I’m an Egyptian who’s born and raised in Europe and i feel the exact same way. My mother is beyond ashamed of the fact that her 27 years old son never had a gf. Unfortunately, in the last year she even started wondering if i like females, if you know what i mean. I like females, the problem is that females DON’T like me. Any girl who’s above a 3/10 doesn’t even see me. And i wonder, how many other guys in our situation, had relatives or friends questioning their sexuality?
i dont know if it is about the looks because we do see ugly men with super hot women all the time i m not talking rich ugly men just average esrner sometimes even jobless but these below average looking jobless men never have any problem getting women
Indeed Back in my darkest days i tried to look for help/counseling from my family or close peers, instead i was treated as a freak and mocked/straight up ignored. When you're an ethnic dude and happen to be inkwell/TFL or just going through a dry spell you're completely on your own.
I'm African-American and Mexican, 29 years old. By Mexican standards, you're a weirdo if you're not settled down (with a mistress or two) and thinking about kids by 25. African-American culture gives you a bit more flexibility these days because city life, the economy, work etc but the fact that I'm nearing 30 with no girlfriend/wife or kids is starting to make me look like a weirdo by Black standards too.
@@GoodieWithaHoodie Because they have something we will never have. Not because we can’t, but because we’re unwanted. It’s a different feeling being alone and wanted, and being alone and unwanted. Then you see people who barely try on themselves get everything, it stings. You can cope all you want, but the minute you go outside you’re just reminded of your failure.
@PostCrisisRH I mean yeah i guess, but it's only an issue if you allow it to be. Why even care about otger people or whatever is going on in their lives if what they have going on just wasn't meant for you anyways?
@@hollowgonzalo4329You can never kill desire no matter how much you try to. It's in men's dna to have a woman and spread their genetic lineage. You can't kill that, you can't ignore it. It's deep within all of us. Desire can never be killed, unless you die with it.
@@hollowgonzalo4329I agree, these people are creating their own issues. Like, why tf would I care if someone judges me for not having kids? Talk about creating your own problems, smh.
I really hope one day you’ll look upon your life and stop seeing a loser. All I hear is excuses to justify your sadness. I get it excuses are sometimes right. But why not try to find solutions to your sadness instead homie. I’ve been in your spot where I was so sad bc I was alone. I just want you to skip a lot of the sadness that I went through and find a solution that brings goodness into your life! try Stoicism, go to gym or do pushups in your house, listen to motivational videos. Listen to and practice positive affirmation.
Our grandfathers aint have to improve shit to get a woman. Chad ain't have to improve anything to get in some guts. What is there to improve? And plus, dont you think we've already gone down that route? Men are being told all their lives they need to improve, but for what? Sloppy seconds? Ran thru unable to pairbond beezies who will drop us the second someone better comes along? Doesn't matter how much you "improve" there will always be someone better than you, that's just a fact of life. @DennisRaider-p6n
I’m an Egyptian who’s born and raised in Europe and i feel the exact same way. My mother is beyond ashamed of the fact that her 27 years old son never had a gf. Unfortunately, in the last year she even started wondering if i like females, if you know what i mean. I like females, the problem is that females DON’T like me. Any girl who’s above a 3/10 doesn’t even see me. And i wonder, how many other guys in our situation, had relatives or friends questioning their sexuality?
Your mom has no clue tho what it's like to be a man in the dating market where women are insanely picky. So don't take it personally.
I'm sure my family thinks this of me lol
i dont know if it is about the looks because we do see ugly men with super hot women all the time i m not talking rich ugly men just average esrner sometimes even jobless but these below average looking jobless men never have any problem getting women
@@BrockOLS We’ve been rejected and outcasted by females, to the point that we got people out here thinking we’re closeted. Beyond brutal man.
Women want to be Traditional.
Just with Chadrone.
IM TFL TILL MY SCASKET DROP!
Older single bachelors do not fit in traditional communities...I relate so much...thank you
Indeed
Back in my darkest days i tried to look for help/counseling from my family or close peers, instead i was treated as a freak and mocked/straight up ignored.
When you're an ethnic dude and happen to be inkwell/TFL or just going through a dry spell you're completely on your own.
I was adopted into a very devout evangelical family. I had zero chance. Never began.
Praying for you
Hits hard when younger family members are doing better in life than you 😂
im not kidding, start asking relatives to find you a woman. u gotta try everything at this point.
As a black, if u don't have kids or a gf by 20, it's over.
Amazing content
"Just be traditional bro"
Just be traditional Chad bro
The irony of this video
Great video. Can you make a video explaining your opinions on betabuxxing? Do you think you could betabuxx your way out of tfl status?
what does TFL mean
I'm African-American and Mexican, 29 years old. By Mexican standards, you're a weirdo if you're not settled down (with a mistress or two) and thinking about kids by 25. African-American culture gives you a bit more flexibility these days because city life, the economy, work etc but the fact that I'm nearing 30 with no girlfriend/wife or kids is starting to make me look like a weirdo by Black standards too.
What is TFL?
True Forced Loner
Truly forced loneliness
It’s a stupid term. Like just live your life enjoy it get out of high school mindset
Even tho it’s your culture to get married if you’re not able to why allow it to make you unhappy?
@@GoodieWithaHoodie Because they have something we will never have. Not because we can’t, but because we’re unwanted. It’s a different feeling being alone and wanted, and being alone and unwanted. Then you see people who barely try on themselves get everything, it stings. You can cope all you want, but the minute you go outside you’re just reminded of your failure.
@PostCrisisRH
I mean yeah i guess, but it's only an issue if you allow it to be.
Why even care about otger people or whatever is going on in their lives if what they have going on just wasn't meant for you anyways?
People are sooo feminine nowadays men and women! Always worrying about what they don’t have and what someone else has!
@@hollowgonzalo4329You can never kill desire no matter how much you try to. It's in men's dna to have a woman and spread their genetic lineage. You can't kill that, you can't ignore it. It's deep within all of us. Desire can never be killed, unless you die with it.
@@hollowgonzalo4329I agree, these people are creating their own issues. Like, why tf would I care if someone judges me for not having kids? Talk about creating your own problems, smh.
Why not work on yourself and your body since you consider yourself “ugly”? Give your self an upper hand ya know.
@@GoodieWithaHoodie “Why don’t you just improove bro?” get out of here you bluepilled normie
No work out for face
Face is king
Calling women maidens sounds so neckbeard
It's just a meme from Elden Ring, you take yourself to seriously
I really hope one day you’ll look upon your life and stop seeing a loser. All I hear is excuses to justify your sadness. I get it excuses are sometimes right. But why not try to find solutions to your sadness instead homie. I’ve been in your spot where I was so sad bc I was alone. I just want you to skip a lot of the sadness that I went through and find a solution that brings goodness into your life! try Stoicism, go to gym or do pushups in your house, listen to motivational videos. Listen to and practice positive affirmation.
Improoooooving
“Just be happy bro!” What amazing advice. Next, you’ll tell homeless people to just buy a house and never give up!
Cope
These people want to moan, the LAST thing they want is to improve
Our grandfathers aint have to improve shit to get a woman. Chad ain't have to improve anything to get in some guts. What is there to improve? And plus, dont you think we've already gone down that route? Men are being told all their lives they need to improve, but for what? Sloppy seconds? Ran thru unable to pairbond beezies who will drop us the second someone better comes along? Doesn't matter how much you "improve" there will always be someone better than you, that's just a fact of life.
@DennisRaider-p6n