The Cordles on waiting til marriage, postpartum depression & getting hate online | Ep. 6
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- Опубліковано 7 бер 2023
- Excited to have our second-ever podcast guests @Thecordlefamily
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Did anybody else notice how Matt and Abby would touch each other's knee when one would talk about something difficult? How precious 😭 That simple act shows how supportive they are of each other ❤ I love these 2 wholesome couples!!
I noticed that when Abby talked about how difficult her labor was. So sweet 😭
I literally came to the comments to see if anyone else noticed this; what great partners they are to each other!! ❤❤
I love your podcast!
I noticed that. They are so sweet and supportive. My husband and I do that as well.
IT WAS SO CUTE😩
That laid back , not anxious attitude is so perfect for a firefighter . He’s the guy that you want in an emergency situation .
PLEASE PLEASE have the grandma and grandpa on a podcast. Both grandma’s too. Loved every time they were on UA-cam with you guys.
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YESSS!!
Yessss
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Genius idea!!!
@@UnplannedPodcast here’s the ultimate podcast idea. The Beeston bunch,Hunter and Devin,Bella and Dallin & Yall. The ultimate UA-cam power couples line up😁😁😁😁
I love Devin. Her goofiness and energy is just contagious.
Honestly getting married young with full commitment to WORKing on a marriage is the wisest decision! Better to get married than to burn with passion and lust.
This needs to be shown to all mommas as prep to what to expect. I got slapped with all the hormones. I relate to Devon so much. I fought for my life and no one ever noticed. Thank you for being so honest and raw with this topic that often gets overlooked and not discussed.
Totally agree!
Same here! The baby blues are SO REAL and its so disappointing that no one talks about it. I was a reck for two full weeks. And you dont realize how bad it was until its over
I agree! It hit me so so hard somedays I coukdnt even function to be a mom. But after a lil I got over it and became better. But ppl definitely don't talk enough about it
I honestly struggle waiting for marriage cuz of peer pressure- it’s helpful to know people wait
You got this praying for you. I’m in the same boat
Keep going! You can do this.
It is SO worth it to wait! I promise!
are y'all waiting for religious reasons?
@@alexandralab5364 yes
I need more Abby/Matt & Hunter/Devin content
I honestly cried during a few parts of this podcast. I know, so silly. But I truly love you all, so wholesome, rare and just genuine people. Love watching you all. True Godly people. Just good people!!
I am in the middle of a tough, tough battle with anxiety & it was so helpful & refreshing to hear from Devin & Matt on their struggles - I am not alone & there is hope! I literally paused the podcast to call & schedule an appt with a counselor.
What! That’s so awesome. I wish I would have done the same thing when my anxiety was so bad in high school. I definitely still need to go to counseling for it though
Good for you!! They say I came out having a panic attack, medication evaluation is very important. Especially for new moms.
Taking care of your mental health is being kind to yourself. Take care of yourself!! Sending hugs and good vibes your way.
Devins laugh is so contagious ❤
I appreciate the openness about depression and anxiety, especially post partum. I come from a Christian background and we were always taught that God will sustain us, and even with that being true I still think you can deal with hormone imbalances. I feel a little more confident to consider medication because I can’t do this
I am one of your silent viewers for a long time. Always thumbs up but never comments. This podcast made me feel a certain way and lead me to comment. You guys give me so much hope for this world and the couples you have had on your podcast ( I follow them as well) My husband and I have been together since I was 15 and he was 18. We are now 56 and 59 and still together!!! We didn’t wait till marriage but have never been with anyone else 😊 How raw and honest you all are on this podcast warms my heart beyond belief. I love how you aren’t afraid to include God in the conversation. The social media platform and the world need more content creators like you guys!! May God bless all always 🙏 Keep up the great work as parents and content creators ❤
It’s really nice to see friends standing up for Dallin & Bella. It speaks volumes to the people they all are
Baby blues are so real. My first 3 weeks were so tough. After those first 3 weeks, I felt more like myself. 5 months later and I'm so grateful to be a Mom to my son 💙
Same here!! I was just telling someone the other day how hard my baby blues were and they only lasted a few weeks. I can’t imagine feeling that way for months on end.
It’s because since the hormones are so crazy for us, !! When you get to the point where you realize your body skin is trying to get back to normal. It gets crazy crazy 😊❤
Being 23 this is such a great podcast listening to young people just be honest about marriage and kids and giving the real truth love it!!
Can you invite Bella and Dallin for a podcast episode?
Yess!! I would love that!!!
Yesss!!
FR!
Oh yeah!!! They def will next week!
Ya!!!!
Devon, thank you for speaking so freely about anxiety and being on meds. And them helping you! Same here! And Hunter, you being honest about a spouse’s perspective was great. My favorite podcast! With my fav couples! Keep ‘em coming!❤
My husband and I can relate to Hunter and Devin. We started dating at 13 as well. 2005 to 2011. We waited until marriage too, 2011. We are still married and now have two kids. We had our first kid after 5 years of marriage.
Thank you so much for having this podcast. Abby talking about baby blues made me feel so much more normal. I am 8 weeks postpartum and struggled with this sooo bad the first month and it’s so isolating. Devin talking about her anxiety has inspired me so much to not be ashamed.
I found in life that people enter our lives for a reason. But then you meet that couple that you just connect with on a higher level. I found this very educational for mothers but also for new friendships. So glad you all found each other, and I feel it will become a lasting friendship. Love your podcast.
Every and I mean... EVERY new mommy needs to hear this conversation! It's so real, honest and raw... and SO normal for people to go through! Thank you for ALWAYS being so authentic and open with us! It's soooo rare these days!
Hunter should start a series on fire safety and crazy things he saw as a firefighter. Mad respect to you, man. Thank you.
Love seeing you all together! Some of my favorite UA-cam couples. 🖤🖤🖤
Hunter is the king of comedy 😂😂😂 we love his dry humor
So I just got out of a psych ward a couple weeks ago and is now watched three episodes of this podcast and it definitely touches on subjects. I’ve been struggling with, and especially with where I am at right now in my life. It is such a huge help especially with people that I look up to and that I watch all the time and I think what you guys do is just absolutely amazing.
I hope you are doing better. Everyday is a new day. I hope you find the light to life again soon.
So glad you talked about anxiety after a baby. I’m 8 months PP with baby 4 and have been trying to find the right meds cause I can’t go anywhere in fear of what could happen etc. Thanks for making me feel like I’m not alone. It’s a hard mental cycle to break
Love all these younger people! You are so mature and know what you want and go for it! The commitment to family and community is so strong and beautiful! Love you all blessings on you
I look forward to this every week! I also love how transparent and open you guys are. You guys are awesome!! ❤
I loved Devin’s story on her postpartum journey. Felt so relatable and helped shed a light on how hard postpartum can be on our mental health! I loved this episode ❤️❤️❤️
Watching your podcast every wednesday is the only thing that gets me through the work week!
I live for their vlogs every mid week!
How'd this get over so soon? I mean, definitely you guys gotta have them again. These two are such gems💙
I’ve never been able to relate so much to a UA-cam video! My husband and I waited too and it was TOTALLY WORTH it!!! Love all of y’all!
My wife and I waited until we got married. We could focus on our friendship, did not have to worry about getting pregnant. I was 28 when we got married.
Waited for my wife and I can tell her she is the only I have ever been with...she is 100% confident I am committed to her for the rest of my life.
Married for over 32 years now...had 2 kids after getting married and we scrapped and clawed to support them TOGETHER.
This episode really hit home for me, and I can relate so much to Devin. I struggled with postpartum depression for a while after having my son in July, and it took me longer than it should have to get help. I think it is amazing what you guys are doing, talking about the hard stuff because not a lot of people do that. I for one, felt alone in this, and listening to this made me feel understood.
favorite time of the week is when matt and abby post 😆
same 🙂
Right!!!
Omg right!?
First responders/ military: if you do it for any extended period of time, you will always be apart of it, it will always be a part of you. Thank you for your service. You will always be a firefighter in your heart, you put your life on the line for your community.❤
You two are so so amazing! Love the realness in how you two are navigating marriage and parenting!
This podcast was so helpful. I’m the only one in my friend group with a baby, so it’s a breath of fresh air to hear other moms talk about their experiences. I’m struggling through postpartum depression and anxiety, and I feel really encouraged. Going to try to get out of the house more. Thank you for sharing!
I need to comment. I’m 6 minutes in and I genuinely love all four of these content creators more than any other couples online really. Seem so genuine and share so much, just beyond extactic to finish this episode. I wana thank all four of you for being kind, loving, humble individuals. ❤️ You all shine a bright light on this world.
You guys are a big part of my day! You make my day 100 times better!!
such a blessing to hear y’all talk about such real things, i love you guys so much and you are truly so inspiring🥺❤️
This episode is so relatable. We got married at 21 & 26. Currently have been married for 18months and plan to start trying to have a family in a year. I wouldn’t change it for anything.
Gah, I love these people so much! Such great friendships they all have made with one another...
My husband and I got married young too. 3 months after I graduated and less than three months after we turned 19. The backlash was awful! Everyone tried to talk us out of it and thought we were doing it because I was pregnant. No we just knew we were soulmates! Just celebrated our 10 year anniversary ❤️
Love that you 2 couples can wholly support each other in sincerity and true friendship. Stay genuine... I love it!
This was so easy to listen to. I’m a single woman with no children, and I can’t believe how much I enjoyed watching this episode and you 4 talking about being parents.
This is the best podcast episode I have seen from you guys. The way you four flow in conversation is unmatched!! Such a lovely bunch thank you for sharing your stories with us. I appreciate your vulnerability and wonderful sense of humor hehee. I hope to see more of the four of you together❤
12weeks pregnant and watching this video feeling very encouraged about growing into parenthood. There are moments where I'm very emotional about becoming a parent and wanting to be the best mom I can.
I didn’t know I had so many held up feelings from having my son until I watched this and I got emotional when talking about after birth. My son is almost a year and a half and I still get choked up about it
It literally makes my day to see a new episode of the Unplanned Podcast come out! ❤️ Love you guys! It isn’t very common in the UK for people to get married younger, so it’s so nice to hear a completely different perspective! I would’ve loved to have got married younger, but for us it’s hella expensive as we would be paying for it ourselves - but we’re working on it! Hoping to get married next year 🥰 Sending so much love to all four of you! You’re both such sweet couples! Xx
ahh I love Devin and Hunter!!! It’s been so nice seeing people you enjoy come together 😊
I’m so glad you talked about PPD! So many women are ashamed to admit to feeling down because having a baby is supposed to be such a happy time in your life (and for the most part it is)…but it’s also a MAJOR life change and hormones are not a joke! Depression after baby doesn’t mean it wasn’t amazing, and doesn’t mean you’re a bad mama ❤
I love all four of you! Love how genuine you are. When people say mean things to you just ignore them because your all precious.
I am blown away to how similar of a story my fiancé and I share with Hunter and Devin. My fiancé and I also started dating at 13, went all through high school with each other, got engaged in August (2-3 months after high school graduation) and will be getting married this August. We’re both 19 and also saving ourselves till marriage. It made me so happy to hear about both of y’all’s stories🥰 I feel so seen listening to this amazing podcast and from all the couples that share the experience of finding love at such a young age.
Much love to all of you! And thank you Matt & Abby for your channel and podcast. I truly love your content and look up to you guys❤️ Hands down my favorite UA-camrs🤗
I absolutely love both of these couple's! They are so down to earth
I want to see pictures of the trip because y’all are crackin’ up about it! Your joy, and the joy of the Beestons and Conner and Liana just makes everything feel joyful
With myself having depression and anxiety, having my masters in counseling and understanding that it’s a true chemical imbalance I can relate so well. My husband being faith driven and never understanding depression after 30 years has started getting symptoms of anxiety and it completely shocked him to finally understand the huge pressure on your chest difficulty breathing, always having to get up and move, run around to “escape “. I said welcome to my world and it just hit him like a ton of bricks and thought it would never be him. I also watched my husband bury his grandparents and not shed a tear because it was ingrained in him to be the strong one, be supportive for others and not show weakness. I had a long talk early on how wrong it was to keep it bottled up.
My mom passed away 3 months before our baby boy was born. I stayed so busy up until his arrival, once he got here my whole world stopped. I had not had time to process the loss of my mom and all I wanted was her. Thank goodness it gets better!!! God knew I needed my baby boy more than anything!
I’m so sorry about your mom. I’m glad you had a healthy baby boy!❤
I seriously love you guys so much! All of y'all have gotten me through some hard days just watching your reels and tik toks anf UA-cam videos! I really really love your podcast ❤ I look forward to listening and watching every week!!
i love that you guys are talking about post-partum! i had it BAD when i was a first-time mom. it scared my husband because it was that bad and it's not talked about enough. i wish people would talk about it more. it's not all sunshine and rainbows and most people expect it to be.
I love all of you guys! ❤ such a great group to watch! So sweet and caring for anything. And genuine people
this was such a comfort episode. Devins voice is so soothing.
I loved this episode. It’s so important to talk about these things. We need more with y’all 4!
I already loved all 4 of you but now I love yall even more!! It's so rare that people save themselves for each other! So proud of yall and MAD respect!
The way i've been going into these podcasts thinking ill only listen the first 10 mins and end up listening to the whole thing that says alot . Its really good . Love seeing young people wait until they are married and are freely talking about it.
You guys are so real and so genuine!Before I never listens to podcasts, NOW I can’t wait for Mat and Abby unplanned podcast to have a new episode!! Congratulations on the new blessing👶, you guys rock.
I'm pregnant right now with my first. I already have some crazy anxiety, so I cannot tell you how much I appreciate this. It makes me feel so much better!
This podcast was amazing. I needed this as a mother who is 6 weeks postpartum. You guys are great! Thank you for being so real!
I love these 4 people so much! I watched devin and hunter and then found Matt and Abby from them posting a few videos and I’ve become obsessed with these genuinely good souls!
Loved this! Love both couples! You both are real and positive and I look forward to it! 💗
I love them. I’m so excited you guys came together. Love you all so much ❤
i love you guys. i hope to have a relationship like yall have when i grow up. gonna support yall till the very end.
I really appreciate your vidoes guys, they always make my day! Shoutout for being so brave :)
Yes!!!! THE PODCAST IVE BEEN WAITING FOR!!!!! Love all 4 of y’all!
i love devin and hunter's personality sm!!! definitely should do part 2. i can listen to you guys my whole life. y'all are the nicest people😭 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
absolutely loved this!! y’all are my absolute favs!❤️
This was SUCH a great episode! You are all just so real and so genuine. Keep being you! I love you guys ❤️
Love their Podcasts! Have enjoyed following them the past few years (via Facebook) but had never listened to Podcasts before. I enjoy this sweet young couple so much that I gave Podcasts a try. Now I’m binge listening from episode one as I go about my daily household stuff the past few days! Each episode has been interesting - and often refreshing - for this 55 yr old woman! It’s wonderful to hear you stand for your values and set good role models for young couples.
When you guys talked about guys and emotions and mental health was soooooo good! For Christians, If you read the bible, especially the psalms, David was really emotional and in touch with his feelings. I get so much inspiration when writing worship songs and talking to God from the Psalms.
Devin and Hunter put out the most pure and humble content. I love their videos. I’m glad they were honest about feeling a loss of pride when leaving the service profession and moving into a TikTok career. That’s the kind of honesty that the social media world needs more of. ❤
I have an 8 month old baby girl and am currently 18 weeks pregnant with my second baby girl. When the new addition arrives they will be only 13 months apart. Congratulations on the new baby! I know if y’all feel anything like us you’re nervous but even more excited! New to the podcast, but can’t wait for more. Makes me feel less alone in my journey of 2 babies so close in age.
“The super happy people struggle with anxiety.” YES. Could NOT agree more.
This has quickly become one of my favorite podcasts! I'll never not listen to an episode ❤️
This is, so far my favorite episode! Love you guys & Hunter & Devin!!!! ❤❤❤
My two favorite couples of alllll time!!! I could sit & listen to y’all all day❤
I'm loving these real honest podcasts so much. They are so appreciated.
I pray for the happiness and spirit of joy to stay in both these families❤
I love watching two couples and young parent-friends talking about life together. It made me happy to see, so thanks for letting us watch you. 😂 I'm glad you have each other. My husband and I also got married super young (21). ❤️
I've been watching every single podcast and it's amazing. Love you guys!
I just didn’t want this episode to end! Love you guys! ❤
We got married when we were 20, and we are celebrating our 23rd anniversary. this weekend. We also waited for marriage, and it was tough but so worth it. Thanks for being open about relationships and sharing your thoughts.
Favorite episode so far looking forward to part 2. !! I wish I had a good friend like this.!
Devin is literally my spirit animal…love her sm
Love you guys so much this episode has helped me so much thank you for being so open your stories really helped me!!!
I love Hunter & Devins humor together so much. And Abby's laugh, Haha. You guys are thee cream of the crop 🙌🏻💕 sending all the love
Thank you ladies for you honesty with your postpartum experience I love it
I never realised but I've watched all your episodes including the one with bella and dallin and all of your episodes got me smiling cheek to cheek
Also, love hearing all of y’all’s stories and life! My husband is also a firefighter EMT. He has similar mindset as Hunter. I have a lot of respect for EMS workers.
I feel like a podcast with an “older” couple like The Dashleys and talking about parenting and the expectations with it and what to expect would be really interesting, now seeing two couples so young talking about their relationships is super insightful.
My boyfriend and I are 21 and have been together for over 5 years since high school and are waiting to get married and engaged and this was really interesting to me. Thank you all for being you 💕
I LOOOOOVE the Cordles!!! Such a good pod episode, please have them back!