I've been thinking the same thing... All these outrages calls are literally coming from us, the very same fans of Stavvy watching the podcast. My situation is pretty fucked up too haha Are all of us Stavvy fans not okay?
Every time I show my wife these videos with tears streaming down my face, and she just looks terrified 😂😂😂 There is def something majorly wrong with me but I don't care enough to figure it out. I guess that makes me a winner!
Right? Currently feeling that now 😅 I drunkenly over shared on social media recently, and if that’s the worst thing going for me when dudes like this exist with zero awareness… I’m doing ok 😂😂
He talks about his kid like its gunna die when it turns 18, but that probabaly just when his court ordered fatherhood payments are over. So judging by how he sees children his wife should leave him so she can live her life.
I like to think Jordan is the kid in a custody battle and every time she goes back to Nick, he's standing by the door in a silk kimono "so...how was Stav? did he mention me? not that I care"
@@scottpofahl8208 Nick: "I know it's been tough but he's your step-dad and he's gonna be living here for a while. you can't keep calling him a bucked tooth garfunkel haired orphan" and the camera just pans to Ian that has clearly been recently crying
I’m 100% in camp “don’t reverse the vasectomy.” You made that decision for a reason. You knew it was permanent when you did it, and your mind hasn’t been changed. I 100% disagree that the selfish thing to do would be to stick to your guns. A child is a human being; it is not a compromise. Unless you’re all-in, then don’t do it. Children deserve better than that. Be honest, tell your wife that “After giving it a lot of thought, I can’t go through with it. I know what this could mean for our relationship. I love you, and I respect whatever you’re going to do with this information.”
Stavros: honesty is the best policy and this is my advice like 99.9% of the time Guests: yo be a bad person lol here’s a really creative lie for you to tell
I like that he thinks his Eudemonic family women wife he tricked and wasted her prime years will turn into a hedonic cat lady with one convo. His marriage is fraudulent, that's not how people work their socially incompatible, she's entitled to compensation for those wasted years; He might lose all capital forever being an evil creep lol.
My ex wife remarried (we had a kid together) and took birth control for 6 years behind her husband's back while trying to have kids the whole time. She would send him to the Dr and say obviously it wasn't her fertility. After 6 years, and dodging her own appointments to get tested the last year she couldn't get out of it anymore. He took the day off work to make sure she went. She filed for divorce the night before. He was a dick to me but I always felt bad for him. I knew the whole time. He remarried quick and they've had a couple kids. My ex actually mocks this. She's now 45, alone, son long gone, and spends her nights obsessively cleaning and color coordinating her massive wardrobe.
3:32 Jordan and the other guy are posted up like two guards where one always lies and one always tells the truth and if you get the riddle wrong, the glutinous monster on the chair eats you.
@@Quietlygm that’s the thing. He knows once he goes against his own gut and he has the kid it’s gonna go south , and they will end up splitting . Whether it be the resentment he has towards the kid or her. In turn he will end up paying another child support payment .
@@silver5liter "my wife wanted a divorce out of the blue" yeah for sure it was totally smooth sailing then one day COMPLETELY WITHOUT WARNING she bails
These call ins are great. The people kid themselves is very interesting. We're all guilty of a bit of that. But it's interesting to essentially hear therapy questions out loud and in public
These are the calls that make me feel much better about my skills as a father/husband. I always feel like I’m barely treading water, but it takes one of these videos to make me realize I’m relatively freaking Michael Phelps.
I don't think anyone should have a kid just to placate their spouse. If that's the only reason you're having a kid, you are gonna fuck up that kid's life. He should just be honest with her and say he doesn't want anymore kids and if this is make or break for her then so be it. Given that the caller has been kicking the can down the road and lying to her for years, I think she could do better.
Eldis, you do know that yall can run a portable air conditioner in another room and just run the foil duct into the podcast studio. It won't effect audio if you do it right.
I see this dudes point of view. He doesnt want to get financially locked down with another kid and hes already in his late 30s. I think he just needs to own it and be honest with his wife. If she leaves, well, it is what it is. If she forces him to have another kid he is going to hold so much resentment and be a terrible father. Women do get baby brain when they get middle aged, he might get lucky and it rides out and she changes her mind.
the lenghts men will go to in order ylto not hurt their woman's feelings is astounding. i subscribe to the patrice O'Neil school of thought "no more kids, b**ch ! you knew this going in, im not doing it" lol or honestly the pretending he tried but it didnt work is probably the best move for him
Stav pisses me off sometimes. I don't get why ppl ask him for a relationship advice while this dude never been on a steady relationship. To the called: rip the bandaid off and talk to her. Be a man. She won't like it and it'll break her heart, but at least you'll be honest. Her hormones are raging and you won't stop it. Shell find someone who fulfils the duty.
Honestly when the guys first impulse is, maybe I should lie and say I reversed my vasectomy and just hope this problem goes away, the bar is so low that anyone else’s advice is going to be a step up.
I've never heard of either of these two before, she's funny, but I'm so down with Kennedy, I'm from Minnesota and he said he's from Minnesota but he's really from North Dakota, I get him.
@beesechurger_1 friend of mine got kicked out, heard he was selling weed and he forgot to turn his shower off while playing xbox, water blew through the floor and he got evicted
Well no, he also lied to her that he would have the vasectomy reversed despite having no intention of doing so. He never even wanted kids and misrepresented himself to manipulate her.
He doesnt love her. If he did, hed be honest snd let her go make a family with someone else. Hes selfish. He wants things to stay the way they are because it works for him.
If you get into a relationship with someone you know does OnlyFans, you don't get to tell them later that is bothers you. If you get into a relationship with someone who has already had a vasectomy and you change your mind, you're the asshole here.
If you aren't semi ok with gettin a girl pregnant then dont be in a long term relationship with them when theyre getting older. People who say they dont want a kid, don't want one with that person
You CAN reverse vasectomies, but it's not a 100% thing. Better than 50% odds, but a lot of variability in there. But I feel like this guy would use that knowledge poorly and gamble on a failure lol
They're saying that because she very explicitly wants a kid and has for years, and her biological clock is ticking and if the dumbass caller doesn't man up one way or the other she might never be able to have one
@@khalbrucie Certain vasectomies are irreversible. Generally a physician will say that they are irreversible or are unlikely to be reversed. Even if a reversal procedure is performed, there is no certainty that it will be successful. He is not in the wrong as he told her prior to marriage. Her ignorance of medical knowledge and her poor decision making is not his fault.
@thrombolin the procedure that the caller had clearly is reversible since he's considering reversing it. Regardless of whether his would successfully be reversed or not the issue with the caller is that he's being dishonest about his intentions to his wife, idk how you're not seeing this.
also your voice just wake. Lol I want sleep. News sleep. Political commentators silent like sand man. And then I don’t have to remember dreams. So. Bye. And music man has messages in bottles with friends.
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These people liking the same comedy and comedian I like is really starting to make me wonder what’s wrong with me
Yeeeea I mean it goes back to cumtown. Stavvy is fun and I like his comedy but his audience is a cesspool
I've been thinking the same thing... All these outrages calls are literally coming from us, the very same fans of Stavvy watching the podcast. My situation is pretty fucked up too haha
Are all of us Stavvy fans not okay?
Eldis probably has to listen to 50 boring calls for every crazy one like this. Hopefully
Every time I show my wife these videos with tears streaming down my face, and she just looks terrified 😂😂😂 There is def something majorly wrong with me but I don't care enough to figure it out. I guess that makes me a winner!
Were you around for cumtown?
Man these callers make me feel like such an awesome husband.
For real, my wife left but we're friends and co parent very well and I feel like the dad from 7th heaven lol
@@Albanian_Accountant pretty sure that dad was fucking kids lol
Awesome on both of you! I really wish more men were like that. Society needs better male role models especially in the father department.
@Albanian_Accountant
I suggest googling "dad from 7th heaven crimes" before you bust out that comparison again lmao
Whenever I get in a rut and feel like I’m a piece of garbage, some gem of a human like this guy makes me feel like a half decent human.
Right? Currently feeling that now 😅 I drunkenly over shared on social media recently, and if that’s the worst thing going for me when dudes like this exist with zero awareness… I’m doing ok 😂😂
He talks about his kid like its gunna die when it turns 18, but that probabaly just when his court ordered fatherhood payments are over. So judging by how he sees children his wife should leave him so she can live her life.
“Thinking about faking reversing a vasectomy but I might feel bad.” Yeah bro, I would hope you would feel bad but I’m honestly not convinced
Thank you Eldis & Stavvy. It's callers like this who make me feel better about my own crappy attitudes and my even crappier life choices.
I like to think Jordan is the kid in a custody battle and every time she goes back to Nick, he's standing by the door in a silk kimono "so...how was Stav? did he mention me? not that I care"
I can here that in his voice so easily
@@scottpofahl8208 Nick: "I know it's been tough but he's your step-dad and he's gonna be living here for a while. you can't keep calling him a bucked tooth garfunkel haired orphan" and the camera just pans to Ian that has clearly been recently crying
"locked down for another 18 years" my brother that's the explicit point of having a wife
Sounds like he means locked down to a kid financially, not locked in the romantic relationship.
@@RLMTrey I guess that makes enough sense
I like that this is the takeaway
@@RLMTreythat says a lot about how he views parenthood
I’m 100% in camp “don’t reverse the vasectomy.” You made that decision for a reason. You knew it was permanent when you did it, and your mind hasn’t been changed.
I 100% disagree that the selfish thing to do would be to stick to your guns. A child is a human being; it is not a compromise. Unless you’re all-in, then don’t do it. Children deserve better than that.
Be honest, tell your wife that “After giving it a lot of thought, I can’t go through with it. I know what this could mean for our relationship. I love you, and I respect whatever you’re going to do with this information.”
Something about Jordan Jensen just does it for me
She big cute and funny
I’d let her ruin my life
Taking a nap to this. It helps me relax. Have fun talkin while I try to rest
Jordan is one of my favorite guests she's hilarious and so cool
nobody who says "eat me up inside" actually experiences emotions, they just have witnessed them in other people and are trying to mimic it.
Stavros: honesty is the best policy and this is my advice like 99.9% of the time
Guests: yo be a bad person lol here’s a really creative lie for you to tell
People change their minds. He doesn’t want kids, she does. Divorce.
I like that he thinks his Eudemonic family women wife he tricked and wasted her prime years will turn into a hedonic cat lady with one convo.
His marriage is fraudulent, that's not how people work their socially incompatible, she's entitled to compensation for those wasted years; He might lose all capital forever being an evil creep lol.
Dude thinks he's done being a father after 18 years. LOLOLOL
My ex wife remarried (we had a kid together) and took birth control for 6 years behind her husband's back while trying to have kids the whole time. She would send him to the Dr and say obviously it wasn't her fertility. After 6 years, and dodging her own appointments to get tested the last year she couldn't get out of it anymore. He took the day off work to make sure she went. She filed for divorce the night before. He was a dick to me but I always felt bad for him. I knew the whole time. He remarried quick and they've had a couple kids. My ex actually mocks this. She's now 45, alone, son long gone, and spends her nights obsessively cleaning and color coordinating her massive wardrobe.
Sounds like my father
I'm a Stav viewer, but I just started listening to Ian & Jordan, and she is incredible. Ian isn't far behind.
Hell yes! I love Jordan!
Stav looking like a snack keep it up brother
The way he talks about his current 12-year-old child is enough evidence that he should not have another child.
4:52. Best advice ive heard on here. This girl just laying some truth down lol
3:32 Jordan and the other guy are posted up like two guards where one always lies and one always tells the truth and if you get the riddle wrong, the glutinous monster on the chair eats you.
He just doesn’t wanna make another child support payment to another woman 🤣
100%
You know if your raise your child you don't have to pay child support right?
@@Quietlygm that’s the thing. He knows once he goes against his own gut and he has the kid it’s gonna go south , and they will end up splitting . Whether it be the resentment he has towards the kid or her. In turn he will end up paying another child support payment .
@@silver5liter "my wife wanted a divorce out of the blue" yeah for sure it was totally smooth sailing then one day COMPLETELY WITHOUT WARNING she bails
Whatever you do, don't have another kid. Who cares about your wife's feelings, worry about the feelings of an unwanted life
Ummm, maybe he should tell his wife that dum dum. She wants kids. It isn't unwanted for her.
I love Jordan 😍
These call ins are great. The people kid themselves is very interesting. We're all guilty of a bit of that. But it's interesting to essentially hear therapy questions out loud and in public
These are the calls that make me feel much better about my skills as a father/husband. I always feel like I’m barely treading water, but it takes one of these videos to make me realize I’m relatively freaking Michael Phelps.
"Take care of your son you obviously hate"
Lofl
I don't think anyone should have a kid just to placate their spouse. If that's the only reason you're having a kid, you are gonna fuck up that kid's life. He should just be honest with her and say he doesn't want anymore kids and if this is make or break for her then so be it. Given that the caller has been kicking the can down the road and lying to her for years, I think she could do better.
Omg this dude is such a coward
You could tell by 0:00 that this guy was a doofus
The poor kid has this gonk as a dad 🤦🏼
She gets hotter everytime she’s on the show
She was always hot imo
He more worried about the financials over the ethics of bringing new life into the world
This edition of Stavy looks like a drug lord that never leaves the mansion sitting on pool side chairs sippin on mixed drinks and eating ordourves
Eldis, you do know that yall can run a portable air conditioner in another room and just run the foil duct into the podcast studio. It won't effect audio if you do it right.
Might as well just tell the wife you want a divorce 💯
There have been some scumbags that have called into this show but this feels like the worst jesus christ lmao
Just tell her youre not having any more? Tf, if thats really a deal breaker then both need to move on
“I wouldn’t be able to live with myself faking I got a vasectomy reversal, looking at the hope in my wife’s eyes”
can't keep my eyes off of stavs shorts
I see this dudes point of view. He doesnt want to get financially locked down with another kid and hes already in his late 30s. I think he just needs to own it and be honest with his wife. If she leaves, well, it is what it is. If she forces him to have another kid he is going to hold so much resentment and be a terrible father. Women do get baby brain when they get middle aged, he might get lucky and it rides out and she changes her mind.
It seems like he's been lying to her the whole time, claiming he will eventually get it reversed but never planning to.
the lenghts men will go to in order ylto not hurt their woman's feelings is astounding.
i subscribe to the patrice O'Neil school of thought "no more kids, b**ch ! you knew this going in, im not doing it" lol
or honestly the pretending he tried but it didnt work is probably the best move for him
I do not understand how these people listen to this podcast and think like this.
Stav pisses me off sometimes. I don't get why ppl ask him for a relationship advice while this dude never been on a steady relationship.
To the called: rip the bandaid off and talk to her. Be a man. She won't like it and it'll break her heart, but at least you'll be honest.
Her hormones are raging and you won't stop it. Shell find someone who fulfils the duty.
For real. The guy makes me laugh but one look at him should tell you to never ask him for advice on anything
to be fair, stav understands women and does not act like andrew tate with them
This is for entertainment not knowledge.
Your username fits
Pro tip: don't take advice about children from a group of youtubers/ Podcaster that don't have children of their own
Honestly when the guys first impulse is, maybe I should lie and say I reversed my vasectomy and just hope this problem goes away, the bar is so low that anyone else’s advice is going to be a step up.
What part of "don't lie to your wife about wanting kids" do you think they're not qualified to speak on?
Stav run for president
Brisk walk at best
I've never heard of either of these two before, she's funny, but I'm so down with Kennedy, I'm from Minnesota and he said he's from Minnesota but he's really from North Dakota, I get him.
Only reason we ever drove over to North Dakota was for NDSU tailgates and better fireworks other than that not missing much
@beesechurger_1 friend of mine got kicked out, heard he was selling weed and he forgot to turn his shower off while playing xbox, water blew through the floor and he got evicted
@@gelliaramadis522 Jesus hahah
At 6+ years, a reversal probably isn't gonna do shit anyway.
God damn those shorts are riding high
why stav looking kinda... skinnier ?
He told her when they got together he had a vasectomy, done, end of story. She didn't have to marry him, she gets nothing! 🤣
Well no, he also lied to her that he would have the vasectomy reversed despite having no intention of doing so. He never even wanted kids and misrepresented himself to manipulate her.
Yo, is Jortan sangle?
"Have the kid or get the vasectomy reversed" Isn't that the same thing?
I swear the callers are becoming worse and worse people 😭
Yeah, this guy shouldn't have anymore kids
They talking about having a kid like it’s easy and cheap lmao. Making it is easy the part after is what this dude doesn’t want
He has a vasectomy and she didn't understand that he hated having a kid, that's on her. (Edited for tense)
If she wanted kids that bad why would she get with someone who had a vasectomy in the first place
Ummm, because he keeps giving her the impression that he would reverse it??
If you are getting a vasectomy and plan on getting it reversed later, you shouldnt get one at all.
It doesn’t make any sense to me
You don’t want kids?
Then simply say, I don’t want kids
People have a very hard time planting their foot down
God damn those shorts are riding high and tight
He doesnt love her. If he did, hed be honest snd let her go make a family with someone else. Hes selfish. He wants things to stay the way they are because it works for him.
If you get into a relationship with someone you know does OnlyFans, you don't get to tell them later that is bothers you. If you get into a relationship with someone who has already had a vasectomy and you change your mind, you're the asshole here.
Yo Jordan, what the hell? Why you looking so good in this episode? Damn girl ok I see you. Lol
If you aren't semi ok with gettin a girl pregnant then dont be in a long term relationship with them when theyre getting older. People who say they dont want a kid, don't want one with that person
Dude just give her a kid if you really love her.
😂
You CAN reverse vasectomies, but it's not a 100% thing. Better than 50% odds, but a lot of variability in there. But I feel like this guy would use that knowledge poorly and gamble on a failure lol
lol is communication really that scary? The girl may leave you but she will probably stay.
You shouldn't have married her if you didn't want kids like she did
is she relalated to ari
Nope. Can’t sleep to you lol 😅this shit serious. Gotta go to sleep to the political stuff 😅
I love the assumption that not having a child would ruin her life. The opposite could easily be as true.
They're saying that because she very explicitly wants a kid and has for years, and her biological clock is ticking and if the dumbass caller doesn't man up one way or the other she might never be able to have one
@@khalbrucie The solution would have been to not knowingly marry someone who cannot have children. Buyer's remorse apparently.
@thrombolin vasectomies can be reversed, its not like he had his balls cut off lol. The caller is the only one being dishonest here, he's in the wrong
@@khalbrucie Certain vasectomies are irreversible. Generally a physician will say that they are irreversible or are unlikely to be reversed. Even if a reversal procedure is performed, there is no certainty that it will be successful. He is not in the wrong as he told her prior to marriage. Her ignorance of medical knowledge and her poor decision making is not his fault.
@thrombolin the procedure that the caller had clearly is reversible since he's considering reversing it. Regardless of whether his would successfully be reversed or not the issue with the caller is that he's being dishonest about his intentions to his wife, idk how you're not seeing this.
People are so heartless.
The middle person is obviously on speed or coke it's insane how much they move their mouth the entire video
also your voice just wake. Lol I want sleep. News sleep. Political commentators silent like sand man. And then I don’t have to remember dreams. So. Bye. And music man has messages in bottles with friends.
How is the wife any better than him?
wool socks to bed = sleep improvement to a drug addiction cure level🟩🟠
He more worried about the financials over the ethics of bringing new life into the world
he's already had a kid, i think he made up his mind on the ethics of reproduction lol