I know sometimes it can be hard especially when your talking to her and dint get a response. I went through it with my grandson who is 6 years old now and it took a while cause of covid ti get him to the right doctor and see what spectrum he was on he is high functioning but you at one time would of not known he getting better with talking, listening and responding you are a great mother and from what i am Observing she is going to be fine like you said your on her time very true she will come around Did she get a full diagnosis yet ? GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY 🙏🙌🫶🫶🫶
She is a very smart and beautiful baby. I can see her mind working on building her tower. She will meet all her milestones on her own time. Blue is my favorite color also blue is calming.
OMG, so hard to believe she’s walking. I remember when you were shopping for decorations for her room before she was born. Time flies by so fast. ✌🏽♥️🙏🏽
I noticed her sitting in a w. Then i noticed she gravitated to blue. I noticed she self soothed by rubbing her leg. Then the frustration because she couldnt say open. This definitly warrents testing for autisum. At birth my son had a ridge on his forehead. It turns out his skull was completly closed no soft spot. So his head grew the ridge grew bigger. He was learning ok but showing aggrivation issues and wasnt wanting affection of any kind. My Son matched colors everything had to be in 5 matching colors. He woulfnt plsy with other babies or children. He prefered to play alone. He banged his head in the floor and rocked himself. Around age 8 he started touching everything or banging on them. Then he would poke us in the arm and say does that hurt. He made every milestone with speech however so doctors denied autisum. By 3rd and 4th grade he was poking other kids in class couldnt sit still etc. By 5th grade he was drawing pictures of things that were disturbing like hurting himself. He was placed 2 times in the hospital. They diagnosed him with ADHD. By the 7th grade his behavior was so bad he was moved to special ed classes where he was the smartest in the room. He was placed on more medication. He exited that class in 8th grade and went back to regular classes. He always did his homework after that and seemed to be doing much better. He stayed on medication through school until graduation. By the time he was in 11th grade he was taking college classes. He graduated then went into the Airforce. He strughled without his ADHD medication. But ge served 6 years now hes working a good job and doing good. He does have depression and anxiety and OCD. As a baby his face or hands couldnt be dirty he would scream until u cleaned them. Now he has to wash his hands a lot. I guess thats a good thing. Hes 29 unmarried no kids but takes care of himself. My next child was born she wouldnt sleep. She hit all her milestones but i couldn't potty train her. We found her in the hallway each morning. She kept saying she couldnt sleep her imaginary friends were too loud. She was very loving and sweet and kind but her reading was way behind. Her spelling jumbled but they said no dyslexia. We had her tested no Autisum. She had behavior issues and regular accidents. By 12 years old she was cutting herself, angry and very aggresive we placed her in the hospital. She was diagnosed with ADD, depression, anxiety and Scizoefftive disorder. She now is 25 and fully disabled. She needs help with basic tasks and sees and hears this despite trestment. Shes prone to violent behavior and has attacked me. My youngest was very normal as a kid. Extreamly smart in the star program at school very loving and sweet. As she grew she was at the top of her class. But at age 15 things started to change. She tried to jump our of a moving school bus. We had to place her in the hospital. She started cutting and was having sex we found out at 12. We were shocked. Before long she was trying to kill herself monthly. Medication was started. She started jerking and becoming obsessive with things they had to be perfect. Yep she was diagnosed with depression, anxiety and OCD. Possible autisum althought high on the spectrum. She holds a job but struggles and at 23 cant drive due to anxiety she lives at home. I myself have Depression, anxiety and Bi Polor i struggled as a kid. I couldbt retain information i flunked in school. I had behavior issues. But nobody knew what to do. I exspressed my frustration with anger and lashing out. I could read well but my spelling was horrible. I graduated but strhggled through college. I now have severe anxiety and delression. Our genes are bad and now i have 3 kids with issues. They have all 3 decided not to have children. I suffer from 10 different auto immune disorders at age 52. The 1st one happened at age 24. I suffer greatly its very hard watching my kids suffer. Its obvious we have genetic issues in our family. Anyway i hope you fugure out whars going on. Autisum is where to start. I hope you get answers soon.
You and your husband is the most grounded family on u-tube I've watch several families with autistic children or children with disabilities.! But your family is sooooo very special.! I love the way that you're loving patient understanding.! Stay with God he is always sufficient.! I know that it's trying at times. I have a autistic child at home. He has come a long way.! And still learning.! I'm still earning his trust and love daily. The rewards is he knows that I love him.! Love is a action word.!
Let it figure it out herself! She is not into counting, she wants to play by herself first. If you want to play at her time like you say, then do so, even when it is difficult for you to be patient and not interfere.
With respect I think that’s the most unhelpful, unkind, insensitive, rude, crass thing I’ve heard. Just stop a moment, read what you’ve written, and ask yourself how you would feel if someone said that about your children (if you have any). This woman and her husband are doing an amazing job. Every human is different, not something ‘wrong’ with them. Moma is doing her best. And a doing well. This is the beginning of a journey for them. I have every faith that this little girl will thrive, at her own pace, with the help, love and support of her great family.
Greetings from Germany… Blue represents gentleness and is calm through distance. At the same time, blue also represents clear prudence, objectivity, neutrality and clarity - this instills trust and conveys a sense of security. Even if it can sometimes seem cold.
Can't believe how chunky Veah has gotten🥰 She's sitting with her legs in the "W" position. Common in austic children. Ever watched "The Gentle Life" videos? You didn't notice @27:36 she said "three".
This is so strange. It’s as though you’re charting the behavior of another animal species, doing things to provoke and cause different reactions while giving commentary like it’s a nature documentary. So so strange.
I love this video ❤❤❤ Mom you're doing a wonderful job. You are right she needs to express different feelings. This helps out with communication. Im a Early childhood Teacher 16 years and counting. Love your style🥰🙏😍
Loyalty and longing, distance and vastness, relaxation and wisdom are associations associated with the color blue. Children are very spiritual at this age, I wouldn't worry...she loves this color because it's good for her
Where are the Blue Blocks - Croatia Children's favorite aspect of using the Blue Blocks is probably their versatility - the Blocks engage imaginative thinking and creativity. They don't bond ...
Veya wants hard work ,ASD is something that wants time for everything ,they didnt are social with others ,walk all the time and cry because is the way to talk...😢😢
You really think you were helping her “focus” or “pay attention” by making her upset and making her think of nothing but wanting the blue block? Before it was just idly in her hand, YOU made it an intense preoccupation.
Your child is not going to learn her colors under duress like this. Poking at her to get a rise out of her to force communication is just not good. If the blue block thing had turned into some sort of worrying security blanket that she had to have with her at all times that’s one thing, but let the girl play, damn. You’re going to find a lot of behaviors in her that seem abnormal to you- some harmless and some genuinely worrying- it’s just the nature of autism; and you’re going to make it harder on her AND you if you feel the need to push back on all the harmless ones. There are better ways of pushing for communication than making her cry and then yelling colors at her. Poor thing.
Autistic people will be loyal to a favourite colour forever - pls stop removing the blue, she still building - I don’t get your theory. I’m autistic btw
You also fully missed her saying an approximation of “three” twice! The second time, she imitated the vowel sounds of both two and three back to back! No she doesn’t have the full word yet but that kind of focus and effort should have been rewarded with praise. Instead, after the second time, you took her blue block away (again!) to “try to get her to pay attention”. You had her attention! She’s trying so hard, this is so hard to watch. It’s like this is more about you and what YOU want her to be than it is about helping her. Please please educate yourself on the autism spectrum and developmental delay in children. For the sake of your sweet baby girl. She needs early intervention, and YOU need early intervention, so you know the right ways to approach and work with someone whose brain works like hers. I can see that you love her, please get her a diagnosis and an IEP and speech and other treatment as soon as you possibly can. The earlier the better. Parents need to be taught too, no one is expected to just know this stuff but please take advantage of the help and support available in your community. 💜
Why take the blocs from her she most loves? She was playing with other colours too! Not just with bleu blocs! Dont frustrate her, so she looses interest! You make her focus on the bleu blocs by taking them away! Why do you want to interfere, that is sooo narcistic! It is not about what you want but about what your daughter wants! It is so cruel to make her do what you want instead of what YOU want!!
You are cruel to make her cry by taking her favorite colour away. You make her fixate on bleu by taking it away from her! Your assumptions are wrong so your conclusions are too. By the way, she was saying bloc when you were not in the room! And why do you want her to play with bubbles when she is stil playing with the blocs? You are soo cruel by taking her bleu bloc away! She already said THREE when you blew the bubbles! Did you even hear her or are you too fixated on yourself?!
THE PROGRESS OF OUR DAUGHTER ..
Here watching
Shouldn't show her how to open window🤷🏾♀️!
Where’s babygirl guys
Special children are given to Special people. 💕 beautiful family. From a mum who also have 3 Autistic children 🙏 x
I have missed you guys. You are doing well ebony. Never give up.
I know sometimes it can be hard especially when your talking to her and dint get a response. I went through it with my grandson who is 6 years old now and it took a while cause of covid ti get him to the right doctor and see what spectrum he was on he is high functioning but you at one time would of not known he getting better with talking, listening and responding you are a great mother and from what i am Observing she is going to be fine like you said your on her time very true she will come around Did she get a full diagnosis yet ? GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY 🙏🙌🫶🫶🫶
She is a very smart and beautiful baby. I can see her mind working on building her tower. She will meet all her milestones on her own time. Blue is my favorite color also blue is calming.
I admire both you and your husband as such amazing parents. God bless your family ❤
OMG, so hard to believe she’s walking. I remember when you were shopping for decorations for her room before she was born. Time flies by so fast. ✌🏽♥️🙏🏽
Lowkey dissing smh
@@mobandz6637 What in the world are you talking about?
I noticed her sitting in a w. Then i noticed she gravitated to blue. I noticed she self soothed by rubbing her leg. Then the frustration because she couldnt say open. This definitly warrents testing for autisum. At birth my son had a ridge on his forehead. It turns out his skull was completly closed no soft spot. So his head grew the ridge grew bigger. He was learning ok but showing aggrivation issues and wasnt wanting affection of any kind. My Son matched colors everything had to be in 5 matching colors. He woulfnt plsy with other babies or children. He prefered to play alone. He banged his head in the floor and rocked himself. Around age 8 he started touching everything or banging on them. Then he would poke us in the arm and say does that hurt. He made every milestone with speech however so doctors denied autisum. By 3rd and 4th grade he was poking other kids in class couldnt sit still etc. By 5th grade he was drawing pictures of things that were disturbing like hurting himself. He was placed 2 times in the hospital. They diagnosed him with ADHD. By the 7th grade his behavior was so bad he was moved to special ed classes where he was the smartest in the room. He was placed on more medication. He exited that class in 8th grade and went back to regular classes. He always did his homework after that and seemed to be doing much better. He stayed on medication through school until graduation. By the time he was in 11th grade he was taking college classes. He graduated then went into the Airforce. He strughled without his ADHD medication. But ge served 6 years now hes working a good job and doing good. He does have depression and anxiety and OCD. As a baby his face or hands couldnt be dirty he would scream until u cleaned them. Now he has to wash his hands a lot. I guess thats a good thing. Hes 29 unmarried no kids but takes care of himself. My next child was born she wouldnt sleep. She hit all her milestones but i couldn't potty train her. We found her in the hallway each morning. She kept saying she couldnt sleep her imaginary friends were too loud. She was very loving and sweet and kind but her reading was way behind. Her spelling jumbled but they said no dyslexia. We had her tested no Autisum. She had behavior issues and regular accidents. By 12 years old she was cutting herself, angry and very aggresive we placed her in the hospital. She was diagnosed with ADD, depression, anxiety and Scizoefftive disorder. She now is 25 and fully disabled. She needs help with basic tasks and sees and hears this despite trestment. Shes prone to violent behavior and has attacked me. My youngest was very normal as a kid. Extreamly smart in the star program at school very loving and sweet. As she grew she was at the top of her class. But at age 15 things started to change. She tried to jump our of a moving school bus. We had to place her in the hospital. She started cutting and was having sex we found out at 12. We were shocked. Before long she was trying to kill herself monthly. Medication was started. She started jerking and becoming obsessive with things they had to be perfect. Yep she was diagnosed with depression, anxiety and OCD. Possible autisum althought high on the spectrum. She holds a job but struggles and at 23 cant drive due to anxiety she lives at home. I myself have Depression, anxiety and Bi Polor i struggled as a kid. I couldbt retain information i flunked in school. I had behavior issues. But nobody knew what to do. I exspressed my frustration with anger and lashing out. I could read well but my spelling was horrible. I graduated but strhggled through college. I now have severe anxiety and delression. Our genes are bad and now i have 3 kids with issues. They have all 3 decided not to have children. I suffer from 10 different auto immune disorders at age 52. The 1st one happened at age 24. I suffer greatly its very hard watching my kids suffer. Its obvious we have genetic issues in our family. Anyway i hope you fugure out whars going on. Autisum is where to start. I hope you get answers soon.
God is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask or think.
You and your husband is the most grounded family on u-tube I've watch several families with autistic children or children with disabilities.! But your family is sooooo very special.! I love the way that you're loving patient understanding.! Stay with God he is always sufficient.! I know that it's trying at times. I have a autistic child at home. He has come a long way.! And still learning.! I'm still earning his trust and love daily. The rewards is he knows that I love him.! Love is a action word.!
Maybe talk to her alone without the camera or live chat!
You are very good parents ❤️ ...God bless your family in abundance ❤
Her smile is beautiful
So cute
Let it figure it out herself! She is not into counting, she wants to play by herself first. If you want to play at her time like you say, then do so, even when it is difficult for you to be patient and not interfere.
Have you ever did a DNA history on you and your husband? I curious to know why all your kids have something wrong with them.
With respect I think that’s the most unhelpful, unkind, insensitive, rude, crass thing I’ve heard. Just stop a moment, read what you’ve written, and ask yourself how you would feel if someone said that about your children (if you have any). This woman and her husband are doing an amazing job. Every human is different, not something ‘wrong’ with them. Moma is doing her best. And a doing well. This is the beginning of a journey for them. I have every faith that this little girl will thrive, at her own pace, with the help, love and support of her great family.
When you said Through Him we will be equipped. My heart ❤️ ❤❤❤❤
Greetings from Germany…
Blue represents gentleness and is calm through distance. At the same time, blue also represents clear prudence, objectivity, neutrality and clarity - this instills trust and conveys a sense of security. Even if it can sometimes seem cold.
Love Vea ,she's so cute. Could we see more of Vea and your time with her. Love how you're always teaching and leaning her ❤❤❤
Can't believe how chunky Veah has gotten🥰 She's sitting with her legs in the "W" position. Common in austic children. Ever watched "The Gentle Life" videos? You didn't notice @27:36 she said "three".
Play time does count
@@cynthiahowerton6606 Huh?
Have you tried the magnetic blocks and different shapes ? My son has Down Syndrome and may be autistic too and he plays with them for hours !!!!
Have you guys evaluate her for autism? She is displaying many signs of autism
Doing a beautiful job❤
Beautiful family🎉
This is so strange. It’s as though you’re charting the behavior of another animal species, doing things to provoke and cause different reactions while giving commentary like it’s a nature documentary. So so strange.
Blues clues
Shes cute.
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She’s adorable!!
And amazing with her blocks… workin hard❤ Great job mom🥰
She loves blue
She's a Cutie Pie
She already said open but you did not hear her.
I love this video ❤❤❤ Mom you're doing a wonderful job. You are right she needs to express different feelings. This helps out with communication. Im a Early childhood Teacher 16 years and counting. Love your style🥰🙏😍
Loyalty and longing, distance and vastness, relaxation and wisdom are associations associated with the color blue.
Children are very spiritual at this age, I wouldn't worry...she loves this color because it's good for her
Where are the Blue Blocks - Croatia
Children's favorite aspect of using the Blue Blocks is probably their versatility - the Blocks engage imaginative thinking and creativity. They don't bond ...
Hi Lady Baxters....beautiful family. 💜👣
That’s probably her favorite color my living room is a blue teal
Hi ladybug, you are too cute. Enjoy your play time with your mom. ❤❤❤
Veya wants hard work ,ASD is something that wants time for everything ,they didnt are social with others ,walk all the time and cry because is the way to talk...😢😢
That’s my favorite color blue
Oh she got so big. I haven't see you guys for the longest. How are you guys doing ?
GREAT WE BEEN HERE
Maybe blue is her favorite color. My favorite color is blue. My youngest son favorite color is blue too
Have you watched Gracie corner good educational channel
I love her sweet face ❤ you're a good Mama Bear ❤
There she is
Aww Suga Plum💗
Instead of taking all the blue blocks make a game outta blue blocks. Making her cry just because she dont want the others...
You really think you were helping her “focus” or “pay attention” by making her upset and making her think of nothing but wanting the blue block? Before it was just idly in her hand, YOU made it an intense preoccupation.
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Your child is not going to learn her colors under duress like this. Poking at her to get a rise out of her to force communication is just not good. If the blue block thing had turned into some sort of worrying security blanket that she had to have with her at all times that’s one thing, but let the girl play, damn. You’re going to find a lot of behaviors in her that seem abnormal to you- some harmless and some genuinely worrying- it’s just the nature of autism; and you’re going to make it harder on her AND you if you feel the need to push back on all the harmless ones. There are better ways of pushing for communication than making her cry and then yelling colors at her. Poor thing.
Autistic people will be loyal to a favourite colour forever - pls stop removing the blue, she still building - I don’t get your theory. I’m autistic btw
Ever tried lookin under her tongue?coz i noticed she hears every sound except dat she’s slow at speech.
You may be right. I was tongue tied when I was a toddler and was O.k. after my Mom took me to a doctor to get it clipped.
Blake is highly intelligent, speaks so well. God bless you all . Aww baby girl is adorable 🥰 and Byron ❤️
Your daughter is very intelligent when you work with her do you also use flash cards as well
You also fully missed her saying an approximation of “three” twice! The second time, she imitated the vowel sounds of both two and three back to back! No she doesn’t have the full word yet but that kind of focus and effort should have been rewarded with praise. Instead, after the second time, you took her blue block away (again!) to “try to get her to pay attention”. You had her attention! She’s trying so hard, this is so hard to watch. It’s like this is more about you and what YOU want her to be than it is about helping her. Please please educate yourself on the autism spectrum and developmental delay in children. For the sake of your sweet baby girl. She needs early intervention, and YOU need early intervention, so you know the right ways to approach and work with someone whose brain works like hers. I can see that you love her, please get her a diagnosis and an IEP and speech and other treatment as soon as you possibly can. The earlier the better. Parents need to be taught too, no one is expected to just know this stuff but please take advantage of the help and support available in your community. 💜
Why take the blocs from her she most loves? She was playing with other colours too! Not just with bleu blocs! Dont frustrate her, so she looses interest! You make her focus on the bleu blocs by taking them away! Why do you want to interfere, that is sooo narcistic! It is not about what you want but about what your daughter wants! It is so cruel to make her do what you want instead of what YOU want!!
You are cruel to make her cry by taking her favorite colour away. You make her fixate on bleu by taking it away from her! Your assumptions are wrong so your conclusions are too. By the way, she was saying bloc when you were not in the room! And why do you want her to play with bubbles when she is stil playing with the blocs? You are soo cruel by taking her bleu bloc away! She already said THREE when you blew the bubbles! Did you even hear her or are you too fixated on yourself?!
Let her have her blue please...... she is so happy with those bubbles
Reminds me of Dorothy Dandridge’s daughter Lynn
Baby’s cry cause they are frustrated sometimes that’s how they communicate! Geez what a question.