I know I said this last time but you look gorgeous, your make up is so pretty! I'm really glad you made this video, some of these things may seem "obvious" but I also think it's an "easier said than done" type of thing. When you're going through it, I can imagine, its difficult to try and make yourself do some of these things when you really don't want to. When you said like so does that mean I'm not fighting hard enough bc I'm not "winning" the war made me want to cry! I think its crazy how even when we praise someone else for their remission or whatever it is we have to make sure we are wording it correctly so we are not putting others down or making them feel less than bc of something they have absolutely no control over no matter what they do. I never would really have thought about that! I think this could help so many people, not just people with cancer but their loved ones--friends and family--who could use some inside info on how to make everyone more comfortable.
Yes its hard on everyone. It's just too easy to not talk about, to try to be "normal" and its just not healthy! Im probably too open, i mean i tell anybody who asks what i do that i have cancer, they seem to be shocked for a moment then give it the "I'm so sorry" I just carry on talking like it was normal and they usually do the same. Some cant get away quick enough though as if its catching lol.
@@sharonclarke6970 Omgoodness! That's just ignorant. Some people just probably get uncomfortable cuz they don't know what to say and feel helpless. But I think what you do is honestly the best way, not that we want to normalize cancer but it's affecting so many people and those people are still nornal with feelings and emotions and I think just saying like I'm here no matter what you need! Like if you need to scream, yell, curse, & cry-- I'm here. If you want to just forget about the cancer and not talk about it for a while or do something fun or unexpected--I'm here! I think people always try to put on a brave face and pretend like nothing's wrong, not just with illness but in so many other aspects of life and that shit is for the birds. All of our emotions and feelings are valid and okay! Even the bad ones! Girl that hurricane is supposed to hit tonight! I got a full house! Lol
@@TheRealCarolinaQueen OOMG, stay safe. Do you have good protection? I have no idea what I mean about that! I'm imagining storm cellars like on the Wizard of Oz. Sorry,I'm just a bit ignorant of what happens in the situation you are facing. I have my fingers crossed for you and am keeping you in my thoughts x.
I know I said this last time but you look gorgeous, your make up is so pretty! I'm really glad you made this video, some of these things may seem "obvious" but I also think it's an "easier said than done" type of thing. When you're going through it, I can imagine, its difficult to try and make yourself do some of these things when you really don't want to. When you said like so does that mean I'm not fighting hard enough bc I'm not "winning" the war made me want to cry! I think its crazy how even when we praise someone else for their remission or whatever it is we have to make sure we are wording it correctly so we are not putting others down or making them feel less than bc of something they have absolutely no control over no matter what they do. I never would really have thought about that! I think this could help so many people, not just people with cancer but their loved ones--friends and family--who could use some inside info on how to make everyone more comfortable.
Yes its hard on everyone. It's just too easy to not talk about, to try to be "normal" and its just not healthy! Im probably too open, i mean i tell anybody who asks what i do that i have cancer, they seem to be shocked for a moment then give it the "I'm so sorry" I just carry on talking like it was normal and they usually do the same. Some cant get away quick enough though as if its catching lol.
@@sharonclarke6970 Omgoodness! That's just ignorant. Some people just probably get uncomfortable cuz they don't know what to say and feel helpless. But I think what you do is honestly the best way, not that we want to normalize cancer but it's affecting so many people and those people are still nornal with feelings and emotions and I think just saying like I'm here no matter what you need! Like if you need to scream, yell, curse, & cry-- I'm here. If you want to just forget about the cancer and not talk about it for a while or do something fun or unexpected--I'm here! I think people always try to put on a brave face and pretend like nothing's wrong, not just with illness but in so many other aspects of life and that shit is for the birds. All of our emotions and feelings are valid and okay! Even the bad ones! Girl that hurricane is supposed to hit tonight! I got a full house! Lol
@@TheRealCarolinaQueen OOMG, stay safe. Do you have good protection? I have no idea what I mean about that! I'm imagining storm cellars like on the Wizard of Oz. Sorry,I'm just a bit ignorant of what happens in the situation you are facing. I have my fingers crossed for you and am keeping you in my thoughts x.