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Autism Home Safety For Kids
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- Опубліковано 20 сер 2019
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An autism home safety for kids tour...thing. This is how we have the house set up to keep Abbie safe. Hopefully some of these ideas can help you out as well.
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Poor Isaiah can never sneak out of the house without alarms going off, bells ringing and the app notifying his parents
He can get out through his window possibly
@Lily Hess I was assuming that his rooms window are not like his sisters room but I realized that his window is probably just like his sisters so she doesn't get out of his window.
@@daisychainmilk As I understood she won't even be able to go through her room's gate let alone go into her brother's room without him noticing she's climbing through _his_ window.
Well he shouldn't be sneaking out anyways 😂🤨
You can push those locking things in so you can open it all the way
My husband’s brother has autism, and he one time “baptized” their cat in their fish tank because their dad is a pastor and he wanted to be like his dad 😂 Poor cat was traumatized for life, but they had a lock on their fish tank from that point forward.
Kirby Vinson did the cat live?
Hybrid yes! She lives to be about 17 or 18! Just stayed away from him after that.
Kirby Vinson oh how amazing that the car lived but I’m sorry for your lost, But the cat survival skills are awesome
Ok, what kind of lock did they put on the fish tank?? I'm asking because my son is on the autism spectrum, and the reason why we haven't gotten him a fish tank is that he gets into them...
Heather Dewey Pettet let me ask them!
IMPORTANT!
I don't know if you realise but at some point during this video a portion your address is visible - really wish I knew how to put this privately, but i'm not going to time stamp for obvious reasons. I don't know if this is even an issue for you guys but I know it would be for me. Please like to they can see this comment. thanks.
message them on facebook and instagram as well
They have actually showed it already as well when they toured the home, its in a video. I sent a message but didnt get a reply. I’m sure they get many.
It's fixed yall
Mikka Smith I don't get that part since most ppl don't and they intentionally didn't before and even mentioned that fact. Another UA-camr I love won't even show exactly how her home Is layed out and the view from outside for exactly those reason the original comment said
Mikka Smith and safety although a huge reason wouldn't be the only reason for me,tons of super annoying ppl out there that truly mean no actual harm could become a nuisance real quick!! Lol
Oh goodness. I love the chimes on the doors. my only thought is that Isaiah will NEVER be able to sneak out! Haha.
Bahaha. I don't think he would sneak out anyway, but yeah, not a chance now! XD
I thought the same thing. But they seem nonchalant so maybe he’s lucky lol
One word. Window.
Gamer Kaxx totally a viable option. Depending on what window and where he wants to go!
He might go out his bedroom window on that roof.., lol. Oooo - I hope he doesn’t read that! 😱🤣🤣🤣
Abby:*watches vide*
Abby:*opens all secret locks*
Abby:hehe
Hehe
Priscilla grunting at the gate was too funny. Priscilla's too cute. 🤣
I know! I love how she dresses, I wish I could find out where she shops for plus size clothes, I'm almost the same size.
I recently watched your old house Abbie room tour. It is interesting to see the similarities and differences now that she is older.
The Wee Family I’m curious I have seen a few videos of yours do you use a few of these things for b?
@@Kcnbs4ever1 We do use some of the same things. We have exterior door and window chimes/alarms so we know if anything is opened. We use refrigerator lock and cabinet locks too. Rooms that she would be unsafe in, we have door knob covers that she has not figured out yet. We are always adjusting to keep things safe though. Example would be rearranging the upstairs living room because she would climb to unsafe places.
The Wee Family ty for answering my question I’m newer to your channel so I apologize for that I just was wondering I didn’t doubt ur safety for her or question it I just was curious
She dumps out the big dog food but leaves the dog's actual bowl alone! She sees the dog eating and must understand that's his food, and the rest is fair game! So sweet!
Asa, you are a gentleman and a scholar for muting "Alexa". You guys are so considerate.
Especially as that particular Alexa commend related to the security system setting. It's okay when he tells my Alexa to control lights or play music but very cool how he got his point across in silence for the security command. Nice!
Hey, my husband says that!! It's from a movie, I think.
@@thepettetfam4887 : I first came across the phrase when we read "The Catcher in the Rye" in school decades ago 🙃 It is not the first time that phrase was used, I think it's quite old. Many people know it from the TV Show "The Office".
Thank you for writing Alexa instead of saying her name 🙈 my Alexa is always listening haha! Great video 👍🏻💛
@@derekwarren4563 yes but it is not perfect. Mine does the same thing. It always happens when I watch this channel.
I learned about how Alexa saves everything you do, because she is listening. The amount of data stored about ourself on the internet is horrifying 😳 I guess it's handy though 😉
Trude I never worry about that because nothing in my life is interesting enough to flag lol. I used to put a cover over my laptop webcam too, then I realized that nothing really goes on in the view of my webcam except me eating cereal in bed while surfing the web.
Maria Wolterstorff I didn't care either until I saw the documentary made a little while ago - "black data". You should watch it 😳 I was terrified. Even though I've done nothing about it 🙈 it's more like they know where you are going, what you like, everything you do is saved and used against you. So, it doesn't really matter if you don't have anything to hide, it is just the thought that they actually save everything you do and say, and you know nothing about it. But Siri isn't better though 🙈 you should watch it. I think it was on Netflix if I remember correctly
We refer to ours as AL when we don't want it to respond. Makes it easier but it takes ppl a while to catch on haha
Can we just take a moment and appreciate Asa prancing around the pool?
The CC on this was amazing. "Asa panting" bwhahah
Y'all are just amazing! My little boy is 6 and he's been watching your videos with me and he absolutely loves Abigail! He's asked me several questions, like a curious child does and I've tried to explain to the best of my ability and with the knowledge y'all have taught me. He knows that nobody is the same, everyone is special in their own ways. He was born with a clubfoot so he's already experienced people asking questions and wondering what was "wrong" when he's had his cast and surgeries etc... So I'm trying to teach him that we just love and accept everyone no matter what!
This past Monday he started first grade, on Tuesday he had art class. When he got home he showed me what he made for Abby and it melted my heart!!! A puzzle piece! I shared the pic on Facebook but it wouldn't let me here! Thank you for everything y'all do and for raising awareness, y'all ARE making a difference!
Janna Smith ik that u are definitely from southwestern USA
Me and my sons dad have a tag system. When we are passing on responsibility of our son to each other we say "tag you're it" and make sure the other responds and acknowledges that they have him sonwe dont have those moments of "wait where is he?!" And we also taught our son to play land Marco/ Polo. When ever he hears us say Marco he says Polo so we know hes near and he knows he doesn't have to stop playing.
My brother doesn't have autism but if he did that wouldn't work for him because his is name is Marko, lol
We did this for our son for a while, but then people started yelling Polo! while we were out in public. So, now we use Peas and Carrots.
Be careful with the keyless entry! I didn't have my house key one day and the keyless entry faulted, leaving me locked out, and I had to break a window to get it. Might suggest hiding a key outside in case that happens.
Yess I was waiting for this comment. A friend of mine got locked out cause his died. 🤦🤦 Always have a key handy
Ooh, for mine it has a special lock if the thing fails or has low battery and won’t open. But mine beeps to let you know its low on batt (similar to a fire alarm but less annoying 😂), so we can change the battery.
@@liorlimjiexin4232 Yeah mine would beep for a low battery too but it just died died after I walked out and locked the door. Keypad would not work what so ever and my key was inside.
I hope they read this I didn’t even think about that
I am a lifeguard/ swim instructor. Your safety set up is awesome!!!
At the end when Asa was frolicking around the yard and pool in the security camera was so hilarious. Had me dying laughing. 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
Thank you so much, for making this video. My son is 6 an is autistic. He has eloped a lot of times and it is so stressful, this video is amazing and I am so happy. My son has issues with sleeping as well.
Holly leming what’s elope
Holly leming - I’m sending you a virtual hug for you and your son. I think you are a amazing mom and I’m glad this channel can help you. 😘
@@JanilexToribio when he runs away.
@@kaaaaaaaaaayl thank you 😀 I could use a hug.
Much love sent your way! Parenting is hard!! ❤️
I really enjoy how you understand your daughter and how kind you are.
Priscilla's little dance for the doorbell made me lol :)
I’m positive Abbie is my spirit animal... always hungry and doesn’t like walking down stairs without a rail to hold onto 😂
Friendly reminder from a SPed teacher not to imply someone with a disability is an animal
Ilona Ryan I really don’t think you understand the context of a spirit animal... all a spirit animal is is someone who’s personality represents your own. Was In no way implying she was an actual animal..
Y’all know Abbie so well she is in great hands with y’all.
I'm impressed, an integrated high/low tech system that is real world workable. Hard to outsmart a kid. Take care.
Hi i love your your videos they never fail to make me feel the message you are putting across
Joshua Chesterton they really do save a great deal of people a huge headache by sharing their experiences (so we can be more proactive) and with the little, incredibly useful gadgets they’ve found as a solution for us all.
Love that she stands at the door and signs, ”open.” My guy is 6’3 &1/2 we are so grateful he is not a runner.
Isaiah demonstrating the motion detector. 🤣
Oops, slowed down I see it was Asa. What can I say? I am old. Lol!
I thought it was Isaiah when he first showed the video. Lol. When he did the after the beep and played it longer I noticed it was Asa too. Lol!
my 14 year old son is on the ASD spectrum , he talks but has the cognative ability of an 8 year old , he has trouble sleeping too and he does this running beteen the fridge and stairs for ages every day , whooping , clapping , ect , ive just let him do it as he said he needs to , love your videos and Abbie
I work for CARD as a therapist and I always watch a video right before sessions and you guys just remind me how much I love what I do. I hope I get lucky and get to meet abbie some day!
This was super informative and a great demonstration on how everything works for Abbie. Those Fridge locks...we need one of those...I mean, I don't have my own Abbie, but I can't be trusted around cheese ;-)
Emma kidd... I love your comment it made me laugh out loud and made my day! ❤
Love it 😂
Don´t we all need one of those for that obvious reason?
Lol
Same
My daughter has the door chimes, the fridge lock, the door locks and also for the washer and dryer. My grandson is 6, non-verbal autism.. He is an escape artist.. I love watching your videos, when I see something that you have done for Abby, I call my daughter and tell her.. Thank you so much for your videos.. You have a beautiful family.. Love from Asheboro NC.
I have a 6 year old with autism level one. He is thankfully not an eloper because he is terrified to get lost. He does however really lack the awareness of danger. He also like Abbie wants to eat a million times a day. Love seeing your videos to give me helpful ideas with my son
Im a mom of 4. Two of which are diagnosed with asd. I never thought of a door chime and am going to totally install one. This was a great video and helped us think of things we may need in the future.
When you were describing Abby and her exterior door confusion it reminded me of playing a video game where there is a puzzle to get to the next area. No apparent directions, just switches to flip in the right order. 😂
Asa, I have to say, my favorite clips were those depicting you as the camera fairy. You have such flair! ☺️💜
Priscilla you’re the best 😂 I loved seeing you dance when you guys showed off your motion detector at the front door
I just love your channel. I worked with autistic kids for 11 years. There was no parent communication or anything like that. So, after much thought and prayer, I quit. It's parents like YOU who make it easy for the teacher. Never give up on Abbie, (I know you won't). And, never give up on each other.
Folks, this right here is the epitome of good parents. You clearly love your daughter so much. You have totally reinvented your home and changed the focus of your entire life for this child. Your love and your sacrifice is truly touching. Bless your family!
I knew you would get to it, you guys have been so busy. Thank you for doing this we appreciate it.
I’m 17 right now but back when I was a very young girl about 6 I loved to get into things especially my Mam’s glasses and her good pairs and I would snap and break them because I i seeked sensory input because of the way they opened and closed so she had to put a lock on each of her draws containing all of good products I don’t do that anymore but sometimes my sensory seeking does get the best of me but I don’t break anything anymore- all my love sent from Ireland 🇮🇪
This is what I meant by the pool not a safety thing but an avoidance mechanism to get out of doing things ...... love the videos
Im a single mom on the spectrum (high functioning) and my 6 yr old daughter is low functioning. I NEED all of these tools. Being a mom with autism who has a child also with autism is so hard. I love watching your channel. It helps both myself and my daughter.
Ok is it just me but Abbie looks exactly like “Christine” from “Simply Nailogical” ?!
Either way abbie is so beautiful and i honestly love you guys so freaking much. Such a great family environment for her 💓
Ive thought if that too!!
It's so cool to see your family get to move into a house that will help build Abby's future!
FYI, they do make cordless blinds, that do not have the cord on them. I got mine at Home Depot or Lowe's.
We have those gates for my dog and we’ve had them for like 7-8 years and it loosens? It gets easier to open them as the years have gone by, the top lock part loosens. I guess the plastic just sort of weakens? Anyways they’re great but they do wear down. (Also not comparing Abby to my dog, just that we have them for a different purpose)
My grade prep buddy when I was in year 6 was autistic and I wish I had this channel to help me know how to cater to their needs. Thank you for doing what you do!
I have been watching y'all's family for the last 3 months and I absolutely adore y'all and all y'all do for each other and especially Abbie!!! Congratulations on the new house it's beautiful!!!
I have been binge watching ALL (well most... Theres alot) of your videos recently. My son was recently diagnoses with autism level 3 and i find you videos not only informative, but so supportive and inspirational. I have had a youtube channel for 3 years, and have recently been inspired by you to raise awareness of autism and show the world my sons life! Thank you for being amazing and inspiring. I cant stop watching your videos.
I love your blouse. Where did you get it?You have great taste in clothes. Also, love the safety video. I have the same rule about swimming. No one swims alone.
I also think the outta sight,outta mind is so very true! You're both always on top of Abbie and the things to help get her safe. And even if you don't have a special needs child,this thing's can certainly be for Toddlers
FatheringAutism, I nanny and Gyro bowls have been an absolute lifesaver for me. The kid I nanny is 15 with severe nonverbal autism, and he absolutely loves his.
Also...for u parents with elopers...one thing they dont mention is the angel sense watch and or phone. U cant protect them outside the house. This does all these things basically but in a watch they wear. It gives u gps location and alerts phone if child is somewhere they arent supposed to be like if the bus were to drop her off aat wrong stop or she wandered off campus etc
We also have a smart doorbell, motion detectors & door sensors. So, so handy! We'll definitely be putting a lock on our pantry since our 3 year old ASD kiddo figured out how to open all my air tight oxo containers with rice & oats & what not 😒 thank you so much for the types & tour!
Hi there I just found your channel recommended from a friend. My 5 yr old is autistic and my 12 yr old was just diagnosed as I've been fighting for at least 2 to 3 years trying to get him diagnosed but because of age no one wanted to see him. Multiple teachers have said he slipped through the cracks. I love your family .
With the gate you can just pull up and they open. We have 2 and I just lift them up and they open
You guys are so awesome. Autism doesn’t affect my life intimately but I really love knowing that there are people like you out there. Your dedication to advocacy and awareness is so honorable. I need to get on your Patreon
This world needs more families like this! I see such an attack on the family these days the separation of man and wife and it's really heart warming to see how you guys work together and your kids are so lovely and seems so sweet.:-) I am a widow with 2 boys one of which is is a 13 year old high functioning autistic son and a younger 10 year old boy (undiagnosed but in therapy) they both struggle with sensory issues.
I don't see an attack on the family. I see single people (particularly single women) being attacked for choosing to remain single.
I have autism. Lucky for my parents I didn't need extra security when I was younger. I'm 20 years old by now. I grew up in a very safe neighbourhood. I live in The Netherlands.
What did you do for the fireplace to keep her from getting into the ashes and dirt again?
They cleaned it out and don't use it (it's just for decorative purposes now) 😊
Hey Asa, make sure that you do always carry a house key with you. My parents have those keypad locks on theirs, and they've had them go out on them once or twice. I went over there one time and couldn't get in the front door through the code to save my life. Thankfully, I did have a key, but it's always helpful to have a plan B!!
RainWanders yeah, and not hiding them outside in a fake rock, on a nail underneath a bench on the porch, etc where robbers and such people can easily spot them... haha, a lot of people do that. I never understand that.
So glad that you're doing this video because it will help so many families! I can relate so much to the mess that would exist if there wasn't a lock on the clothes closet. All the clothes on the floor every day without a lock!
I’m 26 (27 tomorrow) and I have Asperger’s. When I was a kid, I had an unwavering and dangerous obsession with water; it would override what little common sense I had.
I had to be watched like a hawk around water. Luckily, I have gained common sense. I still love water, but I also have danger awareness.
Asa so funny flitting around on the security camera
I’m glad I found this video! I’ve been binge watching you guys over almost the last month and one of my comments was safety with her cannon balling it to the pool and jumping in and taking off. 😊 even though your in the Tampa area, I work for a swim company where we teach babies, teens, children, and adults how to swim in the Pittsburgh area!! I love my job as a swim instructor, deck ambassador, and a lifeguard!❤️
Can we all just take a moment to appreciate the fact that Asa wrote out Alexa instead of saying it!? The real MVP is over here
Deanna Bennett prisla said it
The whole video was so great but I’d have to say my favourite part is Asa running around the pool! 😂😂
My youngest son who turned 17 in July. has ADHD and Aspergers syndrome. He too has sensory issues. He was in special education from preschool until 5th grade. He is in general education but gets an IEP once a year. Developmentally he is more like a kid that just turned 15. My son acted some like Abbie in your video when she was little. His speech came in a 4 and he was very hyperactive. He is still medication dependent. He still sleeps with a blanket from infancy but is able to do such things as mowing the lawn. My husband is teaching him how to drive. He starts drivers ed this fall. He has friends but mostly plays video games with them. My son loves the water too but we live in Michigan. My husband and I are older parents. Our first son was born in 1982.
Closer to the age of the two of you. My second son was born in 1986. Our baby the 17 year old, was born in 2002 when we were 45 and 43 years old. I got a lot of sensory ideas from your website. We no longer need to find ways to keep things out of his reach and he is independent and able to care for himself. He has come so far. He ran around just like Abbie in the brown sleeper. You guys have taught Abbie so much and her school is wonderful. I love watching your VLOG.
I LOVE it! The never swim alone rule!! Even if ur “able bodied”/“neurotypical”-AWESOME!! In Australia, pool fencing is mandatory-FYI😉
rachael james i’m not neurotypical oof ive swam alone few times but luckily nothing happened :)
With every video you teach me more awareness and open my eyes to so much. Thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us all.
The second you said Alexa, mine went off and I panicked and said NO STOP NOPE and she just said "I'm sorry, I don't know that" and I couldn't stop laughing. I almost said thank you for cutting out Alexa the first time but ya know haha
I just want to thank you for all the real life support you have shown. My husband and I found these videos and we can’t stress to you how alone we felt until now. Thank you
My son is what is considered a "wanderer" or "runner". He is going on 4 and i am in constant fear of him "getting out" of the safety net i have in place for him. Thank you for this video because it is very easy to feel like you are alone in some of these behaviors and fears for your child. The tips for safety are also very helpful.
Your family is so sweet. Thank you for sharing your experience with the world.
As an RN, we are constantly MacGyvering & I just love seeing how you all solve problems creatively.
200 likes, 0dislikes. Best ratio I’ve ever seen even compared to big time you tubers.
We had to put a slide chain lock on our daughters room door at night for safety. So she can open the door a couple inches and yell for us. Hotel door latch on rooms she is not allowed in works well except now at 14 yrs old she is tall enough to teach the top of the door. We do most of the same things. We have a magnetic lock alarm on every window and door that we activate at night as well.
Priscilla, your hair is FABULOUS in this video!
Can I just take a minute to cry about you guys being such AMAZING parents
Love this video. It is so informational for everyone. Love that you have the rule of no one in the pool with out someone else there, it is so important to have pool safety. I am not a strong swimmer so I would not want to be alone in the pool myself. Thank you for giving a look at you safety items.
I have an oven that locks automatically and you have to press specific buttons in a specific order to unlock it and use it
Same pool rule at my house, dont swim alone!
Same
Natasha B Very important rule to follow. In my neighbourhood, we always hear about drownings happening in the backyard pool.
Was doing my college assignment got a notification stopped doing work so I can see this video. I am so happy this is finally posted. I love your family 💙❤️ I hope Abby loves the house as much as I do.
Her dancing in the door bell tho😂😂😂
I’m 13 and perfectly fine and stuff and I still can’t open those weird annoying gates so thank you for the to tutorial on opening it
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Uhh ohh
We had to put alarms on the windows because our son DID learn how to open them. I was sick the bathroom one day while the kids were playing in their rooms when my doorbell started ringing frantically. The kids met me in the hall and I went downstairs to answer the door. My son had opened his window, pushed out the screen, and crawled out onto the roof! Really noisy alarms appeared all over our house later that day.
We also put a baby fence along our bedroom windows because the windows were floor to ceiling.
And, of course, the up high lock on the exit doors so our son couldn’t run down the street while I showered.
I was diagnosed with autism since I was four years old I’m 16 now we also put ring on her phone I have trouble learning skills but I do work for what I want luckily unlike Abby I still know what to eat and not eat, drink and not drink and take the right medicine I am still remembering these skills
. Don’t take food or drink without asking all though I know what kids are not supposed to eat but I forgot to ask sometimes
. Don’t argue with your parents
. Have respect
. Don’t go outside without asking
I have an electronic lock with keypad. BE AWARE that the keypad will NOT function once the battery gets very low or dies. You WILL need to use a key in that instance. Perhaps keep a key to that door in your vehicle or on your keychain or hidden somewhere on the property so that you and others can still get it when the electronic lock battery dies. Guess how I found out this fact? Yup, from getting locked out of my house.
Used to use the same lock you have on the fridge for my self contained classroom cabinets, especially for the cooking cabinet and snack cabinet. They work really well and were pretty cheap on amazon.
Found your channel and love it. The hope, positivity, and respect you all have ❤️ beautiful family
Priscilla, I know you worry about your hair. It is GORGEOUS!
You guys help a lot because my child is autistic
We have patio bolts on all our doors. Windows lock with keys. Latch locks on all cupboards and drawers. All furniture bolted to the walls or floor. Baby gates on bedroom door.
Have you done a letter/flier drop like at the old house?
My daughter is kind of bent on running away and joining the wild and she loves to climb everything so I have alarms on all doors and everything is attached to walls lol my friend calls my house fortnocks for babies/kids 🤣
You are beautiful people who love and care for thier child who has autism, i am going through the same thing but with a 3 year old i already have some safety devices in my house.
Keep it up children with Autism are beautiful.
We had the same locks on the cabinets that you have on the medicine cabinet and within a couple days my nephew had broken all of them except 1. He had only just turned a year old
You’re daughter are beautiful like her mom 💚
I think its great that yall have all these safety measures for her with my brother someone always had to be awake or aware of every around. He was an eloper and a sleep Walker. So great to know that there is a way to watch out for her even when yall aren't always in the same area of the house.
I just found this channel, and I want to thank you! I’m only 18, but I’m SUPER excited to foster kids when I get older. Your videos are really informative, and give me information in case I foster or adopt an autistic child in the future. Beautiful family, beautiful message. Thank you!
Thank you so much for sharing your life and what works for you with the world. We have an almost 8 year old son who is autistic and watching your family makes me feel less alone in what our daily life is like. Our son likes watching when Abby is on too.
My brother has autism and ADHD and this helped my mum!! Thank you
I'm a mumma of a two year old and now have my eyes on that black safety gate 😍 these are helpful tips :) Asa and Precilla you guys are awesome parents and this video will help a lot of families
I just love your family. You all are truly amazing people. Abby is the cutest sweetest girl. Love her so much. Sending you all love from Kentucky.