🙏🙏🙏 April for the next 24hours imagine the New place that you will be moving to….it already has happened- the door has opened- you only have to make the decision to walk through it on faith. Remove the -there is no where to go…from your belief system… whatever is keeping you stuck is probably enjoying this chaos. It may even be demonic. You are a smart and intelligent woman. Sounds like Lonnie is a hard-working man. That’s two good things going for you guys… i’m praying that all that’s been stolen from you and keeping you in this crazy situation will be returned to you 1000 fold… No one -I don’t care what you’ve done in the past deserves to live in that type of hell. It’s good that you made this video for your own piece of mind because it’s not your fault that you are involved with this narcissist but now that you identified the problem it’s time to act. I don’t understand the housing situation in your area but what I do understand is you are a lovely human and you, Bodie and Lonnie deserve to have a place to call home that is safe and sound.😢❤💖💫✨💫✨💫🥰🥰
Oh dear lovely one… living in LA I too understand about the housing crisis. Sometimes it’s soul crushing knowing that I can’t find a place myself that isn’t ridiculously expensive. I have an apartment, but it’s small and I can’t have a dog which breaks my heart. Nothing is impossible but sometimes I know how it can feel that way. I wish there was a system in place where couples or families could find similar people who are interested in co- owning a house. I know you will find a way, you are a survivor and you and Lonnie work hard. Keep the faith, don’t let this situation define you. You are a blessing to those who know you and you will absolutely find a better place and restore your peace. BIG hugs. ❤
Hello April🙏❤️🥰. The housing situation even here in Florida is absolutely terrible. There are still peoples homes that aren’t repaired from the last two hurricanes and the city workers have just only recently started to actually clean up the roads and front yards with all of the debris from those two hurricanes too. Some people have left Florida cause of the cost of living has gone up and people just can’t afford it and even the rent too has skyrocketed. It’s utterly disgusting and how does the government think people can live or even have the money to get their homes rebuilt or even repaired too? It just seems that there is no one who give a crap about society and it seems like a throwaway society too. But anyway, you’re one tough lady and Lonnie is a tough man too and I know you both are smart enough to know how to get yourselves out of a shitty situation too and you will.👍🏻🙏. You’re a lot stronger than you think you are too. Stay strong and keep your faith strong too. That man is on mega psycho! He really needs to be committed for sure and doesn’t even need to be running or even owning that house that you and Lonnie live in and that man is always bringing someone in to live there too. That man too is not happy unless he’s controlling someone and when he isn’t getting his way, it seems that’s when he goes off on people that are around. You all are basically easy targets for him. God bless and thoughts and prayers for you always. Hugs and love! Sue M. Clearwater, Florida 🙏🙏❤️🥰😘👍🏻🤞🏼🧘🏼♂️❌⭕️
April Rain girl I absolutely love you and I connect with you so much!! I love you and your family and your channel so much! Thank you for being you your amazing, wonderful, beautiful soul!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You’re so brave. The rental crisis is very real. My husband, our little pup Gilbert, our kitty Freya and myself live in a single garage. It is a struggle. If I was in your situation I’d would bug out, I would try to buy a van to live in and bug out. Nothing is worth your health. Never let anyone try to dull your light. I hope someone in your tribe might know of a cheap rental or offer a safe home fast. ❤
If it were me and my husband we would just get out and try to invest in a small camper then live in a RV park. RV parks have a lot of year round ppl living there and the rent is pretty cheap. Try and stay positive, and strong many Blessings are coming to you. ❤
Hey April! I’m sorry this is happening and thank you for sharing. What I would do … See if there is a cheap motel that accepts pets and does a weekly or preferably monthly rate. Look into habitat for humanity. I’m sending you positive vibes and well wishes. Love yall. ❤
April, you know you have to send out your intentions into that universe ❤! I hate that these people are invading your space, using your things! That’s unacceptable! Start looking for an attorney who will take your case pro bono! Sending you positive vibes and prayers ❤you and Loni have such a strong bond you will get through this together 🙏, please take care of yourself and do what you can to get away from this place! And if he keeps this up… he’s illegally making all this money so you do what you need to do girl!❤
Man! Oh April!! What a nightmare! I’m so sorry! I hate feeling like I have no control and that’s the situation you’re in. I just wanna help or at least hug you!! This just sucks! You are so positive too!! You are gonna get through this!! In the meantime, please reach out if you ever wanna vent!! I’m here!! 🩷🩷🩷
That is some sick sh t going on He has a hidden agenda. House sitting could help while you seek an alternative living space. Maybe rent a room. It sounds like you should leave this bad situation. I am so sorry you are going through this. ❤❤❤
Im so sorry for all that you're going through . I have been going through a lot of things too, but i will praying for you and your husband to find a new place and better life for you too. God bless both of you. Don't give up you are a strong person. ❤❤❤
I know about the housing crisis around the country and especially in your area. My husband’s friend was homeless in Olympia for a few years, and it really took a toll on him. He recently was able to purchase a home in Aberdeen due to an inheritance he was blessed to receive, but living like that has taken a toll on his mental health. I can’t imagine what you’ve endured in your situation. I have most of your same mental health issues, and I honestly don’t know if I could have stood all that. Your strength is so amazing. I hope you’re able to find a better place for you and your family soon. Take care, my friend.
Hi April, Renting is awful these days! It’s so hard to find affordable apartments it’s ridiculous that the rent is so expensive and not affordable for average working people!! We rent a condo for $1800 and that’s not even other bills, we have 4 people living here and we all contribute to make rent and pay bills, we’re all family but still not easy with multiple people sharing bathrooms, kitchen! And everything else !! We been trying to find cheaper apartments for a while now and no luck!!!! And when you have pets it’s hard because people don’t want to rent to you even if you can afford it!!! I hope you find a place soon and get out of there! Sucks being in that kind of situation! Praying for you and hubby! I love your videos ❤ Hang in honey!!!❤
I’m sorry that you are going through this. I went through something similar, my landlady died and they sold our rental . We ended up living in a tent for 4 months with our 4 dogs and 3 cats ! I was able to move from California to Washington to stay with my 88 year old mother ! My heart goes out to you !!!
April, you are such a lovely soul, and I'm so sorry that you, Lonny, and Bodi are in pain both physically and mentally. No one should have to suffer this kind of abuse. I'm glad you are reaching out to your tribe because someone out there can help. And the more you're comfortable relating the problems you're encountering, the more people are available to help. I also suffer from severe panic attacks and have my entire life. Calling 911 and ending up at the emergency room are all too familiar events for me, too. My heart aches for you, knowing firsthand how terrifying and debilitating it can be. It can take the strongest, most resilient person down. I wish I had answers, unlimited funds, and an ADU for you all to use 😊 Just know that your subscribers are here because we feel a connection to you, and we care. We're all rooting for you and sending positive, healing energy. Please continue to update us. I appreciate the guts it takes to share this and believe that doing so will result in the changes you deserve ❤
Girl, don't worry about what words come out of your mouth. You have been pushed to this point. I have a mouth too! Sometimes you just need to get your point across! Bless you, Lonnie, and Brody! I never miss your videos! You are wonderful!
Hi April. I'm a viewer living in Spokane! There are soooo many houseless people here as well! It's soooo crazy how many! I hope you and Lonnie will be able to work things out with your landlord or be able to get a new place away from him! I'm sorry you are having to go through all of that drama! Hugs!! Hope you have a blessed New Year! ❤
Sending out hugs 🫂 and positive vibes for you. Thank you for being so brave in telling you very personal story. Hopefully getting it out has helped a little. I too suffer from anxiety, depression and PTSD so i can relate to how debilitating it can be. Try to hang in there. Hope a solution presents itself to you soon. Much love ❤ and hugs 🫂 to you, Lonnie and Brodi ❤❤❤
Girl, I am so sorry you are going through this. I wish I had a house for you and Lonnie to live in. No body should go through this. I pray it gets better for you.
Dear April, I think many viewers recognize the panic, etc.! Every time you feel like you're almost there, something happens that takes you down. I have notes hanging around the house with the words EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY! I'm trying to create a little more peace. I wish you all the love and happiness for 2025! 💋
I'm so sorry to hear about your health and your living situation. I believe things will change for the better as you are such an amazing person. Sending you positive thoughts from Australia.
You and Lonnie will be in my prayers each day. It's really tuff to be in your situation. But I know by experience that nothing lasts more than you can take. Something eventually will give. I know you've considered many possible solutions, but maybe you can explore moving to another state, which may offer better incentives for housing. My own roof is caving in, but I believe the Lord knows it all, so we should keep trusting and hoping with patience and prayers. We all love you very much!🌠
April I can relate I have a mouth also gets me in trouble sometimes they say I have a tone I will pray for a both of you ❤. I would do what you’re doing. You to r strong hang in there. I know it s--s been there.🙏
April & Lonnie I'm so very sorry for this terrible situation you are dealing with. I have dealt with something similar to this, feeling stuck and no where to turn. I'm praying for you. April I also was diagnosed with PTSD, severe anxiety & depression. I can't begin to know how exhausting this must be for you. My heart hurts for you. I'm sending love, positive thoughts and prayers. Stay strong.
I'm so sorry to hear this April. It sounds like a very invasive and stressful situation and you deserve better. I know it's so hard these days which is why my adult kids are still living with us. I know it's hard when you are living in a space that feels dark and unsafe. When you can, I find calling on my spirit guides and my angels for help is helpful. ❤❤❤ Sending positive vibes, light and a manifestation prayer to find you the best place. Hang in there, THINGS ARE HAPPENING FOR YOU, you just don't see it yet, but you will! Love you and take care of yourself
I think you are a strong beautiful and brave woman. I am sorry that you have to go through this. Unfortunately, there are assholes in this world and get power hungry, I think. it is good you are fluent in tenants' rights especially since you are dealing with your current landlord! It is frustrating when you as a tenant keep to yourself, but the landlord keeps harassing you and Lonnie.It does sound like the landlord might have mental issues.It is a hard situation. I hope you and Lonnie can find something better. You deserve a life that you want it to be. I probably would slip up a curse word or two if I were in that situation so dont feel bad you are only human. If i were in that situation I would try to keep the piece while I looked for something else. Even if it ment I had to go to famly members and ask if i could stay or set up my car to live in of course riggt it is winter so Living in a car wont be a good idea.. I, cant say unless I was in that situation of course and not everyone has famiyl but my main goal would be to get out of that house. If it went I had to go out of town I would. It is hard to move away from a place you have lived your hole life. I think the aniexty and harsment that I would go through would be leaving my city or town. Good luck and I will pray for you to find a better place.
My sweet friend, this might sound trite but thank the good Lord you have each other and I’m sure Bodie is a blessing too. Please don’t let me add to your stress in anyway Nothing is more important than your health and the strength you have. Your smile is such a strength to me as I struggle with health problems but I am 21 years older than you are I’ve told you before you are just month or two younger than my eldest daughter so if you need a Momma figure I’m here for you. I’m poor as the proverbial church mouse but know if I had it I would help
Hi I will keep you in my prayers. I have a shirt I wear a lot and it says Im leaving it in gods hands cause if I dont Im going to jail. I watch you doing your Temu hauls and I love your aura. Thank you for being you.
April, I am so sorry that you are going through this mess! You asked what we would do...i would try very hard to just to move out of the Pacific NW. It is an extremely expensive area. I would turn in the druggie living there as well. I will keep y I u and Lonnie in my prayers that a good resolve will come for you! I also deal with panic/anxiety issues and can't even imagine what this is doing to you❤ I wish so much that I could help you, but can barely help myself...also have a roommate whom have been BFF for many years and she just moved in her boyfriend and his 10 y/o grandson (who is a behavior issue). Not the best situation, but I can't afford to leave either. I don't quite have the same issues as you guys, but it does really suck when we are stuck in these positions. Again, all I can do is pray and send send good vibes your way for a wonderful solution for you guys. ❤ Love your channel! Sending hugs and wishes for all the best for you in 2025. ❤️🙏🙏❤️
If it was my situation I would just follow his rules as he makes them up. Don’t feed into it. Remove everything from the community areas. Don’t engage with anyone. I would start to look for alternatives like new roommate situation, renting or purchasing a camper with leased space or campground. At least you would have your own kitchen! Laws are to protect owners in room rental situations. Have you thought of relocating? I’m in TN and we don’t have problems with employment but some city areas like Nashville are experiencing affordable housing. The country areas are still affordable. Blessings & much love for you sister!
April so sorry what you are going through just hang in there you are very storage person you got this I wish you the very best hug's from Debbie in Lakeview Oregon
Hi April I’m so sorry that you are going through this nightmare. It always seems like the worst situations happen to the kindest people. I’m so glad that you put this video out because you are always there for us and this is our time to be there for you. I don’t know what to say or do that can help you . I love you so much and I truly hope things get better. Big hug from me to you ❤
Love you guys, proud of you both and remember where you been and how you are strong enough to get through what ever, I mean whatever being thrown towards your way, take it and use it, know that it's gonna make you stronger, there is still good people out there, where I don't know sometimes, far in between I know, I know you to be strong beautiful woman 💖 keep your guys heads up and moving forward
🙏🙏🙏Prayers for you both 🙏🙏🙏Its alot to go through and to deal with 🙏🙏🙏My heart goes out to you both😊😊 Try looking into Section 8 and talk to them about what is going on and see what they say, you both can't live like this 😢😢Prayers and hugs and love to you both 🙏🙏🫂💞
I'm so sorry you are going through this and I will be praying for your situation!! I have had a couple of bad times with landlords but I made it through and you will too!!❤
April i didn't realize you were in that situation. The housing situation is really bad. I was homeless for 7 months. You deserve a peaceful environment that caters to your needs. It sucks you can't do the things you need and want to do. The anxiety definitely isn't good for anyone let alone someone with PTSD. I sent you a couple emails a couple weeks back. I have been in situations where I didn't want to come out of my room because of the anxiety the other people created. It was horrible. I hope you can find a place to live that is better for your well-being. It took me over 2 years to get into my own apartment. Do you go to therapy? It sounds like you could benefit from some therapy just to deal with your daily situation. I would find out about any resources available to help you find different housing. Talj to social workers or whoever you can and find out what your options are. That does not sound like any kind of a healthy situation. Your landlord is a batterer basically. You live in an emotionally abusive situation. Whether he's yelling, throwing your things or whatever he is creating a hostile environment. If you're afraid to come out of your room, you're in an abusive environment. I feel really horrible knowing you're going through all this. I have knee problems and yesterday the pain got so bad i can barely walk. Having back problems and not being able to treat it is so wrong. I also have PTSD and generalized anxiety disorder. I wish i could wave a wand and get you out of there. All of the stress you are under is not going to help your physical or mental health. A communal living environment is already difficult but as he's brought randoms in off the street he's created a really bad environment. I love you girl. I really hope something good happens for you soon. ❤❤❤ Go cuddle with Lonnie and take a break tonight girl. If you were a single woman in this situation they would put you in a shelter. It sucks that there are no resources if you make "too much" the cost of living adjustment is a joke. People can't live on next to nothing when they have no resources. Im on disability and im terrified about going to work and losing my income especially if I fail at working. Im going to send up positive thoughts on your behalf. Keeping you in my thoughts. Be gentle with yourself.
I get in trouble alot April using my mouth when things are wrong I know not right it just happens I guess it's my stress I live with my 90 year old dad but he's healthy I wish I could help April I would ❤❤
Hey beautiful, sorry to hear that you are going through all this BS. I love you and I do miss your beautiful face, but you need to do you. I so understand what you r going through i have been there and I am there now...... my prayers are with you and Lonnie 🙏🙏🙏❤❤
All I’m clinging onto is that it will pass.Sounds like your police system is better than England.Don’t even come out here.I’m living next door to an empty house disabled and scared when it’s being broken into again.Bring on Spring and light mornings x!
April, I hate to say this but have you thought about moving out of the PNW??? Its so expensive out there.. SO SO Expensive.. I know it is beautiful but the housing costs are so dang high... its not worth having this much anxiety over... have you thought about looking for an AIRBNB until you can find another place? I use them for work a lot and sometimes you can find a pretty good deal. Let me know how I can help? Maybe you should just start posting all your content on this channel since its monitized ya know??? Love you two and I know things will work out, just stand your ground and I know something will come up or happen for you.
😢omg sweetie iam so sorry 😞 that you and lonnie are gin thru with this slumlord april when you and lonnie get up in morning pray 🙏🏻 to god and keep the faith ,when slumlord comes rebuke this horrible man when he comes around 🙏🏻 god listen, watching one door closes and your door is opening ,❤🙏🏻 try go fund me we will all help you
I am so sorry you are going through this. I'd stay in a motel. Alot safer for you. I don't know the laws in WASHINGTON..but here in Illinois the landlord has to give you 30 days. But really. I personally would pack things up and get into a long term hotel.
Hello beautiful woman April via email and have the same mental health issues and challenges as you😢. What you're going through is horrible 💔 I hate when people say just take your medication and they don't understand we react to what's around us. You're an amazing woman I know you guys are having housing shortages it might be time move from your state I know it is easier said than done. You and your love bug are so amazing. I have been on a week of non-stop crying 😢 I understand April and you're amazing I love watching your channel you're so open and honest 💓 sometimes it's hard to even get out of bed or even want to take a shower 🚿 I want you to know that I love you I've never met you in person . Michelle
Hate hearing that you have to go through this. Karma is a bitch and it will come back to him. Cost and housing availability was why we left Oregon and moved back to Ohio. Getting on the section eight housing list is a good idea, as you said it can take years sometimes. I know you mean so much to all of us and we are always here for you. Take all the time you need, we will always be here. You always brighten my day. You deserve safety, warmth and a home you are comfortable in....sending prayers and blessings.
I wonder if these additional people are even paying rent. That wouldn’t be fair for you at all! No it’s not selfish for 3 people using your toiletries! If they aren’t contributing at all and using all the resources at zero cost to them, it absolutely is not a silly thing to be angry about. I was talking to my mom about all of this and she said it sounds like the landlord is trying to bully you out. I hope you have contracts so he doesn’t kick you out but if he does try.. I strongly recommend you use the squatter laws to ensure you are not left homeless if he tries to!
You really need to move out of there! Perhaps you could get a go fund me page and we could help you get a deposit for a new home? ❤ for the sake of your health
What a horrible sounding living arrangement. Even dangerous. Very bad for your mental health. Is it worth it? Sadly, you may need to move to another state. In my area there are jobs & housing. We are very lucky.
@@MenopauseandMadness74 it's a way for people to give a bit of money which only takes a small percentage (unlike youtube). You don't have to pay to join . I don't work for them just felt I'd like to give a small amount and didn't see a way to do it :)
🙏🙏🙏 April for the next 24hours imagine the New place that you will be moving to….it already has happened- the door has opened- you only have to make the decision to walk through it on faith. Remove the -there is no where to go…from your belief system… whatever is keeping you stuck is probably enjoying this chaos. It may even be demonic. You are a smart and intelligent woman. Sounds like Lonnie is a hard-working man. That’s two good things going for you guys… i’m praying that all that’s been stolen from you and keeping you in this crazy situation will be returned to you 1000 fold… No one -I don’t care what you’ve done in the past deserves to live in that type of hell. It’s good that you made this video for your own piece of mind because it’s not your fault that you are involved with this narcissist but now that you identified the problem it’s time to act. I don’t understand the housing situation in your area but what I do understand is you are a lovely human and you, Bodie and Lonnie deserve to have a place to call home that is safe and sound.😢❤💖💫✨💫✨💫🥰🥰
Thank you so much Wendy ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sending so much love and positive energy your way for you, Lonnie, and Bohdi. ❤❤❤
Oh dear lovely one… living in LA I too understand about the housing crisis. Sometimes it’s soul crushing knowing that I can’t find a place myself that isn’t ridiculously expensive. I have an apartment, but it’s small and I can’t have a dog which breaks my heart. Nothing is impossible but sometimes I know how it can feel that way. I wish there was a system in place where couples or families could find similar people who are interested in co- owning a house. I know you will find a way, you are a survivor and you and Lonnie work hard. Keep the faith, don’t let this situation define you. You are a blessing to those who know you and you will absolutely find a better place and restore your peace. BIG hugs. ❤
I relate❤hang in there april ❤your channel
Hello April🙏❤️🥰. The housing situation even here in Florida is absolutely terrible. There are still peoples homes that aren’t repaired from the last two hurricanes and the city workers have just only recently started to actually clean up the roads and front yards with all of the debris from those two hurricanes too. Some people have left Florida cause of the cost of living has gone up and people just can’t afford it and even the rent too has skyrocketed. It’s utterly disgusting and how does the government think people can live or even have the money to get their homes rebuilt or even repaired too? It just seems that there is no one who give a crap about society and it seems like a throwaway society too. But anyway, you’re one tough lady and Lonnie is a tough man too and I know you both are smart enough to know how to get yourselves out of a shitty situation too and you will.👍🏻🙏. You’re a lot stronger than you think you are too. Stay strong and keep your faith strong too. That man is on mega psycho! He really needs to be committed for sure and doesn’t even need to be running or even owning that house that you and Lonnie live in and that man is always bringing someone in to live there too. That man too is not happy unless he’s controlling someone and when he isn’t getting his way, it seems that’s when he goes off on people that are around. You all are basically easy targets for him. God bless and thoughts and prayers for you always. Hugs and love! Sue M. Clearwater, Florida 🙏🙏❤️🥰😘👍🏻🤞🏼🧘🏼♂️❌⭕️
April Rain girl I absolutely love you and I connect with you so much!! I love you and your family and your channel so much! Thank you for being you your amazing, wonderful, beautiful soul!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You’re so brave. The rental crisis is very real. My husband, our little pup Gilbert, our kitty Freya and myself live in a single garage. It is a struggle. If I was in your situation I’d would bug out, I would try to buy a van to live in and bug out. Nothing is worth your health. Never let anyone try to dull your light. I hope someone in your tribe might know of a cheap rental or offer a safe home fast. ❤
If it were me and my husband we would just get out and try to invest in a small camper then live in a RV park.
RV parks have a lot of year round ppl living there and the rent is pretty cheap.
Try and stay positive, and strong many Blessings are coming to you. ❤
Hey April! I’m sorry this is happening and thank you for sharing.
What I would do …
See if there is a cheap motel that accepts pets and does a weekly or preferably monthly rate. Look into habitat for humanity. I’m sending you positive vibes and well wishes.
Love yall. ❤
The house we are renting now is section 8
I feel you 100%😢😢 Please take care. Love ya!
Re: Bathroom items- act like you're in a dorm and carry your items in a basket. Take them in and out each time. I think they have them at Dollar Tree.
Hello April❤ I'm so worried about you both. I'm here for you.❤❤❤❤I hope you will check out the option I sent you yesterday. 😊
Hi Laura ❤️. We are strongly considering it. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hang in there, my dear. You are un my thoughts and prayers..❤🧡💛💚💙💜💜💚💚🧡❤ From your pal in Michigan.
April, you know you have to send out your intentions into that universe ❤! I hate that these people are invading your space, using your things! That’s unacceptable! Start looking for an attorney who will take your case pro bono! Sending you positive vibes and prayers ❤you and Loni have such a strong bond you will get through this together 🙏, please take care of yourself and do what you can to get away from this place! And if he keeps this up… he’s illegally making all this money so you do what you need to do girl!❤
Man! Oh April!! What a nightmare! I’m so sorry! I hate feeling like I have no control and that’s the situation you’re in. I just wanna help or at least hug you!! This just sucks! You are so positive too!! You are gonna get through this!! In the meantime, please reach out if you ever wanna vent!! I’m here!! 🩷🩷🩷
That is some sick sh t going on
He has a hidden agenda. House sitting could help while you seek an alternative living space. Maybe rent a room. It sounds like you should leave this bad situation. I am so sorry you are going through this. ❤❤❤
Im so sorry for all that you're going through . I have been going through a lot of things too, but i will praying for you and your husband to find a new place and better life for you too. God bless both of you. Don't give up you are a strong person. ❤❤❤
Sending you, Lonnie & Bodhi the energies of healing & peace❤❤❤
I know about the housing crisis around the country and especially in your area. My husband’s friend was homeless in Olympia for a few years, and it really took a toll on him. He recently was able to purchase a home in Aberdeen due to an inheritance he was blessed to receive, but living like that has taken a toll on his mental health. I can’t imagine what you’ve endured in your situation. I have most of your same mental health issues, and I honestly don’t know if I could have stood all that. Your strength is so amazing. I hope you’re able to find a better place for you and your family soon. Take care, my friend.
Wow April, I have no idea what I would do in your situation. I feel so bad for both of you. 🙏
Hi April, Renting is awful these days! It’s so hard to find affordable apartments it’s ridiculous that the rent is so expensive and not affordable for average working people!! We rent a condo for $1800 and that’s not even other bills, we have 4 people living here and we all contribute to make rent and pay bills, we’re all family but still not easy with multiple people sharing bathrooms, kitchen! And everything else !! We been trying to find cheaper apartments for a while now and no luck!!!! And when you have pets it’s hard because people don’t want to rent to you even if you can afford it!!! I hope you find a place soon and get out of there! Sucks being in that kind of situation! Praying for you and hubby! I love your videos ❤ Hang in honey!!!❤
I’m sorry that you are going through this. I went through something similar, my landlady died and they sold our rental . We ended up living in a tent for 4 months with our 4 dogs and 3 cats ! I was able to move from California to Washington to stay with my 88 year old mother ! My heart goes out to you !!!
April, you are such a lovely soul, and I'm so sorry that you, Lonny, and Bodi are in pain both physically and mentally. No one should have to suffer this kind of abuse.
I'm glad you are reaching out to your tribe because someone out there can help. And the more you're comfortable relating the problems you're encountering, the more people are available to help.
I also suffer from severe panic attacks and have my entire life. Calling 911 and ending up at the emergency room are all too familiar events for me, too. My heart aches for you, knowing firsthand how terrifying and debilitating it can be. It can take the strongest, most resilient person down.
I wish I had answers, unlimited funds, and an ADU for you all to use 😊
Just know that your subscribers are here because we feel a connection to you, and we care. We're all rooting for you and sending positive, healing energy.
Please continue to update us. I appreciate the guts it takes to share this and believe that doing so will result in the changes you deserve ❤
I’m so sorry that you’re going through all of this. My thoughts and prayers go out to you. ❤
Praying for you, Lonnie & Bodi. 🙏 ❤️💙 🐾🐾
Girl, don't worry about what words come out of your mouth. You have been pushed to this point. I have a mouth too! Sometimes you just need to get your point across! Bless you, Lonnie, and Brody! I never miss your videos! You are wonderful!
Hi April. I'm a viewer living in Spokane! There are soooo many houseless people here as well! It's soooo crazy how many! I hope you and Lonnie will be able to work things out with your landlord or be able to get a new place away from him! I'm sorry you are having to go through all of that drama! Hugs!! Hope you have a blessed New Year! ❤
I've missed watching you But had to squeeze this in.... You know how to reach me..... Much Love & Light ✌️💞🙏
Sending out hugs 🫂 and positive vibes for you.
Thank you for being so brave in telling you very personal story.
Hopefully getting it out has helped a little.
I too suffer from anxiety, depression and PTSD so i can relate to how debilitating it can be.
Try to hang in there. Hope a solution presents itself to you soon.
Much love ❤ and hugs 🫂 to you, Lonnie and Brodi ❤❤❤
I am praying for you guys. Life is hard. You are beautiful. Positive Visualization really helps❤❤❤
I am so sorry you are going through things. Let us be Happy together in love and kindness for each other. Love you sweetheart.❤❤❤
Girl, I am so sorry you are going through this. I wish I had a house for you and Lonnie to live in. No body should go through this. I pray it gets better for you.
Dear April, I think many viewers recognize the panic, etc.! Every time you feel like you're almost there, something happens that takes you down. I have notes hanging around the house with the words EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY! I'm trying to create a little more peace. I wish you all the love and happiness for 2025! 💋
I'm so sorry to hear about your health and your living situation. I believe things will change for the better as you are such an amazing person. Sending you positive thoughts from Australia.
You and Lonnie will be in my prayers each day. It's really tuff to be in your situation. But I know by experience that nothing lasts more than you can take. Something eventually will give. I know you've considered many possible solutions, but maybe you can explore moving to another state, which may offer better incentives for housing. My own roof is caving in, but I believe the Lord knows it all, so we should keep trusting and hoping with patience and prayers. We all love you very much!🌠
April I can relate I have a mouth also gets me in trouble sometimes they say I have a tone I will pray for a both of you ❤. I would do what you’re doing. You to r strong hang in there. I know it s--s been there.🙏
You both keep your heads up You will be in your own place soon Manifesting sending good vibes love and light hugs to you both blessed be 😊⭐🩵
April & Lonnie I'm so very sorry for this terrible situation you are dealing with. I have dealt with something similar to this, feeling stuck and no where to turn. I'm praying for you. April I also was diagnosed with PTSD, severe anxiety & depression. I can't begin to know how exhausting this must be for you. My heart hurts for you. I'm sending love, positive thoughts and prayers. Stay strong.
I'm so sorry to hear this April. It sounds like a very invasive and stressful situation and you deserve better. I know it's so hard these days which is why my adult kids are still living with us. I know it's hard when you are living in a space that feels dark and unsafe. When you can, I find calling on my spirit guides and my angels for help is helpful. ❤❤❤ Sending positive vibes, light and a manifestation prayer to find you the best place. Hang in there, THINGS ARE HAPPENING FOR YOU, you just don't see it yet, but you will! Love you and take care of yourself
I think you are a strong beautiful and brave woman. I am sorry that you have to go through this. Unfortunately, there are assholes in this world and get power hungry, I think. it is good you are fluent in tenants' rights especially since you are dealing with your current landlord! It is frustrating when you as a tenant keep to yourself, but the landlord keeps harassing you and Lonnie.It does sound like the landlord might have mental issues.It is a hard situation. I hope you and Lonnie can find something better. You deserve a life that you want it to be. I probably would slip up a curse word or two if I were in that situation so dont feel bad you are only human. If i were in that situation I would try to keep the piece while I looked for something else. Even if it ment I had to go to famly members and ask if i could stay or set up my car to live in of course riggt it is winter so Living in a car wont be a good idea.. I, cant say unless I was in that situation of course and not everyone has famiyl but my main goal would be to get out of that house. If it went I had to go out of town I would. It is hard to move away from a place you have lived your hole life. I think the aniexty and harsment that I would go through would be leaving my city or town. Good luck and I will pray for you to find a better place.
So sorry to hear what your all going thru, Please be safe & take care wishing all the best to you, Lonnie and of course Sweet Bodi.
I am going though so much God Bless you.❤
Oh April, I’m so sorry your in that situation, it’s just not right. Please watch your back and both be safe and keep little Bodie safe to. ❤
My sweet friend, this might sound trite but thank the good Lord you have each other and I’m sure Bodie is a blessing too. Please don’t let me add to your stress in anyway Nothing is more important than your health and the strength you have. Your smile is such a strength to me as I struggle with health problems but I am 21 years older than you are I’ve told you before you are just month or two younger than my eldest daughter so if you need a Momma figure I’m here for you. I’m poor as the proverbial church mouse but know if I had it I would help
Hi I will keep you in my prayers. I have a shirt I wear a lot and it says Im leaving it in gods hands cause if I dont Im going to jail. I watch you doing your Temu hauls and I love your aura. Thank you for being you.
April, I am so sorry that you are going through this mess! You asked what we would do...i would try very hard to just to move out of the Pacific NW. It is an extremely expensive area. I would turn in the druggie living there as well. I will keep y I u and Lonnie in my prayers that a good resolve will come for you! I also deal with panic/anxiety issues and can't even imagine what this is doing to you❤ I wish so much that I could help you, but can barely help myself...also have a roommate whom have been BFF for many years and she just moved in her boyfriend and his 10 y/o grandson (who is a behavior issue). Not the best situation, but I can't afford to leave either. I don't quite have the same issues as you guys, but it does really suck when we are stuck in these positions. Again, all I can do is pray and send send good vibes your way for a wonderful solution for you guys. ❤ Love your channel! Sending hugs and wishes for all the best for you in 2025. ❤️🙏🙏❤️
If it was my situation I would just follow his rules as he makes them up. Don’t feed into it. Remove everything from the community areas. Don’t engage with anyone. I would start to look for alternatives like new roommate situation, renting or purchasing a camper with leased space or campground. At least you would have your own kitchen! Laws are to protect owners in room rental situations. Have you thought of relocating? I’m in TN and we don’t have problems with employment but some city areas like Nashville are experiencing affordable housing. The country areas are still affordable. Blessings & much love for you sister!
April so sorry what you are going through just hang in there you are very storage person you got this I wish you the very best hug's from Debbie in Lakeview Oregon
Hi April I’m so sorry that you are going through this nightmare. It always seems like the worst situations happen to the kindest people. I’m so glad that you put this video out because you are always there for us and this is our time to be there for you. I don’t know what to say or do that can help you . I love you so much and I truly hope things get better. Big hug from me to you ❤
When one is in fight or flight mode, it's challenging to be creative.
Love you guys, proud of you both and remember where you been and how you are strong enough to get through what ever, I mean whatever being thrown towards your way, take it and use it, know that it's gonna make you stronger, there is still good people out there, where I don't know sometimes, far in between I know, I know you to be strong beautiful woman 💖 keep your guys heads up and moving forward
April my heart is aching for you ❤❤❤
🙏🙏🙏Prayers for you both 🙏🙏🙏Its alot to go through and to deal with 🙏🙏🙏My heart goes out to you both😊😊 Try looking into Section 8 and talk to them about what is going on and see what they say, you both can't live like this 😢😢Prayers and hugs and love to you both 🙏🙏🫂💞
I'm so sorry you are going through this and I will be praying for your situation!! I have had a couple of bad times with landlords but I made it through and you will too!!❤
🙏 stay in prayer girl! God is amazing!!!!
April i didn't realize you were in that situation. The housing situation is really bad. I was homeless for 7 months. You deserve a peaceful environment that caters to your needs. It sucks you can't do the things you need and want to do. The anxiety definitely isn't good for anyone let alone someone with PTSD. I sent you a couple emails a couple weeks back. I have been in situations where I didn't want to come out of my room because of the anxiety the other people created. It was horrible. I hope you can find a place to live that is better for your well-being. It took me over 2 years to get into my own apartment. Do you go to therapy? It sounds like you could benefit from some therapy just to deal with your daily situation. I would find out about any resources available to help you find different housing. Talj to social workers or whoever you can and find out what your options are. That does not sound like any kind of a healthy situation. Your landlord is a batterer basically. You live in an emotionally abusive situation. Whether he's yelling, throwing your things or whatever he is creating a hostile environment. If you're afraid to come out of your room, you're in an abusive environment. I feel really horrible knowing you're going through all this. I have knee problems and yesterday the pain got so bad i can barely walk. Having back problems and not being able to treat it is so wrong. I also have PTSD and generalized anxiety disorder. I wish i could wave a wand and get you out of there. All of the stress you are under is not going to help your physical or mental health. A communal living environment is already difficult but as he's brought randoms in off the street he's created a really bad environment. I love you girl. I really hope something good happens for you soon. ❤❤❤ Go cuddle with Lonnie and take a break tonight girl. If you were a single woman in this situation they would put you in a shelter. It sucks that there are no resources if you make "too much" the cost of living adjustment is a joke. People can't live on next to nothing when they have no resources. Im on disability and im terrified about going to work and losing my income especially if I fail at working. Im going to send up positive thoughts on your behalf. Keeping you in my thoughts. Be gentle with yourself.
I get in trouble alot April using my mouth when things are wrong I know not right it just happens I guess it's my stress I live with my 90 year old dad but he's healthy I wish I could help April I would ❤❤
Hang in there April❤
Hey beautiful, sorry to hear that you are going through all this BS. I love you and I do miss your beautiful face, but you need to do you. I so understand what you r going through i have been there and I am there now...... my prayers are with you and Lonnie 🙏🙏🙏❤❤
How stressful for you I’m so sorry you are dealing with this. I hope you can find alternate housing soon. ❤❤❤
All I’m clinging onto is that it will pass.Sounds like your police system is better than England.Don’t even come out here.I’m living next door to an empty house disabled and scared when it’s being broken into again.Bring on Spring and light mornings x!
Don’t apologize-it’s a sign of intelligence to cuss. 😂
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April, I hate to say this but have you thought about moving out of the PNW??? Its so expensive out there.. SO SO Expensive.. I know it is beautiful but the housing costs are so dang high... its not worth having this much anxiety over... have you thought about looking for an AIRBNB until you can find another place? I use them for work a lot and sometimes you can find a pretty good deal. Let me know how I can help?
Maybe you should just start posting all your content on this channel since its monitized ya know???
Love you two and I know things will work out, just stand your ground and I know something will come up or happen for you.
I don't vape but a air device for my mental issues.😊
😢omg sweetie iam so sorry 😞 that you and lonnie are gin thru with this slumlord april when you and lonnie get up in morning pray 🙏🏻 to god and keep the faith ,when slumlord comes rebuke this horrible man when he comes around 🙏🏻 god listen, watching one door closes and your door is opening ,❤🙏🏻 try go fund me we will all help you
I am so sorry you are going through this. I'd stay in a motel. Alot safer for you. I don't know the laws in WASHINGTON..but here in Illinois the landlord has to give you 30 days. But really. I personally would pack things up and get into a long term hotel.
Hello April ❤❤love you
You might have to keep looking or maybe some friends you know there you can room with sounds like he has dementia I'm so sorry love ya both ❤
💚💜💙❤ love to you!
Hello beautiful woman April via email and have the same mental health issues and challenges as you😢. What you're going through is horrible 💔 I hate when people say just take your medication and they don't understand we react to what's around us. You're an amazing woman I know you guys are having housing shortages it might be time move from your state I know it is easier said than done. You and your love bug are so amazing. I have been on a week of non-stop crying 😢 I understand April and you're amazing I love watching your channel you're so open and honest 💓 sometimes it's hard to even get out of bed or even want to take a shower 🚿 I want you to know that I love you I've never met you in person . Michelle
Hows bodi with all this difference it must bother him ❤❤love to you all
Yes try emergency section 8 maybe that will help ❤❤
Hate hearing that you have to go through this. Karma is a bitch and it will come back to him. Cost and housing availability was why we left Oregon and moved back to Ohio. Getting on the section eight housing list is a good idea, as you said it can take years sometimes. I know you mean so much to all of us and we are always here for you. Take all the time you need, we will always be here. You always brighten my day. You deserve safety, warmth and a home you are comfortable in....sending prayers and blessings.
Can you get a Ring camera or something like that for your room?
My concern is intrusive incidents.
Sounds like children he shouldn't of let those homeless people move in he didn't know ❤❤
I wonder if these additional people are even paying rent. That wouldn’t be fair for you at all! No it’s not selfish for 3 people using your toiletries! If they aren’t contributing at all and using all the resources at zero cost to them, it absolutely is not a silly thing to be angry about. I was talking to my mom about all of this and she said it sounds like the landlord is trying to bully you out. I hope you have contracts so he doesn’t kick you out but if he does try.. I strongly recommend you use the squatter laws to ensure you are not left homeless if he tries to!
He sounds like he has the dark triad. 😮
Is he on Medicaid my daddy used to always own buildings until my mom passed in 2018 ❤❤
You really need to move out of there! Perhaps you could get a go fund me page and we could help you get a deposit for a new home? ❤ for the sake of your health
Sorry your dealing with the landlord from hell. I hope in the near future you find yourself in a better situation
Does he know he can get in trouble ❤❤
Did you sign a contract or lease? I was wondering where you lived before this??
I do know of some apts in Olympia that would fit for what ya need.
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Where do you live that has no rentals? I’d grab my belongings and head south. Living in that environment can kill you.
Plus is he paying tax on that extra income????
Since Lonnie a truck driver can you move anywhere
Hi beautiful friend be cool if you lived next to me We could do candles crafts all kinds of stuff 😊🩵
You just have to say your in danger where you both live you need emergency help ❤❤
What a horrible sounding living arrangement. Even dangerous. Very bad for your mental health. Is it worth it? Sadly, you may need to move to another state. In my area there are jobs & housing. We are very lucky.
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