Extroverts Are People, Too.
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Yo. Extroverts like to read too. I love that introverts have been celebrated these last few years but it annoys me that they act like certain things "belong" to them. Like books and tea. I'm extroverted and I love good books and hot drinks. I just happen to also love interacting with the world.
Doesn't your battery get drained with out interaction?
@Nyore Anigboro Sorry...
So..., you don't get drained when reading? (I'm sorry!! I'm just really curious...)
@Nyore Anigboro I read too! And thanks for answering!
Lola Toa
Personally, books and tea (I hate Kaffee) calm me down and are just enjoyable as a whole
I JUST NEED PEOPLE. PLEASE TALK TO ME!
Literally my problem right now. Homeschooled + Extraversion = CONSTANT BOREDOM. Especially cause I'm an ENFP. I'm even more easily bored. PEOPLE ARE LIFE.
Randomocity Nerd I'm overly excited! So excited for every day. Also was stalking people on facebook. Cause that's as much human interaction as I can get. :D
Poe357 Co-op is life.
Same problem here. I'm always lonely with just my mom around. But I'm in a lot of activities now.
Elite Lens Films SO TRUE. My co- op just took like a month off for Christmas and I'm going insane. Completely insane. I miss my classes, how is that even possible?! Naw, I miss the like, two friends I have there, and the vast aquaintences I have. Also my crush goes to my co- op. So I'm going through human withdraw.
Poe357 even though I'm an extrovert I have a lot going on in this head so even if there's not much happening on the outside there's always something on my mind. like I need to stop procrastinating and GET WORK DONE! since I still like to be sociable I have joined a couple social networks this year. this year has also been crazy so I've been getting less "me" time.
I relate with this so much! Also, not all extroverts are shallow or stupid. I'm not sure how that stereotype started, but it's not true.
Agreed! My boyfriend is an extrovert and I'm an introvert. For my birthday he was like "hey I know you don't like being around a large group so I ordered a table at a local restaurant a little outside the main town. There aren't that many people who knows it's there so it's always super relaxed". I was so happy about that because he had been talking a lot about how his family loves celebrating birthdays with family gatherings and stuff so I expected to have to go to that. I was so happy he understood me and we had a wonderful day :D
Extroverts are the best people most of the time
You are right . I mean people think extroverts are stupid and excited all the time. I'm also a extrovert but I'm good with my studies, I do spend some time with myself and think about my every act . Non of my classmate complained me about my personality. They miss me when I'm absent at the school.
Sometimes I feel like being extrovert is a sin. 😣
Is being social is a bad thing!?
Making everyone happy is bad?
Being the heart of a group is bad?
My bestie is an introvert but she loves me so much...
Lmao I remember this random girl on a UA-cam comment section saying “ugh like if you hate all of those annoying extroverts who think they’re better than everyone 🙄🙄”
@@peabrain1369 she prob jealous of our social skills
@@hakunamatata9425 they are jealous that they don't have confidence and we do
I love making friends with extroverts because they just keep talking when I run out of things to say.
I love being friends with introverts because they are good listeners and advice-givers.
Ava yessssss they’re veryyyy goood at that
Ava and there are introverts saying crap about us, don’t act like none of them do please 😤
@@gsayang-odava9261 No they are not, they will need to process what to say to you for 5 minutes and by that time you already left.
youre welcome
I feel like the only extrovert on the internet sometimes 😂
Me too... omg
same.
Me too
same :(
You're not alone ;v;
That "dad I'm an extrovert" bit was hilarious. Great video guys lol
I peeked at Jordan's MBTI test, and it was an ENFP. ENFP's are often called the "introverting extroverts", because they love people but they also can be introspective and enjoy having some down time. It is totally understandable that Jordan would kind of feel like an introvert sometimes! Even though I'm an introvert myself, I do get annoyed with the stereotype that extroverts are "shallow" or "overbearing", as I have some great extroverts in my life that go unappreciated! Introverts, extroverts AND ambiverts are necessary for the world to work.
Abigail Underwood Aww thanks, I didn't know this! As a ENFP-T myself I feel better understood in reading this :')
The reason for that is they lead with Ne (extroverted iNtuition), which is the most ambiverted of the functions. Ne gets its inspiration from literally any source available, both internal and external. When combined with the strongly introspective Fi (introverted Feeling), it produces the ENFP, portrayed in media as a ball of endless energy (think Aang, Pinkie Pie, etc.), but who is, in reality, so ambiverted that they often mistake themselves for the INFP. The ENFP becomes a clearer extrovert in their young adult years, when their tertiary Te (extroverted Thinking) begins to develop, and drives them to pursue and accomplish the goals they set for themselves as children. Whereas the INFP never appears to be extroverted EXCEPT in a very rare moment of publicly displayed passion for their favorite cause.
Abigail Underwood He even seems more like an ambivert
same with entp lol
Ty
As an introvert, I actually prefer befriending extroverts because they get to do all of the work in regards to conversation. Plus, my introvert friends are really hard to contact. The biggest detriment to being an introvert with mostly introvert friends is that they don't want to leave their houses to hang out and you don't want to leave your house to hang out, so most of your communicating is online.
When I befriend extroverts, I can actually have a conversation with them. They can help me break the awkward small talk and I don't have to do any of the work. When I joined theatre in high school, I learned this valuable lesson: introverts don't necessarily have to hate extroverts.
Agreed! It actually feels better when you become good friends with an extrovert :D Like I knew this guy who was an introvert and because I'm also an introvert, it was so awkward to do anything... we would sometimes go to his place to watch Family Guy and I guess that was fine, but we rarely opened our mouths about anything other than practical stuff like "so what time do you need to go?" - I'm not saying it was bad I mean we respected each others introversion, but sometimes we would just sit in silence and none of us were brave enough to start a conversation even when it was obvious that we wanted to talk... I like talking, but I just can't start a conversation very well...
Jamie Ryan Storey Awwww~! Now I feel loved,
No offence, but.. r u really an introvert?
I'm guessing your an ambivert a little more on the introvert side
Jamie Ryan Storey I’m introverted and people think I want to be alone so I don’t get involved or invited which makes me sad. If I don’t want to hang out with you I’ll have an anxiety attack and make myself sick then cancel and feel better 15min later
I'm an extrovert. And all of my friends are introverts. Like all of THEM.
And none of them like talking to me. Like, it hurts.
You still call them friends? I mean run before they ruin you my friend, stay strong and confident.
SAAAME dude none of my friends are extroverts, or even close to being extroverts
Maybe you're the problem and you're too loud and narcissistic to read a room.
@Riya Singh from my point of view extroverts don't understand shit let alone other people. That's why they all gasp when we don't feel like entertaining them on demand.
@@itwasmedio8302 Is this coming from an Introvert? Because, from a fellow one, your assumption is highly disrespectful and rude-; Saying someone is narcissistic and too loud all because they're an extrovert and they feel as if their friends don’t like them is just a PRETTY shitty assumption. Let alone, if an introvert were to say this and an extrovert said YOUR statement, their would be an issue; but there’s not. I’m not trying to offend you or anything, but you’re being incredibly unfair to extroverts who have literally never met you and just wanted to talk about their problems on the internet. Please, re-think what you've said and come back when you have just a LITTLE more common sense- Introvert, or not.
As a very introverted INFJ, I feel so bad for the Extraverts feeling lonely because of introverted people! I try to be as friendly as I can so the friends I hang out with don’t feel left out, but it’s so hard to keep up my energy when I’m doing an activity with a bunch of other people. I appreciate extroverts and their bubbly enthusiasm but I have difficulty keeping up my social act before I feel like crashing down onto the floor in exhaustion. 😭
Agreed its its a constant struggle between trying to be a good friend and trying not to burn out. I'm also an infj
Thank you
Oh we don't get lonely, we love our friends introverted or not. If you don't feel like chatting we mingle with some people and then when you're in the mood we can talk again. There are situation thoooough, when it's something very specific that I want to talk about or miss my friend and then yes I can feel a bit sad at first but then I remember "oh yeah! Recharging!" Or I get really worried they have some problem but if they tell me they're okay or that we can talk about it afterwards I chill. x)
@NANA That's weird. As an introvert I feel like I'm surrounded by nothing but extroverts. I always end up with those people who are like, "I'm going to bring you out of your shell." I'm always like, "No, my shell is fine. Leave my shell the fuck alone." And they're always like, "No, you're suffering in silence." And I'm always like, "No I'm suffering in annoyance. I don't need to be saved. If you want to make friends then fine but don't mistake my need for peace and quiet as me crying out for help."
I don't have a problem with extroverts. Some of my best friends (and worst friends) are extroverts. It just feels like there's a certain amount of arrogance that comes with extroversion. Of course some extroverts feel like introverts are just mean, selfish assholes, if some of the completely ignorant and misguided comments I've read are to be believed. All I can say is that there are assholes in every batch I guess.
It is in no way introverts' faults that extroverted people are lonely.
I'm an extrovert, and I cannot stand small talk! I feel like I'm just going through the motions... I want to know how people feel, what they love, what they want to get out of life - not how they felt about the weather that week :/
same!
exactly! thank you!
I like both
How are extroverts supposed to tell people that without having small talk as an ice breaker to begin with. As an extrovert I prefer deeper conversation topics than small talk.
@@jasonh5547 exactly, i love deep convos but you NEED some amount of small talk first. how would you feel is someone just comes up to you and is like "do you believe in god?"
when you're an ambivert and neither extroverts nor introverts will accept you :(
seriously, i got 50% extrovert and introvert on that test. i took that test on three different days and got three different results.
also, by personal experience and knowledge of myself, ambivert means you have the worst qualities from both categories. seriously, i talk a lot, but im scared that i talk too much, so i talk when no one wants me to and stay silent when they don't want me to. i zone out at the worst possible times, but i talk aloud when im doing it. i love getting calls and texts, but i have no idea what to say when i do and usually end up being embarrassed and insecure no matter if i text back or not.
somebody plz send love to those with a paw in two worlds :(
ikr??!! ambiverts are a bit confusing, I guess, but I think those who are one or the other are even more confusing.
I am an ambivert but I wouldn't say that I have the worst parts of both. I would say I have both good and bad qualities of both.
im jelly then lol i guess i just dont have high self esteem
but yeah I guess we do have good qualities. being an ambivert means that you can flip flop, making it easier to talk and listen to someone when they really need you
is ambivert being "normal"?
I mean, 50%-50% is half-half hence "normal"
Being "normal" as you describe it must suck :(
Here an introvert that sends you lov!!!!
I want to talk to people too but its like I don't want to chit chat, I want to talk about deep topics.
I don't have much in common with girls but I still want a girlfriend to be alone together, if that even makes sense lol
leisiyox lol I get you
but wow, "normal" is the last word i would use to describe myself - I am anything but.
thx for the love tho I hate it when no one believes that I tend to flop around :D
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I think I can speak for all introverts that we don't hate or misunderstand extroverts. Many of my closest friends are extroverts. The only reason there is suddenly so much awareness is because society was and still is geared toward an extroverted audience. School and work environments, even the socially accepted ideals of fun, like parties, restaurants, festivals, and concerts. Don't get me wrong, I do love all these things, and being an introvert doesn't mean I am shy or I hate people. It just means I feel things differently and see things from a different perspective as my extroverted friends!
Yea this is so true :D my boyfriend is an extrovert and I'm an introvert. For my birthday he was like "hey I know you don't like being around a large group so I ordered a table at a local restaurant a little outside the main town. There aren't that many people who knows it's there so it's always super relaxed". I was so happy about that because he had been talking a lot about how his family loves celebrating birthdays with family gatherings and stuff so I expected to have to go to that. I was so happy he understood me and we had a wonderful day :D
Its prob not ur fault its just the internet hates me
@@calimorale9880 you are correct saying you “understand” us as a whole kinda hurts because it feels like you don’t do anything about it.( not you specifically but as a whole)
true
Thank you for this! I feel like introverts being center of everything and extroverts being overlooked everytime! Finding stuff for extroverts is really hard
I'm ENFP too, btw!
Not true. It might be the case on the internet, but not in real life.
@@therobin980 idk all my friends are introverts coz I can’t find extroverts and they’re ignoring my texts and blocking me ;_;
I think there’s more introverts, but you just don’t notice them because they don’t make themselves known
@@therobin980 dont start arguments, jerk. just settle with someone for once, would ya?
we need more positivity!
yes!
i am ENTP
I personally see nothing wrong from getting energy from other people, as long as you don't DEMAND that other people be around you. Please remember, that being an introvert doesn't mean that you're a shut in. I myself am an introvert, and I enjoy the occasional hanging session with my friends/family. I just don't go out much or hang in large groups of people often, because that drains me. I do, however, appreciate the special (but not too numerous ;) ) instances when I get to spend time with my extroverted loved ones, and I appreciate them too!.
Both extroverts and introverts need to make sure they don't go too far; I've seen both, and neither are appealing. Introverts need some time alone, and extroverts need some time with others; but both need to learn to get out of their comfort zones once in a while. But we all NEED BOTH social interaction, and alone time; a lot of people just lean one way or the other. :)
both need to learn to get out of their comfort zones once in a while.----Nope. I highly disagree with that. If someone is pretty uncomfortable with X situation, force them to go through that situation is not going to make anything better for them.
Candy Von Bitter Yes but no. None should force anyone into something that they don't agree to, but if one chose to, a little discomfort can help one grow and become a better person. I think it's a matter of choice.
+Candy Von Bitter Nada, people grow when they're put in situations where they're uncomfortable (as stated by Noah). They learn (on the spot) how certain situations occur and ways they can handle said situations.
No one said they should be forced.
hey just out of curiosity, what do you mean by the fact that going out or hanging in large groups of people "drains" you?
I love how Blimey Cow explores unique topics like this. Not a lot of people would think about the Extroverted side, or if they did they don't want to seem offensive to the introverts but it's cool that all sides are seen
That explains so much why my friends don't want to talk to me and why almost all conversations feel too short. I'm an extrovert in an introvert world.
A lot of people are introverted! But this is never really talked about unfortunately so a lot of us go through life unaware of these small but important details about people
💔💔💔
Yes but just remember cuz they like to keep to themselves, it doesn't mean they hate you okay? And yes there's a difference between ignoring a friend having alone time. But i just hope they're having alone time and not ignoring you
Im an extrovert, I hope you’re still around so we can become friends in this age of judgemental introverts.
As an extrovert that is very insecure about needing people, I thank you for this video. I get tired of all of the articles that glorify introversion and make extroverts out to be shallow, conceited, and unintelligent. The only thing introversion/extroversion affects is the way you recharge. the end.
Exactly
extraverts suck
It’s disgusting how people essentially discriminates against extroverts online, but us extroverts ourselves don’t even congregate enough to make a group, which is beyond scary how hostile the internet is to an extrovert who’s stuck living with an introverted lifestyle.
Ah, an extrovert and an ENFP. During this quarantine, it's feels like I'm drowning. I'm so drained.
And yet, twitter is making fun of extroverts saying that they are pathetic for not being able to handle isolation. Like, oh, by that logic you introverts are pathetic for not being able to handle social interaction. Like, come on. Wtf. Why can't we all be nice to eachother.
Edit: I have recently discovered that I'm more ambiverted/omniverted- meaning I am introverted some days and extroverted other days. However, my point still stands. :/
Well, I feel offended too. I have introvert friends and I love memes too. I respect introverts because they show a good way of taking care of themselves. Why do they have to be mean even if not all extroverts are all stupid and annoying?
I think the main reason there's been an influx in things like this is because usually introverts have to live more extroverted lives and quarantine has flipped this around. Also most posts like these are karma bait and a "clingy" extrovert is relatable to most introverts. The whole thing is stupid though. Most extroverts are awesome and I hugely respect them for being able to so effortlessly flow between social settings without being burntout. my best friends are usually extroverts, all around cool people.
Ur like my mum just e
@@fandeadvirus3816 yeah, and its not like i do better in social situations. I'm excluded cuase im so talkitive
Tit for tat
I was thinking about this a few months ago, when I was reading an article about how extroverts would accidentally annoy introverts, and I got annoyed. it would say things like "you're loud, you're obnoxious, you interrupt" etc, but that is usually just enthusiasm, expressiveness, and eagerness to contribute to the conversation and they didn't realize the 3 second pause wasn't you being done talking.
It's not talking about the times when there's 3 second pauses; when most people bring that up, they're talking about the people who leave no room for input. And there are definitely a LOT of times when I get interrupted, and people didn't even realize I was talking. I don't even talk that quietly; people just don't expect anything to come out of my mouth, so they don't even realize I was talking, it's very frustrating. Usually I have to wait till the conversation is done, and hope there's some sort of punch line I can add at the end.
OldTimeyDragon this happens to me all the time
TheReferenceGuy yes, that's why I'm annoyed when people claim they aren't finished with their thought and they pause for 3 seconds
OldTimeyDragon I am not talking about regular interruption, which is rude. I'm talking about when I've been reamed for interrupting when someone paused for a really long time and seemed done. I'm glad introverts have become more confident in who they are, but the tables are starting to turn, and they need to extend the same understanding they should expect from us.
Same! But I feel like I am annoying...
SOMEONE FINALLY PUT THIS INTO WORDS!!! THANK YOU AGAIN BLIMEY COW!!!!
I've never understood the need to advertise the fact that one is an introvert or an extrovert. It is one part of your personality. ONE part. And most of the people bragging about how "introverted" they are really come off as either are misanthropes, people with undiagnosed social anxiety, or simply people following a trend to me. IDK, it's like bragging about the shape of nose you have or the length of fingers you have... it's just a part of you, it doesn't make you better of worse than anyone else.
It's Just Bree yes
It's weird. I've never heard anyone going around being like, "Don't talk to me. I'm an introvert."
Most introverts I know just live their lives, and you only know they're introverts because they're the quieter people who only speak up when they have something thoughtful to say. In my experience it's the extroverts who are always bragging about how extroverted they are, and how much they love people, and how they're God's gift to people. Basically the people who always use the term "introvert" as if it's some kind of friggin' negative.
What I'm trying to say is that if you're hearing an introvert brag about their introversion they're probably not an introvert. Most of us don't like taking about ourselves. I'm neither proud nor ashamed of being an introvert. I could give less of a fuck about being an introvert. It only comes up when some misguided but well-meaning extrovert thinks they're "saving" me. ;)
@@TheKennethECarper "If you're hearing an introvert brag about their introversion they're probably not an introvert..." yeah that's kind of what I was implying.
I don't get bragging about it either, but it was helpful for me to learn that I'm actually an extrovert, I thought I was introverted growing up just because I'm socially awkward and not very friendly, which is not the same thing. But I don't think one personality type is better than another, they just have strengths and weaknesses.
They might also be extremely anti-social and also come across as arrogant compared to us “genuine” extroverts, which even by that measure is rare nowadays.
Here's the thing, everyone thinks that it's only the introverted people that want to have those deep, innermost thought provoking talks. The reality is, is that us exrtoverts LOVE those talks too, we just don't make a big fuss about ONLY wanting to have those talks and NO small talk. I love both.
I'm actually an ambivert I have a mix of introvert and extrovert.
Preston Jackson Me too! I need a lot of alone time and prefer deep conversations to small talk. Sometimes small talk is exhausting to me. But I also feel energized from being with my friends and being on stage. I actually really like public speaking.
Same here!
Yeah I really like being out with my friends and don't like being alone, but I get energy from being in my home and I lose energy being with a group of friends. But they're a few friends that give me energy.
Not actually possible, you could be one of the most introverted extroverts or introverted extroverts, it's really not as simple as one or the other, you should read up on Mbti it's quite interesting
Jadin Moore no they're are different definitions of introvert extrovert and ambivert the Myers Briggs definition doesn't have ambivert but Myers isn't the definitive authoritative figure on how we use the terms. Ambivert is actually pretty common. And is defined as having a mix of extrovert qualities and introvert qualities. But by the Myers definition I'm just an extroverted introvert. But anyways yes it is possible.
I'm an introvert.... And I suffer from anxiety -.- My games and shows are my friend haha
Also the most awkward thing is when an introvert is in room full of extroverts....
aka after church
AdvancedSoda then I will be frinend to add to that short list
AdvancedSoda so true
I know, right? The corner is my best friend in those moments.
AdvancedSoda Church is hard for me because of the social aspect of it.
CHURCh IS SOOOO HARD AFTER
I'm an extrovert, I get every bit. I also live with an introvert, everything in this video is so true. 😂
My friends force me to do things for them because they’re introverts and I’m an extrovert. It gets really annoying because they always act like the world is against them. Now that we’re in quarantine all of the posts are “haha. I’m an introvert and I can stay inside forever. But extroverts are all crying at their door to go outside.” It beginning to get on my nerves.
A Baumgardner I know
Shut up loud mouth, sir talk a lot. Extroverts have had it too easy. Introverts are the most discriminated against. Get out of here with your extrovert-privilege...
@@Lord0606 im with you
I am a really Shy extrovert who can easily flow once I warm up
I thought I was an introvert
But I do have some introverted traits..
Yes I know
Finally someone talks about this. We have things that upset us an make us uncomfortable too. We need us time too. Our lives aren’t just happiness.
As an extrovert I laughed for a like an hour about this- I feel like all my friends need to watch this
next left handed people will reingn supreme
Anna Martin Yea me too. Left handed people used to be beaten for it. 25000 left handed people are killed by using machinery for right handed people.
I'm a left-handed extrovert lol
Noooo!!!! Why you cruel world?!!!!
Omg I was just watching a video of why there are not many left handers lol. Everyone in the comments was a lefty and they were all like "oMg LeFtY sQuAd WhErE yAlL aT" or "iM sO pRoUd To Be A lEfTy" and I'm sitting here feeling like a piece of unworthy "normal" right handed not special, not unique piece of trash. I mean, I totally get that they are the minority and lots of people must try to force them to be a righty or something. But if you're in the minority, I still feel awful when they shove it down our throats like we aren't as cool for just being born without heterochromia or something..
Even if I'm left handed, let's not have that as well (delete now before it's too late)
I hate being bullied by introverts online. It happens all the time unfortunately. I hate it because they give us a bad rep and also give introverts a bad rep too, one bad apple ruins the bunch and the people that support them end up hating extroverts.
I know so many people who are like " yeah I'm totally an introvert." And I'm like you don't know the meaning of the word!
Yeah, it's a bandwagon type situation.
Sam Courter it's still 2016, it will end, trust me
Sam Courter yeah I agree. The bandwagoning is annoying.
Sam Courter they only went out to dinner three nights last week instead of five haha
Sam Courter I TOTALLY get that... #TeamMystic comes to mind. Lol
I'm pretty sure introverts who love the attention that comes from being an introvert aren't really introverts.
Coming from the ones who literally seek attention all the time...
@@Lord0606 I have to assume by this you’re suggesting I’m extroverted and therefore was being a hypocrite, in this three-year-old comment. I however made no indication as to how I behave socially, so that one’s on you, buddy.
I agree with you. I am an introvert and only mention it because it's relevant. I'm very confused by the influx of jealous extroverts commenting on this video.
@@TheKennethECarper yes sameeee & i agreeee
@@Lord0606 Imagine needing the internet to baby you 24/7
Great just in case sexism and racism weren't enough to worry about now we have personalityism. Thanks Jordan
Kieran Ford ikr wtf has this world come to! -,-
Ikr
Introverts are superior. Know your place loudmouth. Extroverts are too overrated
@@Lord0606 ur also dumb I would t talk if I were yoy
In other words, people who are usually “shunned” is now getting some form of attention. It happens in every, single minority group. This is now the recent one.
Im an extrovert and yo THANK YOU
I'll drink to that! All my friends are introverted. =/
I'm so scared to call that number.
pingpong1138 I want to, but I'm also scared. If anybody calls that number they need to let us know if it's really him!!!
pingpong1138 same
pingpong1138 I'm going to do it... um going to call it...
apparently, that's not a number.
pingpong1138 it doesn't work
Your sarcasm level is through the fucking roof. I'm loving this.
I get so fucking annoyed when certain introverts say extroverts suck. It feel like there laughing in my face about my struggles in social situations and being lonely all the time. Me being so chatty has been far more of a detriment, cause i always annoy people and put my foot in my mouth. And me reaching out has done jack shit for making connections. And then a introvert is like, how do you do this in blank social situation and im like, you fucking tell me! Obvi, most introverts aren't like this(I mean the ones that think extrovertssuck, not the ones asking for help), but the ones that are are the worst. Or when they say that extroverts are stupid and/or annoying, its like gee, where have I heard that before! The people I talk to in real life! And its like guess what! There are social introv3rts, shy extroverts, and social anxiety isn't the same as introversion!
Shut the fuck up
@@DavidGomez-wt9cv vent off ur anger somewhere else ignorant
Thank you for this!
I've been traveling with my best friend who's an introvert and she's been silent this WHOLE trip. I know she's an introvert. But I just want to talk! I give her her space, I try and occupy myself...but I know who I am and I didn't come halfway across the world with someone just to not talk to them. Even small talk, talking about dumb things, discussing what is happening the next day, ANYTHING! Yet, finding decent extrovert-related videos is hard and I notice a lot of people's comments stating that those extroverts just aren't being sympathetic with introverts. But who's going to be sympathetic with extroverts if no one knows out needs or way to recharge! I can tell how many times I've gone through my phone calling or texting people I barely talk to just to see if they're free that night!
Thank you for this video!!!
I plan on watching more of your content! You can tell it's good when the comments haven't been too flamey.
Shouldn’t you be busy selling out?
I'm an ENFP too!!! EXTROVERTS UNITE!
Tori Barron I'm ENFJ :)
Eyyy Samantha Wood fellow INFP right here
I love finding other ENFPs because we can understand each other.
+Tori Barron me too :)
AYYYYE IM AN ENFP TOO
Yup, I'm in the 98th percentile for extroversion and especially these days, it is rough to be extroverted.
When all your closest friends are introverts and whenever you text them to hang out they all coincidentally feel like having alone time
I DONT HAVE TO BE ASHAMED OF BEING AN EXTROVERT ANYMORE!!! THANK YOU JORDAN!!!!
Imo, both introversion and extroversion are just fine things to be...up until the point that other people's well-being doesn't matter as much as your 'needs.' So at the point that your extroversion makes you insult your friends/family/significant others who are tired of talking to you, you've taken it too far and you need to ease off. Likewise, when your introversion gets to the point that you snap or scowl at whoever speaks to you because i'M OVER SATURATED I JUST NEED MY TIME TO UNWIIIIIIIND, OMGOSH WHY CAN'T YOU UNDERSTAND MY NEEEEEEEEDS," then you need to ease off.
It costs $0 to be a caring individual, regardless of what type you are.
autumn hobbit And that's how finally someone was able to sum the whole introvert/extrivert thing up. Thank you🙏
Most underrated comment here. :)
People need to stop hiding behind labels as an excuse to be selfish.
Introverts are the superior personality. Extroverts and loudmouths are and have always been way too overrated. It’s time to change things :)
@@Lord0606 No one is "superior." What a childish and arrogant thing to say. Also that's the same as saying introverts are antisocial and hate people; just a stereotype and not true of most of people.
Best comment
Introverts and extroverts are both special!! Please stop with this "Introverts are cool, extroverts are annoying" stuffs becoz it's going too far!
No its the true
I don't understand why this is a thing at all. Since when are extroverts jealous of introverts? Almost every extrovert I've ever met thought it was their job to force me to become more extroverted whether I wanted to or not. All of a sudden extroverts are victims of introverted people, because introverts are getting a small amount of attention and understanding? What a load of hairy horse manure.
@@DavidGomez-wt9cv prove it. with actual evidence, not just misconceptions
Im a non-shy introvert, its a thing. I really hate being in big groups and think friendships are way overcomplicated and the introverts get left out after s certain amount of time.
NOT SHY NOT ME ITZYYYYYYYYYYYY
I don't think most introverts are shy. I'm an introvert and not shy. I have my own social circle and they're not all introverts. Hell, I'm generally considered the loudest member of my circle. Some people who are extroverts are, "I thought you were shy!" I'm not shy, I just have to get to know you first before I'll decide if I want to shoot off my damn fool mouth. ;)
@@sufiya6322 not shy wonhae dada NOT SHY!
"The same way you need deep thought-provoking conversations with those in your innermost circle - we need small-talk! With literally anyone, we're not picky over here, okay? ...it's just - let's just talk! Please, call me!"
The entire video sums up the extrovert experience, but I just can't get over this part, I love it😂😂
i am fed up of people saying,
oh so you dont want to be with people,
so you havent seen all those how to deal with it videos,
im an introvert and i honestly am introverted about it,
people dont leave me alone
As an introvert, I have no problem with some extroverts, in fact I have made friends with some extroverts. They only issue I have is that there are some extroverts that have a problem with me, and try to make me more outgoing. Can I just be myself, this woman said I never talked to anyone at this group, but I talked to a lot of people what the fuck
My issue with introverts is that they use it an excuse to disrespect their friends and not take accountability when they aren’t *giving* years ago before I even understood there was even such as introverted and extroverted but I had a friend who would make plans with me and then constantly cancel on me. That’s not ok. Then he called me needy. I’m not needy because I expect you to keep your word-it’s a part of life that applies to everyone. If you cancel on a job interview, you lose your credibility and people won’t take you seriously. But the point is he never told me he was introverted and once I knew about these personality types I was able to analyze people and understand who they were and adjust my expectations of them.
I think that's a psychological issue aside from being introverted they should be referred to a counselor
That's just a bad person tbh
@@sync_mxlly5610 except most introverts validate it by playing the "iM aN iNtROvErT" card
Just watched this right after having a extrovert crisis and GOD this felt soo good to get some reassurance as an extrovert!! THANKS YOU SO MUCH FOR PUTTING IT IN WORDS i wish there were more videos like this bc i feel like ppl forget that extroverts have problems too👉👈
When you are an ambivert and can be accepted by both or hated by both lol XD
Lytadaphoenix XD ambiverts = don't give a shit. true or not true?
Lytadaphoenix XD what's an ambivert exactly?
Layna Harris the easiest way to explain it is an ambivert is kinda both, we can be both introverted and extroverted. Being around people gives us energy but can also drain us, and we like being by ourselves but we get lonely and need social interaction
Lytadaphoenix XD yeah I am probably an ambivert leaning mostly on the extroverted side
Layna Harris wow you're like....always here
Thank you soooo much! I was literally thinking "when is someone gonna make a video for extroverts?!" It's cool to know I'm an extrovert, but I'll try not to get too attached to the title haha
I'm an ambivert that is drawn to introverts and it gets SO HARD sometimes. This video puts it into words.
Charlsie Fowler SAME
As a not very social person, I think extroverts deserve more attention, and ambiverts deserve more too.
Normally introverts are overwhelmed and cant navigate life, and struggle. But now its the other way around. We, extravert, struggle now. We suffer from loneliness and low energy. Cause you know what introvert? You need alone time to recharge, extroverts needs people to recharge energy. And we are not getting. any. energy. Or at least not enough. Its been one month I havent gone out (it was to the bar with one friend for only 2h30) and before that it was... almost 3 months?
So yeah, we all have needs and right its our needs that arent met.
Good for extroverts that manage to get their energy! Happy for yall
Right, introverts are disadvantaged in a world dominated by extroverts but I'm glad I'm not an extrovert. The constant need for attention and other people's validation must be exhausting. Smh.
@@nyc4life448 I don't need attention or validation though, I want to talk with someone
Like irl, with my friends x)
@@amaryllisnightingale6309 You can go to a bar. There are plenty of extroverts sitting at the bar anticipating a conversation with a stranger.
@@NYC-ln9qd tried that. So far people have looked at me weird or weird old men talked to me. Might have something to do with where I live
am i the only extrovert on the planet?as a child and teen my goal in life was 2 be happy and make others happy by being a laughing stock naturally being funny weird without trying and becoming then suddenly introverts came and people started hating my extroverted Jolly go lucky personality and now in late 30s i have become dead serious about life .I cant even seem to find joy or be happy myself least try to make others happy as in not to stand out or cause them trouble.Behind my back every1 said how chatterbox i was blah blah blah blah all day and that somehow made me feel ashamed of my natural extrovert happy jolly personality and the rest is history
YES. I've noticed how it's become cool to be an introvert, and as an extrovert, it's become hard to find other extroverts. I feel like even the true extroverts are claiming to be introverts now days.
Correct! My extraverted friend always say "sorry I'm not going. I'm an introvert I don't ike talking with other people"
The sarcasm is strong with this one.
Not really. Extroverts are often hated for being extroverted. Like they I annoying. I know cause it is a story of my life.
You are ofter not taken seriously. Like you are a f* joke. But you just keep talking and laughing and dancing while walking, what is that so wrong?
It hurts.
mad extrovert
I feel like the problem with the extrovert and introvert subject is how it’s being handled , either you’re introvert or an extrovert, it doesn’t matter , you’re still a human being , but you need to be logical about how you go in life. And another thing I’m noticing is that a lot of extroverts are just jumping in the bandwagon of introverts, then there be clones of introverts. Which encompasses to the phrase , not being an individual and just trying to fit in with the crowd. It’s either you choose to be an extrovert or an introvert (or ambivert or omnivert), it’s your life.
ALL of my friends are introverts...the true struggle of an ENFP....
This proves one thing that I've always suspected:
Jordan is not an introvert.
BUT JOSH IS.
jessica prescott He's more of an ambivert
Wait, it's cool to be an introvert? neat. Imma go back to watching youtube now.
Lelz
Jedimario88 relateable
K
YES, introverts are the superior personality!!!
@@Lord0606 WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY? YOU IDIOT.
Well when did introverts start "reigning supreme" because my high school sure missed the memo :l
Tempest and a Computer online
Tempest and a Computer lol same
Same..
We didn't
This only happened online
In real life it's still the same thing, sadly
Being an extrovert in a pandemic is a curse.
You have a family tho
@@mygod2529you see your family every day ☠️
Your video made me feel seen. I'm not a big extrovert, but it does feel bad when my introverted friends can't even respond to a short message. It takes months to get a response :/ like why be friends then?
Extrovert and introvert really just mean where you get your energy from. IMO the terms shouldn't include all the "don't call introverts" and "we extroverts is needy!!11" stuff cause it divides people into stereotypical groups. Even if the stereotypes are hilarious when blimeycow does them 😆
I'm extroverted and I don't like talking on the phone but I can be needy.
i know a lot of people who would say they are "introverts" but when they were younger they were very outgoing and always going to parties and being social in HS and college. as for me, I've never been outgoing and never had a moment in my life when I was extroverted. my point is I have delbt with a lot of bs from actually being introverted and it's hilarious how many people claim to be nerdy and introverted just because it is cool. trust me, it's not cool not having many if any friends and it's not cool when my gf gets mad at me for not going out the 100th time and even being in a decent local band didn't help at all, still felt like a fish out of water at all those social places. so what I mean is most real introverts won't post about it on social media and you won't hear about their social anxiety because they are usually not proud of it. and I'm sure all you real introverts know, hearing you are being too quiet is heard at every social event. I am not proud of being introverted but I am proud to be me. if that makes any sense. I guess it's an age thing.
I'm more introverted now that when I was younger - back then I didn't feel as awkward when trying to talk to someone, but to be fair most of my friends where good at starting the conversations so I never noticed it back then. But even back then I preferred being alone with a book or some other thing like painting or whatever and when I hung out with people it was usually my two best friends. Back then I had no idea why it was like that though - it was just kind of what I wanted.
Now that I'm older I have a way harder time with social skills which is a little weird now that I think about it... And I agree with you: posting complaints about it on social media isn't a very introverted thing to do. It's like yelling in public that you don't want attention - you're better of just saying nothing and stand in a corner with a glass of water.
Don’t be ashamed! Introverts superior!!! Quiet pride world wide. We are naturally more intelligent and better. Learn to embrace it like we did. Because if you just be sad and lonely instead of being happy and alone then you will be depressed.
@@Lord0606 damn I forgot I even made this comment haha. I must have been having a really hard time. I’m still having a hard time with it, but I have come to terms with it a lot more. My gf actually ended up cheating on me with a guy who’s my polar opposite, so I left Jan of this year after seven years. I think when I wrote this comment I had a feeling that would happen if she kept going out with her friends and I kept avoiding socializing with her when I could. Now I just try to enjoy my time alone and hang out with my brother and his friends here and there. They seem to embrace me for me so that’s cool. I guess I was just really frustrated with all the bull shit that goes along with trying to be social when you’re just not a naturally social being. Thanks for the positive response! It’s definitely not good for me to hate myself and I should be proud of who I am. I mean, I can work on being more social and outgoing and all that but in the end I need to be cool with the fact that it’s just doesn’t come natural. Embrace the awkward 😂
notice how when you look up extrovert struggles on youtube, not that much shows up
I swear
Being an introvert ,with all the nuances , I'll prefer to live in a Extrovert dominated world than an introvert one.
Thank you
"I shared that!" hahaha
LIZZIE!
As an extrovert when I read a book, I constantly want to talk about it with some one and so I get my friends to read it too ...
As an extrovert surrounded by introverts, this is accurate. I wanna hang out with friends but they are introverted but i (extroverted) need people time.
I'm like the most introverted person I know but I still need to make small talk sometimes 😅 it's so sad how antisocial and disconnected society has become :/ everyone needs friends
No offense but just because you make small talk with someone a couple times and maybe have 1 deep conversation with them doesn't automatically make them your friend. " it's so sad how antisocial and disconnected society has become :/ everyone needs friends" I actually see society becoming more and more socialized as the years go by and especially now with the ability to meet people online through forums of let's say a game or music artist it's a lot easier to make friends than it has ever been before considering the fact that you can literally filter people down to your interests and find someone that way. Also just saying not everyone needs friends in their life to be happy, I personally never had any friends or a partner and I don't plan on searching for any now or later but i still feel fine. Sorry if I seem mad while replying to this comment i just personally and respectfully disagree with your opinion but i still respect it.
I agree with you. I hate how normalized it is to just not respond to people's messages because people don't feel like it. Life is short and if you wait too long to get in contact with someone, they'll be gone before you know it. :/ Speaking as someone who's had some deaths in my family.
As an introvert, I apologise to any extroverts who feel what this video says..... Let's all just love and appreciate one another 💜💜
Tweba Senoi thank you 💕
Yus, thank you
So many extroverts are stereotyped on the internet. No I'm not happy go lucky or have zero hobbies. I am an introspective person. Often spend time alone but also enjoy my time around people.
I relate so hard, my best friend is an introvert and I try to understand and give her time, I do respond pretty quickly when I see people msg me, but I go days ignored... It was fine in the beginning, but now it's just heartbreaking because of all the media and articles saying we need to understand introverts, but there is nothing about extroverts. Nobody likes being ignored, nor it should be okay to treat them like this, and expected the extroverts to be okay after being ignored for days on end.
Another virgin selfish extrovert
It's okay to sad and hurt and It's okay to want more. If you don't like the way you're being treated, try talking to them and If it doesn't work, find better friends.
@@DavidGomez-wt9cv we could say the same about you
Lol. I was laughing and didn't realize I was actually crying. The "clingy extrovert" part really got to me because one of my biggest fears is that people actually hate hanging out with me and when they don't, it confirms it.
I'm an extrovert but I don't like phone calls I'd rather text, but I'd rather hangout in person then text! The only time I like talking to people on the phone is if I'm on a walk alone, or I'm home alone!
Almost all my friends are introverted and I feel like they think there’s something wrong with me because I always like to be around people. I like to share experiences and they think I’m afraid of being alone. Like no I just get my motivation from others, I like my alone time, just very rarely.
How come they can say you're afraid of being alone but we know it would be rude to say they're afraid of people? Seems like a double standard.
@@sarahberkner I always say that to them and then they always (regrettably) agree 😂
omg yes! ! I'm an extrovert and this video perfectly describes how I feel. thank you for making this! seriously tempted to share with some introverts who like to make me feel bad for how I am.
I'm an anti-social introvert who has come to the conclusion that half the people saying they're introverts are only saying that to sound hip or something.
I agree and I'm am extrovert like just accept that you're an extrovert it's not a horrible thing ... normal introverts wouldn't judge and generalize extroverts □_□
As a fellow extrovert, I'd just like to say, i don't think anyone in this universe likes small talk. No offense to those that do. Ad an extrovert, I wanna have a conversation, and small talk only happens when I wanna talk, but don't know what to talk about. Small talk is just a half conversation, and I wanna have a rich topic so it lasts longer.
Thing is most people are a combination of both. I've always been a more private, and secluded person, who has trouble making new friends, and talking to people, but I'm still extroverted in some ways, I spend plenty of time involved in online communities, and I enjoy spending time with people irl as well. Christmas is a great example of this. I liked being able to be there with everyone, I didn't talk with a lot of people, but I loved spending time with them, and just being there.
Oh. thanks a lot for this video! honestly, in the last few years, being an introvert has become the cool thing. Facebook, twitter, and all other social medias are now full of introverts talking about themselves 'oh yes, look at how introverted I am...let me brag about it 24/7 in your timeline' honestly... and most of this articles describe extroverts as selfish, illiterate beasts who are always wild and loud and have no consideration for anybody. I am an extrovert and I enjoy reading books for hours, and watching netflix and I need alone time too! like dude... since when being an introverted means that you are a superior human being and better than anybody else? honestly I am so done with social medias worshiping introverts.
Same bro same
Most correct comment I've ever seen
it's funny how us introverts want to be alone but are getting attention while extroverts don't want to be alone but are
I was a hardcore introvert when I was younger. After a few years of university, I've become somewhat of an ambivert.
An extrovert plus an extrovert , equals a extrovert , a introvert plus a extrovert equals an ambient , an ambient plus an ambient equals an extrovert. It goes on forever.....
Awwwww, thanks for showing us some love, Blimeycow! I've observed exactly what you covered in this video. So many books and videos about Introverts give the impression that introverts are the smartest and deepest thinkers, but that's just not always true.
I'm an introvert but I have been really thinking about extroverts and their need for attention as much as introverts and .... thanks a lot for the vidd
HA! I got 87% extroverted from the 16 personality test
Wow! That's quite unique, actually.
Me too, exactly the same!
Micah Todd I don't remember my percentage but I am definitely an extrovert
Oh I just realised you said 87% extroverted. I meant I'm 87% introverted
I got 92% introverted
I'm an INFP. 70% Introvert 30% Extrovert.
I personally love being around people but because I am shy it's hard to express that.
I would consider myself ambivert, but it takes the right people and the right situation to bring out my extrovert side. The weird thing is that the things I like are what drain me and I usually feel like I have no social energy. I am naturally more energetic when I am isolated but mostly only 'after' I have been with my friends.
Introversion is slightly my problem, but most of which it's just being shy in general. Introversion isn't bad at all, I just wish I can be extrovert when I want to and when I feel like I should because I do have that inner trait that I can't express. =(
And I like the moments when I can also relax on my introvert side too and that can be fun and greatly enjoyable, but sometimes I feel like an extrovert trapped inside a shy introvert when I am being 'social'.
My best solution is to hang out with extroverts and then deeply sympathize with other introverts so my world feels like it's in perfect balance.
The way I act when I am isolated 'after' being pumped up is the way I wish to act while being social. But during the moment I am normally too shy. But I love being around people, but I can't express that outwardly. (-_-)
this is a better description of myself than i could make
@@user-wi3nh3jk1j It's nice to find people we have in common with. We aren't alone. =)
Finally, an extrovert who understands us and isn't a total airhead who thinks they're the shit & should be the center of everyone's lives
I think you just had a shitty friend, buddy ☠️
Hate when people paint us like some evil or bad human.
This is the perfect example for why we don't enjoy extroverts. It's like being around overly caffeinated children that never shut up and feel like people owe them attention, because they're making noise. Maybe it's not a statement that people are making so much as people would like to not be annoyed when off the clock and would like some peace and quiet. I know, what a crazy idea.
@@responsibleprocrastinator6497 lol i understand this, but the exaggeration does the demographic perfect justice. Believe me, I'm around people most of the time and this is pretty much what extroverts look like to me, children that demand attention or else a temper tantrum is coming and I've endured enough temper tantrums to know that i don't dig it. I look at extroverts as a storm cloud i let pass over me.
@@chubzchubz1755 You're absolutely right. Just a bunch of morons trying to be seen and heard.
@@chubzchubz1755You generalize an entire group of people that you're simply too inconsiderate to understand and then you describe them as children?
I love my extroverted friends. I listen to them and psychoanalyze their needs. They can help make me normal, and I can help them think deeply. :)
What do you mean by "they can help make me normal?" Who said that extroversion is the baseline for normalcy? You're an introvert. That is your normal. There's nothing wrong with being an introvert. Can an extrovert help make you more social? They can certainly serve as a model for social emulation. However they're not going to change your emotional makeup. You'll still need your alone time. You'll still feel drained. You'll just be able to fake it better in social situations.
@@TheKennethECarper the fuck is normal.
@@TheKennethECarper nothing wrong with extroverts either
Why can't extroverts hang out with other extroverts when the introverts go into their hidey holes?
Valo - Bringer of Light
It's a bit more complicated.
Being an extrovert doesn't mean ju have to have a lot of friends. It just means that you are happy with people. And often extroverts are scared of people, have their own anxienties and maybe just feel secure with their introverted friend.
Hard to tell. After all we all complex beings with complex overarching overlaying mixed charaters
Valo - Bringer of Light cause us extroverts are stupidly attracted to those quiet morons
Valo - Bringer of Light that is a very interesting question I wonder that myself why can't extroverts hang out with other extroverts.
Hmm maybe because everyone is introverted now😓
bossmanham hahahaha this made me laugh(?) I'm an introvert and always my best friend has to be an extrovert. And an extrovert always finds his/her way to me :B we need to accept the others parts of ourselves, that's why we want opposite people (sorry for my English)
I WILL BE THAT EXTROVERT IN THE MALL WHO WILL STOP YOU AND SAY "Thank you for that one extrovert video. I love you."
I think this video is really important. I'm an introvert, but one of my best friends is an extrovert, and I agree with everything you said. Regardless of what type of person we are, everyone is valuable.