answering all your nonbinary questions | q & a
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- Опубліковано 4 лип 2024
- okay there's a lot of links for this one!! here we go~
autism & gender identity:
slate.com/human-interest/2018...
autisticadvocacy.org/2016/06/a...
ash hardell's video on androgyny:
• Video
nonbinary icons(tm) i mentioned:
ash & gray hardell:
/ ashleymardell
chandler:
/ @chandlernwilson
chandlernwi...
annie elainey:
/ theannieelainey
/ annieelainey
annieelaine...
jeffery marsh:
www.jeffreymarsh.com/
/ thejeffreymarsh
celeste m:
/ @celestem
/ sciencensorcery
research & history on nonbinary people:
there are infinite sources out there, but here are a few of my favourites that're accessible online.
www.teenvogue.com/story/gende...
www.avitale.com/historicalacco...
www.lgbthistorymonth.org.uk/d... (this is a lesson plan but it includes some good resources!)
www.sciencedirect.com/science...
www.npr.org/sections/13.7/201...
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www.amazon.com/gp/registry/re...
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I’m on vacation right now & didn’t get time to link things!! doing it on my phone would be very difficult but I’ll get it done when I go home I promise, there’ll be resources in the description as soon as I can get them there
THIS👏 IS 👏THE✌️ CONTENT👏 WE👏 NEED👏🙏😫
"Gender is dangerous" lol. I want that on a bumper sticker.
I have ASD and am nonbinary 💜 I’ve also noticed a lot of us have struggles with gender or sexuality, but then again a lot don’t so I’m also not sure what to think! Also ily
AHHHHHHH OMG THANK YOU FOR ANSWERING!! 💕💕💕
You misspelled QUEERies in the video
Paul M lol. this made me smile. puns are great
I was SO tempted you have no idea
AHHH YAY I'M GLAD YOU LIKED AND ANSWERED MY QUESTION
and you're welcome :)
I knew about all the other people you mentioned except for Jeffery Marsh, they sound cool.
loved this video so so much. thank you, Ashton! i have learned a lot from this video and your channel in general.
keep being rad :)
thanks for answering my question! super insightful video
this was so informative, thank you!!! also, i see you as the wonderful enby older sibling!! (oh and i saw ur dog and started to coo at them which attracted my dog so thank you)
i needed this thank you!!!!!
Ahhh this was such a great video ✨and yes I do feel welcome 😁
I am late but I just wanted to say that I love this video and you pass so well!
Thank you so much for this video! I personally am non-binary, but I still am not completely aware of how other people who are non-binary are like. You just got yourself another subscriber! :D
I love your video this helped me a lot
I asked this on your post about this video, but do you have any tips on how to educate my parents on why it's safe to bind? I really want one before school starts, and I think that that's their main concern about it. Have a great day! ❤
This took me a while to convince my parents on and I’ve considered making a more expansive video on the topic? but i think what’s most effective is talking about how much safer binding is than its alternatives, and that you want a binder because it’s safer than the other options you might need to defer to if you can’t get one. also make sure they know that YOU know how to bind safely - start off w shorter times, use the right size, etc. i think that covers the safety concern aspect? i hope i can help ❤️
Ashton Daniel thank you :)
A Person same!
rainboh_is_my_name_oh Wildhaber Good luck with it dude! ❤
11:43 was hilariously unexpected, I rewound like 3 times
Omg Ashton thank you for answering my question! I can really relate to what you've shared about possibly being on the spectrum and being a non-binary trans masculine individual.
I'm an afab, who has just started to question their gender identity and this video helped me a lot. I discovered that I might be non-binary just few days ago and I have gone through pretty rough dysphoria lately. This night was one of those nights. I was shaking and panicking, but after I found this video I managed to calm myself down. Thank you for this video it really helped.
ps. Sorry for grammar mistakes. English isn't my first language.
wow i relate to you a whole lot tbh. im a transmasculine enby person and im on testosterone + getting top surgery, and i definitely feel dysphoric being referred to as female/feminine pronouns but i like some feminine things like nail polish or something
thanks for making this video! it looks like its really helpful for ppl who are curious about nonbinary identities
For the person at 13:25, there is a thing called Genderfaun which is Gendfluid minus the femininity! Sounds like you!
Where are the scientific references or links to the medical journals for the medical and research studies about transgender and autism?
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You are so helpful to to me Ashton. Thank u
NB is for NEW BEDFORD!! Est. 1652!
Hi! Could u plz show what ur hair looks from behind? Cause they are so cool.
Yesssssss
im not sure if you’re aware, you still have Gray Hardells deadname in the description :) it would be awesome if you could change that!
this was published way before they changed their name & i didn’t think to change it, thanks for the reminder!!
Ashton Daniel of course!! You’re content has helped me understand myself a lot, thanks so much :)
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did you graduate high school this year?
nope, unfortunately I’ve got one year left !
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Omg it was so fucking cute when you went cross-eyed 😂❤️
I personally am most disphoric about my voice and obvious femininity
You should do merchandise & internationally
So um. Comrade. I know you likely won't see this, but as a Nonbinary teenager I really struggle with trying to come out of the closet. My family (caretakers) consists of extremely transphobic and homophobic close-minded people and they do not believe in any gender other than male and female, nor do they believe that bisexuality is an actual thing rather than something girls use to makes guys think they're hot. I came out to my biological dad and at first he was like 'hell yeah you go kid' and it was just like. He was fine with it. So, sense he was the only family member I was comfortable with gender-wise, I brought it up several times, and he just didn't really mind it. Then, one day, he looked me in the eyes and said, to my face, "You are not nonbinary". That pushed me farther back into the closet than I've ever been, so naturally it really hurt me. Thinking back on it today (a few months later), I'm still really upset that even the one family member I thought was there for me, doesn't even support my gender. Later on, these days, he often goes on about how you're "not trans unless you got the surgery" and how trans people are wrong for feeling anything other than stronger cisgender emotions because "God never makes mistakes". He'll go on for 15 minutes "defending biological sex", and to know the one person in my family I thought I could trustis transphobic and doesn't believe in my Nonbinary identity, it hurts. A lot.
Also Edit; You look very, very huggable
I asked a question that wasn't answered in this video but maybe some of you guys in the comments can help me out! I was wondering if anyone knows any nonbinary alternatives to 'Mum' or 'Dad'? Like what should a nonbinary person's children refer to them as? Do names like this exist? Thanks in advance! xx
A few that I’ve heard are zaza, like mama or dada but with z; “rent” as short for parent, or just “enby!” But it really comes down to what the parent is comfortable with :)
Something I like to use to help explain my gender is like, it’s a boy, but you bought that gender from wish so it’s a little off, lol
Do you like Kalvin Garrah?
Hey Ashton I have ASD and worried the gender clinic will say no to hormones because of my Autism I have heard they don’t let you if you have Autism. I’m hoping they will say yes. From Rozaline
If Ashton had put scientific references to the medical literature you could gone to the clinic armed with information to make your case.
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im also non binary hi
Why is it so hard for people to understand this non binary thing. Like, if people ask you if you're a guy or a girl and neither one of them sounds good to you.. Then you're non binary. I myself always feel like I can't freaking choose.. Which one am I, male or female.. Like literally I think about it for like 5 seconds before clicking. I'd like to choose "male" but then I end up choosing "female" cuz well, I have ovaries, I don't freaking know. I am something NB but more male than female. Maybe 60% male, 40% female. Or 70 and 30. It kinda varies. I'm definitely not 100% female, not even 90.
How can you be non binary and a trans guy. Would that not identify your gender? I'm trying to find myself.
how i'm nonbinary and a trans man: ua-cam.com/video/4Ss_w_3Nf60/v-deo.html
Google “atrazine Tyrone Hayes”.
You are what you eat.
I think I am pan/bi because I like woman and men and lgbt 🏳️🌈 people like you I am still dithering about exactly who I want to identify as but I am slowly figuring it out over time but because I really like your name and my original name starts with A & because you are such an amazing activist for the lgbt 🏳️🌈 community i have asked one of my best friend to call me Ashton and now her trans friend now calls my Ashton!!! All because of you and the way you are so respectful towards everyone I chose that name to be identified as! I am still thinking about all this however it is so much to process I confuse a lot of people and i also wanted to switch from being a girl to a boy at birth however some of my family and closest friends are a bit skeptical because even though I know that is how I wanted things to be and sadly it never happened. Also because I like pink clothes I like girls toys and sometimes boys and I love ❤️ pikachu and Mario and sonic and tails and girly toys then I also like a few select boys toys and some video games & kids things and jewelry and makeup and Disney Princess & all this stuff so because I never really said I want to be a boy at that time that it isn’t really the way I identify as because they have never seen it yet nevertheless had any indication that that was the way I actually wanted things to be & not everything I own is pink and girly either I own a lot of clothes too that would be considered gender neutral and some girly clothes & I also like glitter and nail polish! I want to be Ashton nonbinary because I like some people no matter what and that is the way it is for me...I also what to be named Ashton because my original name is only female associated and you can’t shorten it into a boys name only a girls & in my opinion gender is just a label i don’t think I need a definitive defined gender in order to exist in this world!!! 🌎
i just need to say that if i didnt hear your voice i would have never new that you where non binary
Well yeah you really can’t tell anyone’s gender from their voice
Ashton Daniel wow I’m so sorry that was pretty sexist of me
You need help
What reproductive system do u have. That’s what I want to know. Didn’t watch all the vid so don’t know of u answered
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Why does it matter?
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First of all, kinda rude.
Second, they state in the beginning of their video they're a nonbinary trans male, meaning they were born a female. Did they transition and get bottom surgery? Probably not, they mentioned they don't really about their no-no square, but does it matter either way? No, no it doesn't.
I don’t mean this as hate, but genetically and biologically people were born either female or male and that can even be proven in your genetic structure. Non-binary is kind of dumb? Yes, I am saying that being non-binary is kind of like believing in a god. It isn’t true. Your born male, becoming non-binary is like waking one day and saying, “ oh I want to be a girl now. “ and start telling people your non-binary and that you identify as a female now. No! I myself am so tired of people thinking they can just change their gender because they feel they were born the wrong one. Just stick to your gender because it’s the one your gonna be until death, doesn’t even matter if you wear a binder or get Implants or decide to just straight up cut your dick off. Also I was lying, this is meant as hate towards non-binaries.
THATS IT this is the funniest fucking hate comment I’ve ever gotten thank you oh my god
Ashton Daniel honestly I was just trying to trigger people. Got nothing against you guys I’m LGBTQ+ myself. Stay cool and keep the equality movement going. (Just don’t go accusing doctors for slapping a sticker that says ‘male’ or ‘female’ on ya’ bum.)
@@zypherislost2157 well mission accomplished cause i was triggered until i saw this XD