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My father died in 2015..!! after 15 mins of his death I went out for a "super recharge" because I had to inform phuppo, khala, mamu, chachha, etc etc..!! It took me at least an hour to inform everyone of them! some of them didn't pick up the phone & they called back after 3 hours or so & started criticizing that why I didn't inform them on time.. ! I couldn't even talk to these people properly due to the trauma! BUT... the rest of my day spent wandering around the streets in arranging "Tent Wala", "Biryani Wala", etc etc .. this is so stupid! but my mom said, beta... yehi hota hai I still feel sorry to my father because everyone from the family had arrived to read Yaseen Shareef n Faitha but i couldn't spare enough time to sit n pray for my father because I was busy in arrangements .!! Does this make any sense? Yes it does in our society! BUT not to me Sorry!!
bro i can completely understand I'm going through this phase these heartless ppl always create issues over small things May Allah pak grant uncle highest rank in Jannah
This is very common in our country India. If someone passes away then neighbours take care of all key necessities of the family. Neighbours make meals available for them and also help with all possible means. Hindus and Muslims all help each other.
@@KaleemKhan-vk5cv bhai mere dada aur nana 2014 main faut hoe hain..Unn ke wisal pai hamsayon aur rishtidaron ne hi ikrajat kiye thay..50 saal pehlah nhi aaj bhi ajse hi hai Balochistan main
Throughout this video, my tears kept falling cause I witnessed majority of these things at the funeral of my father recently. Thank you for putting this video up.
Assalamualykum, as a reminder the sunnah is that mourning is for 3 days and neighbours and community would cook for the mourners during the mourning period. If we all follow the sunnah we wouldn’t have any burden. Our deen is very simple, its us that has made it difficult upon ourselves. May Allah give us Hidaya and guide us to the right path. Aameen!!
Mai India se hu I agree with many points here... lekin Yaha mere hometown me b culture hai that relatives and neighbors take care of bringing the food for at least 3 days
In our village waziristan...the relatives or the neighbours the arrange everything ..from rotti..till tent qabar expenses everything....and I think it's right..
One of my close friend's father passed away like about 6 months ago. when I went there to give my condolences I could see people of my age about 20 year Olds laughing around it annoyed me so much but I had the patience to not punch their faces. When my friend came to meet me he hugged me and I litreally cried I could feel his pain. To this day I still cry whenever I think about his pain and father I didn't eat or drank anything but just sat with him and listened to him
Yes, you are right Junaid bhi, ma kp sy ho ider taqreeban har jaga aesa he hota hy har mohallay ki apni commite hoti hy wo mayat waly ghr k mehmano k khany peeny or degar zarooryat ko take over krti hy❤️
My mother passed away 3 years ago When I was 18 When she was buried and we offered food to the relatives One ofy aunt said.." Salan me botiyan or dal den" I can't forget that.. A lot of people said a lot of other things but I just don't want to remember them because they hurt so bad
The day my dad passed away , I was swamped with chores. Next morning woke up and drove to qabristan alone and cried there in peace . Had too many guests at home. The night following his burial in Asr , we visited the graveyard twice in the middle of the night on hearing that the grave keepers frequently sells dead bodies to medical students and others paying bucks for it Such weird memories... I remember one of my Mamo on the day to the death asking me if the company car given to my dad will be returned now and what were our plans for it.
Footgi me gar walon k khany ka zima mohaly or as pas k garon ka hota ha byshak wo ap k ristadar na b hon or quran me boht dafa is bat py zoor dia gya ha k Ya boht serious advice ha. May Allah make us on his right path and show his blessing to every soul.
On point. Our community is taught what you said in the end. The neighbors take over the food department for the house of the demisee. Baaqi saari baatein sun ke bohot afsos hota hai ke ye hamara haal hai. Khuda hidayat de sab ko.
Finally junaid bhai you said it. I was waiting for you to discuss on this topic. And i must say every single word relates to most of the Pakistani families. May people get the correct knowledge from you and pass it forward. 😊 As i say collect the good and pass it on and ignore the bad. 😊
A .O. A Sir ap ka message bohat acha taOr ap ki baatain kabil e izaat tee Ap ka message na muja bohat sochna per majbore kiya or achi baat wohi hote hai jo mutasir kerna se zayada sochna pr majbore kre taan ka hum khud ko sudaar sakhe, Thank you Sir & love you. Khuda Nighabaan
I lost both of my grandparents recently , Mostly they were the ones who raised me and everything that you mentioned , that is so true , like most relatives were merely fooling around and i was devastated over this. Ki jihone poori family chalai , unki respect toh karlo...but that is when i got to know kon genuine relative hai aur kon nahi so that time was an eye opener
Junaid Bhai fortunately my Father and some other elderly of our society have made a union so that whenever someone dies in our society the handling of their Families and friends is done by the union including Sitting arrangements and feast ( so called) for 3 days. Last time one of our beloved friend died and we did handle their problems and everything. Hope such things are also among all misdeeds.
Very inspirational....this is what we do here in canada too...most of us are alone without families and help...after fautgi aur even deliveries, all neighbours divide the days among themselves and send the meal to them.
yaar kya zabrdast baaten karte ho... Hansaty b ho aur Afsoos karne per majboor b karte ho. Waah... Artistic level hai apka... ALLAH Bless you.. Ameen.!
Hello Junaid sir ,your content is always very meaningful & I very much agree with you that people in our society think less....on both aspects like happiness & a time of grief.
Junaid bhai, you never fail to fascinate us. Boht afsos hua aise waqie sun kar. Qasm se mein tou baher kardeta sab ko agar mere saath koi aesa karta...
Bilkul sahi bat hai humari khushi ghami sub pait se shuru hokar pait per khatam hota. In sub khurafat se bachne Kay liye best cheez ye hai Kay apni wasiyat daily update Karen. Usmen clear likhden ye khanay peenay or fazul rasmon KO na Karen. Jisko nahi Ana na ayen. Acha hai sakoon se maghfirat ki duayen to parh sakengay
Junaid bhai yhan memons mai bhi yhi hota hy, mayyat ke 3 din tk ghr walo ko qareebi rishtedar aur memon community hi khana serve krti hy, +yha kafan dafan qabar ka intizam bhi community ki taraf se hota hy which is a great service for us.
junaid bai bilkul sahe baat,GILGIT BALTISTAN mai bht acha rasam hai,jis jin gar pe foutghi hoti hai,us gar gar mai 3 din tk khana pena kuch b nai nai pakta hai,3 din padosi khana bane k late hai ,gar walo ko khilate hai aur us gar ma jo door se taziyat k log ate hai unki b zemadri b padosiyu ki hoti hai..aisa system hona chahiye ...
I agree with this rishtedaar and bhookapan and Botiyon pe issues.😒 it's sad that we have forgotten so many good things of our own culture. usually it's close siblings uncles aunts who pay for expenses of food ration etc but yeah daig biryani hi ki bannay gi ajeeb
Bilkul sahee kh rahy hain aap jab mery shoher ka intqal hua tha aur jo bhi pursy k liye ata tha to jab tak main ruo nahi deti thi tab tak sammy waly ko sukoon nahi milta tha
Mera Bannu KPK sy belong krta hn. Jb mery dada ki death hui to mjhe achi tarhan yad h bohat dino tk khana ata rha tha... ye culture KPK ka boht acha hai.
Yes, its true, I am from abbottabad. Bhai yahan foutgi waly ghar ko 3 din tak mohally waly khana provide karty hain, (3 days tak foutgi waly ghar me chulha nhi jlaya jata,) and jo b log afsoos karny aty hain, uko bhi khana dety hain. 3rd day ko bara khana hota hai jis me sab rishtydar waghera aaty hain, aur wo b kisi family member ka mohally walon ki taraf se hota ha.. Phir har thursday duaa hoti hai aur khana hota hai 40th tak, wo family waly dety hain 40th ko bhi family ya mohally me se koi duaa karwata hai aur khana deta ha. I wish k esa karachi me bhi ho..
Atleast few people follow your view points on your various topics released.....its worth of your efforts....done good to the society....being a common citizen
In Lahore we have always done it.. whenever there used to be death in our society for atleast 7 days we used to divide breakfast lunch tea dinner in neighbourhood.. I don’t know if it still exist
Well said! God bless u Junaid Bhai Kia baat ki hai apne... Allah apko jaza de... Kaash yehi sochh sab ki hoe to Zindagi asaan ho Jaye... Aik aur zabardast baat yeh hai keh agr koi shakhs banday ka bacha Bunn ke .......Sharma ke ......funeral peh keh de ke ......"nahi ji khana nahi khaein gey" toe baki kom peechay lag jatii hai keh nahi nahi khao khao yeh bera zaroori hai apni mot yaad rehtii hai keh aik din humaray bhi kul waghairaa hon get aur Yun hi khana serve hogaa ...Abey Yar kia yehi aik tareeka hai mot yaad rekhnaay ka ? Waisay momin ko apni mot yaad rekhni chayh...yeh humarii kom ka khanay ka obsession na janay kab khatam hoga? . Show some empathy..rehm kero gher walo pe... Aik death per meray husband ko aik baba g ne pooray 55 minute sarray 30 second convince kia keh korma khaa lo beta bohat achaa bunaa hai.... Meray mian pairr pernaay hi waalaay thay keh uncle maaf kerein app khaa lein pait bher ker hum judge nahi kerein gey..... Buss bacht ho gayii wo hi thukk ker chupp ho Gaye... seriously I'm not even exaggerating... I Aaur aik privacy ki bhi masla hota hai... Gher walo ko janay wlay keh saath kuch waqt Dena chayyeh...koi emotional baaat ...koi maafi...akhri alfaaz kuch kehnay chahein? Uncle chalay gye biwi beychari doosray kamray Mei...bachay yahan wahan bhatak rahay Hain aur baki random log faislay kr rhay Hain....Meri Ami jab gayein toe literally I had to ask people to leave the room for a minute or two takay hum aur Abu could spend a few moments alone..ksii ko khyal hi nahi a Raha tha... Just the thought ,that u won't be able to see ur loved one ever again, is devastating ....koi smajh nhai skta... Anyway, great video! apke liye respect berh gyi , honestly... I regularly watch all ur rants and I am a subscriber as well ...magr ajj pehli martaba comment kia Allah hum sab ki soch ko behter bunaye ameen
Bhai jee v nice bilkul real batain kie ap ny plz aik guests k bary ma b video banaie aksr mehman nemat k bajy azaab bn janty hn khas kr treatment k ly jo log gaon sy aty hn
meri dadi ama ka chaliswan tha or us pa mere apne rishtedar ese tyar hoke aaye hue the jese koi party chal rhi ho ...everything in this video is true AF and we cannot do anything to change this cuz society
junaid bhai .... i had faced such situation in the past it was about my friend's grandfather death and i was arranging tent to help as a friend coz mushkil wakt tha un k liay yeh dosti k naty kr dia then next thing i have noticed that there was man who was arranging things as being neighbor so ,and some young guys in my town was be like "yeh inky peechy bhag raha h sham ko usky betOn(son) sy beazit hoga" so i was so bad feeling coz thay person was so nice actually i was helping him so he just told me that you have to hold this and that in following /particular manner and keep this in your mind when you do next time . it was like ohk i would definitely do that same the janazah was 11 pm so and his elder son is in army so we are waiting for him so it was about 12 o'clock in the midnight it was for the first time for me that i am in graveyard at 12 o'clock so i was quite nervous and sitting together with my cousin but that 1 hour chat of our town people was like i can't explain ... literally speaking qabirstan sy zaida un sy khof any laga
My father died in 2015..!! after 15 mins of his death I went out for a "super recharge" because I had to inform phuppo, khala, mamu, chachha, etc etc..!! It took me at least an hour to inform everyone of them! some of them didn't pick up the phone & they called back after 3 hours or so & started criticizing that why I didn't inform them on time..
! I couldn't even talk to these people properly due to the trauma! BUT... the rest of my day spent wandering around the streets in arranging "Tent Wala", "Biryani Wala", etc etc .. this is so stupid! but my mom said, beta... yehi hota hai
I still feel sorry to my father because everyone from the family had arrived to read Yaseen Shareef n Faitha but i couldn't spare enough time to sit n pray for my father because I was busy in arrangements .!! Does this make any sense? Yes it does in our society! BUT not to me Sorry!!
i feel sorry for you. ALLAH apke abbu ko jannat naseeb kare.AMEEN
Salman Anjum واللہ المستعان ؛اللہ پاک ہمیں ہدایت عطا فرمائے آمین
bro i can completely understand I'm going through this phase these heartless ppl always create issues over small things May Allah pak grant uncle highest rank in Jannah
Very sorry to hear this. God bless your dad.
it does not make sense at all and you're correct that this needs to stop now
This is very common in our country India. If someone passes away then neighbours take care of all key necessities of the family. Neighbours make meals available for them and also help with all possible means. Hindus and Muslims all help each other.
Suhel Sayyed it's common in Pakistan as well.
Zainab Izhar Good to know. May Allah SWT bless both nations
"Let there be no compulsion in religion" we are human beings and sons of Adam
Essa India may bhi hota hai muslims and indian together good Sir thank you
Yeah same in Pakistan bro
not just in KPK and Punjab even in Balochistan neighbours and relatives take care of food for at least 3 days
wo 50 sal pehle hota hoga, aaj kal kisi ko koi parwa nai hoti
Kaleem Khan G Nai.. Aaj b hamaray han yehi Rawayath zindha hain..
Kaleem Khan bhai ...mera dada abu still neighbors ki help krty ha jan kisi ki death hu ..am from Punjab
@@KaleemKhan-vk5cv bhai mere dada aur nana 2014 main faut hoe hain..Unn ke wisal pai hamsayon aur rishtidaron ne hi ikrajat kiye thay..50 saal pehlah nhi aaj bhi ajse hi hai Balochistan main
Yup hamay haw sab koch relatives or mohally kay log karty hein
Throughout this video, my tears kept falling cause I witnessed majority of these things at the funeral of my father recently.
Thank you for putting this video up.
😟
Same thing witnessed by me on mommys funeral..u r not alone...
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Assalamualykum, as a reminder the sunnah is that mourning is for 3 days and neighbours and community would cook for the mourners during the mourning period. If we all follow the sunnah we wouldn’t have any burden. Our deen is very simple, its us that has made it difficult upon ourselves. May Allah give us Hidaya and guide us to the right path. Aameen!!
Mai India se hu I agree with many points here... lekin Yaha mere hometown me b culture hai that relatives and neighbors take care of bringing the food for at least 3 days
Yeah right.
Han me b India se hu hamre ganv me b ESA I hai aap paddos vale apne AP sambal lete hai
Mere Yaha bhi same hota hai infact hame neighborhood log 3-4 din tk Khana wagerah dete hai. Aur Mai Delhi Shaheen Bagh se Hu👍
In our village waziristan...the relatives or the neighbours the arrange everything ..from rotti..till tent qabar expenses everything....and I think it's right..
shabina saifullah ماسیدے کوشلیے انگلش یایے
So good
Very true. A dark chapter of our society described very well.
I lost my father in 2014, and i swear i experienced the same events.
May his soul rest in peace 😢
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Allah jannat ul firdos Mai ala maqam ata karay
At my father's soyam my neighbors after reciting Quran were sitting and waiting for degh to open :)
Very true..they wait for lunch oŕ dinner..
100% correct... same in india...I've seen shameless ppl chit-chatting in funeral 😪
One of my close friend's father passed away like about 6 months ago. when I went there to give my condolences I could see people of my age about 20 year Olds laughing around it annoyed me so much but I had the patience to not punch their faces. When my friend came to meet me he hugged me and I litreally cried I could feel his pain. To this day I still cry whenever I think about his pain and father I didn't eat or drank anything but just sat with him and listened to him
Yes, you are right Junaid bhi, ma kp sy ho ider taqreeban har jaga aesa he hota hy har mohallay ki apni commite hoti hy wo mayat waly ghr k mehmano k khany peeny or degar zarooryat ko take over krti hy❤️
Junaid Bhai Balochistan mein b saray, Arrangements Relatives or Neighbours karte hain.
200% correct. Exactly all these things happens during the funeral .
My mother passed away 3 years ago
When I was 18
When she was buried and we offered food to the relatives
One ofy aunt said.." Salan me botiyan or dal den"
I can't forget that..
A lot of people said a lot of other things but I just don't want to remember them because they hurt so bad
Oh my dear Good lord... I am so sorry... May Bless you mom with jannah Ameen
My grandmother has died at Saturday night at 3:00am pray for her ke onko jannat tul furdoos me alaw makam ata farmaye
I am from India and subscribed this channel. I am totally agree with ur thoughts... Really good work... Aware the people like this
bro you are doing such a great work keep it up finally someone is really talking sense and trying to address our common problems
The day my dad passed away , I was swamped with chores. Next morning woke up and drove to qabristan alone and cried there in peace . Had too many guests at home.
The night following his burial in Asr , we visited the graveyard twice in the middle of the night on hearing that the grave keepers frequently sells dead bodies to medical students and others paying bucks for it
Such weird memories...
I remember one of my Mamo on the day to the death asking me if the company car given to my dad will be returned now and what were our plans for it.
my condolences with yr family
On my grand father's death a woman was asking for cigarettes just after janazah .
Condolences to your family
May ALLAH RANK YOUR FATHER HIGHEST RANK IN JANNAH AMEEN
Footgi me gar walon k khany ka zima mohaly or as pas k garon ka hota ha byshak wo ap k ristadar na b hon or quran me boht dafa is bat py zoor dia gya ha k Ya boht serious advice ha.
May Allah make us on his right path and show his blessing to every soul.
On point. Our community is taught what you said in the end. The neighbors take over the food department for the house of the demisee.
Baaqi saari baatein sun ke bohot afsos hota hai ke ye hamara haal hai. Khuda hidayat de sab ko.
Zabardast Aik Aik point aap ne btaya ha bilkul aisy hi hota ha. Allah humko hidayat at farmye
Your best efforts are apprieciated for changing the thinking process of the common people ........your thought process may fetch a good society.
Finally junaid bhai you said it. I was waiting for you to discuss on this topic. And i must say every single word relates to most of the Pakistani families.
May people get the correct knowledge from you and pass it forward. 😊
As i say collect the good and pass it on and ignore the bad. 😊
What a great video Sir. This is very common in sub continent. Thanks.
Truth has been spoken.. 👍👍
Bhai ap ka el alag hi level hai Ma Sha Allah..
Awareness ap se. 👌👌👌
Hamara kpk best ha is bat ma 😍😍😍
A .O. A
Sir ap ka message bohat acha taOr ap ki baatain kabil e izaat tee Ap ka message na muja bohat sochna per majbore kiya or achi baat wohi hote hai jo mutasir kerna se zayada sochna pr majbore kre taan ka hum khud ko sudaar sakhe, Thank you Sir & love you.
Khuda Nighabaan
Every thing is so correct...n still so many weird things need to be realized😡
I lost both of my grandparents recently , Mostly they were the ones who raised me and everything that you mentioned , that is so true , like most relatives were merely fooling around and i was devastated over this. Ki jihone poori family chalai , unki respect toh karlo...but that is when i got to know kon genuine relative hai aur kon nahi so that time was an eye opener
Junaid Bhai fortunately my Father and some other elderly of our society have made a union so that whenever someone dies in our society the handling of their Families and friends is done by the union including Sitting arrangements and feast ( so called) for 3 days. Last time one of our beloved friend died and we did handle their problems and everything. Hope such things are also among all misdeeds.
Very inspirational....this is what we do here in canada too...most of us are alone without families and help...after fautgi aur even deliveries, all neighbours divide the days among themselves and send the meal to them.
Junaid Bhai ! Allah apko emaan k sath dill ka sakoon muyasar kary.
Hats off to you bro mind-blowing
yaar kya zabrdast baaten karte ho... Hansaty b ho aur Afsoos karne per majboor b karte ho.
Waah... Artistic level hai apka... ALLAH Bless you.. Ameen.!
Mashallah jazakallah bilkul sahi bath kahi hai app ney junaid bai
:((( Allah talaah har ksi k maan baap and Ghar waalon, dost ahbaab ko lambi and sehatyab Zindagi day.
Bahut achi video hai, lesson for all.
Hello Junaid sir ,your content is always very meaningful & I very much agree with you that people in our society think less....on both aspects like happiness & a time of grief.
You soo talented, you talks are amazing love from London
Much amazing video.a true fact of life
100% right bilkul theek kah rae ap aise he karty log blky is bhe zayda karty.
such a brilliant speech sir that's fact it's happens in our life, ur fan from usa.
Lost my father in 2013 n now in dec 2019 lost my mother but im still in trauma n still wakes up at night plz pray for my parents
Allah janat naseeb karein
@@piston707 aameen bhai thx
Faisalabad main mostly others take care of everything including kafaan
Good.
Rasoolallah SAW ki hadees hai ki teen din mrne vaale k ghar khana pakna makrooh hai aur mohalle valo pr mustahab hai ki ous ghar me khana bhijvaaye
Bilkul shi Yr kitne fzul apps aiy hay koi aisa app ai Jo puri dunia me video share krske love u bhaiya
Yeh are owesome .This is so true word by word.
Yes it is very common in KPK....jab village mai koi wafat hu jata hai,tu phir 7 ya 10 din thak,log apki ghar kahana bhej tehh hai...
Junaid bhai, you never fail to fascinate us.
Boht afsos hua aise waqie sun kar. Qasm se mein tou baher kardeta sab ko agar mere saath koi aesa karta...
Rishtay wali bat blkl sach hai. Ye mere sath bhi hua tha mere nanu k inteqal per
Zabasdst, bilkul mery dil ki batein kehty ho aap.
7:31 actually Islam also teaches us this and it’s obligatory for the neighbours to provide food for at least for three days.
Jazak Allah! This was mandatory.
G mayyat pe blkl log yhi krhe hote hen koi rishte dekh ta ha koi botiyan mangta ha koi biryani grm mangta ha blkl theek bola AP ne that is tru
Bilkul sahi bat hai humari khushi ghami sub pait se shuru hokar pait per khatam hota. In sub khurafat se bachne Kay liye best cheez ye hai Kay apni wasiyat daily update Karen. Usmen clear likhden ye khanay peenay or fazul rasmon KO na Karen. Jisko nahi Ana na ayen. Acha hai sakoon se maghfirat ki duayen to parh sakengay
Very good points...people should learn from this.
Junaid bhai yhan memons mai bhi yhi hota hy, mayyat ke 3 din tk ghr walo ko qareebi rishtedar aur memon community hi khana serve krti hy, +yha kafan dafan qabar ka intizam bhi community ki taraf se hota hy which is a great service for us.
بہت اہم مسئلہ کی طرف توجہ دلائی ہے
App ne jo bhi kaha 💯 sahi kaha Allah hidayat de is qoum ko
True the sad part of our Pakistani culture
junaid bhai apki videos bht ache hote hain.
junaid bai bilkul sahe baat,GILGIT BALTISTAN mai bht acha rasam hai,jis jin gar pe foutghi hoti hai,us gar gar mai 3 din tk khana pena kuch b nai nai pakta hai,3 din padosi khana bane k late hai ,gar walo ko khilate hai aur us gar ma jo door se taziyat k log ate hai unki b zemadri b padosiyu ki hoti hai..aisa system hona chahiye ...
I agree with this rishtedaar and bhookapan and Botiyon pe issues.😒 it's sad that we have forgotten so many good things of our own culture. usually it's close siblings uncles aunts who pay for expenses of food ration etc but yeah daig biryani hi ki bannay gi ajeeb
Agr ap ye sari baat urdu m keh deti to muj jesy un pr ko b smj a jati
Pta ni ku hum Pakistani English bolna psand krty humari apni zuban etni achi h
Hamare India me alhamdulliah aesa nhi hota hai
Bilkul sahee kh rahy hain aap jab mery shoher ka intqal hua tha aur jo bhi pursy k liye ata tha to jab tak main ruo nahi deti thi tab tak sammy waly ko sukoon nahi milta tha
jeena tou hai he mushkil....marna us say ziada mushkil :D
Sai bat krty ho ap yar i solute you we need this type of videos
Sahi kaha bhai . Agreed
Ajeeb log hy qasm se
In my city Dera Ghazi Khan, Log kafi din tk us ghar men khana bhejtay hain jis ke ghar men foutgi hoi hoti hai. Ye riwayat waqi har jaga honi chahiye.
So sad but it’s very true I don’t know when people going to change .
Allah Hifazait farnmye hum sub k
*In India alhamdulliah here neighborhood manages food for around 1 week*
hindu ya sirf muslims
السلام علیکم
جنید بھائ بہت خوب فرمایا
Mera Bannu KPK sy belong krta hn. Jb mery dada ki death hui to mjhe achi tarhan yad h bohat dino tk khana ata rha tha... ye culture KPK ka boht acha hai.
Good.
Yes, its true, I am from abbottabad. Bhai yahan foutgi waly ghar ko 3 din tak mohally waly khana provide karty hain, (3 days tak foutgi waly ghar me chulha nhi jlaya jata,) and jo b log afsoos karny aty hain, uko bhi khana dety hain. 3rd day ko bara khana hota hai jis me sab rishtydar waghera aaty hain, aur wo b kisi family member ka mohally walon ki taraf se hota ha.. Phir har thursday duaa hoti hai aur khana hota hai 40th tak, wo family waly dety hain 40th ko bhi family ya mohally me se koi duaa karwata hai aur khana deta ha. I wish k esa karachi me bhi ho..
Atleast few people follow your view points on your various topics released.....its worth of your efforts....done good to the society....being a common citizen
Apne India ka bhi kuch haal aisa hi hai love from INDIA
so, true..... bitter reality!
I can totally relate with everything u hv said😣...log yeh bhi nhi sochty k mout un ko bhi ani hai...
Reality hai bhai..nice video..
Bilkul sahi baaten hain bhai...
I hope you understand because I know that you are a wise man
In Lahore we have always done it.. whenever there used to be death in our society for atleast 7 days we used to divide breakfast lunch tea dinner in neighbourhood.. I don’t know if it still exist
Churian dekha9
Pehle aesa hi hota tha., Ab nhi
Very true and sad too.😢😢😢
Bilkul ye bat sach ha.
Ma Attock districk sy belong karta hon.
Humary han bhi fotgi waly ghar nashta bhi jata ha or rat din ka khana bhi 3 din.
Yes Its a culture i Punjab villages, neighbors sab kuch arrange kartay hai like food, etc
No its not ..
Well said! God bless u Junaid Bhai Kia baat ki hai apne... Allah apko jaza de... Kaash yehi sochh sab ki hoe to Zindagi asaan ho Jaye... Aik aur zabardast baat yeh hai keh agr koi shakhs banday ka bacha Bunn ke .......Sharma ke ......funeral peh keh de ke ......"nahi ji khana nahi khaein gey" toe baki kom peechay lag jatii hai keh nahi nahi khao khao yeh bera zaroori hai apni mot yaad rehtii hai keh aik din humaray bhi kul waghairaa hon get aur Yun hi khana serve hogaa ...Abey Yar kia yehi aik tareeka hai mot yaad rekhnaay ka ? Waisay momin ko apni mot yaad rekhni chayh...yeh humarii kom ka khanay ka obsession na janay kab khatam hoga? . Show some empathy..rehm kero gher walo pe... Aik death per meray husband ko aik baba g ne pooray 55 minute sarray 30 second convince kia keh korma khaa lo beta bohat achaa bunaa hai.... Meray mian pairr pernaay hi waalaay thay keh uncle maaf kerein app khaa lein pait bher ker hum judge nahi kerein gey..... Buss bacht ho gayii wo hi thukk ker chupp ho Gaye... seriously I'm not even exaggerating... I Aaur aik privacy ki bhi masla hota hai... Gher walo ko janay wlay keh saath kuch waqt Dena chayyeh...koi emotional baaat ...koi maafi...akhri alfaaz kuch kehnay chahein? Uncle chalay gye biwi beychari doosray kamray Mei...bachay yahan wahan bhatak rahay Hain aur baki random log faislay kr rhay Hain....Meri Ami jab gayein toe literally I had to ask people to leave the room for a minute or two takay hum aur Abu could spend a few moments alone..ksii ko khyal hi nahi a Raha tha... Just the thought ,that u won't be able to see ur loved one ever again, is devastating ....koi smajh nhai skta... Anyway, great video! apke liye respect berh gyi , honestly... I regularly watch all ur rants and I am a subscriber as well ...magr ajj pehli martaba comment kia Allah hum sab ki soch ko behter bunaye ameen
Khalli walli... Ur rock...
Bhai jee v nice bilkul real batain kie ap ny plz aik guests k bary ma b video banaie aksr mehman nemat k bajy azaab bn janty hn khas kr treatment k ly jo log gaon sy aty hn
I Can Relate, 100% True!!
bilkul sahi baat ki ap ne..
meri dadi ama ka chaliswan tha or us pa mere apne rishtedar ese tyar hoke aaye hue the jese koi party chal rhi ho ...everything in this video is true AF and we cannot do anything to change this cuz society
junaid bhai .... i had faced such situation in the past it was about my friend's grandfather death and i was arranging tent to help as a friend coz mushkil wakt tha un k liay yeh dosti k naty kr dia
then next thing i have noticed that there was man who was arranging things as being neighbor so ,and some young guys in my town was be like "yeh inky peechy bhag raha h sham ko usky betOn(son) sy beazit hoga"
so i was so bad feeling coz thay person was so nice actually i was helping him so he just told me that you have to hold this and that in following /particular manner and keep this in your mind when you do next time . it was like ohk i would definitely do that same
the janazah was 11 pm so and his elder son is in army so we are waiting for him so it was about 12 o'clock in the midnight it was for the first time for me that i am in graveyard at 12 o'clock so i was quite nervous and sitting together with my cousin but that 1 hour chat of our town people was like i can't explain ... literally speaking qabirstan sy zaida un sy khof any laga
Right bro wo shaadi wali baat
Bht Acha bolte ho aap
Bahi jan ap ki is vedio aur ap ki achi soch ko salam pesh karta ho kabol farmao
Great talk so real
Yes here in pushtoon society the relatives do all major arrangements like food, tants, qabar etc
Blkl
Junaid bhi i just love your critical analysis....😂😂😁
bhai jan salam jo cheezAIN MAY SOOCTA THA WO AP EXPLANE KAR RAHAY HO SALUTE HAI BRO AP KO ALL THE BEST