Hey Steve: How Do We Go From Being Long Distance To Living Together?
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- Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
- The biggest mistake you can make is trying to make the relationship 50/50.
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My wife controls everything at home and I enjoy it too because it makes me feel free and relaxed as I focus on making money for our survival.
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@@samerhoussein lmaooo
OMG😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
so you are saying that you have a collar and your submissive for your wife 😂😂😂
If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.
-Bob Marley
The only thing I agree with is the sentence starting with "Truth." Not all women should be placed in the same category as if the absolute answer to love is revealed. If she's amazing, she could still be easy. If she's hard, she could be settling with that man being less than what she wants, and as long as that man will give her his all. Being hard, you could be her 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 20th option. Golddiggers aren't easy either until you show them the gold. They are the hardest to gain since they are the hardest to please. Most women want the world, so if you are not willing to give them it, you are not worth it.
People only show you what they want to show you, and until they have what they want, you will get the same expression that all users express when aiming to impress: the smile and the great personality.
Steve Harvey wouldn't have Marjorie without his money and status, so thinking he is the idol and knowledge of women he could never attain without it carries a false narrative. Even Bob Marley was rich and attractive and famous. So to assume he wasn't playing the game also makes you a darn fool. It is all talking points for the fans (base) and the ratings. Only a fool gives his soul for love, not knowing the true heart and the intention it carries.
Steve doesn't care about what he is saying, as long as he's getting paid. He knows what base to target because the base outnumbers his gender and he doesn't give a damn about what men think, only what he thinks.
Statistically, women outnumber men. And as long as men are dying at a faster and greater number than women, he will always be in the money. He's not a stupid man, his fans are. And he knows this. But since the race of man only knows what they see and hear, the lie will always be more entertaining.
Ooohohohoho!!! Ooohhh boy!!! This is a GOOD ONE!!! Wow you pulled up a golden one!!
Preaccccchhhhhhed!
@@eferfjyytnos6313 facts bro
He's going to run back to Europe 😂
what are you talking about, thats one fine looking woman
@@brothersofthewolves what you find fine about her they didn't show her body or anything
But why would he if his woman does 85% of the work. The woman is to clean,wash,cook,nurse the kids and take them to school and pick them up Now what the men do is bring home the money and protect if need be. Steve is on point. 85/15. it's what steve does eventhough he has a maid
Women are the same in Europe...
All these ppl disagreeing with Steve probably miserable. Listen to this man, happy wife happy life.
I really like this young man! Very open and honest! Steves's advice is excellent!
Should be 100/100
Definitely
Agreed
Well said.
That's what I thought he was going to say.
Agree. Men and women must give our 100%.
Marriage is 100/100. Each person needs to give it all they have in order for the relationship to work.
I understand that no one can give 100% all the time, but at least make an effort to do your very best in a relationship. 85/15 is very selfish. As a woman, I would feel like I'm cheapening my husband by only giving 15.
Most people don’t have a 100 percent off the gate but I like what you are saying .. do the best you can to serve and take care of each other.. don’t get put off with the term serve .. I am implying the idea of giving of oneself in terms of energy emotions time and talents.. anyway steve gives comedic responses for entertainment I think 🤔 not to be taken seriously.. lol 😂
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But the ladies don't act like that.
Agreed
Well he’s not saying that you do 15% of the effort and let the women do 85%. He’s saying in terms of negotiating and making choices for everyday living, that a women will be happier if she’s generally making most of the choice, as long as the man’s smaller cut is all he needs. Women are cultivators, they need a lot to work with such as needed multiple resources for birth giving. Men are providers to such a birth giver. Thus, men are used to earning and giving. Women are used to being valued and taking. 50/50 takes both those biological instincts away.
Long story short: use 100% on the 15% of the man responsibilities, and women will use 100% of the women responsibilities on her 85%. Find that balance and commit to maintaining that ratio for the rest of your life. That’s what he’s saying
I believe it's key to balance time together and apart. Having your own life gives you independence and is appealing to both partners. You'll have more to share when you're together. And time apart fuels desire for each other.
That part 🗣🗣🗣🗣
That’s what I keep telling people
Steve, if what you say is true...why on Earth would a man want to be in a relationship!? Man corner? If I'm single I have a man apartment!
that was secretly his message behind what he said xD
i guess you will grow old and alone with a whole flat all to yourself
Yup. I'm single and I have a "man home." This "advice" is lunacy. SMH
I think missed it man 😁
You missed the point..
There is ALWAYS that one person that will be giving MORE than the other person at any given time...recognizing what the other person is doing NOT just for him/her but for you too can make a world of difference and last but not least RESPECT that person's opinions!!!
I don’t agree with what he says and I’m a woman,why would I wanna control everything,no it’s a partnership not bullying
Exactly thank you so much you are 100% , Steve Harvey some times he says things to make some women happy ..but doesn’t make sense.
Right. I want a man that’s going to be effort. I’m not his mom.
K Yan I agree with you , that would lead only to resentment .
K Yan my mom use takeout food from the freezer then ask what you guys want for dinner , hahahahaha I listen to you inside the house , you listen to me outside the house .
Steve is just really old school he's not in the future with this generation of people and relationships
Relationships are 100/100
Both have to be all in.
here he's talking about space, but in everything else i agree with you
Nikki Campbell yup my hubby always tells me that
So it's 200% then? Why did people start saying that? They act like they didn't grasp what people was saying, when they said 50/50.
Gl with finding that kind of relationship in this day and age.
@@ladennayoung2939 I think she means you give 100% of your effort to make it work. If I give 50% of my effort, to make it work, then I am holding back. I'm not giving it my all.
I think he was being tongue-in-cheek lol. He was sharing how to avoid getting on each other's nerves lol.
I agree
Exactly… Steve turns things into a joke… and most people are missing the point. I know for me, I don’t want a man I can run over… usually women get less from men, we do more, they don’t care about the household like that and especially the kitchen… I don’t want to run my house like that alone, when I get married… I’m tired of making decisions and I want a man to take control and lead and I sit back and receive. The men I meet in these days want to act like a woman 😐
Listen to Steve he has been
Divorced a few times.
It is called compromise between partners. Both need to be happy not just one
No it's literally 100/100. It ought to be anyway. Relationships are 2 independent healthy lives brought together into one.
you just dont understand. and what do you mean by 100/100. if so, why not say 1000/1000. Anyway, at the end of the day, its up to you, how you construe it.
super FACTS
my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. After dating for almost 2 years she chose to pursue her studies abroad for almost 2 years and now we have been doing long distance relationships and we hardly get time to talk to each other due to time difference and individual's task. I'm lil worried that this might affect our relationship like in terms of losing feelings and lack of attention and so on. I'm still hoping for the best and trying to have persistence in me.
I believe what Steve is trying to say is be a gentleman and let the lady be herself and don't let it get on your nerves, because having a girlfriend is worth looking past the petty problems men might be annoyed with. Sacrifice is key.
“Getchu man corner” 😂😂
Long distance relationship is really killing me
Listen, 15% might of worked back then but these days if you ain't meeting half way, someone's got to bounce.
As much as i disagree i agree, as well. I have lived with woman all my life. And most of you guys forget the question he asked, it was about transition of living together seeing each other everyday but not getting on each others nerves. So all the woman saying no hes wrong its suppose to 50, 50 which is ideal but come on thats not how it works and Steve knows this. Especially depending on the type of woman because in order to live with them peacefully with as little arguments as possible just let her do it her way, trust its alot easier then arguing. I live with women i know. Aslong as i got my room i am chillin. As far as financially and spending wise if you dont make alot then let her control most but hey if you got it like that it dont even matter.
She is the QUEEN 👸 and you are protecting 🙏🌻💜
"Aight you liked that video" Hell naw Steve. Marriage is about compromise. And I would not be with somebody who can't compromise and be 50/50 on our marriage
"just shut your damn mouth" killed me dead
Someone quoted Bob Marley, saying, "If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for."
The only thing in there I agree with is the sentence starting with "Truth." Not all women should be placed in the same category as if the absolute answer to love is revealed. If she's amazing, she could still be easy. If she's hard, she could be settling with that man being less than what she wants, and as long as that man will give her his all. Being hard, you could be her 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 20th option. Golddiggers aren't easy either until you show them the gold. They are the hardest to gain since they are the hardest to please. Most women want the world, so if you are not willing to give them it, you are not worth it.
People only show you what they want to show you, and until they have what they want, you will get the same expression that all users express when aiming to impress: the smile and the great personality.
Steve Harvey wouldn't have Marjorie without his money and status, so thinking he is the idol and knowledge of women he could never attain without it carries a false narrative. Even Bob Marley was rich and attractive and famous. So to assume he wasn't playing the game also makes you a darn fool. It is all talking points for the fans (base) and the ratings. Only a fool gives his soul for love, not knowing the true heart and the intention it carries.
Steve doesn't care about what he is saying, as long as he's getting paid. He knows what base to target because the base outnumbers his gender and he doesn't give a damn about what men think, only what he thinks.
Statistically, women outnumber men. And as long as men are dying at a faster and greater number than women, he will always be in the money. He's not a stupid man, his fans are. And he knows this. But since the race of man only knows what they see and hear, the lie will always be more entertaining.
Steve is always on point.
Steve is so far off being right here, it's 100 / 100 baby
Now that is NONSENSE!!!
That smile of his is turning into a cry for *why the hell did I get into a relationship and even considering moving in together damm I'm stupid*
That's stupid! Another "pamper-till-death-the-woman-with-whom-you-have-nothing-in-common" for 15% of a marriage!
So how fair is it that a relationship in which the man is the breadwinner the relationship is still 85/15 to a woman instead of 50/50. What entitlement is that ?
Naruto Can Kill Goku cannot kill Goku. Steve always pleases the women in his show more than men, you probably know why
Naruto Can Kill Goku Only in ur dreams. Naruto has no chance with goku.
It's called feminism.
Jacques Dablah What is wrong with you people, that don't understand what feminism is and you call everything feminism!!!?
What is talking about is the opposite of feminism. The whole show is the opposite!! Inform yourself before speaking!
Steve meant that women are freak controls. Come on, he is talking about his wives, domestic life etc.
It comes naturally, because women have to care for their family and home, because their men don't...so gradually they end up controlling everything around. This is not a good thing,this is a burden.
Sorry for any mistakes. European writing :))
@@ileniaandal4780 good morning, I didn't understand your second sentence, I'm sorry. Would you kindly rephrase that? I am European, too, so don't worry I do understand you for the most part.
The interpretation of my statement depends on which situation you are looking at. I thought that the original text which caused this thread was complaining about a relationship wherein man are marginalized (dominant women and the men are pushovers). That is why I called it feminism.
Before you attack me again let me just make myself perfectly clear. The men who let their wives do all the work at home, on top of raising the children and so on, have failed the women. In this case your argument is perfectly valid. And I do not condemn women who take charge under those conditions. I rather support them.
Men shouldn't let their wives have to deal with the whole burden of keeping a family together up to the minute details, all on their own. They must do their part as well.
However, when I watched this video I thought that the 85/15 rule was about relationships between a man and a woman. If you listen to Steve talking in several videos about his wife, you'll notice something about it all. While I guess they are happy and have a great relationship, it seems as if she has the upper hand on him most of the time. Speaking of any and most decisions. If you feel that all men run from responsibility in their marriage and family life, you would be happy, if women had control over their husbands. I know though this isn't the case, not in my family and in many more. My dad, and many other people I know involve themselves in the family so 85/15 as you seem to defend it, is very unfair towards them.
Why did I write it was feminism? Simply because, feminism is in the areas where equality has been achieved no longer about equality. It's about taking over and the men become tolerated. If you don't believe me, I'll give you an example. If you read an article about higher education or jobs, the text praises instances when women take over in previously predominantly male areas and the female percentage rises above the men. The same thing happens when e.g. men take time off from work to look after their kids while the wife/mother goes to work. Change the situation again and let the male percentage increase in leading positions then it becomes a problem again. However, I suppose, if a company had merely female managers that would be fine and dandy. That is what I'm calling feminism.
I do understand the need women feel though to prove themselves, because women have been under the thumb of men for thousands of years. Also, I don't have a problem with female bosses, teachers, doctors, managers, pilots, police officers, soldiers or whatever they want to be. My first supervisor when I did my first student job was a woman. I still send her birthday gifts and tell her she's the best boss I ever had. For a contrast I worked in a place where the supervisor was a man and he had 37,5% male staff and the majority were women. Some of the women were quite dominant, and he let them do as they pleased. You want to guess who told me that? A woman. I learned that the man had enough problems in his private life so he kind of relaxed at work? Both were good bosses in their own right and of course they also had their weaknesses. The female boss ran a tight ship and kept us all in line. That is even though most of her staff is female I forgot to mention that. And she is also feminine not only in her features but in all the ways that matter. Still she put us men in our place when we deserved it, she is tough and through and through a boss. However she was fair (or tried her best to be) towards everyone under her comman. Like I said, she's best supervisor I ever had.
No disrespect, but this particular branch of feminism which aims at getting men under its thump is not something I support.
And yes, I do inform myself before I say something. Even though technically I didn't say anything, I typed it. Haha 😂.
I couldn't resist that last tidbit. It was too funny leave out.
You weren't wrong though, it was correct.
what they need to understand is, both the people should know how to be happy within themselves first, and when you are happy and then you share your happiness, so that if one becomes 15 the 85 should understand that their happiness is needed to be shared to come to a stage of 100/100 and vice versa.
If she's moving into my house, I'll be damned if she thinks she's gonna get her way 85% of the time.
Thank you...now here's a real man talking....
i have brothers and it aches my heart to think of some clown coming to turn them into doormats....
Joyce Kyari you better smack some sense into your brothers! Lol. And thanx for the compliment, beautiful.
85/15 foh I'm better off being single
No wonder why you're single.
only 85% of the time😂
What Steve is saying is just so true to a certain extent...lol like a real man just doesnt really ask for much....my hubby and I 15 to 85% applies to exactly what Steve is saying lol...my clothes which I have so much of occupy most of our closet in our room plus the drawers lol....most of our shelves are occupied with my shoes and handbags...he just wanted some floating shelves above the bed to display his fit-it collection and some shelves for his sneakers...the other closets outside are full of my stuff that I buy like hair products and accessories, makeup, my crafty things etc...his shampoo/conditioner, razors etc are in one spot in the bathroom...like honestly this house has 85% of my stuff lol...I get the occasional"why do you have so many Things? Lol but at the end of the day he's more than happy with the space that his stuff occupies which is barely any space...he comes home from work and goes to his little corner with his video games and big TV and all and he's good lol
😂😂😂😂 I’m the opppsite… I live a very simple minimalistic life and my ex had more stuff than I the day he decided to move into my place 14 years ago. He took up my foyer closet, my walk in closet and living room. I had just moved into my studio and found out later he quit his job, lost his place on purpose to live with me. Then found out he had a family behind my back living a double life.
don't agree Steve it is 50/50
not always . sometimes if not most of the times, one partner ( regardless of gender) gotta put in 80, 90 or even a 100 when the other is down. be strong when the other is weak. bring the light when the other is in darkness. true love is sacrifice.
Rosa if you are in a loving relationship both should be running the show if one has to take the lead then the person taking the lead will feel unsupported and that relationship will not have the love it should have.50/50
Your proving his point its so hilarious
It’s more like 90/10. That’s your corner! 😂 Protect it with your life.
That explains as a man why I have been so happily single for the past 40 years. :)
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This is the craziest advice I ever heard of in my life.
Steve says what his main demographic wants to hear.
Really Steve only a desperate man will follow that you make it seems we dt have need as man
L.G Mandonel money and successful check. but he definitely sounds like a desperate man when it comes to this
L.G Mandonel naa we don't matter that's what's Steve saying and if we complain about it nothing good will come of it so it's best we take our little ass in a corner and chill or do like me and find your self a freaky open minded girl who not bounded by this world and there crap just wanna have fun till we kick the bucket
Hahaha wrong
I don't get how you misunderstood steve The woman is to clean,wash,cook,nurse the kids and take them to school and what the men do is bring home the money and protect if need be. Steve is on point.85 /15
I’m not agreeing with Steve on that, and of course the ladies will love it , more for them . As a grown man I understand your lady play a great role in your life , it isn’t about 50/50 or 85/15 it’s about compromising period . Don’t put a number on it . You respect my hobbit and habits and I respect yours ,let me be me while I’m appreciating and loving you toward a greater family, I’ll let you be your as well , together we good and better but the man should make decision and lead while of course be very attentive to his lady , allow her of course to eat involve and consult each other ..
Steve always have some EXCELLENT ADVISE💪
She gets the kingdom and he gets a cornerdom😂😂😂
85 Wife and 15 Husband, lol, TRUE!!!
Steve is right. Divorce rate is high in those countries where Men try to meet in the middle. It cannot work 😂
And women think because they are born a women they deserve the best top tier men. Give me a damn break.
i think steve is talking about his own issue back home...
That guy looks just like the T-1000
Why is steve filling these ladies heads with nonsense smh
He panders towards women as most of his audience is women,
It's not nonsense. Men don't do as much as women do for their family. Men don't dedicate the same amount of time to it. Men are not as nurturing and caring as women.
And besides that men are, generally speaking, physically much stronger than women, so when a man is trying to control, if he raises his voice - it's threatening, it's scary to the woman. If the woman shouts.. well a man is not afraid of that..
When he is controlling it breaks her spirit. A woman very rarely can have that power.
That's why real men understand it's not 50/50 ... The man gives what he has to give bc a good woman will give what she has to give, and they both want it from each other in order to have a balanced relationship.
85/ 15 is correct a man is to protect and provide that's it!
Yes! The woman is to clean,wash,cook,nurse the kids and take them to school and what the men do is bring home the money and protect if need be. Steve is on point.
If a man wants to be equal to a woman, he mine as well be one😉
Best comment ever..
If it ain't 50/50 then I'm not gonna be with you. I refuse to be controlled by anyone. Would a woman want be controlled by a man? No! I don't believe in happy wife happy life. I believe in HAPPY SPOUSE HAPPY HOUSE. PERIOD. Anything else n I'm out.
He’ll be broke and unhappy with that advice
Exactly. No man will ever be happy in a relationship like that. The result of that is a failed relationship...
I couldn't tell if Steve was happy with the 15% or he's being sarcastic about it? 😅
I'm seeing a lot of UA-cam-comment gangstas talking about "85:15. That would never be me."
But I bet most of them are single. So yeah, keep thinking that.
You're taking advise from a man that has been divorced at least twice. Who's the real FOOL here 🙄
This seems accurate regarding the house. He's not talking about controlling a person. He's talking about the nest and the woman having more control over how the house is managed. It is rare that the man cares a lot more about keeping the house up, right? And it's important for a man to have a room - or corner in a small apartment - that is all his
Agreed. The man asked about living together (transitioning from a long distance relationship to sharing a home), not about the relationship as a whole. Steve seemed to have been talking about the household situation, because we all know his views that men should lead in certain parts of the relationship.
Nah. I need more than 15%. Sounds tiring.
You getting 85. It's him who needs more than 15.
SO TRUE
As a Male there are times when I am entirely in charge and there are other times where my girl is in charge. It works for us 👍 We are not jealous of each other and we don't compete with each other. Marriage is about team work 😁
Steve i watch a lot there is no way you will live like that .........i had girl she was acting up i got her in her place she said she likes that and she hates when some man accepted any BS from woman .
“Hey babe,
Want to move in together? “
Thats it
Steve Harvey you're right, happy wife happy life..😊😊😊
His advice works for marriage. But relationships are 100/100. But they shouldn't live together though he just told him what he wanted to hear without putting his personal feelings into the situation. Plus they're young so they'll find out the hard way. She's giving up her leverage doing this without requiring the absolute best of him.
i be damned if i pay for everything and it’s 85-15😂😂
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My ex wanted me to have or get 15 and I’m a woman 🤨 emphasis on Ex and I put him out my place. Found out he was living a double life and wanted to be taken care of.
True steve
I don't see how what Steve said applies to what he asked I mean it was funny but...
It's a very exact answer actually.
I love this advice 💜
This is the reason I will never gonna be in relationship. Besides I am about a 5 in the 1-10 range so I am not getting bothered. I love being pesemestic and by my self.
come to think of it, i think advice like this is based off what's happening at Steve's house atm.......
all that hard work and come home to one corner.....
don't know what's happening to men nowadays.....
I do nothing that isn't perfectly equal.
Truth hurts. But ideally it should be a relationship of equals.
No steve is right The woman is supposed to clean,wash,cook, nurse the kids and take them to school and what the men do is bring home the money and protect them if need be.85/15
No... A relationship should be 100/100 from each person. If it's not that then she not the one
I just loose 85% of my respect for Steve Harvey, just respect him 15% percent from now on.
FR FR, lol
@@koolsmoothfan lol .. The women in the crowd loves to hear Steve's BS lol
#PreachIt. 21 years married to a Puerto Rican women. #PlainOldWhiteGuy
Nah I prefer 50/50 because either I could leave my girlfriend or she could leave me.
so does that mean women do 85% of the cooking and cleaning
yup cook,clean,nurse kids,take them to school, and all you have to do is bring home the money
Actually, yes it does... presuming the husabnd is out bringing in around 85 percent of the income, that becomes inevitable unless there is enough to afford maids. He brings that money home and she spends 85 percent of her time making that money work in the home.
He MUST have been sarcastic... also how he kept repeating it... I don't think he's really happy in his marriage... sad...
Man Steve be giving some old man 1940's advice.
I'm single but I CANNOT REMIND SINGLE GOD DAMN IT LOL
Amen 🙏 amen 🙏 amen 🙏
I am with Steve on this 1.... How many times she asks you "Red or the dress" you say red and she says I'm just going with the black. They don't listen to us.... They ask us questions just to do the opposite.
You are a weak man. That's too bad. Your sons will be emasculated.
65%-35% for me #steveharvey sir. I gotta have my side of the bed and closet too! 💯🤝
Worse advise, you treat a man like this , he will stay for a while but he will never feel like he belongs and he will always try to remove himself somehow. If he doesn't find happiness home, he is going to find it else where.
Women, just find a man who can't afford to loose you and you will be happy.
Damn professional hockey gets you some cute girls lol
Thanks for the advice steve
Mimi Mira of course you would say that. I hope no man ever gets with someone like you.
Segments like this will make any man with common sense NOT want to get married.
I love this
I’m here before any views this is the best day of my life lol
Hes right! 😂
No...
Hmmm how if you have the other way arund?
She fooled him during that long distance relationship, now her real personality is coming out. He thought that he had found the perfect girl but that turned out to be a lie. He needs to leave her before she traps him with a baby.
K. C. Wut???
Ace Lee what's so confusing about what he said?
Speaking from experience?
I’m sorry I don’t agree with that either. In my opinion it’s always 100% from him and 100% from me. I do agree that It’s never, ever 50% in a relationship. Why would I want someone in my life who’s not giving 100% to the relationship. If he’s giving me 85% then who is he giving the other 15% to and vice versa. Sounds like trouble if you’re not fully committed, and miserable.
His girlfriend is hot!
How ?
I don't see it.All i saw was her face and it wasn't attractive
still don't understand why so many women hang on his every word...He cheated on wife #1 with wife #2. Then cheated on wife #2 with wife #3! How is he giving advice to ANYONE?!
nope
I agree with Steve because, My parents did this and they are in a great relationship. My dad literally had his own corner of games n n now he has a room for himself. He looks happy n so does she and I can see that the relationship is like 80% - 20%
annija igaune I agree too but all the men want to be equal to a woman these days🙄
annija igaune
You may as well stay single and get a room instead of just a cormer.
Mannn is Steve is wrong then I don’t wanna be right!
No bloody way. This is why most relationship in his era didn’t work out n the men had a lot of resentment toward their wives n just up n leave one day. To go from having 100% control over yourself to 15% by a woman you probably only known for a year plus is horrible management advice.
Steve hope your joking b/c yiu really dropped the ball on this one. Take two.
Provide and protect....that's the 15%...i dont need anything more...
It not 85 /15 that givin a woman to much control over you and I an down for that nonsense. 50 /50 take it or live it