@Yisha. brother with a bad take no the hell it's not to just automatically believe them have you heard what happened to slazo and a few other names I don't remember the victims all lied kind of
As an SA victim myself, I’m so happy to see you talking about this. I was assaulted by a woman as well and it’s so hard to get people to take you seriously.
It's gross that people who commit sa mostly get off free, like they haven't just completely ruined someone's life for their own sexual benefits, I don't know exactly how you feel since I've only been sexually harassed, but that's terrible, 1, did you tell anyone close to you (and if you did, did they believe you?)
It really is. My friend went through something similar when she was six and it really left a scar on her. It was hard enough for her to tell me about this, I can’t imagine her coming to a bunch of randos on UA-cam. Edit: she was assaulted by a woman. She was straight at the time so it kinda messed her up
it's disgusting how bad double standards are in our society, and how that foster mom probably didn't get caught, but there's a special circle of hell for those people.
Not that you had a Choice, it is what it is, it doesn't have to be Completely Bad, you got something atleast, and thats what goes with you, there ain't no changing it so I guess will live with it.
Taking responsibility for something you were falsely accused of, sparks an unspoken kind of anger. Mad respect for not paying homage to your literal villain origin story.
You've been through so much and despite everything that happened, you're so strong, kind and loving.. I wish I can take away that pain she gave you, but I know in reality I can't. Just while I'm here, I'll give you all the love you deserve, I love you sooo much bby💙
OH MY GOD!! THE RELIEF I GOT WHEN I SAW THIS VIDEO!!! Finally! Some recognition on how it’s NOT just women who experience sexual assault!!! Men/boys can experience it aswell!!!
@@BUTTRUUDude watching both of your videos really helped me cope with some of the things that happened to me in the past knowing their people out there who can speak up and be confident to say something like this wish we had more people like you in the world (sorry if i vented a little really I needed to say some of this as things from the past tends to catch up to me and times is rough right now but again thanks for giving me hope or the confidence to try and speak up and fix the problem.)
@@BUTTRUUwhen you were talking about it making or breaking you, I felt it. I had things done to me by dudes that were bigger and stronger than me so I decided I wasn’t going to let it happen ever again. I was in nearly every sport and was in amazing shape. Kinda got me in trouble when junior year of high school some land whale decided my cheeks were hers for the taking. She decided to drill for oil when I was going up the stairs and i cracked her jaw with instinctive haymaker. I still remember the screams of innocent children she absorbed as she rolled down the steps.
Society has desensitized these types of situations. Its advertised on rated r websites, hentai, whatever. And people have just become so used to it that they see it as a lifetime experience that should be remembered. When it's really not. Through the hardship, I'm glad that you shared this story and I hope that you are doing well. you Just gave me another group of people to pray for so thank you
@@BUTTRUU much appreciated man. God jus gives me the things I need to see instead of jus seeing it on the surface. We gotta keep our eyes open out here man. Regardless I hope the best for u bro. keep up the good work on ur channel!
This is definitely true I understand having Kinks and Fantasies so when you start thinking that that's normal and that can happen in real life and be okay is just not okay man I said okay a lot
When I saw this I was instantly reminded how society is. My friend, Sunny, actually got sexually assaulted at his school by a female classmate. He only told me and our friend group, and made a post about it online. His parents are incredibly strict and probably wouldn't have believed him if he told them. I'm glad he trusts us, but knowing he can't talk about it IRL just brings pain to my heart.
Hey, I'm very sorry for your friend. But I do like to mention that the name "Sunny" reminds me of OMORI. Had to rub off my chest, didn't mean any malicious intent.
The worst thing about stuff like this is that no one ever cares about women being pedos around little boys but if it's the other way around... It would be a completely different story. If a woman sexualy assaulted a boy no one would give a shℹt... But if it's the other way around it's a completely different story! That whole double standard crap is just terrible.
I haven't been SA, but you arethe bravest man on the interbet I have ever seen to say something like this in details, and still be able to make people laugh at other videos
back when i was 4-5 i was in foster care, they would abuse me physicaly and mentally everyday, from stripping me naked and holding me by my leg and whipping me, to sitting on me until i pass out. They were horrible. They also moved me and my sister (at the time) to the basement where we wouldn't be allowed to come up stairs and the lights would always be off. Your story really connects with me and you deserve a sub... Thank you for showing people how horrible foster care can truly be.
watched this video before my PTSD diagnosis, watching it now it feels different but i still feel the same depression that i got when i was like 12 watching this, even though my experience was traumatic and life changing, yours is a horrifying experience and i have my deepest condolences EDIT: not really sure if what i said makes any sense at all
Man this sucks. Even if some guys think it would’ve been “hot” it’s messed up. It hurts me to watch this. Especially because it was a child. Rape is an issue but it’s like 55% worse with children.
@@BUTTRUU I realize that u are a very busy UA-camr and that God damn animating need some patience , but I was just wondering to ask the question if u knew of any foster kids that this same thing happened too and did u find a decent foster family /foster care person and was the woman eventually brought to justice . ( Great uncle was in foster care and 1 of the foster kids that was there still knows my dad so yeah the people there had burnt her arms with cigarettes and things so the system doesn’t work always)
i`m down with that to be honest cause without my parents i wouldn`t be here r i would`t be who i am 2 day i love them and the rest of my family 2 death. you gotta love yo parents even if they make you mad you still gotta love`em for every thing they did for for u see have of these little kids don`t understand that. William Brown III i love u for that.
I myself was groomed by a girl. I am also a girl. She was sixteen, I was fourteen. She’d physically harm herself then show me her injuries as a way of guilting me into staying quiet, blaming me for the harm she caused herself. I’m still too scared to tell my mom and dad. I’m proud that you were able to open up. I hope to be as brave as you one day.
I know I'm two years late but when I saw this, I felt utterly disgusted, WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG with that woman, I am proud that you shared this , it showes a dark side of foster care, and how FUCKED up this is. I'm so sorry this happened to you, wish you well
I am right here with you brother, i went through some really messed up crap my mom actually pimped me out to her coworkers from 13 to 16 4 adult women used me...shit screwed me up. I dropped out of highschool and joined the Marines it was the only way to reclaim my dignity. I hate how men get marginalized when we get abused by women
Its rough. My wife went through something similar. The parent is cut off from our lives. She tries her best to move on. She's done well. A fighter. I try my best to help. But i wish id known sooner. Just to understand the reasons why some things bothered her. I took it personal. Till i found out years later. I felt lower than dirt. Just talk to someone. Someone who loves you I'm sure is wondering why. Every generation is better than the last. Your kids don't have to know.just dont let the darkness take em. Dont let them feel forsaken. With love, lead them safely to the light.
@@chrisgomez3691 Democrats support pedophilla and they want this to become legal. Antifa has members who are registered child molester and they talk about how relationships should be ageless
Dude, you are so damn strong to share a story like this. As another SA victim who’s too scared to share, it’s nice to hear people talking about their own experiences, especially in situations that are similar to my own. It lets other connect in a way most people can’t understand, especially if the perp is a woman.
Honestly this is probably the most f*cked up story I've ever heard. I might think oh I'd do this but being a 15 year old who is shut up by evey adult when I say something else and I never speak up for myself so I don't think I would in the moment.... but your message at the end was really inspiring and if someone doesn't think so then it is at least a good message. Honestly claps for you for being able to come out of that
@Tristan Henson-Smith no offense but admittedly its because your ten don't fight just trust me you'll get it when your older you'll look back and realize
Takes a real one to spread love and positivity like you did man and I really needed that on ths video so thanx. You have no idea what that comment means to me.
the foster care system itself seems fucked up to begin with. yeah lets just stick a bunch of random kids in a house with at least one random interchangeable adult who randomly brings over their bio kid(s) with no safety, support, or emergency net whatsoever if anything goes wrong. and at any time anything can be taken from the kids, being moved around foster homes like chess pieces.
i'm so done like she is crazy i wish i could litterally do something about this in a click of a button like i would have taken this woman to court and ruined her life like how do you put a minor in that situation and then live with you're self knowing that you did something so truamatizing to a kid who was only looking for a home like and she probably feels sorry now but i don't care how sorry she is she needs to face the consaqences goodness i can't spell but she needs to take response abillity for her actions i hate how people will not care when a male says he got rapped or sexually assaulted like if it were me child it would not even be in a cartoon i would have expossed her info and get this lady sued and arrested like her face would be on there her last and first name would be on there like everything would have been seen if it were me i would have called her out for it i really hope something like karma happens the better way to say it is that i hope she reaps what she sows it's from the bible but yeah she needs to face consaqences yeah it just makes me upset that there has not yet been a giant mgtow protest in a larg city like new york we go out are way for lgbtq+ rights femanisim and blm but mgtow nope white guilt or other races other then black asian and mexican nope christian peace nope all we got is the ones the world only cares about like fr like and if you speak up to toxic world behavior they will try to cancel you and put things in you're mouth just because they hate you like forget society my goodness like i said what i said you offended you hurt you laughing at me like nobody cares what you think about me i just stated my opinon nobody asked for you to do all that like fr you won't hear everything you want to hear out of this world because other people have there own opinions and belifes ill continue this rant tommorrow because i am tired peace
As a victim from sexual abuse at young age by an older cousin, I really admire your courage to put all this out here. I don’t even have the courage to tell my parents cuz I know they wouldn’t believe me. No one, especially children, should be takin advantage of like that. However I do have different thoughts of if I was in your situation, but that could be cuz I need help lol love your channel bro and how far you’ve grown without lettin any of your past break you.
Im no victim, but trust me. Telling at least somebody you love will make you feel much better than ever. If you know they won’t believe you, find somebody else. And if all else fails, go to a friend.
@@statdefender54 oh Yea I’ve definitely went to my closest friends with this. You’re right cuz It was eating away at me for years so when I told them i felt relieved. They had nothing but support for me
I once went through this with my mom's husband....I was around 8 years old. I told my family finally at 13. I left out a lot of details...Because I didn't want to be called even more names. Two family members told me I was lying. I remember all down to the tea. Even the night it happened.
I'm genderfluid, originally born a female, and honestly, I'm actually quite glad this is a topic. People are so sexist when it comes to this, and I've experienced it myself. I heard that on April 24th every year, there's this thing called 'National R*pe Day'. People would be going around saying shit like: "Be careful when you go outside on April 24th, boys could SA you." Which I'm quite pissed about. Not just by the fact that people do this, but how they mention only boys in the scenario, when girls can do it, too. It's disgusting how people do this.
National rape day sounds like the most shittiest edgy inside joke ive ever heard. Also i hope youve been feeling alright from your past experiences similar to the one mentioned in this video
@@user-lp8im7ow8sTbh you will never truly understand it unless you are one. But to the best explanation in MY case, I am biologically female, but I’ve never felt tied to just being a girl. I fit in every role I can think of (mostly boy and girl).
@@ninjafalls1739 So your female, you just don't look male or female right? That's not a reason to say your gender fluid, your a girl , simple, why the label? Just because you don't feel female doesn't mean you aren't, I have the urge to watch Winx now and then it's no big deal , your urge may be so strong it's a lifestyle but why call yourself gender fluid
Fuck, that must’ve been an extremely difficult story for you to relive, let alone tell us. It takes a lot of courage to talk about all the trauma you faced, and I’m proud of you for being able to share it with all of us. The fact that you were able to learn and grow from the whole ordeal, in spite of the situation and in spite of that absolute monster of a person honestly makes me really happy. You deserve nothing but the best, and I hope for nothing less than that for you ❤️
As a fellow man with a troubled past (Nearly had a kid I babysitted try to tell her parents that I touched her, not only making me a sex offender but a pedophile), I respect your work and your hardships, keep on pushing and never let this shit bring you down Side note, I'm not trying to throw any shade at females, but why does it always seem that females try to lie to get their ways with a person? There are sometimes where it's males sure, but a lot of this shit is overall PROVOKED by the females, which I don't like Edit: I'm fully aware I'm a month late, but come on, a story's a story
@@BUTTRUU It is what it is, we gotta keep on moving, life can be great but a hellhole at the same time, so I'm over it in the sense that I don't really mind much that it had happened, it lets me know how parents treat kids in this generation
@@owlpaw8022 It's the same with males and all genders, there will always be that outlier group that just breaks laws or other things, and we can't control that as we're just ourselves, neither can society or the government, the only thing we CAN control however, is the punishment for their acts, fortunately we're usually able to avoid these people, but it's like what tru and I had, we ended up meeting that outlier group at the wrong time
Guys, the amount of courage that it would have to take him to come out with this is insane. Tru, you’re awesome for being able to talk about this kind of thing. And just know that we’re all here rooting for you. Another great video by another great guy ❤
You're brave for even coming up with the courage to animate an experience as life-altering as this. I'll be sure to use this as motivation that I can get through whatever the fuck life throws at me, because there are people like you who have lit up the path for the younger generation like me. You have my respect and support brodie. 👊🏽
i honestly cant express how sorry i am for you. there is no word that i can say that allows me to express how sorry i am. im honestly so happy youre here. i cant even imagine losing my parents, and then having this happen.
Dude im so sorry what you went through, Originally i was gonna leave the stereotypical "Wish it was me" comment. But after finishing the video i realized how fucked that was and how if i was in your situation it would be the same. I hope your doing good now, keep it a hundred.
The fact that you can experience all of those horrible things and still be a happy person is incredible. Huge respect to you for having the bravery to make this video and addressing the flaws of today's society
I know how this feel to one be in a foster home im in my 23rd house but to be sexually assaulted by many foster families, im just glad to know im not alone.
I know I'm a year late but I just wanna say that the fact that he was able to tell this event in his life takes a real man, being able to show your emotions the healthy way.
After hearing your story Tru, it makes me feel more open to talk about this. No, I am not looking for likes, or any form of pity or validation. I just feel my story might be able to help others like his did mine. Now before I begin, I want to give some background. I am a 6'1" black man. A bit on the larger side from weight lifting classes, but definitely not some Greek Adonis. I was a junior in high school when it happened, however because I went to an early college, I was allowed to take college courses on campus while still being in high school. Anyway... It was the last day of the semester and I had just finished my history final. I handed it in to the teacher and went back to my seat to grab my stuff (I sat in the front row). I sat by this cute girl at the time named Brenna, and I thought that since it was the last day, it was either now or never to ask her out. So I did. Sadly, she was a lesbian and rejected me. It sucked at first but ultimately I was alright with it and wished her goodbye and told her t keep in touch. Sadly, I guess that rejection gave the second girl an idea. She was this Asian girl, and kind of short by my standards (between 5'4"-5'6" I think) and before I could leave she asked if I wanted to go out with her since Brenna had just rejected me. Now note, the only reason I even asked Brenna out was because we had a pre established relationship and I felt I could trust her. I don't date before I know the other person relatively well because of previous trauma and because I've always been like that. I apologized to the girl (I literally never got her name) and told her I had to go because I needed to get to class (history ran late so I was already gonna be late to my next class). She said okay and walked with me down the staircase to leave. Because it was late and we were some of the last to finish, practically no one was around. This is when things went from 0-100. TW SEXUAL ASSUALT As I go to leave and head for the door outside she literally slams me into the wall by grabbing the top strap to my backpack and pulling me back. Because I didn't expect it, I didn't notice until she had me stumbling backwards. Pinning me, she begins to make out with me while I'm just standing wide eyed. Because of all the horror stories I had heard of women turning stories like mine around to avoid any trouble, I stood there frozen. Yes I could have pushed her off or something, but as i said, I am a black man and she was an Asian Caucasian woman. There wasn't much I could do that she couldn't spin around to fit her false narrative. Then she began to touch me, feeling me up and groping me. I was horrified. It felt fucking vile man. And the fact that I couldn't even force myself to move or even scream felt even worse for my mental state. It felt like I was experiencing sleep paralysis. It only lasted maybe a few minutes but it felt like days. I'm not religious by any means but during that time I thought about praying. After she was done with her "fun" as she called it, she said the most chilling words I'd ever heard at the time: "that was fun. We should do it again sometime." I literally just stared at her until she walked away. In the end, I didn't make it to my next class. But I didn't care. I dealt with the pain of that experience for years before I ever told anyone. It stopped me from having proper healthy sexual interactions with women, and honestly, I couldn't trust them to an extent. But what was wworse was I hated myself. I hated that I literally couldn't do anything during. I was helpless and I hated it. The first person I told (my mom) took it like those assholes that were talked about in the opening skit, so that wasn't much help (this was three years after the fact mind you). I'm a junior in college now and am just startng to get trauma therapy, and it's honestly very helpful. So to all the men who may have experienced something similar, please know that you aren't alone and that people will believe you if you tell them. Sme people might, but there are those who will. You don't have to suffer alone. It took me so long to realize that, but despite all the pain that bitch caused me, I am so much stronger for it. Stay strong, I believe in all of you. Much love, - Tyler P.S If you got through reading all of this, thank you, and I sincerly hope it helps any that need it.
@@theecocopuff2171 yo being a woman no matter what color automatically gives you the advantage race don't mean shit also she wasn't white either she looked like she was Brazilian or some shit
Thank you for making this a front and center story for your life, in the face of the backlash most males and male presenting people face. You're helping make it possible for more people to come forward. I'm not in that category, but I know how f***'d the situation is...
It took a lot of guts to share this story. That being said, I 100% believe this story. How you described your foster mom when you were introduced to her is textbook predator behavior. She planned that whole thing when she saw you. She acted like a mother in the beginning to gain your trust. That is grooming behavior. I bet she coached her kid to be annoying to get the ball rolling. You have the patience of Job because most teenage boys that went through what you went through would have committed murder. Society is too quick to side with a female over a male. We see it in custody battles, alimony cases, child support cases, rape cases, etc. When it comes to the justice system and public opinion women usually get a slap on the risk or get off scot free. Also the foster care system has been garbage for several decades. I remember my mom used to slap me around and beat on me just because she felt like it and when I called her out on it she used to threaten to send me to "the system." I never been in foster care but my parents made it seem like it was the worst place for a kid to be and they weren't wrong. My mom only treated me like crap because she hated my dad and I looked exactly like him. For a long time I couldn't live with my dad because he was fighting a drug addiction and living in sober-living houses. So I know all to well how helpless you felt. There are way too many women like my mom and your foster mom that get away with the things they do because society gives them way too much power. We will never have True equality until women are treated like men when it comes to crimes. You have a good head on your shoulders. No doubt that you have come a long way. I have been subbed to you for a couple of years and I always like hearing your input regardless of the topic. It's good that you have people in your corner that you can trust. Stay strong Tru.
@@Pengod.online My guess is that it is a business (just like college) and a lot of people involved don't care about the innocent children or their hardships. Foster parents get paid by the state for each kid they adopt right? That being said a lot of people only become foster parents for the money and benefits. Most foster parents don't care about the kids they adopt just like most college professors don't care whether their students pass or fail. Like I said before, it is a business. A very cruel business. Some kids get lucky and get adopted by a good family, most kids aren't so lucky. The whole system needs to change.
I don't know if you will ever see this bro but my heart stopped listening to this. My stepmother locked me in my room and made me sit on my bed doing nothing (a camera recording my every move) for over half a year. You're so strong to have the courage to keep going after enduring literal imprisonment like that.
I am so so sorry that you even had to go through this. No human, male or female should have to go through this. I hope you're in a better state mentally💗💗
I just wanna say all those who are going through this or have gone through this. I’m sorry that you have. I know how painful that can be and you have my full support. I wish y’all nothing but blessings and joy yall will get through this. Stay strong.😊
I remember when I was living with my foster parents I wasn’t really treated the best way, but now I know people were treated worse than me, I was really shocked and feel very sorry, I really hope you feel better and recover from this traumatising time.
Real talk my dude, I know this scenario too. He was my Ex-Stepfather, and I was 15 years old. It happened for about 2 years, and I didn't tell anyone for about four months when I finally cut it off myself. It takes a lot of bravery to step up and tell stories like this, and I'm here for you bro. Stay vibin' man. 💜💜
I CANT BELIEVE THERES ANOTHER PERSON OUT THERE THATS GONE THROUGHT THE SAME THING!!!!! But the thing is , it was my moms ex and i told her and she never believed me & the man who sexually abused me for 2 years never got the punishment he deserved :(
Coi, I'm sorry you suffered from something so horrible. I know how much it hurts. But, I want you to know this, You are strong. As long as you remember that, you will overcome that pain and feeling of injustice.
I also have a story whean i was 12 or 13 a 17 year old girl came forced me down and kissed me on my cheek also the girl was my baby sitter but to be forreal i was bad and i KINDA liked it but only a littl and that was a long time ago
It actually isn’t the same thing. I still feel for you, but the video was more in depth of how it was a male who was being raped, and how nobody would take his side because he was a boy.
I'm glad you had the courage to speak about this. I feel like theres a lot of guys who are too scared to say anything cause they never see victims like themselves in media. Sadly Perpetrators and Victims come in all shapes, sizes and colours. I also HATE when people lie about being a victim because then people don't believe the actual victims.
I felt this deep down in my heart, I'm really sorry you had to go through that. No one should have to go through this. Thank you for sharing your story, it takes a lot.
Both sides of sa should be recognized. It doesn't matter if it is a woman or a man, it still counts. It hurts to hear these stories because people are sick and need to rethink everything they've done. Thanks for sharing this, you're very strong.
That last note really hit Although most my life was relatively ok, i still felt like giving up on many occasions, the future is scary and i would always talk about my past and how i would change it and constantly blamed myself for everything But i've been trying to accept that i cant change the past I never thought of "using those shitty experiences to be the best you" that way, i just thought it was some baggage that either stays or goes away I didnt think you could really do that, thank you man. I really needed that and i feel the need the try something new now I hope it goes well
This must've been tough not having your own mom, losing your own happiness, stay strong man. We all love you. Be yourself because nobody is more you than yourself
It can be damaging as hell for anyone let alone a child to be mentally scarred by those who are meant to be our guardians, our protectors . I hope ur doing all good king 👑
As a person who also dealt with sexual abuse it made me who I am today but it also kind of broke me. I love your content and you don’t deserve what happened, keep up the good work.
I hope you're doing okay now. That story was very traumatizing and would be for anyone to go through, so the fact that you stepped up to tell that story takes a lot of guts. I'm glad you have the support of everyone around you, which you blatantly deserve.
Your way of representing this seriously horrible moment in your life is interesting and I’m glad you feel comfortable with your viewers enough to tell us this I’m sure it must have been hard to record and animate this also the gameshow looking segment was great visuals
To all y’all “YoU dIdN’t LiKe It” people imagine as a child you put all your trust into someone who was supposed to love you betrayed and hurt you, you would like it
Legit no one has said that though lol. I feel like comments like these are put even when the thing hasn't happened. Though I do think your referring to the fact that this is the argument given to alot of male victims of things like this.
The starting part where it says nobody deserves unwanted sexual attention actually made me feel comfortable with my SA, Nobodys understood that i didn’t want it and that even if she did it before once that she didn’t have the consent to do it again, let alone in public, at school. And this meant a lot to me. Thank you💗
So true, greatest quote at the end there, I’m young aswell and so seeing someone go through this tells me that I can get through any of the hardships of my life, just like you. Thank you for the life lesson.
I just want to thank you for being so vulnerable especially in such a place with so much hate. I experienced a similar case with an “uncle” of mine, I was fortunate enough to not actually be r@p3d, and was able to escape the situation before anything worse happened. I was also fortunate enough for my family to believe me. but I can relate to it changing your life, and it took me literal months before I could hug anyone taller than me again without the piercing discomfort and fear, and PTSD that came with it. This story was inspirational for me at the end so I want to thank you for that and to keep doing what you love ❤️
I use to be verbally and mentally and physically abused by my stepdad. I can’t really say I know what you’ve been through but I know it’s tough. Everyday bleeding into the next. Waiting and hoping for the day you’ll be free from the torture and pain. I’m sorry you had to go through shit like this. But pain is what shapes who we are. It’s what makes you stronger. Plus this is my first time seeing your channel. You now have a new subscriber. Keep the peace man. ✌️
I can agree with that it's often hard to end videos in a way that can leave some sort of hope. Ultimately I dont want people to be like life is screwed or anything but i am happy you are able to take note that there is a missing bigger picture.
@@BUTTRUU this video taught me a lot of stuff that I didn't even know I needed to hear, My friend is in a situation like this and he comes over my house sometimes and he stays a lot and I wondered why does he keep staying he's been here for like a week and a half but this really showed me how messed up life can be, Thank you for sharing something so personal so that other people could learn from it
@@theegggod8070 -bitch- you try going through that then having no sense of right or wrong feeling like your a puppet getting controlled by someone who is in a higher place having to go through *that* at such a young age it hurts man it -fucking- hurts
As a girl myself, I fucking hate being a girl cause of how most women act and the abuse they they do and they get away with it, I'm fucking sick of it. I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that and honestly, I'm mad, I'm enraged, I'm disgusted. I honestly i wish woman were treated the same. I wish they go to jail for abuse and stuff.. I hate abusive people and i will do anything just to hurt them back. I hope you are doing okay, man.. I'm sorry you had to go through all of that. No child deserves to be treated like that, and abusive and toxic assholes don't deserve any kids in their life. Again, I hope you're doing alright
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Bro im so sorry for what happened most people don't understand this can happen to men and boys as well.
Y was this posted 8 hrs ago, this vids old?
off topic of the ideo but your singin was really good
Females aren’t so innocent either when it comes to these things. It doesn’t have to do with gender, it’s what’s going on with the person.
Thats why i dont have a gf
@@legotull9032 uh huh
@@legotull9032 As me being a girl we are sorry for other girls that are fucking messed up in the head
@@moon3786 lmao dont be sorry, thats like me saying I killed someone as a guy and now all guys get punishment. It not yo fault
@@2mono7 but if the roles was reversed.............................
Takes a real man to talk about something so personal and yet never lose your self worth ❤️
@@theegggod8070 who manz is this 🧐 somebody come get they son
@@mr.locknessmonster4564 I garentee that he does not have parents
@@theegggod8070 i guess but you should all ways believe victims
@Yisha. brother with a bad take no the hell it's not to just automatically believe them have you heard what happened to slazo and a few other names I don't remember the victims all lied kind of
@Yisha. I'm sorry it was a different person I wasn't trying to say it to you it was another thing
As an SA victim myself, I’m so happy to see you talking about this. I was assaulted by a woman as well and it’s so hard to get people to take you seriously.
It's gross that people who commit sa mostly get off free, like they haven't just completely ruined someone's life for their own sexual benefits, I don't know exactly how you feel since I've only been sexually harassed, but that's terrible, 1, did you tell anyone close to you (and if you did, did they believe you?)
Speak my gents speak 🇿🇦
It really is. My friend went through something similar when she was six and it really left a scar on her. It was hard enough for her to tell me about this, I can’t imagine her coming to a bunch of randos on UA-cam.
Edit: she was assaulted by a woman. She was straight at the time so it kinda messed her up
Same but i was raped by a man i am so glad i didint have my period at the time it happened.
@itzneonblueotherchannel2921 unless they are a man and then suddenly anything and then everything is completely true did it or not
it's disgusting how bad double standards are in our society, and how that foster mom probably didn't get caught, but there's a special circle of hell for those people.
Amen
Jesus dude. Can’t even comprehend what that does to a person. Glad you’re doing well
Wu Tang clan fan I see
I can tell you from experience
ITS EMBARRASSING
ITS DEPRESSING
ITS ANGER FUELING
Life isn’t a porno, STAY STRONG TRU
Well he made the story up
@@micahthomas2544 what makes you say that
“Trauma makes you, you” best fucking quote I’ve ever heard. Good video man
yo ik because my dad beat my mum in front my siblings and my nan
@@xx_boixd2158 same, but it was my dad beating my mom and then later on my step dad beat me and my mom
I could relate
私はベーコンが好きです
Not that you had a Choice, it is what it is, it doesn't have to be Completely Bad, you got something atleast, and thats what goes with you, there ain't no changing it so I guess will live with it.
Taking responsibility for something you were falsely accused of, sparks an unspoken kind of anger. Mad respect for not paying homage to your literal villain origin story.
Yeah
had this happen to me, i would’ve become some sort of a anime villain
especially in his case, at that point im just gonna commit arson
It’s infuriating how people like that can get such easy access to children.
You've been through so much and despite everything that happened, you're so strong, kind and loving.. I wish I can take away that pain she gave you, but I know in reality I can't. Just while I'm here, I'll give you all the love you deserve, I love you sooo much bby💙
Hi. I love your videos. Keep up the good work.
I made her before his girlfriend this is the biggest accomplishment ever
Awwwwww, you guys are so great together and I litteraly watched the whole story on how you guys met on both channels!
Hello I love your channel and his channel
Oh ya I love your content
It takes a real man to talk about something personal like that respect
It's for views
@@ifcknsuck6989 if it was a woman y'all would've went rampage and supportive 😐
@@dannyboi024 faxx they would be like omgg your so brave kid
@@dannyboi024 no cuz that's sexist
@@ifcknsuck6989 leave. Get the f*ck out.
OH MY GOD!! THE RELIEF I GOT WHEN I SAW THIS VIDEO!!! Finally! Some recognition on how it’s NOT just women who experience sexual assault!!! Men/boys can experience it aswell!!!
Thank you. I'm glad you got some comfort, bruh. That's the whole reason I made it❤️🔥
@@BUTTRUUDude watching both of your videos really helped me cope with some of the things that happened to me in the past knowing their people out there who can speak up and be confident to say something like this wish we had more people like you in the world (sorry if i vented a little really I needed to say some of this as things from the past tends to catch up to me and times is rough right now but again thanks for giving me hope or the confidence to try and speak up and fix the problem.)
exactly
@@BUTTRUUwhen you were talking about it making or breaking you, I felt it. I had things done to me by dudes that were bigger and stronger than me so I decided I wasn’t going to let it happen ever again. I was in nearly every sport and was in amazing shape. Kinda got me in trouble when junior year of high school some land whale decided my cheeks were hers for the taking. She decided to drill for oil when I was going up the stairs and i cracked her jaw with instinctive haymaker. I still remember the screams of innocent children she absorbed as she rolled down the steps.
EXACTLY! FEMINISM IS GETTING TOO FUCKING OUT OF HAND(btw I'm a female saying this and I still hate feminism)
Respect for coming out and talking about this. It takes a lot of guts to be able to repeat something traumatic like that.
Society has desensitized these types of situations. Its advertised on rated r websites, hentai, whatever. And people have just become so used to it that they see it as a lifetime experience that should be remembered. When it's really not. Through the hardship, I'm glad that you shared this story and I hope that you are doing well. you Just gave me another group of people to pray for so thank you
Dude you have an amazing mind you really do understand
@@BUTTRUU much appreciated man. God jus gives me the things I need to see instead of jus seeing it on the surface. We gotta keep our eyes open out here man. Regardless I hope the best for u bro. keep up the good work on ur channel!
Facts bro
This is definitely true I understand having Kinks and Fantasies so when you start thinking that that's normal and that can happen in real life and be okay is just not okay man I said okay a lot
@@RaNgErs_Rep 👏👏
When I saw this I was instantly reminded how society is. My friend, Sunny, actually got sexually assaulted at his school by a female classmate. He only told me and our friend group, and made a post about it online. His parents are incredibly strict and probably wouldn't have believed him if he told them. I'm glad he trusts us, but knowing he can't talk about it IRL just brings pain to my heart.
That's so sad this world is cruel
Unrelated, but I see you're a DDLC fan as well.
@fandomsfan1 could it be.....a 5yr old out in the wild
@@zanewithdasideye What?-
Hey, I'm very sorry for your friend. But I do like to mention that the name "Sunny" reminds me of OMORI. Had to rub off my chest, didn't mean any malicious intent.
The worst thing about stuff like this is that no one ever cares about women being pedos around little boys but if it's the other way around... It would be a completely different story. If a woman sexualy assaulted a boy no one would give a shℹt... But if it's the other way around it's a completely different story!
That whole double standard crap is just terrible.
Do you see where they come from?
Yeah
It’s the sad reality. Hopefully people who think like this sees this comment and changes they’re ways, have a good night/day/afternoon!
It happens a lot on both sides unfortunately... sad the world is like that...
Equal Rights, Equal Fights bitch. (This probably sounds sexist but I'm gonna let it stay for a while and see the result.)
I haven't been SA, but you arethe bravest man on the interbet I have ever seen to say something like this in details, and still be able to make people laugh at other videos
This is literally ur villain origin story, and u didnt become one. Proud of ya
Ok.
He is naruto
@BLACK AIR FORCE ENERGY! Ok.
This isn't a villain origin story, this is a super hero origin!!!
@@salture0951 what's his origin?
back when i was 4-5 i was in foster care, they would abuse me physicaly and mentally everyday, from stripping me naked and holding me by my leg and whipping me, to sitting on me until i pass out. They were horrible. They also moved me and my sister (at the time) to the basement where we wouldn't be allowed to come up stairs and the lights would always be off. Your story really connects with me and you deserve a sub... Thank you for showing people how horrible foster care can truly be.
God dam that sounds horrifying hope u doing better dude
Yeh I hope ur doing better too
Sorry man shit
That’s horrible 🤮
Sad
Dude I feel so bad for this guy like I almost cried. I can't believe someone would ever do something that fucked up
All I hope is that the lady wasn't ugly as shit and that it wasn't too bad of an experience
@Couldntthinkofaname I'm tryna say is I hope it wasn't too bad of an experience. Like someone passes you hope it was in their sleep
"fuckee up" get it ahahahahaHAHAHA
Ikr that's so freakin awful. Things like this really shouldn't happen but this world is messed up
I did cry
watched this video before my PTSD diagnosis, watching it now it feels different but i still feel the same depression that i got when i was like 12 watching this, even though my experience was traumatic and life changing, yours is a horrifying experience and i have my deepest condolences
EDIT: not really sure if what i said makes any sense at all
People like her genuinely upset me
@Rin Sensei it creates trauma and I can't even comprehend what it's like
That’s so sad that people exist like that
Nah they should make a prison just for ppl who assault and rapist who are allowed to be raped like they should all feel the same
@@fierce4453 they of it’s called the mental insylum for people like that
Yea I hate people like that..
Man this sucks. Even if some guys think it would’ve been “hot” it’s messed up. It hurts me to watch this. Especially because it was a child. Rape is an issue but it’s like 55% worse with children.
Depending on the age that Percentage gets higher
Yeah..
all they think about is the hub. "stepbro" this, "stepsis" that. smh, people need to do a reality check for once.
That’s a specific percentage. Did u research?
55?
jesus chirst after I finished watching this video I ran to hug both of my parnets and I was thinking"Damn I was really blessed with good parnets"
I love that
Dang straight brother...always think you have the best parents.
@@BUTTRUU I realize that u are a very busy UA-camr and that God damn animating need some patience , but I was just wondering to ask the question if u knew of any foster kids that this same thing happened too and did u find a decent foster family /foster care person and was the woman eventually brought to justice . ( Great uncle was in foster care and 1 of the foster kids that was there still knows my dad so yeah the people there had burnt her arms with cigarettes and things so the system doesn’t work always)
i`m down with that to be honest cause without my parents i wouldn`t be here r i would`t be who i am 2 day i love them and the rest of my family 2 death. you gotta love yo parents even if they make you mad you still gotta love`em for every thing they did for for u see have of these little kids don`t understand that. William Brown III i love u for that.
Facts
I myself was groomed by a girl. I am also a girl. She was sixteen, I was fourteen. She’d physically harm herself then show me her injuries as a way of guilting me into staying quiet, blaming me for the harm she caused herself. I’m still too scared to tell my mom and dad. I’m proud that you were able to open up. I hope to be as brave as you one day.
I know I'm two years late but when I saw this, I felt utterly disgusted, WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG with that woman, I am proud that you shared this , it showes a dark side of foster care, and how FUCKED up this is.
I'm so sorry this happened to you, wish you well
exactly dude :(
I dont understand explain me
@@thatonecroissant345 watch the vid all the way
@@NordicKitt ok ty
I am right here with you brother, i went through some really messed up crap my mom actually pimped me out to her coworkers from 13 to 16 4 adult women used me...shit screwed me up. I dropped out of highschool and joined the Marines it was the only way to reclaim my dignity. I hate how men get marginalized when we get abused by women
OMG, that’s so sickening!
Whatever happened to those sickos?
@@RYMAN1321 they went on with there lives...last i know, i moved on with my life got over nobody really cared anyways
Dear Almighty that is horrible
Jesus, I hope you're doing OK now also hope your mom got at least some prison time
Its rough. My wife went through something similar. The parent is cut off from our lives. She tries her best to move on. She's done well. A fighter. I try my best to help. But i wish id known sooner. Just to understand the reasons why some things bothered her. I took it personal. Till i found out years later. I felt lower than dirt.
Just talk to someone. Someone who loves you I'm sure is wondering why. Every generation is better than the last. Your kids don't have to know.just dont let the darkness take em. Dont let them feel forsaken. With love, lead them safely to the light.
I'm feel so bad boys and girls have to go through this the people who assaulted them are assholes
This is was what the democratics want
@@josephmontes4798 umm what plz explain what you mean before I start saying shit
@@chrisgomez3691 Democrats support pedophilla and they want this to become legal. Antifa has members who are registered child molester and they talk about how relationships should be ageless
@@josephmontes4798 u do know antifa isnt an organization, or a group right? Just wanted to clear that up
@@lilyrose-mo7iy yes I know that. But a lot of those people support pedophillia
Dude, you are so damn strong to share a story like this. As another SA victim who’s too scared to share, it’s nice to hear people talking about their own experiences, especially in situations that are similar to my own. It lets other connect in a way most people can’t understand, especially if the perp is a woman.
Honestly this is probably the most f*cked up story I've ever heard. I might think oh I'd do this but being a 15 year old who is shut up by evey adult when I say something else and I never speak up for myself so I don't think I would in the moment.... but your message at the end was really inspiring and if someone doesn't think so then it is at least a good message. Honestly claps for you for being able to come out of that
Facts
@Tristan Henson-Smith no offense but admittedly its because your ten don't fight just trust me you'll get it when your older you'll look back and realize
@Tristan Henson-Smith why you were being shut up trust me it happened to me. You will look back onto yourself and realize man I was anoying
.....Go watch berserk...
No close tho, what about the Jews in the Holocaust
damn takes a real man to talk about things like this 🙏 bless up man
Takes a real one to spread love and positivity like you did man and I really needed that on ths video so thanx. You have no idea what that comment means to me.
when @genesis gets more love fro TRU on his comment then his own girlfriend did
As someone who was molested, my heart goes out to you man, keep your head up
Dang, same to you man, keep your head up
the foster care system itself seems fucked up to begin with. yeah lets just stick a bunch of random kids in a house with at least one random interchangeable adult who randomly brings over their bio kid(s) with no safety, support, or emergency net whatsoever if anything goes wrong. and at any time anything can be taken from the kids, being moved around foster homes like chess pieces.
"Foster mom sexually assults me"
Me. She dosent desrve to be a mom if she cant handle being a mom to a kid she adopted
what do you add by commenting this
i'm so done like she is crazy i wish i could litterally do something about this in a click of a button like i would have taken this woman to court and ruined her life like how do you put a minor in that situation and then live with you're self knowing that you did something so truamatizing to a kid who was only looking for a home like and she probably feels sorry now but i don't care how sorry she is she needs to face the consaqences goodness i can't spell but she needs to take response abillity for her actions i hate how people will not care when a male says he got rapped or sexually assaulted like if it were me child it would not even be in a cartoon i would have expossed her info and get this lady sued and arrested like her face would be on there her last and first name would be on there like everything would have been seen if it were me i would have called her out for it i really hope something like karma happens the better way to say it is that i hope she reaps what she sows it's from the bible but yeah she needs to face consaqences yeah it just makes me upset that there has not yet been a giant mgtow protest in a larg city like new york we go out are way for lgbtq+ rights femanisim and blm but mgtow nope white guilt or other races other then black asian and mexican nope christian peace nope all we got is the ones the world only cares about like fr like and if you speak up to toxic world behavior they will try to cancel you and put things in you're mouth just because they hate you like forget society my goodness like i said what i said you offended you hurt you laughing at me like nobody cares what you think about me i just stated my opinon nobody asked for you to do all that like fr you won't hear everything you want to hear out of this world because other people have there own opinions and belifes ill continue this rant tommorrow because i am tired peace
@@caasicoleman1367 chill tf out
@@sebasthecrab1345 nope because i am crazy :3
@@caasicoleman1367 k
As a victim from sexual abuse at young age by an older cousin, I really admire your courage to put all this out here. I don’t even have the courage to tell my parents cuz I know they wouldn’t believe me. No one, especially children, should be takin advantage of like that. However I do have different thoughts of if I was in your situation, but that could be cuz I need help lol love your channel bro and how far you’ve grown without lettin any of your past break you.
Me either
Im no victim, but trust me. Telling at least somebody you love will make you feel much better than ever. If you know they won’t believe you, find somebody else. And if all else fails, go to a friend.
@@statdefender54 oh Yea I’ve definitely went to my closest friends with this. You’re right cuz It was eating away at me for years so when I told them i felt relieved. They had nothing but support for me
@@WeGotA-to5kz that’s really great!
@@WeGotA-to5kz how old were u?N how old was your cousins
I once went through this with my mom's husband....I was around 8 years old. I told my family finally at 13. I left out a lot of details...Because I didn't want to be called even more names. Two family members told me I was lying. I remember all down to the tea. Even the night it happened.
That's fed up man I had a messed up life too
@@DEEZNUTZ-ww2iv I'm so sorry that happened to you. No one should have to go through anything like this.
Go report the scum bag to cops, thanks for sharing your story
I'm so sorry dude, I hope everything is better for you now. You're incredibly brave for sharing
@@sharonu3758 I would, if it hadn't been like 20 years.
I'm genderfluid, originally born a female, and honestly, I'm actually quite glad this is a topic. People are so sexist when it comes to this, and I've experienced it myself. I heard that on April 24th every year, there's this thing called 'National R*pe Day'. People would be going around saying shit like: "Be careful when you go outside on April 24th, boys could SA you." Which I'm quite pissed about. Not just by the fact that people do this, but how they mention only boys in the scenario, when girls can do it, too. It's disgusting how people do this.
National rape day sounds like the most shittiest edgy inside joke ive ever heard. Also i hope youve been feeling alright from your past experiences similar to the one mentioned in this video
Uh , how does that work? Being born a female and deciding you aren't either?
I’m also genderfluid who was born female. It’s cray cray
@@user-lp8im7ow8sTbh you will never truly understand it unless you are one.
But to the best explanation in MY case, I am biologically female, but I’ve never felt tied to just being a girl. I fit in every role I can think of (mostly boy and girl).
@@ninjafalls1739 So your female, you just don't look male or female right? That's not a reason to say your gender fluid, your a girl , simple, why the label?
Just because you don't feel female doesn't mean you aren't, I have the urge to watch Winx now and then it's no big deal , your urge may be so strong it's a lifestyle but why call yourself gender fluid
Fuck, that must’ve been an extremely difficult story for you to relive, let alone tell us. It takes a lot of courage to talk about all the trauma you faced, and I’m proud of you for being able to share it with all of us. The fact that you were able to learn and grow from the whole ordeal, in spite of the situation and in spite of that absolute monster of a person honestly makes me really happy. You deserve nothing but the best, and I hope for nothing less than that for you ❤️
As a survivor (women), THIS CAN HAPPEN TO MEN. Not only women.
COOL :)
Ur a very important part of the conversation 🤝
Yes I agree I survived (I’m also a girl )
Yea I’m girl who got sa’d by another girl
@@nanciee2844 me too
As a fellow man with a troubled past (Nearly had a kid I babysitted try to tell her parents that I touched her, not only making me a sex offender but a pedophile), I respect your work and your hardships, keep on pushing and never let this shit bring you down
Side note, I'm not trying to throw any shade at females, but why does it always seem that females try to lie to get their ways with a person? There are sometimes where it's males sure, but a lot of this shit is overall PROVOKED by the females, which I don't like
Edit: I'm fully aware I'm a month late, but come on, a story's a story
Sorry that happened to you man
@@BUTTRUU It is what it is, we gotta keep on moving, life can be great but a hellhole at the same time, so I'm over it in the sense that I don't really mind much that it had happened, it lets me know how parents treat kids in this generation
Couldn’t have said it any better my dude ✌️
Ya I’m woman. . And also I’m sorry for the way some people in my gender Acts. It’s just horrible
@@owlpaw8022 It's the same with males and all genders, there will always be that outlier group that just breaks laws or other things, and we can't control that as we're just ourselves, neither can society or the government, the only thing we CAN control however, is the punishment for their acts, fortunately we're usually able to avoid these people, but it's like what tru and I had, we ended up meeting that outlier group at the wrong time
Guys, the amount of courage that it would have to take him to come out with this is insane. Tru, you’re awesome for being able to talk about this kind of thing. And just know that we’re all here rooting for you. Another great video by another great guy ❤
When people tell stories like this, society doesn't care, they think it was meant to happen.
This man right here has my whole respect what he has been thought is horrible.
*hole
Get it bacause you’re a bagel
You're brave for even coming up with the courage to animate an experience as life-altering as this. I'll be sure to use this as motivation that I can get through whatever the fuck life throws at me, because there are people like you who have lit up the path for the younger generation like me.
You have my respect and support brodie. 👊🏽
You have my respect too man damn. You're awesome creators need people like you
i honestly cant express how sorry i am for you. there is no word that i can say that allows me to express how sorry i am. im honestly so happy youre here. i cant even imagine losing my parents, and then having this happen.
I lost my mother too and I’ve been through some guardians that have scarred me. Glad to know you’re recovering and I’m doing the same❤️🥺
Im glad you shared that with me. thank you
@@BUTTRUU do u just scroll down the comment section for hours like I do bcs this comment is rlly far down
@Tectonic you ain’t gonna ruin anyone lmao!
@Tectonic bet
@Tectonic ' speak '
People forget boys get molested also it is so sad.
Facts
@@WOAHHH9459 I agree
@@WOAHHH9459 I agree
@Simon Sirna Very true this is why a lot of men don't want to talk to women at work anymore
Anyone of any gender or sex can have that shit happen to them it's honestly so depressing
Dude im so sorry what you went through, Originally i was gonna leave the stereotypical "Wish it was me" comment. But after finishing the video i realized how fucked that was and how if i was in your situation it would be the same. I hope your doing good now, keep it a hundred.
yeah same
Wtf why would you even think that
Some people think with their dicks instead of their heads
Glad you realized that man.
@@Hehe-wv4ic cause it’s his natural animal instincts to wanna clap cheeks most men can’t control themselves
The fact that you can experience all of those horrible things and still be a happy person is incredible.
Huge respect to you for having the bravery to make this video and addressing the flaws of today's society
I know how this feel to one be in a foster home im in my 23rd house but to be sexually assaulted by many foster families, im just glad to know im not alone.
Heal up, your amazing to bring this up. Be strong! Lots of luv 💗
That's very tough actually... We were taken away from my mom and thankfully my aunt took my sister's and I in and nobody got sexually assaulted
im so sorry
I'm so sorry bubs I know how you feel stay strong keep fighting because there a lot to be fighting for 💕💕
@@benji_bi_boi bubs ????
As a person who has been assaulted I'm proud of you for staying strong hang in there you're a good place now
To think this is some people’s dream😕It’s deadass mad disturbing
Not like this video I hope
As one of those people I understand what you mean but they way she broke him down b4 doing the deed that is the part that makes it so horrible
Bro this is soo disturbing
It depends.
Its because this is the type of thing people glorify on the hub
I’m so sorry that happened… it takes a brave man to talk about this experience
I know I'm a year late but I just wanna say that the fact that he was able to tell this event in his life takes a real man, being able to show your emotions the healthy way.
I know his also is a year later, but being a real man has negative Implications
This story is a good example of the issues between men and women.....
change ur pfp
@@prestonc3481 why
@@sl1cer_ your pfp is hilarious bro, keep doing u
@@prestonc3481 you can't change something without a reason
After hearing your story Tru, it makes me feel more open to talk about this.
No, I am not looking for likes, or any form of pity or validation. I just feel my story might be able to help others like his did mine.
Now before I begin, I want to give some background. I am a 6'1" black man. A bit on the larger side from weight lifting classes, but definitely not some Greek Adonis. I was a junior in high school when it happened, however because I went to an early college, I was allowed to take college courses on campus while still being in high school.
Anyway...
It was the last day of the semester and I had just finished my history final. I handed it in to the teacher and went back to my seat to grab my stuff (I sat in the front row). I sat by this cute girl at the time named Brenna, and I thought that since it was the last day, it was either now or never to ask her out. So I did. Sadly, she was a lesbian and rejected me. It sucked at first but ultimately I was alright with it and wished her goodbye and told her t keep in touch. Sadly, I guess that rejection gave the second girl an idea.
She was this Asian girl, and kind of short by my standards (between 5'4"-5'6" I think) and before I could leave she asked if I wanted to go out with her since Brenna had just rejected me. Now note, the only reason I even asked Brenna out was because we had a pre established relationship and I felt I could trust her. I don't date before I know the other person relatively well because of previous trauma and because I've always been like that. I apologized to the girl (I literally never got her name) and told her I had to go because I needed to get to class (history ran late so I was already gonna be late to my next class). She said okay and walked with me down the staircase to leave. Because it was late and we were some of the last to finish, practically no one was around. This is when things went from 0-100.
TW SEXUAL ASSUALT
As I go to leave and head for the door outside she literally slams me into the wall by grabbing the top strap to my backpack and pulling me back. Because I didn't expect it, I didn't notice until she had me stumbling backwards. Pinning me, she begins to make out with me while I'm just standing wide eyed. Because of all the horror stories I had heard of women turning stories like mine around to avoid any trouble, I stood there frozen. Yes I could have pushed her off or something, but as i said, I am a black man and she was an Asian Caucasian woman. There wasn't much I could do that she couldn't spin around to fit her false narrative.
Then she began to touch me, feeling me up and groping me. I was horrified. It felt fucking vile man. And the fact that I couldn't even force myself to move or even scream felt even worse for my mental state. It felt like I was experiencing sleep paralysis. It only lasted maybe a few minutes but it felt like days. I'm not religious by any means but during that time I thought about praying. After she was done with her "fun" as she called it, she said the most chilling words I'd ever heard at the time: "that was fun. We should do it again sometime." I literally just stared at her until she walked away. In the end, I didn't make it to my next class. But I didn't care.
I dealt with the pain of that experience for years before I ever told anyone. It stopped me from having proper healthy sexual interactions with women, and honestly, I couldn't trust them to an extent. But what was wworse was I hated myself. I hated that I literally couldn't do anything during. I was helpless and I hated it. The first person I told (my mom) took it like those assholes that were talked about in the opening skit, so that wasn't much help (this was three years after the fact mind you). I'm a junior in college now and am just startng to get trauma therapy, and it's honestly very helpful. So to all the men who may have experienced something similar, please know that you aren't alone and that people will believe you if you tell them. Sme people might, but there are those who will. You don't have to suffer alone. It took me so long to realize that, but despite all the pain that bitch caused me, I am so much stronger for it. Stay strong, I believe in all of you.
Much love,
- Tyler
P.S If you got through reading all of this, thank you, and I sincerly hope it helps any that need it.
Dam bro
Thanks for sharing
Sorry to hear that
I’m sorry for you bro
make this a video I’ll watch it
When he said "she just got a slap on the wrist" I stopped watching bc I know im gonna go ape shit how she got away with it
i actually watch the whole shit without reading the comments so i feel you man, me return monke
Of course she got away with it she's a women
@ watermelon and white
@@watermelon7411 no shit it's 2021
@@theecocopuff2171 yo being a woman no matter what color automatically gives you the advantage race don't mean shit also she wasn't white either she looked like she was Brazilian or some shit
Thank you for making this a front and center story for your life, in the face of the backlash most males and male presenting people face. You're helping make it possible for more people to come forward. I'm not in that category, but I know how f***'d the situation is...
It took a lot of guts to share this story. That being said, I 100% believe this story. How you described your foster mom when you were introduced to her is textbook predator behavior. She planned that whole thing when she saw you. She acted like a mother in the beginning to gain your trust. That is grooming behavior. I bet she coached her kid to be annoying to get the ball rolling.
You have the patience of Job because most teenage boys that went through what you went through would have committed murder. Society is too quick to side with a female over a male. We see it in custody battles, alimony cases, child support cases, rape cases, etc. When it comes to the justice system and public opinion women usually get a slap on the risk or get off scot free. Also the foster care system has been garbage for several decades. I remember my mom used to slap me around and beat on me just because she felt like it and when I called her out on it she used to threaten to send me to "the system." I never been in foster care but my parents made it seem like it was the worst place for a kid to be and they weren't wrong.
My mom only treated me like crap because she hated my dad and I looked exactly like him. For a long time I couldn't live with my dad because he was fighting a drug addiction and living in sober-living houses. So I know all to well how helpless you felt. There are way too many women like my mom and your foster mom that get away with the things they do because society gives them way too much power. We will never have True equality until women are treated like men when it comes to crimes.
You have a good head on your shoulders. No doubt that you have come a long way. I have been subbed to you for a couple of years and I always like hearing your input regardless of the topic. It's good that you have people in your corner that you can trust. Stay strong Tru.
Why is the foster care system so bad
@@Pengod.online good question?
@@Pengod.online My guess is that it is a business (just like college) and a lot of people involved don't care about the innocent children or their hardships. Foster parents get paid by the state for each kid they adopt right? That being said a lot of people only become foster parents for the money and benefits. Most foster parents don't care about the kids they adopt just like most college professors don't care whether their students pass or fail. Like I said before, it is a business. A very cruel business. Some kids get lucky and get adopted by a good family, most kids aren't so lucky. The whole system needs to change.
I don't know if you will ever see this bro but my heart stopped listening to this. My stepmother locked me in my room and made me sit on my bed doing nothing (a camera recording my every move) for over half a year. You're so strong to have the courage to keep going after enduring literal imprisonment like that.
....I’m starting to think UA-cam has bots who automatically dislike a video
I'm pretty sure there are
Yeah there are
They do bruh
Yup
They do
I am so so sorry that you even had to go through this. No human, male or female should have to go through this. I hope you're in a better state mentally💗💗
Dam, who else wasn’t expecting this type of animation
Love yo vids
Damn*
Me bro
Yeah I did not expect this animation
I just wanna say all those who are going through this or have gone through this. I’m sorry that you have. I know how painful that can be and you have my full support. I wish y’all nothing but blessings and joy yall will get through this. Stay strong.😊
I remember when I was living with my foster parents I wasn’t really treated the best way, but now I know people were treated worse than me, I was really shocked and feel very sorry, I really hope you feel better and recover from this traumatising time.
Real talk my dude, I know this scenario too.
He was my Ex-Stepfather, and I was 15 years old. It happened for about 2 years, and I didn't tell anyone for about four months when I finally cut it off myself.
It takes a lot of bravery to step up and tell stories like this, and I'm here for you bro. Stay vibin' man. 💜💜
I CANT BELIEVE THERES ANOTHER PERSON OUT THERE THATS GONE THROUGHT THE SAME THING!!!!! But the thing is , it was my moms ex and i told her and she never believed me & the man who sexually abused me for 2 years never got the punishment he deserved :(
Coi, I'm sorry you suffered from something so horrible. I know how much it hurts. But, I want you to know this, You are strong. As long as you remember that, you will overcome that pain and feeling of injustice.
I also have a story whean i was 12 or 13 a 17 year old girl came forced me down and kissed me on my cheek also the girl was my baby sitter but to be forreal i was bad and i KINDA liked it but only a littl and that was a long time ago
It actually isn’t the same thing. I still feel for you, but the video was more in depth of how it was a male who was being raped, and how nobody would take his side because he was a boy.
i went through sometime like that also, but i was only one time. i hope the best for you
I went through the same thing but this is about males not females and I’m sorry you had to go through that
1:30 "IM GLAD YOU ASKED YOU BLACK PIECE OF SHI-"
GOT ME DYING
I'm glad you had the courage to speak about this. I feel like theres a lot of guys who are too scared to say anything cause they never see victims like themselves in media. Sadly Perpetrators and Victims come in all shapes, sizes and colours.
I also HATE when people lie about being a victim because then people don't believe the actual victims.
I felt this deep down in my heart, I'm really sorry you had to go through that. No one should have to go through this. Thank you for sharing your story, it takes a lot.
Both sides of sa should be recognized. It doesn't matter if it is a woman or a man, it still counts. It hurts to hear these stories because people are sick and need to rethink everything they've done. Thanks for sharing this, you're very strong.
That last note really hit
Although most my life was relatively ok, i still felt like giving up on many occasions, the future is scary and i would always talk about my past and how i would change it and constantly blamed myself for everything
But i've been trying to accept that i cant change the past
I never thought of "using those shitty experiences to be the best you" that way, i just thought it was some baggage that either stays or goes away
I didnt think you could really do that, thank you man. I really needed that and i feel the need the try something new now
I hope it goes well
This must've been tough not having your own mom, losing your own happiness, stay strong man. We all love you. Be yourself because nobody is more you than yourself
It can be damaging as hell for anyone let alone a child to be mentally scarred by those who are meant to be our guardians, our protectors . I hope ur doing all good king 👑
I’m so sorry man, that’s horrible.
As a person who also dealt with sexual abuse it made me who I am today but it also kind of broke me. I love your content and you don’t deserve what happened, keep up the good work.
I'm glad u actually stood up and talked about this because lots of people wouldn't have the confidence to talk about stuff like this
I hope you're doing okay now. That story was very traumatizing and would be for anyone to go through, so the fact that you stepped up to tell that story takes a lot of guts. I'm glad you have the support of everyone around you, which you blatantly deserve.
Your way of representing this seriously horrible moment in your life is interesting and I’m glad you feel comfortable with your viewers enough to tell us this I’m sure it must have been hard to record and animate this also the gameshow looking segment was great visuals
You're so strong dude fr, thanks for speaking out and sharing your story
I’m so sorry man nothing like this should ever happen to a human being prayers out to u
It’s sad to know stuff like this happen
I’m so sorry that happened to you. You’re so brave for having the courage to tell this story I’m proud of you!!
To all y’all “YoU dIdN’t LiKe It” people imagine as a child you put all your trust into someone who was supposed to love you betrayed and hurt you, you would like it
I can relate. And I think everyone can relate
Legit no one has said that though lol. I feel like comments like these are put even when the thing hasn't happened. Though I do think your referring to the fact that this is the argument given to alot of male victims of things like this.
@@kaical8273 It has been said though. Why would it be brought up if it has not been said. Tru fucking said it himself.
Yeah, pretty much.
@@kaical8273 I’m just trying to discourage people who do this
The starting part where it says nobody deserves unwanted sexual attention actually made me feel comfortable with my SA, Nobodys understood that i didn’t want it and that even if she did it before once that she didn’t have the consent to do it again, let alone in public, at school. And this meant a lot to me. Thank you💗
So true, greatest quote at the end there, I’m young aswell and so seeing someone go through this tells me that I can get through any of the hardships of my life, just like you. Thank you for the life lesson.
“I’m not the biggest fan of dying”
Yea
Most aren’t
Not exactly the biggest fan of being buried for some weird reason
This should never happen to anyone. Things like this can change a person both physically and mentally. Stay strong and have a blessed life 🙏❤
I’m sorry that you had to go through this. I’ll support you as best as I can.
I just want to thank you for being so vulnerable especially in such a place with so much hate. I experienced a similar case with an “uncle” of mine, I was fortunate enough to not actually be r@p3d, and was able to escape the situation before anything worse happened. I was also fortunate enough for my family to believe me. but I can relate to it changing your life, and it took me literal months before I could hug anyone taller than me again without the piercing discomfort and fear, and PTSD that came with it. This story was inspirational for me at the end so I want to thank you for that and to keep doing what you love ❤️
As a guy that went through something similar, it takes alot to come out with this kinda stuff... you're brave as fuck man
Thank you for sharing
yea. everyone who share sa is brave regardless of gender i also got saed by these 2 dudes
@@bigpeen-whiteliquid I'm so sorry dude
I use to be verbally and mentally and physically abused by my stepdad. I can’t really say I know what you’ve been through but I know it’s tough. Everyday bleeding into the next. Waiting and hoping for the day you’ll be free from the torture and pain. I’m sorry you had to go through shit like this. But pain is what shapes who we are. It’s what makes you stronger. Plus this is my first time seeing your channel. You now have a new subscriber. Keep the peace man. ✌️
yes same
I'm not trying to cry before I go to sleep but I'm crying. 😀
oh lol hope u slept good
Damn he replied to you and you say nun bout it
ME TOO LIKE-
@@ChristIsKing1161 I diddd my replies sometimes disappear for literally no reason wth- 😭😭
I feel like the story ended on not a good enough note because there is still a bigger lesson here that people wouldn't really see for themselves
I can agree with that it's often hard to end videos in a way that can leave some sort of hope. Ultimately I dont want people to be like life is screwed or anything but i am happy you are able to take note that there is a missing bigger picture.
@@BUTTRUU this video taught me a lot of stuff that I didn't even know I needed to hear, My friend is in a situation like this and he comes over my house sometimes and he stays a lot and I wondered why does he keep staying he's been here for like a week and a half but this really showed me how messed up life can be, Thank you for sharing something so personal so that other people could learn from it
@@theegggod8070 -bitch- you try going through that then having no sense of right or wrong feeling like your a puppet getting controlled by someone who is in a higher place having to go through *that* at such a young age it hurts man it -fucking- hurts
@@theegggod8070 dang did you have a stroke in the middle of writing this? Jesus fuck it hurts to read it
@@theegggod8070 omg did you have a literal stroke while writing this it actually hurts my soul trying to comprehend what you are saying 😐
damn, imagine getting molested by someone you don't even love that way, somebody you look up to. This story messed me up some type of way
I’ve been through some traumatising experiences but, RESPECT to people that have been a victim of SA and powered through, I’m honestly amazed
She literally programmed him to take advantage of him without being convicted of anything.....
Me: *trying to focus on story*
Music in the background: *AMONG US MUSIC*
Why so many likes 😂
i thought i had left the app on
LOL ME TOO 😆😆😆
The amount of likes on this comment are truly the greatest thing to happen in the universe
@@marzrampage2996 same
Tbh not the right time for this joke
If it was the other way around he'd get killed. 🤦 smh
On god
facts, I hate how women can do stuff most men wouldn't even think of doing and get away scott free
Fr
@Prod. Toni Awe so much for "gender equality"
@Prod. Toni Awe and women say they want equal rights bruh
All-Might’s face on his after hour’s mentor got me crying 😂
As a girl myself, I fucking hate being a girl cause of how most women act and the abuse they they do and they get away with it, I'm fucking sick of it.
I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that and honestly, I'm mad, I'm enraged, I'm disgusted. I honestly i wish woman were treated the same. I wish they go to jail for abuse and stuff.. I hate abusive people and i will do anything just to hurt them back.
I hope you are doing okay, man.. I'm sorry you had to go through all of that. No child deserves to be treated like that, and abusive and toxic assholes don't deserve any kids in their life.
Again, I hope you're doing alright
Abuse sucks, no matter who you are
It doesn't matter what gender sexual assault is not ok
@@bigchungus5843 i agree with that statment. also best username ive seen online all day i gotta give you props for that one
people arent abused of their gender their abused bc of their abuser