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Beautiful video. As someone who got into the red pill & self improvement when I was 19, I did notice improvements; however, they always felt superficial. Even when I got my body, finances, and tangible, low value qualities right, I could not understand why I was unable to maintain a healthy long term relationship with the people I’ve been with. I’m very lucky to find this content at 23 years old, and not only do I want to achieve the higher value goals to get my partner back, I want to use these paradigm shifts to achieve much higher goals. The concepts you talk about even explain why I failed some business ideas I had earlier bc I fell victim to the paradox of change fallacy. Great work, I want to break some glass ceilings with you!
Very relatable. Also got big into the superficial self improvement when I was younger. Now I was able to identify it's flaws before starting my relationship, but all I had figured out at that point was to not take certain mindsets (like red pill) too seriously especially with the rhetoric towards women. But I still had no idea how to treat her when I was with her, and was unaware of all the things I was doing wrong until I hurt her and pushed her away. Still am very wary of content similar to it, but work like this from Mr. Setiawan really focuses around facing your bad qualities, rationalizing the partner's grievances and being consistent with change.
@@diegogonzalez459 that is the exact same situation I am in right now too. Knew enough not to take it too seriously, and I am able to navigate social situations very easily. But, I absolutely crumble and falter when it comes to being tested during challenging times, always being tethered and obsessed with outcomes and short-term tactics, and using will power as an ineffective strategy to temporarily stop the inevitable. The worst part was that I had some self-awareness of all this, but felt powerless bc all mainstream content centers around marketing yourself. I always felt off watching these videos and learning from them, and it felt like I had to compromise a part of myself to make things work. Geoffrey’s content is one that GENIUNENLY makes sense, feels intuitive, and feels like I can make improvements authentic to me w/o putting some bullshit mask that works in the short term.
@@GeoffreySetiawan I am looking forward to talking to Jason tomorrow. He kicked my ass in the first call and gave me the wake-up call I needed, lol. You have a legendary program!
Mr. Setiawan, I just want to say how much I appreciate someone giving advice that doesn't dismiss the partner's rationality and reasoning, and focuses on internal problems. Covering the long and patient process of improving by self-actualization along with the purpose of love for someone special.
Right on! I am always amazed at how much other people's behaviors can & do change when we begin to put our best foot forward and lead a more positive feedback loop, starting with ourselves! Keep rising king!
13:00 good point. I'm trying not to let the doubt stop my progress. Ive been thrown a few curveballs, but I'm still watching your videos, I'm still inproving ME because i like who I'm becoming during our separation.
Shame that most men in the world actually believe the lower pillars are high value. Even after hearing words like this I know guys that will still follow the path they are on. In other news, after following your UA-cam for a month communications have returned. She is willing to FaceTime and actually chat here and there. Another week and a half and I’ll be investing in myself through this program
I recently went through a tough breakup. My 5-year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been really hard for me. I still love my ex-girlfriend so much and can't stop thinking about her. I've tried everything to win her back, but nothing has worked. It's frustrating, and I can't imagine being with anyone else. I've been trying to move on, but I can't seem to get her out of my mind. I know it might sound strange to share this here, but I miss her a lot and just can't stop thinking about her.
Thanks Geoff! I love your videos because they always get me thinking about myself and how I can change rather than trying to change my partner. I am really obsessed with the idea of untethering because I can see how it has hurt me in other areas of life as well. My question is how can I reframe my behaviour in this regard and make it more automatic?
I am thankful I woke up beside my distant partner, but I realized some questions I should have asked this morning instead of trying to be physical I should have asked something like, "what would be your dream birthday party?" What emotions do u feel when you imagine this? Instead I was kinda selfish...but I'm gonna push through. Geoff really is the best out there, then marriage helper but I will say to get internal shifts u need to seek Jesus and Aurelius.
I think you really need to hear her. Stop using logic to fix it. Validate her feelings she’s telling you what she needs your just defensive and not listening. Stop blaming her. Blaming her only leads to more headache just validate her feelings. The work is working on yourself look within yourself and see what you are doing wrong that you can fix and control. You cannot control her. You only can fix yourself you can’t “fix” her only validate her and help
🤯🤯🤯🤯 Removal of FAE Bias to put myself in her shoes! Also antithetically observing the resistance to have the correct interpretation/literacy To hit a powerful Trinity within the TTH! 19:37 ohhhhhhhhhh! 😮 Lol Thats why I was struggling, I’m missing the pieces to interpret correctly I think I tapped into further information on accident 😂 Can’t wait to hit P2… I appreciate why the steps are ordered in the way they are
Haha. I wish I can impart all the knowledge you need all at once. But even Rome isn't built in a day and built brick by brick! One step at a time my friend!
She broke up with me in December. We met up february a couple days ago . Spent a day together drinks,kissing touching but yet agreed we are now friends. What is going on here ?
She’s still not 100% about you. There are things about you that keep drawing her in but she’s still uncertain. I would advise you to mirror her behavior. Don’t give her anymore than she’s giving you
I agree with a lot of things in this video but (and I know it’s trivial) I thought it was funny that the first picture of the “high value man” actually looked like a C-class Andrew Tate lol
Hey guys hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts? Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited)
Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> urlgeni.us/MCEP145DS
Download the FREE GUIDE! -> relationshipsmastered.com/healing-partner-emotions
To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! ua-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html
Beautiful video. As someone who got into the red pill & self improvement when I was 19, I did notice improvements; however, they always felt superficial. Even when I got my body, finances, and tangible, low value qualities right, I could not understand why I was unable to maintain a healthy long term relationship with the people I’ve been with. I’m very lucky to find this content at 23 years old, and not only do I want to achieve the higher value goals to get my partner back, I want to use these paradigm shifts to achieve much higher goals. The concepts you talk about even explain why I failed some business ideas I had earlier bc I fell victim to the paradox of change fallacy. Great work, I want to break some glass ceilings with you!
Very relatable. Also got big into the superficial self improvement when I was younger. Now I was able to identify it's flaws before starting my relationship, but all I had figured out at that point was to not take certain mindsets (like red pill) too seriously especially with the rhetoric towards women. But I still had no idea how to treat her when I was with her, and was unaware of all the things I was doing wrong until I hurt her and pushed her away. Still am very wary of content similar to it, but work like this from Mr. Setiawan really focuses around facing your bad qualities, rationalizing the partner's grievances and being consistent with change.
My goodness. If only I knew this stuff at 23 😅. Keep going, you're poised for greatness.
@@diegogonzalez459 that is the exact same situation I am in right now too. Knew enough not to take it too seriously, and I am able to navigate social situations very easily. But, I absolutely crumble and falter when it comes to being tested during challenging times, always being tethered and obsessed with outcomes and short-term tactics, and using will power as an ineffective strategy to temporarily stop the inevitable. The worst part was that I had some self-awareness of all this, but felt powerless bc all mainstream content centers around marketing yourself. I always felt off watching these videos and learning from them, and it felt like I had to compromise a part of myself to make things work. Geoffrey’s content is one that GENIUNENLY makes sense, feels intuitive, and feels like I can make improvements authentic to me w/o putting some bullshit mask that works in the short term.
@@GeoffreySetiawan I am looking forward to talking to Jason tomorrow. He kicked my ass in the first call and gave me the wake-up call I needed, lol. You have a legendary program!
Mr. Setiawan, I just want to say how much I appreciate someone giving advice that doesn't dismiss the partner's rationality and reasoning, and focuses on internal problems. Covering the long and patient process of improving by self-actualization along with the purpose of love for someone special.
Right on! I am always amazed at how much other people's behaviors can & do change when we begin to put our best foot forward and lead a more positive feedback loop, starting with ourselves!
Keep rising king!
13:00 good point. I'm trying not to let the doubt stop my progress. Ive been thrown a few curveballs, but I'm still watching your videos, I'm still inproving ME because i like who I'm becoming during our separation.
Shame that most men in the world actually believe the lower pillars are high value. Even after hearing words like this I know guys that will still follow the path they are on.
In other news, after following your UA-cam for a month communications have returned. She is willing to FaceTime and actually chat here and there. Another week and a half and I’ll be investing in myself through this program
Awesome share. We look forward to having you - let us show you the world :)
Great high level overview on what is important to focus on. I love it, thanks Geoff.
This was exactly the video I needed today.
I recently went through a tough breakup. My 5-year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been really hard for me. I still love my ex-girlfriend so much and can't stop thinking about her. I've tried everything to win her back, but nothing has worked. It's frustrating, and I can't imagine being with anyone else. I've been trying to move on, but I can't seem to get her out of my mind. I know it might sound strange to share this here, but I miss her a lot and just can't stop thinking about her.
I understand you. Feeling the same. Hang in there. How you feeling now?
Thanks Geoff! I love your videos because they always get me thinking about myself and how I can change rather than trying to change my partner.
I am really obsessed with the idea of untethering because I can see how it has hurt me in other areas of life as well. My question is how can I reframe my behaviour in this regard and make it more automatic?
I am thankful I woke up beside my distant partner, but I realized some questions I should have asked this morning instead of trying to be physical I should have asked something like, "what would be your dream birthday party?" What emotions do u feel when you imagine this? Instead I was kinda selfish...but I'm gonna push through. Geoff really is the best out there, then marriage helper but I will say to get internal shifts u need to seek Jesus and Aurelius.
Appreciate the acknowledgement :)
Who is Aurelius?
I think you really need to hear her. Stop using logic to fix it. Validate her feelings she’s telling you what she needs your just defensive and not listening. Stop blaming her. Blaming her only leads to more headache just validate her feelings. The work is working on yourself look within yourself and see what you are doing wrong that you can fix and control. You cannot control her. You only can fix yourself you can’t “fix” her only validate her and help
🤯🤯🤯🤯 Removal of FAE Bias to put myself in her shoes! Also antithetically observing the resistance to have the correct interpretation/literacy
To hit a powerful Trinity within the TTH! 19:37 ohhhhhhhhhh! 😮
Lol Thats why I was struggling, I’m missing the pieces to interpret correctly
I think I tapped into further information on accident 😂 Can’t wait to hit P2… I appreciate why the steps are ordered in the way they are
Haha. I wish I can impart all the knowledge you need all at once. But even Rome isn't built in a day and built brick by brick! One step at a time my friend!
@@GeoffreySetiawan 😂
Wow I've never seen a horizontal pillar before
She broke up with me in December. We met up february a couple days ago . Spent a day together drinks,kissing touching but yet agreed we are now friends. What is going on here ?
She’s still not 100% about you. There are things about you that keep drawing her in but she’s still uncertain. I would advise you to mirror her behavior. Don’t give her anymore than she’s giving you
@@ny4lyfe19 thanks mate .
I really need to talk to u man I been loosing it please get back with me man
How do you create this step by step??
I agree with a lot of things in this video but (and I know it’s trivial) I thought it was funny that the first picture of the “high value man” actually looked like a C-class Andrew Tate lol
Fascinating