Trying to know who I’m has taken me years and I still don’t know sht. I’m not going to wait for that miracle anymore. I’m just going to do whatever I have to.
@@belle3055I feel sorry for that, maybe it was not a lot of opportunities for you to try everything you'd like to, because people usually tend to be attracted to some amount of thing at least
What I got from this is that I should take a chance and pursue what I want to do for my life even if it might possibly be a bust. If i succeed, I'm happy with my career and If all else fails at least I know I tried and can move onto the next thing with no regrets.
You all prolly dont care at all but does someone know a tool to log back into an Instagram account..? I somehow forgot my password. I would love any tips you can offer me.
@@douglasabdullah8162 well I've heard that you can use the help function and hey will contact you to assist further but proof of your identity will be rigorous
Nah... Real problem is people "believe they will think right all the time " Human think wrong and make mistake all the time from birth to death never free from that Include " i think this is my dream , my love " too Will go wrong and need fix and repair many time before It become stable and genarate real happiness ONLY people who low on Ego and except "human everybody make mistake all the time" Will short time of mistake then happiness that will happen in life the most People "i will do what i like , i feels , i love" Will slow down happiness for come to his/her life for a very long time ❤
I was a career counselor and a social worker, a teacher's assistant, and now a writer. I never made a lot of money, and I never will. But at least I like what I do.
I love that she focused on self-awareness because this is an area that I think a lot of people forget about in regard to influences on career decisions, ESPECIALLY with the college population!
Absolutely agree. To me, awareness in both self and our surroundings, including the people in them, is the key to really taking ownership of your own life and the direction it takes.
My gosh... I took away from it that align career with who you are, not blindly chasing the one thing you're passionate about, but 1. understanding who you are and what works for how you're wired is important and 2. Understanding that who one is isn't just a singluar thing/identity and that finding one's career is a journey for some
Thanks for this amazing information !! If you don't find a means of multiplying money, you will wake up one day to realize that the money you thought you had, has finished. Investment is key, I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life
Very true, I started investing before the pandemic and that same year I pulled a profit of about $750k with no prior investing experience, basically all I was doing was seeking guidance from *ROCHELLE DUNGCA-SCHREIBER* who's a guru in the game, you can be passively involved with the aid of a professional.
if you're reading this, get that college course you love to prevent regrets in the future. Do not listen to others, they don't know who you really are and they will not spare any seconds, too, to know you. SO, GET THAT COURSE.
@@josephinep8858 wait I want to do the same! I'm a chemistry major and want to take a minor in criminology just because I love that topic (but I don't want a career in it). People around me say that I'm wasting my time I should take a minor in biology/biochemistry/deep chemistry instead😭
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 🏃♀ Introduction Speaker introduces giving up running and the importance of personal identities. 01:01 💼 Personal Identities' Impact Personal identities affect professional identities. Gallup stats show global work disengagement. Historical career influences: gender, class, location. Career counseling emergence during the Industrial Revolution. 03:20 🤖 Passion vs. Pragmatism Pursuing passion vs. job uncertainty. Challenges for business students. 05:47 🎨 Design Thinking for Careers Using Design Thinking in career decisions. Need to explore multiple paths. Self-awareness is crucial. 07:26 💭 Unconscious Biases Role of unconscious biases in career choices. Influence of family, peers, culture. Impact of personal identities. 10:16 📝 Career Identity Narrative Career identity as a complex personal narrative. Encouraging self-understanding and questioning career scripts. Made with HARPA AI (FYI)
Everything needs time, even recognizing ourselves. Most people don't have that patience. But we can't blame them either for maybe they have loans to pay and don't even think that their passion is important and those time we reflect on ourselves won't pay any of our paychecks. But to those who have the priviledge to know their passion, and can follow it, I hope they have patience to endure anything that happen because I always remember this phrase "with a great power comes great responsibility", so it will never be easy. Thx for this talks Sharon.
Professional orientation should be a subject at school as mathematics and chemistry are. We should start our journey of looking what we like and want do all our life as early as possible.
This is well-informed and sheds light on how impactful it is to become aware of the systems in which we live and have learned to identify ourselves within! Identity absolutely matters, and this is because of the way our society works today and the system of values and hierarchies that are so deeply ingrained. To learn about the world is to learn how we've ended up exactly where we are..
I have a big issue with this notion of career identity. What happens if our career identity is one that is a dead end? What if society and the market do not value the talent and uniqueness we bring? In a perfect world, what she says is correct. But the disturbing truth is that many of us will not have the opportunity to live out our identity. You can be anything you want to be, as long as it is banker, tech entrepreneur, or programmer. The rest of us may just have to make do…
An excellent question, that unfortunately has an obvious negative solution. The current world we live in is competitive and ever changing, like fashion trends. So the best solution is to have multiple skills that can be useful in landing a job and helps one be the best in whatever field they are in.
I think if there's a passion that you've discovered through understanding yourself, you just to try to make it happen. Just try and see what happens. If you fail, congrats, you tried very hard to achieve something that is very important to you, look at the man/women you've become, look at the journey you went through and the challenges that you've faced but thought at first that are too hard for you but you still overcame them. That's it really.
That is not the end of the road in my opinion. I think you can certainly find spot in society where your talents and career identity are put to use, in various degrees. Maybe you can't be an astronaut, but there will be many alternatives to the job of an astronaut that will require similar skills and activities. For example.
If we go back to history as she brought up in the beginning, it's quite strange that we try to match our passions and identity to our career, let alone choose one at all. I would push back and ask her if a portion of people would be better off with a "boring" job to make ends meet, then pursue their passions outside of work. Oftentimes boring jobs aren't as demanding precisely because people aren't as passionate about it, compared to the gaming, film, modeling, and academic research. If the boring job is demanding, it likely pays way more (ex. UPS drivers).
Deciding what manner of person we wish to be is truly a daily self discovery journey... I think we all need to embark on.. Thank you so much for this insightful presentation 🤗
🎯 Key points for quick navigation: 00:00 *🏃♂️ The speaker introduces the concept of personal identities and their impact on professional identities.* - Personal identities can significantly influence professional identities. - The speaker reflects on the importance of identities in career decisions and their emotional significance. 01:30 *💼 The history of career counseling and its evolution is discussed.* - The historical background of career counseling is outlined, from the first vocational bureaus to modern-day practices. - Emphasis is placed on the shifting focus from external factors to internal motivations in career counseling. 05:33 *🤔 The concept of passion-driven career decisions is questioned, and alternative frameworks are proposed.* - Criticism of the notion that passion should dictate career decisions is presented. - The speaker introduces the idea of applying design thinking to career decision-making and discusses its implications. 07:26 *💡 The influence of unconscious biases and societal pressures on career decisions is explored.* - Career decisions are often influenced by unconscious biases and societal expectations. - The importance of self-awareness in mitigating these influences and making informed career choices is highlighted. 10:16 *🔄 The dynamic nature of personal identities and career narratives* Made with HARPA AI
Any decision you make in regards to your career is personal. The way you make money is serious business. Hope everyone watching this video is doing something they love for a living.
Not realy working but am in school am in grade 12 at arakan girls and my name is Astridah and am trying to research on how to choose a career, please help me because many people discourage me about my career I want which Aviation to be specific a pilot.
We must be aware of the different options available and try each of what we think suits us one by one. We should not held biases which are influenced by family, friends, society, culture, relegion etc.
I have been blessed to have had long lasting jobs that I loved. Now that I have relocated I need to find a new career in my new chapter of life. This video encouraged me to seek that next enjoyable and fulfilling job/career and not settle for anything else.
Thanks for sharing. So much of our career is affected by conscious and unconscious factors. However, we also can allow ourselves to creating our own career identity.
From my experience and hearing the experiences of others I realized if you don't know what you want to do or are trying to chose from more than one option is to get a general education in college and you'll get an idea of your areas of knowledge, abilities, skills and base them on your passions, desires, interests, and values. You want to research schools and find which one best meets your needs. You can make a resume with not just your job experience but any volunteering, skills, abilities, accomplishments, personality traits, hobbies, and interests. It's also good to prepare for interviews by thinking of possible questions they might ask.
I have been a cop since I graduated college in 2019. I was super successful and was voted Officer of the year twice and also promoted to Corporal and then sergeant as one of the youngest officers in the department. However, I was always feeling like I wasn’t satisfied with what I was doing. I always have been fascinated with aviation since I was a young kid and decided to follow that path. I halted my policing career and took out a large loan to pursue flight training. But now I find myself questioning if I was following my heart or just needed a break from what I was doing. The thing is that I can see myself doing both. They both take time away from the family in different ways that make me second guess myself sometimes. However, I really think it’s like marriage. When you realize there is no “the one” person for you and it’s really about you deciding to make them “the one”. It’s not always going to be fun and will definitely have its fair share of bad days. But I think you just need to realize that everything no matter what it is will be like that sometimes. You have to be the one to decide and understand that you started down that path for a reason.
Know yourself before making decisions. We unconsciously forget that personal characteristics etc also play a part on this, not just interest. To succeed you need to know your every aspect about yourself and pick out a career based on it. Not just going for it without a consciously made decision 😢
This is the first time i watched a ted talk video without using much subtitles but also had to go back again and again to get the meaning clearly but i am happy to see me understanding the foreign accent... 🎉🎉
Most people's passion is also influenced. Status and money does influence us but we should be able to control them and not let them control us. What people require is fulfilment.
What an amazing talk! I found listening to inspiring people very helpful when looking to make important decisions in my life. I also find that free guides on UA-cam were helpful as well as a course I found online called the Career Enhancement Network. It was quite cheap and I had access to many webinars and guides that helped me as well. I always like to keep my options open when looking for career advice and there is no such things as too much information! I hope everyone finds what they are looking for in life!
Watching that gave me a flash questioning why I see myself the way I see myself and as I lift from the still image that i see myself as, who is it that I could become? This was good.
Its a very ironic time we live in. We want nice things, we want a well functioning society we want order, but then it’s hard for us to accept it. Some of the most boring jobs are vital to a good society. I agree with people, I myself struggle with the same thing, I hate boring jobs. So it’s a struggle and battle. If we all went and made a lot of money or everyone chased their dream it would be hard on a well functioning society. But at the same time the we all want freedom and creativity. Paradoxical time period we live in. Also, as we further our economy and technology things are becoming easier to consume on a large basis, not to long ago a small house with a few basic items we’re a blessing, now having so many nice things are normal. Again I am on both sides, I love technology and traveling and living a fun life, but at the same time it makes it harder to enjoy a simple life
But there are no boring jobs, hard yeah but not boring. Careers that you think are boring are prolly someones else's dream jobs. For me being a teacher or a lawyer or a nurse is very boring but I know a lot of people that love these things.
Very interesting. Changing career paths can be challenging, however, it may be worth the challenge in the end if you find your new career more fulfilling.
"We must decide what manner of men we wish to be and what calling in life we would follow; and this is the most difficult problem in the world." - That stuck.
ambitions to help others maybe is the best therapy but if this is a low point to be discriminate causes sometimes dispoints in ours movement so you are the inspiration to come on to learn from the first from the start good bless you in every area
This is a great talk. Thank you Sharon so much. I am currently really struggling with a decision to take the job or not and I just don't know what's the right answer.
A wonderful presentation and you beautifully explained it! You gave me a different perspective to my understanding to the vision to Career and the truth. Highly appreciated!
It's also a noun. A thing you find energizing. A topic/activity/skill you focus on easily and naturally. The word implies a long term and built-in relationship with whatever it is. So I get what you mean... But.. Yeah... You're saying dig deeper to things that transcends that beginner's high you get when you decide to learn, say watercolors. Now you're in art school and hate painting but can't admit it to yourself. Lol.
My takes away : 1. Engagement at work place is very important. 2. Design thinking is a good approach 3. Discover self 4. Career Identity ( What you wish to be) 5. Alignment with calling in life.
This is a well structured invitation for self reflection. However, if you're looking for a quick fix with immediate career solution, something that involves a list of things to follow. This is NOT it. The video is quite resourceful if you're looking to truly self reflect about the state of 'you' that best matches your social/outside world. Draw an understanding of where your idea of 'self' is, in the social context of life. Following which deciding on a social identity that you feel best corresponds with the 'truest' idea of self-personification. Then comes the job longevity/security... its well worth watching the first 12:26 of it :P
The problem with me is that i am low confident and fearful and despite want to be successful, my friends, collegues and senior are way confident about my potential rather than myself, that i would reach to greater extent and become successful. So, i want to be more confident and still wanna be successful and wanna have last try of my life so inorder to prove my self that i am way more than the worth and become confident.
Great point that most people don't take the time to figure out who they are before making a decision of what they want to be. Unfortunately I see this quite a bit with those I coach.
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Also be receptive to the idea of a 'calling' - like being advised from the voice within. “… make ye a mighty effort, and choose for yourselves a noble goal.” - Writings of Abdu’l-Baha, Baha'i Faith
@@MrsBrown-fw7zr Excellent! I too got my advanced degrees as an elder & still am thinking of more. Best Wishes. "Knowledge is as wings to man's life, and a ladder for his ascent." -Abdu’l-Baha
Thank you very much for this inspirational talk, graduated last year and landed on a job , but last month I chose to quit for the well known “lack of passion/not for me” reason, the job wasn’t directly related to my major and for what I know, most of my friends went to phds , which is the popular option…… I should be booking appointments for career / mental health consultations … Sometimes It’s just really hard to figure things out myself , no matter how rational you think you are… often you’re not.
Here is a method I use to choose a career---used it young and now middle age and it worked both times. A few weeks ago I told my subscribers how to know if it is time to change careers or just a venue in the one you have. So now you know you have to change careers completely. What do you do? How do you decide? In a nutshell I advised to first list all sectors of work fields. IE Medical, social work, law enforcement, business, technology, trades. That gives you the general interest of where you want to be. For example--all business for me is out. BUT, you may love the art of the deal. Then you list the jobs in that sector. IE trades ---electrician plumber mechanic. Business--marketing, finance, stockbroker. Medical--nurse, doctor, physical therapist. This seems simple but it works. You just narrow down sector then narrow down all jobs in that sector. Then you make your plan how to get there. Most people when they want to change careers just go into panic mode. The formula above makes it simple and stress free to see what you want to do next for forty hours a week. Hope this helps---Charles
Wasted so much in working for something that i don't wanna do. I am 26 now and it's been 4 years since i graduated and 2 years since i left my first job and started preparing for competitive exams. Still not able to figure out what i wanna do. Me being unemployed is putting lot of stress on my parents too. And it scares me that i will never be bale to find what i actually wanna do
Our identity comes from our creator, God. He made us for a purpose. He gave us unique gifts to achieve that purpose. Just like a manufacturer made a vehicle for a purpose.
I want to be a vet tech and since then I’ve finished my first semester of college but I also have a lot of ideas for books and comics so in my second semester I’m going to take an art class but more recently I’ve started looking into marine biology so I don’t know how to decide between three interesting fields because if I commit the rest of my life to one I’ll have to let the other one’s die and I can’t do that.
same.. i like biology. chemistry too, but i am not that good at it. i also like writing poems and also i think about acting. so basically it´s either natural sciences or art. so i feel u.
Not necessarily you’ll have to commit to one of them to the rest of your life! If I understood you, you like ‘vet tech’ and marine biology, idk if I’m right, but does vet tech has to do with veterinary? Well, if it has, than marine biology and vet tech can deff be connected, you can do a minor, or even double major and work w both intthe future. About your art root, you can totally have that as a side hustle, you can take art calsses to perfection your tecnic and start posting you comics on the internet. Also, you have to have a lot of self-knowledge to see if one of those passions are hobbies or careers, sometimes when you transform smt that you liked and was your hobbie in a career, it can ‘take out the glow of it’, bc yk, when working w smt, even though you’re passionate abt it, it can be stressful sometimes. So yeah, that’s my advice, but do what’s best for you :) (also, srry for the long text and maybe for my English too, I consider myself fluent -eng is not my native language-, but idk, sometimes I make some mistakes lol)
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you're reading this, get that college course you love to prevent regrets in the future. Do not listen to others, they don't know who you really are and they will not spare any seconds, too, to know you. SO, GET THAT COURSE
I’m struggling with making the decision right now. I’ve just started a full-time job a month ago. Before that, I do coaching kids badminton the evening. That’s why i was looking for a routine job at a daytime. Now, I got it. I got what i thought it would fit for me. Unfortunately, i feel so confused. I didn’t enjoy my full time job. Not happy at all. I feel like I love my coaching job more. I should do the coaching job more serious. Is this just too soon to judge or should I go for the job that i really enjoy and make it better and better?😢
I have no idea what to do. I’ve been trying to decide what career path to follow for the past 2-3 years and I’m literally stuck. I’m 24 living at home making enough money to pay rent but that’s it, I feel like I’ve just been waiting and constantly researching careers and trying to figure out what type of person I am but it’s not clear yet. I don’t want to start something until I know that there’s a good chance it’ll be for me. I feel like there’s choice anxiety because of all of the options there are out there. I don’t want to pick something just to find that it’s not for me. Debating on hiring a career counselor now 😅
@@MR-yv5vu I hope you find yours too 😩 it’s so confusing bc I’m constantly like “maybe I should just pick something that contributes to society that I could make my livelihood so I could just start doing something and making more money” but on the other hand I also think to myself “I have the option to live at home with my parents until I figure out and it seems like a lot of other people are living at home and figuring themselves out in their mid twenties so should I just continue doing online research until I figure out a career path that I really wanna pursue?” The hardest thing to think about for me is thinking about how much time I’m going to spend in the career that I choose. 8 hours a day 5 days a week is a lot with only 2 weeks or so a year of vacation time to see other countries so I want to make sure whatever I’m spending my time doing is something that could allow me to learn a variety of things. I tried community college when I was 20-22 and I changed my major 3x in that short time period so I just stopped going until I could figure it out. It doesn’t help that my parents both have advanced degrees, my dad having a phd and being retired sometimes tries to persuade me to get my bachelors but I don’t want to go into debt when I feel like if I keep looking I could sort through all of the careers out there and find a path where I could make a decent living and teach myself enough about something without a degree. Like Sharon said in her talk, it sucks having everyone around you trying to influence you to take a certain path in life. I don’t know what to do but at this point I’m ready to pick something random and hate my job and my life like everyone else lol
The wisdom in this content is remarkably profound. A book with akin insights fostered a major shift in my approach to life. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
My problem is that my decision of future career isn't social. I don't have any friends, my parents don't care who am as long as I'm happy and I don't have any biases. Heck, I would love to wash the floor for the rest of my life if it was paid well. But it's not. And there's nothing I'm good at that I'm passionate about. I love math, but I struggle with basic examples like subtraction or division (dunno why, I guess I'm just a dummy). I love drawing, but I can't draw, I made zero progress over the years despite me being mesmerized by the process. I love studying, but there's no such profession. And I'm really good at learning languages. But I will never make it into job, because there's nothing more easy and boring for me than translating. I'd rather go and tinker with my equations. And so, I think I've been cursed.
I've been feeling stuck in my career and this video gave me some great ideas on how to take my skills to the next level but with the help of @TheBritishSchoolOfExcellence you also growing in your career and life also. Thank you! 🙂💯👍
i never been at plaza i only saw the enterprise from the machine it's not a dream until i know how are the conditions to be part participants to this form lessons
One VERY important message missing: Employers do NOT support the "Design Thinking" model. They want someone who has been in the same job for 5/10/15+ years.
Things that stand out in her speech for me was : "our problem is we don't know who we are before deciding who we wanna be"
Trying to know who I’m has taken me years and I still don’t know sht. I’m not going to wait for that miracle anymore. I’m just going to do whatever I have to.
@@belle3055I feel sorry for that, maybe it was not a lot of opportunities for you to try everything you'd like to, because people usually tend to be attracted to some amount of thing at least
this and when she said "this has always been a messy process, embrace it"
@@belle3055 Rightly said!
Powerful.
What I got from this is that I should take a chance and pursue what I want to do for my life even if it might possibly be a bust. If i succeed, I'm happy with my career and If all else fails at least I know I tried and can move onto the next thing with no regrets.
Go for it ! Best luck 👍
Thank you. I'm trying to reason myself out or in.
You all prolly dont care at all but does someone know a tool to log back into an Instagram account..?
I somehow forgot my password. I would love any tips you can offer me.
@@douglasabdullah8162 well I've heard that you can use the help function and hey will contact you to assist further but proof of your identity will be rigorous
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Our problem is that the cost of living takes priority over the cost of pursuing our "passions" in life.
precisely
Nah...
Real problem is people "believe they will think right all the time "
Human think wrong and make mistake all the time from birth to death never free from that
Include " i think this is my dream , my love " too
Will go wrong and need fix and repair many time before
It become stable and genarate real happiness
ONLY people who low on Ego and except "human everybody make mistake all the time"
Will short time of mistake then happiness that will happen in life the most
People "i will do what i like , i feels , i love"
Will slow down happiness for come to his/her life for a very long time ❤
Yes. This choice has been-historically-a privilege.
I was a career counselor and a social worker, a teacher's assistant, and now a writer.
I never made a lot of money, and I never will. But at least I like what I do.
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I agree with your comment.
I love that she focused on self-awareness because this is an area that I think a lot of people forget about in regard to influences on career decisions, ESPECIALLY with the college population!
I mean this wouldn’t be an issue if everybody didn’t distract themselves on their off time lol
Absolutely agree. To me, awareness in both self and our surroundings, including the people in them, is the key to really taking ownership of your own life and the direction it takes.
It's never too late! I just graduated med school and decided to follow my passion instead, and I'm the happiest I've ever been in life. :D
What is your passion?
@@hritwik4655 Music.
@@DigitalDiego similar story to me but with law school...what do you do in music? so lovely to see other people changing too
@@ngxoxo Nice! And I make music to inspire and encourage people to follow their dreams/God. What about yourself?
Man my parents would kill me😭
This must be very important to u...where can I listen to ur music?
My gosh... I took away from it that align career with who you are, not blindly chasing the one thing you're passionate about, but 1. understanding who you are and what works for how you're wired is important and 2. Understanding that who one is isn't just a singluar thing/identity and that finding one's career is a journey for some
yep. cant agree more with you
Thanks for this amazing information !! If you don't find a means of multiplying money, you will wake up one day to realize that the money you thought you had, has finished. Investment is key, I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life
Very true, I started investing before the pandemic and that same year I pulled a profit of about $750k with no prior investing experience, basically all I was doing was seeking guidance from *ROCHELLE DUNGCA-SCHREIBER* who's a guru in the game, you can be passively involved with the aid of a professional.
Such a beautiful message. Laila. Stay blessed
if you're reading this, get that college course you love to prevent regrets in the future. Do not listen to others, they don't know who you really are and they will not spare any seconds, too, to know you. SO, GET THAT COURSE.
Omygosh I feel like you're talking to me out of hundreds of people in the room.
what if i dont love anything at all ،even though iam considered an great student .
I did! I took the minor I wanted to study because well it’s just a damn minor and also I love it!
@@josephinep8858 wait I want to do the same! I'm a chemistry major and want to take a minor in criminology just because I love that topic (but I don't want a career in it). People around me say that I'm wasting my time I should take a minor in biology/biochemistry/deep chemistry instead😭
who are you to say that lmao?
Spot on. My research suggests not only career choices but studies in school are decided by subconscious. Your presentation is excellent
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 🏃♀ Introduction
Speaker introduces giving up running and the importance of personal identities.
01:01 💼 Personal Identities' Impact
Personal identities affect professional identities.
Gallup stats show global work disengagement.
Historical career influences: gender, class, location.
Career counseling emergence during the Industrial Revolution.
03:20 🤖 Passion vs. Pragmatism
Pursuing passion vs. job uncertainty.
Challenges for business students.
05:47 🎨 Design Thinking for Careers
Using Design Thinking in career decisions.
Need to explore multiple paths.
Self-awareness is crucial.
07:26 💭 Unconscious Biases
Role of unconscious biases in career choices.
Influence of family, peers, culture.
Impact of personal identities.
10:16 📝 Career Identity Narrative
Career identity as a complex personal narrative.
Encouraging self-understanding and questioning career scripts.
Made with HARPA AI (FYI)
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Everything needs time, even recognizing ourselves. Most people don't have that patience. But we can't blame them either for maybe they have loans to pay and don't even think that their passion is important and those time we reflect on ourselves won't pay any of our paychecks. But to those who have the priviledge to know their passion, and can follow it, I hope they have patience to endure anything that happen because I always remember this phrase "with a great power comes great responsibility", so it will never be easy. Thx for this talks Sharon.
Thank you 🙏
Thanks so much!
Professional orientation should be a subject at school as mathematics and chemistry are. We should start our journey of looking what we like and want do all our life as early as possible.
Completely agree with you
This is well-informed and sheds light on how impactful it is to become aware of the systems in which we live and have learned to identify ourselves within! Identity absolutely matters, and this is because of the way our society works today and the system of values and hierarchies that are so deeply ingrained. To learn about the world is to learn how we've ended up exactly where we are..
I have a big issue with this notion of career identity. What happens if our career identity is one that is a dead end? What if society and the market do not value the talent and uniqueness we bring? In a perfect world, what she says is correct. But the disturbing truth is that many of us will not have the opportunity to live out our identity. You can be anything you want to be, as long as it is banker, tech entrepreneur, or programmer. The rest of us may just have to make do…
An excellent question, that unfortunately has an obvious negative solution. The current world we live in is competitive and ever changing, like fashion trends. So the best solution is to have multiple skills that can be useful in landing a job and helps one be the best in whatever field they are in.
I think if there's a passion that you've discovered through understanding yourself, you just to try to make it happen. Just try and see what happens. If you fail, congrats, you tried very hard to achieve something that is very important to you, look at the man/women you've become, look at the journey you went through and the challenges that you've faced but thought at first that are too hard for you but you still overcame them. That's it really.
That is not the end of the road in my opinion. I think you can certainly find spot in society where your talents and career identity are put to use, in various degrees. Maybe you can't be an astronaut, but there will be many alternatives to the job of an astronaut that will require similar skills and activities. For example.
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If we go back to history as she brought up in the beginning, it's quite strange that we try to match our passions and identity to our career, let alone choose one at all. I would push back and ask her if a portion of people would be better off with a "boring" job to make ends meet, then pursue their passions outside of work. Oftentimes boring jobs aren't as demanding precisely because people aren't as passionate about it, compared to the gaming, film, modeling, and academic research. If the boring job is demanding, it likely pays way more (ex. UPS drivers).
Deciding what manner of person we wish to be is truly a daily self discovery journey... I think we all need to embark on.. Thank you so much for this insightful presentation 🤗
🎯 Key points for quick navigation:
00:00 *🏃♂️ The speaker introduces the concept of personal identities and their impact on professional identities.*
- Personal identities can significantly influence professional identities.
- The speaker reflects on the importance of identities in career decisions and their emotional significance.
01:30 *💼 The history of career counseling and its evolution is discussed.*
- The historical background of career counseling is outlined, from the first vocational bureaus to modern-day practices.
- Emphasis is placed on the shifting focus from external factors to internal motivations in career counseling.
05:33 *🤔 The concept of passion-driven career decisions is questioned, and alternative frameworks are proposed.*
- Criticism of the notion that passion should dictate career decisions is presented.
- The speaker introduces the idea of applying design thinking to career decision-making and discusses its implications.
07:26 *💡 The influence of unconscious biases and societal pressures on career decisions is explored.*
- Career decisions are often influenced by unconscious biases and societal expectations.
- The importance of self-awareness in mitigating these influences and making informed career choices is highlighted.
10:16 *🔄 The dynamic nature of personal identities and career narratives*
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Passion is overrated. We should focus on internal liking and disliking. Allowing yourself to make mistakes.
Any decision you make in regards to your career is personal. The way you make money is serious business. Hope everyone watching this video is doing something they love for a living.
Not realy working but am in school am in grade 12 at arakan girls and my name is Astridah and am trying to research on how to choose a career, please help me because many people discourage me about my career I want which Aviation to be specific a pilot.
Her ted talk requires a lot of internalization, and that's the beauty of it.
We must be aware of the different options available and try each of what we think suits us one by one. We should not held biases which are influenced by family, friends, society, culture, relegion etc.
I have been blessed to have had long lasting jobs that I loved. Now that I have relocated I need to find a new career in my new chapter of life. This video encouraged me to seek that next enjoyable and fulfilling job/career and not settle for anything else.
Thanks for sharing. So much of our career is affected by conscious and unconscious factors. However, we also can allow ourselves to creating our own career identity.
Maybe be this just me but, making money makes me happy. There's a wide range of things I can be happy enough doing if I get paid enough.
No it's not only you, I feel the same way
Everyone feels the same way
From my experience and hearing the experiences of others I realized if you don't know what you want to do or are trying to chose from more than one option is to get a general education in college and you'll get an idea of your areas of knowledge, abilities, skills and base them on your passions, desires, interests, and values. You want to research schools and find which one best meets your needs. You can make a resume with not just your job experience but any volunteering, skills, abilities, accomplishments, personality traits, hobbies, and interests. It's also good to prepare for interviews by thinking of possible questions they might ask.
Great talk! Self awareness is important to make better career choices. It is who you want to be that should guide your decision
I have been a cop since I graduated college in 2019. I was super successful and was voted Officer of the year twice and also promoted to Corporal and then sergeant as one of the youngest officers in the department. However, I was always feeling like I wasn’t satisfied with what I was doing. I always have been fascinated with aviation since I was a young kid and decided to follow that path. I halted my policing career and took out a large loan to pursue flight training. But now I find myself questioning if I was following my heart or just needed a break from what I was doing. The thing is that I can see myself doing both. They both take time away from the family in different ways that make me second guess myself sometimes. However, I really think it’s like marriage. When you realize there is no “the one” person for you and it’s really about you deciding to make them “the one”. It’s not always going to be fun and will definitely have its fair share of bad days. But I think you just need to realize that everything no matter what it is will be like that sometimes. You have to be the one to decide and understand that you started down that path for a reason.
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I liked the thing she said that embrace your messed ideàs than to follow the ideas of others
I don't think she said that . . . didn't she say "embrace the messiness" . . . ?
Know yourself before making decisions. We unconsciously forget that personal characteristics etc also play a part on this, not just interest. To succeed you need to know your every aspect about yourself and pick out a career based on it. Not just going for it without a consciously made decision 😢
This is the first time i watched a ted talk video without using much subtitles but also had to go back again and again to get the meaning clearly but i am happy to see me understanding the foreign accent... 🎉🎉
Own your story and don't let others write it for you
Most people's passion is also influenced. Status and money does influence us but we should be able to control them and not let them control us. What people require is fulfilment.
What an amazing talk! I found listening to inspiring people very helpful when looking to make important decisions in my life. I also find that free guides on UA-cam were helpful as well as a course I found online called the Career Enhancement Network. It was quite cheap and I had access to many webinars and guides that helped me as well. I always like to keep my options open when looking for career advice and there is no such things as too much information! I hope everyone finds what they are looking for in life!
I'm curious, did you find a career path that you're currently heading towards?
Watching that gave me a flash questioning why I see myself the way I see myself and as I lift from the still image that i see myself as, who is it that I could become? This was good.
So who are you now?
Its a very ironic time we live in. We want nice things, we want a well functioning society we want order, but then it’s hard for us to accept it. Some of the most boring jobs are vital to a good society. I agree with people, I myself struggle with the same thing, I hate boring jobs. So it’s a struggle and battle. If we all went and made a lot of money or everyone chased their dream it would be hard on a well functioning society. But at the same time the we all want freedom and creativity. Paradoxical time period we live in. Also, as we further our economy and technology things are becoming easier to consume on a large basis, not to long ago a small house with a few basic items we’re a blessing, now having so many nice things are normal. Again I am on both sides, I love technology and traveling and living a fun life, but at the same time it makes it harder to enjoy a simple life
But there are no boring jobs, hard yeah but not boring. Careers that you think are boring are prolly someones else's dream jobs. For me being a teacher or a lawyer or a nurse is very boring but I know a lot of people that love these things.
@@damanredarnishu5509 like me , I think teaching is one of the greatest jobs .
What is this boring jobs you're talking about?
@@frog6054 Like to some people, assembly line, office work, ect. some people like that, most people don't
Technology is increasingly automating everything
"Believe you can and you’re halfway there.”
-Theodore Roosevelt
Very interesting. Changing career paths can be challenging, however, it may be worth the challenge in the end if you find your new career more fulfilling.
"We must decide what manner of men we wish to be and what calling in life we would follow; and this is the most difficult problem in the world." - That stuck.
ambitions to help others maybe is the best therapy but if this is a low point to be discriminate causes sometimes dispoints in ours movement so you are the inspiration to come on to learn from the first from the start good bless you in every area
This is a great talk. Thank you Sharon so much. I am currently really struggling with a decision to take the job or not and I just don't know what's the right answer.
Hi Natasha🌺 If you did, how did you decide? What helped you?
A wonderful presentation and you beautifully explained it! You gave me a different perspective to my understanding to the vision to Career and the truth. Highly appreciated!
8:30 explains everything
“Education is cheap; experience is expensive.”- Robert Kiyosaki
This talk was my life raft in a sea of indecision of which one of two jobs that I am applying to now, that show interest in hiring me possibly.
Which did you choose in the end? I'm in a similar situation now myself hahah
Me too
Self awareness is super important to surpass the biases.
Passion is an emotion. It changes, stop saying passion will fulfill you blablabla
I can't agree more !!!
So...change with it 😎🔥😱
It's also a noun. A thing you find energizing. A topic/activity/skill you focus on easily and naturally. The word implies a long term and built-in relationship with whatever it is. So I get what you mean... But.. Yeah... You're saying dig deeper to things that transcends that beginner's high you get when you decide to learn, say watercolors. Now you're in art school and hate painting but can't admit it to yourself. Lol.
Disagree!
Passion is the HOW you do things
fulfilment is also an emotion lol
My takes away :
1. Engagement at work place is very important.
2. Design thinking is a good approach
3. Discover self
4. Career Identity ( What you wish to be)
5. Alignment with calling in life.
This is a well structured invitation for self reflection. However, if you're looking for a quick fix with immediate career solution, something that involves a list of things to follow. This is NOT it.
The video is quite resourceful if you're looking to truly self reflect about the state of 'you' that best matches your social/outside world. Draw an understanding of where your idea of 'self' is, in the social context of life. Following which deciding on a social identity that you feel best corresponds with the 'truest' idea of self-personification. Then comes the job longevity/security... its well worth watching the first 12:26 of it :P
The problem with me is that i am low confident and fearful and despite want to be successful, my friends, collegues and senior are way confident about my potential rather than myself, that i would reach to greater extent and become successful. So, i want to be more confident and still wanna be successful and wanna have last try of my life so inorder to prove my self that i am way more than the worth and become confident.
my passion is to earn a live-able wage working
Have you ever considered becoming a friar?
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Having freedom to pursue what's personally meaningful. '
Great point that most people don't take the time to figure out who they are before making a decision of what they want to be. Unfortunately I see this quite a bit with those I coach.
Love the message and she is a good speaker. I have spent a lot of time working on people's careers and identity is very important.
Own your story, don't let others write it for you - stans out
Thanks for your advice.😊
14/03/2023
The Psychology of Career Decisions | Sharon Belden Castonguay
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I agree somewhat
In healthcare we all develop tough skin and become a little tougher
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I'm here after attending her course on coursera....and it's THE best course I've ever attended in my life
What course?
@@linahol6067 career decisions: from insight to impact on coursera
One day ur In school asking can you use the toilet and the next day they ask what you wanto do for the rest of ur life 🤔
Wtf
This has been a very nice Ted Talk, in my opinion.
Great advice
Learned a lot
Thanks for your wonderful talk
Also be receptive to the idea of a 'calling' - like being advised from the voice within. “… make ye a mighty effort, and choose for yourselves a noble goal.” - Writings of Abdu’l-Baha, Baha'i Faith
Francis Mausley yes...that inner voice is why I’m pursuing my masters in professional counseling...at 52 years old 👌🔥❤️
@@MrsBrown-fw7zr Excellent! I too got my advanced degrees as an elder & still am thinking of more. Best Wishes. "Knowledge is as wings to man's life, and a ladder for his ascent." -Abdu’l-Baha
"Own your story"🙌🏾🙌🏾
Own your story dont let others to write it .... that line
Thank you!
Thank you very much for this inspirational talk, graduated last year and landed on a job , but last month I chose to quit for the well known “lack of passion/not for me” reason, the job wasn’t directly related to my major and for what I know, most of my friends went to phds , which is the popular option…… I should be booking appointments for career / mental health consultations … Sometimes It’s just really hard to figure things out myself , no matter how rational you think you are… often you’re not.
Have you ever considered becoming a friar?
Great Advise🤗🤗
Here is a method I use to choose a career---used it young and now middle age and it worked both times. A few weeks ago I told my subscribers how to know if it is time to change careers or just a venue in the one you have. So now you know you have to change careers completely. What do you do? How do you decide? In a nutshell I advised to first list all sectors of work fields. IE Medical, social work, law enforcement, business, technology, trades. That gives you the general interest of where you want to be. For example--all business for me is out. BUT, you may love the art of the deal. Then you list the jobs in that sector. IE trades ---electrician plumber mechanic. Business--marketing, finance, stockbroker. Medical--nurse, doctor, physical therapist. This seems simple but it works. You just narrow down sector then narrow down all jobs in that sector. Then you make your plan how to get there. Most people when they want to change careers just go into panic mode. The formula above makes it simple and stress free to see what you want to do next for forty hours a week. Hope this helps---Charles
Wasted so much in working for something that i don't wanna do. I am 26 now and it's been 4 years since i graduated and 2 years since i left my first job and started preparing for competitive exams. Still not able to figure out what i wanna do. Me being unemployed is putting lot of stress on my parents too. And it scares me that i will never be bale to find what i actually wanna do
Have you ever considered becoming a nun?
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update?
very informative video
Our identity comes from our creator, God. He made us for a purpose. He gave us unique gifts to achieve that purpose.
Just like a manufacturer made a vehicle for a purpose.
I want to be a vet tech and since then I’ve finished my first semester of college but I also have a lot of ideas for books and comics so in my second semester I’m going to take an art class but more recently I’ve started looking into marine biology so I don’t know how to decide between three interesting fields because if I commit the rest of my life to one I’ll have to let the other one’s die and I can’t do that.
same.. i like biology. chemistry too, but i am not that good at it. i also like writing poems and also i think about acting. so basically it´s either natural sciences or art. so i feel u.
Not necessarily you’ll have to commit to one of them to the rest of your life! If I understood you, you like ‘vet tech’ and marine biology, idk if I’m right, but does vet tech has to do with veterinary? Well, if it has, than marine biology and vet tech can deff be connected, you can do a minor, or even double major and work w both intthe future. About your art root, you can totally have that as a side hustle, you can take art calsses to perfection your tecnic and start posting you comics on the internet. Also, you have to have a lot of self-knowledge to see if one of those passions are hobbies or careers, sometimes when you transform smt that you liked and was your hobbie in a career, it can ‘take out the glow of it’, bc yk, when working w smt, even though you’re passionate abt it, it can be stressful sometimes.
So yeah, that’s my advice, but do what’s best for you :) (also, srry for the long text and maybe for my English too, I consider myself fluent -eng is not my native language-, but idk, sometimes I make some mistakes lol)
Sharon you are a great speaker
Ok! Now, this has confused me even more.
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Me too 🤣
Haha
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Excelente orientação!
Amazing talk! And I did not expect myself to chuckle so loudly at the dead old white guy part. Lol
Very informative
Inspiring...thank you
The greater the automated income you can build, the freer you will become. Taking the first step is the hardest, but 5 houses later living off automated income since July 6, 2016. You’ve got to start taking steps to achieve your goal.
Thank you
My passion is making money
I don't even know what to do what to choose for my career... Kindly someone help would really appreciate thank you guys.. Thank you for this broadcast
you're reading this, get that college course you love to prevent regrets in the future. Do not listen to others, they don't know who you really are and they will not spare any seconds, too, to know you. SO, GET THAT COURSE
Thank you, so informative
I go in depth about contracting in the uk tech sector.
I’m struggling with making the decision right now. I’ve just started a full-time job a month ago. Before that, I do coaching kids badminton the evening. That’s why i was looking for a routine job at a daytime. Now, I got it. I got what i thought it would fit for me. Unfortunately, i feel so confused. I didn’t enjoy my full time job. Not happy at all. I feel like I love my coaching job more. I should do the coaching job more serious. Is this just too soon to judge or should I go for the job that i really enjoy and make it better and better?😢
How to find a passion ! What if a person dont know what they love to do😢😢
How can I navigate what I really want to do
I have no idea what to do. I’ve been trying to decide what career path to follow for the past 2-3 years and I’m literally stuck. I’m 24 living at home making enough money to pay rent but that’s it, I feel like I’ve just been waiting and constantly researching careers and trying to figure out what type of person I am but it’s not clear yet. I don’t want to start something until I know that there’s a good chance it’ll be for me. I feel like there’s choice anxiety because of all of the options there are out there. I don’t want to pick something just to find that it’s not for me. Debating on hiring a career counselor now 😅
Girl, you just described me! I’m in the same boat and I’m 26 :/
I hope you find your passion soon!
@@MR-yv5vu I hope you find yours too 😩 it’s so confusing bc I’m constantly like “maybe I should just pick something that contributes to society that I could make my livelihood so I could just start doing something and making more money” but on the other hand I also think to myself “I have the option to live at home with my parents until I figure out and it seems like a lot of other people are living at home and figuring themselves out in their mid twenties so should I just continue doing online research until I figure out a career path that I really wanna pursue?”
The hardest thing to think about for me is thinking about how much time I’m going to spend in the career that I choose. 8 hours a day 5 days a week is a lot with only 2 weeks or so a year of vacation time to see other countries so I want to make sure whatever I’m spending my time doing is something that could allow me to learn a variety of things. I tried community college when I was 20-22 and I changed my major 3x in that short time period so I just stopped going until I could figure it out. It doesn’t help that my parents both have advanced degrees, my dad having a phd and being retired sometimes tries to persuade me to get my bachelors but I don’t want to go into debt when I feel like if I keep looking I could sort through all of the careers out there and find a path where I could make a decent living and teach myself enough about something without a degree. Like Sharon said in her talk, it sucks having everyone around you trying to influence you to take a certain path in life. I don’t know what to do but at this point I’m ready to pick something random and hate my job and my life like everyone else lol
Have you ever considered becoming a nun?
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@@SuperGreatSphinx good idea!!!
You’ll always be never content. There’s a huge gap between those ppl with money and those without. 😢
Thank you ma'am
I've been struggling for yrs now, finding it difficult to know who I am, what I'm made of n what I wanna do😞😞
Have you ever considered becoming a nun?
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The wisdom in this content is remarkably profound. A book with akin insights fostered a major shift in my approach to life. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
My problem is that my decision of future career isn't social. I don't have any friends, my parents don't care who am as long as I'm happy and I don't have any biases. Heck, I would love to wash the floor for the rest of my life if it was paid well. But it's not.
And there's nothing I'm good at that I'm passionate about. I love math, but I struggle with basic examples like subtraction or division (dunno why, I guess I'm just a dummy). I love drawing, but I can't draw, I made zero progress over the years despite me being mesmerized by the process. I love studying, but there's no such profession.
And I'm really good at learning languages. But I will never make it into job, because there's nothing more easy and boring for me than translating. I'd rather go and tinker with my equations.
And so, I think I've been cursed.
Have you ever considered becoming a friar?
@@SuperGreatSphinx I'm not sure if I believe in God, but thank you for option in case nothing else will work out :D
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i never been at plaza i only saw the enterprise from the machine it's not a dream until i know how are the conditions to be part participants to this form lessons
Our education system takes 70% of our exploration tym. By the time we start to discover, tym collapse with responsibilities
One VERY important message missing: Employers do NOT support the "Design Thinking" model. They want someone who has been in the same job for 5/10/15+ years.