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  • 1. Mask/Muriel v. Redmond - A Michigan woman believes her younger brother is being taken advantage of by his ex, who claims he is her son's father.
    2. Grier v. Thompson/Toles - A Georgia woman hopes her ex is her daughter's father, but he wants full custody if he is.
    3. Clark v. Newby - A Nevada woman wants to prove that her ex fathered her son.
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  • @kadebebesis4204
    @kadebebesis4204 Рік тому +535

    Like the woman said. “Let the parent step up and the family shut up.” Should apply to everyone.

    • @AmarieDanae
      @AmarieDanae Рік тому +17

      THISSS

    • @deeannadorough7378
      @deeannadorough7378 9 місяців тому +9

      Sounds like T Shirt material to me.

    • @Neacyl95
      @Neacyl95 2 місяці тому

      That part speaks for itself because he didn't get his permission to f**k her and he didn't have a permission to get her pregnant either he made his own grown man's decision so he need to step up and be a father that this little boy need

  • @Maddluv4eric
    @Maddluv4eric Рік тому +597

    I am here saying, AGAIN, HIS SISTER NEEDS TO STAY IN HER PLACE!!!

    • @rodericksears638
      @rodericksears638 Рік тому

      His sister was there defending her brother. I hope you would do the same thing for your brother or male family member.

    • @anastasiyakuznetsov6628
      @anastasiyakuznetsov6628 Рік тому +16

      He allows her to though. He is so used to the women taking charge he don’t even do anything himself probably

    • @lethahumphrey5978
      @lethahumphrey5978 Рік тому +8

      Exactly

    • @sonsonfrancois9578
      @sonsonfrancois9578 Рік тому +2

      This his sister that’s respect 🫡

    • @jollyrancherchick
      @jollyrancherchick 11 місяців тому +3

      Watch the Travis v. Mcnair case and say that again. She had every right to be there questioning if she had doubt. Women lie, that a fact, and another woman would be the first to notice when something isn't right. If she had a reason to be suspicious it would be wrong for her to let her brother continue without finding out for sure.

  • @ramaalhussami3070
    @ramaalhussami3070 Рік тому +232

    I like the lady from the 1st case.. she knows what to say and how to defend herself she is confident and decent at the same time.
    And when she said in the end that she wants his family to step aside.. she is right.

    • @victormuhammad1393
      @victormuhammad1393 11 місяців тому +12

      She was in rotation but just lucky the dude was the real father

    • @nat3843
      @nat3843 10 місяців тому +3

      ​@@victormuhammad1393 That part😂

  • @cutie62500
    @cutie62500 Рік тому +354

    first man wasted all our time because that baby is his twin😭😭 his family just didn’t want to accept it because they don’t like the babymama

  • @_Essentially_abena
    @_Essentially_abena Рік тому +1631

    I’m sooo confused as to why the Man’s sister is there next to him being all combative with the girl he was sleeping with. Like honey why are you so pressed? Let that man handle his business like he was when he was sleeping with her and signing birth certificates. She so outta line 😭

    • @grindhard4312
      @grindhard4312 Рік тому

      Now you know BW don't sit on the sidelines and do nothing without putting their nose in it LOL. You tried it!

    • @rachellejean542
      @rachellejean542 Рік тому +110

      She need to mind her business, mind your nose.

    • @503slaughter9
      @503slaughter9 Рік тому +102

      He is the father... sister needs to step aside.. by Felicia

    • @brittany5811
      @brittany5811 Рік тому +131

      Yeah, it was giving me "other woman" vibes. I love my brother too but his business is his own. Smh.

    • @blessedblessed5018
      @blessedblessed5018 Рік тому +56

      I'm watching it now and SHES GETTING ON MY FIRST N LAST NERVES. Ima fast forward to results. Ugh. We don't let the men stand.

  • @sleepy-peepy
    @sleepy-peepy Рік тому +118

    i laughed out loud when they put the first baby on screen. that man could’ve made that child by himself 😭

    • @bevhoney-b2184
      @bevhoney-b2184 7 місяців тому

      That baby has his nose his skin color and his hair! He's in straight denial!

  • @sheriecemalone2155
    @sheriecemalone2155 Рік тому +334

    If a man had a baby before we got together, I'm just here for support, I have nothing to say to the woman he laid down with! This was before me.

    • @BR-zh6vp
      @BR-zh6vp Рік тому +5

      But the girl's acting like a victim and BLAMING her for the nonexistent denial of the child.

    • @Arose888
      @Arose888 Рік тому +5

      While I can agree this is the right thing to do initially, if his BM disrespects you or the relationship you have with him or tries to ruin your self esteem or dynamic in your relationship then it is perfectly fine to call her out on it and have a discussion. However sometimes that doesn’t even work and it continues and/or gets worse in which case I believe anyone would have a right to feel negatively towards said BM. Point is if the BM gives good reason to not like her you shouldn’t have to keep all opinions to yourself out of “respect” when she clearly doesn’t respect you, your relationship or anyone for that matter 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @timewtell9239
      @timewtell9239 Рік тому +2

      It depends though because some of these dudes leave her before she gives birth because he doesn’t want the responsibility

    • @janae4345
      @janae4345 Рік тому +4

      I don't date men with kids and after seeing this video I'm glad I don't but you got a point though

  • @naomieadair5635
    @naomieadair5635 Рік тому +143

    1st Case... *does his sister have her own life??* 😑😒

  • @Shareida84
    @Shareida84 Рік тому +826

    I hate it when the family is too involved. Like she said, he needs to step up and the family needs to shut up.

    • @GreenOrganicLove
      @GreenOrganicLove Рік тому +26

      Me too cause, they wasn’t there when they they wasn’t there in the bedroom.

    • @larryqueen
      @larryqueen Рік тому +2

      @@GreenOrganicLoveyaassssss!!!!!I wonder abt this all the time

    • @AshCash9900
      @AshCash9900 Рік тому +1

      So true

    • @lovergal9778
      @lovergal9778 Рік тому +1

      Facts

    • @PhoenixFires9
      @PhoenixFires9 Рік тому +3

      I only like the family’s involvement when they are there to support the child.

  • @rihannahaiti5570
    @rihannahaiti5570 Рік тому +749

    He clearly stated he did not want the kid, that the kid is a hindrance. He looks disappointed that the little boy is his, that's sad.

    • @mayflowerzzz5096
      @mayflowerzzz5096 Рік тому +129

      Acting like his son won't see this when he gets older.

    • @queenb4280
      @queenb4280 Рік тому +47

      @@mayflowerzzz5096 legit! That sweet boy will see all of this :(

    • @grindhard4312
      @grindhard4312 Рік тому +29

      @@mayflowerzzz5096 When his son is older he wont know anything about this. Their relationship will hopefully be so solid by then and he can explain all that to him one day if it does arise. You women are SO negative. Women unalive babies all the time and nobody questions it. So it's ok for him to not want a child at this point in his life, even if he did get her pregnant. And ALSO be skeptical of the women when she's been found out to be with other guys.

    • @mayflowerzzz5096
      @mayflowerzzz5096 Рік тому +63

      @@grindhard4312 he should have thought about that 💩 when he was sleeping with her. She didn't get pregnant on her own. He didn't

    • @grindhard4312
      @grindhard4312 Рік тому +15

      @@mayflowerzzz5096 It's ok for him to not want a child even if he did get her pregnant! Just like if the roles were reversed and the woman did not want the child and HE did. He still would have no say. Is it right she gets to terminate the pregnancy when he wants the child??? Women need to get over this double standard and not lean on it only when it benefits them.

  • @ChannelAyeDee1
    @ChannelAyeDee1 Рік тому +387

    The sister speaking for him so much i thought she was his woman

  • @hanishamarshall3341
    @hanishamarshall3341 Рік тому +121

    1st case: I would never stand beside my brother and deny a child along with my brother regardless. I wasn't there when he laid down with a woman. Idk what that boy do. I can never stand in a Court and not know something but speak on it.

  • @abigailmoore2964
    @abigailmoore2964 Рік тому +3129

    I'm sorry but anyone that claims "she putting a baby on me to ruin my life" while knowing they behaved in a way to get pregnant don't sound like a good person to me.

    • @vivineblake3035
      @vivineblake3035 Рік тому +63

      AMEN

    • @ceddagr8
      @ceddagr8 Рік тому +43

      Regardless of your opinion of what a good person is, it happens.

    • @mato2047
      @mato2047 Рік тому +28

      Not that you get that side with a good person is but no matter who the father would be or what the paternity is I'd say a woman who refuses to allow a paternity test to be done doesn't sound like a good person to me. There should be no reason to refuse to test in the first place that alone is enough to have doubt to order the test that she doesn't want to have one. That means The odds are that they're she didn't cheat or was with somebody else and that's what she's concerned about and even if he needs to follow like I said all that does is mean she was probably lucky in regards to what she was saying but the fact that she's denying wanting one already gives enough doubt to say hey she probably has a reason she doesn't want it being done otherwise you would want it being done to vindicate yourself and rub it in. So just cuz even if it comes out that he's the father she didn't want it done because there's a chance he wouldn't be and that alone is enough to show right there that she's not a good person according to you.

    • @rebeccabaron1348
      @rebeccabaron1348 Рік тому +49

      No one is innocent in these cases. They are playing with children’s lives like it’s recreation. So sad.

    • @joyceparker3082
      @joyceparker3082 Рік тому +2

      E

  • @maria-isabella327
    @maria-isabella327 Рік тому +156

    The third case made my skin crawl! The girlfriend made me so angry 😡

  • @heiditolliver3641
    @heiditolliver3641 Рік тому +581

    The audacity of the 3rd couple wanting custody because she’s on WIC and neither of them have a job 😅

    • @Kayla-rd5jd
      @Kayla-rd5jd Рік тому +103

      also the fact that the older woman is having an attitude in court & calling out insults like girl you’re grown, act like it

    • @rr1621
      @rr1621 Рік тому +56

      She will be poisoning that baby against his mother no doubt if they got custody.

    • @PhoenixFires9
      @PhoenixFires9 Рік тому +3

      What is WIC?

    • @chellez8643
      @chellez8643 Рік тому +31

      Defendant definitely has mommy issues because that’s what his girlfriend is doing, playing his mommy.

    • @lamikabennett4649
      @lamikabennett4649 Рік тому +33

      @@PhoenixFires9It’s a program for mothers and children to get healthy food and milk while their pregnant and up until the child is 5 years old. WIC stands for Women, Infants and Children

  • @HeyitsBri_
    @HeyitsBri_ Рік тому +1641

    The sister in the first case was ridiculous. If you can’t defend what you stand on without lying then step off. The boy looks like him, his mom was with him at the birth, he made sure the baby had his middle AND last before he ultimately signed the birth certificate. He was trying to skate from his responsibilities and had the right fool by his side

    • @anthonydancy4581
      @anthonydancy4581 Рік тому +37

      Preach

    • @wordplay6665
      @wordplay6665 Рік тому +45

      His twin

    • @theeasyway9643
      @theeasyway9643 Рік тому +21

      I saw that too

    • @margaretarnold5875
      @margaretarnold5875 Рік тому +1

      P

    • @kyokusanagi616
      @kyokusanagi616 Рік тому +26

      Was he doing it for exposure? I mean all of a sudden he’s ‘not so sure…’ when the evidence is irrefutable. He comes across as a child himself hoping that going on the show would somehow will another father in to existence. Him beat is DEAD!

  • @GodGotMe762
    @GodGotMe762 Рік тому +675

    Sister NEEDS to STAY OUT OF THIS

    • @ifrahmaxamed1097
      @ifrahmaxamed1097 Рік тому +52

      It was clear that he is the father

    • @MisssKayy
      @MisssKayy Рік тому +27

      That baby is so adorable

    • @danadane9794
      @danadane9794 Рік тому +39

      Right. The boy looks JUST LIKE HIM🙄

    • @konananibruneth9907
      @konananibruneth9907 Рік тому +13

      But how because she’s the aunt

    • @Chillikilli
      @Chillikilli Рік тому +52

      @@konananibruneth9907 it’s not her business, she brought nothing to the case. It’s obvious she just didn’t like the baby mama

  • @abigailmoore2964
    @abigailmoore2964 Рік тому +335

    That predator standing there talking on these people's relationship and fighting this girl and putting her down is beyond me 🤮

  • @Infinite_Deity_Ent
    @Infinite_Deity_Ent Рік тому +363

    The fact that the lady in the 2nd case has two guys that are willing to take care of their responsibilities is so good! I’m glad it turned out to be Mr. Thompson’s because my heart would have broken for him.

    • @Allegra7545
      @Allegra7545 Рік тому +23

      Not to mention the other guy sounded a little…. 🤐😅😂

    • @epapa217
      @epapa217 Рік тому +27

      @@Allegra7545 I got Forest Gump vibes

    • @daishalindseydeans6116
      @daishalindseydeans6116 Рік тому +17

      @epapa217 when I tell you I yelled 🤣🤣

    • @tank7784
      @tank7784 Рік тому +9

      She has some nerve looking the way she does

    • @Infinite_Deity_Ent
      @Infinite_Deity_Ent Рік тому

      @@tank7784 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🤣🤣

  • @stacyjpoliticscommunityfai359
    @stacyjpoliticscommunityfai359 Рік тому +592

    Baby Laniyah's Father that was taking care of his daughter without knowing the true paternity.....is what you call a REAL MAN!!!!!

    • @partypartyyeah303
      @partypartyyeah303 Рік тому +18

      Fr he was so sweet while talking about baby laniyah 🥰

    • @wolfmancool
      @wolfmancool Рік тому +17

      So what do you call the mother?

    • @ogunsoladare2613
      @ogunsoladare2613 Рік тому +12

      meaning that real father must be responsible ignorantly while the mother continue to be what? because you are silent about your gender.

    • @amhow87
      @amhow87 Рік тому +4

      Yes! I wish they do an update on that case.

    • @macdonaldibe4667
      @macdonaldibe4667 Рік тому +8

      @@wolfmancool she won’t answer you 😂 .

  • @tamarat.8810
    @tamarat.8810 Рік тому +302

    Felt sorry for the second young lady,she really didn't have anyone teaching her the right thing in life.Also she was very honest a remorseful.

    • @nirorn2993
      @nirorn2993 Рік тому +36

      Yeah im glad people noticed that. Shes 18 and from a foster care system? Im just glad the father is willing to help her, and i hope they both have a good life

    • @jaimeohh8409
      @jaimeohh8409 Рік тому +3

      ❤️💪🏾 Yes Grace ❤️

    • @SuQ22222
      @SuQ22222 Рік тому +6

      Yes. I am so happy for her and Mr Thompson

    • @Joyledi
      @Joyledi Рік тому +5

      Her honesty melt my heart ❤️

    • @karenfarrington4884
      @karenfarrington4884 Рік тому

      Her voice is s annoying. Quit acting touch

  • @TheAnswerIs1
    @TheAnswerIs1 Рік тому +233

    Can't understand why people think putting their body and life at risk to sleep with another person is 'revenge' against someone else.

    • @elenawilliams32
      @elenawilliams32 Рік тому +19

      I was looking for this comment. Yes! All these people having hook-ups and doing it raw? Insane behaviour.

    • @shauntiah15
      @shauntiah15 Рік тому +11

      I was thinking the same thing.. she didn't know nothing about that man who claimed if she's his he want full custody of their child.. she better thank God the young man was the biological father because the other man looks like he got some real issues..

    • @kimrizzo7098
      @kimrizzo7098 9 місяців тому +1

      Honestly? She might really be punishing herself and doesn't realize it from childhood ptsd. :( happens with SA victims and many home to home fosters experience multiple types of abuse.

  • @Lets_Talk247
    @Lets_Talk247 Рік тому +229

    The two men in the second case, though young, are very responsible. I really commend them.

    • @macdonaldibe4667
      @macdonaldibe4667 Рік тому +2

      Lol that’s the kind of men you guys want as a puppet. What would you tell the lady involved ?

    • @rlyman3356
      @rlyman3356 Рік тому +3

      That second guy was 10 years older than them.

    • @pr2626
      @pr2626 Рік тому +3

      Mr.Thompson is sooo cute😊

    • @keyanasteen3409
      @keyanasteen3409 Рік тому +3

      They was slow

    • @nirorn2993
      @nirorn2993 Рік тому +2

      @@keyanasteen3409 Still there for they child tho.

  • @aiziajackson-bartholomew7346
    @aiziajackson-bartholomew7346 Рік тому +238

    That old woman in the 3rd case robbing the cradle, they look absolutely disgusting together 🤢

    • @partypartyyeah303
      @partypartyyeah303 Рік тому +49

      Fr talm bout “I look better than you” ooouuu she know she lyin 😂

    • @katiemilady4232
      @katiemilady4232 Рік тому

      I can't freaks with no dude who might have to dust the cob webs off...she's straight up nasty on every level! 🤢🤮

    • @justaboutthat3692
      @justaboutthat3692 Рік тому +1

      They are disgusting

    • @fuller8705
      @fuller8705 Рік тому +32

      @@partypartyyeah303they both have no jobs and talking about she jealous and they want custody. Bffr!

    • @zuritribe4844
      @zuritribe4844 Рік тому +5

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jessicaolson490
    @jessicaolson490 Рік тому +562

    Dude, I was a nurse and the state still helped me buy formula... Daycare was more than rent!! Ain't no shame needing WIC to make sure your child gets proper nutrition (and good thing I had access to that too, as she was allergic to normal formula and needed the one that cost double 🤮). The nerve of a jobless couple trying to cast judgment on a working mom... 🤨 He hasn't provided any proof that he got clean either, like he pointed out, she has to keep proving to the court that she's clean.

    • @katiemilady4232
      @katiemilady4232 Рік тому +37

      Exactly right! I always had great paying jobs in the financial sector in NYC but maternity leave also considered Short Term Disability only paid 60% of my salary. My baby needed the best nutrition & I turned to WIC. They were a tremendous help. This was waaay back when Nutramigen hit the shelves, my daughter was colic and oh sooop expensive. I'll always be grateful for it.

    • @labrea654
      @labrea654 Рік тому +11

      I wonder how children survived before formula. Smmfh

    • @teegreen3909
      @teegreen3909 Рік тому +11

      Get wic sis the black panther party started for you

    • @katiemilady4232
      @katiemilady4232 Рік тому +27

      @@labrea654 they survived on the teta but not everyone can breastfeed hence the creation of formula. My daughter would have been on my bipolar meds if I did.

    • @sheliabailey1457
      @sheliabailey1457 Рік тому +35

      I think he only wanted full custody to use the baby as a means of getting a check, since he pointed out the mom get’s a check. The girlfriend needs to step down and be quiet; both unemployed but yet casting stones. They probably would have also petitioned to the court that mom needed to pay them child support if he would gain full custody. That way they can continue to not work.

  • @mindingmyblackownedbusines5823
    @mindingmyblackownedbusines5823 Рік тому +100

    The first case is a joke! The baby is his father’s twin and he signed the birth certificate. The sister better be the best auntie under the sun after all of her bs!

  • @Areniapixie
    @Areniapixie Рік тому +186

    Last lady was really grating on my nerves, she needs to get her nose out. Glad judge set her straight

    • @francesnelms610
      @francesnelms610 Рік тому +11

      I feel the new girlfriends shouldn't be involved unless hes married to the new women in their lives.or staying together.

    • @rhondadavis1483
      @rhondadavis1483 Рік тому +2

      I loved it when the Judge said
      You’re not MY mom😂

    • @malikasampson7673
      @malikasampson7673 10 місяців тому

      Got real quiet after too 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ectasy66
    @ectasy66 Рік тому +219

    That older ignorant woman is just a shame and embarrassment to every mother and woman. This young lady could be her daughter and it’s a shame that we as a society bash people instead of helping them get up and stay 🆙 She helped ruin that relationship and it’s not going to last because it wasn’t built RIGHT!

    • @MightyMako
      @MightyMako Рік тому +6

      Sounds like you’re bashing as you preach about bashing. 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @wendyjenkins8379
      @wendyjenkins8379 Рік тому +3

      ​@@MightyMakoExactly, I actually think judge Lake was a lil outta line in that last case. Just my opinion

    • @rhondadavis1483
      @rhondadavis1483 Рік тому +20

      I think she was a loud mouth very immature and disrespectful. As a single mom she should kNOW not to be talking mess about a young single mom…but no, she wanted that young man, so she helped take him away…
      he best realize she going to control him all the time. He would’ve likely been better off with the baby’s mama. She’s going to do fine I hope and pray.

    • @brendamarrerobrugueras2080
      @brendamarrerobrugueras2080 11 місяців тому +2

      Don’t you youngsters, assuming you are, claim that everyone be treated as an equal? Then, constantly bashing a woman for her age is OK or isn’t that mommy is enraged because he changed her for another that happens to be older? What about the fake baby pic? Who does that? What for?

    • @Rainbowdash-1
      @Rainbowdash-1 11 місяців тому

      She's bashing her for her age because she's old enough to know better. It's not the fact that she's an older woman, it's the fact that she knew what she was doing, creating a divide between the parents of a small baby.@@brendamarrerobrugueras2080

  • @tagaukimasumi7818
    @tagaukimasumi7818 Рік тому +341

    Old chick in the last case was SO bitter her son-boyfriend was the dad. Her face visibly changed. 😂

    • @edwinagray4373
      @edwinagray4373 Рік тому +25

      No judge muted her with the comeback when she wouldn't shut up.

    • @armcandi36
      @armcandi36 Рік тому +2

      😁😅

    • @tiffanykhayyam9998
      @tiffanykhayyam9998 Рік тому +2

      Yes!!! 😂

    • @sallysharp4126
      @sallysharp4126 Рік тому +32

      She really ought to be ashamed of Herself as She should be setting an example not hating.
      😣😔😖😞. I believe They want the baby for the check since they’re not working.

    • @msmandy3088
      @msmandy3088 Рік тому +16

      Son-boyfriend

  • @poincianacouponing1622
    @poincianacouponing1622 Рік тому +88

    You shouldn’t need “evidence” in order to have a test done. Just do it for peace of mind. Everyone should be entitled to a test. They should just do it at the hospital without even asking. It should be mandatory.

    • @missmandy2049
      @missmandy2049 11 місяців тому +4

      Yes ma’am 👏 I agree completely. It should be a law, it would save so much time, money & prolonged heartbreak, stress/questioning.

    • @LisaPowell-so4mw
      @LisaPowell-so4mw 10 місяців тому

      I totally agree.

    • @Morenitasracing_co
      @Morenitasracing_co 8 місяців тому +1

      That’s wasting resources, although I agree it should be done when asked or for peace of mind everybody doesn’t need to test simply because they know.

  • @penelopenankunda8583
    @penelopenankunda8583 Рік тому +216

    The second case is just so heartbreaking, i am praying for the two men. Such loving souls

    • @aussiefamily4886
      @aussiefamily4886 Рік тому +16

      I don't like the lady she seems to want everyone to feel bad for her like "oh I have no one bla bla bla "

    • @luvpersonified
      @luvpersonified Рік тому +9

      When he walked in I knew he was her father!!!!

    • @irenecampo8029
      @irenecampo8029 Рік тому

      @@luvpersonified z

    • @gpxoooo
      @gpxoooo Рік тому +3

      @@aussiefamily4886 she tried to guilt trip people you can tell!

    • @aussiefamily4886
      @aussiefamily4886 Рік тому +1

      @@gpxoooo yup she did

  • @cutie62500
    @cutie62500 Рік тому +51

    That woman 40 years old going back and forth with a 21 year old over her sons friend this is embarrassing really

    • @Lucien-bs1wj
      @Lucien-bs1wj 3 місяці тому

      I beg to differ, butthat woman is way more than forty, fifty five is where I put her, no matter what she claims, I insist she fifty six!
      However, she’s one of those that should be dismissed forthwith. Imagine using words like ‘hanging with this, look like this, I mean woman you are unethical!

    • @Lucien-bs1wj
      @Lucien-bs1wj 3 місяці тому

      I beg to differ, butthat woman is way more than forty, fifty five is where I put her, no matter what she claims, I insist she fifty six!
      However, she’s one of those that should be dismissed forthwith. Imagine using words like ‘hanging with this, look like this, I mean woman you are unethical. I insist!

  • @681m4m
    @681m4m Рік тому +83

    Thiss my people, is why i never interfere with my brothers life, look at the sister looking foolish now 😅

  • @IamRoseCityCertified
    @IamRoseCityCertified Рік тому +21

    Why would Jesse bring his woman to the hospital if his baby mother didn’t want her there? That’s disrespectful.

  • @adiib2750
    @adiib2750 Рік тому +410

    How are you an “entrepreneur” but don’t know that you legally signed the birth certificate loll 🤔😂😂

    • @1britestar09
      @1britestar09 Рік тому +12

      Sounds likes actual factual to me

    • @Classy_Lady23
      @Classy_Lady23 Рік тому +38

      He knew that kid was his he knew he knocked her up but fronting now because of sis

    • @mrdesertfox1966
      @mrdesertfox1966 Рік тому +9

      Very few men know that signing that birth certificate makes them legally liable for the child’s care.

    • @Shellz312
      @Shellz312 Рік тому +21

      @@mrdesertfox1966 No, just dumb men because I was taught that you don’t sign anything until you understand what you’re signing as it is a legally binding document/agreement.

    • @valerieosborne
      @valerieosborne Рік тому +2

      @@Shellz312 I don't know but you would think the doctor or nurse would tell the men to be sure before they sign. Some say they were told but signed it anyway.

  • @londoncali6895
    @londoncali6895 Рік тому +44

    Their all so beautiful, that sister seems envious. The Father has a lot of nerve calling her this woman. 🤦🏽‍♀️, he knows he’s the dad, he was upset she moved on.

  • @frenbee6355
    @frenbee6355 Рік тому +236

    The third case, wow! What a mean woman that is to drift them apart, to make him doubt he was the father. For him to leave her when she needed him the most. Feel sorry for her when she is trying so hard to heal and stay clean and then they want to steal her baby. The older woman saying she still looks pregnant with her big yelling mouth, so evil. Hope the judge talked to them afterwards or that the girl gets support 🙏

    • @AR-dm7ze
      @AR-dm7ze Рік тому +47

      And that older woman said she looked better than the young woman was seriously delusional.

    • @debrawalker2414
      @debrawalker2414 Рік тому +41

      He can't talk about her behavior because he was on drugs to that's how they met each other

    • @kedithomas4140
      @kedithomas4140 Рік тому +19

      So true the bbymother is so sweet the other one seems to be the badmind one

    • @BR-zh6vp
      @BR-zh6vp Рік тому +7

      Y'all are so delusional in these comments! You just go wherever the show tells you?
      1. The GF didn't even break them up.
      2. Dude already had doubts from the beginning.
      3.The BM is the one getting upset because the GF drops him off or buys things for the baby. She acts like an immature child, but SHE'S the good guy? Wow

    • @stephanieblackwell8321
      @stephanieblackwell8321 Рік тому +17

      Exactly she acts like she ain't a woman. That baby is only a couple months old she still has post birth belly. Her old self kept pointing out she has kids but yet will bash another woman, and especially someone that's younger and trying her best to be all she can be for her and her son. Yet she was acting like she was the child instead of taking her under her wing and giving her the support she needed. I was so irritated and wish I was there to stand by her and let her know I had her back and saw that she was taking every step she needed to live the life that she very much deserved

  • @naimaismail4356
    @naimaismail4356 Рік тому +26

    Happy for Mr.Thompson he’s such a wonderful dad 😭

  • @collinsnjamba105
    @collinsnjamba105 Рік тому +151

    That old woman in the last case is exasperating and that's why she got Judge Lake angry 😶 to say "you are not my mum either".

    • @ds654
      @ds654 Рік тому

      Judge shut her mouth down! Old hag, he’s only with her because he doesn’t know how to take care of himself.

    • @valerieosborne
      @valerieosborne Рік тому +11

      The father and her moved to another state, I hope they don't get custody of the baby. With the mother living in their original state, she may be lucky, and they will not visit the baby, but she will get some money to help with the baby. Not a nice father but I would not want him either.

    • @Marbee514
      @Marbee514 Рік тому +11

      I thought she was his mom at 1st

    • @ehwunahriley327
      @ehwunahriley327 Рік тому +1

      & she looks waaaaaay older than 38, more like 58. She's an awful individual

    • @GmonkeyJ777
      @GmonkeyJ777 Рік тому +5

      That's why she has to date a young man, she's run all the appropriate men off

  • @_Maybejust_1more
    @_Maybejust_1more Рік тому +42

    I’m sorry, but why is the sister there? She ain’t the parent, and why is she able to talk. She’s not helping with nobody she’s just standing there agreeing with him.

  • @cwaicwai821
    @cwaicwai821 Рік тому +31

    That last case was actually so wild. The way they talked to the mother is very worrying for their future plans, especially the father's behaviour towards the end. Claiming jealousy, out of work because they moved and didn't want to see the mother's side of things when they were going to take a THREE MONTH OLD child swimming! And his girlfriend is a bit wild as well. Body shaming, talking in his ear a lot. I hope the mother soberity is still going on and the baby is safe.

    • @BlackStump172
      @BlackStump172 11 місяців тому

      That baby looks fragile and is very very fair .

  • @lyricistdean
    @lyricistdean Рік тому +73

    First case…. Both women are gorgeous

  • @MzKirraBabii
    @MzKirraBabii Рік тому +178

    The sister needed to have all the empty seats in the courtroom smh. Mad annoying

  • @nicoledonald8671
    @nicoledonald8671 Рік тому +70

    It took the judge FOREVER to open that envelope in the last case. I was like geesh, hurry up judge 👩‍⚖️ 🤣🤣🤣

  • @christinaanarsis858
    @christinaanarsis858 Рік тому +11

    First case. The baby mama is gorgeous 😍

    • @PrettyEly1234
      @PrettyEly1234 7 місяців тому +1

      I think the sister is more beautiful.

    • @leslieowens1926
      @leslieowens1926 3 місяці тому +1

      They are both beautiful women

  • @paulettemiller7520
    @paulettemiller7520 Рік тому +106

    I thought he was underage reason that nosey sister is there babbling for him like he is a little boy 🤷‍♀️

  • @Willywonderland
    @Willywonderland Рік тому +25

    The second case 😢 the guys were so wonderful.

  • @1eaglefan960
    @1eaglefan960 Рік тому +86

    I am so glad that the judge is handling this defendant's girlfriend in the last case! You can tell that she is a very overbearing and pushy, bossy lady! This young man that she is dating is basically her son

    • @shendisackett
      @shendisackett Рік тому +10

      I know and he says it's a real relationship LOL 😆 The answer to the older woman ruining their relationship is a yes!

    • @averijohns9931
      @averijohns9931 Рік тому +11

      Right she was talkin like she was there. She had more to say than anybody present the judge included smh

    • @gwendolynjennings3003
      @gwendolynjennings3003 Рік тому

      Q

    • @lillianechols8877
      @lillianechols8877 Рік тому

      @@shendisackett pm

    • @estheroppong4782
      @estheroppong4782 Рік тому +11

      I thought she was the guy’s mother! Unbelievable.

  • @msp9810
    @msp9810 Рік тому +30

    The first case, the sister & brother was trying to make up anything to get that free paternity test. Judge please give them that test.

  • @tyb4839
    @tyb4839 Рік тому +39

    Paternity tests should be mandatory!!!

  • @rihannahaiti5570
    @rihannahaiti5570 Рік тому +45

    So having a kid stunts his life? So what does it do for the mom?

  • @PeterPantheFearless
    @PeterPantheFearless Рік тому +73

    Mr. Thompson looks so young!!! :) And I'm glad him and his family are raising the little girl. I'm sure that's for the best...

    • @wandahoward9636
      @wandahoward9636 Рік тому

      He does. He looks like a little teenager. He is amazing though.

  • @lakrishahill3985
    @lakrishahill3985 Рік тому +37

    The court is tired of their mess
    "Are we ready for the results ?" The crowd "Yes " in irritation

  • @henryashmeal8724
    @henryashmeal8724 Рік тому +63

    For the second episode: I don't blame her for cheating on him for revenge, but I totally disagree with her for not using protection, because it could be a fatal infection

    • @GmonkeyJ777
      @GmonkeyJ777 Рік тому +17

      There's no such thing as cheating for revenge. You end up the winner when you get your revenge. Does she seem like a winner to you, not knowing who her child's father is?

    • @carltonwalton9819
      @carltonwalton9819 Рік тому

      Hoes be hoeing. Keep hoe alive. 🤦‍♂️

  • @chrisscottdoes
    @chrisscottdoes Рік тому +32

    Those Atlanta guys were some good-hearted young men.

  • @mandalynn410
    @mandalynn410 Рік тому +411

    In the 3rd case, I really feel bad for Ms. Clark Her mother and her father have passed, and now she has a child with this young guy dating his mom... makes my skin shiver. 😳
    The way they are trying to shame her for getting WIC. Just irritates me.

    • @shadowkissed2370
      @shadowkissed2370 Рік тому +88

      All while the new girlfriend/mommy gloats about being a good mother to her children and yet neither of them has a job.

    • @aussiefamily4886
      @aussiefamily4886 Рік тому +9

      wow OK stop who cares about age like really that is not cool to judge about the age difference so there is no need for that my hubby is 25 years older then me but it is true

    • @shadowkissed2370
      @shadowkissed2370 Рік тому +1

      @@aussiefamily4886 does he treat you like his daughter? Did he purposely destroy your relationship with your ex who was your age? Were you his daughter's best friend? Were you between 17-25 when you started dating? If you answer no to these questions then your relationship has nothing in common with the one in this episode. If you answered yes to any of these questions your husband is a pr3d4t0r.

    • @sandraboyce4817
      @sandraboyce4817 Рік тому +45

      @@aussiefamily4886 Some people care about age, and the fact that you and your husband have a 25 year difference, is good for you, but not everyone.

    • @YoSmitty55
      @YoSmitty55 Рік тому +29

      Wishing her the best she is doing this motherhood thing. 🙏🏾 dude sounds simple though. He has alot of growing to do.

  • @no1some186
    @no1some186 Рік тому +24

    I felt sorry for the second guy in the second case , he looked so genuine and was telling the whole truth even those little funny details 😂

    • @carltonwalton9819
      @carltonwalton9819 Рік тому +5

      On the floor! 😩

    • @x_n_x_gal9161
      @x_n_x_gal9161 10 місяців тому +1

      That guy was weird, couldn't speak properly and behaved very odd... But at least he was empathetic and he really cared.

  • @Robyn_Esterhuizen
    @Robyn_Esterhuizen Рік тому +19

    In the second case, the most truthful, open & honest case I have seen in a long time.

  • @thompsonj9970
    @thompsonj9970 Рік тому +66

    🙏🏾to this your man for stepping up even not knowing if he was the dad or not…and he is actually the FATHER. 🙏🏾 to the other guy he showed up. hopefully the young lady has time to get herself together now that we know her daughter has been with the dad & his family🙏🏾

  • @jojoYolo90
    @jojoYolo90 Рік тому +37

    That last case, the dad and cougar gone give that girl a hard time.

    • @jadedmass
      @jadedmass Рік тому +4

      Definitely...you can tell she's gonna push him to fight for custody

  • @harrietadams2326
    @harrietadams2326 Рік тому +30

    Mr. Thompson & the other guy are such sweethearts. She got lucky with both guys wanting 2 be in her's baby life. l am so-so glad that Thompson is the father though.🥰

  • @kizzy006
    @kizzy006 Рік тому +69

    1st case the sister needs to 'MIND HER OWN BUSINESS' 💯 talking all that mess & she wasn't in their relationship!!!
    He was looking for a way OUT, He knows he slept wid her, lying bout he wasn't there KMT....... SHAMEFUL BEHAVIOUR he looked disappointed with the results😐, 18 MONTHS OLD, it's clear to see, that lil boy is his twin 🙄
    🥰 SUCH A BEAUTIFUL LIL BOY 🥰

  • @TeeHeejab
    @TeeHeejab Рік тому +23

    Mr. Toles sounds just like Forrest Gump’s friend Bubba.

    • @spanky8112
      @spanky8112 Рік тому

      I swear!!! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @stanliemurray2085
      @stanliemurray2085 Рік тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @rayk5951
      @rayk5951 Рік тому

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @wandahoward9636
      @wandahoward9636 Рік тому +2

      Yesssss….that’s exactly what I saw. He needs some kind of therapy. Poor guy🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @marvinkhalif1734
    @marvinkhalif1734 Рік тому +100

    Second case: She lied she's 21, she's actually 18 but looks like a 32-year-old

    • @kw2075
      @kw2075 Рік тому +20

      My mouth dropped. I just knew she as in her 30’s

    • @bushyhaynes4942
      @bushyhaynes4942 Рік тому

      🤣🤣

    • @MsRibena1
      @MsRibena1 Рік тому +2

      Have mercy you must born October to rass and the heavy lips dnt even make it any better 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Ganjafairy86
      @Ganjafairy86 Рік тому +2

      Actually if the baby just turned 1 and shes 21 she was either 19 or 20 when she got pregnant.

    • @EroiKuma
      @EroiKuma Рік тому

      @@Ganjafairy86 the baby is 2 years old and she is 20 years old

  • @kimada7410
    @kimada7410 Рік тому +29

    These babies just so cute😍

  • @jeffbrown4136
    @jeffbrown4136 Рік тому +49

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @andrewvasilyev3540
      @andrewvasilyev3540 Рік тому +1

      Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

    • @jeffbrown4136
      @jeffbrown4136 Рік тому +1

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @andrewvasilyev3540
      @andrewvasilyev3540 Рік тому

      Her name is Chamani White, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @jeffbrown4136
      @jeffbrown4136 Рік тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @erichoepelman7764
      @erichoepelman7764 Рік тому

      I’m with you bro.

  • @MaLiArtworks186
    @MaLiArtworks186 Рік тому +16

    "Putting a child on me." Did you do the deed, then you should take care of the seed!

  • @jenburt241
    @jenburt241 Рік тому +16

    Mr Thompson seems like a great dad in the 2nd case

  • @morganglasure866
    @morganglasure866 Рік тому +10

    “ You not my mother either” YESSS Mrs.Lauren Lake!!!❤

  • @allforjak8074
    @allforjak8074 Рік тому +33

    Nearly lost my son when his floaty turned upset down. I got to him within a minute but it seemed like 10! He is 21 now. Gave me a whole new perspective on babies in the pool. Can not be too careful.

  • @prianaa
    @prianaa Рік тому +357

    How can he deny that baby? Look at those ears? They’re so unique you don’t need a DNA test 😅

    • @Lisstopia
      @Lisstopia Рік тому +18

      I said the sameeeee loll

    • @shannh6724
      @shannh6724 Рік тому +3

      “PRIANA”, Go ask him why. But who told you looks automatically mean he’s the biological father 100%?!

    • @prianaa
      @prianaa Рік тому +21

      @@shannh6724 shann you must be special… it’s ok, my comment was a joke luv. Carry on 💕

    • @shannh6724
      @shannh6724 Рік тому

      @@prianaa You’re the special 1. How is that a “joke”?! Thats dumb! Im not your “luv”…….but you need serious mental help ASAP!

    • @shannh6724
      @shannh6724 Рік тому

      @@prianaa You are very simple minded. Its past time to grow TF up!

  • @guyanesegoddess444
    @guyanesegoddess444 Рік тому +38

    The second case was so sad. Two dudes who genuinely want to be there for their children and just be happy. Both willing to step up regardless of the circumstances. That woman caused so much pain for both of them shame on her for putting them all in this heartbreaking situation as a result of her acting out of spite

  • @shaneecuevas7990
    @shaneecuevas7990 Рік тому +29

    I have 5 brothers. I can't see myself going down to paternity court for any of them.

  • @mayflowerzzz5096
    @mayflowerzzz5096 Рік тому +72

    I hate sisters like that. She up there acting like SHE want him.

    • @kadebebesis4204
      @kadebebesis4204 Рік тому +10

      Whenever a woman lacks a male figure in her life, she seeks it out in her brother or son. It’s gross and happens too much.

  • @christynrachandbrigreen5735
    @christynrachandbrigreen5735 Рік тому +7

    This breaks my heart ! He’s a precious child he’s a blessing and look how to they are talking about him . Welcome Sherrod you are precious and loved

  • @WJS1990
    @WJS1990 Рік тому +15

    The sis irritate me like he is a grown man. My bro been in this situation but I didn't bash the female or get in their business even after the results came back saying he wasn't the father. My neph was 5 when this happened, he is 11 now & we don't treat him any different he still neph, still has my brother name ❤️❤️

  • @deehorrorgurl3875
    @deehorrorgurl3875 Рік тому +11

    That boy wants a mama not a girlfriend 😂

  • @NathalieLagosSambo
    @NathalieLagosSambo Рік тому +23

    The sister in the first case is absolutely beautiful omg

    • @Notyoaveragemammy
      @Notyoaveragemammy Рік тому

      Yesss ❤ I was coming here to say that but you beat me to it lol

  • @Djwizjeepjams
    @Djwizjeepjams Рік тому +23

    I’m rooting for Mr. Thompson🫶🏽 I need an update🖤🙌🏽

  • @janetgonzalez3931
    @janetgonzalez3931 Рік тому +91

    From the beginning I knew he was the dad he looks just like his son hope they can work things out

  • @debracisneros7768
    @debracisneros7768 Рік тому +12

    On the last case sometimes its better not to have the guy be the father especially if he acts like that

    • @tara_ble1705
      @tara_ble1705 9 місяців тому

      Especially when there’s a female involved who’s as manipulative as that ole gal seems to be. She seems like she would be one of those stepmom’s who is terribly abusive to the child bc she resents that child and he seems like he would be the kind who would set there and allow her to do it. Sometimes children are better off without the parent as sad as that sounds.

  • @estheroppong4782
    @estheroppong4782 Рік тому +45

    So that woman in the pink sweater is a girlfriend? I thought she’s the grandma 👵, Sugar mama.

  • @creativelyfe1111
    @creativelyfe1111 Рік тому +23

    In the 1st case the sister act as if he’s her man hella weird

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 Рік тому +37

    He looks like he is 13 years old.
    Pray the baby is ok.
    They want the state money.

    • @rebeccaspratling2865
      @rebeccaspratling2865 Рік тому +3

      Exactly.

    • @luveniamccoy3020
      @luveniamccoy3020 Рік тому +1

      I don't understand why the Judge let the other family take over, they shouldn't even be there. BROTHER ARE YOU A MAN OR WHAT. He is indulging in what makes you a Mother and Father. Sister sit DOWN.

  • @niadaqueen3988
    @niadaqueen3988 Рік тому +3

    She over there rejoicing like she did something right 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @tonyarceneaux286
    @tonyarceneaux286 Рік тому +9

    3 episodes of heartfelt drama that's real.

  • @maetay1256
    @maetay1256 8 місяців тому +1

    The second case has me in tears. I'm so hapoy that Mr. Thompson is her dad but sad for the other dad. I hope mom gets some counseling for whatever she has going with her for herself and her daughter

  • @the.magnus
    @the.magnus Рік тому +153

    “Young Entrepreneur” - Translation: Homie is broke lol.

  • @charamoore9983
    @charamoore9983 Рік тому +101

    Using the birth day to get the conception day is really inaccurate unless that baby came right on our around his due date. If I did that with my son's birthday, the conception week is way off, and in paternity court when you need specific dates to explain being intimate.

    • @donjuandemarco4529
      @donjuandemarco4529 Рік тому +1

      😮😮🤔🤔🤔... I was thinking... Oh nevermind....

    • @oshunputri3392
      @oshunputri3392 Рік тому +8

      Right I thought to myself if she had a scheduled C-section then they can't base the conception date from the birth date.

    • @charamoore9983
      @charamoore9983 Рік тому +6

      Right. Because I was induced at 38 weeks, the conception date from there wouldn't make sense and that could could a lot of unnecessary doubt and drama so I'm shocked the judge of paternity matters does it that way. Like when judge Lauren came up with the "conception date" she was like "well idk about those days but right after that" she was off probably by a good few days and he seemed to look even more doubtful given those dates. Just seemed inaccurate

    • @NadineMiller1974
      @NadineMiller1974 Рік тому +2

      I was like oh a Christmas (conception) baby since my brother was born on September 26th but then the calendar she pulled out said the first week in Jan...that was off.

    • @Rose-jz6ix
      @Rose-jz6ix Рік тому +1

      I knew the date of conception because he was away for months either side. The doctors were more interested in my period. The baby was due Dec 8 & was taken 28th. I don't sleep around. He looked just like his father.

  • @jparlay7960
    @jparlay7960 Рік тому +2

    These young people need to communicate better. Especially the first case. The young man needs to tell his sister to be quiet and speak up for himself.

  • @cutz3052
    @cutz3052 Рік тому +21

    The sister need to mind her business.

  • @kellyh4617
    @kellyh4617 Рік тому +39

    Omg that last case was infuriating to watch!!!. The baby daddy's older gf omg she's a trouble maker and a very controlling one!.geez can't he speak for himself?? Lol he barley said much, his gf was mouthing off the whole time... He needs to lose her and go for someone his own age.. she's acting like she's his mummy. He needs to show some respect to the baby mumma! what an awful, nasty plot him & his gf are planning to want to get custody?! it's just a power game for the older gf to undermine & one up the baby mumma Nothing more! she don't want custody of that baby!!. I hope the baby mumma is staying strong & is doing well and not being intimidated by those 2. That baby daddy needs to wake up to himself!.

    • @meryemmeryem5513
      @meryemmeryem5513 Рік тому +2

      I really thought the old woman was his mother 😮

    • @susanrodriquez1024
      @susanrodriquez1024 10 місяців тому

      The baby looks well cared for, can tell the mom is trying very hard. This older woman is very insecure as she should be, she does child the Dad of the baby.

  • @het-herukhepra752
    @het-herukhepra752 Рік тому +21

    He looks just like him first Case!! Sister mind your business, please!! Last case, how you gonna take a baby and neither One of you are working!!

  • @heiditolliver3641
    @heiditolliver3641 Рік тому +10

    On that second case I was nervous for the results I felt so bad for both the men but I’m so happy she is Mr.tompson’s

  • @Vibewithchankitty
    @Vibewithchankitty Рік тому +39

    Is like his sister need to let him speak for himself...in the first case

    • @TysonKiddforWWEChamp
      @TysonKiddforWWEChamp Рік тому +3

      I said that same thing…. Like “please shut up!” 😂😂😂😂

  • @005-Byrds
    @005-Byrds Рік тому +33

    That third case that old girlfriend is putting bad things in daddy’s head He needs to grow up and take care of the baby and granny girlfriend needs to sit down having several seats 💺

  • @natashadaniels4599
    @natashadaniels4599 Рік тому +10

    2nd case had me tearing soooo glad Mr Thompson is the father

  • @Kildarasidhe
    @Kildarasidhe Рік тому +7

    That third mom did something wrong. It was horrible of her to shoot up while pregnant. But she admitted her mistake and got cleaned up. If the state thought she was doing it again or that she was unfit they would have taken the child already. I don't believe the courts would award them custody just because she made a mistake than.

  • @nicolemerrick7623
    @nicolemerrick7623 Рік тому +27

    Is the man in the first case slow or something

    • @melindatyson9704
      @melindatyson9704 Рік тому +3

      Right

    • @Chillikilli
      @Chillikilli Рік тому

      Probably just a man coddled by his mom and sister, he can’t make a decision for himself lol.

  • @carrierayshell
    @carrierayshell Рік тому +13

    Mr toles a fool😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 in the second case im crying he was ready