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КОМЕНТАРІ • 313

  • @rubabbaly
    @rubabbaly 3 роки тому +107

    How lucky your daughter is.
    I always wonder because I know this pain of forced marriages.
    Allaah sb betiyon k naseeb ache kre.

  • @alvirasayyed2355
    @alvirasayyed2355 3 роки тому +53

    Kitne ache baap hai ye...allah aisi soch sare parents ki karde

  • @_zoii_16
    @_zoii_16 5 місяців тому +14

    Currently facing this 😭 my mom has become soo rude she even don’t talk to me they are forcing me torturing me soo bad my mental health is not good plz make dua for me 😭😭

    • @AamirKhan-ez5ud
      @AamirKhan-ez5ud 2 місяці тому +2

      You should never ever surrender to anybody and marry for the sake of your parents, you have free will, don't obey your parents or anyone in this case . If you marry against your will or marry somebody bcz of any pressure, I think you're only responsible. Allah swt ne hmein aazaad paida kya h , maa baap ko khuda banana band karein. Aese parents ki baaton me hargiz nhi aana chahiye, A muslim can't accept such marriage. Sirf dua ke sahare na rahein, action leina zaruri h , bager action ke dua ki koi hesiyat nhi h

    • @TheLearners348
      @TheLearners348 29 днів тому +1

      I've been through this too since last 2 years.

    • @mashalmaryam5209
      @mashalmaryam5209 14 днів тому

      Hey. How are things now for you?

    • @TheLearners348
      @TheLearners348 14 днів тому

      @@mashalmaryam5209 not better

  • @Summy_001
    @Summy_001 Рік тому +21

    I've been forced twice into nikkah w/o consummation at the age of 19 which both led to a divorce Im Now 29 . Ive lost my golden years and lost hope overall. Please pray for me for a better future .

    • @zainabbaloch8505
      @zainabbaloch8505 Рік тому +2

      Allah hapke lye hasanyan peda kare. I will pray.

    • @sanadiaries8161
      @sanadiaries8161 9 місяців тому +1

      Im sorry you went through this Allah ap pr rehm krei

  • @mahinaasf4063
    @mahinaasf4063 2 роки тому +37

    I cried at this. 😭😭😭😭 I wish every parent could understand this.

  • @KidsTime722
    @KidsTime722 3 роки тому +148

    I was forcefully married... still in so much pain .... please pray for me

    • @jabiryaqub8744
      @jabiryaqub8744 3 роки тому +23

      So sad to hear ....... I can understand your pain 😥.... May Allah bless you and give you patience.... YOU had the right to say ' No ' .... you should have done that...... Anyway may be you were pressurized and had no choice other than that...... But now you can cancel the marriage....... You have been given the right to cancel the marriage by Islam... So you should move to a court for dissolution....but I guess most girls don't have resources for it .... And they also remain silent for their parents so called ' honor ' and to avoid cruel society that will make their lives even more difficult if they do so..... At the end it is hard for a woman to live in such a society..... EDUCATION is the only solution for this....... We need to educate people that it's wrong to force girl / boy in a marriage which she / he dislikes . You can't force girl to sleep with a person that is disliked by her ... Just a simple thing that most people don't understand .... CONSENT should be taken ..... It's necessary in Islam for marriage ....
      Without it Marriage is void.... But bitter reality is most people just ignore it.... 😥
      It is also mentioned in AHADITH....
      لا تنکح البکر حتی تستاذن.......... ( Bukhari : 5136 )
      " A virgin should not be given in marriage except after her permission / consent "....... Same goes for a matron......
      But most people just claim to be Muslims but don't really follow Islam .... They just accept those ahadith that suits their nature and ignore others..... HYPOCRISY tho!
      You should also try to convince your parents for marriage cancellation.... Show them AHADITH that it's wrong...... Such a marriage is void in Islam ... Maybe they become able to accept their mistake........

    • @KidsTime722
      @KidsTime722 3 роки тому +14

      It's been 6 years of marriage... having two kids..... from 6 years im going through severe depression..true I've no resources and its hard to give proper sexual pleasure to my husband. No one can understand this panic situation. I feel like I've lost my mind ... i keep on asking every second person how can i make this marriage a pleasure... my

    • @jabiryaqub8744
      @jabiryaqub8744 3 роки тому +6

      @@KidsTime722 Yeah I can understand...... It's difficult for you to fulfill your husband desires... Very difficult and painful indeed...... You said you have children...... So look upon your children... Try to focus on them merely..... You have to live for them.... If something happens to you what trauma will they go through?? So Think about that..... Think about your children... Maybe your anxiety, depression become low if you do so ..... Lastly pray to Allah for your husband's guidance and to give you internal satisfaction...... Only Allah can help you.... Trust in Him without losing hope.... And it's not your fault.... Don't demoralize yourself .....
      There is a Dua that I would recommend.. Try this..... Read this frequently....
      اللھم رحمتک ارجو فلا تکلنی الی نفسی طرفۃ عین واصلح لی شانی کلہ لا الہ الا انت ....(Abu Dawood : 5090)
      ترجمہ:
      " اے اللہ میں تیری رحمت چاہتی ہوں , تو مجھے ایک لمحہ بھی نظر انداز نہ کر , اور میرے سارے کام درست فرما دے, تیرے سوا کوئی معبود نہیں "
      Be strong.... may Allah turn your hell life into Heaven ...

    • @jabiryaqub8744
      @jabiryaqub8744 3 роки тому

      @@KidsTime722 Ameen Jazakallah ... Can you tell me that.....Do you live Pakistan ? If you don't mind...!

    • @KidsTime722
      @KidsTime722 3 роки тому

      @@jabiryaqub8744 ... from where you are sir?

  • @NinjaBaji
    @NinjaBaji 3 роки тому +30

    Your daughters would be so lucky MashaAllah MashaAllah

  • @PyaamEQuran
    @PyaamEQuran 2 роки тому +28

    This made me cry as i am in this situation😭😭😭😭😭

    • @blink439
      @blink439 2 роки тому +4

      Don't worry allah will get you out of this situation insAllah
      We will all pray for you

    • @PyaamEQuran
      @PyaamEQuran 2 роки тому

      @@blink439 thanks

    • @blink439
      @blink439 2 роки тому +1

      @@PyaamEQuran btw ur channel is amazing mashAllah

    • @PyaamEQuran
      @PyaamEQuran 2 роки тому

      @@blink439 share to more

    • @zainabbaloch8505
      @zainabbaloch8505 Рік тому +1

      Main dua karon ghe hapke lye. 1 year have been. Ab kese hain?

  • @taihoorali4047
    @taihoorali4047 2 роки тому +22

    I wish all parents could listen to this and understand it. May Allah gives us what we want. Ameen

  • @areebanaseer8666
    @areebanaseer8666 2 роки тому +21

    My sister is going through a hard time since my parents have been looking for her rishta. The amount of scarcasm and emotional blackmailing is just sad. I feel so bad for her and the same thing is going to happen to me after her.
    Meri khaala jab bhi humse milti hain ye humain samjhane ki koshish karti hain k aurat ka struggle karna to must hai. Unhoun ne mushkil zindagi guzari, meri mama ne bhi aur bhi jis aurat ko dekho usne asaan zindagi nhi guzaari to aap log bhi tayar raho.
    Ye baat itni ghalat lagti hai mujhe. Sarasar dogla pan. Apne baitoun ko to ye log nhi sikha rhe k jab tumhari shaadi karwaen ge adjust karlena thora, sab ko karna parta hai. Jab ye sawaal poocho to foran defensive hojate hain k ab aap compare to na karo na.

  • @atharshaista6493
    @atharshaista6493 3 роки тому +10

    Allah aisi khwateen ko aql de jo betiyon ki dushman bani hui hain.

  • @shahinperween8356
    @shahinperween8356 4 місяці тому +9

    My marriage is being forced please dua kre ki na ho ruk jaye ye meri sadi please 🥺

    • @tariqjia2786
      @tariqjia2786 2 місяці тому

      Hello sister
      Are you ok?
      Hope the situation is better now

    • @Pearl-nd5gs
      @Pearl-nd5gs Місяць тому

      Aameen

  • @toobaasif3396
    @toobaasif3396 День тому

    Kash mere parents ap ki trha strong and supportive hoty. Im literally crying. They are emotionally and non verbally pressuring me. Im depressed and asking Allah

  • @kiran_bokhari
    @kiran_bokhari 11 місяців тому +12

    This made me cry. I rewatched this video multiple times. I wish if we had understanding parents. My mother says marriage is compulsory, marriage is wajib and marriage is farz. She has zero understanding of Islamic rules and laws when it comes to marriage and agreement of a woman when it comes to marriage. My mother always says, "Larkiyon ko kon poochta hy Nikkah ke waqt? Bas unka Nikkah kar dia jata hy beshak unki marzi ho ya na ho." My mother calls herself my vali since the day my father died. My mother calls me "Nafarman aulaad" whenever I say that currently I'm not ready to get married.

    • @ubaidmir5829
      @ubaidmir5829 10 місяців тому +1

      Same situation I m not yet married.l can't bear this painful lyf

    • @muqaddashabib7937
      @muqaddashabib7937 8 місяців тому

      Many heartfelt prayers for you, sister! May Allah make it easy for you. Ameen. ❤️

    • @ubaidmir5829
      @ubaidmir5829 8 місяців тому

      I m too much tired I want to sleep and never wake up.

    • @Dr.Manahilnisa
      @Dr.Manahilnisa 7 місяців тому

      ​@@ubaidmir5829I also...😭😭😭

    • @tariqjia2786
      @tariqjia2786 2 місяці тому

      😣😣
      Same here
      My mother says that more than the girl’s consent it is the wali’s consent that matters the most. And the most surprising thing is that she reads the Quran and also watches lectures to understand it. Still she is ignorant in this aspect 😣😔

  • @neel2844
    @neel2844 3 роки тому +15

    Has been going through the same scenario and Allah send this video as a reminder..please dua mai yadd rkhai..going through very tough times..

    • @zainabbaloch8505
      @zainabbaloch8505 Рік тому +1

      Ab kese hain? 🥺 I will pray. Insha Allah

    • @neel2844
      @neel2844 Рік тому +2

      @Zainab baloch Thank you for asking..Alhamdulillaah better but definitely need your prayers..Jazakallah sister..i pray the best for you!

  • @wajihahaider5801
    @wajihahaider5801 3 роки тому +6

    Allah tallah har orat ko esa bap shohar or beta ata kary

    • @hifzaasad3462
      @hifzaasad3462 Рік тому

      Hmain apny beton ki aesi tarbiyat karny ki zarorat hy..taa k kal wo achay bhai,baap aur shohar banen

  • @yasmeenfazikazi4092
    @yasmeenfazikazi4092 2 роки тому +9

    I know a lady who was reluctantly married due to intence pressure of parents and friends. Her husband was quite abusive and harsh. She had 3 sons. Later her parents died and her husband died. She pulled her out only due to her children. Now she lives happily with her son's
    Girls are not immature in their life so guidance of parents for marrying them is a must.

  • @hyderlashkari3724
    @hyderlashkari3724 3 роки тому +10

    Urdu medium wali students k liye rahmat hogi

  • @thelostsoul8045
    @thelostsoul8045 2 роки тому +42

    Your daughters are lucky Mashallah..... Most parents emotionally blackmail us to get into marriages which were not at all ready for... I am personally terrified of marriages but my parents think its mandatory to get a girl married... Im okay with not getting married and my parents don't understand that at all.... Its a task to handle myself, let alone a guy whom ill have to marry.... Adding to the fact that many people are so greedy and Judgy and so culture oriented..... Ive heard so many of my friends say... This is life... Have to bear with the judgement.... But why?... What gives them the authority to come and see a girl and judge them.... Its almost like window shopping.....
    I said yes to seeing some proposals just for the sake of my parents and to not hear any backlash from them... But I'd rather die than get married.... I dont like this at all.... And noone listens..
    Islam is a beautiful religion..... So many rights... Such beautiful verses.... Every instruction given so beautifully..... And yet due to the toxic cultures that people have created... It just feels like a fairytale....
    Ya Allah please enlighten our parents!

    • @samreenkhan7724
      @samreenkhan7724 2 роки тому +1

      Yes

    • @farahuzma3920
      @farahuzma3920 Рік тому +1

      Same position

    • @fariadeel6677
      @fariadeel6677 Рік тому +1

      Every word of yours is true.

    • @seemasen7527
      @seemasen7527 Рік тому +3

      @The Lost Soul
      I can completely feel you sister, i know as I'm going through absolutely same trauma right now !!

    • @fariadeel6677
      @fariadeel6677 Рік тому

      @@SonofSolomon don't mix culture and religion these two are different from each another, culture doesn't have anything to do with the religion.

  • @FarazAhmed-fp1sw
    @FarazAhmed-fp1sw 2 роки тому +4

    Truly said...forced marriages always have a tragic end......

  • @maryamashfaq7342
    @maryamashfaq7342 3 дні тому

    Such a wonderful person and father brother.😊

  • @a.noorzad2779
    @a.noorzad2779 2 роки тому +6

    What a father 🥺♥️

  • @SidratulMuntaha-zk8zc
    @SidratulMuntaha-zk8zc 10 місяців тому +4

    Amazing MashaAllah ❤ May Allah bless Ustad Nouman Ali Khan immensely in this duniya and akhirah Aameen ❤

  • @maryamcoco3683
    @maryamcoco3683 Рік тому +7

    what a beautiful message ustad you are amazing i feel like crying i wish parents were this understanding in south asian countries as well it is so dissapointing that parents feel that cultural pressures and norms are the islamic way they are NOT. i wish and pray that parents value their childrens opinion and not be mad at them for making their own choices and not force them to marry someone they dont want to

  • @abidamazhar4768
    @abidamazhar4768 3 роки тому +15

    MashaAllah very right
    U r surely u r the best personality in the world for promoting and information of Quran to us .God bless u.ameen

  • @amanifatima1402
    @amanifatima1402 3 роки тому +5

    Sir NAK is Gem❤
    BarakALLAH feekum✔️

  • @ayeshakidwai1584
    @ayeshakidwai1584 2 місяці тому +2

    Pray for me , I'm under so much pressure , my parents are forcing me to marry someone i don't like , they keep bringing proposals every 2,3 days sending my photo even though they know i cover myself, I'm not ready for marriage. Now the suicidal thaught are coming in my mind.

  • @tanzeelashabbir8581
    @tanzeelashabbir8581 2 роки тому

    Amazing bayan

  • @sheebanaaz8425
    @sheebanaaz8425 3 роки тому +9

    Sir JazakAllah Khair for beautiful information about rights in our Deen.. thanks

  • @affi8127
    @affi8127 2 роки тому +3

    Crying..........😢💔
    It's 1 am , thinking the same.

  • @saharafzal5721
    @saharafzal5721 Рік тому +3

    Your daughter is really lucky MASHALLAH ❤️

  • @ezazikrea3132
    @ezazikrea3132 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing this in Urdu.

  • @Sidrayskitchen
    @Sidrayskitchen 3 роки тому +12

    Got so peacefull vibes to hear this all. 🙏

  • @tabassumjahan1415
    @tabassumjahan1415 3 роки тому +4

    ماشاء اللہ اللہ آپ کو جزائے خیر دے آمین

  • @monasaeon1558
    @monasaeon1558 2 роки тому +3

    Asak everyone,pl pray that we sisters get married soon InshAllah without any hardship,difficulty and to the person we would always be happy with.JazakAllah

  • @forthesakeofhumanity8337
    @forthesakeofhumanity8337 2 роки тому +3

    Kyu Khuda ko manne wale parents hi Khuda ki hukm ka inkaar karte hai because of so called society

  • @jahan02zeenat
    @jahan02zeenat 3 роки тому +3

    Assalamualaikum your lectures are excellent.

  • @ruqayyahanif6969
    @ruqayyahanif6969 2 роки тому +5

    Mashallah your daughter is really lucky to have you...
    But what you explained is happening in my life ,please pray for me that allah help ....all of my family is forcing me....

  • @iqraarain2226
    @iqraarain2226 Рік тому +3

    I wish every parent need to understand this :(

  • @quoteshunter8189
    @quoteshunter8189 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much dis really helped 🥺💖

  • @samreenkhan7724
    @samreenkhan7724 2 роки тому

    May allah bless you aameen.
    Very informative

  • @Muslimah-Pakistani
    @Muslimah-Pakistani 3 роки тому

    JazakALLAH!

  • @sMM792
    @sMM792 2 роки тому +3

    Your daughter is lucky

  • @shehnazansari5778
    @shehnazansari5778 2 роки тому +1

    May Allah gives u long healthy life n gives u gd in this duniya n akhira as well,well done sir nouman.

  • @mssm2291
    @mssm2291 3 роки тому +1

    Subhan Allah
    Allah aisi soch sab ko de
    K hum sirf Allah ki property hain aur sirf usay hi jawab deh hain
    Likin agar insan k pass aisi positive minded loog nahi.. to ye Allah ka test hai apkay jannah me ranks barhany
    Is liye mayos aur pareshan nahi hona chaye
    Keep doing your best!

  • @abdulmajed7230
    @abdulmajed7230 3 роки тому

    Mashallah
    Very well explain
    Love from India

  • @saharafzal5721
    @saharafzal5721 Рік тому +2

    If only every parent thinks like ustaad Nauman Sahab❤️

  • @sMM792
    @sMM792 2 роки тому +2

    Kaash saare maa baap aise sochte

  • @RS-rc1gn
    @RS-rc1gn 2 роки тому

    Wah wah ohhh my God u made me relx soo much i m going through this now a days

  • @nazneenreyaz725
    @nazneenreyaz725 10 місяців тому

    Allah subhanau talla hame hidayat aur illm ki taufeeq de islam ki khubsurti is duniya main hamesha qayam rahe

  • @touseefkhan7971
    @touseefkhan7971 3 роки тому

    Subhanallah..

  • @akhan534
    @akhan534 8 місяців тому +1

    You're absolutely right but parents don't understand 😭 meri shadi ko 3.5 year's hogaye ulad bhi ni b and now I'm gonna deep stress and now again my family blames me 😭

  • @zarinamallick7866
    @zarinamallick7866 Рік тому

    Allah har beti ko ap jaise baap de khush kismat hn apki beti jise ap jaise baap mila bad kismat me hun jo zulm ki shikaar hun

  • @nia_khan0164
    @nia_khan0164 2 роки тому +2

    Allah aisa samjhne wala baap sab aulaad ko de .. Aameen🥲🥲
    Parents don't understand ki ye sb zidd kitna dipressive hota h... Saas nai aati... Aisa lagta h ki q hai hum... Unhe apni beti ki khushi se zyada apni khushi dikhti h.... Allah sab ladkiyo bacchiyo k naseeb acche kare unhe depression se bachaye unhe takleefo se bachaye...

    • @anushaiqbal8243
      @anushaiqbal8243 2 роки тому +2

      Kasam khuda Ki jab jab us Shaqs ka Nam Apne Nam ke sath sunti hu
      Lagta Hai SaaS ruk kar dum ghut jayega

    • @nia_khan0164
      @nia_khan0164 2 роки тому +1

      @@anushaiqbal8243 I can understand your situation sister.... May allah help u with Any kind of help you seek from him.. he is the greatest nd nothing is impossible for him... Allah aapko saare jahan ki khushiya de or sabar de nd great reward de.. Aameen

  • @anwaranwar-zl5nv
    @anwaranwar-zl5nv Рік тому

    Beautiful

  • @poopingbirds509
    @poopingbirds509 2 роки тому +2

    Im in same situation rn i i wish my mother could understand this

  • @merush4408
    @merush4408 10 місяців тому

    this gonna make me cry.....

  • @nazneenreyaz725
    @nazneenreyaz725 10 місяців тому

    Ameen

  • @zaidqamar1957
    @zaidqamar1957 3 роки тому +5

    1st comment love you ustad
    Kuch new series urdu me laae .. my mother dont know English

  • @asmakausar7877
    @asmakausar7877 2 роки тому

    Allah aap ko jazaye kher de nomaan

  • @blochkousar5247
    @blochkousar5247 11 місяців тому +2

    Same Mera nikah force KRwaya gya r ab MN AK nafsiati mareeza bnn chuki hu

  • @rahatirshad4180
    @rahatirshad4180 7 місяців тому

    I wish my mother would had understand this yrs back...all the years till today I & my children suffered that wrong forced decision!

  • @KimCecilia
    @KimCecilia 10 місяців тому +4

    I said this to my parents that I don't want to marry my cousin but still they are asking the reason why? He's good enough for you. I don't no why they are not understanding me that I can't start this marriage relationship with him... Just because of that I am suffering from parental depression. They are saying that I'll be happy. How can I'll be happy when I don't want to accept other person. This is so unfair. But they are keep saying that we're your parents can't you do this marriage for us, don't we have any right on you and this is the last option. And they are also saying that I can't marry someone out of my family. Even though I don't have any love one... But still it's my right to say no if I don't want to marry someone but parents don't understand. They always say that elders made this decision you can't say no.

    • @ubaidmir5829
      @ubaidmir5829 9 місяців тому +1

      This made me cry. I m too much tired. No one is going to help me. My family taunts me. Why I m alive why don't I die. Depression has completely affected me. I don't like the guy. I want to escape from this marriage. No one understand me. Everyone says me if u will break this no one can accept u where will u go. I don't know rgt and wrong decision. I m fed up 😫😫😫💔💔😫

    • @jameelasyedmohammed592
      @jameelasyedmohammed592 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@ubaidmir5829are u married , may Allah make it easy for u , put ur trust in Allah bcz Im also going through the same situation💔🥺

    • @jameelasyedmohammed592
      @jameelasyedmohammed592 8 місяців тому +1

      Don't accept untill u r ready to marry him ur parents may be angry with u fr a while bt ur the one whose is going to suffer in ty end . u have every right to say no .

    • @ubaidmir5829
      @ubaidmir5829 7 місяців тому

      ​@@jameelasyedmohammed592my family members gave me final warning u have to accept. I can't break anyone's heart especially my parents. Sucide is my final step. Bcx I try my best no one understands me. I m really fed up in this world.

  • @rukhsanakhalid8556
    @rukhsanakhalid8556 Місяць тому +1

    .many examples of emotionally pressures on girls for mismatched marriages in our culture.

  • @Anumomo19
    @Anumomo19 2 роки тому +7

    I was also married forcefully to a person I dislike. It has been 1 year of my marriage but I still dislike him and I'm going through worst situation. If i want separation the ppl say log kya kahein ge and Allah will punish me in akhira I'm badly stuck plz pray for me😢

    • @fatimaurooj4691
      @fatimaurooj4691 2 роки тому +1

      Allah apko kabhi saza ni de gay sis ye logo ki batain hain bas jo zaleel karti hain bakwaas karte hain log

    • @therealfact6511
      @therealfact6511 Рік тому +1

      Nabi pak S.A.W. ne aisy nikkah invalid karar diay pehla hi,Tow apko Allaj ki taraf se tow koi masla ne hoga, insha Allah

    • @dreamer899
      @dreamer899 Рік тому

      Exact same situation hai meri 😢

    • @therealfact6511
      @therealfact6511 Рік тому

      @@dreamer899 Allah ki pak zaat apki madad karey,Help those girls that are struggling before marriage to avoid this after marriage its difficult to turn back

    • @rabiqarazzaq5745
      @rabiqarazzaq5745 Рік тому

      Same situation

  • @far_casm3937
    @far_casm3937 3 роки тому

    please give detailed talk on this topic.

  • @mrsfayyaz9484
    @mrsfayyaz9484 3 роки тому +3

    Aoa,sir urdu lecture kb start karin gy

  • @rakay130
    @rakay130 3 роки тому +1

    I saw all this in my family so so painfull whole life gets terrible

  • @hyderlashkari3724
    @hyderlashkari3724 3 роки тому +2

    Grammar k lectures urdu m bhi translate kar dijiye

  • @khanusuf6245
    @khanusuf6245 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @shahistamufhaqam1748
    @shahistamufhaqam1748 7 місяців тому

    Assalaam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarkatuhu

  • @skyhawk9429
    @skyhawk9429 3 місяці тому

    Jazak Allah Khair 🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰 10/Mar/24 😍😍😍

  • @nishatmozumdar1377
    @nishatmozumdar1377 9 місяців тому

    I wish i have a father like Him

  • @khushi2540
    @khushi2540 2 роки тому +5

    Since 5 years I was trying to find out about this. Islam sach me sukoon hai aur islam me jo right diye hai ek ladki ko, so that evry grl should proud to be a Muslim. Maine bachpan se shadi k aise aise khatarnaak situations dekhe hai.. Ab mra mann kabi nhi razi hota shadi k liye. Mujhe kabi kisi ka hona hi nhi hai. But mre family pressurise😖krte hai mujhe shadi k liye. I'm suffering from some emotional issues. Mra mind mre saat khatarnaak games khelta hai . Nd I knw ki wo satan hai. Mai phas chuki hu. I'm trying hard to b happy nd think positive to pull out my self from this negativity but satan is draging me down. Mujhe suicide k thoughts atee hai. I'm really loosing myself.

    • @ayesharafique6226
      @ayesharafique6226 2 роки тому +2

      I am in the same boat. I have clearly told them I donot want to marry anyone right now. Facing emotional blackmailing with unemployment. May Allah ease and end this trial for us soon, with Afiyah. Ameen

    • @faridaanjum723
      @faridaanjum723 2 роки тому +3

      @@ayesharafique6226 pray Tahajjud and ask Allah for help

    • @ruksananajmi6957
      @ruksananajmi6957 2 роки тому +1

      Go to some Islamic counseling center. May Allah help you

    • @ukiyo12
      @ukiyo12 Рік тому +1

      Same ... Muhjy bhi bhen!! Dil xhahta Allah Tallah k pass Chali jaoun
      Pr yeh soch k ruk jati duniya ki chkr may main Haram mout nhi marsakti larungi akhir saans tk qk Jan Allah ki di hui jb us ne likha hoga tb khud ajaigi AP bhi apne apko protect karti rehain aise thoughts SE guzar jaiga sh

    • @roshnipraveen8901
      @roshnipraveen8901 4 місяці тому

      Aap abhi Kaisi h aapne shadi krli kyaa?

  • @shahistamufhaqam1748
    @shahistamufhaqam1748 7 місяців тому +1

    Yeh normal chiz hai humhare mashre mein shayad sadiya lag jaye ise badalne mein

  • @Foodie_Engineer
    @Foodie_Engineer Рік тому +1

    Waldain zbrdasti apni marzi hm py musalat krna chahaty hn zara b nahi sochte wo agr hmy palte hn to hm py hmari life py pura haq smjhne lagte hn ☹️

  • @abgraphics_
    @abgraphics_ 8 місяців тому

    I'm facing that situation

  • @MadhoKhan
    @MadhoKhan 3 місяці тому

    Kitnae achae insan hae ap Masha Allah....ye qarb hae ...jis mae mae jal rae hu 9 saal sae do bachae hae par mera wajood jalta hae is rishte mae....dor dor tak koi sawab nae an tu maa hu rahna hae ...par bht mushkil hae

    • @tariqjia2786
      @tariqjia2786 2 місяці тому

      May Allah have mercy on you 😣
      Please recite Istaghfar excessively! Also recite prophet yunus dua
      “La ilaha illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu min al-zalimin”
      Recite both of them 5000-10000 times daily. InshaAllah help will come from our Lord.
      Kasrat se istaghfar or hazrat yunus ki dua parhen! Allah asani karen gen inshaAllah

  • @m.ahmedgujjar4728
    @m.ahmedgujjar4728 3 роки тому

    Asslamo Alikum

  • @annierajpar8266
    @annierajpar8266 Рік тому

    Kaash sab maa baap aise ho

  • @nimranisar433
    @nimranisar433 2 роки тому

    Please give me the full link video

  • @warishanadeem1573
    @warishanadeem1573 Рік тому +1

    Please pray for me. My parents are trying to get me married forcefully.

    • @zainabbaloch8505
      @zainabbaloch8505 Рік тому

      What happened now ? Current situation, I will pray for you sister🙏😥

  • @Hecanburninhell
    @Hecanburninhell Рік тому

    Can I please get link to full lecture please

  • @arbazkhan6813
    @arbazkhan6813 8 місяців тому

    Mashallha nikah pasand ka hi hona cahiye chahe wo jaat ka ho ya na ho ya ger biradri ka ho ya na ho

  • @Emaan006
    @Emaan006 2 роки тому +1

    Please tell me the complete video topic,. please 😭😭😭

  • @Islaamandme22523
    @Islaamandme22523 3 роки тому +8

    Sir you are absolutely right but in this case the girl is refusing bcoz she saw her parents quarrelling all the time.so I think she should be given right councelling that not all couple have this problem as she is not like her parents
    Jazakallah khairan katheera 👍

    • @haloeffect.3561
      @haloeffect.3561 3 роки тому

      Muje khud ko anxiety hai is shaadi wGera h naam se. Kyun k jaisa mein chahti hoon muje waise rishta nai milta mere ghar wale pehle bohot force karte the. Aur ab vo baat b karte h tou muje tension hota hai vo bohot zyada.. Meri age h hi gai h but muj3 anxiety bohot zyada 😔😔

    • @salihabholat6141
      @salihabholat6141 3 роки тому +1

      @@haloeffect.3561 behen aap please woh kare jisse aap ko khushi milay, please apne family aur logo ke batao pe na ai. Agr aap ready nhi hai shadi ke liye aur agr aap nhi krna chahti tho its okay. Wese bhi shadi krna farz nhi hai, sirfe sunnat hai bss. Aap please woh kare jo aap khush ho aur jisse aap ko sukoon milay. I understand ke bht kam rishtay hai jo waqai ache ho. Tho apne maa baap ke batao pe na ai, aap woh kare jo aap chahti hai. Q ke shadi krke bhi ladkiyan bht sad hoti hai aur depression ka shikaar hojaati hai

    • @haloeffect.3561
      @haloeffect.3561 3 роки тому

      @@salihabholat6141 mera aur tumara naam same hai. Thanks dear but hota kya hai na ki Allah ki azmaish b bohot hai. Bas dua karo ki mujhe behtarin insaan mile jaisa m chahti hoon.

    • @salihabholat6141
      @salihabholat6141 3 роки тому

      @@haloeffect.3561 hmmm ye bhi baat hai, inshaAllah aap ko sahi husband milay jo responsible ho, respectful ho, deen daar ho, aur piyaar krne wala ho, aameen

    • @haloeffect.3561
      @haloeffect.3561 3 роки тому +1

      @@salihabholat6141 ameen may Allah bless you.

  • @misscrezy1546
    @misscrezy1546 3 роки тому +2

    Sir education ki demand krte h tb bhi nhi mante log 😢
    Education ki important bta dijiye

  • @RS-rc1gn
    @RS-rc1gn 2 роки тому +1

    I listen this bayyan daillyyy plz sir rp me i m facing the same prob Aalah apko bot jaza dy ammen

    • @therealfact6511
      @therealfact6511 Рік тому

      Please himmat se kaam low,jo nahi pasand mat karo,shadi sirf function mai baithnay ka nam nahi,azab ban jati hai Zindagi aisy banday kay sath take stand even it is extremely difficult

  • @jeonbts
    @jeonbts 4 місяці тому +2

    Ye log zabardasti Shaadi Kara k side par ho jaate h Sirf apni izzat k liye ...agay larki jaane saari Zindagi.....bakwaas ...

  • @palvishajamshaid6911
    @palvishajamshaid6911 2 роки тому

    Ye full lecture kahn hai??

  • @missaissshhh7252
    @missaissshhh7252 2 роки тому +1

    Kaash main apki beti hoti🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @ZoyaKhan-vs5qz
    @ZoyaKhan-vs5qz 11 днів тому

    Mera bii nikkah hwa hai.....but ruksati ni hwii hai mujy ya larka ni pasand ta but muj py pressure dala giya or ab mera dill ni lag mai ruksatii ni karna chahtii ho😭😭😭😭😭😭😭plzzzz Allah merii sun lay merii ami bii merii ni sunn

  • @sumbulzehra9608
    @sumbulzehra9608 8 місяців тому

    I was very unhappy during marriage..even after forced marriage. My inlaws were worst at me but my siblings and parents still forced me to live there

  • @anonymoususer.84
    @anonymoususer.84 Рік тому +2

    Please pray for me. I am being forced into marrying one of my baba's first cousins. My baba doesn't have his own brothers so all my life, since childhood, I've considered him my chacha (uncle). It is so uncomfortable for me. I feel disgusted when I even think about him in any other way except for him being my uncle. I don't want to marry there at all but I am being forced. Nobody cares about my consent. I am being emotionally blackmailed. If you're reading this, please pray for me. I really hope that my parents realize how uncomfortable things are for me and call off the engagement.

    • @illuminatingknowledge001
      @illuminatingknowledge001 Рік тому

      I too faced same situation. That night was a nightmare for me. I'm only 18 and that man they were trying to force me to marry with is in hi 30s or 40s. Just because he's well settled and they don't care about my education or my age. I immediately refused, faced immense backlash from my own parents. They emotional blackmailed and manipulated me. Still I took a stand and Alhamdullilah by the will of Allah that time has passed. I pray for you that may Allah help you and keep making dua. I did that too. InShaAllah everything will be sorted out.

    • @zainabbaloch8505
      @zainabbaloch8505 Рік тому +1

      @@illuminatingknowledge001 Assalamualaikum , how are you sister?

    • @zainabbaloch8505
      @zainabbaloch8505 Рік тому +1

      I will pray for you. Still now how the situation sister. Peace be upon you.

    • @illuminatingknowledge001
      @illuminatingknowledge001 Рік тому

      @@zainabbaloch8505 alhamdullilah it's fine and better. Allah can move the mountains and soften the hearts. He is indeed worthy of every praise. JazakAllahu khairun for your Dua and concern sis.

    • @zainabbaloch8505
      @zainabbaloch8505 Рік тому +1

      @@illuminatingknowledge001 Aameen sum Aameen. I am grateful. May Allah bless you. I am gonna pray for you always. Through the video I come to know that I am not alone😭. I need prayers too. 🙏

  • @hyderlashkari3724
    @hyderlashkari3724 3 роки тому

    Bayyeniah dreams k lectures

  • @tahseenmarium9242
    @tahseenmarium9242 10 місяців тому

    1:04

  • @sundusfatima9408
    @sundusfatima9408 2 роки тому +1

    Where can i talk to you im in a serious situation

  • @Cookingwithsaman1
    @Cookingwithsaman1 3 роки тому +3

    Aj kal larkiyan kyaa larkun sy b zberdasti nikah krwayen jty han or 2 zimdgiyan tbah ki jati han

  • @theresahossain7020
    @theresahossain7020 2 роки тому +2

    Alslam brother myself and my husband was married for 17 years with children very happy together ❤ and his hole family over in Bangladesh and uncles and anti made my husband marry a girl behind my back 3 years ago and keeped her over in his mother's house so I never find out I only found out 2 months ago it's pulled are marriage and family apart now we no longer are married I left him for all his betrayal and lies 💔 💙 ❤

    • @maryamtahir2182
      @maryamtahir2182 Рік тому +2

      I feel so sorry for you.May Allah bless you insha'Allah I will pray for you sister 💓🌸

  • @asfashaikh4992
    @asfashaikh4992 Рік тому +1

    Mujhy bi shadi nhi krni me prhna chahti ho mujhy dr banna hn lakin mere parents mujhy tuture krty hn kia kro me me boht perishan ho 😭