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  • Опубліковано 27 лип 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 275

  • @gabriellarodriguez5107
    @gabriellarodriguez5107 Рік тому +47

    Savannah’s hair looks SO GOOD like this!!!

  • @adilenesanchez5715
    @adilenesanchez5715 Рік тому +26

    I personally have tried to read the Bible before but I never understood what I was reading. Now I am a mom to an 18 month old and we’re reading 365 days of Bible stories and prayers every night and not only am I thankful that he’ll grow up with the knowledge unlike I did but I am literally also learning while reading these stories to him ❤

  • @ellafinger1669
    @ellafinger1669 Рік тому +78

    I want nothing more than to sit and have conversations with Josh and Sav they are so fun😂

    • @joshandsav
      @joshandsav  Рік тому +42

      Maybe we can do an episode where we feature you all live!! 👀

    • @hzjohnson1632
      @hzjohnson1632 Рік тому +3

      @@joshandsav YES!!

    • @ninaferrante6189
      @ninaferrante6189 Рік тому

      What about the name Lilianna

    • @_friends3167
      @_friends3167 Рік тому

      @@joshandsav that would be Awesome!💯

  • @AB-ChristianFoster
    @AB-ChristianFoster Рік тому +42

    Team Sav 100% on the draft! Love the podcast! 🥰♥️

  • @Meganhaskinss
    @Meganhaskinss Рік тому +6

    I love your guys conversations so much that I would love a longer podcast, but I’ll take the hour ones as well. I love this podcast!❣️

  • @catmarksclf
    @catmarksclf Рік тому +1

    I love listening to you two chat about life : it's wonderful for such a young couple.
    I am a single parent to a daughter, now 23 years old, and we couldn't be closer if we tried. Sav was on the right track by saying that you should make your kids feel safe and comfortable in their home space and around their parents. One thing I have always done, and still do, is to encourage conversation. When she was a baby and I came home from work, I would ask 'how is my baby? You had a good day with grandma?' There was no answer, of course, then. But when she started at Kindergarten, I continued the questions, adding stuff like 'did you make a new friend today? Did you color or count?' This became such a thing for her to tell me about her day that, by mid Primary school, she was chatting as soon as she came in the car when I picked her up from school, without me even asking anything. You'd be surprised to know what you can learn from these conversations. To this day, at 23 years old, she still tells me about her day. The best thing is, in between all that, I was able to offer advice and guidance without it seeming like any kind of pressure because it seemed like the correct thing to do since she learned that from a baby. Love and a safe environment is key to happy, healthy kids. You guys are on the right track. You'll make mistakes, like we all do, but learn from them, then keep moving forward. Most importantly, continue to keep God as your guide.
    God bless your family 🙏 ❤️

  • @peteimbaha3568
    @peteimbaha3568 Рік тому +6

    I personally believe this Podcasts is the biggest highlight of my entire week every single time...
    I love you guys, feels like I know ya'll for years...
    And the ability to download this and watch it after work in my free time with a light candle on is absolutely phenomenal 🙌 ✨️ 👌

  • @chicalulu4841
    @chicalulu4841 Рік тому +1

    It’s definitely also our favorite thing to watch please 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽I love these podcasts ngl!!
    Also Sav’s hair being in a high ponytail, is literally my favorite thing ever she looks gorgeous 😍😍🥹

  • @mikaylafiedler4042
    @mikaylafiedler4042 Рік тому +1

    I love listening to your podcasts every morning on the way to work and I can relate on so many levels with so many things you guys talk about💗

  • @AmandaHayes_16
    @AmandaHayes_16 Рік тому +3

    I love you guys! I’m in an interracial marriage as well and we are expecting a baby girl 💗 I have been so anxious about it and have already gotten comments on how I will do her hair. idk but hearing you address it makes me feel better. grateful for you guys talking about this stuff

  • @khauhelomotaung8682
    @khauhelomotaung8682 Рік тому +1

    Loving the way you subtly affirmed each other throughout this episode, soooo beautiful! 💖
    Love, from South Africa

  • @emilymckim4740
    @emilymckim4740 Рік тому +12

    I gotta give this win to Sav😂 I LOVE root-beer , you both are so great 👏🏻

  • @waynemiller7692
    @waynemiller7692 Рік тому +7

    I love the podcast , and I would say SAV gets the W this time. Please keep doing what you guys are doing your love and faith always shows through.

  • @melissamejorada5666
    @melissamejorada5666 Рік тому +2

    And I loved the topic you guys talked about. My fiance and I had kid very early on in our relationship and we had 2 boys 9 months apart and it WAS SOOO HARD for us the first couple years but we managed and fought thru obstacles and now we have come so far in our relationship it's incredible

  • @ciasheffer3757
    @ciasheffer3757 Рік тому +2

    LOVE YOUUUU guys!! Your my go-to podcast!

  • @trinitymcclain2496
    @trinitymcclain2496 Рік тому

    I’m biracial as well and my aunt would always show my mom who’s white how to do my hair properly for my texture. I absolutely love the fact that Josh’s family is all in for teaching you and supporting you through aspects of your children that you haven’t learned yet. My family did the same thing. Also as a biracial 18 year old I was always so insecure about my skin color bc I felt like I didn’t fit in with neither black nor white kids so take that as a little boost of help in how to go about making sure your kids know their worth. Absolutely love you guys and your conversations!!!!!!!! God bless you ❤

  • @traceyrebello7713
    @traceyrebello7713 Рік тому +2

    I think your aesthetic is a Hard Working, Godly, young family that knows how to bring it and have fun doing it. Keep it up I so enjoy you both❣️❣️❣️❣️

  • @rachelbrown8205
    @rachelbrown8205 Рік тому +5

    I’m going Sav on this one!! Josh usually has the fire draft, although I was surprised Sav didn’t go for Miranda or Welch’s Strawberry.

  • @tboss3276
    @tboss3276 Рік тому +2

    Wow! Another great podcast! Each week they get better and better. Just an fyi: I also rock with the Raisin Bran. Lol

  • @kylaescobar444
    @kylaescobar444 Рік тому +1

    I have to say sav won this one. The two oranges were what costed you Josh!🤣 this is def my go to podcast love you both🥰❣️

  • @melvinpatillo1091
    @melvinpatillo1091 Рік тому

    The schedule is literally the best decision me and my wife every made. At first we thought it would ruin the passion, but it literally did the opposite and actually made us want to connect more than are already frequent schedule, its done wonders to our overall relationship. Definitely prolonging that honeymoon phase . We also make a point to take a weeks break every month where we are just praying and spending our time in the word. Postpartum i heard lasted for 6 months no connecting. One person told me him and his wife hadn’t did anything for 8 months after have their first child but after 2 child it was only 2 months

  • @lindymbuya5259
    @lindymbuya5259 Рік тому

    Love you guys!! Love watching the podcast!!! You guys are so great! God has blessed you soo deeply and I’m so here for it!🥹❤️🙏🏽✨

  • @deannawilliams6217
    @deannawilliams6217 Рік тому +1

    I definitely enjoyed your podcast cannot wait to hear the next episode next week

  • @Allydavis88
    @Allydavis88 Рік тому

    Love you both so much. I’ve been watching y’all for so long, and it’s so cool to see the Lord work through both of you! Sav 100% on this draft!

  • @kelseyelliott4639
    @kelseyelliott4639 Рік тому +3

    Have to go with Josh! Sprite & orange soda?? That’s a WIN! 😋

  • @laurrrrrr3097
    @laurrrrrr3097 Рік тому +4

    “Hit me up in the morning, I’ll be there” I’m sorry but I laughed a little too hard 🤣

  • @aleshadshay568
    @aleshadshay568 Рік тому

    Haven't missed an episode yet!! Love love love these!
    P.s. Josh you guys are rocking our socks off too with the great topics and just flowing!! 😂😂😂
    As always, Sav, you're so pretty boo!

  • @meganellis9386
    @meganellis9386 Рік тому

    I love your podcast so much… ❤❤❤❤ it’s the only one I watch all the way through. Most I get too bored 😂😂😂

  • @melissamejorada5666
    @melissamejorada5666 Рік тому

    I'm loving these long podcasts!

  • @catmarksclf
    @catmarksclf Рік тому

    Yes Sav, it does refer to a flower :
    "Nip it in the bud" meaning to cut the bud before it opens up into a full bloom. Meaning : "to stop something before it gets out of control"

  • @whatlifeisabout
    @whatlifeisabout Рік тому

    I am loving this style of podcast. It is so fresh, honest, funny and mature at the same time. We get to know more of you and to also share alignment of values, meaning of marriage, family, etc. I am 25 and get inspired by you. When I get married, I wanna follow the same marriage values that you share. I love you! You are such beautiful, strong and kind people.
    Also on another note, ABOUT YOU WANTING TO HAVE A BOY...
    There are more girls than boys in the world, and if you think about it, boys gender reveal are indeed rare. I once read that the secret to have a boy is to conceive on the day of your ovulation, preferably not before, cause the girl sperm is slower although survives longer inside the woman body, whereas boy sperm is quicker to move and doesn't live that long, so the ovulation day is perfect to conceive a boy. If you never try you'll never know ahahahah

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart Рік тому +1

    My favorite podcast! Love you both. 🥹🙏🏼💕

  • @bluerose_darielle
    @bluerose_darielle Рік тому +3

    Love this podcast so much. Normally I feel Sav wins the draft because she is always more well rounded but today Josh won by a landslide. His first four were top tier. I would switch Verners for Ginger Ale only because I have never heard of that. Also I’m from Maryland and we call it soda

  • @cheyanndenise4449
    @cheyanndenise4449 Рік тому +1

    So glad I found you guys, this podcast has been a breath of fresh air for me!

    • @joshandsav
      @joshandsav  Рік тому

      We’re so glad you found us!!

  • @FortheLoveofPeople
    @FortheLoveofPeople Рік тому +3

    As soon as Sav said Dr Pepper and Strawberry Fanta she automatically won for me!

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart Рік тому +11

    Savannah looks like a ballerina with that high bun. So pretty! 🩰☺️💕

  • @shanntt2774
    @shanntt2774 Рік тому

    Loving the 1 hour podcasts 💓💓

  • @kaylarevallion1725
    @kaylarevallion1725 Рік тому

    One of my favorite channels to watch ❤

  • @lilahswathwood7562
    @lilahswathwood7562 Рік тому

    I love you guys so much!!! I love how you guys are so open and honest!! I am so excited for baby girl #2 !! I am a freshman girl going in to the real world and I was wondering if you could dive into teen advice in the next pod cast.

  • @jazminlee8073
    @jazminlee8073 Рік тому

    As a child I remember my younger years but I remember the fights my parents had more than the good times. I was raised by my grandparents after I was 4. My parents weren’t around much but when I have children I’m going to change that for them.

  • @irenekile7684
    @irenekile7684 Рік тому

    You guys are hilarious. So much fun to watch!

  • @Theecoxfamily
    @Theecoxfamily Рік тому +12

    I think most women enjoy a scorching/skin burning shower 🤣❤️ love these podcasts & y’all!

  • @maryrain2162
    @maryrain2162 Рік тому +1

    I think your ascetic is GOD FEARING, JOY FULL, LOVING, HUMEROUS, ETC...PEOPLE. I love you guys❣️❣️❣️

  • @jaydamarieeexo
    @jaydamarieeexo Рік тому +2

    it’s me listening in the morning at 6 am & then coming home and rewatching it bc it’s not the same vibe!😩

  • @joshuariggins3571
    @joshuariggins3571 Рік тому

    Yessir Josh I love The Basement with Tim Ross!!!

  • @alisonepp
    @alisonepp Рік тому

    Sav your hair is so cute like this!!

  • @lolaruffin6249
    @lolaruffin6249 Рік тому +1

    When my family moved to CA. I quickly converted to saying soda* My list would be SPRITE, Orange Fanta, A&W root beer, Dr. PEPPER and Cherry Coke* 🤗

  • @tiffaneeroberts1350
    @tiffaneeroberts1350 Рік тому +3

    I don't even drink soda but Sav definitely won!

  • @madisonreynolds9243
    @madisonreynolds9243 Рік тому

    The angle of the cameras the setup is so clean

  • @makaylasaffron4932
    @makaylasaffron4932 Рік тому

    I got married at 20 , was with my husband prior for almost five years .. I feel the same way never was scared or nervous because it truly felt like it was through God .

  • @Gabrielle.Steele
    @Gabrielle.Steele Рік тому +1

    Don’t love savs order of the sodas haha but she definitely wins!!

  • @justalioness
    @justalioness Рік тому

    Love you both! 🫶🏾

  • @victoriaromero4016
    @victoriaromero4016 Рік тому

    If i must say! Sav i love you hair completely up your glowing !❤

  • @jodimarie6298
    @jodimarie6298 Рік тому

    I gotta do with Sav on this draft 💯 but I do gotta agree with Josh on orange fanta! 🍊 That's my favorite 🤍

  • @courtneywebb1658
    @courtneywebb1658 9 місяців тому

    Josh you are so sweet talking to sav

  • @sabrinac6516
    @sabrinac6516 Рік тому +1

    Sav is glowing and so won this draft! Sorry Josh I don’t like orange soda, I can only drink one anymore then that it messes with my throat for some reason!

  • @sanc_livia
    @sanc_livia Рік тому

    Upset the gram✨✨✨🔥🔥🔥I see you Josh.

  • @harleeandcolin7269
    @harleeandcolin7269 Рік тому

    Would love to hear a podcast on long distance relationships and I love the relationship/marriage/ family podcast topics as well! Would also love to hear ones on maintaining mental health and also one on friendships as adults.

    • @joshandsav
      @joshandsav  Рік тому +1

      Tomorrows podcast is on this!!! :)

  • @AshleySampson
    @AshleySampson Рік тому

    Woah! I graduated from SEU! That’s so cool hahaha

  • @juliebang2073
    @juliebang2073 Рік тому +1

    I was gonna say yall drippy but grungey is so true too.. and overall yall just chilll

  • @ChaniceKila
    @ChaniceKila Рік тому +1

    Sav, I love your hair in a bun 😍🤌🏾✨

  • @Stephfleshman17
    @Stephfleshman17 Рік тому

    Sunkist is definitely better than Fanta, but Sav won it for me solely with the Root Beer. I don’t really drink pop so when I do it’s usually only A&W root beer.

  • @LA_PaPi
    @LA_PaPi Рік тому +1

    HI I’m from Cali and we call it Soda!🤘🏿

  • @beautybyjalynnnicole7479
    @beautybyjalynnnicole7479 Рік тому

    I really liked this is podcast!!

  • @Ivy9412
    @Ivy9412 Рік тому

    I agree with Sav’s first choice. Sprite for the win! I love how simple sprite is and it pairs well with a meal. I feel like Coke and Pepsi are too extra to have with anything and are best when drank alone whereas with Sprite you can drink it with food or without. As for root beer? Issa no for me.

  • @DammitD
    @DammitD Рік тому

    Had an amazing time listening

  • @walymarcaraballo7498
    @walymarcaraballo7498 Рік тому +2

    I am crazy for Dr. Pepper so I’m with sav on this one and Dr. Pepper and Root Beer are not the same! 🤭 but I love y’all’s podcast I’m always listening! 🫶🏼

  • @CrystelMckinney
    @CrystelMckinney Рік тому

    Hey Josh and Sav so my parent look like ya and my mom definitely messed up my hair cry😢she did not know what she was doing unfortunately. My daughter has my hair so the mistakes made on me with hair will not happen with her and her hair is so long. I have very curly hair but keep it straight in winter. But love to see this I wish my mom would of asked instead of perming my hair 🤦🏾‍♀️.

  • @Iam_laurenthrasherrr
    @Iam_laurenthrasherrr Рік тому

    Hahahahha the flow of our pants.

  • @taylorwelsh
    @taylorwelsh Рік тому +1

    Sav won this draft by a landslide lol dr pepper and root beer are my 2 faves so I can absolutely say they’re different but similar in a sense. Now CREAM SODA??? That’s a completely different taste, I think the next video should be taste testing pops because what the 😂

  • @BethSchaeffer17
    @BethSchaeffer17 Рік тому +3

    100% can relate to wrestling your kid to get clothes and diapers on😂😂. I'm like why am I sweating trying to get this done?! I have a 3 year old and she still like to play around but generally less work than my 1 year old lol

  • @bkessinger94
    @bkessinger94 Рік тому +1

    Sav 100% win!!!!
    We never co-slept with our daughter. She was in a pack’n’play for 5 weeks and then she was in her own room after that.

  • @asiaroseboro7854
    @asiaroseboro7854 Рік тому +3

    I think I’m team josh on this one, I was going team sav but she lost me on the rootbeer 🥴🤣

  • @harleeandcolin7269
    @harleeandcolin7269 Рік тому

    Have to give it to Josh! Just because I love sprite and ginger ale, and hate dark sodas.

  • @shandalesantana
    @shandalesantana Рік тому +2

    I thought she was talking about her hair being up in a bun. I’ve never seen her hair in bun

  • @lolaruffin6249
    @lolaruffin6249 Рік тому +2

    I also want to ask depending on experiences. Does anyone here remember a soda company named SLICE? or that Minute maid previously sold made sodas? Orange Minute maid, Orange Slice and Orange Fanta all taste the same. In my opinion. ☺️

  • @breannahirby
    @breannahirby Рік тому

    Sav most definitely won! 👏🏻

  • @Janaeferguson
    @Janaeferguson 9 місяців тому

    You guys are so cool!!

  • @daiyahpayentertainments
    @daiyahpayentertainments Рік тому

    Josh won the start up 🆙 🥇 🏆

  • @mialianavlogs605
    @mialianavlogs605 Рік тому +2

    Ooou I can’t wait to listen! 💕 I’d also like to know y’all’s opinion on courtship. Unless there’s a video on that already. -Love, from Nola!

  • @tarasimon3918
    @tarasimon3918 Рік тому

    Sav for the win!!

  • @ashleywhittington9743
    @ashleywhittington9743 Рік тому

    Savannah definitely won pop list!

  • @josephinelatosky3426
    @josephinelatosky3426 Рік тому

    I just love you guys

  • @Tara-xq9ty
    @Tara-xq9ty Рік тому +1

    In my personal opinion, Sav definitely won the draft 🤣😭

  • @myconavasmom
    @myconavasmom Рік тому

    7-up was the only thing I could taste when I had covid, so I love it.

  • @MomentswithHim
    @MomentswithHim Рік тому +1

    For the draft I have to go with Josh 🔥

  • @daniellogan4742
    @daniellogan4742 Рік тому +2

    Josh my guy... you threw away that draft like the warriors losing the finals to a 3-1 comeback 🙃

  • @ZangieDoes
    @ZangieDoes Рік тому +2

    Not to be mean but this is my fav content of all content you guys have ever posted 😭 don’t get me wrong I used to love the other videos but I feel closer to y’all in theseeeeee❤

    • @joshandsav
      @joshandsav  Рік тому +1

      We’re so happy you enjoy them!! We love doing them!!!

  • @azhacole6030
    @azhacole6030 Рік тому

    sav 100% on the draft!!

  • @Meganhaskinss
    @Meganhaskinss Рік тому +1

    No Josh… it gets worse lmaoooo I hate to say it🤣
    Cherish this time cuz you’ll look back in a year and say you miss it🤣❣️

  • @daequonbulger3986
    @daequonbulger3986 Рік тому

    would love to hear you guy’s testimony in a episode!!!

  • @ness8921
    @ness8921 Рік тому +2

    I’m on my third girl right now and I’m done after this. We would’ve loved to have a boy but I’m so good with my 3 girls ❤️🥰

  • @kandijenkins5687
    @kandijenkins5687 Рік тому

    Josh I thought you were going to win this until you got to your #4 and #5. Sav recovered with the root beer and Strawberry Fanta. I’ll call it a tie!
    Though I prefer Pepsi over Coke, and definitely Sprite over 7up.

  • @serenatamayo5993
    @serenatamayo5993 Рік тому

    This one was a great one!
    I give Josh the W for this one. Except the Pepsi, but both orange sodas don’t taste the same and I’m not even an Orange soda type of lady, and Verners I thought was ginger ale lol but ginger ale is bomb!
    People still definitely drink Mountain Dew 🤣🤣

  • @whatlifeisabout
    @whatlifeisabout Рік тому

    Savannah, tell us what subject was behind your online college lessons. I was curious to know! Sending lots of love to you and your beautiful family .

  • @madalisomwale7564
    @madalisomwale7564 Рік тому

    sav definitely won this one

  • @kellyluna7779
    @kellyluna7779 Рік тому

    i love this podcast

  • @jgodfrey94
    @jgodfrey94 Рік тому

    Josh definitely won this one! And Fanta and Sunkist are nowhere near the same

  • @zareakirby7991
    @zareakirby7991 Рік тому

    Team Josh on the draft 🎉

  • @wantay12
    @wantay12 Рік тому

    In New Orleans we call all soda a cold drink...so I would say like ( get me a cold drink) meaning soda