Happy Valentine’s Day Family!! We hope that today you know that you are loved! Whether you have a boo or not, God’s love is ever present. We pray it surrounds you today 🤗😘 Sn: Excuse the lighting and the setting I had my camera on... It had me looking really washed out 😅
I could tell Your husband was holding his breath the entire video, it’s like he didn’t know if you would put him on blast. You two are such a lovely couple but I must say that telling our family everything will eventually become a problem. Put those boundaries up my love. You two are so beautiful together
He said it perfectly "I'm just here so that I don't get fined".....Mary, work on falling back a LOT more and not be so controlling and allow him to lead...let the man talk and don't over talk him....it's not just you anymore...he can speak for himself....he is SO patient with you ❤....love you both!
Incolere We talked about this the other night. 😅 We’re both working on how to navigate through shared videos like these so that it doesn’t appear that I’m doing most of the talking... We’ll get better with time ☺️Thanks for your insight 😘
OMG!! I swear we are so similar in resolving issues. I do not just want an apology for the sake of making peace...I want a full discussion to hash out the problem. Don't wake up and act like nothing happened, I want the issue to be acknowledged and addressed.I'm glad i'm not alone and paranoid..lol. Lovely video btw.
Lovely couple! Have been married for about 8yrs and have come to realize that your partner may not always do or be what you want..so long as there is love, respect and appreciation you are good to go...learning never ends though
I'm glad that y'all are transparent but yet at the same time protect y'all married by being confidential. My husband and I don't really share our challenges with anyone besides elder's from our church who are married and over marriage group. They share the things that they went through and give us unbiased godly advice. They never take sides nor put either of us down but they challenge us to grow at the same time. God bless y'all union 💞
Mary is lovely but sometimes you need to let up sis on the brother.... If he treating you good everyday (hopefully) definitely don't make Valentines day a big deal and don't buy into the double standard that men have to go big or go home. It can go for both.
To those who send in Q&A questions: Why would you ask a married couple their pet peeves about each other?! Or for details about their sex life? How old are y'all cause this is not some flimsy highschool couple UA-cam video, this is a whole married couple 🤦🏾♀️. Mary is transparent almost to a fault, and yes she had a choice not to answer, but y'all need to put some respect on their union and y'alls questions.
Aww Mary.... you guys are great but to be honest I wish you didn’t complain so much on your hubby...(even if that’s how you feel) just play it off, my grandma and aunts coached me on this when I got married 7 years ago because I thought I was being funny and playful, but a complaint is complaint. Wish you guys continuous happy marriage.
This is very TRUE, at some point the constant complaints(playful or not) can come off as conceited, and I know that is not the situation here but still....#MuchLove
As she gets older, the little Nick picks won't matter. Love will override it. It took me almost 10 years to get myself together. I prayed and ask God to fix me, and He did just that.💕
WigWishes Thanks so much for the compliment. I don’t believe I complain a lot. I only answered the questions honestly. I believe that often times individuals would like to hear that everything is perfect, along with their partner and that’s unfortunate because that only presents a jaded view of what love and marriage is about. Now, you will not hear me put my husband down, but, I will honestly share what my pet peeves are and that he isn’t perfect because that’s the truth. I also shared that I’m also not perfect. Jerard and I are both learning and growing together and we are happy about the growth God is doing in us both. Thanks for watching ❤️
Mary thanks for sharing this information. I appreciate you two talking about topics including talking to people or get advice outside of the marriage. You two have a nice connection.
I really enjoyed this video... I cannot believe I have been following you since the beginning of your journey two years ago. Please give Jerard more room to speak, my only humble request. Otherwise I really appreciate your honesty
Vutomi I’m glad you enjoyed it. I’m working on that... Sometimes it can be a bit hard because Jerard sometimes gets quiet on camera, but, I need to learn to pass the question to him and give him time to think about the question. But, this one was a live on instagram and I didn’t want any dry spaces in our convo. I’ll work on it though. ☺️
Good Mary, In the natural you couldn't teach without the education. Same with your marriage, it's not time to teach others what you haven't walk through yourself. Stay focus on growing the garden before you have an harvest that others can eat from. I pray you guys find a season couple that can not only speak into your marriage but keep you guys lifted in prayer too. Make sure you hear from God when it comes to connecting to a ministry. Keep your marriage cover in prayer and ask the Holy Spirit for help. Stay fun loving and blessed.
Sharon Edwards Absolutely! We definitely don’t want to begin doing that prematurely. And thanks so much for your prayers. We definitely believe God has us🤗🙏🏾❤️
Mary on your next Q&A could you ask Jerad if he would suggest boarding school for a young African American boy? And just brief on the whole concept of boarding school? Thanx alot 🙂 you guy's are such an inspiration.
Congrats to one of my fave couples. On your 1 year!!!!..I adore you Mary..athough.kind of hard on Jerard about the gum 😉....Sometimes it helps to chew gum or light snack between meals. I do understand on the gum in bed. . (smacking) You two will do fine..praying on Job leads and a church home... Hugs to you both🌷🌷🌷😊
Oh thank you for sharing this information with us and I also like that you talked about you twos connection as well as finishing each other's sentences. Thank you for talking about the first year of marriage. THAT is funny MARY that you mentioned that he has forced you to stay on your knees :) Thanks for talking about talking to someone outside of the marriage because I have thought about this. Good advice and thank you for the tips :)
Yay!! I think watching this we can all find something to be critical about but I know, because I've been single for 5 years myself, that the transition from singleness to married life would be overwhelming for most. When you've had YEARS to think and imagine having someone and the reality not quite meeting those exact expectations would prove difficult for anyone. Grace is what is needed and God can fix it from there. You guys rock!
Happy Valentine's day all!. Thank you for this video. My soon to be hubby and I are also practicing celibacy until marriage. The advice and conversations and honesty you all provide are a blessing and encouragement to me. May the Lord continue to bless you both!
I always read the comments before I watch a vid. I was expecting the worse throwing under the bus. However, this was a good video, very insightful and transparent. I'm getting married in the next year or so and I know the challenges I'll have. I'm very comfortable and used to doing things my way all the time. Spending and/or saving money the way I like. Having my place all to myself. I'm going through a transition period with God trying to break me from some of the control issues I have. Please pray for a sistah and I'll do the same anyways.
foreveropti79 Hill Perspective is everything😅 But, its definitely a journey that I never thought would be a challenge for me. It’s so good that you recognize it early. Front loading this particular area is definitely helpful. Begin praying to God about it now. He’s so faithful and he will absolutely help you through it! He’s been working on me tremendously 😅🙌🏾🙌🏾 Many blessings to you! Love, joy, and prosperity to you both 🤗🙏🏾❤️
yeah the first year is hell! but it becomes so amazing after that how well you begin to mesh with your spouse, especially if its the right person for you
I love yall & yall story gives me hope as I have a desire to be married & I have been Celebrate going 2 year waiting for my husband to find me. Thanks for the Encouraging video they really help😍
Heeey hubby-Jerard/Naturally-Jerard! It is great to see you guys back on the tube again! Miss your couples vlogs! Thanks for the update on your marriage. One year is fantabulous! CONGRATULATIONS! I really look forward to staying in tune to you guys future. God will continue to wonderful things for you guys. And I'm with you Mary NO to flowers..."keep up the gifts that last forever...Jerard" Hey stay BLESSED you guys Happy valentine's day!
Girl married life is on your side. I recognized your hubby, but thought he had a new girlfriend and ditch you for a prettier beauty. Hee-Haw! Look what God will do when you wait and live the holy life before the ceremony. You guys are sooooooO beautiful and I am so happy for you and may our LORD continue to smile on you and your love for each other. a fan.... Praying for you and I won't stop! I. Thessalonians 5:17
Aww you guys go back and forth like you been married for 10 years. Too cute. But I wanted to mention a few people that are great social media mentors and have couples retreats at times. I know eventually you want to find mentors close by but for now, these people are awesome godly couples on Instagram that you may want to look into. @heatherlove, @thisiscornelius and @themancavesociety have an awesome ministry. Love yall both and stay happily married.
Hopefully you will see this message. What I did early in my journey of marriage was started a Christian marriage group. My group is called Just 4 wives and it allow me to be around other married women and couples. It was truly helpful. My husband and I been where you guys are and I’ve learn after our 15yrs together and 11yrs married to pick and choose your battles.
Thanks for your honesty... I am in school and I share a suit with my twin sister. We get into disagreements at times and we get annoyed with stuff we do around each other lol. I know that marriage takes work and I am glad you were real with us. This really allows us to know what to expect when we enter into our own relationships. My sister and I enjoyed this very much! 🌹
Happy Valentine's Day guys! Y'all are too cute!!! Yes the first year is hard, but it will get better...just continue to keep first. God bless y'all!!!❤️
I just love ya'll! Idk if ya'll understand how quick I clicked on this video at work lol. I love ya'll! It's a blessing to be reached out to for conferences, etc. but I totally understand ya'lls view -it makes a lot of sense to want to master something before helping others to do it. Having followed you from singleness to now, I'm so inspired and it's like God speaks to me even through the vlogs. Love you both! Side bar: Mary you say absolutely more now and Jerard says particularly more now I think it's cute how you're been rubbing off on each other lol!
MsNaturallyMary!!! Sis; this was intensely good, w a side of scripture!! Just knowing that society depiction of marriage being " picture perfect" is far fetched. But trial and error; live, learn and grow..
I'm usually skip past the channels that incorporate hubby...but you &1 other you tuber i absolutely luvv to watch &hope hubby is with you..yawl are adorable...beautiful couple...
Also one more THANG! LOL. I see how you are both becoming so much more of yourselves in front of the camera. It's like ya'll are getting out of that phase of not trying to say anything wrong and it's getting so raw and real. I love it. TEll it like it is ya'll!
You can use the FAM Method (Fertility Awareness Method) so you don't have to use condoms :-) Great podcast called "Fertility Friday"can help you with it :-)
Michelle Tillman Wow! I have to check this out. We talked about something like this in the beginning. But, we are both so paranoid 😅But, definitely something to look into. Thank you! ❤️
Msnaturally Mary Alot of people use condoms or birth control until they get confident in how it works. There are only 5-7 days a month you can get pregnant you’ll have it down in no time! 😁
One thing to consider when looking for a church, make sure they have a marriage ministry and a men's bible study group so Gerard can find a person that can be his accountability partner and visa versa. Pray this helps.
Thanks Mary and Gerald, Happy to see you together It has been long time l have been following you guys ,Before you were married up to now your married Happy For you guys,love you
My guys......❤️❤️Happy Valentines Day Team MJ!!❤️❤️ Love you guys and the realness is off the charts (skin to skin😂😂). I’ve never married and I have always desired it. I too had a fairly tale view of marriage. Hubby and I were going to being live in Love Heaven Estates, on Love Boulevard and everyday was going to just be looooooooovvvvvveeeeee. 😂 Chile, talk about sabotage. Soooo grateful God has made me wait and wait and wait 😂😂😂 ( come on Gawd!!) Just kidding...He has allowed me to fall so madly in love with Him, grow and really evolve as a woman of God. I feel more ready now than ever, but I trust His timing. Ha, J , that’s me that calls you Team MJ!!!!
Bre Jarmell Thank you!! And 😂😂😂That’s too funny!! I’m just trying to present y’all with the real. Can’t have y’all living in fantasy land like I was 🤣🤣🤣 And I gotta tell Jerard that you call us MJ..He didn’t believe me😅
I kept my vow to waiting until marriage and God honored me with my husband...its the best decision to stay pure...
Beverly nich So Awesome!! Many blessings to you both 🤗🙏🏾❤️
Beverly wow you're truly blessed!! May God continue to bless your marriage
Happy Valentine’s Day Family!! We hope that today you know that you are loved! Whether you have a boo or not, God’s love is ever present. We pray it surrounds you today 🤗😘
Sn: Excuse the lighting and the setting I had my camera on... It had me looking really washed out 😅
I could tell Your husband was holding his breath the entire video, it’s like he didn’t know if you would put him on blast. You two are such a lovely couple but I must say that telling our family everything will eventually become a problem. Put those boundaries up my love. You two are so beautiful together
He said it perfectly "I'm just here so that I don't get fined".....Mary, work on falling back a LOT more and not be so controlling and allow him to lead...let the man talk and don't over talk him....it's not just you anymore...he can speak for himself....he is SO patient with you ❤....love you both!
This is true.
Incolere We talked about this the other night. 😅 We’re both working on how to navigate through shared videos like these so that it doesn’t appear that I’m doing most of the talking... We’ll get better with time ☺️Thanks for your insight 😘
I will NEVER get tired of the way Mary looks at her hubby...like she's literally gonna melt gazing into his eyes...it's the sweetest thing ever ❤
Incolere ☺️ Love will do that to ya 😅❤️❤️❤️
We been married for 14 years and we still talk as much as we were dating. 😊
Yvette Shokere That’s so awesome! We are going to get it together☺️
OMG!! I swear we are so similar in resolving issues. I do not just want an apology for the sake of making peace...I want a full discussion to hash out the problem. Don't wake up and act like nothing happened, I want the issue to be acknowledged and addressed.I'm glad i'm not alone and paranoid..lol. Lovely video btw.
Lola7 Absolutely 😅
Proposal was the biggest after valentine day gift, it outweighs getting nothing for valentine.💗
Right! That's what I was sayin'
Mary is just going in on him this whole vid and he’s just taking it with a smile. Lol.
Lovely couple! Have been married for about 8yrs and have come to realize that your partner may not always do or be what you want..so long as there is love, respect and appreciation you are good to go...learning never ends though
dinah kerubo I’m definitely learning that ☺️
I'm glad that y'all are transparent but yet at the same time protect y'all married by being confidential. My husband and I don't really share our challenges with anyone besides elder's from our church who are married and over marriage group. They share the things that they went through and give us unbiased godly advice. They never take sides nor put either of us down but they challenge us to grow at the same time. God bless y'all union 💞
Mary is lovely but sometimes you need to let up sis on the brother.... If he treating you good everyday (hopefully) definitely don't make Valentines day a big deal and don't buy into the double standard that men have to go big or go home. It can go for both.
I have never watched a video that long on UA-cam unless it was a show/ movie. That goes to show how much I love you guys.
❤❤❤❤❤
Anne Noel Aww... That makes us happy! Thanks so much! 😘🤗
"My husband forces me to get on my knees"
Come again??!! Oh!! You meant prayer...carry on. Lol!!
NaturallyMeMarie 🤣🤣🤣🤣Definitely meant prayer😅
To those who send in Q&A questions: Why would you ask a married couple their pet peeves about each other?! Or for details about their sex life? How old are y'all cause this is not some flimsy highschool couple UA-cam video, this is a whole married couple 🤦🏾♀️. Mary is transparent almost to a fault, and yes she had a choice not to answer, but y'all need to put some respect on their union and y'alls questions.
Aww Mary.... you guys are great but to be honest I wish you didn’t complain so much on your hubby...(even if that’s how you feel) just play it off, my grandma and aunts coached me on this when I got married 7 years ago because I thought I was being funny and playful, but a complaint is complaint. Wish you guys continuous happy marriage.
This is very TRUE, at some point the constant complaints(playful or not) can come off as conceited, and I know that is not the situation here but still....#MuchLove
As she gets older, the little Nick picks won't matter. Love will override it. It took me almost 10 years to get myself together. I prayed and ask God to fix me, and He did just that.💕
WigWishes Thanks so much for the compliment.
I don’t believe I complain a lot. I only answered the questions honestly. I believe that often times individuals would like to hear that everything is perfect, along with their partner and that’s unfortunate because that only presents a jaded view of what love and marriage is about. Now, you will not hear me put my husband down, but, I will honestly share what my pet peeves are and that he isn’t perfect because that’s the truth. I also shared that I’m also not perfect. Jerard and I are both learning and growing together and we are happy about the growth God is doing in us both. Thanks for watching ❤️
It was my observation too. Her energy was a bit negative.
Msnaturally Mary Thank you and Jerard for your transparency. Most of us appreciate it and don’t perceive it as complaining. God bless you both.
Beautiful couple, nothing like black love!!!!!!
Love is love. No such thing as black love.
You are a beautiful couple. You might want t to give your hubby a chance to speak tho. You cut him off every time.
I really wanted to hear more of his take on everything as well but didn't get to hear much from him
You two looks at each other with so much love . It's beautiful to see
Mary thanks for sharing this information. I appreciate you two talking about topics including talking to people or get advice outside of the marriage. You two have a nice connection.
Stephanie Stephanie I’m so glad you are blessed by it! And thanks so much! 😘🤗
I really enjoyed this video... I cannot believe I have been following you since the beginning of your journey two years ago. Please give Jerard more room to speak, my only humble request. Otherwise I really appreciate your honesty
Vutomi I’m glad you enjoyed it. I’m working on that... Sometimes it can be a bit hard because Jerard sometimes gets quiet on camera, but, I need to learn to pass the question to him and give him time to think about the question. But, this one was a live on instagram and I didn’t want any dry spaces in our convo. I’ll work on it though. ☺️
I chew gum 24/7 sis LOL. We are unique individuals, what works for you might not work for him, vice-versa. Love you guys!
MissAki1 🤣🤣🤣We love you too! 🤗
Mary I love you and Jarrod chemistry. Also your hair is gorgeous!!
Vernell Harris Thanks so much 😘🤗
The Valentine’s Day argument (banter) though!!! 😂 hahaha Mary going in on Jerard here today 😁 lol
Happy Valentine's Day to one of the most Beautiful couples on UA-cam. Pray that God continues to Bless you guys Union!!!! Mary you are Gorgeous WOG!
Tori Child Of The Most High Awww... Happy Valentine’s Day to you as well! We pray that you have an amazing day 😘😘
Good Mary, In the natural you couldn't teach without the education. Same with your marriage, it's not time to teach others what you haven't walk through yourself. Stay focus on growing the garden before you have an harvest that others can eat from. I pray you guys find a season couple that can not only speak into your marriage but keep you guys lifted in prayer too. Make sure you hear from God when it comes to connecting to a ministry. Keep your marriage cover in prayer and ask the Holy Spirit for help. Stay fun loving and blessed.
Sharon Edwards Absolutely! We definitely don’t want to begin doing that prematurely. And thanks so much for your prayers. We definitely believe God has us🤗🙏🏾❤️
“I’m just here so I don’t get fined.” Ahhh! Lynch for the win! That has me rollin Jerard! This was a fun video to watch. 😊
Bethany Reed 🤣🤣🤣 Glad you enjoyed it!! ❤️
Mary on your next Q&A could you ask Jerad if he would suggest boarding school for a young African American boy? And just brief on the whole concept of boarding school? Thanx alot 🙂 you guy's are such an inspiration.
Bianca1700 I will share this with him. And thanks so much!! 😘
Hi Mary and Jerard. God bless y’all. Omg guys pray for me so I can get on the marriage level. The realness is real. Love it.
All Smiles God has your love story already written. You marriage is in his hands 🤗🙏🏾❤️
My new inspirational UA-camrs ❤️ Blessings!!!
Tee’s Corner Store 🤗🤗🤗Thanks so much! 😘
“Skin on Skin” lol!! I love you all so much! You’re both hilarious and a beautiful couple! 😂😊❤️
Heartofagiver 1 😂😂😂
Congrats to one of my fave couples. On your 1 year!!!!..I adore you Mary..athough.kind of hard on Jerard about the gum 😉....Sometimes it helps to chew gum or light snack between meals. I do understand on the gum in bed. . (smacking)
You two will do fine..praying on Job leads and a church home...
Hugs to you both🌷🌷🌷😊
Girlllll, almost at 100K. I am so excited for you. This video was great.
MarieAnge TV 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾Thanks soooo much!!🤗
Oh thank you for sharing this information with us and I also like that you talked about you twos connection as well as finishing each other's sentences. Thank you for talking about the first year of marriage. THAT is funny MARY that you mentioned that he has forced you to stay on your knees :) Thanks for talking about talking to someone outside of the marriage because I have thought about this. Good advice and thank you for the tips :)
Alicia Mendsey I’m so glad you enjoyed it! And yes! Husbands definitely force you to pray😂😂😂 Thanks so much! ❤️❤️❤️
Creflo dollar's offspring? Who else see the resemblance?
justsoneat Ferdinand Really? Someone had stated that in the past about Jerard. I guess I see it a little bit 😅
Yay!! I think watching this we can all find something to be critical about but I know, because I've been single for 5 years myself, that the transition from singleness to married life would be overwhelming for most. When you've had YEARS to think and imagine having someone and the reality not quite meeting those exact expectations would prove difficult for anyone. Grace is what is needed and God can fix it from there. You guys rock!
Prissy Believer Absolutely! It’s not easy. But, God definitely makes the difference 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️🤗
Happy Valentine’s Day y’all! Thank you Mary and Jerod (sorry if I spelled your name wrong) for being so real with us!!!
MarieJohnson100 I’m glad you enjoyed it ☺️
12:25 "..Did you tell me or did you ask me" ( he didn't recall her version).
Happy Valentine's day all!. Thank you for this video. My soon to be hubby and I are also practicing celibacy until marriage. The advice and conversations and honesty you all provide are a blessing and encouragement to me. May the Lord continue to bless you both!
Demoiselle W Happy Valentine’s Day! I’m so glad it was a blessing!! Many blessings to you both as well 🤗🙏🏾❤️
Nothing like God ordained love in Marriage.
Sashay Salmon Yes ma’am ☺️🙏🏾❤️
I love you two together. Thank God for his love. One day I will be blessed with someone to love.
Sharetha Nice Thanks so much! And I pray it’s everything you ever hoped for and more 🤗🙏🏾❤️
My husband has to consult me regarding his hair cut and beard. I'm picky with him. He's picky with me. We love it. I love y'all conversation
Yvette Shokere Right 😅
I always read the comments before I watch a vid. I was expecting the worse throwing under the bus. However, this was a good video, very insightful and transparent. I'm getting married in the next year or so and I know the challenges I'll have. I'm very comfortable and used to doing things my way all the time. Spending and/or saving money the way I like. Having my place all to myself. I'm going through a transition period with God trying to break me from some of the control issues I have. Please pray for a sistah and I'll do the same anyways.
foreveropti79 Hill Perspective is everything😅 But, its definitely a journey that I never thought would be a challenge for me. It’s so good that you recognize it early. Front loading this particular area is definitely helpful. Begin praying to God about it now. He’s so faithful and he will absolutely help you through it! He’s been working on me tremendously 😅🙌🏾🙌🏾 Many blessings to you! Love, joy, and prosperity to you both 🤗🙏🏾❤️
Great conversation guys! Have a Happy Valentine's Day! Keep on spreading that positive energy! Much love to both of you guys.😚
Rita Polk Thanks so much! I’m glad you enjoyed your! Happy Valentine’s Day! ❤️❤️❤️
Happy Valentine's Day!!😍 😘 😻 to a helpful , funny and fun Love Couple!!
yeah the first year is hell! but it becomes so amazing after that how well you begin to mesh with your spouse, especially if its the right person for you
Apollo Chamon I absolutely believe it will continue to get better and better. With God, and having right person, anything is possible ☺️
WOW!!!! SO SO LOVE YOU BOTH!! U 2 are transparent down 2 🌎 REAL COUPLE POWER #goals💪😇💛
Cassandra Sims Aww... Thanks so much! 🤗
I love you guys 😍!! I will listen to this again!!!... I’m just enjoying your journey!🙌🏼
Camillia Chatman Thanks so much! We are glad you enjoyed it! 😘🤗
Yess y'all blessed my notifications early this morning 💜
Lmaooo i cant with Mary. She is something else. Poor Jerad stressed about Valentine's day now
beautedereine 🤣🤣🤣
I see so much of my marriage in this, thanks for sharing. Thank you for your honesty. You guys are a lovely couple.
Omg Mary who chew gum in the house I'm weak 😂😂
How did I miss the Q&A? I love when you two do videos together!!! Happy Valentine's Day 💖💖💖
Nancy Purter Do you follow me on Instagram. It happened there. But, we brought it over to UA-cam for you all as well! Happy Valentine’s Day!!🤗
@@MsNaturallyMary I do. I will have to check in more often 😊
Where did you get your necklace
I’ve watching all the videos of your channel instead of doing my assignments 😫😂😂 love y’all😘😘❤️❤️
Madjiguene Dioum 🤣🤣🤣Please also do your assignments. Can’t have you slipping because of us 😅🤗😘
I love yall & yall story gives me hope as I have a desire to be married & I have been Celebrate going 2 year waiting for my husband to find me. Thanks for the Encouraging video they really help😍
I truly hope and pray that you and Jarrod find the employment that he's or you both are seeking!!
Vernell Harris Thanks so much! ❤️❤️❤️
Heeey hubby-Jerard/Naturally-Jerard!
It is great to see you guys back on the tube again!
Miss your couples vlogs!
Thanks for the update on your marriage. One year is fantabulous! CONGRATULATIONS! I really look forward to staying in tune to you guys future. God will continue to wonderful things for you guys.
And I'm with you Mary NO to flowers..."keep up the gifts that last forever...Jerard"
Hey stay BLESSED you guys
Happy valentine's day!
Belinda Haywood Hiii! And thanks so much 🤗😘
Love your channel, very informative, love your love between each other, you both are truly blessed, Happy Valentine's Day!
livibda I’m so glad! Thanks so much!! Hope you had a wonderful Valentine’s Day 🤗😘
Girl married life is on your side. I recognized your hubby, but thought he had a new girlfriend and ditch you for a prettier beauty. Hee-Haw! Look what God will do when you wait and live the holy life before the ceremony. You guys are sooooooO beautiful and I am so happy for you and may our LORD continue to smile on you and your love for each other. a fan.... Praying for you and I won't stop! I. Thessalonians 5:17
Bobbie Cawthon-Bryant You’re amazing!! Thanks so much!! 🤗😘
Happy valentine's day to the both of you have a blessed day
I recently discovered your channel and thank you so much for your transparency and tips. Y'all are too beautiful.!
Jasmine Woods Thanks so much! I’m glad you enjoyed this video😘
❤️❤️❤️ happy Valentine’s Day!!
Happy Valentine's day M&J 🌹
Aww you guys go back and forth like you been married for 10 years. Too cute. But I wanted to mention a few people that are great social media mentors and have couples retreats at times. I know eventually you want to find mentors close by but for now, these people are awesome godly couples on Instagram that you may want to look into. @heatherlove, @thisiscornelius and @themancavesociety have an awesome ministry. Love yall both and stay happily married.
Lisette G. Jesus help us 😅 And you definitely shared some greats in the Christian social media world. We appreciate you! 🤗
Awesome video!, I love how you guys just be yourselves!🙌You can tell it's genuine...blessings to both of you! Happy love day!!💕
Beautifully You! Thanks so much! I’m glad you enjoyed it! 🤗
A year!! How time flies!! Blessings to you and your family ❤️
Hopefully you will see this message. What I did early in my journey of marriage was started a Christian marriage group. My group is called Just 4 wives and it allow me to be around other married women and couples. It was truly helpful. My husband and I been where you guys are and I’ve learn after our 15yrs together and 11yrs married to pick and choose your battles.
Thanks for your honesty... I am in school and I share a suit with my twin sister. We get into disagreements at times and we get annoyed with stuff we do around each other lol. I know that marriage takes work and I am glad you were real with us. This really allows us to know what to expect when we enter into our own relationships. My sister and I enjoyed this very much! 🌹
Kierra Richardson Absolutely! I’m so glad you enjoyed it and found it helpful 😘🤗
Happy Valentine's Day guys! Y'all are too cute!!! Yes the first year is hard, but it will get better...just continue to keep first. God bless y'all!!!❤️
dashia rahmaan Thanks so much! Happy Valentine’s Day!! 🤗
Sweet!!!!,now you guys know you need a his and hers bathroom... LoL... Happy Valentine's Day to you all...
I just love ya'll! Idk if ya'll understand how quick I clicked on this video at work lol. I love ya'll! It's a blessing to be reached out to for conferences, etc. but I totally understand ya'lls view -it makes a lot of sense to want to master something before helping others to do it. Having followed you from singleness to now, I'm so inspired and it's like God speaks to me even through the vlogs. Love you both! Side bar: Mary you say absolutely more now and Jerard says particularly more now I think it's cute how you're been rubbing off on each other lol!
Pamela Grace Thanks so much! We love you too! We are so blessed to know that you are enjoying all aspects of our journey ☺️
Im here for it! Story time 😊
Shannon Town 🤗🤗🤗
Our old highs will become our new lows ♥️ that's wonderful! Great Video guys
Happy Valentine’s Day, y’all! ❤️
Rebecca Harkless Happy Valentine’s Day 😘🤗
I am here for that once a week video yes
How did I miss this live!?!?! 😑 I hate that I missed it. I thoroughly enjoyed the video and you guys are coming up in a year already! Time flies!
MsNaturallyMary!!! Sis; this was intensely good, w a side of scripture!! Just knowing that society depiction of marriage being " picture perfect" is far fetched. But trial and error; live, learn and grow..
Nadege Charlemagne I’m so glad you enjoyed it, and that you could also appreciate that we share both sides to love ☺️🙏🏾❤️
@@MsNaturallyMary 💕😘💕
What a BEAUTIFUL couple❤
Chrizzey Pippin Sundaezz Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
The love btw u guys seems sopure and can be felt by the viewers. Beautiful couple
Tisha Taray I’m so glad to hear that! ☺️❤️❤️❤️Thanks so much!
I'm usually skip past the channels that incorporate hubby...but you &1 other you tuber i absolutely luvv to watch &hope hubby is with you..yawl are adorable...beautiful couple...
Ms. D Awww... That makes me smile! Thanks so much! 🤗
I enjoyed this video. Loved your necklace, where can I buy one?
We love the love you both show via Msnaturally Mary. Enjoy every blessed day (our members have been married 25+ years)!
Ebonetian Tribunal Thanks so much! And that’s awesome! We aspire to 25 years 🙏🏾🤗❤️
Also one more THANG! LOL. I see how you are both becoming so much more of yourselves in front of the camera. It's like ya'll are getting out of that phase of not trying to say anything wrong and it's getting so raw and real. I love it. TEll it like it is ya'll!
Onya Russell Thanks so much! We try to be as real and transparent as possible ☺️
Wow! Thank you! This was really refreshing.
DeeDee Redeemed I’m so glad you enjoyed it!!🤗
Wow I'm early.......u two are ma inspiration ..happy Valentine's Day.....
wow, I like the weather over there. We have snow and it's so cold.
I love how real this video is but at the same time, it's really positive.
Beauty for Ashes Thanks so much! 🤗
@@MsNaturallyMary you're welcome
Thank you for answering my question about the wedding planning in a short time I will check those videos out.
Aerayna Williams You’re more than welcome 😘
Yay 1 hour now lemme watch 😅 ps I love how he looks at you!!
MoTheCrown Wow! I was a bit uncertain about the length. 😅I’m glad you all really enjoy the long videos! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
You can use the FAM Method (Fertility Awareness Method) so you don't have to use condoms :-) Great podcast called "Fertility Friday"can help you with it :-)
Michelle Tillman Wow! I have to check this out. We talked about something like this in the beginning. But, we are both so paranoid 😅But, definitely something to look into. Thank you! ❤️
Msnaturally Mary Alot of people use condoms or birth control until they get confident in how it works. There are only 5-7 days a month you can get pregnant you’ll have it down in no time! 😁
Michelle Tillman I’m excited about this, but scared 😅🙈🙈 We’ll definitely look into it! Thanks again! 🤗
One thing to consider when looking for a church, make sure they have a marriage ministry and a men's bible study group so Gerard can find a person that can be his accountability partner and visa versa. Pray this helps.
Valeria Lane Yes ma’am! Those things are key for us! We believe God will lead us to the right church very soon. Thank you ☺️
I enjoy your videos so much.😊You guys are so awesome and I totally love the openness that you guys share in your marriage.Keep inspiring❤
Sepo PelePele Thanks so much! I’m so glad you enjoyed it! 🤗😘
Thanks Mary and Gerald, Happy to see you together It has been long time l have been following you guys ,Before you were married up to now your married Happy For you guys,love you
Chims Binauli 🤗🤗🤗Thanks so much! We appreciate you😘
The chewing gum part 😂.Sorry Mary But I love gum...
LORDDDDD!!!!! This is soo. Real Hollywood has mess me. up do I even want to get married ??
QPTIQUE OPTIQUE Yes! Marriage is awesome! But, it’s not perfect ☺️
My guys......❤️❤️Happy Valentines Day Team MJ!!❤️❤️ Love you guys and the realness is off the charts (skin to skin😂😂). I’ve never married and I have always desired it. I too had a fairly tale view of marriage. Hubby and I were going to being live in Love Heaven Estates, on Love Boulevard and everyday was going to just be looooooooovvvvvveeeeee. 😂 Chile, talk about sabotage. Soooo grateful God has made me wait and wait and wait 😂😂😂 ( come on Gawd!!) Just kidding...He has allowed me to fall so madly in love with Him, grow and really evolve as a woman of God. I feel more ready now than ever, but I trust His timing. Ha, J , that’s me that calls you Team MJ!!!!
Bre Jarmell Thank you!! And 😂😂😂That’s too funny!! I’m just trying to present y’all with the real. Can’t have y’all living in fantasy land like I was 🤣🤣🤣 And I gotta tell Jerard that you call us MJ..He didn’t believe me😅
Mary!!!! Lovely video and happy valentines day!!!💞💖💕😇
wolf train Thank you! ☺️
Happy valentines day,,,God bless u both
Mary, you have blown up! Happy Valentine’s Day.
T BLK Thank you!! Happy Valentine’s Day!!! 😘
This is why I love you... because you take time to connect with your subs!!
T BLK It’s my pleasure! I try my best 🤗🤗🤗Have a great weekend!