Dhar Mann Profits Off Of Disability
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- Опубліковано 21 сер 2022
- Now this is certified Dhar Mann classic! Let's hope this doesn't get demonetized.
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I love the Implication that disabled people are only worthy of respect if they've saved your or someone else's life. Like I guess I'm not worthy of respect because I've got a genetic condition and didn't push my sister out of traffic.
I have autism, severe depression, and anxiety and I'd be pissed at my sister if she treated me like this. I hate that the brother is so forgiving. like just because someone didn't do you a personal favor doesn't mean you get to not show them basic human decency and it's alright to be angry, even if they apologize.
Excellent point. Every person is deserving of respect. A person's actions determine whether I have more or less respect for them. The cause of someone's disability doesn't dictate how much respect I give them. Their being another human being dictates that they are worthy of respect.
I swear every single dharman video purposefully misses the mark. Every goddam one of them.
every dhar mann video is like that lmfao, it's so stupid. Even the ones without having to do with disability
My sister and I are both disabled, ig we have to keep trading who saves whom back and forth in an eternal loop
Imagine having a limping brother for your whole life and never asking why they limp so you just hate them
Seriously, there’s no way no one told her. That’s the type of story families tell every Christmas
😂
@@biggestastiest with a sibling or with peers? 😧
Making disabilities into a spectacle in which its meaning is to be "cured" or the source of inspiration is such a common thing. It's genuinely so horrible, as so many people have disabilities that can't be cured, and many of us don't want to be inspirational. It just creates more stereotypes and fetishization of disability and it makes our lives harder.
Especially when the inspiration centers around a disabled person perservering to act "normal" despite what they're going through.
100%
and then when the un-glamorized/-romanticized reality of our disabilities is put in front of them they call us fakers 🙄
@@sighcantthinkofaname which is genuinely so hurtful because it pushes disabled people to feel they aren't "normal" because they are unable to do everything some other people can, aka DISabled
Reminds me of a teacher if mine where she made us watch a romantic(?) movie where the love interest is a wheelchair user. It would've been great if the whole story wasn't centered around him suffering and hating his life for being disabled.
She wanted us to be more "sensitive" but asked us questions like "How would you feel if you passed a blind person on the street?"
She was already disgusting to me, but at that point I couldn't take it, as my mother is blind, and I know how shitty she feels when she is othered. Especially after some girl went into great detail on how she would pity the blind person, because "how can they even live like that?".
@@judit5173 I’ve been searching for disability awareness lessons for elementary and middle grades and all of them are so clearly predicated on the assumption that every kid in the room and their families and friends are able bodied and neurotypical. Literally recommendations for things like your teacher did, or bringing in a wheelchair and having students use it to see how hard it is to navigate. It’s so bad and so harmful, and I’m really sorry you had that experience at school.
glad people are really starting to talk about how vile dhar mann’s portrayal of disability is. also extremely glad disabled creators like yourself are talking about it specifically!
^^ this
im just really happy disabled creators are getting the recognition they deserve, because this is quality content!! (I'm also disabled, just happy seeing some representation out here)
Not just disability, a bunch of other serious topics like body positivity, sexism, racism etc are poorly handled and get off horrible messages
If you think Dhar Mann is bad wait until you see Sameer Bahvnani
me too, i once watched that autistic boy video with my friend and i literally had to close out it was so vile. they even pulled the "hes not disabled.....hes just differently abled
🤗" (as though being disabled is a dirty thing that makes you worthy of being bullied lol) and i was just like??? is anyone else fucking seeing this???
The fact that his sister only stopped being a god awful person to her brother because saved her life is disgusting on so many levels. Like, if it weren't for that fact, she would have continued being a completely ableist jerk to her brother. I know these types of god awful messages is par for the course with Dhar Mann, but this one takes the cake.
(girl actor's voice) my cake!
The shit cake*
honestly he shouldn't have saved her
@@AshaSara 👀👀 lmaoooo
The phrase "popping my dhar cherry!!" is absolutely gold
Omg this with no absolutely zero context is sending me 💀
Funny regardless
@@ellifsyaa LMAOOO
i also saw this with no context and my face caved in on itself
Literally lmao, this man's so underrated 😭
dhar mann's inspiration porn has always rubbed me the wrong way
Omg hi Annamarie luv ya
@AnnamarieForcino I love your content! 💕
I could’ve made a joke about that but I didn’t. Character growth 🙌✅
@@queenelizabethii4397 😭 also r.I.p (sorry if that’s offensive)
Gasp wild Forcino
Egg here. I'm a fellow disabled person and in high school, after all three of my surgeries, I did have to use crutches while walking on both legs in order to reduce the weight on my reconstructed ankle(s). Everyone in my school thought I was faking it and people would try to kick out my crutches, so it is definitely a thing, but the acting is very much not convincing and honestly offensive I do agree. Keep up the good work homie.
I'm sorry that happened to you also, literally kids (TEENS, they don't get a pass because they are kids) who kick people's crutches are the worst people, by definition. that's the primary reason I'm too nervous to start using crutches or a cane (for stability) because I know people will do that.
Life was hell for me as a teenager, as I was physically targeted too. I express my solidarity, and I hope those rotten smelly children who try to trip you get tripped themselves by none other than Mr. Mann himself.
But to be earnest I do hope they get their Karma and understand the impact of their actions and leave you the hell alone. Like the other person said, they don't get a pass for being minors.
Solidarity with you❤️
If you don’t mind me asking, are you femme presenting or a woman? People tend to treat women like we’re faking it and looking for attention
@@universal_stupidity I use a walker when I’m expected to be walking for a while and being only 24, people look at me like I’m crazy but yknow, it helps a lot, so Frank them! It’s also a lot harder to mess with because it’s a whole unit. (And it doubles as a portable seat which is very useful!)
it's always so strange to me how disabled people in media are generally represented in one way: the guy who gets injured and can't walk anymore. there are so many different disabilities...
1) It's highly visible and easily recognizable (the wheelchair is a symbol of disability). 2) It doesn't involve disfigurement or intellectual impairment, making the character seem more "palatable" to a wider audience.
@@screwyourhandle also the casting people don’t have to find a actually disabled actor to play the role, just put their non disabled actor in a wheelchair or give them another type of aid.
It's not just disability too, Darh Man handles poorly all kinds of messages like body positivity, racism, sexism, stalkers etc and a lot of his videos divided from harmless cute inspirational videos for kids to horrible messages for kids
Yeah alot of its hinged on karma which someone like me has given up on hoping on years ago 😂
Yes, it’s been quite awkward to see. He could hire better writers but the absurdity is part of his brand now. The problem is It really was pushed everywhere at one point.
i love it when disabled characters only exist to serve the able-bodied characters' development! i love it when we're used as feel-good fodder for able-bodied consumers! it makes me feel so validated as a blind person! thank you dhar mann 💖💖
im really sorry if this comes off as insensitive but how did you write this comment if you're blind? like im just genuinely curious cause that sounds pretty cool! so like is it a text to speech type thing or do you have a phone/keyboard with braille or is your blindness not like total cause i know theres a spectrum. im really sorry if this comes off as rude im just curious and wanna know :)
@@xthepotatowolfx2334 blindness is a spectrum, basically anything below 20/200 vision is considered legally blind, but to actually fit the definition, you must also not be able to achieve 20/200 vision even with prescription eyewear/contacts. 90% of legally blind ppl have remaining vision. i mainly use the built-in zoom features that most devices have now so i can zoom in & read, but i also use text to speech/speech to text a lot ☺️
@@xandermin i was wondering that too, that makes great sense ty for sharing
@@xandermin thanks for explaining, I used to confused at the term "legally blind", implying that there somehow exists an illegally blind /j
I guess if he was just born disabled, the sister would have a perfect right to hate him! But bc he did something for her, its not okay. Good message Dhar!
my favorite thing about dhar man videos is there is never any logic, like why did the dad come out of the car with the cake out of its box in the first place 😭😭 any sort of logic is thrown out of the window for plot convenience
Right like are they just gonna eat it with their hands while standing on the sidewalk?
@@sighcantthinkofaname delicious
everyday i cry and pray that my debilitating epilepsy and hearing loss somehow saves someone else's life so i can finally be worthy of respect and love
this broke me 😭😭😭😭
I'm sobbing at this 😭😭😭
Just a reminder not to make assumptions about someone's disability status based on the outward indicators (or lack thereof). I have nerve pain in both my feet that changes from day to day, so I often feel insecure about people thinking I'm faking my limp bc it's constantly changing.
A good reminder:) thank you
Yeah its really annoying. I'm 20 years old but I'm diabetic and it went undiagnosed for YEARS so I have severe nerve damage, liver damage and kidney damage. I have a disability placard and I literally had someone scream at me for faking my disability and stealing a disability placard when I parked in a handicap space. I'm always so scared of getting yelled at for faking because I don't "look" disabled enough. I get so many stares when I'm using my wheelchair and I stand up for a minute. I don't know why it's so hard for people to understand that disabilities come in all different forms and paralyzed people aren't the only ones who need a wheelchair.
You think people realize that? You think the ones that don't actually care??
In grade school, in our class was a boy who had fainting spells and strokes. Sometimes he was out of school for days. He was funny af so we all vibed with him. He wanted to participate in gym but couldn't always.
One day our gym teacher taught us penny football. One team has a penny and the other team tries to stop them from crossing the goal line with the penny. They don't know who has the penny. One round, our team gave him the penny. No one on the other team tried to tag him as he slowly made his way to the goal and we won. 🤣
That's the best story I've ever heard, respect to your classmates and you :D
Glad to know someone else is bringing awareness to BBLs. You know, Brothers with Broken Legs!
This comment got me 😂
my eighth grade year one of the kids in my class had fractured his ankle and one of the dodgeball games we played in PE this kid just hoped on one leg the entire time and literally won the entire game.
me irl
ok that’s actually so awesome though but seriously how did he manage to stay on one leg the whole time-
I remember when I was in school even crutches or casts wouldn't stop the "sporty" kids from playing lol. Have definitely seen a few crutches flying across the court with the dodgeballs.
Freshman year of college one of my roommates showed us a video of her breaking her wrist during a dance performance, and her hand just flopped around while she finished.
i love how the kids just BELT OUT the lines that are meant to be more of a whisper, like when her friend says "WHY WOULD YOU WANT THE G*** TO SIT WITH US"
jake- as much as i love you, please never let the phrase “popping my dhar cherry” leave your mouth again. i expect an apology with tears.
/s
Weelllll, since his dhar cherry has been popped, he probably won't need to, y'know 😜
I feel like these are the kinds of Dhar Mann videos Jarvis avoids watching on stream and Jake is the agent of chaos willing to watch them.
I think Jarvis onces said he wasn't gonna watch a video titled "Kid with autism gets bullied" or whatever, I guess bc he shouldn't be the judge of that topic wich is based
@@roxirock5455 But I thought Jarvis has ADHD himself? I get why he doesn’t want to watch those videos regardless. They’re in poor taste, to say the least.
@@roxirock5455 it wasn’t because Jarvis thought he shouldn’t be the judge it’s because he believes, rightfully so, that Dhar Mann wouldn’t portray a story with disabled characters tastefully which is exactly what Jake’s video shows. Dhar Mann’s videos are very much a means to manufacture cheap quick inspiration for the people watching and with how much that already happens to most disabled people in the media it’s less fun and probably less comfortable to do a Dhar Mann Bingo stream on a Dhar Mann video that uses disabled people as quick and easy inspiration p*rn meant to make able bodied people feel like saints for daring to talk to/befriend the disabled person and most of the time it’s not even that, most of the time it’s just “woAh I treated the disabled person like a NORMAL person!! Aren’t I soooo generous and caring for treating the Disabled Person like a NORMAL person??” Which is honestly pretty sickening to profit off of and even more tiring to deal with in day to day life, I’m sick of people infantilizing me to make them feel good about themselves, it makes me think that they see me as revolting because I’m disabled but will hangout with me or help me if it makes them look good. Sorry for the ramble, I lost track of my thoughts. Sincerely, A Disabled Person
@@jademack458 i know he said that in regards to a video about autism, so the person might be misremembering or maybe he’s said it about both.
@@sleepyqueer Yes, I definitely remember him saying that about the autism videos so could be the case.
I really think Jake would enjoy Dhar Mann bingo with Jarvis Johnson
“You shouldn’t be mean to your brother because he saved your life” that’s such a bad lesson
Dhar Mann honestly is the “insert quick karma ending here” anyways great vid so far lol…
I read the title as "profits off MY disability" and thought this would be about Dhar Man stealing Jake's life story for a moment
Yes, Dhar, because only people who became disabled saving someone deserve empathy
Dhar Mann is not done making disabled videos. I was on a casting website and found an audition for a video called “Soccer Player Shames Amputee. Guess by who.
This is the casting description. “12 to 18 years old, male or female. Athletic. Has a prosthetic leg. To accurately and respectfully portray this community, we are seeking actors with a limb difference. Alex is hard working, self sufficient and determined to follow his/her dream of professionally playing soccer. After excelling at soccer tryouts, Alex's father is told that Alex can't be on the team due to their crutches being a safety hazard on the field. With perseverance and support from friends and family, Alex is able to follow their passion. LEAD.”
It’s a good thing at least a disabled person will be cast, but I’m worried how Dhar Mann will handle it. Also congrats, if you read my comment you just got spoiled for a Dhar Mann video!
i have invisible disabilities and am a service dog handler… means so much to see another person talking about the damage that disabled inspo p0rn does. especially coming from another disabled person
jake whoahing over a kid about to be hit by a car made me laugh way harder than it should’ve lol
If the injury were in the spine this whole story would be way more believable... but a broken tibia and fibula would definitely heal. It would take a while (and probably require surgery) but it would heal. He'd be fine.
it might not heal correctly but its DEFINITELY too early to tell when he JUST got out of the hospital
@@g4yb0ybl1tz7
Bones heal phenomenally well.
Even if it didn't heal correctly, he'd likely have a limp, probably caused by legs that aren't quite the same length. The premise of the video is that this incident happened many years before, so by this time it would have healed. The actual time needed for the bones to heal would be a while.
He'd likely need surgery, possibly multiple, and he'd need a cast for a while, and weeks (if not months) of physical therapy, but he would heal. Even if he didn't have adequate care (possible surgery, proper cast, rest, etc), the bones would heal, they would likely heal incorrectly and the leg would be very prone to injury later, but he'd still be able to use his leg (this or a bad surgery would cause limping later in life maybe).
_No doctor would look at that x-ray alone and say it's hopeless._
A spine injury that affects the lower portions of the spinal cord (or possibly a brain injury in the frontal cortex or cerebellum) would account for his symptoms much more adequately.
@@TheLydiaReed yeah exactly, sorry if i sounded argumentative i was just trying to add how it’s crazy that they thought looking at one xray right after the injury would equal his leg was fucked up forever
@@g4yb0ybl1tz7 oh ok no worries I misunderstood
“What’s gimp?”
My mind: gay + limp
Definition: nothing to do with it
My mind: eh worth a try
one of my teachers called me a gimp and my ex got mad, not because i was called a literal slur, but because apparently it also means "prostitute" and that was somehow worse 😭😭😭
I was thinking gay simp, but this is better
I thought gimp suit first.
I have scoliosis and I can relate to your humor in this video a lot. This is a great example of disability humor done correctly! Thanks for this Jake! 💕
dhar mann is my thirteenth reason
Mine too
Screw cutting for Justin Bieber, I cut for Dhar Mann
All 13 of mine
While I am mentally disabled rather than physically, Dhar Mann’s portrayal of not only physical but mental disabilities is appalling. If only he’d talk to an actually disabled person, this is like the Sia situation all over again.
“I just want this planet to be pure!!!
No disabilities here!!!!!1!
…it’s my birthday.”
Jake, you are a card
Small child: **about to get flattened by a jeep**
Jake, watching from the curb: dude just hit the sickest woah
Super glad you're able to bring your perspective on disabilities to these videos, it's good to hear it from someone who's actually impacted by ableism in our society.
AH YES
BECAUSE DISABLED PEOPLE ONLY DESERVE RESPECT IF THEY GOT THEIR DISABILITY BY SAVING SOMEONE ELSE
OF COURSE
I ALMOST FORGOT FOR A SECOND
Also, just so we're all clear, none of the child actors involved in this video deserve hate. The younger ones are too young to know better, and the older ones have all been involved with DM for a long time, they don't realize how fucked up this shit is. Their parents, DM, the adult actors, and the whole production crew deserve all of the hate.
fax, no printr
I hate when disabled people are treated as inspirations because all it does is inspire abled people to say "if they can do that, so can you." I'm literally DISabled, my body has limitations other people don't have to suffer, and there is absolutely nothing beneficial about trying to adapt to abled people's standards. It sucks how normalised ableism is, how badly people want us to be "cured", how obviously there's something missing from our lives just because we don't live like they do. We're not inherently broken or wrong because we're different and we're not just here to be inspiration porn.
13:57 is basically just "he walked so you can run" i can't get over it
whemever i hear anyone say "so you see..." in anything ever, I can't help but think of dhar mann, and frankly I hear it more than I thought I would
Dhar Mann circumcised me without my consent. He did a really, really great job tho, like unbelievably clean. Still don't know where he got all that surgical equipment
the whole “woah” segment had me in absolute tears, thanks for bringing joy to my monday❤️
These kinds of videos are never actually FOR the group they're about, they're to make other people feel good about themselves because they would never be so cartoonishly mean. All Dhar Mann's videos promote the idea of this weird inhuman world where there is only black and white, issues only matter if you have direct experience with it, and everyone gets their karma.
I was born with a genetic condition (hypermobile EDS) and I live in pain and feel like absolute shit every day. It's like always having the flu constantly mixed with arthritis and extreme pain. My ability to "function" changes on a daily basis and I would never forgive my sibling if they treated me like that. This shit makes my blood boil to see as representation for disabled people. I always love your videos though, Jake, your humor in these situations is always uplifting! 💜
Hey fellow zebra, I'm totally with you there. We really do need better representation! Stay strong friend 🤝
Really deeply enjoy the fact that a disability is a reason to disrespect and bully you unless you got it doing some heroic act.
The “Woah” joke took me out… I almost spit out my food, I wasn’t ready! 😂
Her dad is talking so slowly because he's making the story up as he goes along to ensure his daughter feels a lingering sense of guilt for the rest of her life /headcanon
i like to think this is the case for every Dhar Mann video
drop your dhar mann headcannons everyone
Genuinely, thank you for this. I feel like disabled folx getting to laugh at horrendous inpo p0rn together is incredibly cathartic, speaking for myself and not the entire community of course ❤️
As a poor child vaccinated with the autism and at times debilitatingly inspiring mental illness, I agree.
"folx" 🤡
The dad should of left her and said “walk home, you have two good legs”
I'm really glad to see more people get serious about pointing out the actual toxicity and harm in Dhar Mann's videos. Dude barely tries at all, and everyone except people who are actually impacted by the subjects he butchers seems to just brush it off as "light cringe with good-intentions." (And sometimes even people who *are* impacted! Somehow!)
I think one of the grossest things to me is that, like, every character who's victimized in Dhar Mann videos seems to be a meek, soft-spoken, absolute saint of a human being to the point of self-detriment. I feel like it perpetuates this Perfect Victim idea- the concept that someone who's being mistreated, oppressed, bullied, abused, etc. has to be some morally pure do-no-wrong show-no-anger entity to be worthy of compassion and sympathy. It's disgusting, and not usually realistic. Sure, some people have a "fawn" response as a defense mechanism but that's clearly not what Dhar Mann is portraying, this dude doesn't care nearly enough about any sort of nuance.
Obviously it's even worse here because of the really nonsensical "he actually saved ur life but u knew nothing about that" thing
"a limp? I would K1LL to have that be my disability" yea same my dude 😭
Random story- in hs marching band we marched in the tournament of roses alongside a blind marching band. When we met them, our band director was like, "aren't these California mountains beautiful?" before remembering half the band was blind (they had guides) and we all just laughed lol
as a disabled person i especially appreciate this video ^^ most people feel too awkward to really talk about why those videos r wrong , but here you are doing it! thank you!^^
Yeah, gimp was a term of endearment between me and my friends whenever we got injured, and I assumed no one said it anymore... much less as a real insult.
thanks for making this! I've wanted to make a vid for awhile about how Dhar treats autistic characters and this is helping me actualize it
Oo I would definitely watch it!
@@stinkygoose666 thank you, this helps too 😃
now how did all these other ppl involved not say anything abt how wrong this is? this obviously isn’t a small team so someone had to have known this wasn’t okay
Unfortunately even if someone knew better, if the boss doesn't care or doesn't listen then nothing's going to happen. Someone else said in the comments that Dhar Mann doesn't make these for the discriminated group in question, he makes it for everyone else so they get to feel good that they're not so cartoonishly evil. I feel that kinda sums up his approach to these things perfectly
Refreshing to have someone so knowledgeable in the disabled experience in the commentary community!!
The way jake cheered when the brother was picked last 🤣🤣🤣😭😭
i love how dhar mann writes bullies like someone who has never been bullied before and just has seen stereotypical school bullies on tv
got an ad for arthritis meds during the video so you know it’s legit disability content 👌
I Was constantly breaking my ankles when I was 8-11 and I always used two crutches bc I couldn't figure out how to use just one. It being uneven made my whole body cringe
Dharmann really put his whole dharussy into this video
💀💀💀💀
god i really cant put into words how fucking refreshing it is to see someone being so open and jokey with their disability and how its perceived/treated by the general public,especially on youtube.i've always been the only disabled person in my life so its not something i'm used to from other people.the unexpected solidarity i felt from seeing someone being able to just casually exist as a disabled person while having a shitton of fun making light of it was genuinely such a joyful and cathartic feeling.thank you for making such a wonderful video
7:36
No one:
Jake: 🦉🦉🦉
I love how you just completely deny ANY legitimacy of the video (because there isn't any) by just making jokes and saying outrageous things at every turn. 11/10 commentary.
The writing for these videos feels like a middle school short story. I know there are bigger problems with these videos, but I can’t let the writing and plot go unnoticed.
i completely forgot he makes disabled videos because I mostly watch jarvis johnson cover them, and he doesn't want to watch them because he knows dhar mann wouldn't handle disabilities with the care and nuance they deserve, so congrats on taking one for the team!
helllll yeaah! you're videos are my absolute favorite!!! I also have a few illnesses and it feels like we are all chronically ill together😌
I'm an able-bodied person who just broke my toe, and this Dhar Mann boy is limping like I am 😭😭😭 Dhar Mann probably should have tried harder. (Not blaming the kid acting in low-budget youtube videos for getting bad direction.)
atleast they didn't make an actual disabled kid play this absolutely disrespectful role 😭😭 like they should not have to be subjected to that
his depictions of everything are just kinda bad. Jarvis made a video about how theyre kinda racist and just everything about them is not it really. it always tends to be like "dont judge a book by its cover" but the judging ends up concluding in "what if someones rich. gonna regret being mean to a rich person"
Honestly i think this is the dhar mann video that broke the camels back. Its not necessarily this specific plot, its just that im so sick of seeing unrealistically noble and humble hero characters. Basically every single dhar mann video is about an incredibly amazing and kind fantastic human being who is treated like crap by the worlds most evil villain, and then in the end the villain realizes that the hero was actually suffering so much or had a really sad backstory but they were still being a great person anyway. Its like, the hero is always a martyr? Oh my god i just realized that. The hero is always a martyr! And thats annoying to see because its not a noble way to be at all, it is essentially a “victim mindset” whether its intentional or not. Like what message is he trying to send? That its good to suffer for the good of everyone else even if its harming you? And again im not talking about this specific dhar mann video, but it still applies here because the hero in these stories always allows for everyone to treat them terribly, they never speak up or try to get help from anyone else, they just suffer until the end of the story when the villain has an uncharacteristic change of heart and realizes all the pain and suffering the hero has been silently dealing with. Its basically a martyrs fantasy, that in the end everyone will see the suffering they have endured because they are just such a pure and kind person. It makes me wonder if dhar mann has a martyr complex or if martyr characters are just easier to write
no fr because no one should have to deal with that kind of bs treatment, especially from their own sibling. being rightfully angry with someone doesn’t make them a bad person.
Hey Jake, I have had chronic pain for 3 years and unfortunately have yet to be diagnosed or given any real reason why I can hardly get through the day. I suspect fibromyalgia if you’re familiar, but since it’s such a hard thing to diagnose and does little to help with treatment to get a diagnosis, no doctor has been able to give me that clarity. i’ve been a stay at home mom because it’s so hard for me to go through schooling and/or work in a workplace. But unfortunately, my husband just lost his job and our future is unclear. I’m probably going to have to go back to work because I can’t prove my invisible illness is worthy of disability compensation. Is it possible I can qualify as a beneficiary from the never stop fund? It would be really helpful during this transitional period
Ten years ago a doctor told me I "likely" have fibromyalgia, since then I've seen multiple neurologists and nobody wants to actually diagnose it. I kinda gave up, but I could afford to do that bc I have other disabilities. Best of luck
If you haven't already, you should try to email him directly or DM him. Might be more effective in reaching him for something like this. Hope you can become a beneficiary!
This is the funniest video ive seen in so long it made me calm down from my breakdown thank you jake
Who the fuck carries around a cake without a lid
The doctor cae in and told us the bad news. Because I lifted him so carelessly after the accident, the damage to his spine was irreparable.
Wow Im so relieved he was noble and saintly, how else are we supposed to be nice to a disabled person??
I remember when I was in a wheelchair for a bit (broke my femur) my brother and his friend did try to include me in most activities, my favorite was when they were like yoooo let’s see if you can go down the stairs (we were like on the 3rd floor) and I was like yasssssss… luckily someone stopped us. Would’ve loved if Dharman went that route, would’ve been epic.
Jake I have severe fibromyalgia and I just want to say how much u talking about ur disability and the level of pain u feel makes me feel very seen and not quite so alone. I really appreciate it
Bro what if he was disabled NOT because of her, like would she not care then?😭😭 Maybe he was born with it or had polio as a kid or something "not my problem, he's a fucking loser". Just seeing someone disabled isn't enough reason to feel bad about what they have to go through? Or is it our twisted sense of "everything is deserved" as we try to justify that someone suffering and literally having way worse experience than anyone else, is most definitely their fault, because why else would they be punished so bad, they must've done something to deserve it.
When the badly written, acted & directed supposedly, climatic scene starts but Jack said "Oh my God did he just hit the biggest woah I've ever seen"? Hilarious!
One of my favourite things in life is when Jacob reacts like "YEAAAHH!!" to something like two children reacting to Dhar Mann, I had to replay that a few times it made me laugh so much! and The Whoa! Fuck I love your comedic style!
I’m so glad someone is finally talking about the damage he’s causing by making these “disability” videos versus just him being “cringey”
I broke both my legs late last year, and I had to have surgery on one, and the other healed on its own. I was able to walk just fine at the beginning of this summer, which was around seven months after the accident. So yes, bones heal. And in complicated cases like with mine, they fix it with surgery. In addition, injuries like that in children, are much easier to fix than in adults, because their bones have still not fully formed and heal more easily. In my case, they had to put in metal plates and screws that will stay in there for the rest of my life because of my age.
So in what world does a kid who broke his leg have to walk on crutches *years* after the fact?? Crutches are not a permanent solution, what? 🤦♀️ Dhar Mann is clearly woefully misinformed on the subject of disability. These videos aren't helping anyone.
this is the first video i've seen from you! i love your energy, it's so refreshing to see minorities critique what's wrong with dhar mann videos. love your stuff man, a subscribe and a like from me :)
Can you make more videos on things on the internet dealing with disabilities from the perspective of your experience with Disability? (maybe collab with another disabled UA-camr or disability advocate/professional? maybe reach out to your community to submit to you helpful links/research within the subject matter, legislation happening or existing or being proposed or being removed within their local communities, nonprofits they do or don't trust and why, their own experiences, media they've found about it or relating to it, etc)
not all videos or most videos
but
ya know
some
it would be really helpful for the folks watching, both disabled and able folks, but most importantly
it would be helpful for me
and I dunno,
i like when things help me,
but I may be biased
I second this comment!! Finding more disabled creators is great
THIS
Even though you paused the video a lot I still loved your commentary. Some people just pause way too much and their commentary ain’t worth it
god, that dhar mann vid hurt me so much. I have chronic pain and got a cane in 7th grade and people called me "grandma" and "oldy" and it hurt me. I feel like the dhar mann video they were trying to put a message across, but they didn't hit the mark. I also feel like they could have talked with someone actually disabled to understand their life expericence, or even better, use a disabled actor.
Dhar Mann is beyond cringe
I had a friend who used to love watching Dharman because he ‘taught people to be good and reminded him that the world isn’t a bad place’.
It later turned out he was grooming a 13 year old kid and would say milked my disability so people would have to do things for me. He would also threaten to kill himself whenever he got caught in a lie.
I don’t hate Dharman just because of this one person, but it adds to the list of reasons. Actually, a lot of my ‘friends’ used my disability to insult me, like that I’m a crippled bitch and how I play a victim when I don’t even talk about it.
Yeah, the existence of Dharman sure makes people be better… or I suck at choosing friends.
this is a great video. i would just like to point out to people who might read this comment that a broken bone can turn into a longterm disability.
i had broken my leg skateboarding in summer 2020, i was super healthy, my only signs of chronic illness were chronic fatigue and migraines. the 2 bones in my calf broke in kind of a spiral pattern and the surgeon told me that it would already be a really hard break to heal. after my surgery, he was completely negligent with follow ups. he stopped scheduling me appointments when i got my cast off and he refused to refer me to physiotherapy or any other doctors. my scar has also split open twice and when i was at the hospital last year getting an x-ray for a possibly broken foot, one of the nurses commented on my leg surgery not being good. where i live there is a massive healthcare crisis where we don't have enough doctors, so i haven't been able to get into any doctors since.
i'm still a parttime crutch user, and the only reason i'm not full time is because i've developed chronic pain all over my body, but especially in my wrists and shoulders, so sometimes it's less painful to use my leg unassisted than to put any weight on my arms. i suspect fibro because my mom has been diagnosed with it and she says it lines up (but because of the healthcare crisis i can't know for sure). fibromyalgia can be triggered to onset by injury as well.
not making this comment to bash on jake in any way! i love these videos. i would just like people to be aware that if someone broke a bone and is still claiming to be disabled years later, or is still using mobility aids years later, please don't assume they're lying. being newly disabled is already a lot to cope with, please don't add to peoples pain by outcasting them socially as well.
Also the sister actress clicking her tongue between every phrase I have to wonder if she was prompted too and was told it made her sound like more of a proper mean girl lol
Also hello to Hannah can’t forget the queen herself
"I want this planet to be pure!! No disabilities here!! ITS MY BIRTHDAY!!" HAD ME DYING
as someone who has had several surgeries and multiple disabilities impairing my day to day life and movement, Jake's commentary was hilarious.
i after one of my surgeries i had to be in a wheelchair (this was like elementary school) and i can 100% relate to the stares/being picked last but Jake made me a bit less hateful towards my struggle/experience.
i laughed lots, thanks so much jake
(some people were actually considerate, they were just surprised that i had come to school "randomly" with a wheelchair for a while since i looked so "normal" or "healthy". the kids signed my casts and we're generally okay (mostly)
11:45 I am SCREAMING with laughter omg
I've always maintained that Dhar Mann isn't as harmless as people claim, but whoa this is a whole new level of messed up
I just ordered some merch and can’t wait for it to come! They designs are so cute and I love that I can support you!
ur hilarious. thank u for making us laugh while also standing up for what’s right. much love jake ! keep doin U brother