The BEST Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You

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  • Опубліковано 2 сер 2024
  • Today’s video is about relationship advice!! I’m sharing some love advice, dating advice, and tips on how to have healthy relationships. Love + relationships are such an important part of life, and improving this area can really have a positive impact on your life. In this video, the best relationship advice no one ever told you, I’m sharing 6 different pieces of advice to manifest love and some relationship advice for women.
    So if you want to know how to make relationships work or how to make relationships last, this video is for you! I hope you enjoy! ❤️❤️
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    CHAPTERS:
    0:00 The Best Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You
    0:47 Advice #1
    2:26 Advice #2
    4:36 Advice #3
    7:13 Advice #4
    9:38 Advice #5
    10:53 Advice #6
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 96

  • @lovellytshotshi345
    @lovellytshotshi345 Рік тому +94

    I loved this video. I am like you Jillz, I don't believe in dating just to date and as I'm still young and not even looking for a long term relationship and marriage, I've never dated before. I believe that when I'm ready to start looking for him, he will be ready also and i will attract him that way. In the meantime, I'm learning about myself and becoming the woman I want to be, the woman who i feel proud and confident to be, the woman who i want as the mother for my children, the amazing wife of my husband.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +6

      Love that you’re focusing on yourself 💕

    • @danimatt814
      @danimatt814 Рік тому

      good for u loveee!! 🤍🤍

    • @AshokTiwari-hz8ir
      @AshokTiwari-hz8ir 5 місяців тому

      Thikhamammanakchardraevigkarupmnaaapsamilnaahsktahunkyabtaiathnkyoumam

  • @Viktoryia3
    @Viktoryia3 Рік тому +53

    I LOVE that you brought up the fact you need to have chemistry and attraction to someone, it's either there or its not. I've dated some really great people that by all accounts on paper we shouldv'e worked but it lacked that extra thing that sets it apart from the real deal. I've had people make me feel terrible for not forcing it to work because what are my chances of finding someone that is all those great kind qualities AND I want to kiss them for the long haul.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +6

      You just can’t force it!! 💕

    • @trollthebringerofdeath2.0j99
      @trollthebringerofdeath2.0j99 Рік тому

      I would like some advice although I’m a guy? Is there a way I can try to ease my woman’s emotions. I messaged my woman and then she told me to stay away from her and she would bite my throat off but then after we texted for around 15 minutes she ended with telling me she loved me and was happy that I have been thinking about her. Please help any advice would be welcomed. She said she was having a hard day that day but I’d like some insight to how to maybe manager her in the future. Thank You.

    • @abelsietecuatro9249
      @abelsietecuatro9249 Рік тому

      Modern women have many options. But they think nobody is good enough. At 45 yr when beauty is gone they are alone, living with cats, drinking wine and thinking about the good old days

    • @abelsietecuatro9249
      @abelsietecuatro9249 Рік тому

      @@trollthebringerofdeath2.0j99 Women are stronger in the subject of love because we are more romantic and vulnerable. After a break up or divorce men are screwed. Ask men not women. The best love coaching and chefs are men

    • @fitwithbrittany2706
      @fitwithbrittany2706 6 місяців тому

      Amen to this! Romance is the ONLY thing that distinguishes the marriage relationship from other relationships

  • @guesswho5790
    @guesswho5790 Рік тому +2

    I loved this advice!! Thank you so, so much. I feel like this encapsulates all the teachings one needs to build something you actually want.

  • @zucherobakes2454
    @zucherobakes2454 Рік тому +11

    Your videos have helped me so much in all facets of my life. I was so exhausted and in my masculine energy forever.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      So glad they’ve helped you!!! 💕💕

  • @razan_xilla
    @razan_xilla Рік тому +9

    I really like to listen to ur videos when i clean my room but today i already clean it so I'm just gonna chill and listen to the video

  • @morarwen
    @morarwen Рік тому +2

    Sage-Mystic here, married to a Magician-King. Never a dull moment.

  • @shhruuti
    @shhruuti Рік тому +3

    Please keep making videos. I just subscribed. I'm so happy I found your channel. It's amazing and is helping me out in many ways! ♥️

  • @JulioReguero
    @JulioReguero Рік тому +3

    This is gold for men trying to understand women or fix their relationship

  • @blueskinneyjeans
    @blueskinneyjeans Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video 😊

  • @moniquemaciel8391
    @moniquemaciel8391 Рік тому +5

    I am so glad I found your channel ☺️ you've been helping me out a lot

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      Aww so glad! I’m glad you found me too! 🥰

  • @orangejmoothies
    @orangejmoothies Рік тому +19

    great video.
    contempt -- some people might be shocked that anyone would be so rude towards their partner but ive been in a position where i felt resentment and contempt for my partner. it's not something that happens overnight, and it's not right but it happens. i think some of this can also be prevented if i just had stopped thinking of my partner's potential and just accepted them the way that they were and the current position they were in life. had i been honest with myself and asked myself, "am i okay being the bread winner, having my partner be much more of an outgoing person than me, be willing to split whatever time we have together with his friends? if so, then keep being with this person and dont put this against him!! if not, leave."
    in the end, both parties have gotta be equally attracted together. one person shouldnt like the other more than the other unless you wanna risk some sort of imbalance of "power" in the relationship. /sigh. relationships are difficult and more and more people are realizing that being lonely isnt a good enough excuse to be with someone (eg me LOL). good luck yall.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      Thank you! And ya I think contempt is more common than we realize!

    • @pamelasamyia7277
      @pamelasamyia7277 Рік тому

      Wow! You have so much wisdom

    • @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
      @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Рік тому

      Well said. This is why we shouldn’t choose a partner for the their “potential” because it ends up in resentment and hurt. If the partner doesn’t fulfill their potential, we become resentful and hold the partner in contempt because we now view that partner as a loser. On the flip side, when the partner fulfills their potential, they’re more than likely to leave for someone that’s more in their new lane. We need to choose our partner by where they are NOW, and if it bothers us, we don’t waste either our time or their time and move along.

  • @aNnAkt1qw
    @aNnAkt1qw Рік тому +2

    i came across you videos, i am so happy i did. They are amazing, really helpful so thank you 💙

  • @user-uh5tb9er4o
    @user-uh5tb9er4o 5 місяців тому

    thanks, Jillz! youre so talented to create women's health videos, you continue to be the "Mr. Rogers" of educating women... easy to receive the message and feel positive afterward

  • @Nothingelsematters.
    @Nothingelsematters. Рік тому +3

    This video was incredible, I don't have enough words to describe it. Thank you!

  • @athraa3083
    @athraa3083 Рік тому +7

    Literally the best UA-camr for me 💕

  • @sharonqui74
    @sharonqui74 Рік тому +5

    Thank u for this .. I’m noticing that my boyfriend when he arrives to me home for visit usually the last weeks he is more on the phone or laptop … and in feeling like he prefer to do that instead of being with me ..

  • @sihembouaoud8226
    @sihembouaoud8226 Рік тому +1

    Thanks Jill
    When I have been experiencing issues and grives with my husband we have chosen to consult a therapist and it was the best thing to do because a lot of things change in a better way in my relationship and we have saved our marriage thanks god

  • @vegankathy2583
    @vegankathy2583 Рік тому +2

    Great advice.

  • @ayeshazubair-ni7iz
    @ayeshazubair-ni7iz Рік тому +1

    I was a little bit upset because of my fiance. Thank You My Dear ! This video proved a answer to my Anxiety .

  • @maysaraali5772
    @maysaraali5772 Рік тому +8

    That was beautifully said 💗

  • @char-su9vu
    @char-su9vu Рік тому +1

    All so true

  • @asrakkhatoon7139
    @asrakkhatoon7139 Рік тому +24

    Bottom line... self love is the key 🔑.. to our own heart and finding a longterm partner.

  • @melissa_rabbani
    @melissa_rabbani Рік тому +1

    Thanks beautifull jillz❤

  • @kavitha9456
    @kavitha9456 Рік тому +4

    Hi jillz lov the way you speak....it helps a lot...lov frm india

  • @luizaferreira9782
    @luizaferreira9782 Рік тому +7

    You just put all of my thoughts into this video lol
    Too bad I still haven’t found that loving and nurturing partner. I’ve dealt with contempt, disrespect, men who date just to date… hopefully I’ll find someone who can build a life with me and grow together :)

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +1

      You will! ❤️

    • @asrakkhatoon7139
      @asrakkhatoon7139 Рік тому

      Something special is going to happen to you soon.. I am so positive for all out there.Just have to be open to love and be less sensitive. I think..

  • @Nicoleliestsogerne
    @Nicoleliestsogerne Рік тому +4

    Thank you so much. I had several relationships but never longer than ten years. I seem to struggle around years seven or eight.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +1

      You’re welcome! I’ve heard that year 7 is statistically the hardest year!

    • @lolaloredana3258
      @lolaloredana3258 Рік тому

      das verflixte siebte Jahr 🤝🏻

  • @flowersandlace
    @flowersandlace Рік тому +5

    i needed to hear that forgiveness part. thank you 🙏🌸😊🤍

  • @dayanafang7455
    @dayanafang7455 9 місяців тому +1

    Could you give examples of little things to forgive? I know every person is different but I feel my gauge is being forgiving, but I can’t forget and trust is compromised😢

  • @sadeiofficial
    @sadeiofficial Рік тому +2

    I’m only 21 and I’ve never had a boyfriend ( I share my story on my channel) ❤️ These videos are super helpful for me and sooo many others on our journey. So many little nuggets here.. thank you ❤️ Big Aloha 🤙🏾 from Hawai’i 🧘🏽‍♀️🌸🫖🪴

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      Glad you found it helpful!! 💖💖

    • @AA-ow2mn
      @AA-ow2mn 6 місяців тому

      Hey bby can we chat

  • @OllieSmiless
    @OllieSmiless Рік тому +1

    Thanks Jillz! 💞 I wonder: if I need more respect and appreciation, does that mean I'm more masculine than feminine?

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +2

      Not necessarily, it depends on the relationship...everyone needs respect so if you feel like you're completely missing it, it will be something you're craving! Hard to explain in just a short comment ❤️

  • @alisontill7677
    @alisontill7677 Рік тому +1

    Love relationship

  • @jupiteriancracked
    @jupiteriancracked Рік тому +7

    This video was full of hard pills to swallow, especially when you talked about how dating just to date was a waste of energy… I just broke up with my first boyfriend a few weeks ago and I didn’t realize at the beginning why he was so serious about dating me. I was looking at it as more of a dating just to date thing, but even as time went on and I became more serious about him I still had to realize that it wouldn’t work because my parents are religious and wouldn’t approve of him. It broke my heart and I kept trying to justify dating him without long term intention because I felt I deserved love, but it would be a waste of time in the end. It’s been a rough few weeks but hearing you say the same thing I was thinking helped. Thank you Jillz, love your videos 💗

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      So glad it was helpful for you 💕💕

  • @parkyuna6573
    @parkyuna6573 Рік тому +3

    احسن يوتيوبر بنسبه اليه حرفيا

  • @kayleemarie6322
    @kayleemarie6322 Рік тому +2

    Hey what does your playlist have on it? I dont have spotify

  • @melaneephillips8721
    @melaneephillips8721 11 місяців тому +1

    Every day is a choice. 40 years in.

  • @Allycastlemakeup
    @Allycastlemakeup Рік тому +3

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @iiEatLiveBabiez
    @iiEatLiveBabiez Рік тому +1

    You’re so funny 😆

  • @MarinaH777
    @MarinaH777 Рік тому +1

    Where did you get that pink dress behind you 😍😍

  • @jessicanameh8243
    @jessicanameh8243 Рік тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @monikap8777
    @monikap8777 Рік тому +2

    Please do the mbti test. You seem like intp or intj, I am really interested what type you are

  • @TtalgiNotesPH
    @TtalgiNotesPH 3 місяці тому

    Jillz, I am a woman... but should I confess? Do you have a video for that?

  • @nadiyeuyghur3606
    @nadiyeuyghur3606 9 місяців тому +1

    Can u make a video about male infidelity and forgiving.

  • @jessicanameh8243
    @jessicanameh8243 Рік тому +2

    💎💎💎💎💎

  • @raquelt5342
    @raquelt5342 Рік тому +3

    So many ads in a 12 min video…..👎

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      Oh really? I thought there was only 1. I’ll check it out, thanks!

  • @riddhiroy3965
    @riddhiroy3965 Рік тому +2

    I usually love your videos, and I mean no offence but the point on masc/fem completely ignores LGBTQ relationships. Btw I am not in that spectrum and am heterosexual.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +4

      There’s masc/fem energy in every relationship, including same sex! It’s no different

    • @riddhiroy3965
      @riddhiroy3965 Рік тому

      Thank you for clearing that up ❤️

    • @lolaloredana3258
      @lolaloredana3258 Рік тому +3

      LGBTQ has the same dynamics. IT depends who is playing the woman and who the man. good luck for you

    • @shamaaara8056
      @shamaaara8056 Рік тому

      Energy is not gender specific.

  • @hybridangel3403
    @hybridangel3403 Рік тому +2

    there appears to be a bit of trying to impress your beliefs on people. dating just to date is dumb. dumb is a dangerous controlling term.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +4

      Of course my videos will naturally include my beliefs. But I think people should do whatever they want with that info!

    • @lucybraun8969
      @lucybraun8969 Рік тому +1

      If you want negative consequences, go with dating just to date. It won't land you anywhere happy. To me, wanting that result is dumb.

  • @madeasimmons9746
    @madeasimmons9746 4 місяці тому

    My advice for women is pursue men and be their provider. Men did both since the dawn of time. It's women's turn.

  • @lightghost7524
    @lightghost7524 Рік тому +3

    Imagine thinking there is such a thing as feminine energy

  • @jawi499
    @jawi499 Рік тому +2

    Chemistry is just another term for “good looking “

    • @Blondiee777
      @Blondiee777 Рік тому +13

      Nah you can go with good looking guys and not have chemistry. I've been with guys that are average looking and there's been amazing chemistry.

  • @binitapandey5400
    @binitapandey5400 Рік тому +1

    💜💜