SETTLING ? BEING HONEST WITH GOD , JEALOUSY AND THE “ DATING LIST” | WIFE TALK FT
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- Опубліковано 13 вер 2024
- Hey Fam
Today I sit with my friend and we chat all things dating in your late 20’s and 30’s.
Let me know your thoughts about this conversation in the comments and you can also follow her on UA-cam and Instagram
#bulimakhubo #wifetalk #Refine
10:49 “He is everything I needed but nothing I could have prayed for, because I wouldn’t have known how to pray for this particular person” 🙌🏼
So true yea that statement is wow. Sometimes God Grace for our lives is so big as we keep praying God answer me answer me . But he knows wat he has planned for u , ur prayers can’t even comprehend
I felt that
POWERFUL!!!!!
"Don't miss your season because you're lazy" PRAY ❤🙌🏽
"Don't choose someone who will cost you your eternity" I loved that 👌
LOVED THAT
Powerful indeed🔥🙌
I love that as well
"eternity is personal, don't choose someone who will cost you your eternity" that hit different
I feel like you always get the right people for each topic. May The Holy Spirit continue to guide you sis❤❤
I am a 22-year-old woman, thank you for pouring into me and highlighting the important things to consider before I start praying for a partner.
“It is what your heart speaks, that your hands give”. That curing jealousy with just keeping it moving spirit. It’s a whole lot. So much unlearning unlocked.
I loved every part of this. I love how Buli said that sometimes Christians compromise to accommodate people or for them to have access to us. This notion is so hard not to notice especially in the entertainment industry. I love Buli's solid grounding on her faith! and Mabocie girl please invite me to your singles event. I have always been timid to put myself out there like that. Blessings ladies
I can relate on that jealousy part so much! My best friend recently got married. I remember the day before I had some last minute tasks to do for the wedding day: I was so angry. Luckily I caught myself because I knew that wasn't the energy I'd want on the day. Lol, I remember driving and just praying that God will take away that feeling and replace it with the actual joy I have because my best friend was getting married! And it was such an exciting time. Next morning when I drove to the venue, I was so joyous. I didn't have any of those other feelings. I think its so important to acknowledge your feelings and pray through it and give God the opportunity to intervene
“Don’t cure Jealousy with service” 🙌🏾
“Don’t miss your season because you are lazy”, Pray..❤️ thanks ladies, powerful words.
The wisdom God has given you Buli… unmeasurable. We thank God for using you to share your platform with us. We continue to learn 🙏🏾❤️💯
"Once you desire you prepare your heart to receive" ❤️🥰❤️🥰 thank you so much for this Sisi Bulie💚💚
This episode is speaking to me right now .thank you Holly spirit for directing me to this conversation. I needed to hear this.🙏🙏🙏
I love how Buli is true to self and so authentic. I’m married and this was a master class to be better in my home. Thoroughly enjoyed this talk. Thank you.
No doubt this was created for me. On a fast and i prayed for God's counsel concerning my desires for marriage and this was the first video in my feed...thank you ladies for being God's vessels.
Also only discovered Busi's channel over the weekend and i subscribed immediately.
Bless you sis❤ thank you
As a lady in her mid twenties desiring marriage, I learned so much from your experiences and some things you shared that you might not think "were that deep".
Love Busi❤
Lovely chat. Ndimile kule yam' ethi akukho utoo picky. Haibo. That isn't a real thing.
I remember saying to God if it happens its okay and if it doesnt its still okay and told myself i wana concentrate on God alone...i was at peace and celibate for 6years faithfully so then on the 7th year i got married. God is faithful.
Beautiful Godly friendships that pour so much wisdom into the rest of us. Thank you❤
This was needed 🤍 Thank you for your obedience ❤. I also wanna say I love how Sis Buli gives attention to everyone when they speak like she listens. That's what I'm also learning to do, listen fully when people speak and not to be quick to answer. God bless you ✝️
So true. What a blessing to the kingdom ahe is
@@maboocie True Sis Busi and also you too what a blessing you're to the Kingdom of God ✝️
Not me wild opening my eyes to the I love you 1st part 😄 yet im like yes girls 😄❤️
Everything that i needed but nothing i could have prayed for. Yhu! That's a word 👏
This was so good! Thank you ladies!
I have been saying woooow throughout the conversation,what a healing conversation ❤❤
The pink and orange look so good on you guys 🥹
As always Fire episodes. Love the consistency
I am one of those who has had a lengthy single season. Almost all my friends are married with kids, and I have been present at each of those seasons in their lives. I must say, for me what has kept me is being planted in a local church, and serving there constantly. Yes now and again you get into your feelings about when will it be your turn, it's not a perfect journey. But one day, I bumped into this scripture that soothed my heart like nothing could, 1 Corinthians 7:32-34 I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife, and his interests are divided. My biggest struggle with friends who got married was that they had other priorities and rightfully so, so that change in dynamic is tricky therefore without noticing, it is serving God that made things easier for me, and that's still the case even now and I love it. Still believing for marriage and I know it's coming. Lovely chat ladies😍
Wooow that's profound ,,,and I think being single gives you time to self introspect and spiritually meditate,build a solid relationship with God and that itself it's a journey on it's own,,,yes we question and wonder when is our turn but rushing the process will only lead into failure and unhappiness,,,let it flow organically,,His time will be beneficial for us
Dats wats also bn keeping me 4 years now. Dat tightness wit God. Hvng visitations,thngz gettn revealed 2 u b4 they evn hppn-bt now i can fl dat i need companionship.
A friend 2 talk 2&hv mutual goals with&build with.
Its nice 2 b married. I just knw it evn b4 i get there. Even da Word says 2 is better than 1. I love how u guys kp talkn abt serving,4 me,its not evn easy 2 hv dat bcoz of da work i do-i barely stay in a place 4 long. So i guess in a way,im not ecn visible 2 da ryt ppl
Woooow very true. Totally I’m at this point in my life where almost all my friends are married and God reminded me that Daughter serve, remember your first deeds, do not stop to appear. And very true, the local church, my pastors and youth ministries and cells have kept me coz 2-3 times when you are low, it has made realised how quickly one can fall away
It is an honour
Sometimes we're people pleasers more than God pleasers
jo! God has been so good to me, so grateful for my husband too "he is everything I need and needed but nothing i could have prayed for".
Rewatching episodes ngoba we miss your content
Your Channel is excellent and wish everyone could listen to these talks. These conversations are extremely necessary. Thank You Buli. 🌻
🥹❤️ thank you ❤️
I loves this and I needed this 😢❤
I honestly loved this conversation. I live how it's super relatable ❤
I’d like to suggest a video on the struggles of past traumas/daddy issues and how one should or rather try to navigate life whilst still having the desire of marriage because I believe we sometimes block things or people because of our past🙏🏽
Ohhh this is Good ❤️ noted
I would love this. My daddy issues have seen me avoid relationships and block potentials.
Really enjoyed this video omg!!🥰❤️
LOVED this!!!
This video couldn’t have come at a better time. I’ve been asking God sooo many questions regarding this aspect of my life and I got so many answers from this video, especially in terms of the standards that I have and should have as a woman approaching her mid-twenties..🥹♥️
Thank you for this, Ladies. 🙏🏾
1.Be equally yoked.
2.Do not choose someone who will cost you your eternity.
Thank you so much Buli I needed this ♥️
Yoh this segment was so good. We really need more of these conversations for us people who are still looking.
I’m only 19 but I’m really learning a lot from you guys
❤ This was so powerful. I loved this so much I wanted to keep liking it over and over.
I absolutely love this talk🙌🏾
Talk about perfect timing..Iam in my early thirties and exactly where am at about being single, desiring marriage and praying about it.. So much needed to hear and I've learnt so much hey, thank u a lot for this topic ladies, it was so profound and absolutely eye opening about being single, courting and marriage. God bless your beautiful hearts. ❤️🙏🙌
this is the best video I've ever watched, thankful for the opportunities like these. Hearing from young Christian wives is life changing and motivating. Perfect timing, thank you sisters.
❤️❤️❤️
This is a really beautiful conversation. 💞
Loved this so much❤
I totally agree, sometimes for you it will take praying and fasting. Was me case, I saw how women in my family were successful but weren't getting married. I prayed and I knew something needed to break. I became intentional with declaring Obadiah 1:17. God is surely faithful
Buli, you are so good. I learn so much from your talks 🎉🎉🎉
I loved this so much ❤🥺thank you ladies..
But I’m not shooting my shots 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣.
I also used to say I don’t want abo brother in Church 😅because of the ones I’ve seen; how they have treated women and I was like I don’t want this for myself. I judged the good men in Christ because of the not so good ones I know. Kodwa manje I can’t compromise and I want a man who will be equally yoked nami (a Christian, a man who has a relationship with God, prayerful, kind, etc.)
I have also realised that we can be Christians but not have same values, as you mentioned there are new age Christians and I am not into that mina.
Be clear in your prayers, tell God every detail (desires and fears), he is faithful. Pray you find exactly what you need because He's not a God of compromises either hey sis.
@@sindisessions Amen sis that is so true 💕🙌🏾
Loved every second of this video ❤️
I have BEEN waiting for this one 🥹🙌🏽❤️
“Eternity is personal “ ! I felt it
A lot of wisdom was shared here !!! ❤️ loved this so so much x
Loved this episode
I’ve been dying for Mabocee to be here 🎉❤🎉🎉❤❤❤
I thank the Holy Spirit for placing this topic into your heart❤ and thank you for being obedient to the Holy Spirit😊🎉 You're appreciated
So far from prepared for marriage and the idea of a relationship is actually is so far (still healing) but i am oh so grateful for this, going to pray and maybe ask God what is on my list that needs to be changed - the things i desire that might not align with His.
Also i am definitely in my EARLY 20's!!!🙆♀
wow needed to see this. needed to hear all of it.
Really needed to hear this. Thank you ladies and may God continue to guide you sis Buli as you bring us more topics.
These conversations never miss!!!❤
I enjoyed this chat so much thank you ladies 🙏🏻🙏🏻
❤❤❤ Sisters I never knew I needed.May God continue increasing the spirit of wisdom to you both.
I needed to hear everything that you spoke about on this episode!🥺🤞🏽I'm glad I decided to listen and also take notes❤
Eternity is personal.💫
Thank you for this conversation 🙌🏽👏🏽 So impactful
Funny story. I watched an old episode with y’all just this past Sunday 🥹. Now there’s a new version🙌🏿.
Thank you for this, ladies.❤
maam r u still using justine?
This was so good. Shu!!!! ❤
Definitely looking forward to part 2 ladies, Buli I am glad you are back at this kind of content that attracted me to your chanel🙏😍😘
"Don't miss your season because you are Lazy to Pray" 🙏 🙏
Always learning here in this house. 🌹🌹❤❤🌼🌼
Grateful ❤️
This was so educating and eye opening for us who are still waiting for marriage. Thank you ladies❤❤
15:32 bwahahhaha! The 'he must go to church = equally yoked' kept me single forever guys! LOL! I'm glad you're teaching the younger ladies you're doing an amazing job ladies for real LOL!
Listen ,I know this will be good. My true favourites are here🥰🥰🥰so I liked before watching
Finally sat down and watched this
I've learnt a lot thanks sis B ❤ 😍
It's the same heart for Jesus for me
Just few minutes before I knock off. 💃💃💃lemme finish my day by watching this video😍😍💕🙌
Oeee😍😍😍eternity is personal ❤❤loved that!!!
Loved this conversation so much, totally relatable ❤
Thank you for this conversation ❤
Loved this! Would love part 2 with her to delve into navigating after you have met the person.
Definitely agree to that part 2 topic🙌🏽
This was brilliant. Very challenging🥹
Turning 21 this year and this was so insightful
This was so good and relatable!
Thank you Buli and Busi, single season can be tricky but with the Holy Spirits guidance and allowing oneself to be vulnerable with God through conversations(prayer) yho it can be a beautiful wait
Mmmh great to hear woman think like this…which church is this type found lol?
Great conversation ladies🥰❤️
❤ fire
Please talk about the single and dating season. I am here learning for when I get married. Thank you for speaking life into us. May God continue to using you 🎉.
I watch it twice and took 2 pages of notes.
"He must never compromise on Jesus"
Took note of that ❤✍
I enjoy these so much 😊
Wow ths is def for me. I’m 27 ths august and have never dated. And now I’m at the age my friends are getting married, engaged and all. And I think it’s tricky wen u keeping urself for marriage and u getting to tht impatient stage. But somthing I’m learning about God is his beauty is not in the answers, his beauty is about finding the answer
Relatable, and I’m also turning 27, in December.
Shu ❤️
Woowww so profound , ❤.because im 30 and i have never dated ,had my first and last kisss at 26😢...im at that impatient stage to ,so iv let God guide me to where he wants me and what he wants for me..
@@NirvanaNolundi 🤣🤣🤣yhoooo I haven’t even gotten to the kissing stage or point🤣🤣🤣. Kissing is foreign to me
Awoa ladies 27 is young tlhe. There is so much to do out there other than being some guy's wife. In some cases marriage can even be restricting. Imagine being as young as you are getting an amazing opportunity but you have to stay in your hometown cause you are married. You will be 80 still wondering "what if..."
I just love Maboocie 🥹❤️
20 min in and I’m just like … Thank u Ladies ❤
This is good. Thank you for speaking on this.
I loved this so much.
We definitely need a part 2 🥺
This was very informative thank you Buli❤❤
I loved this ❤️❤️
Please a series on singleness
Really enjoyed this episode 😊❤