It is our soul that is attracting the covert or any narcissist , because we have failed to reconcile our souls unto God. We have failed to forgive all that needs to be forgiven in our heart and that's why we attract the narcissist. More than likely, it was our father or our mother for they are the responsible party of our genetic and psychological make up as we develop in our physical and psychological environment, growing up from birth till adulthood. It is either bc of their presence or lack thereof that bodes most of our offences suffered and resulting psychological dysfunction. It is until we forgive those who offended us, that we will continue to attract the same of that we haven't forgiven. The person in front of us completes our mirror image and that image will become more and more beautiful as we begin and continue in the process of forgiving all that is contrary to the spirit of God , For it is the spirit that embellishes or beautifies our personality as we concede or surrender our fleshly evil nature in certain territories of our heart, that was previously bound in unforgiveness. As we do, those who complete our current mirror image in like vibration will simply fall away not able to complete the image of the new and higher vibration of yourself. Bc forgiveness increases to a higher vibrational status of the which low vibrational entities cannot contend or reflect or complete. Practical example: like vibration attracts like vibration, so the evil that resides in our heart will attract the devil inside of those who stand before us in relationship to us.In order that we might see who we currently are , they are a mirror of our own sinful iniquity. Which is why when we judge others,we are actually judging ourselves and projecting our sin unto the scapegoat in front of us as we fail to understand this concept and blame others for that which we fail to acknowledge, but we are so faithful to deny i.e. our friend, wife , husband etc. Who is there now before us and in front of us ? That is the current state of our heart. Expect nothing more than what resides in your heart. But speak to those things that are currently not, as though they currently are. Ref.Rom.4:17 Question: if we have the spirit and we have put to death the flesh nature connected to our unforgiveness and now no evil abides in our heart. who will we attract then? Ans: he or she who is righteous and merciful , loving and kind For only the pure in heart shall see God.
@@stevemiller8895 Wow ! Very well said ! The covert narc I attracted last time was when I had much sorrow in my heart for having an emotionally unavailable father. I felt deep feelings of victimhood inside me because he was unloving and asked the Universe for a man to love me. And bam ! This narc appeared who made me suffer. So I realised that I had to forgive my father and put myself in a state of gratefulness for what I already have in my life and trusting that God provides a loving partner. Then I turned to Jesus for cleansing and to God the Father instead of the unknown Universe that can be full of bad surprises.
One of the scariest things about a narcissist is really how hollow they are inside. I remember when I was getting to know my ex, I told her that she was really interesting and I wanted to get to know her more. Her response was “there’s really nothing interesting about me” I thought she was joking around but she insisted that there’s nothing interesting about her at all. It was a weird conversation. Years later and I know how true that statement was. There’s literally nothing there. No depth there at all.
Nick P.... Now that I am old and wiser... really listen to people when they speak and when you find yourself not taking their words seriously.... Think again... people really do tell the truth about themselves... really do‼️
When she says "stay away from narcissists when you become aware of them." That includes your parents and don't ever allow anyone to guilt or shame you into feeling bad about blocking out toxic parents, for the love of God don't listen to idiots who don't have a narcissist at home to deal with.
That’s because they leave themselves wide open for the devil to use. They are extremely dangerous people. Doesn’t matter how close the relationship. If you are sure they are a narcissist, get out!
A perfect reflection of my 27 years of suffering with an abuser. Only now, with such enlighting videos, like this one, I finally understand this demonic creature, my soon to be ex-husband. How much I wish I had such guidance earlier! Thanks for this video, it is golden. At age 72, I still have a few years to bounce back to life and live it with much joy.
True!…my ex narc said this to me. When on their own, they can get up to all the nasty things they want to. My ex would join date sites and chat to women, only to end up playing them, being nice and calling them beautiful etc - then by the end of the conversation he would upset them. He gets his supply either negative or positive online. They are evil!
Save TRUMP • Sooooo true, your absolutely right & know exactly what they're like!! By the way "Trump" is also a Narcissist (albeit with a kinder heart & helped lots of people & children). He's also done more for Yisra'el than anyone has for years. He was certainly far more entertaining to watch & listen to this ole guy with obvious dementia. For goodness sake, what has this world come to...? We're no better off here in the UK with the total Muppet BJ. Shocking & alarming if these are the best we can all do. Not one charismatic leader amongst them. Thankfully I steer well clear of politics these days. 😜🙃
This was a more direct and blunt video than the others, calling the narcissists evil. It's hard not to disagree when you've experienced first hand their coldness, aggression, and hatred.
@@ekonamare7219 I agree with you, l have narcs in my family and as much l stay away from them l feel sorry for them too for l know that for the most part they are desperately unhappy
But you married him So you need to be accountable for your choices Your ex husband all ready move on with out any guilt. I'm not Dr.Phil here, Look for man of high value and don't try to change them . Cuz the minute you change "your man " The clock starts clicking. Or just stay single alot less drama.
@JANELLE PAULINE mine refused to divorce too after 30 years of his BS and I finally got wise Divorced anyway because he would not reply to the attorneys. That’s how my state does it.
@@victorbruce3315 Victor.... Narcs don't show you their true self in the early day's. The term is Love Bombing. Therefore it's easy for many decent people to succumb to a covert Narcissist & yes, many sadly marry these fakes & monsters. It's only gradually a person comes to learn the real extent of trouble they're in, so it's easy to just judge & tell people they should take responsibility for their choice of marriage partner or even an unmarried partner. They hide behind a very convincing mask, so the person they "thought" they were marrying can in fact be the exact opposite of the one they fell for. Also your comment about "changing your man"!!! Excuse me, not being rude here but there is noone on the planet who can change another person. It's up to each individual to change or not change themselves. Sorry but you seem to be lightyears from genuinely understanding how Narcissistic behaviours actually work. What you say is inappropriate as well as inaccurate & downright naive! Perhaps your speaking from a personal perspective. Some people attempt to Control other's & I'm sorry if that's something you've experienced & are applying that example to your comments. Not every "Narc" relationship is as you describe & in fact there are a zillion different scenarios as there are zillions of personalities & people on the planet. However most narcs do *share* a similar set of horrid & evil & downright malicious behaviours. I sincerely hope you are not involved with one or worse still are one yourself in fact.
You can tell him that if he will go for intense therapy you will think about contacting with him again. Some people may realize the problem and actually change, but it requires autoreflection and retrospection.
Okay! Like the final level of a video game when you must defeat the master beast. 😂😂 I laugh about it, but you have to be very perceptive and powerful to walk away from these types with your wits about you.
My overt ex failed to destroy me, after him two coverts followed. They were evil and hiding but I discovered and discarded them with the help of knowledge from videos like this one.
My ex narcissist is back, left her man she left me for in September . I can feel her hatred for me and see her demons. I will be keeping well away from her. Good video Clarice. Thank you.
AMEN!!! I did not know what happened to me, but spoke with a friend and he diagnosed that I had been with a Narcissist!!! I had no clue as to what happened, had not ever been with one...SO THANKFUL I GOT AWAY!!! Hoping FOREVER, but I have found by reading that they do COME BACK...watching my back in case he does...
Yet another example of how sick this all is. It is so helpful to listen to these videos when feeling weak or down. That I still question this person is a narcissist is appalling. This is spot on!
No more walking around on eggshells. No more dealing with condescension, dismissiveness, name calling, gaslighting and projection. I’m done and out in three months. Hopefully I will finally have peace
The shell of a human from my past crossed my path at a restaurant the other day. It did everything it could to elicit some form of contact from me including using a nick name. I didn’t budge, never acknowledged it’s presence or existence. Just hearing it small talk with a couple of people sounded so fake, hollow and forced to me because I know its self loathing and overwhelming personal shame. Of course I am the only one who realizes the full true nature of its darkness but there are two, maybe three people who know how deceitful, manipulative and abusive it can be. I’m so proud I gave it zero energy, because if I had, it would’ve been supernova energy and now is not the time. Karma will deliver its comeuppance in due time. Stay safe out there everyone, true evil exists and we haven’t seen the worst of it or been taught to be prepared for this type of demonic behavior. The unspoken impact of self gratification at all costs, constant need for attention, validation and the degradation of the family unit is creating a pandemic that can be as deadly as any. Just the way evil likes it. Sending you all: my love, my energy of protection, and strength in will for no contact with these dark beings. 🙏🏼💪🏼
Yes I can relate to every word you said because my ex Narc husband done all these things to me outside he was the life and soul of the party came home to me drunk and abused me for years. My advise to people who are living with these type of people run run and run and do mot look back. They never change you have to change.
Thanks i related to this post. My family love him and I've had to lose a lot of family because hes digging deep into them, they have no idea what type of person he is and I'm seen as the crazy one....I try to move on and hope one day his true colors will come out
My ex wife gave me a warning just before our wedding and she said... " I live my life thru the lives of others" I did not catch that in time but I did two weeks of hell later when I left her never to return.
My MIL. You can feel the contempt and resentment around her it feels like the oxygen leaves the room when she is around. She sits quietly with slits for eyes and a half smile on her face, watching everyone in the room. Then when the occasion is over the drama starts. What she saw or heard, whether its true or not who knows.
Another excellent video! What I've found this video more micro-psychological, introspective in the life of the covert narcissist which is important to know. From my observation and involvement with covert narcissists, they appear harmless and humble don't bother anyone, but when you get to know them behind closed doors, these people are extremely hurtful in words and deeds, polar opposite of their presentation to the world. What a shame!! Clarice, keep up the great work on covert narcissism. These videos are excellent psychological lectures.
You are ABSOLUTELY right. I hope and pray the ones who are in a new relation with one of them, the listen to this before letting the relationship go any farther.
I have a relative that's a covert narcissist. His wife left him, his adult son has given up on him, and no one in the family will put up with his shit. He's turned into a raging self-destructive alcoholic.
I love the editing of the video where the girl, who turns people against each other, SMILES and puts the finger on her lip around the 3:30 mark. This completely conveys the message of what we all have to live through and recover from. Male and female narcissists might be a little different, but it's all the same thing and pattern
I am Praying For A Saul To Paul For Mine He Has Said All The Words And Even A Couple Of Weeks Ago Said To Abba That he Was A Prodigal And Wants To Come Home Not Living Together Since 2019 But Commuting In The "Marriage" ( just a concubine) Until Labor Day WeekEnd When I Finally Ended It After Finding More Evidence and am Now No Contact Except When I Go To Continue To Move Stuff I Would Love Nothing More Than For A Miracle And he Be Completely Delivered I am Walking As If That Is The Promise But Keeping myself Separate While Abba Deals With him It's Like No Addiction I Ever Had To OverCome Trying To Separate This Kind Of Bond To Get Out Of The Way One Day At A Time I Pray Deliverance Comes To your Home! Peace🙏
After 24 years of Narcissistic abuse I finally got the picture. I suffer from Anxiety and Irritable Bowl and have isolated myself because of him. Thank you for your very clear explanation of these monsters. Anyone out there who suspects or knows they are in a Narcissistic relationship , get out as fast as you can. I stayed because I loved him but the real love was only coming from me. They do not know how to love and will bombard you with fake proclamations of love. Please take note of these videos and wake up from a nightmare that will destroy you. I am 70 years old and trying to find peace in the time I have left.
Hi Rhonda I have known at least 3 female Narcissists who were struggling to find a man. They each lived alone and hated it. Their toxicity end up spilling over into the social groups we were in or on certain targeted individuals (myself included).
They save their violent temper, emotional negativity and victim mentality for those closest to them. They devalue those people and isolate them hoping they will either die or never have the courage to speak about it.
This channel is helping me on my journey SO much. You continue to provide actual substantial help for those proactively repairing their lives. This has been by far the most valuable resource for me. Thank you
THIS is so 💯 percent TRUE,VERY SICK PEOPLE! I GOT OUT,and JUST begin MY 3rd Year no contact!!! Everything in this video is 💯 percent correct,I Seen this BEHAVIOR in my own FAMILY,EVEN around FRIENDS. Thanks for confirmation!!! Great video 👍
OMG! You hit the nail on the head!!! The last 4 months of my covert narcissist mother life, I was Grey Rocking her and the darkness & negative energy was so thick you could cut it with a knife. I didn't understand it or why it was happening. I spent more time in my bedroom burning candles and praying! WOW! I have chills!! I just want to hug you for this! Thank you so much for this insight!❤
I enjoy being alone. I guess im not a mean old narcissist. Lol I chose not to have youngsters to avoid being a victim of the 1990s financial wrecking family court system. Way to go me! #winning
@@ExposingtheNarcissist that's why they're all fakes who choose the mirror their future victims. With just enough of a difference to look like an individual who's slightly different, but the same. YET when that LP finishes on side two of the vinyl, you or I will see that that wasn't the case at all! That it was just another insincere act
I'm just putting this out there.. long time ago, someone told me that if u sprinkle salt in somebodies footsteps then sweep it all away, they will never come there again. So it has been working with people that were just terrible and I never wanted to come back to my crib for over 20 yrs. Sprinkle some salt on their footsteps and sweep it away right after they leave,,, they never come back. They may call or I see them at the store or something but they never step foot on my stairs again. Just fyi.
I was married to a narcisisst for 15 years. After that, I started to do the math; add and subtract toxic people in your life. It regenerates you positive power. Now I smile and laugh everyday!
I was in a 21-year relationship with a covert..It ruined me physically, mentally and emotionally...I'm in a middle of a divorce and at this stage I feel I will never heal....left with nothing,..no money, health or friendships...I lost it all..
Go to your nearest Jesus Preaching Church. Ask for The Pastor, Chaplain, Rabbi, and ask for help. Go to another Church if you don't get help. Holy Lord God will open doors you never knew existed. GODSPEED !!!!!!!
@@dannystephenson4197 Sorry to disappointment & disagree Danny but there was noone named Jesus as that letter never ever existed in any language at that time & Hebrew & Aramaic in particular. God's actual name is "yhwh" & closest transliteration in English is ya ho wah. However He diminished a part of Himself & did come to live on earth as yahowsha (that's who your jesus actually was). He was the passover lamb & as part of yhwh/God cannot & did not die. However His nepesh (soul) went to sheol (hell) momentarily. It's Yahowah/God whose coming back when the world gets so hellish & yhwh states in His own Towrah how we can work out when that will be. It's going to be in year 6,000 yah & that equates to 2033 on our modern day pagan calendar. 2nd Oct to be exact in ya'rushalaim & sundown time to be precise. shalowm 🌈🙂 Please "everyone" and Danny do yourself & any loved one's a big favour & do what Yah asks of us all: Walk away from all Religions, Politics, Military & big power & controlling institutions too. Say His one & only name out loud & walk to Him by becoming Towrah observant & studying what He said (not manmade lies, myths, misconceptions & mistranslations). Best place to start is below: BlessYah.com YahowahBeryth.com Yada Yah on UA-cam Yada Yah.com By the way, there was never any mention of any New Covenant, but it's what He will be making with His chosen people yahudym when He returns with King dowd = David. We can all be there too as are adopted from people of different races & places, we are known as Gowym & accepted/adopted into Yahowah's Covenant Family once we accept His 7 annual Mo'ed Miqra'e invitations to meet with Him & walk away from all those mentioned previously. Time is really running out & this world will be changing beyond recognition at the times of ya'acob's troubles. To anyone who doesn't know that's called the Last 7 years hell on earth & it's 2026 - 33. So y'all better get with it & move fast if you want to survive what's on the way here.
Honey, although this feels like the hardest thing in the world, it's actually a transitional stage: a big life clear out. In time, you will emerge the other side, and you will be wiser and happier. Best wishes to you 💕
Yep my mother would always get her sisters to fight with one another by spreading lies between them with he said she said and she would be in the middle pretending as if she was trying to resolve the conflict when she was the one that created it. Mind you I was only a 15 year old teenager at the time when this happened and I could see what was going on and her sisters were so oblivious 😂
In my situation the covert female narcissist is my neighbour. Allthough she is married she has chosen me as her external target to keep her marriage safe as she is lazy, not working and fully dependent of her husband. It proves that a covert narcissist choses carefully the target which fits the best to the situation. No matter if the target is outdoor or indoor ! The covert narcissist seeks for "the easiest target" based on the rule "most profit less risks". I became the target because I am an older retired woman who lives alone next door to the narcissist and therefore easy to terrorize, invisible to others. I was a supply without any risk for her abusing marriage. I was a supply...because after 16 horrible years of terror I decided to sell my house preferring my health above my possessions. The covert narcissist who poissoned my life space with lies and smear campaigns still plays the victim to her flying monkeys.
Very well explained. I have yet to see anyone describe this concept as well as you have in this video. For most, if the person is nice to you, no matter how bad the narcissist treats others, most will not have any ill feelings towards the narcissist. When I brought to light the mental trauma in the children created by the narcissist , I gained some attention. When 3 people complained about the behavior and stated, "you will never understand the person we see at home", it became a turning point in exposing the covert Narcissist. On a side observation, instinctively , I would have my kid's friends over often as this kept the mask on the Narcissists though it had slipped at times. Thank you for this video..
I love the way they go yeah, uh-huh every few seconds when you are talking to them and they won't take any time to listen. Don't expect them to respond until they start a conversation and demand your attention. It must be a very fulfilling life for someone to be so obvious about their desire to be the center of attention, to be the (they think) the smartest person wherever they go. Has anyone here had one go on and on about something they know nothing about? When you try to give them some real knowledge regarding the subject they are misinformed about they get mad as hell. I used to think that was cute... is demoralizing.
@@goldilocks3593 my god this happened over time in my family. It took me decades to see the rot it had caused. It took them turning in me for it to be revealed
My ex-husband often told me: the one I love, I hurt. I did not catch it nor took it in deep consideration. I was young, Godly girl and naive. Now looking back. He ment every disturbed words he said.
The narcissist I know always says he can go back to any of his exes.He brags on what they will do for him..And then I asked him" why do you always beg me for gas,food and ask to borrow money and need help from me all the time..Because they don't want him🤣🤣..His own family has turned away years ago..Glad I got away from him..There is promise in the world after him...Save your serenity..Lose that Narcissist..They are low grade bottom feeders!!! You're better off 💯
I am not a broken woman....the game didn't work with me . I saw through the play. Neither one of them got away with it...I went for reprogramming and helped myself...Narcissists don't like that . .
YOU are Amazing at describing what the Covert Narcissist is all about and How they manipulate people for their Own Self Gratification and Destroy Innocent Victims and Loved Ones. Thank You so Much for All YOUR VIDEOS and Helping so many people understand the Evil Intentions within THEM.
Bipolar personalities who live under a blanket of lies. I relate to everything in the video. They get away with their demonic underhanded ways.. God watches everything and karma comes back 🙏
I saw a text message from another woman where he told her that he LOVED her...he use to tell me that he LOVED me when we first met...that stoped a few weeks before I saw the message from her...after I saw this, a few days days later I packed my stuff in my car and left that evening...but before leaving, I went all over the town he lived in and advise them that I was heading home, was asked why I was leaving, I advised them that he had someone else behind my back and I found out about her by a text message on his phone where he left his phone in his house...what a sleeze, only cares about his Narcissist self, and no one else...
Oh my God you just described religious narcs to a T! This is what I have been experiencing in the church.Iam literally crying at the depth of this revelation 😢
Bingo, she sure said it just the way it is. when out of their home their are the nicest and helpful people. but in their safe zone they can be very rude and nasty. God god god god only if I could go back. I would leave at 17 and never see or talk to them again!!!!
The friends and family members situation is so true they have to be the most liked and “win” because they always have to push themselves in the front too and over talk you and give presents and do little favors…
Yes more dangerous and painful and damaging because the relationship lasts longer....for one reason----- I was married to an Overt at a young and naive age....and it was a sudden escape as his foul nature became odious to me. ... I had a baby and escaped with him and my vehicle....this OVERT NARCISSIST continued to damage me, however with insane entitled lawsuit to take the child from me.....in truth Narcissists just hate to pay child support !!!
@@michelekisly2535 thank you Michele! The narcissist does not want to take responsibility for any of their evil deeds and, in reality, when they are bad they blame you! 👹 I will say a prayer that you get the proper child support that you deserve! 🙏
Lol, my sister accused me of being a covert narcissist. Lol. I am very happy and content being alone. Having positive relationships with genuine like minded kind people. I love life, positive kind ppl. I never do tribal gaslighting to anyone like my sisters have..I'd say they maybe the covert narcissist because they do exactly as described here.
Wow my ex 1000% when they get to this point they will look for ways to pull you out by starting an argument with you for me when you realize what your dealing with for me I laughed in her face and make a joke of the situation before it Escalades the look on her face is like "Dame it" and she would try to sit around you trying to take control of the energy with insults what's fall short because you already understand who they truly are! The power that comes with knowing! Powerful it's knowing they can't touch you. Sis your a God send keep up the great work. 😃🙏
Me also I am breaking away slowly without any notice. Been with him almost forty years. I can't do it anymore. He's done. He criticism, his negative comments, no appreciation, no compliments, he loves when I'm sad, in pain, isolated, he didn't care for me ever. He doesn't want to take care for me ever. He just wants to take from anyone he can without giving back, pretend he cares but prefers to be alone and now drunk as possible.
I've been married to the same covert narcissist twice. It took me 23 years in order to wake up. I believe the Jesus freed me- the sces came lff my eyes, big time! He came back to me a year and a half ago. He became completely isolated and ignored me or did sone other crazy thing He never had any genuine love in him- by the end I felt like someone was sucking the light and life out of my Spirit- I felt like I was dying. Father os the one who showed me the truth and these vids just sealed it.. God Bless all of you going through or been through this dark time- the Light is at the end. This os the first time in 23 yrs that I feel I'm finally getting my life back. I know I had severe ptsd for about a year or so. Thank you so much for putting on these incredibly insightful videos- God bless you.
Me Too Peggy Just Getting Out All The Way And I Still Feel Like I am Dying I Haven't Moved All my Stuff And my Guts Turn Thinking About Having To See him Putting It Off I Dont Even Care About A Divorce Cuz I Dont Think I Have It In me To Do A Marriage Again Or Even A Companion I am 57 And The Chances Of Finding SomeOne Yoked The Same,.... Right Now I Need To Get This Done Peace To you 🙏 We Survived!
Thank you for this, I have been getting away from my ex for sometime, but what you said about when they talk about this person and that person, they aren’t really around! Thank so much🙌💜😎😘 and God Bless You
Yep. Called within the past hour and 2 days ago a few times. I’m assuming my malignant, covert narcissist mother is seeing less of my sister. She still said that she’s at home 24/7, in her voicemail message, so I assume my sister is taking care of food shopping for her. But, more than food, what she needs is narcissistic supply. I’m closed for business so, she’ll have to just deal with that.
My ex started his own UA-cam channel in the absence of a partner/close friend/family member to abuse … in order to get supply he claims to be some kind of “life coach” (despite being unemployed for 7+ years himself… but he doesn’t share that bit) - he gives people his “advice” on all sorts of things, then flies into a rage over any comment that hints at disagreement & bans said commenter from his channel 🤣 I don’t watch it anymore, but I do remember him being so mad about folks comments that he made a video response claiming that he is always 100% right about what he posts, and how dare anyone question his authority on these matters (even though they are all highly subjective topics that no one could possibly be “right or wrong” about) - mostly he just wants everyone to defer to him on all matters, and compliment all the photos he shares of himself 👍🏼
As I've lost interest interacting with my mother. I'm watching her using these victim tactics to manipulate others. She claims the car doesn't work, but renewed the insurance on it. She'll get dressed up as a church goer to interact with the neighbors to manipulate them for favors. She squeals like a child when I call her out on her behavior and tell her to go get a reduced bus fare card cause she's burning her bridges. I fell for the "my car needs repair" scam years ago.
Btw: I went nc with my mother 7 years ago. Soon afterwards my younger (narcissistic) sister started contact with my daughter and told her my mother's lies about me. I could exactly say which of the accusations my daughter made to me, were things my sister has taken over from my mother. The sentences were just how my mother said them, decades ago, when my sister ( she's 9 years younger than myself) was still very young and I didn't live there, any longer
My 92 yr old mother is the poster child for old 😜 narcissist she managed to fool me for 40 yrs! Now she lives with us and it’s like a old poisoned spine sitting in a chair. Hopefully Lucifer will call her home sooner than later. Thanks for the lesson it’s reaffirming🙏🏻
It is so easy to IDEALIZE A COVERT NARCISSIST---- you think you love them but it's your beautiful Soul mirrored
Ge wasn't smart at all
Learning to recognize that. I get caught a lot less than when I was younger. Still a work in progress. 😇✌️❤️🍷
It is our soul that is attracting the covert or any narcissist , because we have failed to reconcile our souls unto God. We have failed to forgive all that needs to be forgiven in our heart and that's why we attract the narcissist.
More than likely, it was our father or our mother for they are the responsible party of our genetic and psychological make up as we develop in our physical and psychological environment, growing up from birth till adulthood. It is either bc of their presence or lack thereof that bodes most of our offences suffered and resulting psychological dysfunction.
It is until we forgive those who offended us, that we will continue to attract the same of that we haven't forgiven.
The person in front of us completes our mirror image and that image will become more and more beautiful as we begin and continue in the process of forgiving all that is contrary to the spirit of God , For it is the spirit that embellishes or beautifies our personality as we concede or surrender our fleshly evil nature in certain territories of our heart, that was previously bound in unforgiveness.
As we do, those who complete our current mirror image in like vibration will simply fall away not able to complete the image of the new and higher vibration of yourself.
Bc forgiveness increases to a higher vibrational status of the which low vibrational entities cannot contend or reflect or complete.
Practical example: like vibration attracts like vibration, so the evil that resides in our heart will attract the devil inside of those who stand before us in relationship to us.In order that we might see who we currently are , they are a mirror of our own sinful iniquity.
Which is why when we judge others,we are actually judging ourselves and projecting our sin unto the scapegoat in front of us as we fail to understand this concept and blame others for that which we fail to acknowledge, but we are so faithful to deny i.e. our friend, wife , husband etc.
Who is there now before us and in front of us ? That is the current state of our heart.
Expect nothing more than what resides in your heart. But speak to those things that are currently not, as though they currently are. Ref.Rom.4:17
Question: if we have the spirit and we have put to death the flesh nature connected to our unforgiveness and now no evil abides in our heart.
who will we attract then?
Ans: he or she who is righteous and merciful , loving and kind
For only the pure in heart shall see God.
Yes! And this is what I have to remind myself 🙏🏻
@@stevemiller8895 Wow ! Very well said ! The covert narc I attracted last time was when I had much sorrow in my heart for having an emotionally unavailable father. I felt deep feelings of victimhood inside me because he was unloving and asked the Universe for a man to love me. And bam ! This narc appeared who made me suffer. So I realised that I had to forgive my father and put myself in a state of gratefulness for what I already have in my life and trusting that God provides a loving partner. Then I turned to Jesus for cleansing and to God the Father instead of the unknown Universe that can be full of bad surprises.
I love the no contact, it's like letting the garbage take itself out 😆😆😆
Right
Amen to that 🙏🙌👏
Funny thats what the covert narc posted about me
Exactly
@@Aneaterplace but we know the truth 🥳
One of the scariest things about a narcissist is really how hollow they are inside. I remember when I was getting to know my ex, I told her that she was really interesting and I wanted to get to know her more. Her response was “there’s really nothing interesting about me” I thought she was joking around but she insisted that there’s nothing interesting about her at all. It was a weird conversation.
Years later and I know how true that statement was. There’s literally nothing there. No depth there at all.
I like to refer to the narcissist as a Easter bunny flash and beauty outside once you tear away the mask there is nothing inside.
Empty vase syndrome: nice to look at, but nothing in it.
Yes, once you have to live with them for any period of time you realize how shallow and vain they are.
They just need entertainers to dim their boredom.🤮
Nick P.... Now that I am old and wiser... really listen to people when they speak and when you find yourself not taking their words seriously.... Think again... people really do tell the truth about themselves... really do‼️
When she says "stay away from narcissists when you become aware of them." That includes your parents and don't ever allow anyone to guilt or shame you into feeling bad about blocking out toxic parents, for the love of God don't listen to idiots who don't have a narcissist at home to deal with.
Wow, this is scary. Having a narcissist friend/relative is like having the devil in your life.
That’s because they leave themselves wide open for the devil to use. They are extremely dangerous people. Doesn’t matter how close the relationship. If you are sure they are a narcissist, get out!
My animals sense the dark energy when this person is around. As soon as he leaves, they go back to normal. It is so telling. They are my barometers!
At work the dogs dont go to her,when she saw a scary little dog come to me to pet him she was so confused,i saw on her face,eyes.
Animals are great at judging people's character & picking up on the dark traits or side of a person.
A perfect reflection of my 27 years of suffering with an abuser. Only now, with such enlighting videos, like this one, I finally understand this demonic creature, my soon to be ex-husband. How much I wish I had such guidance earlier! Thanks for this video, it is golden. At age 72, I still have a few years to bounce back to life and live it with much joy.
Mari.... Me too... This information is golden... I am happy to say I have truly woken up to this evil crap that works through many narcs✳️
Don't look back.
Enjoy your life
I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!!!!!! I AM FREE NOW ALSO AT THE AGE 72, TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND THANK GOD FOR LIFE!!!!!!!!
Mari... I think that this information was not available back in our day... Only recently..but better late than never ‼️😊🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️
You sure do!!
I’m so proud of you !!
Live a happy life!!
We support you!!❤️
If you don't care about nobody but yourself, then you don't need nobody but yourself!
Good one!
Amen!! I couldn't have said it better!!!🙌
True!…my ex narc said this to me. When on their own, they can get up to all the nasty things they want to. My ex would join date sites and chat to women, only to end up playing them, being nice and calling them beautiful etc - then by the end of the conversation he would upset them. He gets his supply either negative or positive online. They are evil!
They need a scapegoat to blame their problems on. They need sympathy and admiration all at the same time.
They also need to rot in hell!
Spot on.
@@elliemay7569 YAY....absolutely well said dear Ellie May!!! 🤩👍👹😱
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Sooooo true, your absolutely right & know exactly what they're like!!
By the way "Trump" is also a Narcissist (albeit with a kinder heart & helped lots of people & children). He's also done more for Yisra'el than anyone has for years. He was certainly far more entertaining to watch & listen to this ole guy with obvious dementia. For goodness sake, what has this world come to...?
We're no better off here in the UK with the total Muppet BJ.
Shocking & alarming if these are the best we can all do. Not one charismatic leader amongst them. Thankfully I steer well clear of politics these days. 😜🙃
There is nothing to admire about pity seekers.
This was a more direct and blunt video than the others, calling the narcissists evil. It's hard not to disagree when you've experienced first hand their coldness, aggression, and hatred.
Exactly
They are not evil they have a mental disorder.
@@ekonamare7219 they are evil. Anyone who hates seeing you happy is evil. Anyone who can hurt others and feel nothing is evil period.
@@ekonamare7219 would you say psychopaths aren't evil because they have a mental illness ?
@@ekonamare7219 I agree with you, l have narcs in my family and as much l stay away from them l feel sorry for them too for l know that for the most part they are desperately unhappy
I noticed my ex husband rushes on dating apps to put his attention to any girl/girls. It’s so weird how they can not handle being alone.
We were not created to be alone, AS Gods created Beings. This is why he made Male AND Female….
But you married him
So you need to be accountable for your choices
Your ex husband all ready move on with out any guilt.
I'm not Dr.Phil here,
Look for man of high value and don't try to change them .
Cuz the minute you change "your man "
The clock starts clicking.
Or just stay single alot less drama.
It's the same as those who are not narcissists. Codependents and Narcissists cling together like magnets.
@JANELLE PAULINE mine refused to divorce too after 30 years of his BS and I finally got wise Divorced anyway because he would not reply to the attorneys. That’s how my state does it.
@@victorbruce3315 Victor....
Narcs don't show you their true self in the early day's. The term is Love Bombing. Therefore it's easy for many decent people to succumb to a covert Narcissist & yes, many sadly marry these fakes & monsters. It's only gradually a person comes to learn the real extent of trouble they're in, so it's easy to just judge & tell people they should take responsibility for their choice of marriage partner or even an unmarried partner. They hide behind a very convincing mask, so the person they "thought" they were marrying can in fact be the exact opposite of the one they fell for.
Also your comment about "changing your man"!!!
Excuse me, not being rude here but there is noone on the planet who can change another person. It's up to each individual to change or not change themselves.
Sorry but you seem to be lightyears from genuinely understanding how Narcissistic behaviours actually work. What you say is inappropriate as well as inaccurate & downright naive!
Perhaps your speaking from a personal perspective. Some people attempt to Control other's & I'm sorry if that's something you've experienced & are applying that example to your comments. Not every "Narc" relationship is as you describe & in fact there are a zillion different scenarios as there are zillions of personalities & people on the planet. However most narcs do *share* a similar set of horrid & evil & downright malicious behaviours.
I sincerely hope you are not involved with one or worse still are one yourself in fact.
A year after no contact, my ex covert narc still tries to contact me, saying he's so lonely. Hahaha. Suffer you worm.
Worm lol
🤣 worm says it all!
You can tell him that if he will go for intense therapy you will think about contacting with him again. Some people may realize the problem and actually change, but it requires autoreflection and retrospection.
@Kay Shields facts
😂😂😂 well stated
No contact is sweet! Six years no contact, five years divorced from that demon! Life is good!!
Honestly, Coverts are SATAN-SENT when an Overt fails to destroy you.
Okay! Like the final level of a video game when you must defeat the master beast. 😂😂 I laugh about it, but you have to be very perceptive and powerful to walk away from these types with your wits about you.
I can attest to this 🙄🤦♀️ Not today Satan 😏
My overt ex failed to destroy me, after him two coverts followed. They were evil and hiding but I discovered and discarded them with the help of knowledge from videos like this one.
TRUTH
Great analogy!
They are worse than the overt ones.
My ex narcissist is back, left her man she left me for in September . I can feel her hatred for me and see her demons.
I will be keeping well away from her.
Good video Clarice. Thank you.
I asked my ex when we were toghether, why he hate me.. He sad that he didnt But I could just feel it..
@@nebitnoprezime9871 same here the actions are what tells all
Don't even think about going back to those demons.. No way..
Battle of your life shutting down this demonic pipeline but you Can with God leading the way
AMEN!!! I did not know what happened to me, but spoke with a friend and he diagnosed that I had been with a Narcissist!!! I had no clue as to what happened, had not ever been with one...SO THANKFUL I GOT AWAY!!! Hoping FOREVER, but I have found by reading that they do COME BACK...watching my back in case he does...
AMEN!!! God is the only one who can deal with this demonic entity.
Amen
Amen and Amen... Rite on point..
They Don't Need No One
They remind me of our biggest enemy...they are cunning, seeking whom they may devour. Appearing as an angel of lIght, ensnaring their target.
They are the children of the Father of LIES
They are Deceivers
The Enemy comes to Seek Kill and destroy 👹🤬💀🗣🚨💔🥀
Don't worry, No Narc can deceive the Holy Spirit,
Ever👑🛡️🙌
Warning, God is No Toy! Or Joke👊
Turn or Burn...
Godly Sorrow worketh Repentance...
@@roberthowell2502 It's a good time for self reflection, not self absorption
Yet another example of how sick this all is. It is so helpful to listen to these videos when feeling weak or down. That I still question this person is a narcissist is appalling. This is spot on!
Let's see manipulative, turns others against eachother creates drama
Who could that be describing??
@@janeprescott7381
• A Jezabel (negative)
Demonic spirit...
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A "Vicious" SNAKE
(Camouflaged) with
It's Surroundings...
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No more walking around on eggshells. No more dealing with condescension, dismissiveness, name calling, gaslighting and projection. I’m done and out in three months. Hopefully I will finally have peace
Be careful in separating from this personality type. Do it slowly and secretly.
The shell of a human from my past crossed my path at a restaurant the other day. It did everything it could to elicit some form of contact from me including using a nick name. I didn’t budge, never acknowledged it’s presence or existence. Just hearing it small talk with a couple of people sounded so fake, hollow and forced to me because I know its self loathing and overwhelming personal shame. Of course I am the only one who realizes the full true nature of its darkness but there are two, maybe three people who know how deceitful, manipulative and abusive it can be.
I’m so proud I gave it zero energy, because if I had, it would’ve been supernova energy and now is not the time. Karma will deliver its comeuppance in due time. Stay safe out there everyone, true evil exists and we haven’t seen the worst of it or been taught to be prepared for this type of demonic behavior. The unspoken impact of self gratification at all costs, constant need for attention, validation and the degradation of the family unit is creating a pandemic that can be as deadly as any. Just the way evil likes it.
Sending you all: my love, my energy of protection, and strength in will for no contact with these dark beings. 🙏🏼💪🏼
Thank you!
Very well written.. Rite on point.. God bless.
Powerful video and so very true. Narcissists are just plain evil incarnate.
I dodged a bullet.
Me too!
Same. So grateful.
Good for you 😇
I wish i would have Dodge the bullet to
I Took The Bullet But The Bullet Didnt Take me
Extracting It Now After 6 Years
AlMost Didnt Make It
Peace To you🙏😊
HAPPY SUNDAY WARRIORS! ⚘
Happy Sunday, I like that warriors 🤺💓
Saturday is the true Sabbath my friend not sunday...
One of the VERY BEST videos I have ever seen defining the covert narcissist.
Keep up the great work!
I'm watching it for the 4th time now.
Wow! Thank you. Glad you find it useful!🙏
Agree - awesome content
My third time watching.
Yes I can relate to every word you said because my ex Narc husband done all these things to me outside he was the life and soul of the party came home to me drunk and abused me for years. My advise to people who are living with these type of people run run and run and do mot look back. They never change you have to change.
Couldn’t have said it better myself.
I AGREE!!! RUN as fast as you can...I did, and did not look back...but watching my back in case he try's to return...PRAYING he doesn't...
I can also relate to this video. Great video! Thank you.
@@darlenejackson8499 i agree with you 💯 percent. Stay safe .
Thanks i related to this post. My family love him and I've had to lose a lot of family because hes digging deep into them, they have no idea what type of person he is and I'm seen as the crazy one....I try to move on and hope one day his true colors will come out
Puts the pep in their step”. Very true. Cleverly worded and funny. Even though it isn’t funny.
My ex wife gave me a warning just before our wedding and she said... " I live my life thru the lives of others" I did not catch that in time but I did two weeks of hell later when I left her never to return.
I am dealing with one and it's a horrific nightmare. They are worst than Demons....
No they are demons that your dealing with...
My MIL. You can feel the contempt and resentment around her it feels like the oxygen leaves the room when she is around. She sits quietly with slits for eyes and a half smile on her face, watching everyone in the room. Then when the occasion is over the drama starts. What she saw or heard, whether its true or not who knows.
Another excellent video! What I've found this video more micro-psychological, introspective in the life of the covert narcissist which is important to know. From my observation and involvement with covert narcissists, they appear harmless and humble don't bother anyone, but when you get to know them behind closed doors, these people are extremely hurtful in words and deeds, polar opposite of their presentation to the world. What a shame!! Clarice, keep up the great work on covert narcissism. These videos are excellent psychological lectures.
Go no contact move home and don't look back will save your life.
They only get worse.
It's heart rending
You are ABSOLUTELY right. I hope and pray the ones who are in a new relation with one of them, the listen to this before letting the relationship go any farther.
I have a relative that's a covert narcissist. His wife left him, his adult son has given up on him, and no one in the family will put up with his shit. He's turned into a raging self-destructive alcoholic.
Thank you Clarice from Orlando, Florida. Keep exposing these demons. Let’s not let them get the better of us. My dad is a vulnerable narcissist.
I love the editing of the video where the girl, who turns people against each other, SMILES and puts the finger on her lip around the 3:30 mark. This completely conveys the message of what we all have to live through and recover from. Male and female narcissists might be a little different, but it's all the same thing and pattern
I’ve been praying for the demons to be removed from my husband myself and our home 🙏🏻
I am Praying For A Saul To Paul For Mine
He Has Said All The Words And Even A Couple Of Weeks Ago Said To Abba That he Was A Prodigal And Wants To Come Home
Not Living Together Since 2019 But Commuting In The "Marriage" ( just a concubine) Until Labor Day WeekEnd When I Finally Ended It After Finding More
Evidence and am Now No Contact Except When I Go To Continue To Move Stuff
I Would Love Nothing More Than For A Miracle And he Be Completely Delivered
I am Walking As If That Is The Promise But Keeping myself Separate While Abba Deals
With him
It's Like No Addiction I Ever Had To OverCome Trying To Separate This Kind Of Bond To
Get Out Of The Way
One Day At A Time
I Pray Deliverance Comes To
your Home!
Peace🙏
@Lorna L Amen. Most have been turned over to a reprobate mind..but people don't read or believe the bible. You are dealing with a whole principality..
He has to want it removed as well.. God doesn't force anything on anyone..
It's up to the individual to want the change and then get off his arse and do it.
@Lorna L I totally agree 💯. Run those people or entities which ever are NOT going to change. Pray for release from the Prison.🙏
Wow. Every word is true. Thank you. For all these years I could get no help.
After 24 years of Narcissistic abuse I finally got the picture. I suffer from Anxiety and
Irritable Bowl and have isolated myself because of him.
Thank you for your very clear explanation of these monsters.
Anyone out there who suspects or knows they are in a Narcissistic relationship , get out as fast as you can. I stayed because I loved him but the real love was only coming from me. They do not know how to love and will bombard you with fake proclamations of love. Please take note of these videos and wake up from a nightmare that will destroy you. I am 70 years old and trying to find peace in the time I have left.
This is some truly SICK but true “ ish “ ..
Stomach turning honestly
It's rare that a covert narcissist is without a partner, because they need someone to abuse in order to feel alive.
Hi Rhonda I have known at least 3 female Narcissists who were struggling to find a man. They each lived alone and hated it. Their toxicity end up spilling over into the social groups we were in or on certain targeted individuals (myself included).
They save their violent temper, emotional negativity and victim mentality for those closest to them.
They devalue those people and isolate them hoping they will either die or never have the courage to speak about it.
Great look at how the covert narcissist minds work!!! It's absolutely spot on!!!
All you say is true it's about hurt,revenge,bullying their insecurity.
MAY GOD BLESS AND BE WITH US ALWAYZ
This channel is helping me on my journey SO much. You continue to provide actual substantial help for those proactively repairing their lives.
This has been by far the most valuable resource for me. Thank you
Wonderful! 🙏
His friends and other family members don't even want to be around him.
Him or her it goes both ways
yup his family left him on his own the others I was involved with will never be happy
THIS is so 💯 percent TRUE,VERY SICK PEOPLE! I GOT OUT,and JUST begin MY 3rd Year no contact!!! Everything in this video is 💯 percent correct,I Seen this BEHAVIOR in my own FAMILY,EVEN around FRIENDS. Thanks for confirmation!!! Great video 👍
OMG! You hit the nail on the head!!! The last 4 months of my covert narcissist mother life, I was Grey Rocking her and the darkness & negative energy was so thick you could cut it with a knife. I didn't understand it or why it was happening. I spent more time in my bedroom burning candles and praying! WOW! I have chills!! I just want to hug you for this! Thank you so much for this insight!❤
I enjoy being alone. I guess im not a mean old narcissist. Lol I chose not to have youngsters to avoid being a victim of the 1990s financial wrecking family court system. Way to go me! #winning
Narcissists hate being alone. They cannot handle solitude and they definitely do not enjoy their own company😂
@@ExposingtheNarcissist i enjoy the company of a good lookin ole broad but you never know what youre gonna get.
@@ozarkprepper1718 it's like a box of chocolates lol but true smh
@@ExposingtheNarcissist that's why they're all fakes who choose the mirror their future victims. With just enough of a difference to look like an individual who's slightly different, but the same. YET when that LP finishes on side two of the vinyl, you or I will see that that wasn't the case at all! That it
was just another insincere act
@@ExposingtheNarcissist Too bad for them. I relish my "me" time. I need alone time to decompress.
Thank You!!🌻 Have A Blissful Sunday!
GOOD MORNING BEAUTIFUL SOUL! 💚
@Queen Anna ❤️ hi !
@@peterknyk1942 HELLO KING PETER! 👑👐🏿❤
I'm just putting this out there.. long time ago, someone told me that if u sprinkle salt in somebodies footsteps then sweep it all away, they will never come there again.
So it has been working with people that were just terrible and I never wanted to come back to my crib for over 20 yrs.
Sprinkle some salt on their footsteps and sweep it away right after they leave,,, they never come back.
They may call or I see them at the store or something but they never step foot on my stairs again.
Just fyi.
That's interesting 👍
Very interesting indeed! Thanks for sharing.
Witchcraft... get to know Jesus, hes our only hope, he will deliver you and protect you. Becareful with that nonsense
Once again another religious moron proves how stupid they all are proving you know shit.
@@samza9622 yup.
Want to see a video of my broken legs? Its on my channel its nice and bloody.
When there is no one, they turn to UA-cam to talk endlessly about themselves. They seem to be satisfied as long as they get a couple of views.
😂😂😂
I was married to a narcisisst for 15 years. After that, I started to do the math; add and subtract toxic people in your life. It regenerates you positive power. Now I smile and laugh everyday!
I was in a 21-year relationship with a covert..It ruined me physically, mentally and emotionally...I'm in a middle of a divorce and at this stage I feel I will never heal....left with nothing,..no money, health or friendships...I lost it all..
Jenaya_Laila •
May yahowah barak you & keep you strong & courageous. If you know His name, He will protect you 🌈💜💝
Go to your nearest Jesus Preaching Church. Ask for The Pastor, Chaplain, Rabbi, and ask for help. Go to another Church if you don't get help. Holy Lord God will open doors you never knew existed. GODSPEED !!!!!!!
@@dannystephenson4197 Sorry to disappointment & disagree Danny but there was noone named Jesus as that letter never ever existed in any language at that time & Hebrew & Aramaic in particular.
God's actual name is "yhwh" & closest transliteration in English is ya ho wah.
However He diminished a part of Himself & did come to live on earth as yahowsha (that's who your jesus actually was). He was the passover lamb & as part of yhwh/God cannot & did not die. However His nepesh (soul) went to sheol (hell) momentarily. It's Yahowah/God whose coming back when the world gets so hellish & yhwh states in His own Towrah how we can work out when that will be. It's going to be in year 6,000 yah & that equates to 2033 on our modern day pagan calendar.
2nd Oct to be exact in ya'rushalaim & sundown time to be precise.
shalowm 🌈🙂
Please "everyone" and Danny do yourself & any loved one's a big favour & do what Yah asks of us all: Walk away from all Religions, Politics, Military & big power & controlling institutions too. Say His one & only name out loud & walk to Him by becoming Towrah observant & studying what He said (not manmade lies, myths, misconceptions & mistranslations).
Best place to start is below:
BlessYah.com
YahowahBeryth.com
Yada Yah on UA-cam
Yada Yah.com
By the way, there was never any mention of any New Covenant, but it's what He will be making with His chosen people yahudym when He returns with King dowd = David. We can all be there too as are adopted from people of different races & places, we are known as Gowym & accepted/adopted into Yahowah's Covenant Family once we accept His 7 annual Mo'ed Miqra'e invitations to meet with Him & walk away from all those mentioned previously. Time is really running out & this world will be changing beyond recognition at the times of ya'acob's troubles. To anyone who doesn't know that's called the Last 7 years hell on earth & it's 2026 - 33. So y'all better get with it & move fast if you want to survive what's on the way here.
Honey, although this feels like the hardest thing in the world, it's actually a transitional stage: a big life clear out. In time, you will emerge the other side, and you will be wiser and happier. Best wishes to you 💕
Welp, that's my Mom explained. This was really enlightening & very helpful. Thank you.
Yep my mother would always get her sisters to fight with one another by spreading lies between them with he said she said and she would be in the middle pretending as if she was trying to resolve the conflict when she was the one that created it. Mind you I was only a 15 year old teenager at the time when this happened and I could see what was going on and her sisters were so oblivious 😂
In my situation the covert female narcissist is my neighbour. Allthough she is married she has chosen me as her external target to keep her marriage safe as she is lazy, not working and fully dependent of her husband.
It proves that a covert narcissist choses carefully the target which fits the best to the situation. No matter if the target is outdoor or indoor !
The covert narcissist seeks for "the easiest target" based on the rule "most profit less risks".
I became the target because I am an older retired woman who lives alone next door to the narcissist and therefore easy to terrorize, invisible to others. I was a supply without any risk for her abusing marriage. I was a supply...because after 16 horrible years of terror I decided to sell my house preferring my health above my possessions. The covert narcissist who poissoned my life space with lies and smear campaigns still plays the victim to her flying monkeys.
🙏🏽💯🙏🏽💯🙏🏽💯
Very well explained. I have yet to see anyone describe this concept as well as you have in this video. For most, if the person is nice to you, no matter how bad the narcissist treats others, most will not have any ill feelings towards the narcissist. When I brought to light the mental trauma in the children created by the narcissist , I gained some attention. When 3 people complained about the behavior and stated, "you will never understand the person we see at home", it became a turning point in exposing the covert Narcissist. On a side observation, instinctively , I would have my kid's friends over often as this kept the mask on the Narcissists though it had slipped at times. Thank you for this video..
I love the way they go yeah, uh-huh every few seconds when you are talking to them and they won't take any time to listen. Don't expect them to respond until they start a conversation and demand your attention. It must be a very fulfilling life for someone to be so obvious about their desire to be the center of attention, to be the (they think) the smartest person wherever they go. Has anyone here had one go on and on about something they know nothing about? When you try to give them some real knowledge regarding the subject they are misinformed about they get mad as hell. I used to think that was cute... is demoralizing.
This content is very healing & thought provoking. You are very clear & to the point with your words. Thank you
Robin M,You are beautiful 😍,Hope you are not with a narcissist!
Right on Target. When that mask cracks you also see different faces literally. Some thing serious is going on here on earth.
I saw the whole shell cracking apart. Very disturbing.
Demonic possession? I have wondered.
Describing the majority of people these days. Evil is increasing.
PROTECT YOURSELF
Agree. My sister in law went from being this downtrodden wife and homemaker to hitler in the blink of an eye - the freakiest thing I have ever seen
@@goldilocks3593 my god this happened over time in my family. It took me decades to see the rot it had caused. It took them turning in me for it to be revealed
They're never truly single.
I am going through this right now. And you are perfectly right.
My advice run and run
Love yourself
My ex-husband often told me: the one I love, I hurt. I did not catch it nor took it in deep consideration. I was young, Godly girl and naive.
Now looking back. He ment every disturbed words he said.
Till they face the Heyoka empath warrior in front of them!!😂😂
That’s beautiful xxxx
She raised me, so she deserves it.
I’m not sure I would have found this path if it hadn’t been for her abuse.
Like a Phoenix from the ashes.
Lol
The narcissist I know always says he can go back to any of his exes.He brags on what they will do for him..And then I asked him" why do you always beg me for gas,food and ask to borrow money and need help from me all the time..Because they don't want him🤣🤣..His own family has turned away years ago..Glad I got away from him..There is promise in the world after him...Save your serenity..Lose that Narcissist..They are low grade bottom feeders!!! You're better off 💯
I am not a broken woman....the game didn't work with me . I saw through the play. Neither one of them got away with it...I went for reprogramming and helped myself...Narcissists don't like that .
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You are Amazing at Explaining what the Covert Narcissist is All About and Evil .
Thank you so much for all Your videos ❤️👍
YOU are Amazing at describing what the Covert Narcissist is all about and How they manipulate people for their Own Self Gratification and Destroy Innocent Victims and Loved Ones. Thank You so Much for All YOUR VIDEOS and Helping so many people understand the Evil Intentions within THEM.
Its like having a glimpse of the devil whenever I got to bump into him. Angel of light....
I’m so glad I ran into this channel 😊🤗. I’ve been an empath all my life and this is very helpful ❤️🙏🏾🔥
Welcome!!
Spot on!!!
Bipolar personalities who live under a blanket of lies. I relate to everything in the video. They get away with their demonic underhanded ways.. God watches everything and karma comes back 🙏
I saw a text message from another woman where he told her that he LOVED her...he use to tell me that he LOVED me when we first met...that stoped a few weeks before I saw the message from her...after I saw this, a few days days later I packed my stuff in my car and left that evening...but before leaving, I went all over the town he lived in and advise them that I was heading home, was asked why I was leaving, I advised them that he had someone else behind my back and I found out about her by a text message on his phone where he left his phone in his house...what a sleeze, only cares about his Narcissist self, and no one else...
My friends didn't like ex narc
Neither did our dog… even though my ex loves dogs and was extra nice to our dog, the dog couldn’t stop growling at him.
The dog KNEW!!!
@@lorip.9836 exactly dog 🐕 has a high discerning spirit
Oh my God you just described religious narcs to a T! This is what I have been experiencing in the church.Iam literally crying at the depth of this revelation 😢
Bingo, she sure said it just the way it is.
when out of their home their are the nicest and helpful people. but in their safe zone they can be very rude and nasty.
God god god god only if I could go back. I would leave at 17 and never see or talk to them again!!!!
thank you for the HEARTED COMMENT. I fixed my post, I don't know why it was messed up.
The friends and family members situation is so true they have to be the most liked and “win” because they always have to push themselves in the front too and over talk you and give presents and do little favors…
Spotted my narc ex today and he tried to hide.. that was funny
Awesome Description!!! Their two-faced character is hard to understand well if it´s only two faces.
Are the covert demons the worst? 👹 It sure seems that way! Thank you Clarice for this! ❤️🙏🕊
Yes more dangerous and painful and damaging because the relationship lasts longer....for one reason-----
I was married to an Overt at a young and naive age....and it was a sudden escape as his foul nature became odious to me. ... I had a baby and escaped with him and my vehicle....this OVERT NARCISSIST continued to damage me, however with insane entitled lawsuit to take the child from me.....in truth Narcissists just hate to pay child support !!!
Yes LORD! 🙇🏿♀️
@@queenanna1077 AMEN! ❤️
@@michelekisly2535 thank you Michele! The narcissist does not want to take responsibility for any of their evil deeds and, in reality, when they are bad they blame you! 👹 I will say a prayer that you get the proper child support that you deserve! 🙏
@@peterknyk1942 you are a dear
But that was many years ago....I have suffered NARCISSISTIC abuse much of my life so I do appreciate your prayers
Lol, my sister accused me of being a covert narcissist. Lol. I am very happy and content being alone. Having positive relationships with genuine like minded kind people. I love life, positive kind ppl. I never do tribal gaslighting to anyone like my sisters have..I'd say they maybe the covert narcissist because they do exactly as described here.
Judy Lefebvre,You got a lovely smile 😊
how to destroy a narcissist destroy there herum like social media fb instagram
Wow my ex 1000% when they get to this point they will look for ways to pull you out by starting an argument with you for me when you realize what your dealing with for me I laughed in her face and make a joke of the situation before it Escalades the look on her face is like "Dame it" and she would try to sit around you trying to take control of the energy with insults what's fall short because you already understand who they truly are! The power that comes with knowing! Powerful it's knowing they can't touch you. Sis your a God send keep up the great work. 😃🙏
Thank you.🙏
Girl you speaking the truth you are so helpful to all of us😘
Wow. I’m speechless , this is so true.
Everyone thought my ex was so nice and loving but I use to catch hell.
Me also I am breaking away slowly without any notice. Been with him almost forty years. I can't do it anymore. He's done. He criticism, his negative comments, no appreciation, no compliments, he loves when I'm sad, in pain, isolated, he didn't care for me ever. He doesn't want to take care for me ever. He just wants to take from anyone he can without giving back, pretend he cares but prefers to be alone and now drunk as possible.
I've been married to the same covert narcissist twice. It took me 23 years in order to wake up. I believe the Jesus freed me- the sces came lff my eyes, big time!
He came back to me a year and a half ago. He became completely isolated and ignored me or did sone other crazy thing
He never had any genuine love in him- by the end I felt like someone was sucking the light and life out of my Spirit- I felt like I was dying.
Father os the one who showed me the truth and these vids just sealed it..
God Bless all of you going through or been through this dark time- the Light is at the end.
This os the first time in 23 yrs that I feel I'm finally getting my life back.
I know I had severe ptsd for about a year or so.
Thank you so much for putting on these incredibly insightful videos- God bless you.
Me Too Peggy
Just Getting Out All The Way And I Still Feel Like I am Dying
I Haven't Moved All my Stuff And my Guts Turn Thinking About Having To See him
Putting It Off
I Dont Even Care About A Divorce Cuz I Dont Think I Have It In me To Do A Marriage Again Or Even A Companion
I am 57 And The Chances Of Finding SomeOne Yoked The Same,....
Right Now I Need To Get This Done
Peace To you 🙏
We Survived!
Thank you for this, I have been getting away from my ex for sometime, but what you said about when they talk about this person and that person, they aren’t really around! Thank so much🙌💜😎😘 and God Bless You
They live in fantasy I live a real life and I tell anyone or everyone I never stay quiet anymore thank u for your great advice
Yep. Called within the past hour and 2 days ago a few times. I’m assuming my malignant, covert narcissist mother is seeing less of my sister. She still said that she’s at home 24/7, in her voicemail message, so I assume my sister is taking care of food shopping for her. But, more than food, what she needs is narcissistic supply. I’m closed for business so, she’ll have to just deal with that.
My ex started his own UA-cam channel in the absence of a partner/close friend/family member to abuse … in order to get supply he claims to be some kind of “life coach” (despite being unemployed for 7+ years himself… but he doesn’t share that bit) - he gives people his “advice” on all sorts of things, then flies into a rage over any comment that hints at disagreement & bans said commenter from his channel 🤣 I don’t watch it anymore, but I do remember him being so mad about folks comments that he made a video response claiming that he is always 100% right about what he posts, and how dare anyone question his authority on these matters (even though they are all highly subjective topics that no one could possibly be “right or wrong” about) - mostly he just wants everyone to defer to him on all matters, and compliment all the photos he shares of himself 👍🏼
As I've lost interest interacting with my mother. I'm watching her using these victim tactics to manipulate others. She claims the car doesn't work, but renewed the insurance on it. She'll get dressed up as a church goer to interact with the neighbors to manipulate them for favors. She squeals like a child when I call her out on her behavior and tell her to go get a reduced bus fare card cause she's burning her bridges. I fell for the "my car needs repair" scam years ago.
Story of my life this is crazy
Thank you for the confirmation on some of my thoughts. Much appreciated.
This is excellent. Thank you!
Btw: I went nc with my mother 7 years ago. Soon afterwards my younger (narcissistic) sister started contact with my daughter and told her my mother's lies about me. I could exactly say which of the accusations my daughter made to me, were things my sister has taken over from my mother. The sentences were just how my mother said them, decades ago, when my sister ( she's 9 years younger than myself) was still very young and I didn't live there, any longer
Excellent, thank you, I've dealt with many of these but the mask really slips, funny this lock down has been a goldmine for them.
My 92 yr old mother is the poster child for old 😜 narcissist she managed to fool me for 40 yrs! Now she lives with us and it’s like a old poisoned spine sitting in a chair. Hopefully Lucifer will call her home sooner than later. Thanks for the lesson it’s reaffirming🙏🏻
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Narcissists seem to live forever. Wild