He literally missed one payment in 3 years due to an injury & she calls him a dead beat & the mother is just triflen cussing in front of that baby in a court house on national television the apple doesn’t fall far from tree y’all brothers better start wrapping your meat up seriously
The grandmother cussing in front of the child and the child don’t even know him or want him, it’s clear to me what’s going on. Glad JM called her out on her BS about child support
Did you calculate? He pays $44 a week in child support lmao Thats why she was asking for help with daycare. He refused.. the judge says blame child support court. Smh
@@YoungHaveNot not his problem. That's why he pay child support. Let that man see his kids. The judge told him to pay $44 and he payed it. Anything else she wants not his problem. Let him see his kid and he might pay more.
And the mother wouldn’t even acknowledge her daughter. This is learned behavior. Grandma did it to mommy, now mommy is passing it down to the poor little girl.
impossible. he is a grown man, he can go to court to sue for money but cant sue for joint custody? Yeah, ok. and what also kills me is, if an ex is soooo bad, why are you trusting them to raise your child alone? why wouldn't you fight for your child? and please hold the "some men don't know their rights because blablabla" HE KNOWS. just like he knew he could go to court for this.
I had a mother-in-law like that and she did everything she could to destroy my marriage and successfully did it.. all this shit she was putting me through I'm surprised I'm not locked up for murder.
That last part tells you exactly what that man has been going through. The fact that she was vindictive enough to damage his car means she is vindictive enough to keep his daughter from him. Like mother like daughter, however I due give the daughter credit for having more sense that her mom. The fact that the man didn't address the foul mouth mother says all we need to know about situation.
Yes a damn shame. I knew it especially with that mother. You can see the airs about her. I noticed that in the beginning. Unfortunately nothing will be enough for them. Until that young lady leaves. I hope they get back together or co parent well. The young lady needs to know she didn’t do anything wrong to cause autism. I hope she seeks support and community resources. It sounds like she’s not. If I’m not mistaken she can get one of her parents Social Security benefits. Check it out if one of them is reading.
Absolutely! The granny started with the name calling?? Why! Just Disrespectful. I’m happy JM saw right through her lies. Allow him to be a father to his beautiful daughter!!!!!
I agree. I believe him when he said she use to go on dates with them. I honestly believe she has a lot to do with the plaintiff and defendant not being together. She shouldn’t have even come; at least not in the courtroom.
@@piinkam0r The grandmother is despicable. The mother is immature. However, I don't see her as an unfit mother. What basis would a judge have to give him sole custody? You sound like the the grandmother with that backhanded comment. EDIT: What purpose do you trolls serve? What is the purpose of your life?
I believe JM told staff to let the baby walk out so that the father could at least lay eyes on his beautiful daughter. JM knew that if he didn't see his daughter there he probably never would waiting on those 2 bitter women 🙄. Good call 👏
The sweet old lady rouse went right out the window.. didn't even care the baby was right there... smh... the most disgusting thing you can do is to intentionally hurt your child because of your own selfish reasons... these women need to grow up and deal with the consequences of their actions and co parent cus its better for that little girl
That ending though smh. I loved how his world stopped soon as he saw his daughter. But if her Mom talks like that to him in front of the child, I can only imagine how she talks to him. I hate bringing the court into the picture when you should be able to figure it out without them but for situations like this it’s needed. He needs to fight for joint custody of her so he can get to know his child and she won’t be able to keep him from her
A scorned mother can use the kids as a weapon to hurt the man or force him to be more than co-parents, but it's still the man's duty to sue her ass and get equal parenting rights. It's too weak and easy to say that she's keeping you away, you're paying child support and it's your kid so you should fight for your rights.
The Courts align themselves with these dirty brawds so you villainize fathers for not stopping everything to fight a battle he shouldn't have to fight, spend more money, get behind on his support, get behind on his personal growth, get over his depression and fight a fight he shouldn't have to fight.. Your view is ridiculous.
Right, he’s not active in taking care of her is the problem. I couldn’t imagine dealing with a child daily without the father’s support (physical). Money is important but not enough.
That was so sad. You could see how much he loves his baby. I hope the woman and her mother stop the madness and help foster a relationship between the child and her father. Girls need their dad.
More like he won’t step up and wants to play daddy when he wants and the excuse “ she won’t let me” take your ass to court it’s free men do it all the time
The defendant vandalized the plantiffs vehicle of which is no excuse. Tired of these women believing they can do whatever they want without any repercussions.
My ex did this and more to me and I was blamed for “ not supporting him” while I was pregnant. I worked and was tired but yet me not giving him my money so he does whatever and me not staying up so he can “ talk” I had to start back over
I remember hearing about an auditor that was at a child support office and found hundreds of unopened envelopes. Nobody that worked there seemed to know who's responsibility it was to open those envelopes. The auditor started opening the envelopes and they were ALL child support payments. That sorry staff had not been sending the payments. I can only imagine all the arguments back and forth between fathers who were saying they paid and mothers saying they're lying about paying. That auditor caused a chain reaction, and it came out that there were several more child support offices with the same issue. Those lazy good for nothing workers have damaged alota co-parenting relationships. SMH
The defendant and her mother are giving the impression they are perfect and better than him. The plantiff may not be perfect but it looks like he is making some effort. The plantiff didn't lie when he said her mother is always there when he was dating the defendant in the past.
@@listen-learn-speak2465 She absolutely did. Having the nerve to stand up when Judge Mathis asked her to speak, announcing her full name like she was at a church alter.
He can go to court and get official visitation he pays child support on time he has a good job if he can proof he can physically take care of her why isn’t he going to court for that but yet he went for a car 😒
Right. That's what makes me wonder whether there was some truth to the mother saying he doesn't visit her because if she was keeping the child away. He should go to the court for visitation.
The tag mother and daughter team that is destroying a relationship between the child and her father. I'm sure the little girl hear all the negative 🙄 things said about her father. She didn't even want to go to him and the grandmother with her filthy mouth right in front of her granddaughter .She is disrespectful and out of order.
I bet dollars to doughnuts that if Grandma wasn’t so involved, the plaintiff and the defendant would probably be together or at the very least, be coparenting in peace. People who don’t let their adult children be ADULTS, are weirdos.
How do u know hes a stand up father? People are so gullible He missed his daughters birthday because he couldnt take off work even with MONTHS in advance he knew about it
@@nowyukno7981 bitter at its finest. So many women dealing with actual dead beats who don't want to be in their kids life. Sad part is she's mostly hurting the child
Ladies - this is why women need to stop having babies with men they don’t know. Now you trapped for life with this dude! He left you at the hospital with yo baby; scampered back home to California and now has the judge cursing you out. Now you mad mad.
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These women need to be thrown in jail for denying the fathers to see their child. Message to the fellas: Please be careful who you lay up with and get pregnant, or else you will have to deal with nightmares like this case.
Everyone’s bashing him saying he moved away. It’s more so HE MOVED BACK home. People go to college away from home then when they graduate they usually go back home.
Pointing out one thing I heard and it shouldn’t have been looked over or excused. She asked him in February to go to their daughter’s birthday party in July..he really couldn’t make that?
Defendant laughed about homie not having a car like he was a bum or something, and then admitted to being the one who damaged it 🤦🏾♂️.. then had the nerve to say it was trash like that makes it better lol
I’m sorry but just paying child support is not the same as raising a child. The child’s reaction at the end is not a normal reaction to a dad who is active in his child’s life. If you want to see your child you go to court and make sure you create that bond. Over these excuses he is making 😏
He did say he was being prevented from seeing the child. As JM said, their credibility is weak. He pays child support , and never defaulted until he got injured. He's soft spoken and even admitted still being in love with the lady. Her mom's reaction at the end is a clear indication of what he must have endured at other times. Even in the face of antagonism, he remained decent. I don't know how anyone can see it different.
@@radonspace2098 You can’t say in one breath she is preventing you from seeing your child and you proceed to do NOTHING in regards to legally having designated time to see your child. That makes zero sense!
My heart is breaking for this dad who is trying to do right and i hope when the daughter gets older she can see this and know how much her daddy loves her!!! Thanks Judge Mathis for your awesome judgment in this.
I haven't watched much of this case but let me just say this: A woman is not capable of keeping a father from his child unless they run away & are unable to locate. Men will make time to party, date, and etc but no time to simply google their parental rights & file the necessary paperwork to go to court. They'll have money to spend on clothes and shoes, parties, weed, and alcohol but no money on court fees (which can also be waived) He knows how to go to court to sue for money, but he cant sue for custody???? You'll do everything BUT fight for your child? Stop making excuses. Im so tired of seeing cases like this where men aren't fighting for their children. Or when children are taken into CPS custody and the father is too busy living his own life, that a grandmother or aunt has to get the child out the system. Its very hard to believe a woman is the reason you cant see your child. Especially when its apparent You can get her to court for anything else (money) clearly. Im convinced that men who act like victims in this situation but haven't put energy towards fighting for shared custody are guilty of one or two things: 1. not wanting to have to commit to child support (financial) 2. not wanting to have to commit to a set schedule, because they want their freedom & only want the child when they want. (irresponsible)
Thank you very much!! That's why mama had to step and be support, cause he obviously isn't present! These comments are wack are judge was wack for this one!
@@vasht7976 It makes zero sense, I know men who are actual felons and have went to court to fight for their children. I know men who arent felons, and fought for joint custody as well. Their baby mothers tried everything, and the men still won! I witnessed one of the men call the police when the mother didn't abide by the custody order. THOSE are fathers. not these dead beats who play the victim. People will coddle them and say oh dad's don't know they have rights..... HOW????? And then they say the courts favor mothers... a BIG LIE!!! courts will grant joint custody to men who abuse their wife/Childs mother and set up supervised visitation or come up with ways that both parents don't have to come into contact when exchanging the child........ The courts literally don't deny fathers rights unless they're neglectful or abusive towards the child. and in this specific case, I cant believe he knows how to go to court for money, but not his child. pathetic. There's no way Im letting someone take my child and not fighting for them.
Both are in the wrong. Her destroying his vehicle and him not being there. His daughter totally dismissed him. Thats bad. NO DISRESPECT....As for Moms, she needs to stay in her lane.
Every child support order should come with a visitation order it’s crazy how if he misses a payment or two then he is a deadbeat but a woman will never be held accountable for keeping a child away from a man cause it’s not court ordered !
I agree. & women act like being bitter doesn't hurt the child. If the man is trying allow him to be in the child's life. It seems a mother will always bear more sacrifice b/c the child is in the home that's the case in most cases that's a mothers reality can't place an amount on sick days, fussy nights, making sure they get to school, do their homework, keeping a roof over their head, keeping them in clean clothes it goes on & on.
@@GedColossalhause you can't compare those two things because the mother actually take time to file in court just like if the fathers can't see they child they should be a man & go to court and file for custody
Wow that last scene was heartbreaking. Ladies, despite your feelings about dad the baby needs and deserves to know him. Put your ego aside for the baby's sake.
I feel so much empathy for him. He is actually trying. BM tried to slander him and he brought proof that he was paying child support. He explained to her why he couldn't make the birthday party. He had to go take care of his grandmother and ailing mother. He was being pulled in all different directions, but yet he still put in effort. I believe him when he said he signed the birth certificate. "I treated you like a son, you %@@#**%@." That's how you treat your sons, ma'am? You talk like that in front of the baby??? Who raised you???
Girl get rid of that hurt! All it's going to do is make you bitter and unhappy! She looks like a good person! Don't let something in the past hurt your baby bond with her Dad.
Ugh that girl is the example of why i fear havin kids. U never know the type of nasty ways a woman can be . Men are nasty too but this particular case she really was makin him look bad. Nasty woman
This is absolutely insane. She is trifling and so isn't her mother. I feel bad for that baby girl. And 3 years old and not potty trained!? Damn shame. That man should have his babygirl
oh my gosh... I can't believe this made me cry! The Father and the Baby. She didn't know her dad. But his heart melted. oh my gosh... I hope he got to spend time with her after the show.
Would love to know what the grandmother's relationship status is... Bitterness is a generational curse, chiiiiiiile... Vandalizing his car was truly childish!
Its multiple generations of bitter single mothers. The grandmother taught the mother, now the mother is teaching the granddaughter. He needs to make it a point to stay as active in his daughter's life as he can.
13:56.........Smh.....Clearly, the defendant's mother is a major source of the devisiveness that's affecting the much needed responsible co-parenting between the couple. It should be solely about what's best for the child and not about being ugly and going tit for tat and trying to disrespectfully throw daggers at each other to cause hurt and stress. This entire case was so sad on so many levels and to see the young child caught in the negative and dysfunctional environment is heartbreaking. ⚖
This man says she kept him from his daughter 🙄. Take her to court if you want to see your daughter so badly. Just like you took her to court to get your money...You figured out how to get what REALLY matters to you.
This is so wrong😑😏 a mother and the grandmother shouldn't use foul language and make scene in front of the child period. He can go to court to fight for vistation for his child.
She is dead wrong if she's keeping that baby away from him. But instead of going to court over a car he needs to go to court over the visitation of his child.
@@sweetsweet81 the issue was she wasn't letting him see her. If that's the case he needs to go to court. He has rights as a father. Not having a car shouldn't be a reason he can't see her. There's public transportation.
Judge Mathis done told them to take that baby to her dad 😅. I ain’t never seen the child come from that way… Good for you Dad❤ at least you got to hold her for a second ❤
He seems like a good guy. She tried to make it seem like he abandoned his family. He had another daughter in Cali and a sick grandmother. She prevented him from seeing the baby. Everyone always says that "He should go to court if he wants custody". That very rarely works out in the favor of men UNLESS the mother is deemed unfit (addicted to alcohol/ drugs, physically abusive, mentally disturbed, medically infirmed) and unless he's some kind of millionaire, he doesn't have the money to keep going back and forth to court for a case that 9/10 will not produce the results he desires for primary or even partial custody.
So glad his initial request to see his daughter was granted after the case concluded ... I pray he is able to get some kind of visitation set up so the child can get to know him.
He is a narcissist. That comment he made at the end was ridiculous. How come JM didn’t bring up the fact that if she was keeping him from his daughter how come he hasn’t went to court to seek visitation? He hasn’t tried and just blames his daughter’s mom to make himself look better. Her mom was angry because she is helping her raise the child without his help. Got some nerve suing her when he’s not even in his daughter’s life. Taking from his daughter’s household smh.
The child's reaction said it all. The father is NOT in the child's life enough. Children don't hold grudges at that age and if she was used to seeing him, her reaction would have been different in a positive way. Sir, she reacted that way not because of mom but because of YOU!! Children will accept even a broke dad if she is bonded with him via time, visits, and phone conversations. You told on yourself, Dude.
Thank you exactly! These people are not paying attention when the baby came out she didn't even know that man! And that is not the mother or grandmother's fault!
Judge Mathis should have enough common logic to know that both parents are liable for daycare expenses; the court should not have to order that. The judge just picks and chooses who he wants to like and to defend.
You have no idea what you’re talking about. I know for a fact that daycare expenses has to be ordered just like child support. You can’t sue for either unless it has been ordered.
@@biggchill8176 I do know what I am talking about as I have a niece in that situation. However, since you know for a fact I will not argue the point. Besides, regardless, the judge still likes to pick and choose.
He literally missed one payment in 3 years due to an injury & she calls him a dead beat & the mother is just triflen cussing in front of that baby in a court house on national television the apple doesn’t fall far from tree y’all brothers better start wrapping your meat up seriously
She need to experience a real deadbeat
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If you miss a payment with your water company they turn it off right
@@piinkam0r ouch! Good one!
@@piinkam0r 😂😂😂😂
The grandmother cussing in front of the child and the child don’t even know him or want him, it’s clear to me what’s going on. Glad JM called her out on her BS about child support
Did you calculate? He pays $44 a week in child support lmao
Thats why she was asking for help with daycare. He refused.. the judge says blame child support court. Smh
@@YoungHaveNot too bad
Why hasn't he petitioned the court for visitation rights?
@@YoungHaveNot not his problem. That's why he pay child support. Let that man see his kids. The judge told him to pay $44 and he payed it. Anything else she wants not his problem. Let him see his kid and he might pay more.
@@YoungHaveNot I wonder why she had not gone back to court to adjust the amount?
OMG! The ending when he sees his daughter, you can tell by the way her mother is talking to him. She’s been keeping that man from his daughter. SAD!!
He moved to a different state, one over 1500 miles away he couldn't be in her life no matter what.
And the mother wouldn’t even acknowledge her daughter. This is learned behavior. Grandma did it to mommy, now mommy is passing it down to the poor little girl.
How? He had to work
impossible. he is a grown man, he can go to court to sue for money but cant sue for joint custody? Yeah, ok.
and what also kills me is, if an ex is soooo bad, why are you trusting them to raise your child alone? why wouldn't you fight for your child?
and please hold the "some men don't know their rights because blablabla" HE KNOWS. just like he knew he could go to court for this.
If he wanted to see his kid, we would! Period.
Her mother needs to get a life and mind her business. Look how nasty she was talking in front of the baby.
Right!!
Moms overly involved in their adult children’s life always lack their own life, boundaries and business.
I had a mother-in-law like that and she did everything she could to destroy my marriage and successfully did it.. all this shit she was putting me through I'm surprised I'm not locked up for murder.
@@eddieelliott1496 🤣🤣 I’m sorry I don’t meant to laugh, but yes, thank God you didn’t get locked up for murder! 🙌🏽
@@prettyparker calm me down sister I'm having flashbacks 🤬😡😤
The mom was so disrespectful. His daughter walked in and what was being discussed no longer mattered. I loved his reaction when seeing his baby girl 🥹
Yes the mom should mind the business that pays her😳
And she only begin cussin when he picked up his daughter if you pay attention
@@walkoffaith3770 see her mom is ruining her daughter's life while she goes home to her husband smh
@@bbryant1731 I know someone just like this too, mama telling her stuff but home with her man 🙄
That last part tells you exactly what that man has been going through. The fact that she was vindictive enough to damage his car means she is vindictive enough to keep his daughter from him. Like mother like daughter, however I due give the daughter credit for having more sense that her mom. The fact that the man didn't address the foul mouth mother says all we need to know about situation.
Facts
Say it louder for the vindictive ones in the BACK
Right. The way she insulted him with the name.calling in front of the baby shows her true character. Disgusting
Sergeant you're spot on!
Yes a damn shame. I knew it especially with that mother. You can see the airs about her. I noticed that in the beginning. Unfortunately nothing will be enough for them. Until that young lady leaves. I hope they get back together or co parent well. The young lady needs to know she didn’t do anything wrong to cause autism. I hope she seeks support and community resources. It sounds like she’s not. If I’m not mistaken she can get one of her parents Social Security benefits. Check it out if one of them is reading.
Look how the momma talk to him in front of his baby 🤮 that says alot!
Disgusting. But in front of judge Mathis she was acting holier than thou.
I would have chased her long time
@@TalkswithMellow he pays 44 bucks a week
Smh sorry to this man! He saw his daughter and his world stopped.
The fact the baby don’t know him is heartbreaking 🥺
He cant take off work, eventho he has 7 month notice lol
What is it. Mamma Daughter has replaced the Husband Wife.
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@@YoungHaveNot I can never understand why females always want the man to travel smh it goes both ways she could of come visit him smh
@@Orlandoloc83 what?!
That's exactly what those women want... So they can say your daddy don't love or want you it's so sad and miserable
When a mother can’t tell their child they are wrong and be all up in the messy mess is sad. JM knew he needed to see that baby.
Her mom needs to stay out of it and let them coparent you can tell he wants to be in the child’s life I hope they work it out
Absolutely! The granny started with the name calling?? Why! Just Disrespectful. I’m happy JM saw right through her lies. Allow him to be a father to his beautiful daughter!!!!!
I agree. I believe him when he said she use to go on dates with them. I honestly believe she has a lot to do with the plaintiff and defendant not being together. She shouldn’t have even come; at least not in the courtroom.
He should go for custody but he won’t . He’s fine just paying child support
@@piinkam0r The grandmother is despicable. The mother is immature. However, I don't see her as an unfit mother. What basis would a judge have to give him sole custody? You sound like the the grandmother with that backhanded comment. EDIT: What purpose do you trolls serve? What is the purpose of your life?
I believe JM told staff to let the baby walk out so that the father could at least lay eyes on his beautiful daughter. JM knew that if he didn't see his daughter there he probably never would waiting on those 2 bitter women 🙄. Good call 👏
He had a chance to see her but he had to work🤦🏾♂️
@@YoungHaveNot u have to do what u have to do sometimes..even if it hurts
@@YoungHaveNot Are you talking about the one time he missed the birthday party, or what?
His reaction when he saw his baby girl has me in tears. Then the grandma starts cursing?
That definitely made me believe his story even more.
The sweet old lady rouse went right out the window.. didn't even care the baby was right there... smh... the most disgusting thing you can do is to intentionally hurt your child because of your own selfish reasons... these women need to grow up and deal with the consequences of their actions and co parent cus its better for that little girl
I bet the mom did the same thing to her dad …
Disgusting grandma.
Amen!
The baby may be autistic but she most certainly can sense hostility animosity and vengeful bitterness!
I love when JM find the evidence give it time and drop the hammer and walk off smooth. We love ya Judge Mathis.
This is a prime example why parents should stay out of their children relationships.
That ending though smh. I loved how his world stopped soon as he saw his daughter. But if her Mom talks like that to him in front of the child, I can only imagine how she talks to him. I hate bringing the court into the picture when you should be able to figure it out without them but for situations like this it’s needed. He needs to fight for joint custody of her so he can get to know his child and she won’t be able to keep him from her
A scorned mother can use the kids as a weapon to hurt the man or force him to be more than co-parents, but it's still the man's duty to sue her ass and get equal parenting rights. It's too weak and easy to say that she's keeping you away, you're paying child support and it's your kid so you should fight for your rights.
The Courts align themselves with these dirty brawds so you villainize fathers for not stopping everything to fight a battle he shouldn't have to fight, spend more money, get behind on his support, get behind on his personal growth, get over his depression and fight a fight he shouldn't have to fight.. Your view is ridiculous.
Exactly ain't no keeping ur child away from a parent in the US just take yo A to court for visitation OMG...That's just a lame A excuse!!!!
Exactly
She said his name is not on the birth certificate but he pays child support. She’s lying
@@amaliomaryup the battle to be in your child’s life is worthless🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
He needs to go to court for visitation since child support is established
And his baby momma need to grow up. My dad was ordered child support didn't pay and my mom still let us spend time.
Right, he’s not active in taking care of her is the problem. I couldn’t imagine dealing with a child daily without the father’s support (physical). Money is important but not enough.
@@Gaia007 Unfortunately, they live across the country from one another. That was my understanding, I may be wrong.
@@sereneamani1713 you’re right but he made the decision to move knowing he has a child to take care of.
He needs to file for full custody.
That was so sad. You could see how much he loves his baby. I hope the woman and her mother stop the madness and help foster a relationship between the child and her father. Girls need their dad.
Yes we do
Scorned mother and grandmother. I think he could do a little more, but the women don’t seem too eager to assist in that.
Exactly
More like he won’t step up and wants to play daddy when he wants and the excuse “ she won’t let me” take your ass to court it’s free men do it all the time
I think with the baby be so young and they having so much distance between them (OH-CA) support and phone time is most important….
@@piinkam0r girl you in every comment sounding bitter. damn you must be the defendant
@@hevolocs nope I’d never do that. 😂 just call bs when I see it
Mom should be ashamed.. Smh
The defendant vandalized the plantiffs vehicle of which is no excuse. Tired of these women believing they can do whatever they want without any repercussions.
All too common with these modern women bro !! They need to grow up
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@@kingclarence1710 Yup
My ex did this and more to me and I was blamed for “ not supporting him” while I was pregnant. I worked and was tired but yet me not giving him my money so he does whatever and me not staying up so he can “ talk” I had to start back over
Now this I do agree with. Destruction of property solves nothing.
I remember hearing about an auditor that was at a child support office and found hundreds of unopened envelopes. Nobody that worked there seemed to know who's responsibility it was to open those envelopes.
The auditor started opening the envelopes and they were ALL child support payments. That sorry staff had not been sending the payments. I can only imagine all the arguments back and forth between fathers who were saying they paid and mothers saying they're lying about paying.
That auditor caused a chain reaction, and it came out that there were several more child support offices with the same issue. Those lazy good for nothing workers have damaged alota co-parenting relationships. SMH
Wooow
Most definitely he's goin through it with the mother an grandmother. Stay consistent, stay involved as much as u can brother, blessings up.
I feel sorry for that father and his daughter. We need to break THIS cycle : (
The defendant and her mother are giving the impression they are perfect and better than him. The plantiff may not be perfect but it looks like he is making some effort. The plantiff didn't lie when he said her mother is always there when he was dating the defendant in the past.
@ N B L I believe him, the mother showed her true self at the end 🤔
@@listen-learn-speak2465 She absolutely did. Having the nerve to stand up when Judge Mathis asked her to speak, announcing her full name like she was at a church alter.
@@nbl5516 not the church alter😭😭🤣🤣
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He needs to make the effort of going to court and establish visitation rights. This "the mother is keeping the child away from me" is old and played.
He can go to court and get official visitation he pays child support on time he has a good job if he can proof he can physically take care of her why isn’t he going to court for that but yet he went for a car 😒
Right. That's what makes me wonder whether there was some truth to the mother saying he doesn't visit her because if she was keeping the child away. He should go to the court for visitation.
The tag mother and daughter team that is destroying a relationship between the child and her father. I'm sure the little girl hear all the negative 🙄 things said about her father. She didn't even want to go to him and the grandmother with her filthy mouth right in front of her granddaughter .She is disrespectful and out of order.
I bet dollars to doughnuts that if Grandma wasn’t so involved, the plaintiff and the defendant would probably be together or at the very least, be coparenting in peace. People who don’t let their adult children be ADULTS, are weirdos.
Wow the mother and grandmother are a piece of work just as nasty as they want to be! He’s a stand up father and a good man stand strong king salute
I don't know if he's a good father. He hasn't had a chance to be one it seems.
How do u know hes a stand up father?
People are so gullible
He missed his daughters birthday because he couldnt take off work even with MONTHS in advance he knew about it
@@YoungHaveNot I know him personally fool he has more than one child pay attention
@@thatlsk y’all be so quick to reply pay attention to the case!! These cases are old and he is a stand up father anything else???
@@nowyukno7981 bitter at its finest. So many women dealing with actual dead beats who don't want to be in their kids life. Sad part is she's mostly hurting the child
The mother and daughter came in with a game plan....
She’s a reflection of her mother you can tell the mother don’t know how to keep a man and she’s making sure her daughter doesn’t alone and miserable
Ladies - this is why women need to stop having babies with men they don’t know. Now you trapped for life with this dude! He left you at the hospital with yo baby; scampered back home to California and now has the judge cursing you out. Now you mad mad.
53years of age and single....Peace ✌️ of Mind is Beautiful and Priceless ...No baby daddy issues....no ex husband issues...no ex boyfriend issues...don't want that on my mind...Peace and Blessings to all of the ladies and Gentlemen watching this episode 💯✌️☮️❤️
The mother need to let her daughter be a adult.
And the daughter needs to BE an adult, nobody has to LET her .
I feel for that man! Some of these GRANDPARENTS (mothers in particular) don’t know their place.
These women need to be thrown in jail for denying the fathers to see their child.
Message to the fellas: Please be careful who you lay up with and get pregnant, or else you will have to deal with nightmares like this case.
Facts. It just stupid to keep a child from there parents males or females period. It takes both.
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Everyone’s bashing him saying he moved away. It’s more so HE MOVED BACK home. People go to college away from home then when they graduate they usually go back home.
Furthermore it was to take care of his mom and be with his 7 yr old daughter. People love to bash black men it’s ok nowadays
Pointing out one thing I heard and it shouldn’t have been looked over or excused. She asked him in February to go to their daughter’s birthday party in July..he really couldn’t make that?
Right. He’s just a deadbeat with excuses..
He said he couldn't get off work. Some people have jobs to where they know they can't get the day off, no matter the reason.
EXACTLY!!!!
Defendant laughed about homie not having a car like he was a bum or something, and then admitted to being the one who damaged it 🤦🏾♂️.. then had the nerve to say it was trash like that makes it better lol
That pissed me off!
Yeah exactly. He didn't have a car because she damaged it, like wtf? Why is she pretending to be above it all.
And he was a college student at the time
I’m sorry but just paying child support is not the same as raising a child. The child’s reaction at the end is not a normal reaction to a dad who is active in his child’s life. If you want to see your child you go to court and make sure you create that bond. Over these excuses he is making 😏
The child has autism
You just said my mind. The child's reaction says everything
He did say he was being prevented from seeing the child. As JM said, their credibility is weak. He pays child support , and never defaulted until he got injured. He's soft spoken and even admitted still being in love with the lady. Her mom's reaction at the end is a clear indication of what he must have endured at other times. Even in the face of antagonism, he remained decent.
I don't know how anyone can see it different.
@@radonspace2098 You can’t say in one breath she is preventing you from seeing your child and you proceed to do NOTHING in regards to legally having designated time to see your child. That makes zero sense!
@@scottrogue946 agreed!!
My heart is breaking for this dad who is trying to do right and i hope when the daughter gets older she can see this and know how much her daddy loves her!!! Thanks Judge Mathis for your awesome judgment in this.
Y'all love to have children with people you barely know.
I haven't watched much of this case but let me just say this:
A woman is not capable of keeping a father from his child unless they run away & are unable to locate.
Men will make time to party, date, and etc but no time to simply google their parental rights & file the necessary paperwork to go to court.
They'll have money to spend on clothes and shoes, parties, weed, and alcohol but no money on court fees (which can also be waived)
He knows how to go to court to sue for money, but he cant sue for custody????
You'll do everything BUT fight for your child? Stop making excuses.
Im so tired of seeing cases like this where men aren't fighting for their children. Or when children are taken into CPS custody and the father is too busy living his own life, that a grandmother or aunt has to get the child out the system.
Its very hard to believe a woman is the reason you cant see your child.
Especially when its apparent You can get her to court for anything else (money) clearly.
Im convinced that men who act like victims in this situation but haven't put energy towards fighting for shared custody are guilty of one or two things:
1. not wanting to have to commit to child support (financial)
2. not wanting to have to commit to a set schedule, because they want their freedom & only want the child when they want. (irresponsible)
🗣🗣🗣🗣 say that
Thank you very much!! That's why mama had to step and be support, cause he obviously isn't present! These comments are wack are judge was wack for this one!
@@vasht7976 It makes zero sense, I know men who are actual felons and have went to court to fight for their children. I know men who arent felons, and fought for joint custody as well. Their baby mothers tried everything, and the men still won! I witnessed one of the men call the police when the mother didn't abide by the custody order. THOSE are fathers. not these dead beats who play the victim. People will coddle them and say oh dad's don't know they have rights..... HOW????? And then they say the courts favor mothers... a BIG LIE!!! courts will grant joint custody to men who abuse their wife/Childs mother and set up supervised visitation or come up with ways that both parents don't have to come into contact when exchanging the child........ The courts literally don't deny fathers rights unless they're neglectful or abusive towards the child.
and in this specific case, I cant believe he knows how to go to court for money, but not his child. pathetic. There's no way Im letting someone take my child and not fighting for them.
I love this show
The red flags been there when the mama wanted to be the third wheel every got damn trip smh. He earned that headache
Her Mom needs to stay out their business and the daughter needs to stop telling her Mom everything!
Exactly!
That grandma is something else.
Both are in the wrong. Her destroying his vehicle and him not being there. His daughter totally dismissed him. Thats bad.
NO DISRESPECT....As for Moms, she needs to stay in her lane.
The mother n the daughter need counseling asap
Judge Mathis acts like paying child support is enough…… THATS NOT ENOUGH!!! Period.
Every child support order should come with a visitation order it’s crazy how if he misses a payment or two then he is a deadbeat but a woman will never be held accountable for keeping a child away from a man cause it’s not court ordered !
Exactly!! I'm reading these comments and I'm like what??
He still was current and helping her take care of their child
I agree. & women act like being bitter doesn't hurt the child. If the man is trying allow him to be in the child's life. It seems a mother will always bear more sacrifice b/c the child is in the home that's the case in most cases that's a mothers reality can't place an amount on sick days, fussy nights, making sure they get to school, do their homework, keeping a roof over their head, keeping them in clean clothes it goes on & on.
@@GedColossalhause you can't compare those two things because the mother actually take time to file in court just like if the fathers can't see they child they should be a man & go to court and file for custody
Sad! The grandmother definitely helping her daughter to be toxic n bitter like herself!
Wow that last scene was heartbreaking. Ladies, despite your feelings about dad the baby needs and deserves to know him. Put your ego aside for the baby's sake.
And remember ... you picked him!
Damn! His daughter first words was mama when she seen her father in court..That was cold !🤣😭🤣😭
I feel so much empathy for him. He is actually trying. BM tried to slander him and he brought proof that he was paying child support. He explained to her why he couldn't make the birthday party. He had to go take care of his grandmother and ailing mother. He was being pulled in all different directions, but yet he still put in effort. I believe him when he said he signed the birth certificate.
"I treated you like a son, you %@@#**%@." That's how you treat your sons, ma'am? You talk like that in front of the baby??? Who raised you???
FACTS 😉
Girl get rid of that hurt! All it's going to do is make you bitter and unhappy! She looks like a good person! Don't let something in the past hurt your baby bond with her Dad.
Ugh that girl is the example of why i fear havin kids. U never know the type of nasty ways a woman can be . Men are nasty too but this particular case she really was makin him look bad. Nasty woman
I can just tell she's from Xenia🤦🏾♀️
Lord, if your getting child support he's on the birth certificate 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Lol
That is a good man.
She really tried to twist everything smh.
Usually how these baby mothers are
How he’s a good man but only pay $44 a week in child support? A good man is a good father and provider. And he’s not neither.
Wow! Shocked that she cursed the father in front of his child. She knew exactly what she was doing! 😡
She might be bitter, but he also moved 1000 miles away from his daughter. How could she know him?
Exactly what I was thinking...
@@nadinethorpe9157 he is from Cali and came to school in Ohio. Went to central state university in Wilberforce Ohio
This is the comment I was looking for 🎉
Grandma act like she was the baby momma
That’s sad. The mother just spoke like that in front of the child. Dirty. Both the women are dirty
Children are not bargaining chips. 😤
That grandmother is something else saying all of that around her grand daughter. I can only imagine what she says when the cameras aren't around smh
This is absolutely insane. She is trifling and so isn't her mother. I feel bad for that baby girl. And 3 years old and not potty trained!? Damn shame. That man should have his babygirl
Dam those matching foreheads, Star Trek next generation for real! 😂
Mom and daughter will continue to be miserable and lonely together.
That’s the goofiest thing I heard “I mean you’re not reading to her or anything” in response to an autism diagnosis
Most people don't know what Autism is, much less the varying degrees of autism. Even the mother needed to be educated as most do.
@@evacook4693 that’s still a goofy comment to make.
oh my gosh... I can't believe this made me cry! The Father and the Baby. She didn't know her dad. But his heart melted. oh my gosh... I hope he got to spend time with her after the show.
Would love to know what the grandmother's relationship status is... Bitterness is a generational curse, chiiiiiiile... Vandalizing his car was truly childish!
Its multiple generations of bitter single mothers. The grandmother taught the mother, now the mother is teaching the granddaughter. He needs to make it a point to stay as active in his daughter's life as he can.
I hope they get it together for the sake of the child. To hell with the other stuff.
13:56.........Smh.....Clearly, the defendant's mother is a major source of the devisiveness that's affecting the much needed responsible co-parenting between the couple. It should be solely about what's best for the child and not about being ugly and going tit for tat and trying to disrespectfully throw daggers at each other to cause hurt and stress. This entire case was so sad on so many levels and to see the young child caught in the negative and dysfunctional environment is heartbreaking. ⚖
That man love his child, praying the child get to see her father true self! Because her mom n granny will make it hard.
That gma is outta order and too old to be conducting her self like that abroad.
Men vet these women before you let her carry the greatest gift she can give you!
This man says she kept him from his daughter 🙄. Take her to court if you want to see your daughter so badly. Just like you took her to court to get your money...You figured out how to get what REALLY matters to you.
Grandma should be at bingo night instead of in their business
Why did she play this man like this in national TV?
But the dude behind her in the blue shirt when she said he moved to Cali to become a rapper lmbo
This is so wrong😑😏 a mother and the grandmother shouldn't use foul language and make scene in front of the child period. He can go to court to fight for vistation for his child.
How can you be on child support without signing the birth certificate?
She is dead wrong if she's keeping that baby away from him. But instead of going to court over a car he needs to go to court over the visitation of his child.
He needed to do the car first. Gotta have transportation to go see her.
@@sweetsweet81 the issue was she wasn't letting him see her. If that's the case he needs to go to court. He has rights as a father. Not having a car shouldn't be a reason he can't see her. There's public transportation.
Class act granny, class act
Look at that head she got!! Damn! She's needs some new wigs are something
Isn’t the episode from over a decade ago? You OK???
@@HanifBarnwell her head is still distracting years later
@@peachycalmable 😂😂😂
@@HanifBarnwell still better styles back then
How is he paying child support but not on the birth certificate??
i was wondering this
“We’re not a gang. It was a one woman show”
His reaction when he sees his daughter is priceless!
I’m nosy and found her fb page to see if they were together. I saw that her mom passed away last year 😢
Thanks for the update.
I know she is heartbroken May her mother rest in heaven
Judge Mathis done told them to take that baby to her dad 😅. I ain’t never seen the child come from that way… Good for you Dad❤ at least you got to hold her for a second ❤
He seems like a good guy. She tried to make it seem like he abandoned his family. He had another daughter in Cali and a sick grandmother. She prevented him from seeing the baby. Everyone always says that "He should go to court if he wants custody". That very rarely works out in the favor of men UNLESS the mother is deemed unfit (addicted to alcohol/ drugs, physically abusive, mentally disturbed, medically infirmed) and unless he's some kind of millionaire, he doesn't have the money to keep going back and forth to court for a case that 9/10 will not produce the results he desires for primary or even partial custody.
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So glad his initial request to see his daughter was granted after the case concluded ... I pray he is able to get some kind of visitation set up so the child can get to know him.
He is a narcissist. That comment he made at the end was ridiculous. How come JM didn’t bring up the fact that if she was keeping him from his daughter how come he hasn’t went to court to seek visitation? He hasn’t tried and just blames his daughter’s mom to make himself look better. Her mom was angry because she is helping her raise the child without his help. Got some nerve suing her when he’s not even in his daughter’s life. Taking from his daughter’s household smh.
Exactly! This episode was so disappointing!! $5,000 out of the house his daughter is in.
@@ariesjae6436 the show pays the verdict she messed up the car so sad too bad.
Mom and daughter got that sister like relationship. He don't have a chance.
The child's reaction said it all. The father is NOT in the child's life enough. Children don't hold grudges at that age and if she was used to seeing him, her reaction would have been different in a positive way. Sir, she reacted that way not because of mom but because of YOU!! Children will accept even a broke dad if she is bonded with him via time, visits, and phone conversations. You told on yourself, Dude.
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Thank you exactly! These people are not paying attention when the baby came out she didn't even know that man! And that is not the mother or grandmother's fault!
she wouldn’t let him see the child
Thank you for saying the obvious. He had time to schedule off for her birthday as well..smh
@@hevolocs she invited him to a birthday party and he. Moved away shortly after the child was born . Dude a bum with a job .
Omg. What a mixed up family and trifling parents 😨.
Reminded me that episode where Lisa tied Will up on Fresh Prince 😂
She really tried to act like that man wasn't doing anything for the baby smh. Good job JM on calling her out. Gma and mom are a little dramatic.
That’s so sad! he’s trying and she’s too bitter to see past her hurt.
She mad because she moved on. She should have popped a plan B and moved on too. They were in college she
Wasnt prepared to be a mama
Judge Mathis should have enough common logic to know that both parents are liable for daycare expenses; the court should not have to order that. The judge just picks and chooses who he wants to like and to defend.
You have no idea what you’re talking about. I know for a fact that daycare expenses has to be ordered just like child support. You can’t sue for either unless it has been ordered.
@@biggchill8176 I do know what I am talking about as I have a niece in that situation. However, since you know for a fact I will not argue the point. Besides, regardless, the judge still likes to pick and choose.