Being Single is Overrated

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  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart Рік тому +58

    I absolutely love my season of singleness. Whether I'm called to a life of singleness or marriage, I'm serving the Lord! My eyes are fixed on Jesus, He is my first love. 🙏🏻❤

  • @veeladyleo7753
    @veeladyleo7753 Рік тому +17

    Being single is not overrated... Its definitely something that people like myself is a space of being content.... Im ok with it... There's alot behind being content with it and lot as to why I'm ok with it

  • @christinadeuschle5049
    @christinadeuschle5049 Рік тому +13

    As a person who’s been in a committed relationship since 19 and planning on getting married - there is absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting to be married or having kids. If you want to be single because you don’t want to be tied down then stay single!

  • @Ricky27812
    @Ricky27812 Рік тому +39

    Being single is awesome 👍🏾

  • @whatlifeisabout
    @whatlifeisabout Рік тому +3

    I am SO loving this new series of podcast. This episode was so amazing. For two times I found myself getting emotional with your points/story. I am 25, my boyfriend is 30 and we have a similar story as you do. He is black, I am white. We met in 2016 and also faced long distance relationship. We plan to get married to buy a home really soon. As Sav, I have never had a serious relationship before, and had never dated a black guy. He had had relationships before but had never dated a white girl before. In the beginning of our relationship, he was the sweetiest guy and I noticed the little details, like opening the door for you, offering you flowers, etc. However, he was also still confused and later I came to know between him and his ex there had been an attempt of reaproximation, so he was still confused.
    I get what Savannah was saying about really liking Josh in the beginning. It also happened with me, not just because you know you have met such a genuine and sweet person but also because women usually get more involved in the beginning than man do. A man thinks whether he likes that girl or not and takes a while to realize to know if he wants to marry her, whereas for us we don't need much time to know if he's the one. In some way, we have a different sense or feeling. Later, I came to know when was the moment he started having feelings for me. He told me it was after one time that we were having an argument and we were walking, and when we stopped by my house and he was about to go to his place, instead of me ignoring him and just enter my building I gave him a silent hug and walked away.
    We also faced long distance relationship and I felt we were also very dependent on each other and unable to be by our own selves. The long distance really strengthened us. At the moment, we are saving to buy a house, live together and marry. But the good thing is that we have a healthy relationship and we love to spend time together as well as we like to spend time alone. We live in the same city, so we get to be with each other more often and the maturing of any relationship is beautiful and comes with time, patience and effort, even before marriage when you know you really want to marry this person. We dream to get married and to have kids and he says divorce will never be an option. I also agree it is so vital to discuss problems within the relationship instead of taking other people's opinions into something they are not experiencing. I love what Sav said about " even if we don't like what our significant did, we still have to love them". Yesterday, me and my boyfriend got into an argument and I so totally did not agree with what he had done but at the end he got to explain his intention behind what happened and even though I was still so indignated ,I still got to understand him, and could not help and stare at him and realize how much I love him. I love how we talk after every argument and make ourselves and our relationship stronger after. We learn with each other and from each other. Coincidence or not, I watch this today and just after our argument yesterday I said to my boyfriend "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger". I just wanted to say I love you guys and that you are an inspiration for me and for a lot of people in terms of relationships, faith, family and life in general. Thank you for talking about these topics. Since the beginning of our relationship, a lot of things have changed until now. We always get to mature and to find happiness within ourselves so that we can share with someone else who we love. Life is beautiful. Don't forget to be happy.
    Sorry if my english is not the best, I am portuguese. I love you guys!!

  • @grace1626
    @grace1626 Рік тому +5

    Started the podcast via Spotify on my way to work, finishing it with the video version…it is so cool that you have both! They are both such a difference experience!

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart Рік тому +13

    This set up is everything! It looks so simple and clean. Love it 💚

  • @mckennagibson
    @mckennagibson Рік тому +1

    Sav I also hate when people do the whole “whatever you say” 😂😂 or anything along those lines

  • @waynenorbreyjr9638
    @waynenorbreyjr9638 Рік тому +24

    I'm definitely single and I'm OK with that. 5 Guys, Chick-fil-A, Red Robin, and Wendy's fries. 👍👍

  • @bluerose_darielle
    @bluerose_darielle Рік тому +9

    Sav definitely won the draft. All four of hers were good picks. I’m saying four because I have never had in n out. She definitely had more of a variety.
    Can y’all do a burger draft next or chicken sandwich??

  • @KayKay.727
    @KayKay.727 Рік тому +5

    My favorite Podcast by my favorite UA-camrs! 💛💛

  • @andreadavis8681
    @andreadavis8681 Рік тому +1

    They call it the “three year itch”. And omg the intrusive thought is soooo relatable!! 😂

  • @breannawisneski3078
    @breannawisneski3078 Рік тому +5

    Set looks perfect without the tree! Josh won the fry bracket!!

  • @emiliatolonen5697
    @emiliatolonen5697 Рік тому +1

    I love your views about marriage and love!! love to see love like this

  • @fortheglory3494
    @fortheglory3494 Рік тому

    Please bring it back! I'm a og and I miss it! But since ur family is growing it should be the domest FAM on the internet!

  • @carleystubbs9660
    @carleystubbs9660 Рік тому +1

    I love you guys so much and these podcasts. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost two years and I’ve been watching y’all before I met my bf. Our relationship is really similar to y’all’s for our values and morals. I love the realness and advice for relationships and life

  • @officialjasmineclarke
    @officialjasmineclarke Рік тому +2

    Factsss Savannah! McDonald’s fries are NOT consistent 😩 I can’t stand it. Also, I choose your list because Chic-fil-A fries are everything 🔥🤤

  • @arx3lsworld38
    @arx3lsworld38 Рік тому

    I just started watching your guy’s podcast, it is really good quality💯

  • @growingglowing9176
    @growingglowing9176 Рік тому +1

    Happy Monday family!! Love you all😘❤️

  • @peteimbaha3568
    @peteimbaha3568 Рік тому

    I love this quality so much ,up tops with the editing really you guys.
    And this podcasts are really soothing for my Soul🤗
    And the green on Sav is so beautiful 😍

  • @gigin430
    @gigin430 Рік тому

    Just got further in the video, and I love the transparency. Tell us the whole truth about marriage! lol I don't want to be ignorant or unpleasantly surprised. My boyfriend and I are dating to marry and it's cool to see that yall's perspective and ours seem like to align. I'm sure the foundation of faith is part of that.

  • @maryrain2162
    @maryrain2162 Рік тому

    Josh...you are so sweet digging through the trash for Sav. I love you guys❣️❣️❣️

  • @samaracuevas5005
    @samaracuevas5005 Рік тому

    I love you guys so much!! I listen to you on Spotify on my way to work but I'm also watching the video this time, your guys facial expressions are great! I am loving these drafts and I have to say Josh won this one for being a potato lover myself 💕

  • @lolaruffin6249
    @lolaruffin6249 Рік тому +1

    Always an interesting conversation. I believe we are all still learning. Savanna you were in Fight or flight mode, when sharing your thoughts toward the end of the podcast. I completely understand wanting to protect yourself an Ri*

  • @lexieavila2900
    @lexieavila2900 Рік тому +1

    Savannah’s pick for sureee! Agree with her that McDonald’s is so hit or miss on their fries! Red Robin and In n Out’s fries are always consistent! And In n Out fries are my Favvvvvv!! Raising canes are delicious toooo 🤤

  • @gigin430
    @gigin430 Рік тому

    Honestly, I agree with Josh on the singleness topic. There are those of us that know we were made to be married; it's a desire that you juts have that you can't help. The concept of marriage with its joys and trials is just appealing to you and you desire it. I'm the same way. ALTHOUGH, God does make and build you in your singleness and you are meant to be content in that season until He joins you to the right person.

  • @zenalofani6202
    @zenalofani6202 Рік тому

    Love the studio

  • @jaydacarlson4832
    @jaydacarlson4832 Рік тому

    ahhh yes perfect timing during my study hall!!!

  • @iamxzavier_
    @iamxzavier_ Рік тому

    Josh I’m gonna have to agree with you on the SINGLENESS IS OVERRATED BECAUSE I’M A LOVER BRO REALEST THING I’VE HEARD IN A MINUTE 👏🏾💯

  • @leahmartinez8883
    @leahmartinez8883 Рік тому +1

    Yallll this draft is hard!! I LOVE Wendy’s fries but then Sav got Red Robin’s!! I’m team both 😂

  • @trinityraff9213
    @trinityraff9213 Рік тому

    From Texas here! In and out is so bad, I wish sav said sum else 😭

  • @abbykatherene7183
    @abbykatherene7183 Рік тому

    I absolutely agree with you about the McDonald’s fries Savannah! Sometimes I’m like, “These are the best fries!” but then other days I’m like “Nope.”

  • @kenswood2.031
    @kenswood2.031 Рік тому +4

    Savanna is like, “I know you would go to hell and back for me.” 😍
    And Josh is like, “No.” 😐
    😂😂😂😂

  • @bonganisikakane5432
    @bonganisikakane5432 Рік тому

    Josh is my fighter - I feel him to the T.
    Being single is overrated. I’ve been on this tip and I thought I was the only one. It’s not a bad thing , like you can flourish on your own but with your partner this is facts😂 39:50

  • @aliqueen1294
    @aliqueen1294 Рік тому

    Favorite podcast hand down! & I think josh won the fry draft!!!

  • @lunachick-61388
    @lunachick-61388 Рік тому

    Yes Wendys bbq from back in the day is top notch idk why they changed it!

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart Рік тому +3

    YUP! Savannah won. I love In & Out fries 🍟😆 But I've also lived in California my whole life 🤣💀

  • @tanyasavrimootoo5808
    @tanyasavrimootoo5808 Рік тому

    love the podcast :) you could paint the wall a dark color so that the chairs would pop more :)

  • @the.nixon.family
    @the.nixon.family Рік тому

    I agree with you Josh, I would for sure eat Chipotle for Brunch, Snack and Dinner! Chipotle is Life 🤤
    The Set looks great without the tree, didn't realize I would love it like that. Minimal look is really nice!
    This draft was for sure both of you guys tied. Surprised you guys didn't add Hooters Big Dipper fries or Curly fries from there or Arby's Curly Fries!

  • @elianacolon3349
    @elianacolon3349 Рік тому

    i don’t know how i would feel if the intro left.. i say “we are back with another VID-E-O” everytime loll 😭

  • @meganellis9386
    @meganellis9386 Рік тому +2

    Keep this podcast going. This is literally the only one I listen to. ❤❤❤❤
    And I agree … Red Robin win. The older I get the more I don’t like McDonald’s fries 🍟 sorry 😂

  • @jrwatson1225
    @jrwatson1225 Рік тому

    The set is good. No changes necessary :)

  • @maggieryines5827
    @maggieryines5827 Рік тому

    NOT IN & OUT😭😭
    McDonald’s for sure 1, in-n-out, whataburger, chick-fil-a, and lastly five guys 🤝🏼🤝🏼
    Love these podcasts, you guys are amazing 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @wandarodriguez7057
    @wandarodriguez7057 Рік тому

    I agree with Josh, 5 guys fries are so good. Sorry Savanna but in/out soggy fries just turn my stomach! 😂😂

  • @Mirwright
    @Mirwright Рік тому +2

    McDonald’s fries are definitely inconsistent, but when they hit THEY HIT😂

  • @morgynkotrla7117
    @morgynkotrla7117 Рік тому

    Y’all need to try Whataburger fries when you come to Texas, you will love it!!!

  • @grace1626
    @grace1626 Рік тому

    Also Savannah wins the fry bracket for me 😂

  • @parisnola2695
    @parisnola2695 Рік тому +1

    I wouldn't say overreacted in a way that's wrong because in my case, I've been single since I was too young because of what I needed to know about the dating world alongside the marriage world and I've heard so many different stories of women and girls being with different people these days.

  • @karenskeepinitreal5952
    @karenskeepinitreal5952 Рік тому

    If you were in a healthy relationship, non-abusive nonviolent, then maybe keeping your problems to yourself, is one thing. But if you’re not in a good relationship and you’re in an abusive relationship and you need help you speak to whoever you need to for advice and guidance. Do not go through that alone or even try to. It’s never OK if someone hit you or hurt you man or woman.

  • @d.brown.
    @d.brown. Рік тому +1

    "God saw that it was not good for man to be alone"

  • @elsaluvsnutella
    @elsaluvsnutella Рік тому

    I think the set looks great, clean and minimal! maybe one plant but that's it

  • @Jess_Kozak
    @Jess_Kozak Рік тому

    Since 2006 I've been single a total of 7 months. I was in a 12 yr relationship that ended in April 2018. When I met my husband in June of 2018 he was a "1 night stand". We kept in touch as friends because he was living in another state and by November we hung out for the first time in a while like not as a date or even with any intention. So we spent 3 days together and when he went home he texted me and said he wanted more and the rest us history because I missed him as soon as he left. He moved to Pennsylvania to be with me and we have a 3 yr old son though and so yeah.

  • @frizell
    @frizell Рік тому +3

    Love singleness.

  • @dlittle239
    @dlittle239 Рік тому

    Sav is right about Mcdonald's fries. I used to love their fries until I got back-to-back bad batches from two different restaurants.

  • @jolynnmarie2321
    @jolynnmarie2321 Рік тому

    Love this
    Love from Michigan

  • @tboss3276
    @tboss3276 Рік тому +3

    You can ALWAYS be Newlyweds!❤❤❤

  • @anjinteal
    @anjinteal Рік тому +1

    Omg I had packages stolen out of my mail box from glossier and thread wallets and I contacted both of the companies telling them someone stole from me and it would be great if they could help me in any way and they both sent me new packages and said they were so sorry someone stole from me. I was scared to reach out originally so moral of the story is always reach out to the companies because you never know if they will be super nice and just send you completely new products

  • @chicalulu4841
    @chicalulu4841 Рік тому

    I love McDonald’s fries soooo much, but I definitely agree with Sav they are not consistent!!! Nothing hurts more than craving the fries then boom they are not hot or not salted properly 😭😭😭😭

  • @dopkasa.1171
    @dopkasa.1171 Рік тому

    I get it and it's fine if y'all have grown past it, but gotta say that I loved saying, "The Dopest Squad on-the-In-ter-net" again🥰

  • @katiehanson6253
    @katiehanson6253 Рік тому

    I hope you try Culver's for Sav's sake, or Braums, like if you like a loaded fry... both good! My favorite personally is Arby's. I love that curly fry. :)

  • @TheCookFamily_
    @TheCookFamily_ Рік тому

    I’m with Sav, Mcd fries is not #1! Going to have to try Red Robin fries now tho!
    But Zaxby’s is top 5 for sure

  • @KatelynCrawford22
    @KatelynCrawford22 Рік тому

    I’m agreeing with Sav on the McDonald’s fries!

  • @realchristian__podcast
    @realchristian__podcast Рік тому +1

    I have a question guys. How do you feel about wallpapers as each other. And posting each other regularly? On social media

  • @itss.arii._
    @itss.arii._ Рік тому

    Sav won the draft fs 💗

  • @tiarachiffon8131
    @tiarachiffon8131 Рік тому

    Loved this video!! ❤

  • @lucyviolet9218
    @lucyviolet9218 Рік тому

    I remember I used to always say ‘ on the inter-net’ with you guys🥰🥺😂

  • @kandijenkins5687
    @kandijenkins5687 Рік тому

    Five guys was my top! I’m going to have to go with Josh on this one.

  • @courtneythomas9442
    @courtneythomas9442 Рік тому +1

    I'm on Sav's team, just to be on Sav's team! 🙋🏼‍♀️

  • @itsmerobinann
    @itsmerobinann Рік тому

    I think what she was trying to say is "Don't be like RobinAnn". I got married at 19, divorced to a cheater by 25, remarried by 28, divorced to another cheater by 38, remarried by 40, divorced to a cheater by 42, and then with someone without being married for almost 10 years and he was an absolute cheating @busive nightmare. I'm single 5 months now and will never ever date again. I'm going to be happy alone. No more rebounds for me.

  • @felishagomez4425
    @felishagomez4425 Рік тому

    It's more of I LOVE YOU but I DON'T LIKE YOU. You don't have to like them but love transcends further

  • @kobendamer2694
    @kobendamer2694 Рік тому

    In N Out above Shake Shack is crazyyyyy

  • @ninaw8186
    @ninaw8186 Рік тому

    Red Robin (yesss 🎉) oh my goodness lol I said that before you did lol
    Fudruckers

  • @ashleydougherty1015
    @ashleydougherty1015 Рік тому

    Okay I absolutely agree with Sav’s thoughts on McDonald’s fries, but Josh’s list wins 100% with 5 Guys!

  • @chrissynecole
    @chrissynecole Рік тому

    Definitely do the intro with you gots on all platforms. Lol. Burger King is HORRIBLE!! Sorry 😬 I’ve had Res Robbins and theirs are good, but Applebees and Olive Garden fries are THE BEST 😂 and Wendy’s bbq sauce is definitely different just like they changed them pickles

  • @klaurel3397
    @klaurel3397 Рік тому +2

    Popeyes is top for me. The seasoning is the best. My husbands fave fry.

  • @lucyviolet9218
    @lucyviolet9218 Рік тому

    Just an idea, maybe just put a plant either side if you can? Would fill the background more and it wouldn’t be too dark one side of the screen?🥰

  • @lolthatstough1301
    @lolthatstough1301 Рік тому +7

    As a female doctor, being single is definitely awesome, I can stay up, lay in bed all day, after work no responsibility for me other than work :)
    Other than that I love you guys BUT this podcast was very so much red flags in y'alls relationship looooolll

    • @whatlifeisabout
      @whatlifeisabout Рік тому +1

      Didnt understand what you mean by red flags. Is talking and coming to understand each other a red flag?!

  • @AshleyGS14
    @AshleyGS14 Рік тому

    Josh definitely took the dub

  • @shamnashell
    @shamnashell Рік тому

    No Popeyes or Checkers fries y’all?!?!?! 😮😮 Those are the best fries on this Earth!!! Number 1 for sure!!
    This is a tough win though, I have to give it to Josh, Burger King, Apples Bees have some bomb fries and yes McDonalds is hit or miss but when they hit they hittttttttt lol

  • @mamatried6349
    @mamatried6349 Рік тому

    Carl's Jr fries 🤤 so similar to McDonald's but always consistent!

  • @asiaroseboro7854
    @asiaroseboro7854 Рік тому

    Hi guys!! Never been this early!!! ❤

  • @AshleyUpton
    @AshleyUpton Рік тому

    Chick fil a is consistent sooo sav got that McDonald’s so good but more times I get bad fries then good fries

  • @jess.eliizabeth
    @jess.eliizabeth Рік тому

    Not me watching this while in the Wendy’s drive thru 😅

  • @lindarevis9331
    @lindarevis9331 Рік тому

    Josh win. I always ask McDonald’s no salt on fries and I get hot fries works to get hot fries then add my own salt. Work every time.

  • @celinaspeakslife
    @celinaspeakslife Рік тому

    In and Out is Trash! Coming from a Texan, I tried it twice and almost died lol! It’s a no for me Dawg! I literally said worst fry ever at the exact same time as Josh! The fact that I am still typing right now explains the passion I have behind saying in and out is trash 😂😂!

  • @allie_sears
    @allie_sears Рік тому +1

    josh definitely wins the fry draft! but red robin is 🔥 but also agreed with josh, Wendy’s BBQ is garbage now! #bringbacktheOGBBQ

  • @priscillasodeke6099
    @priscillasodeke6099 Рік тому +1

    McDonalds fries have disappointed me so. many. times. How do they forget to put salt though?!! so inconsistent!

  • @ninaferrante6189
    @ninaferrante6189 Рік тому

    IN & OUT ALL THE WAY

  • @Pointblankhome
    @Pointblankhome Рік тому

    okay hear me out my fry draft:
    1. checkers
    2. chick
    3. five guys
    4. taco bell (only with the cheese)
    5. burger king
    6. sonic on a good day

  • @nontulondy9032
    @nontulondy9032 Рік тому

    Yeah a person should be able to be single , to get to heal , know yourself and all

  • @trinityraff9213
    @trinityraff9213 Рік тому

    Sav WON!

  • @nontulondy9032
    @nontulondy9032 Рік тому

    Owh y God i love these , it would be daily if it was by me , love y'all to death guys 💕💕💕💖👌🏾

  • @sadewebb4533
    @sadewebb4533 Рік тому

    Josh won the draft haha love you guys

  • @55mom
    @55mom Рік тому +1

    I love this podcast.

  • @sarahjn.charles5872
    @sarahjn.charles5872 Рік тому

    josh wonnnnnnn! (but sav put up a good fight with the chik-fil-a)

  • @crissijones3365
    @crissijones3365 Рік тому

    Going to have to go with Josh's fry list because of McDonald's and five guys lol I can't stand bk's fries or the new Wendy's fries, old school Wendy's yes. My top Fries would be 1. Wing Stop 2. Five Guys 3. McDonald's 4. Carl's Jr. Waffle fries 5. Red Robin

  • @deniseguzman4815
    @deniseguzman4815 Рік тому

    Jack n the box always fresh and perfect

  • @jessicakeith8633
    @jessicakeith8633 Рік тому +2

    Watching the draft and wondering why no one has said Arbys curly fries! They’re bomb and there’s no denying it.

  • @tataroyals
    @tataroyals Рік тому

    Being single is overrated…people are meant to be together..

  • @JayMoReads
    @JayMoReads Рік тому

    yooo five guys fries is number 111111 lol 😂