learn from the first from the start good bless you in every area

  • @c.t.a.
    @c.t.a. 2 роки тому +6

    Love the message and she is a good speaker. I have spent a lot of time working on people's careers and identity is very important.

  • @bioyogurt23
    @bioyogurt23 Рік тому

    Thank you, so informative

  • @AmaSharapova
    @AmaSharapova 4 роки тому +20

    This is a great talk. Thank you Sharon so much. I am currently really struggling with a decision to take the job or not and I just don't know what's the right answer.

    • @shruyn3401
      @shruyn3401 2 роки тому +3

      Hi Natasha🌺 If you did, how did you decide? What helped you?

  • @fido9745
    @fido9745 10 місяців тому

    Watching that gave me a flash questioning why I see myself the way I see myself and as I lift from the still image that i see myself as, who is it that I could become? This was good.

  • @shriyasahu663
    @shriyasahu663 3 роки тому +2

    Sharon you are a great speaker

  • @joecho1427
    @joecho1427 13 днів тому

    Thanks for your advice.😊

  • @shadeekamendez1743
    @shadeekamendez1743 Рік тому +7

    Own your story and don't let others write it for you

  • @karenbressler6187
    @karenbressler6187 4 роки тому +15

    This talk was my life raft in a sea of indecision of which one of two jobs that I am applying to now, that show interest in hiring me possibly.

    • @carissatan4587
      @carissatan4587 4 роки тому +2

      Which did you choose in the end? I'm in a similar situation now myself hahah

    • @janhvi002
      @janhvi002 Рік тому

      Me too

  • @223raulh
    @223raulh 3 роки тому +3

    This has been a very nice Ted Talk, in my opinion.

  • @TassiaNathalia
    @TassiaNathalia 4 роки тому +2

    Gosto muito de explorar essa área da Psicologia, e essa palestra me lembra as aulas da minha professora Cintia Benso :)

  • @JMKudos
    @JMKudos 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you very much for this inspirational talk, graduated last year and landed on a job , but last month I chose to quit for the well known “lack of passion/not for me” reason, the job wasn’t directly related to my major and for what I know, most of my friends went to phds , which is the popular option…… I should be booking appointments for career / mental health consultations … Sometimes It’s just really hard to figure things out myself , no matter how rational you think you are… often you’re not.

    • @SuperGreatSphinx
      @SuperGreatSphinx Місяць тому +1

      Have you ever considered becoming a friar?

  • @zothamhlongo770
    @zothamhlongo770 2 роки тому +3

    "Own your story"🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @johnsmithh662
    @johnsmithh662 3 місяці тому +2

    I have been a cop since I graduated college in 2019. I was super successful and was voted Officer of the year twice and also promoted to Corporal and then sergeant as one of the youngest officers in the department. However, I was always feeling like I wasn’t satisfied with what I was doing. I always have been fascinated with aviation since I was a young kid and decided to follow that path. I halted my policing career and took out a large loan to pursue flight training. But now I find myself questioning if I was following my heart or just needed a break from what I was doing. The thing is that I can see myself doing both. They both take time away from the family in different ways that make me second guess myself sometimes. However, I really think it’s like marriage. When you realize there is no “the one” person for you and it’s really about you deciding to make them “the one”. It’s not always going to be fun and will definitely have its fair share of bad days. But I think you just need to realize that everything no matter what it is will be like that sometimes. You have to be the one to decide and understand that you started down that path for a reason.

  • @whyttitude1073
    @whyttitude1073 3 роки тому

    It is so inspiring

  • @oyehoyesyaapa
    @oyehoyesyaapa 4 роки тому +22

    This is a well structured invitation for self reflection. However, if you're looking for a quick fix with immediate career solution, something that involves a list of things to follow. This is NOT it.
    The video is quite resourceful if you're looking to truly self reflect about the state of 'you' that best matches your social/outside world. Draw an understanding of where your idea of 'self' is, in the social context of life. Following which deciding on a social identity that you feel best corresponds with the 'truest' idea of self-personification. Then comes the job longevity/security... its well worth watching the first 12:26 of it :P

  • @kishorvikram1
    @kishorvikram1 Рік тому

    Thank you ma'am

  • @Queen-neh80
    @Queen-neh80 Рік тому

    Great Advise🤗🤗

  • @saloneee
    @saloneee 3 роки тому +7

    Self awareness is super important to surpass the biases.

  • @WA_YT
    @WA_YT 2 місяці тому

    Most people's passion is also influenced. Status and money does influence us but we should be able to control them and not let them control us. What people require is fulfilment.

  • @ianmelvn2810
    @ianmelvn2810 Рік тому

    I don't even know what to do what to choose for my career... Kindly someone help would really appreciate thank you guys.. Thank you for this broadcast

  • @NAVEENKUMAR-so7tj
    @NAVEENKUMAR-so7tj 10 місяців тому +1

    The problem with me is that i am low confident and fearful and despite want to be successful, my friends, collegues and senior are way confident about my potential rather than myself, that i would reach to greater extent and become successful. So, i want to be more confident and still wanna be successful and wanna have last try of my life so inorder to prove my self that i am way more than the worth and become confident.

  • @navneetyadav3941
    @navneetyadav3941 3 місяці тому

    Thank you!

  • @francismausley7239
    @francismausley7239 4 роки тому +7

    Also be receptive to the idea of a 'calling' - like being advised from the voice within. “… make ye a mighty effort, and choose for yourselves a noble goal.” - Writings of Abdu’l-Baha, Baha'i Faith

    • @MrsBrown-fw7zr
      @MrsBrown-fw7zr 3 роки тому +1

      Francis Mausley yes...that inner voice is why I’m pursuing my masters in professional counseling...at 52 years old 👌🔥❤️

    • @francismausley7239
      @francismausley7239 3 роки тому

      @@MrsBrown-fw7zr Excellent! I too got my advanced degrees as an elder & still am thinking of more. Best Wishes. "Knowledge is as wings to man's life, and a ladder for his ascent." -Abdu’l-Baha

  • @KiyosakiSays
    @KiyosakiSays 9 місяців тому +25

    “Education is cheap; experience is expensive.”- Robert Kiyosaki

  • @teencoachlevi
    @teencoachlevi 7 місяців тому +6

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:00 🏃‍♀ Introduction
    Speaker introduces giving up running and the importance of personal identities.
    01:01 💼 Personal Identities' Impact
    Personal identities affect professional identities.
    Gallup stats show global work disengagement.
    Historical career influences: gender, class, location.
    Career counseling emergence during the Industrial Revolution.
    03:20 🤖 Passion vs. Pragmatism
    Pursuing passion vs. job uncertainty.
    Challenges for business students.
    05:47 🎨 Design Thinking for Careers
    Using Design Thinking in career decisions.
    Need to explore multiple paths.
    Self-awareness is crucial.
    07:26 💭 Unconscious Biases
    Role of unconscious biases in career choices.
    Influence of family, peers, culture.
    Impact of personal identities.
    10:16 📝 Career Identity Narrative
    Career identity as a complex personal narrative.
    Encouraging self-understanding and questioning career scripts.
    Made with HARPA AI (FYI)

  • @Koilosarx
    @Koilosarx 9 місяців тому

    "We must decide what manner of men we wish to be and what calling in life we would follow; and this is the most difficult problem in the world." - That stuck.

  • @tejaslamsoge4437
    @tejaslamsoge4437 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @toppdanuk7311
    @toppdanuk7311 Рік тому +3

    I’m struggling with making the decision right now. I’ve just started a full-time job a month ago. Before that, I do coaching kids badminton the evening. That’s why i was looking for a routine job at a daytime. Now, I got it. I got what i thought it would fit for me. Unfortunately, i feel so confused. I didn’t enjoy my full time job. Not happy at all. I feel like I love my coaching job more. I should do the coaching job more serious. Is this just too soon to judge or should I go for the job that i really enjoy and make it better and better?😢

  • @kingdonut6675
    @kingdonut6675 3 роки тому +10

    I want to be a vet tech and since then I’ve finished my first semester of college but I also have a lot of ideas for books and comics so in my second semester I’m going to take an art class but more recently I’ve started looking into marine biology so I don’t know how to decide between three interesting fields because if I commit the rest of my life to one I’ll have to let the other one’s die and I can’t do that.

    • @bettyseditts7404
      @bettyseditts7404 2 роки тому +3

      same.. i like biology. chemistry too, but i am not that good at it. i also like writing poems and also i think about acting. so basically it´s either natural sciences or art. so i feel u.

    • @yasminnour1851
      @yasminnour1851 2 роки тому +6

      Not necessarily you’ll have to commit to one of them to the rest of your life! If I understood you, you like ‘vet tech’ and marine biology, idk if I’m right, but does vet tech has to do with veterinary? Well, if it has, than marine biology and vet tech can deff be connected, you can do a minor, or even double major and work w both intthe future. About your art root, you can totally have that as a side hustle, you can take art calsses to perfection your tecnic and start posting you comics on the internet. Also, you have to have a lot of self-knowledge to see if one of those passions are hobbies or careers, sometimes when you transform smt that you liked and was your hobbie in a career, it can ‘take out the glow of it’, bc yk, when working w smt, even though you’re passionate abt it, it can be stressful sometimes.
      So yeah, that’s my advice, but do what’s best for you :) (also, srry for the long text and maybe for my English too, I consider myself fluent -eng is not my native language-, but idk, sometimes I make some mistakes lol)

  • @user-fw5qm9vu4s
    @user-fw5qm9vu4s Рік тому +2

    I'm here after attending her course on coursera....and it's THE best course I've ever attended in my life

    • @linahol6067
      @linahol6067 Рік тому

      What course?

    • @user-fw5qm9vu4s
      @user-fw5qm9vu4s Рік тому +2

      @@linahol6067 career decisions: from insight to impact on coursera

  • @chelcyungriano9190
    @chelcyungriano9190 7 місяців тому

    Having freedom to pursue what's personally meaningful. '

  • @charleshurstreinvention3959
    @charleshurstreinvention3959 2 роки тому +11

    Here is a method I use to choose a career---used it young and now middle age and it worked both times. A few weeks ago I told my subscribers how to know if it is time to change careers or just a venue in the one you have. So now you know you have to change careers completely. What do you do? How do you decide? In a nutshell I advised to first list all sectors of work fields. IE Medical, social work, law enforcement, business, technology, trades. That gives you the general interest of where you want to be. For example--all business for me is out. BUT, you may love the art of the deal. Then you list the jobs in that sector. IE trades ---electrician plumber mechanic. Business--marketing, finance, stockbroker. Medical--nurse, doctor, physical therapist. This seems simple but it works. You just narrow down sector then narrow down all jobs in that sector. Then you make your plan how to get there. Most people when they want to change careers just go into panic mode. The formula above makes it simple and stress free to see what you want to do next for forty hours a week. Hope this helps---Charles

  • @Owcareers
    @Owcareers Рік тому

    Very informative

  • @lilamontoya5609
    @lilamontoya5609 3 місяці тому +1

    I agree somewhat
    In healthcare we all develop tough skin and become a little tougher

  • @abdullahabdalhakeem6834
    @abdullahabdalhakeem6834 10 місяців тому +1

    8:30 explains everything

  • @eggjewla
    @eggjewla Рік тому

    Amazing talk! And I did not expect myself to chuckle so loudly at the dead old white guy part. Lol

  • @fabriciocostaa
    @fabriciocostaa 3 роки тому

    I get to take rather decisions in my career

  • @AngelMariya-hk1ge
    @AngelMariya-hk1ge Місяць тому

    very informative video

  • @alitahir4147
    @alitahir4147 2 роки тому +1

    Ol' Cicero always had a way with words.

  • @animeshsaurav9331
    @animeshsaurav9331 3 роки тому +80

    Ok! Now, this has confused me even more.

  • @deanrelihan6148
    @deanrelihan6148 2 роки тому +38

    One day ur In school asking can you use the toilet and the next day they ask what you wanto do for the rest of ur life 🤔

  • @ziadalmugnishihan9125
    @ziadalmugnishihan9125 Рік тому

    I thought she would say something more, more on how one would ace the idea of self-awareness within oneself.

  • @Abhishekyadav-kb3wq
    @Abhishekyadav-kb3wq 6 місяців тому +1

    Wasted so much in working for something that i don't wanna do. I am 26 now and it's been 4 years since i graduated and 2 years since i left my first job and started preparing for competitive exams. Still not able to figure out what i wanna do. Me being unemployed is putting lot of stress on my parents too. And it scares me that i will never be bale to find what i actually wanna do

    • @SuperGreatSphinx
      @SuperGreatSphinx 2 місяці тому +1

      Have you ever considered becoming a nun?
      ♥️

  • @susannnico
    @susannnico 9 місяців тому +2

    The greater the automated income you can build, the freer you will become. Taking the first step is the hardest, but 5 houses later living off automated income since July 6, 2016. You’ve got to start taking steps to achieve your goal.

  • @ShiningStarMediaProductions
    @ShiningStarMediaProductions 9 місяців тому

    I go in depth about contracting in the uk tech sector.

  • @stardust1094
    @stardust1094 2 роки тому +1

    I just wanted become an astronomer or robotics engineer but i need to go chemistry and physics courses because it's hard to learn them for me,but my family don't want me to go to the courses,i just wanted to study,is it too much?

  • @arixkuun
    @arixkuun 3 роки тому +1

    Loved everything about this.

  • @johna.mitchell956
    @johna.mitchell956 2 роки тому

    you're reading this, get that college course you love to prevent regrets in the future. Do not listen to others, they don't know who you really are and they will not spare any seconds, too, to know you. SO, GET THAT COURSE

  • @muhammaddedi4126
    @muhammaddedi4126 Рік тому +1

    14/03/2023
    The Psychology of Career Decisions | Sharon Belden Castonguay
    87 persen karyawan tidak senang dengan pekerjaannya, hal ini bisa disebabkan oleh lingkungan ataupun gajinya. Jadi ceritanya tuh bagaimana orang memilih karier yang dia inginkan, dan mereka tidak memikirkan kemampuan apa yang mereka miiki untuk memilih apa yang akan mereka lakukan kedepannya, oleh karena itu kita perlu memikirkan diri kita lebih dulu dalam memilih karier yang diinginkan dan apakah sesuai dengan kemampuan kita, kita harus memutuskan apa yang menjadi manner of men, kita berharap jadi apa dan aoa yang ada dalam hidup yang perlu kita ikuti, dan ini adalah sesuatu hal masalah yang rumit di dunia, oleh karena itu kita perlu memutuskan karier untuk diri kita. Sekian dan terima kasih

  • @jeffreymurphy6954
    @jeffreymurphy6954 2 роки тому

    beautiful

  • @msc4en9qu7m
    @msc4en9qu7m 24 дні тому

    i never been at plaza i only saw the enterprise from the machine it's not a dream until i know how are the conditions to be part participants to this form lessons

  • @Matthew8473
    @Matthew8473 5 місяців тому

    The wisdom in this content is remarkably profound. A book with akin insights fostered a major shift in my approach to life. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @jasminecontreras7341
    @jasminecontreras7341 10 місяців тому +1

    I have no idea what to do. I’ve been trying to decide what career path to follow for the past 2-3 years and I’m literally stuck. I’m 24 living at home making enough money to pay rent but that’s it, I feel like I’ve just been waiting and constantly researching careers and trying to figure out what type of person I am but it’s not clear yet. I don’t want to start something until I know that there’s a good chance it’ll be for me. I feel like there’s choice anxiety because of all of the options there are out there. I don’t want to pick something just to find that it’s not for me. Debating on hiring a career counselor now 😅

    • @MR-yv5vu
      @MR-yv5vu 10 місяців тому +1

      Girl, you just described me! I’m in the same boat and I’m 26 :/
      I hope you find your passion soon!

    • @jasminecontreras7341
      @jasminecontreras7341 10 місяців тому +1

      @@MR-yv5vu I hope you find yours too 😩 it’s so confusing bc I’m constantly like “maybe I should just pick something that contributes to society that I could make my livelihood so I could just start doing something and making more money” but on the other hand I also think to myself “I have the option to live at home with my parents until I figure out and it seems like a lot of other people are living at home and figuring themselves out in their mid twenties so should I just continue doing online research until I figure out a career path that I really wanna pursue?”
      The hardest thing to think about for me is thinking about how much time I’m going to spend in the career that I choose. 8 hours a day 5 days a week is a lot with only 2 weeks or so a year of vacation time to see other countries so I want to make sure whatever I’m spending my time doing is something that could allow me to learn a variety of things. I tried community college when I was 20-22 and I changed my major 3x in that short time period so I just stopped going until I could figure it out. It doesn’t help that my parents both have advanced degrees, my dad having a phd and being retired sometimes tries to persuade me to get my bachelors but I don’t want to go into debt when I feel like if I keep looking I could sort through all of the careers out there and find a path where I could make a decent living and teach myself enough about something without a degree. Like Sharon said in her talk, it sucks having everyone around you trying to influence you to take a certain path in life. I don’t know what to do but at this point I’m ready to pick something random and hate my job and my life like everyone else lol

    • @SuperGreatSphinx
      @SuperGreatSphinx 8 місяців тому +1

      Have you ever considered becoming a nun?

    • @jasminecontreras7341
      @jasminecontreras7341 8 місяців тому +1

      @@SuperGreatSphinx good idea!!!

  • @goodboy4464
    @goodboy4464 Рік тому

    Hello,
    Plz help me in choosing career path.
    After doing BTech in ECE.
    Should I search job in IT Networking field or in Digital Marketing as I have done online certification in that also.
    Both these fields are completely opposite. One it technically field, while other is management field.

    • @weebshshh4327
      @weebshshh4327 Рік тому +1

      Try to work in both field and see what you like! Cause you will never know unless you do

  • @iamdead6376
    @iamdead6376 3 роки тому +13

    Ok I have watched this three times and still dont understand it. Can someone help me because I need to write a reflection about this.

    • @usamasaeed5904
      @usamasaeed5904 2 роки тому +4

      whole video means know urself,self knowledge about ur own selves ,knowledge about how u behave,how ur mind works better,in which environment ur mind works better,wht u enjoy doing,wht u hate doing,which work is easy for u ,which work is tough for u basically this video says that career is a choice of becoming who u actually are

    • @usamasaeed5904
      @usamasaeed5904 2 роки тому

      also study brain bent by arlene.know ur brain bent

  • @nipasy
    @nipasy Рік тому

    Tbh I'm still trying to understand the main point.
    It's also possible that there isn't one and the talk is comprised of several tips.

  • @isiomaejime5989
    @isiomaejime5989 Рік тому +1

    I've been struggling for yrs now, finding it difficult to know who I am, what I'm made of n what I wanna do😞😞

    • @SuperGreatSphinx
      @SuperGreatSphinx 8 місяців тому +1

      Have you ever considered becoming a nun?
      🖤

  • @liberalstudiesmaterials899
    @liberalstudiesmaterials899 Рік тому +1

    May I ask which jobs are most stable for middle age man who find difficulties to adapt to new skills please?

    • @SuperGreatSphinx
      @SuperGreatSphinx 8 місяців тому +1

      Have you ever considered becoming a monk?

  • @user-dl9vo6gx7l
    @user-dl9vo6gx7l 6 місяців тому +1

    Own your story, don't let others write it for you - stans out

  • @romazottiromazotti8410
    @romazottiromazotti8410 7 днів тому

    what is SES? Socio-Economic Status?

  • @professorofhappiness29
    @professorofhappiness29 3 роки тому +20

    My takes away :
    1. Engagement at work place is very important.
    2. Design thinking is a good approach
    3. Discover self
    4. Career Identity ( What you wish to be)
    5. Alignment with calling in life.

  • @youtubingbabs
    @youtubingbabs 3 роки тому +1

    I did not expect her voice to sound like that! Lol.

  • @mauersegler
    @mauersegler 2 місяці тому +1

    My problem is that my decision of future career isn't social. I don't have any friends, my parents don't care who am as long as I'm happy and I don't have any biases. Heck, I would love to wash the floor for the rest of my life if it was paid well. But it's not.
    And there's nothing I'm good at that I'm passionate about. I love math, but I struggle with basic examples like subtraction or division (dunno why, I guess I'm just a dummy). I love drawing, but I can't draw, I made zero progress over the years despite me being mesmerized by the process. I love studying, but there's no such profession.
    And I'm really good at learning languages. But I will never make it into job, because there's nothing more easy and boring for me than translating. I'd rather go and tinker with my equations.
    And so, I think I've been cursed.

    • @SuperGreatSphinx
      @SuperGreatSphinx 2 місяці тому +2

      Have you ever considered becoming a friar?

    • @mauersegler
      @mauersegler 2 місяці тому +1

      @@SuperGreatSphinx I'm not sure if I believe in God, but thank you for option in case nothing else will work out :D

  • @isabellaanwan9177
    @isabellaanwan9177 Рік тому

    Going for MBA because of not liking their first jobs after college. Just call out management consultants. Lol My current escape plan

  • @naranjasss
    @naranjasss 4 роки тому +9

    my gosh, she is so beautiful

  • @laassoulisalma4223
    @laassoulisalma4223 3 роки тому

    so can we say that education can creat careers ?