‘You just have to try to find the faith’: Parents of Tristyn Bailey work to find purpose, make a...
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- Опубліковано 29 бер 2023
- Chronicling their heartbreak, pain and strength, the parents of Tristyn Bailey gave their first sit-down interview on Thursday to talk about losing their 13-year-old daughter and pushing forward with her legacy. www.news4jax.com/news/local/2...
It's absolutely disgusting that people knew/ heard about Aiden's plans and said nothing to law enforcement. Both the teens and adults, SHAME ON EACH OF THEM!
They are kids calm tf down you weirdo
i wonder if there were anything aboute what he thought doing was typed , written on any internet forum or if it was just in the talking way , i mean so many people young old that think of hurting or killing someone , they post it on any kind of forum as a notice whats coming .
My parents both have antisocial personality disorder. I also tried to warn and tell people about them. No one believes you until something comparable happens to them. I always cry when I see stories like these because even though the scenario is never the same, the psychological harm these people cause to survivors is very similar. You struggle everyday for a modicum of peace and joy and the vanilla people are not capable of relating because they have not had a comparable loss.
What adults knew?
@Sharyl Faganel 4:21The mother mentions adults ignored the warning signs.
I love how you were able to bring your beautiful daughter to life. My heart breaks for your loss there are no words. I write this to let you know I see her legacy building in her tribute, the beauty in the way you raised your children and the love shared in the home. Her earthly life was bright, we can only imagine how bright she shined amongst Heaven's angels. My sincere condolences to her family and her friends. A great loss indeed.
Beautifully said. My heart breaks for Tristyn's Parents & herself. Been following since Tristyn went missing. So amazing threw all their grief & suffering to do these wonderful things in their daughter's name. 😢🙏💙
I’ve cried everyday this week learning of this. Absolutely devastating. Praying for her family❤️
She was just a gorgeous soul, may this beautiful family find God's heart always close ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss. As a parent I cannot imagine the kind of pain caused by losing your daughter. God bless you. Praying for peace and strength for you during this very difficult time.
You can tell the parents are in so much pain, the slowness in their speech, absolute true emotion. Disgusting of him to put the family through this. Evil. Love always wins. RIP beautiful ❤
I think Aiden's girlfriend and Trey should both be charged. They knew what Aiden was going to do. Especially Trey he even gave him Tristyn's info to contact her.
Their babies think of yourself at that age lol you people are truly evil
Don't you worry, Mr. And Mrs. Bailey. Tristyn's legacy will forever live on. God bless you all.
Tray told the investigator they hung out many times together. The 3 of them. Go and listen to the first audio interview. He also said that Aiden talked to Tristyn in class since they shared the same class. It doesn't even matter whether they hung out or not or if they knew each other more or not. The child is gone. RIP.
Parents, LEARN from this. Keep 10 eyes on your child. Alarms on the windows and doors so you know when they open them. As far as Middle and high school kids, what do you think they do. Play dominos? NO, they are exploring with good and BAD things. They lie and sneak out. They test the waters with drugs, they try sex. Sane or insane, they gather and expose themselves to each other. Outsmart them and protect them 10x more than you intend.
Preach!
One day at the wrong time at the wrong place and it happens. You cannot protect your child 24/7. From the moment of birth you have to live with this fear.
Tristyn was such a beautiful young girl! It truly was heartbreaking to watch her mother and father speak about their fondest memories of her in this clip, especially when knowing that having to move on without her is going to be extremely difficult. I'm glad they established a foundation dedicated to her memory. I'm gonna consider donating to it from time to time. I have nothing but absolute anger and resentment towards Aiden for what he did to her! He savagely murdered her in cold blood for no reason other than wanting to see what it would feel like to take somebody's life. Plus he had such a twisted, vile fascination with evil since he drew such grotesque, demonic drawings in his spare time. He is a very satanic, evil, rotten person who will eventually pay eternally for what he did to Tristyn. Meanwhile, I have no doubt in my mind that she is in Heaven, and dwelling happily under God's undying protection.
God Bless You Forrest and Stacy Bailey! Your gorgeous little creation is in God's care now, and she will always remain in your hearts eternally!
~Dutch
That was beautifully said I can't add anything to your comment, I would like to tell you thank you for expressing my thoughts
@@janleslie7163 It certainly was my pleasure!
~Dutch
My sincere condolences to you on the loss of your Daughter ♥️ 🙏 ❤
My heart bleeds and goes out to the Bailey Family it’s really hard to fathom a child’s loss my sister lost both her boys through Chicago violence and now she has none . I just pray this family receives the peace they need cause it’s hard for my family my sister especially to get the peace she deserves ..God bless all 🙏🏻 Rip Tristyn you will truly be missed 🙏🏻💜🙏🏻💜🙏🏻
Bless your family❤️
@@erinsue5 thank you I really appreciate that . God bless all 🙏🏻💜🙏🏻
I am going to pray that God
will heal your hearts. Only
HE can do this. Our 17 year
old son commited suicide
in 2004. There were many
Christian leaders who told
us that Matthew was a
special young man who
had a calling from God
to be involved in ministry.
We went through questions and much anger.
How was this allowed?!
I understand somewhat
your sorrow and loss, but
your loss is very personal
and fresh. Healing is a
process, but i KNOW God
loves you and your
beautiful daughter. HE
will give you beauty for
ashes and joy in place
of sorrow......I pray peace
for your family, and
love, joy, and a fulfilling
life. It is possible and
it is what HE desires for
you. Reach out to me if
you feel led.
Also asking God to give
you personal reassurances
that can come only
through Him.
@@florairvan8305 thank you so much for reaching out and telling ur story am so sorry 😢 we have to live with out our loss loved ones but my reassurance is God promised we will all be together again . My heart goes out to you and your family . God is Loveling and Good 👍🏽 God bless you and all 🙏🏻💜🙏🏻💜🙏🏻
My deepest sincere condolences to this beautiful family for such a huge loss, and really hope that true peace will one day descend on their home and will allow them to somehow be able to look into some form of future. This was so devastating for them and for their entire community, but they demonstrated to have the strength of a giant, perhaps inspired by the memories of their beloved baby daughter. They are an example for everyone. Also hope they will follow on their faith and believe that the deep love for their daughter means such a deep connection with her than even death cannot defeat, as everyone could see all these long months of pain and despair, and keep the belief that at the end of the times everyone reunites again with the loved ones because of this connection. Rest In Peace sweet Tristyn 🙏💔
Wow, my heart is broken for this family. I pray for them everyday.
I do not know her but this girl is forever in my heart 🤍
So saddened that she was only in your life for a short time. I pray that God will cover you with His peace. May her memory continue to bring smiles to your face.
Vic, our family moved to Durbin Crossing in 2013, the week that Cherish Perrywinkle was murdered. You did a excellent job covering that case, honoring Cherish’s memory,and her case will always haunt me. We left Florida a year later, but even now,Tristyn’s murder hits too close to home, as my own daughter is only eight months to the day, older than Tristyn. Having lived in Durbin Crossing, it is easy to understand that at only 13, Tristyn must have thought she had a sense of security that night, as Durbin Crossing feels like it’s own beautiful little village, where nothing bad could ever happen. Heartbreakingly, Tristyn, like Cherish, is now another victim of a senseless, brutal crime.
I thank you, for how you’ve covered this case, too, always respectful, always as much of the victim’s advocate that a reporter can be. May God bless and comfort the beautiful Bailey Seven. So many of us will NEVER FORGET precious Tristyn, and will find ways, to always honor her memory.✝️🙏🏽💔👗🕊️🤍
God help this family 🙏 RIP sweet angel ❤Sorry this happened to you 😢
Imagine being Tristyn's sister that caught her sneaking out and not stopping her....then finding out this. Prayers for healing. So fricken sad!!
I didn’t know her sister knew she snuck out. Why didn’t she stop her 😢
Sending the Baileys lots of love from Malaysia (a stone’s throw from Singapore, where they lived for some time). I just cannot fathom the pain that they’re going through right now. I just wish and pray for them to find some peace at some point ❤
it is difficult to imagine what this family has experienced.
I feel so sorry for the Baileys 💔❤️💔😔🥀
May God's grace and loving kindness cover your family during this difficult time 🙏🙏🙏♥️
So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family, from TN.
I am so sorry for their devastating and senseless loss 🙏🙏
😢 I cryed hearing all of their letters to the Judge !💔 Very good people
God will never leave u so lean on him to give u peace to get threw this so sorry for ur loss
I'm sure that girlfriend of his must be relieved beyond measure that Aiden didn't end up choosing her. Those are not the kind of people you want to deal with. Aiden must have genuinely loved her for him to not have killed her. Hopefully she learned from this and be a little more selective about the kind of guys she says before she ends up meeting the same horrible fate that'd befallen poor Tristyn. Rest in heaven, Tristyn.
My heart breaks for this family. Tristyn was the image of her Mom. ❤️ The works will never forget Tristyn 🙏
PRAYING FOR ALL, PRAYING FOR HEALING 🙏
Love to you all I can’t imagine how you all feel sending so much love x ❤
You did not have to meet Tristyn, to see the amazing and beautiful soul this beautiful young lady was and to know that she would grow into an amazing young lady who was capable of being anything she wanted in life.
She had a purpose and a place in this world that no one had a right to deny her of.
From all I've learned about Tristyn, and her family, they are the kind of family we should be lucky enough to grow up in, and the kind of family we should strive to become when make a family of our own some day.
My heart grieves for them and this beautiful daughter they lost.
There were many missed opportunities to intervene in this evil plan this POS had in mind and no one spoke up- how different would this have turned out if just one person had the courage to stand up and do the right thing?
As parents and grandparents, it's time that we have to teach our kids to beware of this new predator called "fake friends"
It does not matter if you think someone is joking, trying to act tough, impress you, etc... talking about hurting people or animals is the sign of severe mental issues and the person needs to be reported so they can get the help they need.
They are not safe for anyone to be around if they have thoughts like this- stand up, speak up, and be the voice that saves lives. You can report it anonymously- just report it if you hear it! Please!
My brain is bursting trying to understand this and I wish there was something that could be said to erase this families heartbreak but there are no words.. but I pray that our savior Jesus Christ comfort them and ease their pain. They're right when they said if it hadn't been her, it would have been some other girl, but because Tristyn was so loved, this became an internationally know case and I pray young girls have learned something from this and things to watch out for, hopefully keeping them alive.. Even guys need to watch out for this behavior from their other guy friends . Father in Jesus name, please bless the Bailey family 😢
The music in the background in the beginning is kind of inappropriate
The best advice that I have ever heard for explaining why one's child was murdered:
The police investigator said to look at it like your child was struck by lightning. Sadly, There is no why.
Bring out their daughters spirit and honouring her legacy. We love you trystan rest easy princess😞💔
My God, this hurts so badly They need all of our support.
My heart breaks for Tristyn's parents ❤ won't say the coward's name that took Ms. Bailey's life, bless you beautiful girl, I pray your momma will find some peace
I have 4 daughters. 3 adults one still a baby (5) I could not imagine! 💔😢 I'm really glad my kids listened. They did things don't get me wrong. But, sneaking out the house. Blatantly disobedient. No way! That's why kids listen to your parents. Don't grow up before your time. I seen the backstory on this. And, I wish Tristyn would've stayed home. Instead, she linked up with a demon. 🤦😭🕊️💕🙏
love from Sacramento!
REST IN PEACE BEAUTIFUL TRISTYN 🙏
Such a beautiful girl,my condolences to the Baileys❤
She is a beautiful ❤️ her smile made me smile ❤️
Poor parents. My heart bleeds for them ❤
Fucci parents and girlfriend saw bad warning signs and did nothing and trey giving him contact info when hey knows aiden wanted to kill someone joking are not
@@mischaraine1645 I never said girl could of stopped this but if your boyfriend is saying he's going to kill someone in a month and do it in the woods I just think you at least go to police are a school teacher
@@mischaraine1645 wait a minute are you saying your boyfriend puts knife to your throat and tells you he's going to kill someone in a month in woods,you wouldn't report to anyone?
@@mischaraine1645 I get what you mean he probably would of killed her if she went to cops I just feel bad for the Bailey family
@@mischaraine1645 yeah the sleep over is bizarre, my daughter is 25 now there was no boyfriends sleeping over at my house,do you know was the girlfriend older then 14 ?
@@mischaraine1645 I do also yeah this one really bothered me
We are there for you and your family ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊 couldn’t imagine what you and your family are going through 😢😢😢😢.
RIP sweet Angel 😇 you are no longer in pain 🙏🏻🙏🏻
The whole Bailey family speak so eloquently
Still don't understand why she passed her own home and walked the whole way in the opposite direction? It's not like it was close by?
I'm sure the family has been all over the map for the what- ifs...my heart goes out to this family for having to deal with such a mindless tragedy. They seem very sweet, sending them love and healing prayers ❤️
Heart felt sympathy 😢🙌
A true angel and beautiful young lady taken way too soon my prayers go out to the Bailey family and remember be the Bailey strong and the Bailey 7
Having lost my daughter in a hit and run accident, I have a good understanding . It's OK to question God. He understands. We might not get all the answers on this side of life. It doesn't get easier, but you get stronger. Hang in there. 🙏🙏
I’m sorry for their loss and pain I have never lost a child to something so horrific and Aiden is where he should be and some kid’s don’t always believe someone when they say something like that in hindsight they should have but they are kid’s and at time’s kid’s like to shock other kid’s by saying something like that unfortunately he wasn’t just saying that he meant it. I feel that telling his girlfriend was actually a cry for help but being young she might not have sensed that he might have been wanting her somehow to stop him from doing that but it’s only a guess I could be wrong but you can’t blame those 2 kid’s for what Aiden did it wasn’t their fault and now they may face ridicule because of what he said to them and that wouldn’t be fair to either one of them. Taunting them or bullying them won’t bring Tristen back but it may have a terrible effect on them and if they do get bullied well we know what happens to some kid’s who are bullied especially if they aren’t strong enough to ignore it and then another family would be mourning the loss of their child. RIP TRISTEN GOD HAS YOU NOW 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I'm sad they lost their daughter, especially in such a horrific way, but what makes her so much more special than all the other murdered children out there? I'm tired of hearing about them
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
It is heartbreaking what the killer did to this family.... so sad!!!
Sorry for your loss
I can not begin to fathom how heartbreaking this has been on the Bailey's and all those who knew Tristyn. I have an unbreakable faith in our Lord & Savior, Jesus Christ, but understand that their faith has been shaken. I have particularly taken interest in this case as I am raising my granddaughter who ironically is the same age as Tristyn & shares the same last name. It would absolutely destroy me if something happened to her. Tristyn did not die in vain! Her story has raised awareness in our lives that trust is earned & the consequences of sneaking out at night where you don't have family there to protect you from the evils of this world. I pray that the Bailey's keep her legacy alive & that it somehow helps them heal. 🙏
I cannot imagine what this family has been through.
I am a secular Jew, and never understood Christian submission to a deity that often does nothing to protect the innocent. God reminds me of a lifeguard, fully aware you're screaming for help, yet just sitting there watching you drown. He won't jump in. Another example, in Auschwitz, a doomed prisoner had scribbled on the wall: "If there is a God, He will have to beg my forgiveness". so.... just one man's honest view.
@@steveshapiro326 Your
remark rubbed salt into
their wounds, though I
understand your feelings,
knowing that your people
suffered horribly, and
do so to this day. I can
also understand your
bitterness. It is too
difficult to live in a world
when you don't acknowledge a divine
being who is love, despite
it all
@@steveshapiro326 Surely you understand there is an evil entity among us who despises all of God's creations and most of all the Jewish people since you are his chosen people. Blame Satan for Hitler's actions, it's he who allowed the untold tragedies and continues to do so.
Try becoming Born Again and having your spiritual eyes open so you can see past the secular world.
I like the moms voice. I think the problem is now days teens joke about a lot of dark humor. Even in media you see it more so it’s not that shocking when someone says it.
I agree with everything the mom says
I hope this family can honor her life by not letting this evil continue to take away their smiles and laughs. I hope her brother reaches his goals just for her. The way she was taken is the worst definition of everything evil and horrific.
I never understand why people say "why her" or "why him." Like it would be okay if it was somebody else.
@@mischaraine1645 My point still stands... why not just question why. I agree with what you're saying about not being able to wrap our minds around it. Always odd to me when people say 'why was it my person and not somebody else's'
13. WHY WAS A 13 YEAR OLD OUT?? WITH TWO BOYS? In the killers best friend interview he said she responded to his or both texts to go over and chill. Then she leaves with the killer? The sister caught her escaping the house. Like its tragic but shes got fault in it. I was not leaving my home at that age. A bad whopping and being grounded. And she had a bf?
Victim blaming? Seriously?
Rip trystin Bailey. May god bless your soul ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Tristynbaileystrong!!!! 💙💙💙👗🙏🏼
Baby angel. T you 🙏💯 are loved missed cared about so so much my love care praying 🙏🙏💔😢 for the baby t in heaven but the prayers to the Bailey seven God bless 🙏😇 👼 in 🙏 💔 heaven forest n Stacy your great people and I wished to change back time my care heart to the Bailey seven God bless 🙏🙏 blessings
Our late queen Elizabeth said grief is the price we pay for love.
I question it a lot more now too!!😢🙏
So sad.... 😢
😢😢😢
So many lives destroyed. My heart goes out to Trystin´s family.
Sorry Reporters! The real question that needs to be asked is “How did you not know your 13 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER was not at home at 1 o’clock in the morning?” What was your 13 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER doing out at 1 o’clock in the morning?” “Is it normal for your child to be out that late?” ACCOUNTABILITY!!! They need to drink some.
Not trying to be rude but her mom said people ignored the warning signs but my? Is why didn't they watch her closer bc I tell you my teen daughter would never be out those late hours without me knowing
Had she snuck out at night?
"Without me knowing".
They didn't know she was out.
@@leairamoore1802Exactly!
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THIS IS SÒOOO SAD CAM NEVER KNOW SOME ONES PAIN
2 years today 🩵
People are so ignorant.. try to ignore, ignorance..Sorry for your loss, un imagable pain and they are they devil speaking!! One day we'll all be together ❤️ People love your Family
so when he reached out to her n told her to come hang out... was that the point he knew she woupd be his victim??
Sadly, there is Evil in this world. She should have stayed at home, a child of 13 y does not belong outside at 1 am with a boy. That is not an excuse for what that monster did to her, but one needs to be cautious and not put oneself in potential dangerous situations. And being outside, alone in the night with a stranger, as a woman/ girl, is extremely dangerous
So sory Mom. Pls dont understand Gid Jehiva power. He would not give us the real hope off Reserection he is a God of Love. Lucifer is the power in this world today by Gods Allowance. He will be delt with by Jesus Gods Son. A Revelation . Heart ache is very real. Lots of luv from South Africa. May God give you Strenth and Knowledge in your Pain.
What else does the girlfriend need say Aiden has already got sentencing. That is not good going to change. It's a rap.😮
I would have to move. I couldn't walk by her room everyday. 😢
The girlfriend not coming forward has bothered me
I have wondered myself if she & Trey helped plan it. And, then I thought loser Fucci didn't say anything because he didn't want to be viewed as a snitch. My heart aches so much for Tristyn's parents. 😥💔
@@marqmars3599 it's strange how aidens girlfriend was not around at the end the 3 of them into these gore movies, why girlfriend not with trey aiden ,trysten
Karma comes around,
@@jacliveshere she's lucky to be alive
@@jacliveshere I got to here tre's interview it seems trystin was hanging with the 4 of them ,he's acting shocked but it's police and dad and lawyer there,these boys just check in and do what they want
A lot of people ALLOWED this to happen!! 😡
This poor family. Im sure Aiden's mother knew something was off with her kid she just chose to ignore it. Those kids should of told their parents or teachers about what Aiden said about killing too. This could of been prevented maybe. They need to be punished in some way also.
I read more than once that the boy’s girlfriend knew of his violent thoughts and plan but didn’t think he was serious. Omg you don’t take a chance with that type of remark. Better to tell an authority and nothing come of it than this, what a tragedy.
Satan is real, and so tragically Tristyn met him. Sickening what was done. Prayers to her family. Wonderful people.
Yeah...the other guy's police interview was alarming. Showed zero feelings...like he was doing a fiction book review. I do believe that he knows more & had some responsibility in her death.
I would totally question God as well .
My condolence to this family🙏, BUT to the mother, don't question GOD, question yourself, Not 13 years old should be hanging around at midnight 😢
@mbison7combo: I have thought about her leaving the house that late, 1:00 in the morning?? This is in no way to place blame but the parents didn’t know she had left the house?
@maridepp53 my oldest is 27 years old and still don't leave the house without telling me, as parents we have to tell our kids straight forward and what could happens and situations, WE LIVING IN AN EVIL WORLD.
I am so confused by the timeline and everything that people are saying. Tre said that him and Tristan and Aiden would hang out a lot. And in fact she showed up that night with Aiden to Tre's house where they hung out and she stayed till 1 in the morning and he had to kick them out of his house or he could go to bed and he said that that's the way it always was, with Tristan especially shed never want to leave so he would have to ask them to leave. So why is her parents saying that they didn't know each other and he picked her randomly? I also have a very strong suspicion knowing how intense a middle school romance can be just from having kids of my own and remembering what it was like that Aiden's girlfriend had a little bit more information that Tristan was going to be his victim. Because supposedly Tristan had told Tre that Aidan had a big
d!ck and that she had a little bit of a romantic interest in both Tre and Aiden. I think maybe this girl he was telling all the time that he was going to kill somebody that it was going to be this week that it was going to be this month that he picked Tristan and with his girlfriend knowing these things Tristan had supposedly said that she kept it to herself.
Just stop. That is not helping anyone.
Yes I listened to the police interview of Tre as well and the information is vastly different and disturbing.
This is true. I just listened to the police interview with Tre.
That is super mess--- up😮
I can’t believe the mother said she will never forgive Fucci . Well if ur a true Christian u should know God said the right thing to do is to forgive. I don’t expect it to happen anytime soon because I know I’d be the same way. BUT if u are a true Christian then u know that it’s what ur supposed to do. I never expect them to forget or let him off the hook . He is being punished and will be for quite sometime. But eventually u have to find it within ur self . U have to do what God tells u and trust in ur faith . That’s what being a Christian means. Everyone should eventually be forgiven . It may take a year or 15 years but u are supposed to forgive. I can’t say I know how they feel because I don’t. I don’t know I have been through some very difficult things and I have had to bring my self to forgive someone that hurt me to my core. This person broke up my family and broke my heart . But eventually I did have many discussions with God and I did eventually forgive that person. I haven’t forgotten by no means but I do feel a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. To forgive is to free ur self from all the hate and anger . Once u do that ur life isn’t as bad or sad…..
@@Gobo--Fraggle right.
@@mischaraine1645 I never said I was any better . I’m putting this out there to the world that you don’t u I fr CD DVD bad d
"Forgiveness" lol
There will never be any forgiveness for Fucci.
Feed that fucci family to the gators.
The devil has people so decieved! She's believed in a false God believe on the Lord Jesus Christ the only begotten son of the Father the creator of the Universe
i am sorry but i dont like or trust these 2 people
and even more money for them
I can't imagine losing my daughter so painful my God bless the family
❤❤❤prayers to these warriors- 🫶🏻🙌🏻
Parents have to be aware of the company your children keep because we live in an evil world you have to be careful.