Turning my old phone into a “Lite Phone”

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  • @davecaya
    @davecaya  Рік тому +251

    Welp. It appears the views are still climbing. It's safe to say I never thought this video would grow this much. This is incredible, thank you for everyone who's tuned in :) In skimming through the loads of comments, maybe I can address a few things.
    Phone cases are from Pela!! pelacase.com/
    Lite phone background you can actually make yourself right in your phone with a recent IOS update.
    Music was produced by me! (Sorry, I must've gotten too excited about that and left it a little too loud 😬)
    And maybe I could be just a little more clear on the video's thesis- first, it's all about intention. Social media apps among others can blindly distract me while I'm trying to focus on other things. Apps like youtube and disney plus have a specific, intentional role in my routine and I don't find them to be a distraction during my day.
    Overall, yes this is a story about how I resorted to extremes and paid the price for them before discovering a simpler, middle ground solution was all I needed. I find storytelling to be a much more powerful way to get a point across than just giving answers outright :)

    • @djthots
      @djthots Рік тому

      Connect your number with Google voice

    • @alexthec1677
      @alexthec1677 Рік тому

      We need you to read us that six digit code that you get.

    • @g43s
      @g43s Рік тому

      well its a nicely thought, produced and edited video essay. you showed some good points about lite-phones. keep it up!👍

    • @StumblerStorr
      @StumblerStorr Рік тому

      this is so stupid , the reason you had a second phone was to have a meditation device with no distractions , yet theres a youtube and d+ ap on it (un fucking understandable)
      the excuse for needing to fall asleep by watching some stupid show or video is greater issue then the one you are using meditations for , investing in a better sleep schedule should be a higher priority than meditating .
      then your next mistake is to keep relying on a process that doesn't work , if the call forwarding is not working then get another sim for the dumb phone , and give that number to the people who are close and worth picking up the calls for .
      and please this is not an extreme this a poorly executed , buffoonery defining plan .

    • @Sillyxam
      @Sillyxam 11 місяців тому +2

      What’s the color of your phone wallpaper? I’m obsessed with it😭😭

  • @bankruptsee
    @bankruptsee Рік тому +1338

    Simply turning off notifications and badges from social apps makes a world of a difference. I ended up ditching all social media easily after doing this. Very liberating

    • @clintgolub1751
      @clintgolub1751 Рік тому +11

      💯 it’s amazing how much a small degree of change in daily behavior can impact your overall mental health

    • @spartan456
      @spartan456 Рік тому +40

      I've always wondered, what do people actually _DO_ when they engage with social media? 90% of the time I'm looking at my phone, I'm reading texts from my IRL friends (whether it's in Discord, on Instagram, Facebook Messenger, or just straight up SMS). The other 10% I'm browsing stuff on places like Reddit or watching a video on UA-cam.
      When I see people talk about how they "hate social media" and they "hate the interactions" and they "feel like they need to unplug", I've often wondered what that actually means. Like, what are they getting away from? When people spend most of their time looking at their phones, are they NOT talking to their actual friends? Am I an edge-case? Do y'all not use your phones to talk to your real friends or something?

    • @alecburgher8677
      @alecburgher8677 Рік тому +14

      @@spartan456 It literally makes no sense to me. Like, are they unplugging from their friends?? If that's the case, they might need to invest in new ones.

    • @spartan456
      @spartan456 Рік тому +10

      @alec burgher Right? I wake up in the morning and look through group chats with my friends, I laugh at the things they've said, I comment on plans they're arranging, etc. I'm in touch with my friends all the time.
      It makes me wonder what people actually define as a "friend." When my friends want to talk to me I'm THRILLED to communicate with them. My friends make me very happy and I couldn't imagine taking extensive time away from them. Sometimes I do just want some "me" time, and when I feel that way I let them know. But I couldn't imagine spending a month just...never talking to my friends except for seeing them in person.
      So either most people just hate their friends, in the sense that they are not really emotionally connected or involved with them like I am. Or, most people interact with social media in the sense that they're constantly listening to people they don't even know. Like, why do you even care? Talk to your friends! Call your friend, say hello, ask them how they're doing, if they're having a good day, tell them you miss them and want to see them! That's what social media is for!

    • @earth4ngel308
      @earth4ngel308 Рік тому +7

      @@spartan456 its moreso of a disconnection from what social media has become. while it is very useful for people in freelance or small businesses, the push to algorithmic feeds have made these platforms feel like they are trying to suck the energy out of you. i have resorted to giving people my phone number instead since i've the big five social media platforms. i actually prefer my friends telling me what they are up to via text or call or in person than see a perfectly curated post burning into my retinas or a filtered post of what they ate for breakfast.

  • @MarismanJ1
    @MarismanJ1 Рік тому +791

    If you have been going on for 2 years and have not given up, you can call yourself a legend now. A true legend and an inspiration for me. I hope this channel grows and gets what it deserves.

    • @davecaya
      @davecaya  Рік тому +78

      I’m gonna cry thank you so much for this!

    • @synyester1
      @synyester1 Рік тому +2

      It’s gonna grow i fr thought it as a million plus channel

    • @tuftywarrior1
      @tuftywarrior1 Рік тому +1

      ​@@davecaya i believe in you that you'll get a mil subs!!!!

    • @lacshy
      @lacshy Рік тому

      I have the same phone, and doing exactly this since 2020 december. Stock apps only. If I want to consume media, or access social media, I’ll use safari, so its not too comfortable.

  • @davecaya
    @davecaya  Рік тому +692

    Holy crap folks I had no idea I was going to get this intensely positive of a response to this video 🥹 I’m so happy this video resonated with you all thank you all so much for giving a channel with such few subscribers a chance. I’m beyond grateful ❤

    • @williambourke6644
      @williambourke6644 Рік тому +4

      minimalist tech is such a great concept! great vid

    • @jimcabezola3051
      @jimcabezola3051 Рік тому +5

      I subbed to YOUR channel based on THIS video. I have an iPhone 6S and a 13 Mini. The 6S has a SIM for 2FA; the Mini doesn't and is used just for its superior camera and as an extra-large iPod. Both of these phones lack social apps and email. The world wanted too much of me... Digital minimalism gives me some semblance of control that I hope is not a self-delusion. I look forward to following your story.

    • @v0styr0-u4n
      @v0styr0-u4n Рік тому +3

      BRO HOW DO YOU ONLY HAVE 1.18K SUBS?!

    • @holdup8945
      @holdup8945 Рік тому +2

      Heyyyy KEEP UP WE NEED NEW TECH STUFF ALSOO MOST OF DA OTHER CHANNELS BECAME BORING URS IS DIFFERENT

    • @InfoRevv
      @InfoRevv Рік тому +1

      @@holdup8945 True tech videos now feel like they are more of a tutorial this guy and relatability to it

  • @DomeIsMe
    @DomeIsMe Рік тому +2816

    wait youre not a huge youtube channel?

  • @clintgolub1751
    @clintgolub1751 Рік тому +382

    This was brilliant. One trend I’m noticing with younger Gen-Z kids who in the last few years have started entering the workforce with me is that they seem hyper-aware of the stress and anxiety social media usage causes in a way millennials my age and especially baby boomers most certainly aren’t, and the effect virtually never being disconnected has on the human psyche. Several of these kids that I work with have literally opted for “dumb phones” on prepaid plans. I honestly think we’re culturally on the verge of a massive moment away from mindless social media consumption and all the divisiveness that comes along with it, and hopefully a return to physically social clubs and fraternities like Rotary, Eagles, Mason’s etc.

    • @halloweendancing
      @halloweendancing Рік тому +10

      I think so and I hope so! Thinking of getting a dumb phone right now. I’ve joined local clubs in my city and dance classes and it’s been so nice to connect with my communities that way instead.

    • @gr86er
      @gr86er Рік тому +6

      Lol if that were true we would never know about TikTok. They even brought Snapchat back

    • @miuletzmitzu6641
      @miuletzmitzu6641 Рік тому +7

      Yeahh growing up with technology and having access to a computer since 7 and a phone since 11 you could always be contacted 24/7, and not responding to messages on social media makes you feel anxious and bad. I can't fully relax and focus on myself because I get whatsapp messages quite a lot during the day, and everytime i hear or see that notification I need to respond asap, because if i dont it stays on my mind and i feel bad. Doesnt matter if im watching something, playing videogames, cleaning or cooking. That left me frustrated about not being able to fully relax. Meanwhile older millenials and boomers didn't have to go through this, they already formed a routine and adopted ways they can relax BEFORE getting a phone or going on social media, so they don't care about responding as fast as possible, they can put themselves first easier. That's my opinion at least, not sure if there'd be a big change because not as many people as you think try to ditch social media, but i hope it would be

    • @andrewericson8741
      @andrewericson8741 Рік тому +2

      no more masons please

    • @lamamawa7541
      @lamamawa7541 Рік тому

      I,m 13 i deleted all apps just UA-cam and Whatsapp Google Maps and google Translate
      thats it.

  • @chimken_boi693
    @chimken_boi693 Рік тому +355

    the content quality is just too good this channel is gonna grow fast
    loved the vid

    • @miruxbrew
      @miruxbrew Рік тому +1

      same thought

    • @Sebastil1an
      @Sebastil1an Рік тому +1

      Its only 1080p,what are you talking about

    • @lukefromafar
      @lukefromafar Рік тому

      It’s not about the resolution, but about the composition and flow of the video

    • @Sebastil1an
      @Sebastil1an Рік тому

      @@lukefromafar realy?i am so stupid ,i didn't knew he meant that,
      *youmissedthejokeidiot*

    • @lukefromafar
      @lukefromafar Рік тому

      Oh sorry i thought you were a 13 yr old boy

  • @kalkalico
    @kalkalico Рік тому +92

    When I first watched this video, I hadn't looked at the sub count at all. Watching the video through, seeing and hearing the production quality and how much effort and planning went into it, with how well you presented everything, it all impressed me a TON! I expected this to be a channel with hundreds of thousands of subscribers. My jaw dropped when I saw it was just a mere 587. Make that 588, I look forward to seeing more! Amazing work!!

  • @TheSucread
    @TheSucread Рік тому +57

    some other advice
    1. block notifications from everything outside of messaging apps
    2. do not install apps for a single use (or immediately uninstall afterwards)
    3. limit your streaming service to one at the time, which you can rotate to save money, eliminate distractions, and actually watch cool and diverse stuff as you are not paralyzed by the choice
    4. use do not disturb more often! Nothing bad will happen when you look at that email later.
    5. take advantage of sleep schedule to eliminate distraction during bedtime (making your devices also look less appealing)
    6. get into the habit of leaving your phone on the charger before you go to bed and leaving it there till your alarm goes off. Find something to do in bed before going to sleep that does not involve bright screens. Reading comes highly recommended (paper book or an ebook reader as it is not distracting as a tablet).

    • @fammu03
      @fammu03 Рік тому +3

      thanks i really needed to see this

  • @liammccallum9398
    @liammccallum9398 Рік тому +19

    I watched this whole video fully convinced that my positive comment would be drowned among others. I expected at LEAST 100k views on this

  • @frezydynecy
    @frezydynecy Рік тому +156

    Nobody is mentioning it but the phone you are using has a feature called "focus modes". As the name implies, you can create focus modes for each activity (sleep, work, gaming, busy, driving, etc.) this will reduce the amount of phones you have to use and charge with all the benefits.
    P.S. u can also block notifications too.

    • @IlayarajaS1997
      @IlayarajaS1997 Рік тому +1

      Exactly

    • @DaACTUALLYREALReddie
      @DaACTUALLYREALReddie Рік тому

      Great idea.

    • @hollyb6877
      @hollyb6877 Рік тому

      yes! this is what i do, so i can allow different apps and different people in different contexts. i turn on the time limit for all my apps when i want to wind down and sleep too

  • @johnwiiu7005
    @johnwiiu7005 Рік тому +33

    Man discovers the concept of a work phone.

  • @usernameispasswordisusername
    @usernameispasswordisusername Рік тому +6

    The algorithm blessed you with recommendations. Good luck and keep the grind up

  • @techno_eclipse
    @techno_eclipse Рік тому +80

    This is a super unique idea, I like this a lot. I love the idea of a dumb phone, but smartphones are actually incredibly useful.... I have been working on something similar, using an iPhone 6S as my full time phone, and it has been really interesting to see just how few apps I actually needed. Keep up the great videos!

    • @itsme-ze5gf
      @itsme-ze5gf Рік тому +1

      Oh yeah this guy lol and me who always comment on his videos

  • @astiavhel
    @astiavhel Рік тому +6

    This is an amazing idea for old phones, tablets, and laptops to keep us productive and away from distractions. Love this! Hoping for the growth of your channel!

  • @nSomniaGaming
    @nSomniaGaming Рік тому +10

    Fantastic video. Thank you for touching on the aspects of missing a partners call. I have been trying to strike a balance for years and appreciate hearing from someone who feels more relatable than large creators was inspiring!

  • @DjFunHub
    @DjFunHub Рік тому +4

    Bro talked from his heart and i loved it

  • @PotatoCamGuitar
    @PotatoCamGuitar Рік тому +29

    Earned you a new sub; I'm constantly trying to achieve "my ideal level" of digital minimalism and this video resonated with me a lot. Love the content, keep em coming, mate!

  • @zacw1617
    @zacw1617 Рік тому +31

    You have serious potential. The structure and appeal of your ideas is akin to a UA-camr with millions of subscribers. I strongly believe you'l go somewhere

  • @Blueyzachary
    @Blueyzachary Рік тому +6

    The “WAKE THE FUCK UPPPPPPP” alarm is so valid

  • @kev.-.
    @kev.-. Рік тому +1

    I thought I was wathing someone with more than a million subs. Your content is mindblowing.

  • @minaripenguin8741
    @minaripenguin8741 Рік тому +6

    SEEING THIS VIDEO ON MY RECOMMENDATIONS MADE ME FEEL SO HAPPY AND EXCITED! I can't believe someone also did this because I also tried doing this last January during my school break and it was awesome, but instead of using my lite phone before I sleep, I used it full time. Because of this, I started exploring other hobbies like reading and taking photos instead of mindlessly scrolling on social media, and it made me feel good because I didn't feel like I was wasting my life away. People might think that detaching from social media is hard, but it's surprisingly not (out of sight, out of mind). For me, it only took like 2 days to get it out of my system. Though the difference I did with this video was that I transferred my sim card to my lite phone so that people could still contact me in case of emergency 😅 because it made me really anxious to not have any sort of contact with my loved ones if anything bad really happens.

  • @williambourke6644
    @williambourke6644 Рік тому +2

    literally got recommended this video the day after I got given an old iPhone. As a phone user I dont really want distractions. So the timing of this recommendation was PERFECT! subscribed :)

  • @aldo6532
    @aldo6532 Рік тому +8

    I bought a Fossil Hybrid watch. This has been one of my favourite purchases of all time. The main thin is the notifications. I can turn off vibrate on my phone and put down my phone and instead my watch will only vibrate on specific apps. This adds an extra super useful layer for notifications.
    It has a timer, stopwatch, basic playback controls, fitness tracking, sleep tracking and a Find Phone feature (playing loud sound on it to find it) which has been insanely useful multiple times.
    Not to mention a two - three week battery life and half an hour to charge to full. Has just the stuff I need and isn't a fancy smartwatch and looks like a normal watch too. Highly recommend!

  • @supbro293
    @supbro293 Рік тому +11

    Se2 is perfect for minimalist, it’s relatively inexpensive, smaller lightweight, older design so it encourages to do the basics rather than stare at a beautiful display watching movies, not that you can’t or that the display is bad but it is like a lite version, and I love it! Best Beater phone ever

    • @spiderhaz_
      @spiderhaz_ 4 місяці тому +1

      If you're ok with Android then you can get even cheaper and still have what you're looking for, but I know a lot of people can't escape using an Apple phone.

  • @pickleglass6459
    @pickleglass6459 Рік тому +9

    I would expect this great video to be on a bigger channel. Great Job!

  • @niklasbuhler9987
    @niklasbuhler9987 Рік тому +9

    Salü Mate!
    I was seriously impressed by the quality and information you managed to put into this video, especially for such a small channel. please keep that up because if you do, this channel is going trough the roof on an entirely different level real soon.
    Greetings from Switzerland✌️

  • @CB-li3mh
    @CB-li3mh Рік тому +6

    Nice video, great production quality. I was surprised when I saw you only had 210 subscribers. You should and will have a lot more soon!

  • @Carcosahead
    @Carcosahead Рік тому

    0:22 he’s going hard with the background footage of himself tucked in his bed, is an extra step nobody would think of, good work buddy, subscribed

  • @M_H_2000
    @M_H_2000 Рік тому +3

    Your filmmaking abilities are astonishing, I myself am struggling with my phone usage, since last year I've come up with good ways to minimize my usage like turning on bedtime mode and keeping my notifications to a minimum, it did work, but not to the point where I want it to be, your point of just throwing the phone away is really good, but you must already have the phone distractions to a minimum to be able to stop and throw it away, if you're scrolling through ticktock for 2 hours straight, I don't think you'll be able to stop using the phone voluntarily.

  • @aaryan3411
    @aaryan3411 Рік тому

    You’re voice is really addictive. I don’t know why you haven’t blown up yet, but again the algorithm is working!

  • @diegorovaglia6945
    @diegorovaglia6945 Рік тому +141

    The video is great! And the concept is amazing, too!
    The only feedback that I can provide is that maybe I'd just turn down the music a bit, especially during A-Roll when you're talking, otherwise, great editing and very beautiful shots!

    • @davecaya
      @davecaya  Рік тому +31

      That’s super good to know, audio mixing is the bane of my existence lol thanks so much for the honest feedback!

    • @der94alex
      @der94alex Рік тому +7

      @@davecaya for me it kinda worked as artistic choice for the first 2 min but now its getting really tiring

  • @RS-wk5ts
    @RS-wk5ts Рік тому

    Hey man, the algorithm brought us here for a reason. Amazing stuff. Here's to your UA-cam success!

  • @BeardedPicker
    @BeardedPicker Рік тому +4

    I've carried two phones, and it is a PITA. Keeping up with one is a Herculean task for me, and a second one...forget about it. You can accomplish this with focus modes, controlling app notifications, placing daily time limits on social media apps, and setting up contacts that are important and can break thru the rules you set, like your wife (by the way, we have all missed the calls from the wife, no fun). While this method doesn't keep you disconnected, you are "litely" connected, maybe a better term is connected under control. Great video, I wish I could edit like you.

  • @edaurdorobles4087
    @edaurdorobles4087 Рік тому +1

    This suprised me on this achievement for you!! I witness a channel from couple subscribers to many more in the future 😊

  • @erickogonzales910
    @erickogonzales910 Рік тому +3

    I was one of Matt d'avella first few hundred thousand subscribers. Now i found you. Just leaving this comment i can comeback to when you're already big. Hahaha keep up the good content.

  • @yayabrooklyn
    @yayabrooklyn Рік тому

    A beautiful video which explores a topic very often painted as black and white as the nuanced and complex topic it is. Well Done~!

  • @weaseloaf58
    @weaseloaf58 Рік тому +5

    Wow!
    I’ve recently updated from my iPhone 8, so probably I will copy your idea and turn it into a “phone for the exams month” :)
    Digital detox seems very important and I want to finally give it a try, but I didn’t now how until your video ended up on my fyp.

  • @gabeyreads
    @gabeyreads Рік тому

    Saw this video in my recommended, lost it, remembered and found it. Great video m8!

  • @gilopaolo
    @gilopaolo Рік тому +7

    super well made video, really good narrative, great editing, cool looking shots that keep things interesting, literally everything is top notch! amazing stuff

  • @samnayakawadi
    @samnayakawadi Рік тому

    You have mastered video creation. You got a subscriber. I initially felt like "The Channel with Millions Subscribes" but currently there are 6.75K Subscriber Only. Keep growing.

  • @Django0324
    @Django0324 Рік тому +1

    This was so well made. Didn't even realise it was 15 minutes

  • @jelle8071
    @jelle8071 Рік тому +20

    You could schedule your Do not disturb focus mode to start every evening. Very useful.

  • @vxvaayu3306
    @vxvaayu3306 Рік тому

    How does this channel only have 7k subs?! This video's quality seems like it should be from a multi million subscriber channel.

  • @Kenif_18
    @Kenif_18 Рік тому +3

    Honestly, get an apple watch. It works even better. I turn off my main phone and keep my watch on. It still receives messages and at night only the people on my "emergency" list can get through. Every other notification is off. The watch works as an alarm and it's on me so it wakes me up very calmly. Get a watch, have your main phone off. I have mine connected to my carrier but it also works with WiFi so it's really great really. It's helped me out a ton with distractions.

  • @GorillaDev417
    @GorillaDev417 Рік тому

    Man the quality of this one was amazing!

  • @muhammadraffay1637
    @muhammadraffay1637 Рік тому +7

    This was such a good quality video, you definitely deserve more. I have experienced something similar and was expecting a good ending for you at least but guess that's too hard to get now!

  • @kartikeygupta1448
    @kartikeygupta1448 Рік тому

    Holy shit! This video's production quality and effort is insane!! And that too from a small youtuber, Hats off man!!!

  • @gentle285
    @gentle285 Рік тому +4

    Like other commenters said, I expected this channel to have 330k subscribers, not 330! 15 minutes is way too long FOR ME, but the production quality is really high, good job!

  • @tollermarc
    @tollermarc Рік тому +11

    Normally I don't write comments here on UA-cam. But I can say that I was almost shocked when I paused the Video and see that you only have 197 Subscribers. The Video is really professional, well edited and has a very interesting topic! Would be nice to see more Videos from you :) One little Hint: I was watching the Video on a Laptop and for me the Background-Music was just a little bit too loud. Nothing that makes me Stop the Video but just something I noticed :) Keep up the great work and thanks for sharing :)

  • @lildyl5081
    @lildyl5081 Рік тому

    it’s weird seeing such immaculate content that clearly took time on a small channel

  • @Laowaixianggang
    @Laowaixianggang Рік тому +4

    Hey, thanks for creating such a good video. I like how you showed the process, both pros and cons and your conclusion in a way that was narratively interesting.
    I also had this issue a few months ago, and what I found helped immensely was deleting the social media apps off my phone and only accessing them from the browser. The browser version is usually good enough to respond to messages but clunky enough to discourage me from mindlessly scrolling. I keep one messaging app on my phone for family and close friends who may need to contact me, and even at that, I keep most group chats muted.
    I've heard of people adopting "pull" methods, where all notifications are disabled and they decide when they want to open apps. Maybe you could disable notifications for some social media to keep you from getting sucked into those. (I'm on android but I assume iOS can also disable notifications on a per-app basis) Once again thanks for the video, hope your new changes have improved your lifestyle!

  • @midleno8364
    @midleno8364 Рік тому +1

    Hello Dave I have found your channel and it's so cool. Keep doing this. Love you

  • @RideoutB
    @RideoutB Рік тому +50

    Keep grinding on UA-cam
    Your content is good enough to warrant 100k subs
    Look up simple alpaca: he doesn’t deserve the subs he has given the quality and repetitiveness of his vids
    You’ve made much better vids than him keep going man

    • @internetfrnd6496
      @internetfrnd6496 Рік тому +4

      Wasn’t expecting to see Simple Alpacas name anywhere outside his own channel. Ditto what you said - Alpaca just spam uploads, offers nothing of value.

    • @RideoutB
      @RideoutB Рік тому +1

      @@internetfrnd6496 yea alpacas beyond annoying I can’t support him anymore and it’s kind blowing how he has other channels where he spams also

  • @slvsq
    @slvsq Рік тому +2

    Was not expecting the storytelling at the end. To me, the anxiety is missing a phone call if a relative is harmed.

  • @LeandroCavalcanteLeandrw
    @LeandroCavalcanteLeandrw Рік тому +4

    I changed my setup a lot of times before, but now I using the Focus feature os iOS.
    I have setup 1 screen per focus, with a small selection of widgets and apps. It's working great, it's just like I have 1 phone for each activity.
    I would like to have more options on MacOS too, like change wallpaper and dock icons

  • @gapstr
    @gapstr Рік тому

    wishing nothing but success to you bro

  • @Elementrius
    @Elementrius Рік тому +7

    Hey dude, this was awesome to see. I think this was the push I needed to install Graphene on my Pixel 7 and use it as a secondary no-BS backup. I think disconnection and privacy can go hand-in-hand here.

  • @ramandeep7744
    @ramandeep7744 Рік тому +2

    Bro has hired Netflix production team to make a video seriously the video quality is so good even i felt bad after looking at your subscription number you really deserve millions.

  • @babiixjo
    @babiixjo Рік тому +6

    I started using a “lite phone” with an old phone too! This became the phone I carried around the house. I catch myself picking up the old phone and wanting to go on social media or something I didn’t need. The app won’t be there and I’ll put the phone back down 😆
    Setting daily limits on social media apps on my regular phones also helps.
    Glad things turned up okay with your wife!
    Also, love the behind the scenes at the end 😂

  • @seggmcdonald6670
    @seggmcdonald6670 Рік тому

    Beyond charming and weirdly eye opening. I work for an Australian phone provider and I've had a few customers asking about some of things touched upon in this video. I feel as if I can do my job a little bit better because now I can approach these questions with tenderness. Thanks. We also have Headspace provided to us by my employer :)

  • @this_is_mac
    @this_is_mac Рік тому +7

    I use a button phone (some people call it a dumb phone, but I refuse to call it so). It stays with me all the time, and all the social media and messaging apps stays in my laptop. In every social gathering or events, people are constantly on the phone but I get to be present in the moment and not get distracted all the time.
    By using that phone, I realized that no one really calls me in that phone, so whenever I get one, I know it's important (if not emergency).
    Also, whenever I use a smartphone, I immediately get sucked into social media, so not having one is great for me.
    Btw, the quality of your video is so good, only when writing the comment I found out you only have 248 subs!

    • @sukaenacornelius9285
      @sukaenacornelius9285 Рік тому +1

      I think its a huge American thing and British. When I went to University, I remember making some friends, mostly younger than me considering I went to school at an older age than whats typical in America. I remember just being so let down with the social dynamic being so much different and everyone being on their phones all the time. I always felt embarrassed going out to eat with classmates and everyone just being on their phone and Im just sitting there in silence. Ive lived in Iraq Lebanon, and Spain with visiting friends in Syria and Israel and making some of the best friends in Spain. One difference between my friends there and general American people is in fact the phone and social media in my opinion. Where one instance its considered more utilitarian and considered rude when overly used in public social setting where in America its considered more entertainment and joy and acceptable, at least with the crowd my age or younger. although i do think the social connectedness and all is more of an illusion. As an Arabic woman its also culturally in appropriate to have instagram and seeking validation through particular means that cause a huge distraction and what I consider a degrading. I remember kinda being upset and wishing my American classmates saw how much more fun and more sociable my Arabic or Spanish friends are, it was hard being an Arabic immigrant girl in American University but luckily now I have made alot of quality friends Arabic and American at my church, and such topics on social media have been discussed in our Bible group alot.

  • @tbu_drachenkater5397
    @tbu_drachenkater5397 Рік тому +1

    Just 2000 subs? Man you’re severely underrated. I subed

  • @finnhemsteg9243
    @finnhemsteg9243 Рік тому +4

    Disney+ and UA-cam for sleep - Big COPE

  • @sangaritta
    @sangaritta Рік тому +2

    3:48 "WAKE TF UPPPPPPPP" Can relate

  • @Lobstrique
    @Lobstrique Рік тому +10

    damn. these situations, like the one with your wife and your phone being off, are the things i'm always thinking about when considering "plugging out" for the night. i really love how you landed on a middle ground solution and honestly it's great
    love the ending 😂

  • @moiseszuniga6575
    @moiseszuniga6575 Рік тому

    you are a champ, great video! I had a second phone a few months ago, just for concentration music, and lecture and it has made a huge difference!!! I still get the messages and calls but you are right being away from social media helps a lot!

  • @suave-alpaca8412
    @suave-alpaca8412 Рік тому +5

    I did this with my old 16GB iPhone 6 that still functions well after a battery replacment. I basically only use it for music like an iPod touch, app like Tide, and ebook app. Perfect to bring to the bathroom lmao

  • @superron0781
    @superron0781 Рік тому +1

    I'm very surprised you don't have more subscribers. I tought I had stumbled upon a huge channel. Great job!

  • @ihsankorkmaz8783
    @ihsankorkmaz8783 Рік тому +10

    Production quality is awesome compared to the size of the channel. Great job. Keep it up. However, one criticism I will give is that your voice is being suppressed way too much over the music, and increasing the volume makes the music louder as well, so it kinda becomes unintelligible.

    • @davecaya
      @davecaya  Рік тому +5

      Super appreciate the honest constructive feedback! Another comment pointed this out too so I’ll be paying close attention to the audio mix for next video for sure lol

  • @chester_ville_4066
    @chester_ville_4066 Рік тому +1

    Focus mode my man I love it and I turn off a lot of my notifications. Obviously not the ones I need for working. Good vid my man.

  • @Daniel-hz6pt
    @Daniel-hz6pt Рік тому +3

    Great video! IOS has a built in grayscale filter which works great for reducing the dopamine when you check your phone

  • @jamsaltifyouwill
    @jamsaltifyouwill Рік тому

    really inspiring video.
    i used to be stuck to my phone a lot of the time but put provisions in place so i could focus more on general life. i always hated notifications and just had them turned off by default, and most of my social media is set so i don't follow anyone or is especially limited so i don't find myself doomscrolling for hours on end. i've gotten much better with my phone usage and at times i forget that it's there, even with small changes like that, but that's just me. i know a lot of people who get glued to their screens and engulfed into this culture, but i can emphasise with them as no one wants to be told that they need to get off their phones or be forcefully set time limits because it's patronising, and a phone can be extremely useful in certain circumstances.
    this idea is a great compromise, and splitting the basics away from the fun/work stuff really gives you that time to breathe and get some control back over your life, whilst still retaining full functionality. a use i have seen that is similar to this is with work phones, primarily used by people who run their own business, whether big or small. once that phone is off then the shop is shut.
    you could probably slim down the phone usage even more in terms of music, like getting an old ipod or something. the newer touch versions still let you access your streaming services as well as your music library, and could be a great entertainment device alternative.
    as for messages, it's sucks that you couldn't get them working properly, but say in the instance that you could, maybe set the important contacts as ones with notifs or something similar, so if anything does happen to them that's a real emergency then you still can get in touch.
    whilst it may not be ideal for some to get two different phones for the cost of it all (unless you got one of the really old iphones/samsung etc. which are practically next to outdated), this is a really good start and i commend you for the effort and getting us to think about how we can transform our addction into something more manageable and useful.

  • @vterpko
    @vterpko Рік тому +20

    Can barely hear you because of the background music.

    • @JokeJunction_haha
      @JokeJunction_haha 3 місяці тому

      You just have selective hearing.

    • @JokeJunction_haha
      @JokeJunction_haha 3 місяці тому

      Turn cc on

    • @vterpko
      @vterpko 2 місяці тому

      @@JokeJunction_haha you took it personally, why?

    • @vterpko
      @vterpko 2 місяці тому

      just something to improve, but if they keep it as is it's fine, I don't care

    • @ghostmcx1841
      @ghostmcx1841 2 місяці тому

      ​@JokeJunction_haha shut your reddit sounding ass up, ever heard of constructive criticism?

  • @samparkins7567
    @samparkins7567 Рік тому

    Your video appeared at the top of my recommended feed 👍 liked and subbed

  • @yt_thijmenplayz
    @yt_thijmenplayz Рік тому +3

    am i the only one that loves listening to his voice?

  • @dirmech
    @dirmech Рік тому

    Sheesh bro your channel is amazing, I got shocked, when saw that you are not another big UA-cam channel. You deserve a lot more! Will.recommend you to all my friends

  • @doripods7
    @doripods7 Рік тому +3

    Just use 1 smartphone and 1 "dumb"phone as a lite phone simple

  • @NoahPurdyFR
    @NoahPurdyFR Рік тому

    You have a very calming voice

  • @Gary0557
    @Gary0557 Рік тому +5

    This was very interesting and shows what slaves we have become to our devices, and how hard it is to restrict their ability to interact with us.

  • @Gadgetry-l3i
    @Gadgetry-l3i Рік тому +2

    Man please don’t stop this type of content ❤🙏🏼

  • @noxious_nights
    @noxious_nights Рік тому +6

    You know, a lot of what you did here could be achieved by simply setting up a Focus mode on your primary phone. You wouldn't have to worry about the calls & texts not coming through either

  • @mariarappana
    @mariarappana Рік тому +1

    Love this! At the beginning I was thinking of doing the same but I have anxiety about the emergency stuff. Glad I watched the whole thing because I'm currently cleaning up my phone to dumb it down but still use just one phone. Thank you!

  • @dawsonramdass1145
    @dawsonramdass1145 Рік тому +10

    There's actually a very easy way you can do this same thing but with one phone
    Use apple's focus modes
    It can disable apps and change notifications settings and all that just by switching between focus modes (Previously do not disturb xD)
    I believe the best way of doing this is using the quick switch wallpaper thing ios 16 has and linking one to a custom focus mode which you will then set the disabled apps and notifications
    Edit: alright db i understand why you used a separate device instead of using something like focus modes XD

  • @donta.s.k.281
    @donta.s.k.281 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for idea. I have an old iPhone 8 still working really well (except battery), laying around in my drawer, and this gave me ideas how to make use of it. And limits of old OS and apps helped me to make it a useful accessory for home use, not a doom scrolling machine. I watched few videos around the youtube but not a single one inspired me like yours did. So thank you, love the video ❤

  • @valegory
    @valegory Рік тому +9

    alternatively, set your main phone up like your lite phone with maybe a bit extra, and then use your old phone as an entertainment phone, with apps like tiktok and so on only being installed on the entertainment phone

    • @wanda8079
      @wanda8079 Рік тому

      so this lite phone filled with heavy apps?

  • @thomasparkinson-bloomfield6340

    I also have a “lite phone” I call it my “off grid phone”
    Again, minimal apps - all I have is Spotify and radio apps. The emergency thing scares me so I have a pay as you go sim in there with the number only shared with a select few. That way I can go out without my “normal” phone and not worry!
    Loved this video!

  • @jonhrndz
    @jonhrndz Рік тому +3

    You could get a HomePod and enable intercom. My wife has contacted me that way when i don’t answer. 👍🏼

    • @davecaya
      @davecaya  Рік тому

      That’s also a really good idea, thanks for the suggestion!

  • @AlexKahl
    @AlexKahl Рік тому

    Thanks for the inspiration! Just revived my old iPhone 6s Plus to a Lite Phone and at the same time as an emergency phone for our daughter that she can use if she happens to be home alone.
    So I learned 2 lessons in 1 video by you!
    Thank you very much and greetings from Germany :-)

  • @csi6951
    @csi6951 Рік тому +4

    Bruh super interesting video but please shut up that music

  • @iilvstrous7920
    @iilvstrous7920 Рік тому +2

    the thumbnail, the quality, the content made me think this was a large and popular channel. here before bro becomes famous😎

  • @Apdkosk
    @Apdkosk Рік тому +3

    Ipod

  • @vedantgupta01
    @vedantgupta01 Рік тому

    Bro I just unlocked the next big yt channel. It is an utter disgrace that only few thousand of us have been recommended this channel. UA-cam do your thing.

  • @idoziv2233
    @idoziv2233 10 місяців тому +5

    Bro stop yapping

  • @GAMERIN-rn6dj
    @GAMERIN-rn6dj Рік тому +1

    I was very surprised to know that you're not an big UA-camr 😲 you deserve more views

  • @okaygoogle2847
    @okaygoogle2847 Рік тому

    Damn! UA-cam recommandation has become better. ❤
    You've got a subscriber friend. 🎉

  • @RoyY369
    @RoyY369 Рік тому

    The freaking lighting is so good

  • @RicardoMilos111
    @RicardoMilos111 Рік тому

    With that quality of production, I'm genuinely surprised that you only have 700 subs.

  • @tspmcfarlane
    @tspmcfarlane Рік тому +1

    A really intelligently made video. Instant subscribe.

  • @ghoctav
    @ghoctav Рік тому +1

    I use 2 android smartphone .. samsung j3 2016 is my main phone , it does whatsapp , phone call , sms , perfectly .. i restricted my main phone to do less multimedia thing ..
    And , i use my nokia 6 for multimedia , no sim card .. checking FB , twitter , play music , offline game , you tube , i even watched this video with my nokia 6 , Wi-Fi on , works great ..
    That "dedicated" method helped me a lot ..
    Good video .. have a good day ..