As a professional certified coach on Leslies team, I am so grateful for the many resources available to the woman/and worlds we serve in… thanks Julie and Leslie for addressing this important topic.
I love you so much because I never thought I would be betrayed like this in my marriage. I’ve gone through so much emotional pain but now I am empowered. God bless you!!!!!
Wow! Words that I’ve never heard that the Lord has been telling me. Indifference! Indifference is the opposite of love. He showed me many instances of what that looked like in my marriage and in scripture. The other thing he said was abandonment has happened and I have grounds to divorce him for abandonment. Your words just validated everything he’s been saying to me. It’s almost word for word what he has shown me.
Really enjoyed this podcast. So much wonderful information. It helps to hear about the different scenarios that call for detachment. The definition of indifference was very real and helpful. There are SO many empowering points in this broadcast. Will definitely be listening to it again. Thank you!
Great question. However this sounds like a husband who is requiring obedience from her at all and any cost, which is not in adherence to God's word. We are to be submitted to one another after we are submitted to God first, especially a marriage. Disagreement with your husband is not lack of submission.
A child is supposed to be taught and led. They don’t have the mature stable ability to decide. They are to be provided for, protected and prioritized. Sometimes, the child is the strength that makes one parent do the right thing, which could be to leave a damaging relationship/marriage. God says two people in a marriage.
Cautions: 1. If you are a Christian, be very careful not to accept worldly conceptions of marraige that displace objective biblical principals or your subjective marriage commitments. 2. It is very possible that if you fundamentally reconceive marriage and act on it while you are married, you may be the one abandoning your marriage covenant. That abandonment may provoke a response from the other that further damages the relationship. It would be tragic if you then leave and blame them for the destruction that your reconception has caused.
I'm not sure what you mean by "reconceive marriage." In general, the church needs to get back to real biblical interpretation when it comes to marriage and divorce and stop telling women it honors God to continue being abused. I would highly recommend you listen to this episode of the podcast... ua-cam.com/video/Rrj5xg08FgM/v-deo.htmlsi=9j15ZTbAldLsrdxE
I wish I could tell Leslie how much she has helped me. Thank you Leslie. You're an angel
You just did. And I thank you - and God - so much.
As a professional certified coach on Leslies team, I am so grateful for the many resources available to the woman/and worlds we serve in… thanks Julie and Leslie for addressing this important topic.
Thank you, Leanne!
I love you so much because I never thought I would be betrayed like this in my marriage. I’ve gone through so much emotional pain but now I am empowered. God bless you!!!!!
I'm so thankful to read this! Stay empowered, friend.
Wow! Words that I’ve never heard that the Lord has been telling me. Indifference! Indifference is the opposite of love. He showed me many instances of what that looked like in my marriage and in scripture. The other thing he said was abandonment has happened and I have grounds to divorce him for abandonment. Your words just validated everything he’s been saying to me. It’s almost word for word what he has shown me.
Really enjoyed this podcast. So much wonderful information. It helps to hear about the different scenarios that call for detachment. The definition of indifference was very real and helpful. There are SO many empowering points in this broadcast. Will definitely be listening to it again. Thank you!
Thank you so much for the encouragement. Thankful you found helpful information!
What an amazing information! Hope to continue to learn to share this with Spanish women 🥀🌹
@@normatorresortiz7771 Thank you so much for sharing this with Spanish speaking ladies!!!
Great question. However this sounds like a husband who is requiring obedience from her at all and any cost, which is not in adherence to God's word. We are to be submitted to one another after we are submitted to God first, especially a marriage. Disagreement with your husband is not lack of submission.
Thank you, Leslie.
Excellent thanks very much 🙏😊👍❤️
Detachment question at 8:51
Indifference at 23:56
Narcissism vs Echo 27:47
Empathy and people pleasing 37:33
Thank you! Adding this to the show notesl
I feel like I am the one doing the detaching because I simply can’t take it anymore and I can’t leave. We have small kids.
Then focus on doing your own work on the things you can control (YOU). Focus on staying WELL. We have a lot of resources for you.
Wow I am hearing my life the last 10 years..
Bravo, that its her choice to leave an excessively controling spouse. Thats abuse.
What if the victim is the husband? I truly don't believe that this only happens to wives. Sadly, I am in this situation, and I am the husband.
You are right. The husband IS sometimes the victim. The advice is much the same so please feel free to apply it to yourself. God bless.
There is a 3rd person in this mariage and thats the child who needs to come into the thinking
A child is supposed to be taught and led. They don’t have the mature stable ability to decide. They are to be provided for, protected and prioritized. Sometimes, the child is the strength that makes one parent do the right thing, which could be to leave a damaging relationship/marriage.
God says two people in a marriage.
Cautions:
1. If you are a Christian, be very careful not to accept worldly conceptions of marraige that displace objective biblical principals or your subjective marriage commitments.
2. It is very possible that if you fundamentally reconceive marriage and act on it while you are married, you may be the one abandoning your marriage covenant. That abandonment may provoke a response from the other that further damages the relationship. It would be tragic if you then leave and blame them for the destruction that your reconception has caused.
I'm not sure what you mean by "reconceive marriage." In general, the church needs to get back to real biblical interpretation when it comes to marriage and divorce and stop telling women it honors God to continue being abused. I would highly recommend you listen to this episode of the podcast... ua-cam.com/video/Rrj5xg08FgM/v-deo.htmlsi=9j15ZTbAldLsrdxE