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That's because she was to too busy smacking gum, running her mouth, and looking at IG in English class. She never learned to spell or define 65%-70% of the words on the SAT/ACT. Her knowledge comes from Internet University.... Listening to Goofys and "Victims" like herself of the Patriarchy, Misogynistic Narcissist Men that take advantage of all the sweet innocent Single Mamas
Getting my kids up, cleaned up, fed, ready for school, picking them up and bringing them home feeding them dinner….. that’s not me taking accountability. That’s me doing my f***ing job as a parent.
@@thablackkat9905smile are the WW because you genuinely want to not just to get back at BW- that is such a sick mindset to have, especially if you a BM. How about men with no children dont even bother with single mothers. 😌
I was with a single mom for 2.5 years. Always supportive and helped her in more ways than I can describe. I put way too much effort into that relationship and she didn’t appreciate any of it. Never again.
No matter what ,the man can always get up and go we are stuck with all the responsibilities 😢idc what you say GO AFTER THE FATHERS !!! It takes 2 Yal don’t have brains in your head I swear !! It takes a penis to get pregnant !!
@@keeshaTheSpeekuh true, but men have to to know taking care of these type of women is NOT in a man's best interest. That is what we put in the box. There is absolutely no benefit for a man to deal with these women and potentially the children's father. Its actually dangerous. He will not come first to her.
we dont care!!!! Dear mama era is over!!!!!! Picking the wrong mate to have kids with is a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge character flaw....you make dumb ass decisions and expect us to like it.....move around and stop cursing our people!!!
Leave these baby-mamas to their own devices! If they're not a widow-single mother with ONE father(the deceased husband) then leave her the hell alone!!!!
She acts like mother's with a partner don't do that stuff for their children. You don't get a participation trophy for doing what most mother's do, take care of their children, ugh.
@@Suchalady87 that’s why I hate the statement as man “I help with my kids” … no I handle my responsibilities bc that’s what I’m supposed to do as a parent.
Stop with the bs, please. Stop having sex out of wedlock, and if you do, there are consequences for that action. You single moms have so many resources to assist your household, but it's not enough. The entitlement is beyond me. Kids are innocent and don't ask to be here. The majority of you should not be parents because you are selfish.
She's confused between accountability and her responsibilities. These women are so silly that they don't realize that the internet is not your therapist
Black women.......focus on developing a connection with God, practice self-discipline, take your time, and seek a man of integrity to marry before having sex. And continuously encourage other women to do the same. We can do it!
Thats some of the best advice, you can give them, especially when its comes to developing a relationship with God, but most of them are to busy, being bad bs, 304s, and gold diggers.
Parenting your kids is not taking accountability. Accountability is being humble to admit your mistakes and warning others not to follow your steps. Her having a temper tantrum and posting it online is her being hurt about the situation she's in and offended when people shame her and others like her for their choices in life.
Anton is saying put more thought into creating a life. If you aren't prepared for the what if, don't. You don't have to have kids by every man you are with! Liking a man doesn't mean you get pregnant
The ERA of Accountability has arrived in America. Your choices are your responsibility. No one else. Sadly millions in this nation are in for hard reality checks.
Too much support for single mothers. Before govt began issuing women tax payer money to reproduce we had a much lower single mother rate in ALL communities. But it’s also like saying there’s not enough support for people who get forehead tattoos. We didn’t tell you to make that choice.
Smh, unfortunately I'm a widow/ single parent since 2015😔. Became a widow @42. I realize it's alot on me now. I show up every day n show out.I dislike the entitlement mentality. These women need to grow up 😔
Taking care of you child is your RESPONSIBILITY. Accepting you had a child out of wedlock and the things that come with it such as struggling is ACCOUNTABILITY
There’s all type of support for these women. Food stamps, section 8, friends and family, and men will all help these single moms. Meanwhile, a struggling single father is SOL.
No it could be because those above the poverty threshold don't qualify for those things. U got a lot of single mothers that are teachers, cna, lpn, rn, scrub techs, vet techs, pharmacy techs etc...ya everyday working people who don't qualify 4 gov assistance and that is the majority
The good thing out of all of this is the Black Community, specifically the young Black community, is finally calling out these single black mothers. It gives me hope for the future.
Accountability is not getting pregnant four times and not married. That is no accident you did this on purpose without consideration you can get STDs and a bad reputation on top of that
This isn’t true. Society has created a safety net through welfare and handouts. That is why women are comfortable having children out of wedlock and breaking up their families. Before welfare women rarely had children alone
There ain't nothing to it but to do it , everyday is grind but I had a child with a unfit woman so there's no use in crying over it my love for son is greater than my crying or complaining.
@@jameservin1333you probably have help of women in your family and get praised for being a single father. People don’t get on the internet and talk about single fathers the way they do single mothers. There’s a nuance there and not to see it is crazy.
Nothing wrong with giving a hand up to someone either. Jesus did without condemnation to the Samaritan woman at the well. His example is for God's people to follow rightly over all. It's written in the Holy Bible KJV in John 4:1-25..
Accountability is not complaining about it or making excuses... it's putting your head down and getting to it! Meaning do the work and keep it moving. Learn from it and forge ahead.
Need to bring back shame! No accountability, No respectability! No longer get to have it your way.... Give lessons for future generations zero tolerance for promiscuity...
There used to be a village to support single mothers but times have changed. Ppl have their own struggles. No one cares when you are being reckless with your reproductive system. Why have multiple kids you can’t manage? I mean even celebrities that are multimillionaires and billionaires know when to put a cap on it. It’s only poor ppl struggling to see who can have the most kids.
SMH🤦🏽♂️ the problem is women who are single moms made it highly inconvenient for them to retain a man, because giving birth is the single most significant act in a female's life because it's the culmination of her ability to choose a man, a woman can give you many things but she can only become the mother of your children once 🤷🏾♂️ now if you're not the one who made her a mother and somebody else did the value isn't there, as men biologically we cannot avoid that because if she's given birth to another man's kids that man has dominance and now you're asking another man to come in and jockey for this position good luck with that 🙄
Anton you are growing every time I see a new video, you are weighing truth over your opinion more and more and I like what I’m seeing! It’s bringing out the knowledge I have in me. It’s getting worse out here so keep us in mind ok?
✅️ this out ... as a Man i was a single parent of my daughter who was 1 months old at the time ( to my ex who just would not account for being grown and a responsible parent . My daughter is now 22 years old raised by me fully. I didnt ask for support , wasnt bitter i just made sure my child was safe and loved . Thats not me being accountable is me being responsible for what i created. We as parents are suppose to stand on business and take care of what we create. It should be a joy ; a passion and love.🎉
Taking care of the children you should not have had in the first place is not accountability. It is the consequences of your not taking responsibility and protecting yourself . Accountability was your getting pregnant. Now you made your choice and have to live with it.
Exactly they'll get online and talk all this stuff about a man and fault him but they won't even help the sisters out physically not even the sisterhood they do more talking than showing.
If you didn't know by now women understand other women and they hate each other. Women are f up in the head all of them. It's more rampant in the United States.
Both men and women need to hold themselves accountable for the people that they choose to have a child with. Unfortunately their children will suffer because their parents was irresponsible bringing children into this world they both knew they weren’t able to properly care for mentally, emotionally, physically and financially
Exactly, Anton. Enough is Enough!! She confuses accountability with her legal parental responsibilities and she sounds so "angry" about performing "HER" day-to-day mommy responsibilities, Guess What:? Her children are being raised in an angry toxic profane isolated home environment with no social support/little financial support and are probably internalizing "guilt feelings" for just being born. Her children didn't ask to come here. "Research indicates a strong correlation between high rates of fatherlessness in Black children and increased risks of depression and suicide, with studies showing that children growing up without a father are significantly more likely to experience mental health issues, including suicidal thoughts, due to factors like decreased stability, lower self-esteem, and a lack of positive male role models" Our Bodies, Ourselves, and Our Choice to Become a Single Baby Mama. Stop this Madness Cycle and Stop passing on generational trauma to your children and future grandchildren. #EndGenerationalTraumaCycles #EndToxicParenting #EndGenerationalCurses #IncreaseNurturingParentingClasses #ReduceFatherlessness #ChildrenNeedPositiveMaleandFemaleRoleModels(Parents and Caregivers) #SeekMentalHealthCounseling #SeekFamilyTherapy #EndAdverseChilldhoodExperiences #SeekParentingCoaching #AcceptAccountabilityandGrowUP #StopTheScapegoating
I empathize with these women. As a single woman without kids, I can attest to how hard it is to support others, let alone yourself. However, Bottom line: Stop carrying before marrying. It won’t completely eliminate single motherhood, but it certainly would drastically decrease instances of it. There are benefits to doing things God’s way. I pray that God opens doors of opportunities for these women to support themselves and their children, and have MORE than enough.
I do not empathize with them as a woman without kids. Simply because like I had a choice, so did they. We had so many warnings from family, friends, movies and songs like That thing by Lauren Hill. Its very hard to sympathize with an adult who made a blatantly bold poor choice. Not for nothing, 99% of the time children are made out of "pleasure" no sympathy from me.
@Prosperous8532 I align closer to your opinion. I've watched numerous females see their Mama, sister, auntie, and cousins go thru the BS. Best friends dropped after they drop their panties. Yet they do the same thing ...expecting different results..smh
I empathize with the kids. The kids didn't put themselves there. The parents did. I don't have to support or enable their bad behavior just because we happen to share the same gender.
Oh, we got grown adults not knowing the definition of words. For example, foster parents take responsibility kids, but in no way shape or form are they accountable for those kids being born...🤦🏿♂️
I’m a single mother & I take all accountability for my actions I don’t complain don’t beg any man on earth for help . My soul is with me every single day of my life I don’t make excuses! I get to work ! no time for tears my soul does not deserve a sad mom 🎉❤ ONE & DONE CLUB .fasho
She is confusing accountability with responsibility. Accountability is when you reflect and learn how you got in this situation of being a single mother and learn what to do to put yourself in a better situation.
But I just had a black man walk up to me because he seen my Louis Vuitton shoes and coat asking and begging me for money screaming Black Lives Matter,but call me a B because I wouldn’t give him money but I bet you he has kids and been in jail lol 😂😂😂😂
That is why you marry before you carry,stop having kids by unsuitable men who will mot marry or provide for his kids,and stop expecting childless men to take on another man's responsibilities, stop shaming men and trying to palm your mistakes on the men you called lame corny and boring before you had a ton of kids,it really is not that difficult, take up your problems with the baby daddy
A lot of times these situations are very complicated and complex… Some mothers don’t want the relationship with the fathers during or after pregnancy creating an unstable environment for co parenting…Some fathers want to be in the child’s life but deal with up and down energy from mom’s emotions… That’s why some are claiming it’s tough but have created an difficult environment for father to support their children…it’s not always my baby daddy ain’t shit… It’s people playing games… Some tell Father’s we don’t need you.. So all this is just a game with women not being accountable to coparent properly
Solution: stop bringing children into situationships and stop engaging in premarital sex. Many don't have that discipline and self-accountability so they'll face the consequences - drama and broken homes
She’s so defensive because she knew the truth the whole time and thought she’d get a different outcome. The proof is in the pudding, sweetheart. Why would you willing have a child with a man and neither one of you are in a position to properly care yourselves, let alone a child for the next 18+ years?? Children need STABILITY! Why aren’t we learning from the older generations? Adulting is not easy for anyone! So why burden yourself prematurely with children you can’t take care of?? Why would you willing sign yourself and children up for a lifetime of struggle, heartache, trauma, etc. ? BW should want MORE for themselves and children. Our ancestors have gone through too much for us to willingly have kids without stability! It’s getting to the point where it’s just down right evil, selfish and neglectful to birth a child into this world, you know for a fact, you can’t care for yourself. Smfh, then for her to have an attitude🙄🥴🤦🏾♀️ Girl, stop projecting your anger towards yourself to the rest of the world! We can’t care more than you. It’s your life!
She, like so many other Black women, mistake responsibility for accountability. Her fulfilling her responsibilities as a parent doesn't excuse the fact that she became a single parent in the 1st place and is struggling because of it. Accountability implies answering for the results of her bad choices which led to her having to take the ongoing responsibilities. When one doesn't take accountability, it implies they will just repeat the same bad actions, resulting in more bad results.
Unfortunately these ladies cant take accountability because the gov' t will bail them out...real accountability is getting no monetary or housing support from no one except the gentleman who you decided to have kids with.
Must not have gotten the memo Goldman Sacks donated a billion dollars specifically and only for black women. Most college scholarships and government housing are also mostly given to black women. There is plenty of help out there for them if they need it.
I don't give props,congratulate,or give a chick credit for being a single mother.... YOU'RE NOT A GREAT MOM JUST BECAUSE YOU DID'NT GIVE YOUR KIDS UP FOR ADOPTION
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She’s confusing ACCOUNTABILITY …with her RESPONSIBILITIES.
@@sfcspectacular 😬 true. You’d go to jail if you didn’t do those things.
aka CONSEQUENCES.
@@harrisindustries314 "Consequences" is not synonymous with "responsibilities". Use of AKA there is confusing
That's because she was to too busy smacking gum, running her mouth, and looking at IG in English class. She never learned to spell or define 65%-70% of the words on the SAT/ACT. Her knowledge comes from Internet University....
Listening to Goofys and "Victims" like herself of the Patriarchy, Misogynistic Narcissist Men that take advantage of all the sweet innocent Single Mamas
Smh crazy
If you can't handle criticism, don't post your life on the Internet.
this most likely tiktok, these women spend all the seeking pitty
You can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
I was always taught, ye who pointz the finger has three pointing back at them.
Facts
Getting my kids up, cleaned up, fed, ready for school, picking them up and bringing them home feeding them dinner….. that’s not me taking accountability. That’s me doing my f***ing job as a parent.
Respect for being a good mom! But that’s RESPONSIBILITY ma’am
Any man that listens at your mouth I would leave you too
Bingo
it is. its also the bare minimum
Period 🎉
Only a certain group of people speak the way that this young “lady” speaks. “Bruh” “the fuck”, I don’t take these people seriously.
Not at all. I don't even look their way in NYC. They get mad cuz I smile back at the white girls smiling back at me while walking. Aww well.
@@thablackkat9905smile are the WW because you genuinely want to not just to get back at BW- that is such a sick mindset to have, especially if you a BM. How about men with no children dont even bother with single mothers. 😌
Pray for their children. They've got hard lives ahead of them.
Their brains stopped developing at around 14, so this is how they’re always going to be
It’s just not attractive for women to speak like that …women voice should be low ,her vocabularies, the way she act in public places r very important…
I was with a single mom for 2.5 years. Always supportive and helped her in more ways than I can describe. I put way too much effort into that relationship and she didn’t appreciate any of it. Never again.
Same thing happened to me.wasted so much time and gain nothing
Bro
If she got rid of her kids father 👀
She will get rid of you
No loyalty or dignity
Houses bereft of lordship long ago
Every body is not the same 😢 you can’t put us all in a box like we can’t put yal in one. 😢it’s just hurtful but we reap what we sow.
No matter what ,the man can always get up and go we are stuck with all the responsibilities 😢idc what you say GO AFTER THE FATHERS !!! It takes 2 Yal don’t have brains in your head I swear !! It takes a penis to get pregnant !!
@@keeshaTheSpeekuh true, but men have to to know taking care of these type of women is NOT in a man's best interest. That is what we put in the box. There is absolutely no benefit for a man to deal with these women and potentially the children's father. Its actually dangerous. He will not come first to her.
She’s mixing up accountability and responsibility
They always misunderstand things that require critical thinking.
Taking accountability means stop sharing baby daddies and sleeping with other women’s baby daddies and husbands
We need to bring shame and tough love back because this coddling shit is way out of hand
Big facts 2025 betta stay on em
Exactly! And butt whippins!
man, stop repeatingwhat you hear others say on the internet.
we dont care!!!! Dear mama era is over!!!!!! Picking the wrong mate to have kids with is a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge character flaw....you make dumb ass decisions and expect us to like it.....move around and stop cursing our people!!!
Exactly. They seem way too nonchalant about who they're procreating with. Definitely makes their decision making look questionable.
Play a dumb game get a dumb prize
@@harrisindustries314government handouts
They see they friends making broken homes so they repeat it can’t make this up
👍
I’m tired of them sleeping with the same dude that has kids already this is getting old
Yeah it’s like they believe they will be the one to change him or make him settle down
@they purposely get pregnant just to be in competition with the other women’s they sad out here
I'm cringing listening to her speak 😬 No full accountability she's trying to remove responsibility from herself
That’s how the hy*na brain works
And from those like her
@@Therebirthent-773 the hy*na brain doesn’t know accountability lol
Leave these baby-mamas to their own devices! If they're not a widow-single mother with ONE father(the deceased husband) then leave her the hell alone!!!!
Sometimes they are dangerous to they like to share dudes
She acts like mother's with a partner don't do that stuff for their children. You don't get a participation trophy for doing what most mother's do, take care of their children, ugh.
@@Suchalady87 that’s why I hate the statement as man “I help with my kids” … no I handle my responsibilities bc that’s what I’m supposed to do as a parent.
At one point the whole world put these single scroooooong hyenas on a pedestal but not wives with careers and still holding down their families
Bad choices and blame everyone else!!!
This comment should be pinned. It's so simple yet explains exactly what is going on here and blame is the opposite of accountability.
No one cares those are your kids 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol facts 🤣
yea F them kids....🤣 and their mama
Time to be "grown"
Stop with the bs, please. Stop having sex out of wedlock, and if you do, there are consequences for that action. You single moms have so many resources to assist your household, but it's not enough. The entitlement is beyond me. Kids are innocent and don't ask to be here. The majority of you should not be parents because you are selfish.
Facts all fighting behind the same dudes just to create broke homes 🤮
I see why this lady is single 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Yeah... because she's NO *_LADY !!!_*
I see why they’re the most unmarried lol….
She needs therapy 😞
She's confused between accountability and her responsibilities.
These women are so silly that they don't realize that the internet is not your therapist
🎤 Drop!
Black women.......focus on developing a connection with God, practice self-discipline, take your time, and seek a man of integrity to marry before having sex. And continuously encourage other women to do the same. We can do it!
You’re trying to preach to the godless 😂 these women don’t give a damn about God
❤
Thats some of the best advice, you can give them, especially when its comes to developing a relationship with God, but most of them are to busy, being bad bs, 304s, and gold diggers.
Thank you
Truths
First of all we aren't your bro
1st ⛳️, whenever a female says, “bro.” It just makes me aware of the type of female I’m about to talk to mindset wise I guess.
Absolutely
Parenting your kids is not taking accountability. Accountability is being humble to admit your mistakes and warning others not to follow your steps. Her having a temper tantrum and posting it online is her being hurt about the situation she's in and offended when people shame her and others like her for their choices in life.
Accountability and RESPONSIBILITY are NOT the same
3x baby mother. 😂😂😂. That is not a mistake. That is bad behavior. Stop trying to act like we not paying for your 3x mistakes.
Anton is saying put more thought into creating a life. If you aren't prepared for the what if, don't. You don't have to have kids by every man you are with! Liking a man doesn't mean you get pregnant
Exactly
The ERA of Accountability has arrived in America. Your choices are your responsibility. No one else. Sadly millions in this nation are in for hard reality checks.
Too much support for single mothers. Before govt began issuing women tax payer money to reproduce we had a much lower single mother rate in ALL communities.
But it’s also like saying there’s not enough support for people who get forehead tattoos. We didn’t tell you to make that choice.
nice analogy
When you decide to have children as a single woman, you accept all responsibilities as well. Doing the same thing 3x’s is no mistake.
Agreed!!
Facts
These 304's out here thinking being a fulltime babysitter is justification for ratchet behavior.
Smh, unfortunately I'm a widow/ single parent since 2015😔. Became a widow @42. I realize it's alot on me now. I show up every day n show out.I dislike the entitlement mentality. These women need to grow up 😔
Sorry for your loss 🙏🏾
It’s different for you. You were married. Sorry for your loss❤.
You will find someone trust me
Taking care of you child is your RESPONSIBILITY. Accepting you had a child out of wedlock and the things that come with it such as struggling is ACCOUNTABILITY
Why the hell do they like using the idea that they can't take responsibility for their actions.
The gaslighting of giving the SMs a pass then they wanna use a simp/simp like man to get to keep doing to crash dummy stuff that they do.
If they cut off child support and state resources people would stay married and the baby momma thing would shrink real fast
There’s all type of support for these women. Food stamps, section 8, friends and family, and men will all help these single moms. Meanwhile, a struggling single father is SOL.
they see that as entitlement... they think it owe to them for laying on their back
Facts 💯
No it could be because those above the poverty threshold don't qualify for those things. U got a lot of single mothers that are teachers, cna, lpn, rn, scrub techs, vet techs, pharmacy techs etc...ya everyday working people who don't qualify 4 gov assistance and that is the majority
Exactly so idk wtf she is talking about! Single mothers get more help than anyone. Actually them and seniors. I have no kids and i get nothing
Single Fathers get no Assistance
The good thing out of all of this is the Black Community, specifically the young Black community, is finally calling out these single black mothers. It gives me hope for the future.
About time too it has gotten out of hand
Accountability is not getting pregnant four times and not married. That is no accident you did this on purpose without consideration you can get STDs and a bad reputation on top of that
It is true. There isn’t enough support for single mothers - but that’s because there are too many of them.
This isn’t true. Society has created a safety net through welfare and handouts. That is why women are comfortable having children out of wedlock and breaking up their families. Before welfare women rarely had children alone
Not enough support because they are Single and mother's for the wrong reasons
She's confusing accountability with being an adult! She's talking about the basic things expected from adults! That's not accountability!
I'm a single father you don't see me crying
You get fathers Day and mothers Day as well. If she does not take care of her responsibilities as a mother, don't she mother's days
@conniecleveland7642 she doesn't
Nerve see a single father crying on here but women will try to make themselves the victim
There ain't nothing to it but to do it , everyday is grind but I had a child with a unfit woman so there's no use in crying over it my love for son is greater than my crying or complaining.
@@jameservin1333you probably have help of women in your family and get praised for being a single father. People don’t get on the internet and talk about single fathers the way they do single mothers. There’s a nuance there and not to see it is crazy.
Accountability is keeping your legs closed. You should not have kids outside marriage, PERIOD.
Your body your choice, deal with it.
Nothing wrong with giving a hand up to someone either. Jesus did without condemnation to the Samaritan woman at the well. His example is for God's people to follow rightly over all. It's written in the Holy Bible KJV in John 4:1-25..
@@droyal104then that’s Jesus problem, not ours.
You could give this girl $5,000 a month to “help” her. In six months she’ll be back saying she needs more.
Accountability is not complaining about it or making excuses... it's putting your head down and getting to it! Meaning do the work and keep it moving. Learn from it and forge ahead.
How does a woman fall in love with a man that’s has multiple baby mommas and kids that’s make no sense you signed up for drama 😂
Need to bring back shame! No accountability, No respectability! No longer get to have it your way.... Give lessons for future generations zero tolerance for promiscuity...
Single parents take accountability by not complaining on the Internet
Facts......Nobody got time for that. We got to set these kids up for success.
Glad you said single parents, there’s some single dads who complain
She still refuses to take accountability for her own actions.
Skipping this video. Never been a black baby momma. No sympathy for these people.......from the Ozarks childfree
The public is not responsible for anyone's emotional stability. If people put their business out to the public, then it is up for public scrutiny.
2025, no more pity parties.
"When I take 'em home and teach 'em shit" Wow! I hope her kids don't try to come rob me one day.
There used to be a village to support single mothers but times have changed. Ppl have their own struggles. No one cares when you are being reckless with your reproductive system. Why have multiple kids you can’t manage?
I mean even celebrities that are multimillionaires and billionaires know when to put a cap on it. It’s only poor ppl struggling to see who can have the most kids.
My ex cheated on me. Now she a single mother. Complaining about men ‘lying’
women ☕
It’s plenty single mothers on social media going on trips without their kids so who’s watching them?🤔
SMH🤦🏽♂️ the problem is women who are single moms made it highly inconvenient for them to retain a man, because giving birth is the single most significant act in a female's life because it's the culmination of her ability to choose a man, a woman can give you many things but she can only become the mother of your children once 🤷🏾♂️ now if you're not the one who made her a mother and somebody else did the value isn't there, as men biologically we cannot avoid that because if she's given birth to another man's kids that man has dominance and now you're asking another man to come in and jockey for this position good luck with that 🙄
That’s why most of them mad 😂
Anton you are growing every time I see a new video, you are weighing truth over your opinion more and more and I like what I’m seeing! It’s bringing out the knowledge I have in me. It’s getting worse out here so keep us in mind ok?
Responsibility ≠ Accountability that should help unconfuse her.
It’s over 30 types of birth control ( Pick one) or two
✅️ this out ... as a Man i was a single parent of my daughter who was 1 months old at the time ( to my ex who just would not account for being grown and a responsible parent . My daughter is now 22 years old raised by me fully. I didnt ask for support , wasnt bitter i just made sure my child was safe and loved . Thats not me being accountable is me being responsible for what i created. We as parents are suppose to stand on business and take care of what we create. It should be a joy ; a passion and love.🎉
She is confusing accountability with responsibility.
Taking care of the children you should not have had in the first place is not accountability. It is the consequences of your not taking responsibility and protecting yourself . Accountability was your getting pregnant. Now you made your choice and have to live with it.
I've never understood why single mothers don't help each other out. As in watch my kids I'm going to work or on a date...
Great point
Cos they hate and barely trust each other, that's why ..
Exactly they'll get online and talk all this stuff about a man and fault him but they won't even help the sisters out physically not even the sisterhood they do more talking than showing.
Because women don't like each other for real they just pretend 😅
If you didn't know by now women understand other women and they hate each other. Women are f up in the head all of them. It's more rampant in the United States.
Both men and women need to hold themselves accountable for the people that they choose to have a child with. Unfortunately their children will suffer because their parents was irresponsible bringing children into this world they both knew they weren’t able to properly care for mentally, emotionally, physically and financially
Exactly, Anton. Enough is Enough!! She confuses accountability with her legal parental responsibilities and she sounds so "angry" about performing "HER" day-to-day mommy responsibilities,
Guess What:? Her children are being raised in an angry toxic profane isolated home environment with no social support/little financial support and are probably internalizing "guilt feelings" for just being born. Her children didn't ask to come here.
"Research indicates a strong correlation between high rates of fatherlessness in Black children and increased risks of depression and suicide, with studies showing that children growing up without a father are significantly more likely to experience mental health issues, including suicidal thoughts, due to factors like decreased stability, lower self-esteem, and a lack of positive male role models"
Our Bodies, Ourselves, and Our Choice to Become a Single Baby Mama.
Stop this Madness Cycle and Stop passing on generational trauma to your children and future grandchildren.
#EndGenerationalTraumaCycles #EndToxicParenting #EndGenerationalCurses
#IncreaseNurturingParentingClasses #ReduceFatherlessness #ChildrenNeedPositiveMaleandFemaleRoleModels(Parents and Caregivers)
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I empathize with these women. As a single woman without kids, I can attest to how hard it is to support others, let alone yourself. However, Bottom line: Stop carrying before marrying. It won’t completely eliminate single motherhood, but it certainly would drastically decrease instances of it. There are benefits to doing things God’s way. I pray that God opens doors of opportunities for these women to support themselves and their children, and have MORE than enough.
Same & facts .
I do not empathize with them as a woman without kids. Simply because like I had a choice, so did they. We had so many warnings from family, friends, movies and songs like That thing by Lauren Hill. Its very hard to sympathize with an adult who made a blatantly bold poor choice. Not for nothing, 99% of the time children are made out of "pleasure" no sympathy from me.
@Prosperous8532
I align closer to your opinion.
I've watched numerous females see their Mama, sister, auntie, and cousins go thru the BS. Best friends dropped after they drop their panties.
Yet they do the same thing ...expecting different results..smh
I empathize with the kids. The kids didn't put themselves there. The parents did.
I don't have to support or enable their bad behavior just because we happen to share the same gender.
@@havok5538So true.
That is not accountability lady, that's just doing what you're suppose to do! Huge difference from accountability... no sympathy
Hoodie Anton be snapping😂
I don't even pretend to care!! 🤨 #CHOOSEWISELY
Ain’t that responsibility and not accountability? Correct me if I’m wrong but ain’t it a difference
Oh, we got grown adults not knowing the definition of words. For example, foster parents take responsibility kids, but in no way shape or form are they accountable for those kids being born...🤦🏿♂️
I’m a single mother & I take all accountability for my actions I don’t complain don’t beg any man on earth for help . My soul is with me every single day of my life I don’t make excuses! I get to work ! no time for tears my soul does not deserve a sad mom 🎉❤ ONE & DONE CLUB .fasho
She is confusing accountability with responsibility. Accountability is when you reflect and learn how you got in this situation of being a single mother and learn what to do to put yourself in a better situation.
But I just had a black man walk up to me because he seen my Louis Vuitton shoes and coat asking and begging me for money screaming Black Lives Matter,but call me a B because I wouldn’t give him money but I bet you he has kids and been in jail lol 😂😂😂😂
Hold the line fellas dont let up on em
Poor kids. They’ll be just like her. The cycle continues. Wonderful black culture
Ladies be careful who you have kids with
Accountability and responsibility are two very different things
She thinks accountability means your ability to count
And people wonder why I don't Date Single Mothers 😂#Brooklyn #NoKidsGang ✌️
That is why you marry before you carry,stop having kids by unsuitable men who will mot marry or provide for his kids,and stop expecting childless men to take on another man's responsibilities, stop shaming men and trying to palm your mistakes on the men you called lame corny and boring before you had a ton of kids,it really is not that difficult, take up your problems with the baby daddy
They be having baby showers together celebrating single mother hood now band together and raise them.
I see very few BRIDAL showers amongst black women
You get government assistance.... possibly child support..... a single father gets absolutely nothing.... please shut it up
Don't forget simps lol
A lot of times these situations are very complicated and complex… Some mothers don’t want the relationship with the fathers during or after pregnancy creating an unstable environment for co parenting…Some fathers want to be in the child’s life but deal with up and down energy from mom’s emotions… That’s why some are claiming it’s tough but have created an difficult environment for father to support their children…it’s not always my baby daddy ain’t shit… It’s people playing games… Some tell Father’s we don’t need you.. So all this is just a game with women not being accountable to coparent properly
Solution: stop bringing children into situationships and stop engaging in premarital sex. Many don't have that discipline and self-accountability so they'll face the consequences - drama and broken homes
been happpening to me, this is true
Thank you Anton!
She’s so defensive because she knew the truth the whole time and thought she’d get a different outcome. The proof is in the pudding, sweetheart. Why would you willing have a child with a man and neither one of you are in a position to properly care yourselves, let alone a child for the next 18+ years?? Children need STABILITY! Why aren’t we learning from the older generations? Adulting is not easy for anyone! So why burden yourself prematurely with children you can’t take care of?? Why would you willing sign yourself and children up for a lifetime of struggle, heartache, trauma, etc. ? BW should want MORE for themselves and children. Our ancestors have gone through too much for us to willingly have kids without stability! It’s getting to the point where it’s just down right evil, selfish and neglectful to birth a child into this world, you know for a fact, you can’t care for yourself. Smfh, then for her to have an attitude🙄🥴🤦🏾♀️ Girl, stop projecting your anger towards yourself to the rest of the world! We can’t care more than you. It’s your life!
Facts she choose the man to have children with and we are supposed to all feel sorry 😂. No
Responsibility and Accountability are not the same.
She, like so many other Black women, mistake responsibility for accountability. Her fulfilling her responsibilities as a parent doesn't excuse the fact that she became a single parent in the 1st place and is struggling because of it. Accountability implies answering for the results of her bad choices which led to her having to take the ongoing responsibilities. When one doesn't take accountability, it implies they will just repeat the same bad actions, resulting in more bad results.
As we see when SMs have multiple children by different men. When will they learn?
there is support - the father
Just off hearing how these woman talk is a red flag 🚩 so masculine she talk like the homies
Unfortunately these ladies cant take accountability because the gov' t will bail them out...real accountability is getting no monetary or housing support from no one except the gentleman who you decided to have kids with.
Must not have gotten the memo Goldman Sacks donated a billion dollars specifically and only for black women. Most college scholarships and government housing are also mostly given to black women. There is plenty of help out there for them if they need it.
The title low key triggered me.
I don't give props,congratulate,or give a chick credit for being a single mother.... YOU'RE NOT A GREAT MOM JUST BECAUSE YOU DID'NT GIVE YOUR KIDS UP FOR ADOPTION
"Woman up."
Future generational curses 🤬 still continue to a neighborhood near you!
I'm glad you said Parent (s) we already know he doesn't hold the men accountable in these situations.
Why not give the kids to each respective Baby Daddy if it's that hard and stressful?🤷
Because portraying the victim is more important than co parenting properly.
“A mind is a terrible thing to waste”!
What’s that’s Justin Timberlake song cry me a what? Oh yeah Cry Me A River