🇵🇭 #1 MISTAKE Foreigners make in the Philippines EXPOSED 🇵🇭
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- Опубліковано 21 жов 2024
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If a woman loves you, she will respect that you tell her “no” and that you are financially wise.
True. She will save you money.
@@JasperinthePhilippines You know your stuff. She’s saving me thousands a month!
Exactly a lot of Foreigners have been leading with their wallet in The Philippines for almost 2 decades. I have so many stories but they just don't want to listen.
Super hack: if you insist on building your girlfriend a house, you need them first sign a document granting you irrevocable special power of attorney. No sign? No build. It’s that simple.
Nice!
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Build Relationships...Not all Money Guaranteed!
Talking about AGE APROPRIATE.
A 19yr.old girl with a 60 yr.old White Senior is More than 40 yrs. AGE DIFFERENCE!! The Sexual appetite of that hornygirl does NOT MATCH to the Senior's declined years! He is NOT VISUALLY APPEALING from the girl's eyes to start with!! Cavorting in bed with your Toothless " Grandpa!" is OMG!..although she's Moneyback guarenteed in the Bank.
That's even a Horrible situation to start width!
A 60yr.old man is kinda suited for a 45-55 yr.old Self-rearing widow!
Her kids on her previous relationship might all have families of their own by now..The two seemed to be looking for Longtime relationships and NOT to create Kids,given their age gap.
A 30+yr. AGE DIFFERENCE is a TICKING TIMEBOMB!!
Great video ,be safe
Thx
John’s story is a sad one. As a westerner, never buy a home for her. She will own it and can throw you out anytime she wants.
Another great story sir!
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I paid 500,000 pisos to put my wife's niece, CRYSTAL ANN VASQUEZ, through nursing college after her parents died. She has 0 thanks or respect for us after that . This is a perfect example of the ridiculous premise that all of these bloggers that come here thinking they have found paradise, when in actuality they are still in the "
"HONEYMOON PHASE " of arriving here, The fallacy that all Filipinos are so loving, and accepting of all the foriegners they meet is total rubbish. i spent years helping all the people in my wife's village and extended family and in the end there was no thanks or respect returned . I see all these new bloggers come here and get invited to a ,FIESTA" and think that kind of hospitality extends to all Filipinos. I can tell you this
"BEWARE'", at first you will be treated like you are the second coming of Christ. When you have no more money to give you will be stabbed in the back by all the people you treated well . I helped everyone at first because my wife said , it's good to share and i wanted to be kind, but the kindness is not reciprecated.
A loan is not a loan in the PI.. IT IS A GIVEAWAY. If you loan money to them , you will not ever see it again.
They think we all have a bottomless bank account. Jasper is correct, don't build a house, rent for awhile first and find where you want to be. DONT LOAN TO THESE PEOPLE, . out of 50 or more people we loned to over the years only 2 ever paid us back , and not always the whole loan, BEWARE, BEWARSE, BEWARE!!!!!!!
Thank you for sharing. Sorry to hear that
Everything you said is my experience as well! Too many YT bloggers are promoting the Phillies as a men's paradise because it makes them a lot of YT money. They use young women as clickbait and sell illusions to hordes of old, lonely men in the West. As a foreigner, we are primarily seen as a "walking ATM". Do not expect any compassion from anyone once you run out of money.
Thank you for this. There's a lot more value to me in your comment than the boring, snide video it's attached to.
Yeah, I have a lot of engagement people really care about my channel. That’s why it’s so big and they pour the heart out writing 17 paragraph comments so you’re welcome kiddo
I asked some locals if people in their society are all liars, they said yes. You get used to it. Just have lots of common sense and try a bit of racism, it can save your life.
John actually only had 30K USD and wanted it to last 3 yrs. Very sad story. Thanks for sharing the warning.
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Yeah, staying single here will be a challenge where in the west it is less challenging because you don’t really have a lot of options usually in 2022-23
You nailed it again, Jasper. I love and trust my Filipina. But I do know that things can go south at any time in a relationship. So that's why I didn't buy a lot and build a house like John did. My partner and I "Assumed" a mortgage, a.k.a "Pasalo" for 9.5k PHP / per month. And I'm paying the note every month for 30 years 😊. They are dependent upon me to pay every month. Otherwise tbe property goes back to the bank😂
You see that’s exactly how to play it no matter what your situation is make yourself valuable. You have to be there to pay that 9.5 thousand in his case he was left to go die on the beach. Smart man I appreciate your kind words about my channel lately. 🤝
LOL that's brilliant man!! I used to be a loan officer at a brokerage firm up until the housing bubble popped in 2007. My one-track brain always thought of nothing but how to refi those notes into a lower interest rate & pay off the principal ASAP.
Never once considered keeping one as a means of protection. Still though, the more equity it accumulates over time, the bigger the payday becomes if your woman decides to end things & cash out.
Genius move!!
So she has an incentive to keep you alive for as long as possible. Smart thinking!
You never want to be worth more dead than alive to a woman.
Great strategy ... thanks for dropping gems ...
That's exactly the way to do it,
. Oh okay make sure you get the Filipina/family to sign a let's say a $20k usd 2million pesos debt note, for 30 freaking years...lol😅.. I love that ..now they'll know to keep you alive and well for the next 30 years ..man now I'll add this to my arsenal to defend myself against the unknown over there..
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That's true Jasper. . Sadly this happens when an old man is too trusting. . Money is hard to earn and spending it is very easy. . Money will keep a man on his feet with less headaches. . It is possible to find a good partner in the Philippines, however, take your time and enjoy the process. .
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Moral of the story is... don't simp no matter where you are in the world 🤷🏽
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Old men have to simp when they go to the Phillies for a younger girl....
Guys get this into your kukute.
The only woman that will love you unconditionally in this universe is your own mama.
The sooner you realise this the better.
Hopefully it will stop you from self deleting yourself once she does not want to be with you anymore or she finds another BBL (bigger better deal)
"Nobody cares about a man's struggles. They all just wait at finish line and pick the winners"
Rich Cooper
All you can do is control your money, muscles and mindset.
Facts. Classic that finish line line. Very true. Salute to Rich.
Maybe your MAMA, not mine!!! Mine is prejudice , horrible person who ignored her own grandson, . HE is Philam.
So much extremism on both sides, the truth is the middle. The thinking that everybody is out to screw you is a terrible way to live. I rather lose a few dollars then always have that mindset. It doesnt mean you have be a sucker also. You need to protect yourself. If he was smart he could have had them lease the house back to him while it was being constructed. The real key is that dont have to be a pollyanna, but dont be the other extreme either that nobody will love you.
What you fear in life, you create in life.
@@JamesGreenier i agree
Malnourished is to put it politely. That man was starved, 120 pounds. He was on death's door, if not for Old Dog, who saved his life, genuinely. That girl that did that to him is the incarnate of the devil.
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She is dumb as a box of rocks but smart enough to already date another American who watched their story and went over there to "help her" , LOL.
I think another important point in the story is the girl was very young (19-23, idk). No matter where you are in the world, a young girl who's growing into an adult woman is still learning what she wants in life. It doesn't matter if it's a country where it's taboo or normal for an age gap relationship whether it's a 20yr old with a 40yr old or (in this case) a 20yr old with a 60yr old, the fact is that the younger person doesn't have life experience and really doesn't know what they want yet. They're still in a developmental age where all they've known is school, family and friends their whole life while never having a job, paying bills, providing for children, etc. Dealing with the mental & physical stress of life changes you and your priorities as you age and your health diminishes. That's just reality and someone in their 60's should already know this when trying to entertain the idea of a family with someone in their 20's.
While it might seem like you're providing a way out of poverty or even a genuine love, the real question is; who's going to take care of your family when you die, get ill, or just become to old to take care of things? You're leading the family back in a position of being alone or struggling to support children while trying to find a supplemental income that no longer exists because you handled everything while you were able to. I highly doubt someone in their 60's, with only $50k to their name, is going to be able to setup a stable life for the extremely young family they created when they couldn't even do it on their own before that.
I'm 42 a conscious & frugal person, with a very good size house, no mortgage, no debts, $60k in savings, another $65k invested and it STILL scares me to think that it's not enough. I couldn't imagine taking off to a foreign country and giving someone control over all I've worked for just to get a little nostalgia trip with a 20yr old girl when I turn 60. It's a very short sided view of the future and a selfish way of thinking that will end badly for everyone involved once you're gone. It's probably better just to live there in a rental and enjoy dating a woman in her mid 40's until you're gone.
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I've been in and out of the Phillies for 20+ years and I've seen a lot of bad stuff happening! As a foreigner, many will see us as a walking ATM...Do not expect any compassion once you run out of money. I see too many older guys thinking they can successfully hook up with the younger girls only to run with tails between their legs after the money is gone.
@@JasperinthePhilippines what can I say man...I clawed my way out of poverty just to be looked down on for not having an education, all my family has been dead for many years, I'm consistently grinding my mind and body into an early grave to have nothing to show for it. In a way I think going to a country that's already poor would be more comfortable and familiar to me. I can make money no matter where I am, I've lived the lowest life and currently the most wealthy I'll probably ever get to. I make an okay living but the way things are headed now it's uncertain if it'll even last until I die.
I'm very much considering selling the house and selling off all my "stuff", just cash out and move to the PH with only my investments paying me out every month (which is easily enough to live there). I haven't had a job since May of 2022 and my investments pay enough dividends to live off monthly. I'm broken & beat down at 42, and I'm tired of not knowing if I've done enough or made it far enough to enjoy life yet. My health is good, my mind is good but I panic for fear of my future in the US.
@@garyzies3486 I get that, but what is it like in the Philippines though lol
@@ElioRose Wow bro thank you for sharing very cool
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Adds. Never lead any Filipino or Filipina with money 💰 . Brush off any attempts for somebody trying to size you up regarding money 💰.
You (perjorative) definitely need work while staying in The Philippines 🇵🇭.
Angry Man strongly 💪 suggests to lawyer up there.
Other channels. Myk's Philippine Journey, Black Filipino TV , Philippine Antics, Average Man Unplugged.
Yeah, I have the number one channel in the Philippines
@@JasperinthePhilippines Good 👍 to know 😃
“That’s a wrapola!” 😂
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You are helping a lot of people especially those who haven't gone to the Philippines. Mabuhay!! :))
Yes maam
@@JasperinthePhilippines keep gping, sir! :)
Yes, 100%, people like mee.
@@dennynisevic7848 that's wonderful, Sir!🫡♥🇵🇭
@@FilipinaPaige yes ,i am cooming soon ,hugs from Miami
WHAT DO YOU EXPECT TO A 19YRS OLD YOUNG ADULT AND 60YRS OLD GRANDPA?...THEY JUST USING EACH OTHER.
POOR JOHN,GOD CREATED HIM WITH BRAIN BUT HE NEVER USE IT.AND TO THE YOUNG ADULT,KARMA IS REAL.
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#1 MISTAKE Foreigners make in the Philippines is Marrying the 1st Girl they Meet.
I actually know foreigners who have done this!
So true!
Many have gone that route and failed....you usually don't hear much about failures because they are embarrassing.......
Damn...the Truth Hurts!! Banks don't cash reality checks 😢
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Shocked hearing that incident especially spending all wealth and she manipulated him and abandoned him beach is so worse a human ever do. All you said is so true that exists until now but none comes forward to show up. Appreciated your courage 👏
Yes. I think he had 30,000 and he remodel the house but either way he was kicked out and that’s not how you treat a human being and no amount of. I’m sorry could fix that.
My # 1 UA-camr now. All your videos are true about the Philippines. I will not give someone a house in America, why would I do it in the Philippines.
Some men go to the Philippines 🇵🇭 and lack confidence, so the Filipinas know that and play the game on these westerners.
Thank you so much.
Very true 🎯
They’re thinking with the wrong head .
Another good video Jasper. I remember John’s story so well. Went through all his money and then left out to dry. I also agree with you about he is still being used and its not love. If there is one thing I learned from you and Myk, it’s that I will have emergency funds put back just in case of an medical emergency or need to get back home. Keep educating men and doing what you do on telling the truth.
Yeah bro I mean he has twins so I understand sending the money but if somebody put me outside to die after I spent my life savings, there’s no amount of saying sorry or anything that you could ever do to get anything but just a check for those children every month
@@JasperinthePhilippines yes I agree with you there. There is nothing a person could say after that to get me back in their life. Like you I would send support for my kids but thats all.
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Telling the truth is often not as profitable compared to those who promote the Phillies as a retirees paradise. The land of a million smiles has turned out to be pure hell for many!
@@garyzies3486 A fool and his wealth are soon easily parted.
I live by the mantra that if you're going to play a game, first learn the rules. If you're going to play the mating game, then learn the rules.
That’s a redpill for sure. I just wish men learned the truth about women earlier in life because it’s a lot easier to recover when you’re still young enough to start over. You’re a smart man. Learning from other people’s mistakes is a lot easier than making those mistakes yourself. Thanks for giving us the heads up. Someone needed to hear this message.
Yes sir
It doesn't matter if it's a young woman with an older man or if they are the same age. The odds are if the man runs out of money he will get kicked to the curb. This is something that a lot of people don't like to hear but that doesn't make it untrue.
Absolutely, however, the older men will be discarded quickly and more viciously in my personal opinion
@@JasperinthePhilippines I'd agree, my main point is don't trust anyone to much. A person can have a significant other and love them but always and I mean always keep one hand on your wallet. This is good advice no matter where you live.
Yeah, I mean I’m an older guy I’m not exempt from this and talking down to anyone. I’ll be 47 in October but yeah just be careful and don’t donate your life savings to anyone.
@@JasperinthePhilippines in some cases with the help of a hitman.
Nicely explained jasp
Thanks bro
Geezer you're brutal honesty is great thank you
Yes sir
I'm filipina and i'm agree with you ..be wise . A lot of gold digger
Yes ma’am
I was given a sage piece of advice from an old ex-pat...when it comes to real estate or relationships...rent, don't buy
Good advice
Excellent stuff Jasper keep it coming always sound advice
Salamat
Great video Jasper! I’ll be earning about $800 a month by moving to the Philippines because I won’t be getting married nor will I be dating anyone for at least the first couple years. If I do date someone, on a scale from 1 to 10 she needs to be a 50 and she must be a childless orphan without family, or she must be a childless woman who is either a doctor, lawyer, nurse, business owner, or a daughter of a multimillionaire crooked politician. Those are standards and I’m sticking to them.
Lol.
Just found your channel. Dropping cold hard facts. Good stuff.
Thank you my friend. 🤝
There are unlimited cases of this kind of stories since I started going back and forth to The Philippines since 2008 from the UK. In 2014 One old White American dude probably with alcohol addiction dude accosted me and my ex Filipina girlfriend in the mall in Cebu begging me for money 💰. I was embarrassed for him and gave him money he was passive aggressive determined for some money saying he is hungry so i just gave him 500 peso.
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@@JasperinthePhilippines It's crazy bro, lots of sad stories like this in The Philippines.
AT LEAST THE COCONUTS DIDENT BURN 🥥🔥🥥🔥🥥🔥🤣😂🤣😂
Lol
I feel sorry for that guy, but, yes
Don’t use all your savings like he did. I will remember all these points you made. Ty Really enjoyed watching.
Thank you.
Great content Jasper!
Salamat
So dumb. I don't understand why foreign men keep falling for that
Absolutely insane and a definite cautionary tale I needed to shine a light on.
It's encoded in our genes to be attracted to fertile women.
For some men (a lot of men?) it is difficult to overcome that hard-wiring.
Those young whipper snappers have the ASSets to manipulate any wise old man with best intentions :-) In the West, they call 'em "dirty old men".
Great overview of how things have always (repeat ALWAYS) been there. I lived there for 7 yrs (long ago and far away) but all the rules and regulations haven't change. Foreigners can't own a business, land, house without ALOT of paperwork, money, time, money, lawyers, money, research and did I say MONEY? When I have met guys here in US, they love telling me how they going to move there, bring/marry their gf and buy a farm, build a house and live like a king. When I try to say wellllll actually you can't I get a crazy look like "Old man, you have no idea what you're talking about". I just shake my head and wait to hear all of the ugly stories about living there and how people want MONEY to do this or that and I can't own a house blah blah blah. I was married 45yrs and lost my wife in Oct last year (2022). We had talked seriously of moving there, living near the beach but she is the one who said no. She was worried about medical for me, for robbery of me, for familial leaches coming to stay. You get the drift. Sorry I get long winded on this subject and when people just don't want to listen when you try give them good advice.
When I say long ago, we left in 1985, same rules as I said.
Boss
@eddale, Spot on Correct! That's why since 2008 I have never got caught up all in the social and legal matrix of The Philippines except once I almost married my ex gf😂😅. I quickly learned to just come for my vacations in Paradise Islands of The Philippines for the hospitality and travel adventures and go home stress free.
Not only they put him out, I remember in an interview of him they were trying to deport him! I have no problem an older guy being with a younger woman for good times, ("Bar Girl") but for a serious relationship. Someone closer to your age . 10-15 years max. Especially as you grow older. She will not understand the physical and mental changes you are going through because you are old and she is young. There are exceptions such as a vlogger I watch she is 40 years younger than her husband in the PI. They have been married 15 years. You can see they care, patience and love she has for him. Anyway thanks for another good video Jasper my boy. See you in the next live.
Damn bro, I forgot about that you’re right, they really did him ice cold. Deported! Wow
That’s a very sad story to hear. I really don’t understand why women do this so much. This is exactly why I refuse to do anything with someone if I see even one red flag 🚩. Use your brain not your little head 😅
Ya. Imagine how many times has happened and it wasn’t reported on a big UA-cam channel. Crazy
Remember, the girls are very good at manipulating that "little head" lol!
I do not intend to buy any property in the Philippines, never trust Filipinos they're scammers, good for him he's so stupid, I learn from others mistake.
@@garyzies3486 They are survival mode or its just what their culture is.
so if a mans 40 in the same situation are we saying its likely the same thing?
I could see avoiding a relationship if its all just a payday, you could just do P4P and skip the fakeness, though I would never pay for it.
I still hold out for a family and children, but I would never do that with a woman over 26.
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@@JasperinthePhilippines you said you're 47, would you say the ladies would only stick with you because of the cash if they're in the 18 to 25 age range?
That's a great topic. Keep up the good work. What's the name of that condo and location?
Gramercy?
@@JasperinthePhilippines Thanks!
agree, don`t do that in the philippines or anywhere else. vietnam, colombia, thailand, brazil, ANYWHERE
Anywhere in the world really
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Ex-Pat John needed mental/psychological counseling ... He just didn't get it .... 😮💨😮💨
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😂that’s a red flag a 19 yr old loving a 60 yr old 😂😂😂
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My gf is 40…I’m 57 and I couldn’t imagine dating anyone any younger.
Nice!
I think ex-pat John went thru 'three 18 year olds' Filipinas; the final Filipina cleaned him out after getting pregnant with twins and he spent all his money her family.
I remember in his first-ever video, John was already complaining that 2 very young Filipinas had screwed him over, but he was still good financially because the young Filipinas were college girls, and were just using him for new phones and dumb small stuff, and the 2 Filipinas were smart enough that they did not want to get knocked up by 60-year-old guy.
But he did not learn his lesson and kept going after young Filipinas; he had plenty of warnings, but he just wanted to be with a very young Filipina under 21.
The final 18 year old was a super poor Filipina, more desperate and not college educated.
Wow
He'd be dead if it wasn't for the expats raising money for his butt to get back to the US. That idiot was pussy whipped all the way to the end. Last I heard is that he's waiting for his Social Security to kick in so he can go back and repeat his stunts....LOL
Thats just facts,if u gona simp on a girl then thats the situation u gona end up..scary..so be smart on your choices and save up..
Thanks
Right on, Jasper…!
Yes sir
Brother right on. Great videos and Advice warnings on this topic.
Thanks Mike
John actually had 30kUSD around 1.67mil pesos that he thought would last him 4 years until SS kicked in at 62. A foolish plan. He didn't build a house, maybe renovated an existing one but did provide a "loan" that couldn't be paid back to a family member. Another classic mistake. Then to top it off, the twins came along. What a disaster. There's definitely some cognitive issues with him whether caused by the stroke he had or perhaps even prior.
Yeah whatever it was I heard I got the story wrong but he blew his 30,000 pesos and was discarded
No such thing as a loan 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@JasperinthePhilippines Absolutely a loan is almost always a gift there
Brotherman! 🙌🏻 Love your content!
Thank you James
JOHN...was NOT a typically functional person. Although he isn't the only one
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Thanks Bro, another great tale!!
Tale? Lol
True narrative or story!! Holla!! Lol
I seriously caution anyone coming here to not need an income once you arrive. Either through personal wealth or a solid pension. The risks of failure are pretty high because there aren't very many options available to foreigners and the YT market is kind of flooded.
Facts.
It’s hard work
@PhillyWilly in the Philippines but we’re making it happen you could easily do it
Just because they are together does not mean they are dating. They are sampling each other - no mystery there. LOL.
Lol
I'll be coming to the Philippines in the fall. I'll rent.
All my savings will remain in Canada. She won't know about it.
My pensions will be over $5k CAD a month. Those go into my bank in Canada. She won't know how much my pensions pay me.
I'll withdraw as much as needed to have a nice place, eat and drink well, maybe a tricycle or a tiny van and not too much more.
All she needs to know is that I can afford us a very good lifestyle and a bit more.
She'll get enough for a house and a lifetime pension of around $800 CAD a month for life. She won't find out about that until I'm gone because that knowledge could shorten my life.
Ok ok 👍
hard facts you gotta have a plan and a plan of escape
Facts 🎯
Wow! That building and views are very nice.
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I think the outcome would have been the same if he had been 30 or 40. The important factor was he got broke and could not support her, their kids and her family.
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Once you're broke, you're NOTHING...regardless of age or attractiveness. You are expected to be the "walking ATM", nothing more and nothing less!
Not sure if you're accurate about John. From what I saw, John met a girl who he had a baby with and they struggled together. They were both homeless and poor. And she wasn't attractive. Correct?
Was that the story that I told? Lol
@@JasperinthePhilippines Did you say his young filipina kicked him out of the house? Was that a prior filipina? Or his current one, the one he has kids with?
@@geostruth9115 current one
@@JasperinthePhilippines did she kick herself out of the house too?? Cause she was homeless with kids. And bro..........she is not pretty at all in my opinion.
This is the video you guys should take personal and LISTEN TO THIS MAN
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Everything that John did was wrong and the most annoying part of that story is that he's still with the girl....
True chubby
His girl is already dating another American who watched their story and went over there to "help her"....lol
What I learned working in the corporate world which I used and still using for my personal finance is before you get into big investment, expense or decision what is the impact on you if it does not work. What is your exit strategy. Use your logic and not emotion when making a decision.
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You have lots of good financial advice for your listeners.👌🏼
Salamat
well done Jasper you are on point. I mean its common sense, you NEVER buy a home and put it in the ladies name, otherwise she owns it, not you, but YOU are still the one that has to pay. Be real with yourself, if she is young and beautiful and u are close to your expiry date, there is a reason and it aint your sparkling personality lol...
Exactly leave yourself some value if you’re relied on to pay the rent and for food every month you still have some value. If you purchase a home for her and start a business for her, you essentially have no value don’t be delusional and think that she doesn’t really want to sleep with a 24 year old Filipino or foreigner
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Thank you my friend I really appreciate it
You are absolutely right. The problem with most westerners to include myself. We are too trusting, and we don't ask enough questions. These men are so afraid that these women are going to get mad and leave them. These scammers have learned to lie, and lie very convincingly. Strippers in the US are notorious for this. I use to fall for that. "Love you long time!" If you want to know if you can trust anybody with money start them off with a very small budget. If they can stay within that budget or less for the first few months to a year. Then increase the budget for by like 20%. Make them prove to you that they can be trusted. Here in the US. My father had that mentality that he would take the check and give it to his girl friend that he was with for 15 years to pay the bills and give himself an allowance. She ended up robbing him blind to pay for her daughters education.
Damn
Wow! Stunning & gorgeous building right there! 👍🏢🏨 😊
Yes it is.
!st mistake is buying a house and lot once you pay for the house she'll kick you out I do not trust Filipina ladies its all about money, you also take her family, cousins, not me.
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Thanks ❤
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I was also a 60 year old man dating a 19 year old. Many years later and we couldn't be happier. Maybe you should consider it later in life 😂
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Retirment is not an AGE its a Financial Number CHRIS HOGAN
I heard about that John guy I think he has a kid with her as well .
Ya twins I think.
I agree about the # not age
Yes you're right, foreigners can't own property here in the Philippines..I own a house and lot in my own expense.. It's not my type to ask anything..
Wow you are very rich what area is your house
@@JasperinthePhilippines Zamboanga Sibugay sir, I'm just a government employee
Wow danger for foreigner ma’am
@@JasperinthePhilippines not really
Ok ok ma’am. I visit
Are you paying 500 pesos or usd for the rent in that place ? Cause 500 pesos a month is hard to believe
535 usd
You people looking for love or relationship in the Philippines or Mexico. Think with your head the one on your shoulders. They look at you as the walking money tree. They love your money not you.
How is this any different than the west?...except in the west, a judge determines the outcome if it doesn't workout...99% of the time, the man gets hammered.
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Can't foreigners buy a condominium in their own name .This being the only real estate a foreigner can buy??
Yes dot
Sir
I really like all those inside pools you are showing during this video.
Yes so nice
I am sure “expat John” will move back as soon as he starts collecting Social Security, and with that income stream the family will welcome back again as a beloved family member. If so, and if he has learned anything, he should immediately take his girl and kids and move far away from the family.
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The girl is already dating another American! If Expat John returns, he'll be headed for another disaster!
is what happen when you’re old man with younger woman. she want your money. they don’t love you. but if you married to woman about the same age. you are good.
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i like when you saying sana all !!! very nice
Sana all
Sounds like common sense. Obviously these men have more money than sense and Super egos.
The power of the pootang has failed,robbed, and killed many arrogant men.
Stay humble, look poor, be respectful.
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Assume every single woman you meet is looking for a provider and plan accordingly. Not always true but it prepares you for the worst case. You ARE the ATM LOL
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Foreigners can NOT own land most all countries BUT they CAN own the building which is another way. So building your name with bank mortgage gives you control and giving LAND for the house to your partner shows trust and true intent. Just a thought.
You can build the building and own it but it's the one who owns the land that controls who gets to stay in the building and on the land ;-)
@@garyzies3486 Yes land also needs to be mortgage and building owner should be able to charge rent for occupants. Land owner could charge rent for building so would be a wash for partner to stay in the building. Still just a thought.
I am older but learned early NOT to be involved any female under 27 but that is me.
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It was not a bad idea for expat John to have built house for his children mom. He have to put them in good condition but he was not smart in the process. First he should have married her and move to another island with her and refrain from given the family money. You can help them with small amount of money. Before you can build a house for a woman make sure she love you and she must have a very good heart
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The only family I’m saving is my wallet Family. Just be Hugh Hefner with those girls guys, don’t be a fool.
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I am glad i am an american 😂woman moving to the Philippines. Being man over there is hard!
Wow ma’am!
Where in the Philippines will you move?
Hey Jasper - can you give us a few pointers on how to find a nice place like where you are? Im thinking of coming over for 3 months and would love to rent a place there thanks
If you have several thousand a month to spend, you can live anywhere you like in the PI.MAKATI OR BCG is the place to look. HAPPY HUNTING!!!! 500 a month will get you a nice apartment.
Facebook groups Bro
@user-fk8wm4gm8v thanks I like the area been there already and that budget works fine for me
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Luv ur story Hahahha play him like fiddle I see this all day I anit mad at cha 😂
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Where did this happen? Unless the land or house is under majority ownership of a Filipino or three the house can't even be built.
The Filipino Pea had a video about the legalities of all that.
Better and safer just to rent.
Duma I think
It seems that you trying to look after the older expats to keep them from getting taken advantage of. My Filipina wife of 33 years and I are both retired. We plan on coming to the PI in Nov to see if we will like it. I agree with the 25yr age difference, we have a 9yr age difference. We are looking at Makati or the Dasmarinas area that way we are close to hospitals and the VA.
Very nice phil. Yeah I’m trying to help out even though I have a harsh delivery.
Where are you at in the video? What condo unit are you in? Where in PH?
Makati
@PhillyWilly in the Philippines yeah I’m such a huge star now I better not give it out but you know what Guys you twisted my arm. Knightsbridge. Makati sir yes sir 🫡
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@phillywillyWatchMyContent NO, I just loved the condo/view. I am planning a move to PH myself. I was looking for a place to start my journey.
Telling the truth is very helpful. Hope people listen to you.
Yes sir
That's a crazy story about John. With $54k, I'd only be comfortable going there and living for 2 years while I worked on a personal project. The minimum standard I would be comfortable with is owning 2x condo rentals with a hired property manager back in the states that brings in 50% income over living expenses and an added savings account. Even better is adding passive investment income. Always have an out.
Yeah I think it was 30 K actually someone said after all but yeah either way he spent a fortune on a house and a business and got put out
@@JasperinthePhilippines It's living proof of another video I saw about not getting Epstein'd in the philippins: Don't make yourself worth more dead than alive. Don't structure business deals where you pay out up front if you're not getting everything you're paying for at the same time.
Thanks so much for your content!
Respectfully expat John went out bad.. That girl wasn't even pretty she has missing Front Teeth, and the worst part is he's talking about getting back with her when he comes back to the Philippines. SMH
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I bought a condominium put in 100% my name. I dont know why men take such a risk with their emotions because that like going in the deep waters with a beautiful mermaid.
Yes foreigners can own condos not houses
You can certainly buy a Condo and own it. However, you can never own the land that it's built on. You will still pay arbitrary condo fees, maintenance etc. At least you can easily sell it once you get tired of living there.
@@garyzies3486 The fees are worth the squeeze than to be allowing the emotions of a woman dictate your investment as what can happen will happen. Besides, I absolutely love the condo resort I purchased and loves the security and amenities. Also owning a condo makes its a great retreat from the United States and offers a base for traveling to other Asian countries. I can also rent the condo out or just hold it for appreciation and sell it and double or triple my investment. I love the Philippines more than a relationship with a potential woman. Protect yourself guys and when a woman knows you have no need for her, that's when she can decide to stay or hike. As far as renting goes, I still recommend renting in the Philippines too. In fact, I was renting from within the same complex before I bought a unit. Its best to learn as much as you can before buying, and I bought a foreclosed unit at extremely affordable price. But as far as fall in love and build a house for a woman, she better be tested and pregnant with my child before I would ever consider buying a house for her.
@@halfunkbass2966 I couldn't agree more.
Advice my first time in Phils 1983, last visit 2008, I was Navy when subic had thousands of girls come into town when the Carrier and support ships came to town, IN Phils you call the shots, you have the money , no married women, no women with kids, no poor family, shoot high as a good pension is = to Phils doctor pay,
Yea sir
But,but,but "age is just a number" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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The only number that REALLY matters is the one in your bank account!
What building is this?
I’m a famous UA-camr have some respect
all the girl and her family care about is that you have money.
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No money, no honey....haven't you heard?
Jasper what channel can we view this story ?
Old dog New tricks
I wish I could have seen your video before I got married and bought my land. 😮
Oh man!!!