Christian Vs Atheist Marriage Q&A- ft. Jaclyn Glenn
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- Опубліковано 8 гру 2021
- ‘Christian Vs Atheist Marriage Q&A- ft. @Jaclyn @Davidmichaelfrank’
Well, it happened. Paul and Morgan teaming up with Jaclyn Glenn and her husband David for a marriage q&a. We tackle topics like divorce, what a healthy marriage looks like to both sides, s*x before marriage and other spicy stuff🔥🔥. Enjoy and God bless :)
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Hey everybody! What were your thoughts on the collab? Any surprises?😊
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I think both couples were holding back. But it was no less genuine and it was heart warming. Good bless both marriages til death. Thanks all 4 of you for making it happen
Slightly conflicted, I’m from JacklynGlenn’s channel & I just am concerned about spreading the views that you guys-Paul & Morgan- have.
If it was just a benign Christianity like what God is Grey promotes, then I’d have no problem. But that’s not what you guys are about.
Either way it was a good change from the usual Atheist vs Christian arguments that happen.
It’d be funny if you guys have me on one day though🤣🤣 Paul & Morgan interview a Pansexual Atheist Occultist.
That divorce question was a surprise but a super good one! It was pretty scary to me when they were talking about that and the part about looking at bad pictures or having other relationships! 😬😬 Jaclyn and David really seem to have a very solid and sweet relationship which makes it so weird for me to actually hear those options from someone! 🤭 But I know they don’t necessarily do all of those, but they were pretty open-minded towards other people doing it! 😬
@J N if a Christian is strong in their beliefs it will not wavier. I love that they did this. I’m a fan of both couples, but I am a Christian. That doesn’t mean we have to dislike people that are not like us. This may be a way for people to come to God. It was a blessing to watch!
Jaclyn fan here!! I'm really glad y'all can have civil talks together and I think the collabs are very sweet
Yesss! We had so much fun hangin with ya! Until next time :)
Yay! Hi, Jaclyn! So excited to watch this! 😍😍
I love that yall can get along and be friends. Makes me so happy.
Dream come true. This is so beautiful
What did you do Jaclyn! You made me watch a Paul and Morgan video for the first time! ;)
This was a fun video. :)
"Endgame is the most ambitious crossover ever"
Paul, Morgan, and jaclyn glenn:
"Hold our beer"
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And a cat ,I think I heard a few meows 😹
@J N you miss the point of their friendship IMO. A true Christian friendship comes from a place of love and pushing judgement into their relationship is probably not what they are going for. If I were you I would submit a question if you have a specific one.
I'm sorry but spiderman no way home will beat this ball out of the park lol
@J N That's called being close minded and staying ignorant.
As said in Jaclyn’s vlog, “Two Christians, an Atheist, a Jewish person, and a baby walk into a bar…”
The biggest joke there is a baby…walking…
Hahahahaha
@@Myke_thehuman Into a bar
As someone who’s been following the Paul and Morgan vs Jaclyn saga since the beginning seeing it culminate like this makes me so happy
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Definitely:) my partner is called lucifer... but he's the loveliest and most amazing man I have ever met.
I’m new. What saga is this that you’re talking about?
@@kita3256 Jaclyn Glenn and P&M have made a lot of videos in the past attacking and criticising each other, saying some fairly nasty things about each other. It's good to see them burying that hatchet and being friends.
I’m here from Jaclyn’s channel. It makes me really happy to see this sort of thing because I think it’s unhealthy how often people will let a single point of disagreement make them dislike another person on the whole. And now that I’ve watched a few videos here, I have an incredibly positive impression of who Paul and Morgan are. Feels good, man.
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My thought on life has always been that everyone is just trying to have a good time. As long as no one is being hurt, just let it go.
@@jessicadoban2564 yess same!
Same, it crazy how I’m actually subscribed to a Christian channel now lol
Coming from Jacklyn's audience, here. Honestly, I never thought I'd see this happen, but I'm very happy to be proven wrong. This crossover has been so wholesome and I'm so here for it. I'm a big believer in trying to see other people's points of view, and I love seeing all of you be open minded and trying to understand each other and find common ground.
Great example of, "They will know we are Christians by our love," Keep being a wonderful blessing to others young lovers, God Bless you!
Thank you❤️
Wow, that's a part most U$ Evangelical "Christians" seem to completely forget.
Seriously, how can they be so hateful and judgmental and call themselves Christians?
btw, i'm a Canadian agnostic/atheist, but i was raised Christian and i even have an aunt that is a nun and was a missionary in Africa for over 40 years.
@@ireallyreallyhategoogle what makes it for you that your an atheist/agnost? If I may ask
@@kimberiedema6951 You may.
I believe in a philosophical god, which means the concept of the source of life and sentience and that which existed before the universe, but i don't believe it grants wishes or even remotely cares what humans do to humans.
The Bible is a collection of texts written by humans, re-copied by humans, translated over and over by humans, and it's a nice collection of myths, legends and other stories.
@@ireallyreallyhategoogle May I ask, what was it about Christianity that made you choose to be atheist?
I'm an atheist but I actually agree more with Paul and Morgan about the porn question. I've heard such horror stories about the marriages it's destroyed that I wouldn't want that to be any part of my marriage.
So true
Some people don’t care. It’s fine to not want it in your relationship for good reasons but if both people actually don’t mind and have genuinely checked in about it with their partner I see nothing harmful. I think the addiction almost comes from feeling like you have to hide it.
I’m an atheist witch , & I wouldn’t marry someone that gets upset that I watch porn. I won’t and I don’t think I should, solely rely on my partner if I ever want to be sexual.
There’s a myriad of reasons either of us might not want to have sex at the same time.
But things like that should come up eventually if you communicate well & have a sex life with your partner before getting engaged.
Eh, I can't have sex but my partner has a high sex drive. I don't mind him watching porn or anything. He wouldn't mind if I did either lol. Never had an issue, he pleasures himself maybe 3x a week or less currently, watched porn every now and then.
+Sometimes it's to my pictures ;)
Yeah, I’m atheist as well but in my personal experience it’s not something that everyone is cut out to consume in a healthy way. Boundaries and a healthy relationship with sex is important and I’ve known too many people that cross that line into unhealthy. It’s too easy to start idealizing something that isn’t real and people can fall into a habit of comparing it and their partner. This can lead to the consumer feeling unsatisfied with their own sex life and causing a gradual drift away from their partner. Wether that be not having sex as often because they’d rather just watch porn and do it themselves or because they’re now so desensitized to sex itself that they pick up interests that their partner doesn’t and possibly will never share.
If someone or a couple in general can do it healthily and keep solid boundaries between real life and fiction… more power to them. But in my own marriage it’s not something we do. My husband is Christian and that opens up a whole new can of worms as far as shame spiraling for him. Our marriage has been so much easier for both of us since he was finally able to break away from it.
This is what true Christianity looks like loving people where there at and having open dialogue, being good listeners and sharing a biblical perspective. Well done Paul and Morgan and Salute to Jaclyn and David for being open to hear another perspective this was an awesome video!
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@@youtoo2233 if your faith is firm, this wouldn’t be a problem, didn’t Jesus hang out with unbelievers?
@@youtoo2233 let people be joyful, there’s no age restriction on laughing
@@youtoo2233 Jesus did hang out with non-believers to help them grow in their faith. P&M are grounded in their faith and will not be persuaded to change. Jaclyn and David are the same. So, they are just fine. Don't bash them because they are hanging out with non-believers. Jesus did and so can they. Don't take the Bible so dang literal. And, to answer your question, yes, I am a Christian. Good day!!!
@@youtoo2233 Laughing is good for your health and soul. Let them laugh, it's not hurting you sir/ma'am!!!
I love how this relationship between the 2 couples has developed and grown into a mature respect for each other.
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This is honestly just adorably wholesome, to see both sides talk, be civil, be friendly, be open. It's nice.
No way Jaclyn Glenn! I know she had beef with yall not too long ago! So glad the love and forgiveness of Christ has shone through you guys P & M!!!
Let’s be honest though, Jaclyn has a fascination with people who are different than her. She’s willing to discuss and she’s not hateful.
Neither are Paul and Morgan. They’ve all taken the piss outtve each other, but they’re not hateful.
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"I married her and now we are the Frank family". I love this
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I know, he claims ownership over his wife and then he mentions we are monogamous hahaha. He really cares about her and I absolutely believe she cares for him.
As an atheist Paul and Morgan have really gotten my respect these two Doing this collab and having a friendship with Jaclyn shows it doesn’t matter whether or not you believe in something, you don’t have change a persons belief to be friends with them we’re all people at the end of the day and should have respect for each other no matter your views, I hope you guys all get together again because this was great to watch 😌
Jesus loves you and wants to save you seek him
@@bloodwashedsaint Shutup.
@@bloodwashedsaint Ok this is the polar opposite of the point of my comment
@J N no I respect anyones right to their beliefs as long as they respect mine and not try to force their views on me like him or her telling me to find god when again I’m an atheist, I’m not on here telling you to not believe so don’t tell me TO believe, it’s all about respecting boundaries
Appreciate you watching :)
"Christians versus Athiests...s... and a jew" off to a great start guys 🤣🤣🤣 in all seriousness though, it's wonderful seeing people having fun and being happy regardless of differing opinions. We need more of this on the internet. Sending love and hugs to you all 💜
Haha😊
My favorite part too!
Here from Jaclyns channel. Not an atheist, Tibetan Buddhist, but I'm here to support this partnership! Love to see people actually come together!
Really enjoyed the video. Would love to see more like this in the future. I have the same dynamic with my family. Im the black sheep of the group. I’m from WV and most people are heavily Christian and Conservative. I’m an atheist and mostly liberal. But we all still love each other and spend time together despite our differences. Love seeing this mindset promoted on both sides
Appreciate you watching :)
I’m from WV (Charleston/campbells creek area) and also atheist and liberal!! My family is also full of faith and conservatism, except for my mom and stepdad! Love seeing other people from around on here!
Wow! It’s Corey! I’m a fan, you’re really smart!
My dude i owe you a lot,your python tutorials have helped me more than any words could describe. Glad to know we are on the same side.
You guys are all so sweet. I came from Jaclyns Channel and I am living for this. I've grown to love you guys too, Paul and Morgan
Aww welcome❤️
David saying "I don't do any breastfeeding" cracked me up
I gotta say, watching the interview with JLP really humanized Paul and Morgan to me. It just seems like evangelical Christians have a script, and publicly agree with every other Christian no matter how extreme. To see them disagree, and Morgan defend women. It was a moment I could actually connect with her and know in that moment she feels the same as I do.
David seems kind hearted.
Agreed😊
I really loved seeing you guys come together and chat! Also, as a divorced Christian, I really appreciate Jaclyn opening up about her past. ❤️ Before my divorce, I thought people just didn’t “work hard enough” if they got divorced. Now being on the other side, I have learned it can often be SO much more complex than that. It’s important to hear people’s story before judging, all while holding firmly to a biblical understanding of marriage and divorce. Good job for listening well Paul and Morgan. ❤️
Thank you, Molly❤️
I loved this. I used to be an Atheist which is how I knew Jaclyn (Ive also known David from music for like 10 years but that's a total coincidence) then started to lean back towards Christianity. I grew up Catholic and rebelled against it, then started to do my own work with no pressure from others and found a place that I feel more comfortable and confident. Im not conservative at all, but I enjoy hearing all the perspectives because the work I do is based off of those questions that I can't answer. Those force me to dig into them and decide where I stand and why I stand there. I definitely disagree with a lot of Paul and Morgan's beliefs, but applaud their openness and ability to allow themselves to be challenged. What drove me away from faith initially was people being unwilling to answer and angered by challenging questions. We need more people that are open to the convo without feeling "attacked" whenever they don't have an answer.
Thanks for watching :)
actually curious, anything about christianity that made u kinda hold back about getting back to christianity? (some political things maybe)
@@yurionagony7782 yes. The Bible. I had to read a lot of books in how to interpret the Bible because people kept using quotes from it to promote ideals that I believed were too hateful and dangerous to support.
Peter Enns books were very helpful for me
@@ASLAnissaOfficial Makes sense, the bible is pretty hard to believe, even if u believe in christ the book wasn't written by god
This comment section is heart warming and also sad. I like all the positive feedback. As an atheist who has always had religious friends, it's upsetting to see the shock and surprise at this. Really shows the reality of the times
I belirve that more than christians and atheust together, I am surprise about seeing THEM together... I mean, they have being doing videos talking against each other for years hehe this is quite unexpected.
This collab shows that we can still relate with eachother more than expected and can find middle ground. It shows a maturity and healing between opposing groups. I would love more collabs with them in the future and to see a stable friendship. It is so important to have these conversations.
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I really do have a huge respect for Paul and Morgan being willing to do this.
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This would be hard. Telling the truth and doing it carefully AND in front of the camera…
Willing to do what, be adults and have a civil conversation with other human beings?
mom stop being toxic on the internet go cook me something
Long-time Jaclyn fan here-- absolutely loved this video. Really interesting conversation, and as much back and forth as you guys have had in the past- and may still have in the future!- I think this was a really cool video. I love seeing you guys talk this stuff out in person, great video and, dare I say it, makes me tempted to watch more of y'alls stuff! Hope to see more of you guys collabing with Jaclyn in the future too!
Haha thanks for the comment😊
I'm a Jaclyn follower and I loved this! Keep these conversations going! I would love to see more videos like this because I think it's so needed right now in a time where people are so divided. It's nice to see how respectful you all are of each other.
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I'm still so very glad both of you are getting together and able to be friends through difference of perspective. Wish nothing but the best for Jaclyn and David and the same for you, Paul and Morgan! Hope all of you are having a fantastic day!
From the perspective of a liberal Christian, I've gotta say, this is really interesting to watch. Love to see y'all come together and be friends. I wish more people would take this approach and get to know people who have different views and see the world from their perspective from time to time. Would do our world a lot of good!
Thanks for watching :)
it's impossible to be a liberal and a Christian, the worldviews are completely different. You need to ditch the liberal identity and beliefs and just become a truth seeking/speaking Christian who rejects sin
@@Sipris You really had to come for a nice comment and ruin it didn't you?
@@Sipris if today's conservatives met the real Jesus they would NOT agree with his ideas and actions. Read your bible
@@tommyclark4947 yes when I see the liberal nonsense mentioned with being a Christian I need to call it out, it’s heretical and people need to be corrected
now THIS is what this world needs more of-- being in unity with one another, despite our differences! what a great video, y'all! God bless
That’s unbiblical lol
@@ChristAlone_ if you take a peek at 1 peter 3:8, you'll find: "finally, all you be like-minded, be sympathetic and love one another. show compassion: be humble." where we come from and what we believe shouldn't stop us from being friends. Each of us were made for love--it's all because we were made in the image of Love Himself:)
@@gemzlens I think your using that scripture out of context………….it’s not talking about how believers should be with unbelievers, it’s about the brethren .
the fruit of the spirit should always be exercised toward ALL, I don’t believe the Bible preaches unity with the unbelieving though 🤔
@@ChristAlone_ who is your neighbor
I love how this friendship is not only helping both couples grow, but the audience as well. Like looking at the comments sections of both your guys videos together it's awesome to see subscribers from both sides accepting eachother a bit more.
Can we keep normalizing the respect of different opinions and having respectful, open conversations? This was awesome. Keep up the good work
Now if only people could do this when talking about politics.
@@nataliejune84 yes! Including politics. Including all-around opinions.
Yeah just hate when those ‘opinions’ infringe on my rights as a gay man; Morgan and whatever his name are literal garbage
Came over from jaclyns channel! I respect all you guys for the amount of love shown in this video 💙 my fiance grew up in a conservative christian household and aside from the conversation of us needing to be married already for the kids(im holding out purely for the fun of it now) we respect each others boundaries.
And i know you said devout in that portion, but I have a pretty progressive christian mom and had an atheist father they made it a whole 26 or so years with that difference before he passed away. she said its doable but hard with his sarcastic witty comments.
I love seeing this, I am from Jaclyn's channel, but I love the respect and compassion both couples have been able to find for each other. I have always kinda had a soft spot for you two(Paul and Morgan) for awhile. This literally brought tears to my eyes(well the vid on their channel started it). Thank you all for showing everyone that its ok to love and have empathy for people who may not believe the same.
Is there really people who can’t imagine how a relationship works if there is no submission? How do relationships work without a leader? Pretty well, actually. It’s amazing at how much you can accomplish as a couple when neither partner’s shoulders are bearing all the weight and expectations. I’ve been married seven happy years and it has been thanks to team work.
I have said it on Jaclyn and the Frank Family’s Vlog: I have been pretty happy with your budding friendship. It’s great for you all to set an example of how you don’t have to have the same beliefs to be friends.
It's interesting, as a christian I was surprised to see that a marriage with leadership dynamics was put in such contrast to the concept of teamwork, bc I believe the two should be inextricably intertwined in a christian marriage. Biblical standards call husbands to lay down their lives for their wives every day and to serve them in love, and simultaneously call wives to submit to the leadership of their husband. And to husbands they are called to submit to God ultimately, and wives are also told to submit ultimately to God, and thus are given full license to choose God if following the leadership of the husband would be to sin against God. Both are instructed to respect each other, in addition to adhering to all the guidance given for general interpersonal interactions as a Christian. And the husband is clarified as the head of the family.
Biblical standards also require ALL followers of Jesus to submit to each other out of reverence for Christ (married believers are not exempt!), and also talks about letting each person use their strengths and gifts for the glory of God within the Body of Christ, which a christian marriage would be under the umbrella of. Each christian is considered by biblical definition a member of a collective body, and the bible explicitly clarifies that one is not more important or more essential than the other, but rather all are needed for anything to work well.
To me, all of these things imply a kind of teamwork defined by deep humility and weighty responsibility that no christian is exempt from, even in marriage. The humility is in choosing to submit to each other and respect each other's skills and gifts above traditional power (or even gender) structures. And everything you do should honor the sacrificial love of God, so there is a constant deference to the Way of Jesus on both sides. And much space is made to challenge each other if decisions and actions are made that don't honor God, so it's not like wives can't check their husbands and vice versa. And there is a deep responsibility for each spouse to live a life individually that glorifies God, and to support one another and bear each other's burdens, to encourage one another and offer help and resources and advice when they can, as well as to be honest about their opinions and concerns and to commit to forgiveness and reconciliation, in addition to working together and allowing their individual gifts to come together unified, and reflect the love of God to the people around them. And financially, the bible supports both spouses contributing to the family's wealth, although the husband as the head of the family has the 'legal', more official responsibility to provide for his family as able.
What this means to me is that the human conception of leadership as holding power over each other is broken down when Jesus is at the center of a relationship where there is a leader, marriage or otherwise. And the expectations of leadership within a christian marriage are only expected WHEN Jesus is at the center, so to have leadership dynamics just cuz without the standards of serving each other and respecting each other is not the Way of Jesus anyway.
Because of all this it's interesting to me that leadership and teamwork were held as opposing perspectives in this conversation. I think when one partner is bearing most of the weight and expectations, or even FEELS as though they are, something is wrong. Because yes it cannot be erased that in a christian marriage the husband is the head of the family and therefore holds the position of a leader, but that does not automatically shove all responsibility on his shoulders, and even though christian wives are called to submit to the leadership of their husbands, that does not take all the responsibility from the husband as a leader and place it onto the wife to just accept whatever he says and does. But it really takes being willing to throw away sociocultural understandings (or personal preferences) of leadership/submission and a determination to adhere to biblical instruction as an individual AND as a couple to allow space for both submission and teamwork dynamics to thrive.
my thoughts lol :)
I came here from the Collab with Jaclyn and David and I was thankfully impressed. You guys aren't as orthodox as I thought. You're actually funny and respectful. I'm enjoying this loads. Btw: an idea, a podcast with BOTH of you couples. It would definitely blow up. Just an idea 🤠
It’s very cool that you all are friends! I wish more people can realize that you can be friends with someone without believing the exact same way!
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I'm neither atheist or religious (I guess agnostic), I just strive to treat people with tolerance, respect, dignity and compassion. I respect both of your channels. It was really cool to watch this.
Atheist simply means you don't believe in a god. Agnostic just means you aren't 100% sure. If you are an agnostic atheist, that means you're not super sure god doesn't exist, but you live your life like there is no god. You can also be an agnostic theist, not 100% sure god exists, but living life like there is a god.
Atheist isn't a dirty word. It's just a descriptor. We can all be happy together. I'm an atheist, I sing in a gospel choir. We don't argue or shout, we just have fun together.
That's kind of what this video feels like tbh. Just kind of having fun together.
Why are you a Agnostic? Don't you know like 250 of the races we see today God created at the Tower of Babel and they never never existed before then. There is no historical record of none of them prior to God dividing up people by launguage to get humans to form the nations we see today. There isnt a human alive who can even tell you where.any.race lived on the Map. If this doesn't scare the HELL OUT OF YOU IT SHOULD BECAUSE God IS EVERYWHERE AND IN CONTROL OF EVERYTHING
@@truecolors5413 would you like me to drive you to a psychiatrist's office?
@@truecolors5413 I’m a Christian and you’re being weird bruh
@@313eve Are you an agnostic theist, or agnostic atheist?
I'm a gay atheist and this is such a refreshing change to the usual narrative of divisiveness. My family are all Christian...my best friend is a Christian. I've been the stereotypical angry, cynical atheist in my youth, and I wish I could have seen stuff like this back then. It's very touching and really puts things into perspective. It's easy to get caught up in all the outrage culture and online pettiness, but at the end of the day we're really not that different and we can all benefit from having a little more empathy. Thanks for being so open and kind.
I’m also a gay atheist and I enjoyed watching this. It’s nice to see people with differing beliefs get along.
Its not the Christian who is offensive its the Christians message. The gospel is an offence to those who are perishing.
Hi christians! Just popped over from Jaclyn's channel to say Hi and also: seeing Jaclyn, Morgan, David, and Paul together and vibing and having a good time has warmed up my icy cold atheist heart and I am HERE. FOR. IT.
Haha🙌🙏
Hello!! I’m a believer myself, and I love seeing connections like these. People respecting other people. Nice to meet ya
Lol hey! It does make me sad that your heart is cold lol but YESSS these people sharing their lives w each other is beautiful :)
Why are you a Atheist ? Don't you know like 250 of the races we see today God created at the Tower of Babel and they never never existed before then. There is no historical record of none of them prior to God dividing up people by launguage to get humans to form the nations we see today. There isnt a human alive who can even tell you where.any.race lived on the Map. If this doesn't scare the HELL OUT OF YOU IT SHOULD BECAUSE God IS EVERYWHERE AND IN CONTROL OF EVERYTHING
@@truecolors5413 cool story bro.
Here from Jaclyn's channel and I love that yall can hang with eacheother even with the disagreements on things.
Welcome😊
What an awesome video! I feel like I’m living vicariously through Paul and Morgan since they are becoming friends with Jaclyn and David - so wholesome and I think there is more to come! God is clearly working in both of these marriages.
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I’ve never seen any of these folks before, but I’m really glad UA-cam thought I needed to see this. I love this open dialogue. In a world So divided, we don’t see enough of this. It’s probably happening more than we think, but it’s certainly not publicized. Yay y’all. I can’t wait to go down the rabbit trail and look at your individual content.
I think Paul and Morgan could have emphasized more with the divorce question that divorce is okay for adultery AND abuse. If God doesn’t want you forced into a marriage with an unfaithful partner it is also true of a partner that physically, sexually, or emotionally abuses you. But in every case it’s important to fight for your marriage if you can.
Also with the porn question - it’s not just about adultery. Tonssss of research also backs up the fact that porn (in marriage or outside it) is super destructive for peoples brains and relationships. Regardless of religion, porn is very damaging.
And I was curious how you guys would have responded to how Jaclyn and David addressed the headship question (where they emphasized teamwork and empathy). Because although Christian marriages have headship there is also a lot of teamwork in there. Paul doesn’t just tell wives to submit to husbands, but for everyone to submit to one another. So I wish you guys had built on their answer to how a Christian marriage is similar/ different. Christian marriage should never be about a man dominating his wife - and biblically it’s not!
Anyways awesome video!!!
The first paragraph- can you provide scriptural evidence for this? Or are you just assuming?
@@chantellejohnston3008 you need scripture to tell you not to stay in an abusive relationship? It's common sense for safety and wellbeing reasons. You don't need scripture to back that up
this. if God doesn't want you with someone who cheats on you.....why would he want you with someone who abuses you? those seem on the same level of harmful if not more (for abuse). I'm having a difficult time watching my friend go through this. she's christian and feels she needs to work out her marriage with an abusive husband and i told her I'll love her no matter what, but i made it pretty clear that i dont think it makes sense to do that "for God" and that I don't think he's going to change.
Porn is not bad if you consume it from someone whom you know is not part of an agency or company. Lots of indie content creators i follow who do SW and they’re happy and healthy doing their thing.
@@mintvelvet3351 Even if you are able to get porn from a good source (although that is super hard to control), it still does damage to your brain and relationships. I have lots of research and articles I could send if you are interested. Porn also perpetuates a culture of sexualizing men and especially women. It is just flat out not healthy.
Coming over from Jacyln's channel here. I didn't think I liked you guys before, but you're growing on me. Also, Paul, love the turtle neck lmao
Love this!! I am an atheist myself and it's beautiful to see that both sides can come together and enjoy each other's company even though they believe differently!! ❤️ Looking forward to this!
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I love this! It’s so much more natural to be respectful and humanize each other when we are face to face. 😊
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This was brilliant to watch! As a progressive atheist I often feel that I am guilty of staying comfortable in my bubble of like minded people. How can you ever really be confident in your beliefs if they are never challenged? I have a whole new world of respect for all of you guys! I truly hope this inspires people from both sides of the aisle to hear each other out.
Why are you a Atheist ? Don't you know like 250 of the races we see today God created at the Tower of Babel and they never never existed before then. There is no historical record of none of them prior to God dividing up people by launguage to get humans to form the nations we see today. There isnt a human alive who can even tell you where.any.race lived on the Map. If this doesn't scare the HELL OUT OF YOU IT SHOULD BECAUSE God IS EVERYWHERE AND IN CONTROL OF EVERYTHING
I’m sure you’re also homophobic as these are which is just so BRILLIANT!
Just a note about the submission part. Feminists like to take one part of that verse out of context with the rest of it. Wives are to submit to their husbands as husbands are to be considerate and respectful towards their wives as being the weaker partner. And this is under the provision of a Godly relationship. Mind you, I think a lot of churches take it out of context as well. There are sects about making sure the woman is kept under control and in her place. Just look up polygamy. This is why Christians on an individual basis need to get back to understanding the Bible word-by-word. Even going back to the original Hebrew to understand what was meant back then.
My take on this is we are all more alike than different, whether we are people of faith or not. I love the collaboration as relationship and having the ability to speak into someone is important as it does show our love to our neighbor.
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Man I just wanna say I really enjoyed this video. I love the mutual respect and maturity that was shown here. It’s funny because I’m actually learning about interfaith dialogue in school right now and y’all knocked it out of the park. Cheers for civil conversation about hard topics. The world needs more of this
Cool to see you hang out like people. I've been a huge fan of Jaclyn for YEARS (I'm also an atheist but from birth) and I never saw this coming when she first started commenting on your beliefs and stuff. A weird timeline but I'm here for it. Greetings from Finland
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I LOVE THIS - this is seriously what the world needs more of.
This was fun to watch! Yay for being kind and just enjoying each other’s company! Aloha from Maui!
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I love this ! Thank you for modeling an example of being able to have open discussions with people you are different to , and talk about your differences in a spirit of grace. Gives me something to learn from in a generation of tribes and cancel culture. Thank you Paul and Morgan and Jaclyn and David!
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I think it is amazing that you can come together and do a collaboration. Just because you don’t agree on everything doesn’t mean that you can’t be a kind-hearted human being.
Jaclyn is so beautiful. Just sitting there she is stunning. She just exudes grace, maturity, strength, intelligence, femininity, yet is silly and fun, very funny, very caring and courageous, confident, firm yet gentle, dominant, and even a bit intimidating but in the best way possible and she doesn't try to down-play herself. She doesn't put herself down to make her husband look better. She doesn't play dumb and never tries to downplay her atheist-feminist beliefs just because she knows they don't agree, yet she is completely open to listening to different perspectives and is not resistant to change. If she sees something is working out better, she isn't afraid to change and try out different ways of living. Same with Morgan. I'm glad they both seemed very open to hearing each other's side of things. Jaclyn is unapologetically who she is and doesn't let anyone dull her shine and David is wonderful as he doesn't dull her shine at all, he lifts her up constantly and always has great things to say about her. She is definitely a great example for women and because of her life experience has a lot of advice to give and so much to speak about. Jaclyn's been through so much, has changed immensely, has grown immensely, and is living proof that you can go from struggling and being in bad relationships to having a beautiful family. Life experience is truly the best way to learn and grow, which is why I firmly believe we all should experience as much as possible in the world so we can tell our journies and help others not make the same mistakes.
This is awesome
Thanks for watching bro! Hope you’re well😊
Collab pleeeeeez
So awesome, and awesome to see you here bro!
Indubitably. Lol
@@DMTInfinity How are you going man?
I really enjoyed this. I think it’s good to be able to be friends with people who believe differently than you do and to be able to have civil conversations about things.
I’m very surprised to see Jaclyn featured on the Paul and Morgan show! I think it’s wonderful that y’all are able to love and respect each other and have such a great friendship despite each other’s differences; we need more of that in this polarized and divided world.
Needless to say, I feel bad for leaving mean comments on Jaclyn’s videos now!
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Love to see your growth, you really are showing Jesus's love when you do collabs like this one 👍
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My grandmother was a devout Baptist and loudly advocated for sex before marriage. Her explanation? “That way you won’t end up with a pencil-d*ck like I did!” 😂 (I hope this isn’t too crude for your comment section. It just always makes me laugh and the last question reminded me of it haha.)
I'm so happy to see you guys hanging out and discuss different points of view😊 It's possible! I'm an atheist and I live in Poland where these kind of conversations are almost impossible to have. My country is very religious (catholic) and other opinions are being ridiculed and the hate towards atheists or even other beliefs is extremely strong. Thank you for giving me hope and maybe someday i could talk safely with religious people and not be hated upon for my opinions...
It’s great that you guys have become friends and respect each other’s differences.
I'm LOVING this unity. This genuinely gives me hope for humanity.
I love that you guys did this. It was trippy seeing two different worlds come together and I was surprised you were able to find some sort of middle ground. I was anxious at times that things would get heated, but it was a civil discussion where you would either agree or agree to disagree. I really loved Paul's question about what each couple admires about each other's marriage. Regardless of background, beliefs, politics, etc. we can all learn something from each other. It's important to have these discussions and understand other perspectives even if you don't agree with them. I hope to see more videos like this in the future.
THANK YOU for doing this you guys. This is so beautiful. I respect your decision to put your sadly controversial friendship on your platform. It’s an incredible and admirable example that you’re setting and I think that’s what it means to be like Christ. Congrats for your growth Paul and Morgan. Thank you for believing in them, Jaclyn.
I love David More and more, when he shares his opinions. He's a great guy.
I love that you guys used the mock intro from Jaclyn’s video! 🤣
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One of Jaclyn's fans here! I am actually in a long term relationship with a guy who is from a very Christian family and considers himself Christian. I am however agnostic. We have an interesting dynamic for sure. I came from a very Catholic conservative family so I absolutely understand where he comes from with a lot of things. We tend to compromise a lot and neither of us push our views on each other. I love him and so glad I have spent over three years with him and that I live with him. We are not married yet and don't know if we ever will. But as long as I am with him I feel no need for some title.
Omg I feel like I'm in a similar boat except my family wasn't super religious, but like a decent amount. I am agnostic and my boyfriend is from a very catholic family and he himself is Catholic. We have been together over 3 years now and also live together haha. Even though we feel differently about certain things we find ways to work through them.
@@teamarie123 Yeah! I think these types of relationships are more common than people think. They can work as long as both are willing to respect the others boundaries and beliefs. They don't always have to agree but as long as you can compromise you can have fufiling relationships even with polar religious views.
I consider myself a deconstructed Christian and my fiance is an atheist. It really is do-able if you aren't trying to push your conclusions on the other person. However, this would be different if I actually thought atheists get an automatic hell card. We also sort of agree sometimes on what makes sense for a loving God if God exists, so we have some common ground and he thinks its cute when i get passionate and rant about organized religion. so that's a good dynamic we have going
I would be awkward like Morgan when telling them what marriage means. I know we can sound ‘crazy’ from a non-Christians perspective. I like how Paul jumps in to support and clarify what she’s saying. So cute 💕
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Most non-Christians know a lot about Christianity, many of us were Christians, so your perspective isn’t new and it isn’t weird. We want people to have healthy relationships. Divorce saved my life and I’m glad it was an option for me, but all I want for anyone is for them to be in healthy relationships, especially with their spouse.
Why are you a Atheist ? Don't you know like 250 of the races we see today God created at the Tower of Babel and they never never existed before then. There is no historical record of none of them prior to God dividing up people by launguage to get humans to form the nations we see today. There isnt a human alive who can even tell you where.any.race lived on the Map. If this doesn't scare the HELL OUT OF YOU IT SHOULD BECAUSE God IS EVERYWHERE AND IN CONTROL OF EVERYTHING
@@truecolors5413 One can put 80 to 90 per cent of the known languages into a dozen or so language families based on comparative analisys (cognates, grammatical rules, etc.), and the only reason researchers are cautious with going furter with a tree of descent encompassing all languages is that languages change so much that those methods start to get less reliable after seven thousand years or so (and there's barely any written texts from that time too). But that's exactly how languages work, and how they always worked. In less than two thousand years you got French, Spanish, Italian from the same language, Latin. Even though there world is more connected now, give two thousand years and the same is bound to happen with British and American English. Also, we have many historical records of Sumer, Egypt, etc. from before Judaism was even a thing.
Please get an education. Comments like this make me lose my remainging faith in humanity.
I have been sick so this really cheered me up God bless you guys
Feel better, Alisha❤️
coming from Jaclyn’s channel, it was so great to see this conversation! It’s truly so refreshing to see people who have somewhat opposite beliefs find common ground in a respectful way
I’m honestly not surprised by how many similarities there are because at the end of the day, we are all people just trying to figure life out. I honestly love these. These videos have definitely changed my views of you two, Paul and Morgan. I am glad to have been introduced to you guys by Jaclyn because it has really opened my eyes to you guys are more than your religion and you guys are very good people outside of that. It’s very heart warming to see.
Hello how are you doing hope you're safe over there??
So was Paul going for the "evil twin" look or was that just a happy accident? 😄
Excellent collab, guys!! Let's do more of this 💜
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"What's y'all reaction to see this"
First shocked, then very excited! And heart warming. Looking forward to it 👀🥰🤭
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I'm So glad you four have gotten along now. I love how you two are showing Christians that you can have different beliefs and still be friends.
God bless you two and Merry Christmas!!!
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Happy Hanukkah
@@ketsiaaman7822 Happy Hanukkah to you too! 😊😊
@@godmademepansexualsodealwi1355 thanks you too 🎇
I think it awesome to see this. So glad you guys got to do this. It was so awesome to see the respect you both had for each other
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So happy to see you guys together and growing by listening to all different perspectives
This is the type of energy we need in the world 💚
One of the best videos I've watched in a while! I feel like you all acted in such a genuine, friendly and above it all respectful manner.
I never thought you guys would do a colab considering your "history" , but you did it, and it was very mature conversation to say the least. Congratulations to everyone involved.
This was so beautiful to see. I'm agnostic and I admire you all coming g together and talking as people instead of debating and yelling at each other. The world needs more of this. Please do another one!
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Idk why, but Paul and David's 'manspreading' vs Morgan and Jaclyn sitting is absolutely comical to me😂🧡
The way Jaclyn looks at David. 🥺 She loves him so much.
Again, i just respect you both so much for being so open and willing you meet people so different from you and actually listening. Thank you
I’m here from Jaclyn’s channel and love these collabs! 😊
As someone who ironically follows both channels pretty closely, I love this. I’m so glad to see lovely and civil disagreement. Thanks for this.
I have been waiting for this moment!! Jacklyn and David are beautiful couple 😊❤️❤️
Very excited for this. I remember when you were extremely hurt by a video Jaclyn made and it is so nice to see that you talked to each other and were able to make peace and now even make a video together :) It would be so easy to simply dislike and think badly about each other- some stranger on the internet with opposing views- but you are all setting a great example by this! And I am sure the Q&A will be interesting and beneficial as well :)
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I really don’t know if they are all still mad at eachother for what’s happened in the past but It does seem like Morgan and Jaclyn are trying to sit as far away from eachother as possible while sitting next to eachother on a cramped couch😂😂😂
I love this! I saw the photo on IG & it looks like y’all have become some kind of friends. And that’s a beautiful thing to see in our current social environment.
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Christians DESTROYED Atheist Heathens!!!! Nah jus playing. I remember some of Jaclyns more blunt stuff which I’m fine with. Passionate topics will be passionate. But I like seeing this heart warming stuff too. I remember her singing a worship song with her dad a while back which I really thought was sweet. God bless both marriages til death
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Long term Jaclyn subscriber here and I’ve really enjoyed seeing your guy’s friendship blossom despite your differences! This video was great and I hope there’s more like this to come! P.s. I’m now a Paul and Morgan subscriber, don’t care if I’m a black sheep lol :)
just realised this is my first time watching a paul & morgan video on this channel rather than just clips of it on someone else's. fun times! subscribed 💜
Love this. It's great to see people with different beliefs coming together and showing that even with your differences you can be kind and respectful to one another.
Jaclyn fan here! I love this video and I’m so happy to see it! These conversations are so important for both sides.
OMW. THE WORLD IS ENDING!!!!! Saw this video and my jaw dropped. So glad yalll got to do this. ❤️❤️
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First timer on your channel, came from Jaclyn's channel. Love this video! I love your interaction with each other, and the curiosity in each other's relarionships. I'm happy to see you as friends 😁✡❤
This was really awesome. Considering I first came across you guys watching Jaclyn's responses to your videos I think it's amazing that you guys are friends now and are coming to a mutual understanding of each other.
I guess it's healthy for both sides to come together and discuss each other's differences and try to understand each other's perspectives.