Enjoyed this video! Amina gave interesting opinion on this popular subject & highlighted Muslim woman value “MashAllah”. 👍🏽 I would love to see more native emirates 🇦🇪 in your videos and their perspective. 🎉
Don't always say that it is in accordance with the Sunnah of the Prophet, remember that Rasululullah never shared his love with Khadijah, after Khadijah died he married Aisyah, and on Allah's orders he was immediately allowed to remarry to help war widows, now the context is different, look for someone younger, more beautiful , wanting to show off having more than 1 wife, is very different from the concept of the Prophet's sunnah
Nothing matters as long as u treat Ur all wives equally!!the Qur'an only says to treat them all equal....doesn't matter if u are taking someone young or beautiful as Ur second third or fourth wife.....
@@yasirnizam3090 there is no way to have time for more than one. Plus children and work??? Not enough hours in a day. Someone would have to get less time. AND maybe it's different in your country but the women here in the U.S would not agree to such an arrangement
As a woman, I would always prefer to be in a one-woman one- man marriage. However if the situation arises and your husband takes another woman, I would rather it be in a polygamous marriage as per islamic law. This is because it is better to be a legal wife where you and your kids have rights over the man especially the financial responsibilities and the right to inherit. Most importantly the children will be able to carry the father's name so there is no ambiguity of lineage and honour is preserved for both mother and child. As opposed to becoming a mistress or a girlfriend with zero rights and worse, kids born out that relationship are bastards that cant have the father's name. Alhamdulillah, it is good to be married to a practising muslim man. I feel very secured for myslef and my child. He is kind to not only us but also to my parents and extended family. At least in my culture, most Muslim men are not in a polygamous marriage because it is not common in our culture (there is no history of polygamy in either side of me or my husband's family 4-5 generation up , it is too costly and many do not want the hassle of dealing with too many in laws 😅
not meaning to down other peoples culture but i never liked arranged marriages. i may be wrong but i believe a mutual true and pure love for one another has to be the foundation and without it you have nothing to build upon. i cant imagine being married to a woman whom i never loved. and it has to be horrible for the woman as well.
Except arranged marriages have the most common form of marriage throughout the history of humanity. And if the "mutual true and pure love" is there in love marriages, wouldn't the precentage of marriages be increasing rather than decreasing? On an average, you have men 8 and women 7 sexual partners before getting married (at least in the US), so that's the likely body count of the person you're finally deciding getting married to which is not necessarily seen as a great culture either.
I'm a Muslim and understand your point. It absolutely makes sense to think this way. But the issue with your approach of love first is: 1- It's Haram (You don't care about that so look for the second point). 2- There's the risk of being used and fooled. I.e. Too many Dudes be using love to get sex from girls and no Muslim girl or family would take that risk. That's why we don't do the dating thing. Now here's what you're messing about arranged marriages: While arranged marriage (marriage first and maybe love later doesn't sound romantic), it works most of the time. The reason is we believe that marriage is sanctuary, and God has promised to put love between married couple. That's one reason it tends to work. I have seen guys who married their high school sweethearts and their marriage didn't work out and then went and had a divorce, and the guy would go and have an arranged marriage and they couldn't spend a day far from their new spouse. Also, in arranged marriages you do take the time to know your partner before you marry them. It's kinda like blind dating but supervised by the family so no one would cross the line. So no, you're not marrying a stranger.
@@mosaif_mudawi i understand. but also its the two people in a marriage and how they approach it. it takes work and time and plenty patience. it must be nurtured. in the us people dont take the time to work at it together and not very patient two other things is Grace and Mercy but i find most are not very forgiving. i identify as Christian and i discovered that in biblical times they did not "date" the way we do. the way we do it would be totally foreign to them.
It all depends. Arranged marriage is not equal to forced marriage. Arranged at least in my southeast Asian culture means that the family suggests to their child a partner to become their spouse. This usually works because parents usually know their child the best. The candidate has been vetted , backgrounds have been checked and compatibility taken in mind. It is not a common practice now though, I must say, although my sister in law also went into an arranged marriage. My mum married thean that my grandfather suggested to her. Initially she was reluctant but my dad was clever to win her heart. They have now been married for almost 5 decades. Have hardly left each others side. My dad worked hard to build his business to give my mum a very comfortable life. In her twenties, my dad who is a decade and a half from her has brought my mum travelling all over the world. They are very much in love with each other until today. They are the proud parents of 4 children and 8 grandchildren. Alhamdulillah ❤ For my sister In law, she also ended up being very happy with the spouse that was suggested to her by my FIL, alhamdulillah. They have 3 kids and are doing very well alhamdulillah. IMO, arranged marriages will usually work in situations where the parents are close to their child and have a good understanding of who their children are. Then they are able to suggest a partner that will be a good match.
@@ObsidianFire-o7r You are not correct. Love marriages are not decreasing. Also, in the US most people are not with that many men or women sexually before a marriage, I know a lot of people that never had sex before marriage. I also know that there are a lot of bad arranged marriages. worse than good. Sorry you are wrong.
In hinduism wasn't there a woman who married 5 men?? And also dint women have to jump into the fire if her husband died , but if a women dies a husband was allowed to remarry...that was hinduism!!! Ofcourse the law that ur allowed to marry only one is based on the constitution of the country and has nothing to do with hinduism
I recently visited Dubai from Australia, no smiles at immigration officers, shouting on passengers one guy he puts passport on immigration officer desk she can’t take it from desk she needs on the hand. High ego in the Arabs. I mean I felt it was 3rd world country where labours were imprisoned on 800 diahrams a month. No interest visiting uae again
In Islam, in the light of Surah Al- Nisa, a man is conditionally permitted to marry more than one and upto four marriages. And under Pakistan law, 2nd marriage for a man is allowed subject to permission of first wife and so on.
I enjoyed the conversation and laughed about the commet of 1st marriage is for family and 2nd is for love. Arab culture is very rich and good, there are lots of reservation and at least the respect and fear to the teachings of their religion is still intact… but i do believed bad apple do exist and girls must guard themselves and be very careful.
Indian marriages are very good in India people stick to one women and man. divorce in Indian culture are very rare , divorce takes place in rarest case.
Que triste brincar com o sentimento das outras pessoas não é mesmo sabe que não quer nada sério mas está se aproveitando da situação graças a Deus como eu trabalhei muitos anos como babás trabalhei em vários países do mundo mas eu nunca me deixei envolver com ninguém quando cheguei na Alemanha na festa de 7 de setembro que é independência do Brasil porque eu estava trabalhando numa das barraquinhas de pão de queijoe conversou bastante tempo comigo eu tinha que ser simpática e dá atenção porque afinal de contas eu estava tentando vender né e o que acontece se a gente começou a se conhecer nos meus dias livres eu saía com ele me apresentou a família a família gostou de mim me acharam um excelente cozinheira mas eu sempre contei atrás com medo eu não sabia onde estava me metendo na alemão não sei eu sou mulata meio difícil mas não depois de dois anos ele veio comigo para o Brasil a gente se casou temos três meninos ele é um bom marido meus filhos são felizes eu sou feliz a gente mora um tempo na Alemanha e um tempo no Brasil porque como ele é mecatrônico ele pode trabalhar também aqui no Brasil para a mesma empresa estudei terminei meus estudos sou dentista e sou muito feliz no meu casamento mas eu escolhi muito bem nunca nenhum país que eu morei todos os países que eu morei os homens olhavam e queriam alguma coisa só que eu nunca deixei para que ninguém depois me usassem eu não sou banheiro eu sou um ser humano 🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🤫❤️
Why do we attach so much negativity to a man wanting a second or even a third wife, if he is of good character and has sufficient wealth, We should encourage him instead. A father should advise his son not to agree to restrictive demands that could lead to disaster. After all, if a man seeks a halal arrangement rather than having a mistress, what is the problem? I certainly wouldn’t let my own son sign such a deal.
Tunisia 🇹🇳 is the only Arab country that Abolish Polygamy 😍
Love her idea of freedom of women in the right way
I'm learning a lot about the culture. Thank you so muchhh Saeed. More content like this please.. 😊
Thanks a lot for this interview I really enjoy it and happy new year ❤
Enjoyed this video! Amina gave interesting opinion on this popular subject & highlighted Muslim woman value “MashAllah”. 👍🏽 I would love to see more native emirates 🇦🇪 in your videos and their perspective. 🎉
Don't always say that it is in accordance with the Sunnah of the Prophet, remember that Rasululullah never shared his love with Khadijah, after Khadijah died he married Aisyah, and on Allah's orders he was immediately allowed to remarry to help war widows, now the context is different, look for someone younger, more beautiful , wanting to show off having more than 1 wife, is very different from the concept of the Prophet's sunnah
Finally ... someone talked ... they twisted everytging to their advantage ....
Nothing matters as long as u treat Ur all wives equally!!the Qur'an only says to treat them all equal....doesn't matter if u are taking someone young or beautiful as Ur second third or fourth wife.....
Is it posible@@yasirnizam3090
@@yasirnizam3090 there is no way to have time for more than one. Plus children and work??? Not enough hours in a day. Someone would have to get less time. AND maybe it's different in your country but the women here in the U.S would not agree to such an arrangement
Aisha was 6… not the best context really
Wonderful video! I love Dubai and I think that the women in Islam are so empowered and graceful
As a woman, I would always prefer to be in a one-woman one- man marriage. However if the situation arises and your husband takes another woman, I would rather it be in a polygamous marriage as per islamic law. This is because it is better to be a legal wife where you and your kids have rights over the man especially the financial responsibilities and the right to inherit. Most importantly the children will be able to carry the father's name so there is no ambiguity of lineage and honour is preserved for both mother and child. As opposed to becoming a mistress or a girlfriend with zero rights and worse, kids born out that relationship are bastards that cant have the father's name.
Alhamdulillah, it is good to be married to a practising muslim man. I feel very secured for myslef and my child. He is kind to not only us but also to my parents and extended family. At least in my culture, most Muslim men are not in a polygamous marriage because it is not common in our culture (there is no history of polygamy in either side of me or my husband's family 4-5 generation up , it is too costly and many do not want the hassle of dealing with too many in laws 😅
It is because of typical subcontinent mentality
As salam aleikum I know that lady from Russia,Chechnya republic 😊 from others Russian channels it was interesting to see her
She’s beautiful 😍
White American married to a faithful Egyptian from Egypt. Not heaven. But faithful good man good dad wouldn't go without him. Happy HamdAllah
You are going to date someone and you dont know whether he is married already or not? That's crazy!
not meaning to down other peoples culture but i never liked arranged marriages. i may be wrong but i believe a mutual true and pure love for one another has to be the foundation and without it you have nothing to build upon. i cant imagine being married to a woman whom i never loved. and it has to be horrible for the woman as well.
Except arranged marriages have the most common form of marriage throughout the history of humanity. And if the "mutual true and pure love" is there in love marriages, wouldn't the precentage of marriages be increasing rather than decreasing? On an average, you have men 8 and women 7 sexual partners before getting married (at least in the US), so that's the likely body count of the person you're finally deciding getting married to which is not necessarily seen as a great culture either.
I'm a Muslim and understand your point. It absolutely makes sense to think this way. But the issue with your approach of love first is:
1- It's Haram (You don't care about that so look for the second point).
2- There's the risk of being used and fooled. I.e. Too many Dudes be using love to get sex from girls and no Muslim girl or family would take that risk. That's why we don't do the dating thing.
Now here's what you're messing about arranged marriages:
While arranged marriage (marriage first and maybe love later doesn't sound romantic), it works most of the time.
The reason is we believe that marriage is sanctuary, and God has promised to put love between married couple. That's one reason it tends to work.
I have seen guys who married their high school sweethearts and their marriage didn't work out and then went and had a divorce, and the guy would go and have an arranged marriage and they couldn't spend a day far from their new spouse.
Also, in arranged marriages you do take the time to know your partner before you marry them. It's kinda like blind dating but supervised by the family so no one would cross the line. So no, you're not marrying a stranger.
@@mosaif_mudawi i understand. but also its the two people in a marriage and how they approach it. it takes work and time and plenty patience. it must be nurtured. in the us people dont take the time to work at it together and not very patient two other things is Grace and Mercy but i find most are not very forgiving.
i identify as Christian and i discovered that in biblical times they did not "date" the way we do. the way we do it would be totally foreign to them.
It all depends. Arranged marriage is not equal to forced marriage. Arranged at least in my southeast Asian culture means that the family suggests to their child a partner to become their spouse. This usually works because parents usually know their child the best. The candidate has been vetted , backgrounds have been checked and compatibility taken in mind.
It is not a common practice now though, I must say, although my sister in law also went into an arranged marriage.
My mum married thean that my grandfather suggested to her. Initially she was reluctant but my dad was clever to win her heart. They have now been married for almost 5 decades. Have hardly left each others side. My dad worked hard to build his business to give my mum a very comfortable life. In her twenties, my dad who is a decade and a half from her has brought my mum travelling all over the world. They are very much in love with each other until today. They are the proud parents of 4 children and 8 grandchildren. Alhamdulillah ❤
For my sister In law, she also ended up being very happy with the spouse that was suggested to her by my FIL, alhamdulillah. They have 3 kids and are doing very well alhamdulillah.
IMO, arranged marriages will usually work in situations where the parents are close to their child and have a good understanding of who their children are. Then they are able to suggest a partner that will be a good match.
@@ObsidianFire-o7r You are not correct. Love marriages are not decreasing. Also, in the US most people are not with that many men or women sexually before a marriage, I know a lot of people that never had sex before marriage. I also know that there are a lot of bad arranged marriages. worse than good. Sorry you are wrong.
In hindu culture taking divorce is sin and having relationship with other guy after marriage is nowhere it may be in rarest case .
You gotta be king! India has high divorce . Don't know where you live, India is VERY WESTERNIZED!
In hinduism wasn't there a woman who married 5 men?? And also dint women have to jump into the fire if her husband died , but if a women dies a husband was allowed to remarry...that was hinduism!!! Ofcourse the law that ur allowed to marry only one is based on the constitution of the country and has nothing to do with hinduism
I recently visited Dubai from Australia, no smiles at immigration officers, shouting on passengers one guy he puts passport on immigration officer desk she can’t take it from desk she needs on the hand. High ego in the Arabs. I mean I felt it was 3rd world country where labours were imprisoned on 800 diahrams a month. No interest visiting uae again
There is no third world first world and second world only one world 🌎 racist discrimination.. will not divided a divine human😂😂😂😂
In Islam, in the light of Surah Al- Nisa, a man is conditionally permitted to marry more than one and upto four marriages. And under Pakistan law, 2nd marriage for a man is allowed subject to permission of first wife and so on.
This is same in Algeria and Morocco and Libya ! 🇱🇾 if I’m correct but in Tunisia it’s like Turkey polygamy is illegal !
CULTure is temporary, Islam is forever.
Saeed sir I like the way you ask questions.it’s admireable.lot’s of love from Nepal.
Definitely a hell. I experienced it myself.
I enjoyed the conversation and laughed about the commet of 1st marriage is for family and 2nd is for love. Arab culture is very rich and good, there are lots of reservation and at least the respect and fear to the teachings of their religion is still intact… but i do believed bad apple do exist and girls must guard themselves and be very careful.
And third is for lust
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Masha Allah 💚 Salam Alaikum brother
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This is not love. Theze are just following a tribal set of rules. I wish everyone wake up for love. The one person love.
So can I only love, really no gf no relationship only waiting for one person future wife
Its not oligatory to marry 4 girlz,theres a rule for that,one has to treat all alike.cheating and secretly marrying is not right.
but cheating is allowed in Islam
Indian marriages are very good in India people stick to one women and man. divorce in Indian culture are very rare , divorce takes place in rarest case.
Looool are you sure ? Because i heard if in Hindusium if lady didn’t pay the dowry her husband will beat her
Totally wrong 😂
Indian marriages are far the WORST..u treat your women like garbage
Saaed❤ channel
Beautiful ❤.. women Arabs.. i love UAE i was in UAE for 5,years
Que triste brincar com o sentimento das outras pessoas não é mesmo sabe que não quer nada sério mas está se aproveitando da situação graças a Deus como eu trabalhei muitos anos como babás trabalhei em vários países do mundo mas eu nunca me deixei envolver com ninguém quando cheguei na Alemanha na festa de 7 de setembro que é independência do Brasil porque eu estava trabalhando numa das barraquinhas de pão de queijoe conversou bastante tempo comigo eu tinha que ser simpática e dá atenção porque afinal de contas eu estava tentando vender né e o que acontece se a gente começou a se conhecer nos meus dias livres eu saía com ele me apresentou a família a família gostou de mim me acharam um excelente cozinheira mas eu sempre contei atrás com medo eu não sabia onde estava me metendo na alemão não sei eu sou mulata meio difícil mas não depois de dois anos ele veio comigo para o Brasil a gente se casou temos três meninos ele é um bom marido meus filhos são felizes eu sou feliz a gente mora um tempo na Alemanha e um tempo no Brasil porque como ele é mecatrônico ele pode trabalhar também aqui no Brasil para a mesma empresa estudei terminei meus estudos sou dentista e sou muito feliz no meu casamento mas eu escolhi muito bem nunca nenhum país que eu morei todos os países que eu morei os homens olhavam e queriam alguma coisa só que eu nunca deixei para que ninguém depois me usassem eu não sou banheiro eu sou um ser humano 🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🤫❤️
Que bom que nasci no Brasil.
I am from North America and having severals wifes I do not support this at all.
Where's the Islam???
Astagfirullah
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That’s crazy….
Eu não cairia nessa conversa. Muito perigoso.
Emirati's are jews.Not muslims or Arabs
Why do you say that? Can you elaborate further please?
Marry a rich man or the wealth will be heaven for the Muslims women. And there is no problems for them to sharing a husband.
Dubai is not place for love!
shame on them. I thought they were real muslims.
Why do we attach so much negativity to a man wanting a second or even a third wife, if he is of good character and has sufficient wealth, We should encourage him instead. A father should advise his son not to agree to restrictive demands that could lead to disaster. After all, if a man seeks a halal arrangement rather than having a mistress, what is the problem? I certainly wouldn’t let my own son sign such a deal.
Salam I want to be on your show I always get asked to be married from Arabic men contact me brother
very interesting I'd like to hear more about your culture how things happen..🫶