Marie wants to increase Douglas' child support. Douglas receives both disability and social security benefits due to his disease. Will Marie get what she wants?
I felt the same, I have severe health problems myself and hate myself for not being able to work and make money to give him more of everything. Unfortunately the world isn't set up so people like me can work. Hell I spent 2 months in lockdown in a neck brace and having to sleep on my recliner with the drs thinking I'd had a stroke!
As a disabled person, I appreciate this episode. People often think disabled people are lazy when we are actually really sick and struggling just to function.
It's because there are a few people who don't have true disabilities and decide to cheat the system by acting like they don't. That's why the disability office will send investigators out to see if the person is employees or really doing ANYTHING that their application claims they can't do. With that being said, I know this guy isn't lying and is absolutely disabled. I'm disabled with hip dysplasia, and my dad AND little sister both have MS same as this guy. My sister has a particularly aggressive form but her meds have her under control so she is still working. MY dad worked with his milder form all the way until he started losing his ability to walk and started losing his memory and ability to retain information and for a FINANCE MANAGER for a car dealership, that's pretty important. So he now gets disability ssi and disability through the insurance. He can't work PERIOD. My sister works but idk how long she will be able to. This guy is young, and typically when you're THAT young with MS it is typically an aggressive form. And you know.... I feel for this woman too because she is stuck with the entire expense of a child she didn't make herself. She SHOULD be getting support. But what is he supose to do? MS is a deteriorating disease and when he spoke about numbers on the screen moving and getting blurry.... he likely has a lesion on his optic nerve which is common with MS patients. Both my dad and sister have that as well as SEVERE vertigo. She should be getting more help but it's not his fault that he can't provide it. It sucks but it is what it is.
MS is degenerative....medicine can helps symptoms...there is no getting better...only worse. If you look at his right hand you can see it starting to stiffen....ive seen a good amount of people with MS, and spent time with them...once that hand has a contracture it's there for ever.... no more fingers.... I was judging him about his hair, until he said MS, and immediately thought of brushing my step mom's hair...
My mom has ms and everything the woman is saying is what people constantly think when my mom says she can't work. She can't even get ssi because the judge said she shows too much promise and will to get better. She hasn't worked in years because her health just fluctuates
Right! I have MS mine is relapsing MS he looks like he has progressive MS which means he’s going to get worse quickly vs me losing functions little at a time. I hate when people talk shit about people who have MS because they make use look like we are faking and lazy when we have medical MRIs showing lesions as to why it’s happening.
@@KingKoala235 I’m with you girl!!!! I’ve been denied disability 3 times because I’m young and have a degree. They say I can sit at a desk, instead I’m at home making earrings when I can esp when my hands aren’t shaking! Prayers for you ❤️
@@chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094 I’m sick of it. I always advocate for people with internal impairments. It’s not fair that you are penalized for something you cannot control.
@Jamie Bennett, I hear where you're coming from. I was working as a private duty nurse and suffered a stroke. When I got to the hospital and they did a MRI they found out that I had two previous strokes. Who knew? My right arm was paralyzed for two weeks. Spent one week in ICU and a week in rehab. I still have partial weakness on my right side. When I filed for Disability I was denied three times. I found an excellent Disability Lawyer and she won my case. You may want to find one also. It may take a while though for your case to be heard, but it will be worth it.🙏🙏
@@tamz0309 Paid actors yes. They are acting out real scenarios. These videos are for education purposes and that’s why she refers to Texas laws and hosts the educational bit at the end of the video.
@@wesleychoy5994 they do , it needs to be taught about in science class and so much more . I pray you live a long prosperous, fulfilled and active life . I wish you the best health I wish this on no one .
This burns me SO much! This "mother" is disgusting. I've been battling an autoimmune disease for FORTY YEARS. I worked as much as I could for as long as I could, and I'm now totally disabled starting when I was 58. To look at me, you can see that I "don't feel well" but you cannot see what is going on inside my body, nor tell the level of pain I'm having. I have literally not had a single pain free day since December 31, 1980. I get nasty remarks when I say I'm disabled, my sister accuses me of faking. 99.99999999999% of people on disability would give almost anything to be "normal" again.
I hope you’re doing well today 🥺 I’m sorry that you have experienced dealing with insensitive people. No matter the situation insensitive people automatically turn me off, if you can’t relate then you don’t have a say and even if you can your experience is still different from everyone else’s. The people who have so much to say couldn’t even take 10 steps in the shoes of those they judge.
Piss on those HATERS. And I wish you the best Sir I about cut me arm off and I look good but the pain that I deal with everyday is unreal and I've gotten used to the medication ( Morphin) and you build up a resistance to it after 11 years. Please God 🙏 you will get bye a little better and I hope that you will have a lot of good days 😁
I totally believe this gentleman. I pray to good his journey in life is as pain & worry free as can be. As previous mentioned, the mom should bring the son to visit with dad while the memories can still be good for all. I’m not thrilled with the mom’s reaction to his health issue’s. Did she never care or live this man? How can someone be so heartless? Good luck to all. 🙏😢🥰
It’s not about the child support imo . I think it’s clear this was all about how he did her dirty after she helped him get the degree to be able to make a good living . He left her. It’s scummy and sadly happens all the time in relationships. On the other hand he has a debilitating condition now which no one deserves . My aunt died of complications of MS. MS doesn’t get better it’s a progressive disease . He is not going back to work so it is what it is in this case
@@missyrose2154 i agree with you up until saying it was scummy how he left her, we have no idea what the reason behind leaving was, and honestly the way she is acting, makes me think there was something going on behind closed doors that we dont have any knowledge of. The fact that she had the audacity to keep asking the judge if she could force him to go back to work and force him to do stuff, just shows her mindset on the whole situation, even when he has such a major disability. And he was probably getting this kind of attitude from his "mother", that doesn't seem very "motherly" to me.
In the dad's stage of ms, mom should bring the child around the dad as much as possible before it gets worse. The child should have positive memories more than negative or sad memories.
The dads disability is obviously real his uneasy unsettled twitching. And ‘ mom’ not realizing ssi ssdi is not garnishable income for child support proves her ass is dumb as a doormat. MS n degenerative disabilities are no joke n not fun. The affected person is generally in.constant pain and personal struggles with even the smallest of tasks.
@@Happywifelife24 I agree..not only is she dumb but greedy as hell. He said she makes good money and ms is serious and she wants him to "push a Button" so she can get more? I see why he left her
@@chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094 MS doesn't take someone that fast. Especially if he is following his doctors orders. It comes in slow enough that most people doesn't even notice the early symptoms. At this point, the father is most likely using a cane of crutches. It's very possible for him to stay at this point for 15 years if he is doing the exercises and physical therapy as often as he doctor tells him to do. If he just sits own and gives up, he will be in a wheelchair in 5 years. Two of my family members have had MS. I've watched the effects it has had my entire life. The lucky MS patients get the kind that can go into remission for awhile. My family did not get the lucky kind.
@@docgiggles130 no MS patient is the same so stop comparing. I have MS and yes my treatments help but ive also been to the point where I was in a wheel chair for 6 months and another time for 8 months. IVE ALSO SEEN PEOPLE WHO WOKE UP ONE MORNING with vision loss and no movement of legs. I’ve also seen MS patients who didn’t know what was going on, think they had a stroke to find out they had 9 new lesions. Just because your family is okay doesn’t mean that’s how every MS patient is or isn’t.
Bless his heart!! You can clearly see the difficulty he has and she wants to sit and accuse him of faking it??!!?? WTF? How incredibly ridiculous can one be? He seems to earnest and forthcoming with his responses and I honestly believe he did make child support payments when he was allowed to work and I feel he would still be paying if he had income to do so! With legal documents provided, he shouldn’t have had to defend himself at all ... mom just is money hungry !!
This lady is nuts 😂. I am a disabled veteran and people look at me like crazy sitting at home try dealing with his situation or PTSD. We cannot work period.
Im not a vet but I also suffer from PTSD that has seriously hindered my working options. Thank you for your sacrifice and I hope you get the help you need
@ Jonathan montoute, I'm with you brother. I'm a disabled vet as well, injured in Afghanistan by 1 mortar round too many. Yeah, some people look at us like we're faking, or lazy bums, etc. Some days, and I'm sure you are the same, I can hardly get out of the bed and move around the house. Going to bed at night terrified me, but being in the dark didn't bother me. One counselor said it was because the Taliban only attacked my FB late at night. Add on top of that a TBI and all it's issues. I recieved a service dog thru the VA and she has helped a great deal!! Hang in there brother, you're not alone in this.........good luck.
I’m sorry you are suffering. I have special place in my heart for people who serve in the military. People think it’s just a job and you deal with it like that. That could be not further from the truth. It affects every aspect of their and their families lives, for the rest of their life. Thank you you for your service. On a different note I thought that if they had a child under 18 the child could receive a check. I had a friend who’s ex’s with got a check for all three of her children. After they spilt up.
Ptsd is some crazy stuff. I dont have any issues with telling my friends or family about what I went through in Iraq. But I dont tell friends or family what I go through now on a daily basis. I only talk to the VA therapist about that shit.
@@SeanBaker I hope you know that MS is a disease that you can’t reverse, this guys life is gonna be messed up for a long time because of the disease. He really can’t pay for the child support.
As someone with a disability, this hurts. It's getting to the point where I might not be able to work anymore and I'm dreading it. I love working, even on the bad days, the thought of not having a job scares me. And the thought that I might not be able to apply for disability because of my age or because of my disability scares me even more
Same here. I'm on SSI right now for severe mental health issues and chronic fibromyalga. It scares me at the fact of not working any time soon or in the worst-case scenario never. It's hard having illnesses that no one can see, so people have a hard time thinking we are disabled and don't believe us. It hurts so bad to hear someone say we are lying about our condition. We are really trying our best. I hope you are feeling better at this point, and I hope you can get back to work soon. Take care❤
MS is a mean b/$&@. My heart goes out to him. MS will take your ability to walk, talk, see, think and it will take control of your emotions. God bless him my brother died of MS.
I watched a family member suffer with MS. They had to stop working in the blink of an eye. It happened that quick. Ssi, ssdi barely pays for bills, even then you might still end up homeless if you don't have a support system
One of the few things that SSI and Disability got right was to make government incomes untouchable. I'm glad that she's not able to take his paycheck because it's barely enough for you to live on and sometimes not even that much. Granted they did that because they didn't want THEIR money to be taken by others but it still works out the same. At least disabled people know that a person can't sue them or touch their money. They have it hard enough. The last thing they need to worry about is child support or being sued.
If he sleeps until noon - God bless him. MS sucks your energy at a drop of a hat. You're fine one minute and fatigued the next. The disease can rapidly debilitate a person. My daughter has MS.
You can clearly see he was struggling just to speak. I have a family member with MS and it can be down right debilitating. It’s disgusting that this woman can be so harsh. If it was her suffering with MS it would be a whole different story. Men can have MS also!!! I bet she would have played the sympathy card if she had it! He did not! He seems genuine, she seems to have no heart
1) your last remark is incredibly insensitive and ageist. Wait until you start getting older and see how you like being discussed by your age & looks. 2) Vonda is NOT a judge. She is a lawyer playing a judge. Also, everyone on this show is an actor (other than Vonda).
Social Security is wages u have earned & ur child will receive a check on the 3rd of each month. SSI is income from the govt for ur disability for wages unearned & the child can get money from the state & SSI is on the 1st of the month. Also, no premiums are deducted from SSI but Social Security has to pay monthly premiums. Very different. Be humble towards those that cant.
As someone who had to go through Disability... If he is faking and got through the process he should be an award winning actor. It's not something that they just give you... they basically deny anyone the first few times to make you get a lawyer.
I didn't need a lawyer. Lawyer's waste time filing appeals so they can get more $ (because they're not allowed to collect more than 6% of your total). Yes, unless you have cancer or had a massive stroke they do deny you. But I filed an appeal right away online and got approved within another month. (I need a hip replacement and I have degenerative disc disorder.)
Well the way he was trying hold himself from moving around I'm sure he was nervous I think she verbally abused him during their marriage and made him watch their son during the marriage as well I think she's a terrible parent.
I also have MS and continued to work and it’s definitely extremely hard to get up and work every single day. Between the physical, mental and other symptoms involves a lot of obstacles.
Right, can we make him pay more, how about he pay from his social security, can we garnish some of his disability. So there's zero way I can expoit him for more more more? Wdym he doesn't have to pay he's faking it. I hate people like this
My question is does she work, cause if she doesn't she can a job and push little buttons all day. I feel bad for him cause I bet he would work if he really could.
As a person with multiple sclerosis, she sugarcoated saying hes lying about a disability, you can see his hands shaking and his speech is slurred. I agree with the judge and the ex wife should of been understand regardless if your knew information about his diagnosis. Idk im being personal cause she showed she just wanted money and dont care about anyone.
What upsets me most is she's not even trying to better herself she just wants more from him. He's sick with a disease that will progressively kill him then what is she going to do? Try to make him pay after he's dead?
Mom could actually receive a check from social security due to receiving disability. Here is clearly in a situation where he can’t do what he needs to do. Compassion is what she should show instead of complaining.
Hi Judge Vonda B! What an interesting way to show people the inner workings of family court. I think it is important for people to understand the process how the decision making.
He stutters with his disability......he said he can't focus at the screen to work, which is also a symptom of MS. He may be in a wheelchair, eventually, and someone may be cleaning and caring for him. I have a student with MS in my classroom at college. She has a notetaker because of her limited hand use and she is in a wheelchair.
I had a friend with ms she worked for a few years until it got bad. She has been on disability for 17 years now and the disease fluctuates. It might get some better for a time and then it gets worse than before. This is degenerative and just gets worse as time goes on. It is also the type that on the outside there doesn’t seem like much is wrong but on the inside you’re all messed up. This is what makes a lot of people think ms is not a disability but doctors know the truth.
Uh anyone else think she was massively abusive to him? He was stuttering never once looked anyone in the eye, apologising for things he cant control, and the stuttering increased when speaking to his ex?
1. Disability isn’t handed out freely. 2. Dad is never going to be released to work. I’m sure he wishes he was healthy enough to work, versus the ultimate outcome he is headed for.
Did she really drag someone with MS to court for child support? The man can barely hold a piece of paper without shaking! She should allow the child spend as much time as possible with his dad, because it's truly downhill with MS.
Damn this was a great scenario. I have PTSD and while I look okay, I do have an employment disability. I do not have to worry about dealing with child support, but the information gathered from this is pure awesomeness. Thank you so much, Judge Vonda B.!!
So I binged watch a few dozen episodes And God damn this truly broke my heart I'm crying for this man You can hear he just wants to be a good dad and provider MS is so horrible it's often a death sentence For her to be so calice is just tragic I pray for you man that you get better and your son knows he has a good dad
This a sad situation. I wouldn't have even brought my child's father in that state. It's difficulty to raise a child, yes. But he has a condition thats beyond his control. She should be ashamed of herself.
@@moorek1967 so sorry! I have read up on it but I do not have it. I was acting as the show states (read the channel bio) I know it is no joke, I truly wish you the best! ❤
The fact that it has taken her two years to say something about it shows to me that she is missing the money and wants it for something other than the child.
My last manager has MS. Awesome manager. Thankfully his condition was a bit better. While working for him, I developed a condition with similar - though far less severe - symptoms. (The doctors did check me for sclerosis. So it is no picnic.) What the guy said about looking at screens is spot on. My condition created a tumor behind my right eye that almost had me blind before they got it under control. But staring at computer screens is still tough. (Obviously I still do so or I wouldn't be writing here. But one eye is squinted shut to do so.) Bad health sucks.
Joyce Wobbrock - Disability benefits to a minor child have nothing to do with income of the custodial parent. It is a benefit of the disability (soc sec) system, based on the number of points the disabled parent has in the system. It is completely separate from child support benefits.
MS can be an extremely debilitating and mentally crushing disease. I certainly hope he gets better. I hope the mother can understand a little of what he's going through.
Oh boy does this bring back memories. My late husband was a double amputee below the knee. She reminds me of my husband's ex-wife. Her comment was, "I don't care if he sits on the corner shaking his leg. Finally he was awarded his disability he paid one lump sum of $5,000. The kids said, "Look what Mom bought us." I said, "You mean Dad right?" "OH, yeah, "Look what Dad bought us. And let me tell you, the kids corrected their Mom really quick. Dad bought our new shoes, clothes, and school supplies.
A few of my family members have/had MS. It's incurable, it can only be managed. It constantly attacks every nerve in your body. The only guarantee is that it will eventually get worse. 😓 My heart goes out to those that suffer, especially those who go years not being believed. ❤️❤️❤️
This sucks for him. You can hear in his voice that he's having trouble with this. I understand the mom is upset, but this is a COMPLETELY different circumstance. It's out of his control.
"I think he's liying" "Now I'm a 1000 dollars short a month" She was definetly spending the money on herself. Send her to hell Also... OMG protect this dude at all costs. He seems so utterly genuine and kind. Why would she do it to him...
I am 20 years old, I am filing for ptsd, bipolar 2 manic depression, generalized anxiety disorder, back problems, and hip impairment, I’m having my second hip surgery, and I’ve been in therapy and on meds since 15, hospitalized twice. I have a service dog. I had to have accommodations at work for my mental health issues, but with my hip problems it became too much. I’ve been out of work for a year, and I deal with my boyfriend’s family telling me I’m just lazy. They think I’m lying. Even when I tried to show them my medical records, my mri images, etc. they said “we don’t need to see it.” They refuse to believe I’m telling the truth and when I got an attorney who told me I had an extremely good case they said “they’ll just give anything to anyone.” This video warms my heart because it just showed me I’m not alone because his family makes me feel crazy sometimes.
My dad has multiple sclerosis and that s*** is serious. No way should she be asking him for money knowing that he's going through life or death situation right now
My late wife had MS and was terminal. I took care of her for over 22 years and by the time she mercifully passed away in a nursing home she was quadriplegic, mentally incompetent and incontinent. It is a HORRIBLE disease. This man is in bad shape already his wife is being heatless.
He was sitting with his head down from the beginning of the case 😔 My MS brother, I'm praying for you. This is a hard battle that we fight! I pray the best for you! We WISH we could PRETEND the symptoms we fight daily!
I have a very damaged heart, congestive heart failure, and have been criticized because of the fact that no one can see a disability, just because it isn't visible doesn't mean it doesn't exist
My mom has had ms for nearly thirty years and she is fortunate to not have any severe symptoms and side effects from it but she told me that men tend to have the more severe symptoms which made me feel awful for this dad because he’s correct you can get worse within months of being diagnosed depending on the stage you’re in or what form. This mother is a horrible person talking down to him and telling the judge he’s faking and making excuses, just disgusting.
In New York, if a parent receives SSI/ disability, the child/children receives a check from Social Security. The amount depends on parent work history.
This is so heart breaking! I have sever migraines, and pre cancer of the stomach and I have pott I pass out very often. I love to work but right now I can’t
The guy is literally losing his motor functions, then hes going to die. If it's increased in his symptoms that rapidly he's probably terminal. Like you hear in his voice his vocal cords are struggling to maintain pitch.
He has a responsible to help provide for the child he help create. Her story about him not working before he was even sick says a lot about his character. Who cares if he dying, we are all dying. He's a loser!
She mad as hell about that 1000$ a month even though he clearly struggling with MS. She just needs to give it up you gotta support the child it is your child when one falls you gotta pick it up.
He's stuttering so bad. He's trying so hard and I'm proud of him. I'm a disabled mom. It's NOT easy to work, have a disability, and taking care of a child and I'm currently still pregnant. The mom as a point, it's not cheap but it's physically impossible right now for him to work. I personally went back and forth from SSI because they pay you absolutely garbage for not being able to work at all. Some of us just deal with it. Some of us work because we have to and we work through the pain. Shes lucky she's well enough to work
She knew about his disability for sure, and she made him go to court like" Hey you disabled! Lets make you pay more, cause ur lazy, and sit at home!" - Lady, get you shit together.
Receiving SS from your father each month with him being on disability has nothing to do with child support. It is merely a benefit that SSDI offers adults with children under a certain age limit that still reside at home. It's not a replacement of child support.
@@dawnmontgomery73 I never said anything about child support, if you read what I said. I stated it is weird the judge is not giving her the proper advice she needs.
WipsandChainsCrochet withDawn if a child is receiving benefits from a parent SSDI, they cannot go after that parent for child support so yes, it replaces child support.
This makes me really really angry. I have a documented disability and my ex and I share 50-50 custody. He was very very abusive. He has residential custody I have an alternate custody we live in two different states. He try to go after me for child support as a way to control me. After he asked the courts to voluntarily waive child support. When we went to court and I explain to them that I lost my job about a year ago and I’m on SSI, the judge basically told my ex husband that I am not required to pay child support because of my disability. I also have sole legal custody of my oldest son from my first marriage and his father does not pay child support at all. We’ve been struggling but we’re doing OK. This mother is absolutely disgusting. Prior to me getting on SSI I worked over 40 to 60 hours a week and had no child support for my son and still provided for my youngest son. This mother needs to get off her butt and she needs to start providing for her children because I feel like a lot of women are extremely lazy these days and things just because they have a kid they can just take everybody’s money. Poor guy
If it's SSDI than yes than can get $500 from the government. If it's SSI than no they can't receive anything. But the father has to be on the birth certificate.
That woman making reference to her former spouse's inability to continue contributing to child support obligations when offered the opportunity to rufute his disability claim can not simply say to the court superior: I THINK HE'S LYING! Whether the claim one alleges against another is FACTUAL without evidence should not be taken as sufficient reason to resume payment restoration.
In the state of TX the child is entitled to benefits if one one the parents are on ss and/or disability. Not to mention the parent does not even have to be with you when you go to the ss office.
This was heartbreaking. She's not struggling....she's bitter. "He can push the buttons".....lady are you serious??? That is heartless!!!! People can end up bedridden and DIE from MS. Smh ...horrible woman
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Watching him apologize for not being able to do something because he can’t control his condition broke my heart.
I felt the same, I have severe health problems myself and hate myself for not being able to work and make money to give him more of everything. Unfortunately the world isn't set up so people like me can work. Hell I spent 2 months in lockdown in a neck brace and having to sleep on my recliner with the drs thinking I'd had a stroke!
Not her cold heart tho. Typical
He should still have to pay child support from his disability check. He still responsible for the child he help create.
@@ellemontgomery5210 Federal funds are immune to any garnishment other than federal debt. I can tell you he probably don't get much to begin with.
@@ellemontgomery5210 no he shouldn't
As a disabled person, I appreciate this episode. People often think disabled people are lazy when we are actually really sick and struggling just to function.
I wish i could work and i often feel guilty about it. I just want to not be sick and be able to have a job
Facts❤️
I’m disabled veteran I understand
I lost my job because of my disability. I was in and out of the hospital
It's because there are a few people who don't have true disabilities and decide to cheat the system by acting like they don't. That's why the disability office will send investigators out to see if the person is employees or really doing ANYTHING that their application claims they can't do.
With that being said, I know this guy isn't lying and is absolutely disabled. I'm disabled with hip dysplasia, and my dad AND little sister both have MS same as this guy. My sister has a particularly aggressive form but her meds have her under control so she is still working. MY dad worked with his milder form all the way until he started losing his ability to walk and started losing his memory and ability to retain information and for a FINANCE MANAGER for a car dealership, that's pretty important. So he now gets disability ssi and disability through the insurance. He can't work PERIOD. My sister works but idk how long she will be able to. This guy is young, and typically when you're THAT young with MS it is typically an aggressive form.
And you know.... I feel for this woman too because she is stuck with the entire expense of a child she didn't make herself. She SHOULD be getting support. But what is he supose to do? MS is a deteriorating disease and when he spoke about numbers on the screen moving and getting blurry.... he likely has a lesion on his optic nerve which is common with MS patients. Both my dad and sister have that as well as SEVERE vertigo. She should be getting more help but it's not his fault that he can't provide it. It sucks but it is what it is.
You can tell by his speech and body movement that it's serious. She just being a witch and that's being nice about it
MS is degenerative....medicine can helps symptoms...there is no getting better...only worse. If you look at his right hand you can see it starting to stiffen....ive seen a good amount of people with MS, and spent time with them...once that hand has a contracture it's there for ever.... no more fingers....
I was judging him about his hair, until he said MS, and immediately thought of brushing my step mom's hair...
@INKWELL Studios. I think that witch is spelt with a capital B 😂
These actors are too good.
My mom has ms and everything the woman is saying is what people constantly think when my mom says she can't work. She can't even get ssi because the judge said she shows too much promise and will to get better. She hasn't worked in years because her health just fluctuates
Funny cause he’s an actor lol
It’s so frustrating having internal impairments and people stigmatize the pain inflicted because they don’t see it.
That’s the first time I seen anybody say that Thank you. People don’t understand how much pain we go through every single day.
Right! I have MS mine is relapsing MS he looks like he has progressive MS which means he’s going to get worse quickly vs me losing functions little at a time. I hate when people talk shit about people who have MS because they make use look like we are faking and lazy when we have medical MRIs showing lesions as to why it’s happening.
@@KingKoala235 I’m with you girl!!!! I’ve been denied disability 3 times because I’m young and have a degree. They say I can sit at a desk, instead I’m at home making earrings when I can esp when my hands aren’t shaking! Prayers for you ❤️
@@chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094 I’m sick of it. I always advocate for people with internal impairments. It’s not fair that you are penalized for something you cannot control.
@Jamie Bennett, I hear where you're coming from. I was working as a private duty nurse and suffered a stroke. When I got to the hospital and they did a MRI they found out that I had two previous strokes. Who knew? My right arm was paralyzed for two weeks. Spent one week in ICU and a week in rehab. I still have partial weakness on my right side. When I filed for Disability I was denied three times. I found an excellent Disability Lawyer and she won my case. You may want to find one also. It may take a while though for your case to be heard, but it will be worth it.🙏🙏
I feel like this was genuine. I don’t think he didn’t want to care for his child . MS is no joke
They are all paid actors
@@tamz0309 Paid actors yes. They are acting out real scenarios. These videos are for education purposes and that’s why she refers to Texas laws and hosts the educational bit at the end of the video.
Thank you, I personally got MS at the age of 13, I’m 18 now and I feel like more people need to be aware of this disease
@@wesleychoy5994 they do , it needs to be taught about in science class and so much more . I pray you live a long prosperous, fulfilled and active life . I wish you the best health I wish this on no one .
@@jadewatson1945 thank you
This burns me SO much! This "mother" is disgusting. I've been battling an autoimmune disease for FORTY YEARS. I worked as much as I could for as long as I could, and I'm now totally disabled starting when I was 58. To look at me, you can see that I "don't feel well" but you cannot see what is going on inside my body, nor tell the level of pain I'm having. I have literally not had a single pain free day since December 31, 1980. I get nasty remarks when I say I'm disabled, my sister accuses me of faking. 99.99999999999% of people on disability would give almost anything to be "normal" again.
I empathize.
I hope you’re doing well today 🥺 I’m sorry that you have experienced dealing with insensitive people. No matter the situation insensitive people automatically turn me off, if you can’t relate then you don’t have a say and even if you can your experience is still different from everyone else’s. The people who have so much to say couldn’t even take 10 steps in the shoes of those they judge.
I've been disabled too, but now I'm ok thank God. People really don't understand how horrible and real it is.
Piss on those HATERS. And I wish you the best Sir
I about cut me arm off and I look good but the pain that I deal with everyday is unreal and I've gotten used to the medication ( Morphin) and you build up a resistance to it after 11 years. Please God 🙏 you will get bye a little better and I hope that you will have a lot of good days 😁
I totally believe this gentleman. I pray to good his journey in life is as pain & worry free as can be. As previous mentioned, the mom should bring the son to visit with dad while the memories can still be good for all. I’m not thrilled with the mom’s reaction to his health issue’s. Did she never care or live this man? How can someone be so heartless? Good luck to all. 🙏😢🥰
"OK yes he cannot work, yes OK he cannot pay, but CAN YOU MAKE HIM THO"
The audacity of this woman
Right " he can't press a button?"
@@CreationsByRachel when he can’t look at screens or read text, can you make him work in front of screens, judge?
It’s not about the child support imo . I think it’s clear this was all about how he did her dirty after she helped him get the degree to be able to make a good living . He left her. It’s scummy and sadly happens all the time in relationships. On the other hand he has a debilitating condition now which no one deserves . My aunt died of complications of MS. MS doesn’t get better it’s a progressive disease . He is not going back to work so it is what it is in this case
@@missyrose2154 i agree with you up until saying it was scummy how he left her, we have no idea what the reason behind leaving was, and honestly the way she is acting, makes me think there was something going on behind closed doors that we dont have any knowledge of. The fact that she had the audacity to keep asking the judge if she could force him to go back to work and force him to do stuff, just shows her mindset on the whole situation, even when he has such a major disability. And he was probably getting this kind of attitude from his "mother", that doesn't seem very "motherly" to me.
What is THO
In the dad's stage of ms, mom should bring the child around the dad as much as possible before it gets worse. The child should have positive memories more than negative or sad memories.
Right bc soon he’s not going to be able to walk or move or even use the bathroom on his own. 8 months is when this all started means his MS is severe.
The dads disability is obviously real his uneasy unsettled twitching. And ‘ mom’ not realizing ssi ssdi is not garnishable income for child support proves her ass is dumb as a doormat. MS n degenerative disabilities are no joke n not fun. The affected person is generally in.constant pain and personal struggles with even the smallest of tasks.
@@Happywifelife24 I agree..not only is she dumb but greedy as hell. He said she makes good money and ms is serious and she wants him to "push a Button" so she can get more? I see why he left her
@@chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094 MS doesn't take someone that fast. Especially if he is following his doctors orders. It comes in slow enough that most people doesn't even notice the early symptoms. At this point, the father is most likely using a cane of crutches. It's very possible for him to stay at this point for 15 years if he is doing the exercises and physical therapy as often as he doctor tells him to do. If he just sits own and gives up, he will be in a wheelchair in 5 years.
Two of my family members have had MS. I've watched the effects it has had my entire life. The lucky MS patients get the kind that can go into remission for awhile. My family did not get the lucky kind.
@@docgiggles130 no MS patient is the same so stop comparing. I have MS and yes my treatments help but ive also been to the point where I was in a wheel chair for 6 months and another time for 8 months. IVE ALSO SEEN PEOPLE WHO WOKE UP ONE MORNING with vision loss and no movement of legs. I’ve also seen MS patients who didn’t know what was going on, think they had a stroke to find out they had 9 new lesions. Just because your family is okay doesn’t mean that’s how every MS patient is or isn’t.
Bless his heart!! You can clearly see the difficulty he has and she wants to sit and accuse him of faking it??!!?? WTF? How incredibly ridiculous can one be? He seems to earnest and forthcoming with his responses and I honestly believe he did make child support payments when he was allowed to work and I feel he would still be paying if he had income to do so! With legal documents provided, he shouldn’t have had to defend himself at all ... mom just is money hungry !!
he's an actor
@@sherylsnell-massie3801 he is gorgeous🥰😍😍😍wonder what's his name
@@sherylsnell-massie3801 He was doing a good job of showing the ticks that many MS patients have then.
I love how she holds these evil women accountable and calls them out on their selfishness
This made me so sad. My God I’m starting to see what some men are complaining about. Some of these women are heartless.
And Men Aren't
Fair Is Fair
Don't worry, as the birth rates continue to fall this won't be an issue...
@@jamawilliams1577 so two wrongs make a right? My god!
This man is not heartless he can’t work he has MS this woman doesn’t get it
This lady is nuts 😂. I am a disabled veteran and people look at me like crazy sitting at home try dealing with his situation or PTSD. We cannot work period.
Im not a vet but I also suffer from PTSD that has seriously hindered my working options. Thank you for your sacrifice and I hope you get the help you need
@ Jonathan montoute,
I'm with you brother. I'm a disabled vet as well, injured in Afghanistan by 1 mortar round too many.
Yeah, some people look at us like we're faking, or lazy bums, etc. Some days, and I'm sure you are the same, I can hardly get out of the bed and move around the house. Going to bed at night terrified me, but being in the dark didn't bother me. One counselor said it was because the Taliban only attacked my FB late at night. Add on top of that a TBI and all it's issues. I recieved a service dog thru the VA and she has helped a great deal!!
Hang in there brother, you're not alone in this.........good luck.
I’m sorry you are suffering. I have special place in my heart for people who serve in the military. People think it’s just a job and you deal with it like that. That could be not further from the truth. It affects every aspect of their and their families lives, for the rest of their life. Thank you you for your service.
On a different note I thought that if they had a child under 18 the child could receive a check. I had a friend who’s ex’s with got a check for all three of her children. After they spilt up.
Sir,first thank you for your service and I hope things get better for you.
Ptsd is some crazy stuff. I dont have any issues with telling my friends or family about what I went through in Iraq. But I dont tell friends or family what I go through now on a daily basis. I only talk to the VA therapist about that shit.
What is wrong with her, if he can't work, he can't work. Love the hair Judge Vonda B.
Listening to him literally made me start to cry. You can tell that he’s so desperately wants to provide the way he used to.
She is so concerned about child support, but doesn't give a damn about her ex-husband's health problems,
She should be concerned about child support. 🤷🏾♂️
@Trey Gordon Make a baby. Pay for it.
@Trey Gordon Time to go dig up the dead folks ,and tell them to pay child support cause health status of men don't matter.
@Trey Gordon it's a miracle they haven't already
@@SeanBaker I hope you know that MS is a disease that you can’t reverse, this guys life is gonna be messed up for a long time because of the disease. He really can’t pay for the child support.
As someone with a disability, this hurts. It's getting to the point where I might not be able to work anymore and I'm dreading it. I love working, even on the bad days, the thought of not having a job scares me. And the thought that I might not be able to apply for disability because of my age or because of my disability scares me even more
Same here. I'm on SSI right now for severe mental health issues and chronic fibromyalga. It scares me at the fact of not working any time soon or in the worst-case scenario never. It's hard having illnesses that no one can see, so people have a hard time thinking we are disabled and don't believe us. It hurts so bad to hear someone say we are lying about our condition. We are really trying our best. I hope you are feeling better at this point, and I hope you can get back to work soon. Take care❤
MS is a mean b/$&@. My heart goes out to him. MS will take your ability to walk, talk, see, think and it will take control of your emotions. God bless him my brother died of MS.
My condolences to you in the loss of your brother.❤️
I watched a family member suffer with MS. They had to stop working in the blink of an eye. It happened that quick. Ssi, ssdi barely pays for bills, even then you might still end up homeless if you don't have a support system
Yes exactly! I'm disabled and if not for my family's support i would probably be homeless, malnourished, and unable to afford basic necessities
One of the few things that SSI and Disability got right was to make government incomes untouchable. I'm glad that she's not able to take his paycheck because it's barely enough for you to live on and sometimes not even that much. Granted they did that because they didn't want THEIR money to be taken by others but it still works out the same. At least disabled people know that a person can't sue them or touch their money. They have it hard enough. The last thing they need to worry about is child support or being sued.
Being on disability doesn't give you the right to neglect your children
" he cannot just push the buttons??"
Oh my god....... that poor man. This is why there needs to be more education on Developmental Disabilities!!
It's not a developmental disability. Neurological MS
@@megancollier1137 MS falls under the class of developmental disabilities
And more education about invisible disabilities, terminal illnesses, and chronic conditions. No one wants to become disabled. It's NOT fun!
If he sleeps until noon - God bless him. MS sucks your energy at a drop of a hat. You're fine one minute and fatigued the next. The disease can rapidly debilitate a person. My daughter has MS.
My brother died with MS. It is not going to get better.
The bailiff saying 'you're welcome' is so sincere.❤❤
This judge don’t take no mess she get right to the point she need her show like the others judges go girl
You can clearly see he was struggling just to speak. I have a family member with MS and it can be down right debilitating. It’s disgusting that this woman can be so harsh. If it was her suffering with MS it would be a whole different story. Men can have MS also!!! I bet she would have played the sympathy card if she had it! He did not! He seems genuine, she seems to have no heart
MS took my sister. I hate this woman
@@jns4ever2304 I’m so sorry. Yes, she is awful. No worries though hopefully karma will come knocking at her door.
Good. I like this judge. She can take care of her son with what she has. She looks like the Grandma.
1) your last remark is incredibly insensitive and ageist. Wait until you start getting older and see how you like being discussed by your age & looks.
2) Vonda is NOT a judge. She is a lawyer playing a judge. Also, everyone on this show is an actor (other than Vonda).
@@huchlvr I plan to age, gracefully. I comment how I like. And, I know about the show. Thanks.
Social Security is wages u have earned & ur child will receive a check on the 3rd of each month. SSI is income from the govt for ur disability for wages unearned & the child can get money from the state & SSI is on the 1st of the month. Also, no premiums are deducted from SSI but Social Security has to pay monthly premiums. Very different. Be humble towards those that cant.
As someone who had to go through Disability...
If he is faking and got through the process he should be an award winning actor.
It's not something that they just give you... they basically deny anyone the first few times to make you get a lawyer.
These are actors reacting real cases, So we do not know the real people involved.
@@Enzo-G63 ?
A good lawyer would basically tell her to kick rocks 🪨. It's clear the man is unable to work.
I didn't need a lawyer. Lawyer's waste time filing appeals so they can get more $ (because they're not allowed to collect more than 6% of your total). Yes, unless you have cancer or had a massive stroke they do deny you. But I filed an appeal right away online and got approved within another month. (I need a hip replacement and I have degenerative disc disorder.)
Having MS myself I know he is unable to work.
Well the way he was trying hold himself from moving around I'm sure he was nervous I think she verbally abused him during their marriage and made him watch their son during the marriage as well I think she's a terrible parent.
Exactly, I have MS also.
My friend has MS and works for a call center so yes some people with MS can work
I also have MS and continued to work and it’s definitely extremely hard to get up and work every single day. Between the physical, mental and other symptoms involves a lot of obstacles.
I’m so sorry. My aunt died years ago from it and I know it is a struggle. I hope things get better for you.
It's so frustrating seeing him in such a horrible situation with such an unsympathetic mother. Smh
Right, can we make him pay more, how about he pay from his social security, can we garnish some of his disability. So there's zero way I can expoit him for more more more? Wdym he doesn't have to pay he's faking it. I hate people like this
My question is does she work, cause if she doesn't she can a job and push little buttons all day. I feel bad for him cause I bet he would work if he really could.
@@poppykitty5252 LoL
As a person with multiple sclerosis, she sugarcoated saying hes lying about a disability, you can see his hands shaking and his speech is slurred. I agree with the judge and the ex wife should of been understand regardless if your knew information about his diagnosis. Idk im being personal cause she showed she just wanted money and dont care about anyone.
What upsets me most is she's not even trying to better herself she just wants more from him. He's sick with a disease that will progressively kill him then what is she going to do? Try to make him pay after he's dead?
My brother is suffering from MS, I know exactly what this guy is going through and how tough is it to deal with this condition
Mom could actually receive a check from social security due to receiving disability. Here is clearly in a situation where he can’t do what he needs to do. Compassion is what she should show instead of complaining.
It's not social security responsibility to raise the kids it's the parent responsibility
Hi Judge Vonda B! What an interesting way to show people the inner workings of family court. I think it is important for people to understand the process how the decision making.
He stutters with his disability......he said he can't focus at the screen to work, which is also a symptom of MS. He may be in a wheelchair, eventually, and someone may be cleaning and caring for him. I have a student with MS in my classroom at college. She has a notetaker because of her limited hand use and she is in a wheelchair.
I had a friend with ms she worked for a few years until it got bad. She has been on disability for 17 years now and the disease fluctuates. It might get some better for a time and then it gets worse than before. This is degenerative and just gets worse as time goes on. It is also the type that on the outside there doesn’t seem like much is wrong but on the inside you’re all messed up. This is what makes a lot of people think ms is not a disability but doctors know the truth.
Hanging in there. U
I saw what MS did to my doctor and to the late Annette Funicello.
Uh anyone else think she was massively abusive to him? He was stuttering never once looked anyone in the eye, apologising for things he cant control, and the stuttering increased when speaking to his ex?
1. Disability isn’t handed out freely. 2. Dad is never going to be released to work. I’m sure he wishes he was healthy enough to work, versus the ultimate outcome he is headed for.
Did she really drag someone with MS to court for child support? The man can barely hold a piece of paper without shaking! She should allow the child spend as much time as possible with his dad, because it's truly downhill with MS.
The fact is that no CHILD support can be given on SSI. listening to mom she was being a jerk.
It can't be required but SSDI will send the kids money and it is considered child support.
Disabled people on SSI are not fit to be parents
Damn this was a great scenario. I have PTSD and while I look okay, I do have an employment disability. I do not have to worry about dealing with child support, but the information gathered from this is pure awesomeness. Thank you so much, Judge Vonda B.!!
I only watch her because of her red lipstick. She’s the only one I’ve seen that rock that color so well. Adorable halarious spirit!
yes, the color looks so pretty on her
Yeah she looks so aroused
My dude's getting horny in the judge chat lmao.
I love love love her red 💄. And yes she rocks it
💋
God bless him. He was sincere. I was diagnosed yrs ago. My symptoms are different.We have to pray and don't give up.💙
So I binged watch a few dozen episodes
And God damn this truly broke my heart I'm crying for this man
You can hear he just wants to be a good dad and provider
MS is so horrible it's often a death sentence
For her to be so calice is just tragic
I pray for you man that you get better and your son knows he has a good dad
That poor man. As someone who suffers autoimmune conditions and has seen people I love deteriorate from MS, my heart hurts for him.
This a sad situation. I wouldn't have even brought my child's father in that state. It's difficulty to raise a child, yes. But he has a condition thats beyond his control. She should be ashamed of herself.
My sister has MS and it's a horrible disease that progresses overtime. He wants to care for his child and her acts are horrendous!!
I recognize that Douglas Kirby guy, I just can't quite put my finger on where I've seen him before...
DJ Myst that’s u??
@@samanthacreasey5821 Haha, guilty as charged! 😂
Brother, I have MS also.
@@moorek1967 so sorry! I have read up on it but I do not have it. I was acting as the show states (read the channel bio) I know it is no joke, I truly wish you the best! ❤
@@djmyst6789 Great acting!!
The fact that it has taken her two years to say something about it shows to me that she is missing the money and wants it for something other than the child.
Douglas is a good man. The lady should continue her speech therapy.
My last manager has MS. Awesome manager. Thankfully his condition was a bit better. While working for him, I developed a condition with similar - though far less severe - symptoms. (The doctors did check me for sclerosis. So it is no picnic.) What the guy said about looking at screens is spot on. My condition created a tumor behind my right eye that almost had me blind before they got it under control. But staring at computer screens is still tough. (Obviously I still do so or I wouldn't be writing here. But one eye is squinted shut to do so.)
Bad health sucks.
This hurts because I have MS and lost my job as a nurse because of it. She’s a cruel woman.
This judge is so reasonable with EVERYONE.
Why isn’t she collecting SSI for the child through his claim? The minor child of a disabled person is eligible for these benefits.
Texas law is different than where you are from. Check on google.
Startrek1965 - SSI goes by federal laws not state-
Based on income, telling me that mom makes decent wages.
Joyce Wobbrock - Disability benefits to a minor child have nothing to do with income of the custodial parent. It is a benefit of the disability (soc sec) system, based on the number of points the disabled parent has in the system. It is completely separate from child support benefits.
@@joytoyouandme4593 . My son collected for a few years as a child with his dad disabled. Once I had a decent income his SSI stopped.
MS can be an extremely debilitating and mentally crushing disease. I certainly hope he gets better. I hope the mother can understand a little of what he's going through.
She’s been surviving without child support for 2 YEARS I don’t see why she wants to take him to Court now
Oh boy does this bring back memories. My late husband was a double amputee below the knee. She reminds me of my husband's ex-wife. Her comment was, "I don't care if he sits on the corner shaking his leg. Finally he was awarded his disability he paid one lump sum of $5,000. The kids said, "Look what Mom bought us." I said, "You mean Dad right?" "OH, yeah, "Look what Dad bought us. And let me tell you, the kids corrected their Mom really quick. Dad bought our new shoes, clothes, and school supplies.
Wow! I love this Judge.
A few of my family members have/had MS. It's incurable, it can only be managed. It constantly attacks every nerve in your body. The only guarantee is that it will eventually get worse. 😓
My heart goes out to those that suffer, especially those who go years not being believed. ❤️❤️❤️
This sucks for him. You can hear in his voice that he's having trouble with this. I understand the mom is upset, but this is a COMPLETELY different circumstance. It's out of his control.
as someone with a chronic illness so glad that she listened to him..so hard for people who don't understand a disability
"I think he's liying"
"Now I'm a 1000 dollars short a month"
She was definetly spending the money on herself. Send her to hell
Also... OMG protect this dude at all costs. He seems so utterly genuine and kind. Why would she do it to him...
I am 20 years old, I am filing for ptsd, bipolar 2 manic depression, generalized anxiety disorder, back problems, and hip impairment, I’m having my second hip surgery, and I’ve been in therapy and on meds since 15, hospitalized twice. I have a service dog. I had to have accommodations at work for my mental health issues, but with my hip problems it became too much. I’ve been out of work for a year, and I deal with my boyfriend’s family telling me I’m just lazy. They think I’m lying. Even when I tried to show them my medical records, my mri images, etc. they said “we don’t need to see it.” They refuse to believe I’m telling the truth and when I got an attorney who told me I had an extremely good case they said “they’ll just give anything to anyone.” This video warms my heart because it just showed me I’m not alone because his family makes me feel crazy sometimes.
I have MS & this was hard to watch. It’s not gonna get better…you might be experiencing a temporary remission. Hang in there my friend! ✊🏽
Ms is no joke my mother struggles with this so bad and she is blessed to still be walking ! This is so sad I'm praying for him
My dad has multiple sclerosis and that s*** is serious. No way should she be asking him for money knowing that he's going through life or death situation right now
My late wife had MS and was terminal. I took care of her for over 22 years and by the time she mercifully passed away in a nursing home she was quadriplegic, mentally incompetent and incontinent.
It is a HORRIBLE disease. This man is in bad shape already his wife is being heatless.
He was sitting with his head down from the beginning of the case 😔 My MS brother, I'm praying for you. This is a hard battle that we fight! I pray the best for you! We WISH we could PRETEND the symptoms we fight daily!
Shes soo ”reasonable” im starting to like this judge
I have a very damaged heart, congestive heart failure, and have been criticized because of the fact that no one can see a disability, just because it isn't visible doesn't mean it doesn't exist
My mom has had ms for nearly thirty years and she is fortunate to not have any severe symptoms and side effects from it but she told me that men tend to have the more severe symptoms which made me feel awful for this dad because he’s correct you can get worse within months of being diagnosed depending on the stage you’re in or what form. This mother is a horrible person talking down to him and telling the judge he’s faking and making excuses, just disgusting.
She is such a a good judge. Love her. So fair....
She misses having all the money to spend on herself...not taking care of the boy
I hollered when she said "he can't push buttons??"
MS doesn’t go away. My husband has MS and it can be very debilitating.
In New York, if a parent receives SSI/ disability, the child/children receives a check from Social Security. The amount depends on parent work history.
This is the only judge I like because she’s non-bias every other judge I watched a very biased
This is so heart breaking! I have sever migraines, and pre cancer of the stomach and I have pott I pass out very often. I love to work but right now I can’t
The guy is literally losing his motor functions, then hes going to die. If it's increased in his symptoms that rapidly he's probably terminal. Like you hear in his voice his vocal cords are struggling to maintain pitch.
He has a responsible to help provide for the child he help create. Her story about him not working before he was even sick says a lot about his character. Who cares if he dying, we are all dying. He's a loser!
He is showing compassion I feel for him
She mad as hell about that 1000$ a month even though he clearly struggling with MS. She just needs to give it up you gotta support the child it is your child when one falls you gotta pick it up.
Well disabled people that don't work neglect their children and that's abuse
He's stuttering so bad. He's trying so hard and I'm proud of him. I'm a disabled mom. It's NOT easy to work, have a disability, and taking care of a child and I'm currently still pregnant. The mom as a point, it's not cheap but it's physically impossible right now for him to work. I personally went back and forth from SSI because they pay you absolutely garbage for not being able to work at all. Some of us just deal with it. Some of us work because we have to and we work through the pain. Shes lucky she's well enough to work
Couldn't the child receive social security disability benefits since dad was?
Yes the child can get a check but this dummy is too greedy to know that she’s trying to take his disability check instead.
She knew about his disability for sure, and she made him go to court like" Hey you disabled! Lets make you pay more, cause ur lazy, and sit at home!" - Lady, get you shit together.
That's weird. I received social security from my dad every month since he was on disability and social security.
That is because mom hasn't gone down to the SSI office to put the kid on it.
Receiving SS from your father each month with him being on disability has nothing to do with child support. It is merely a benefit that SSDI offers adults with children under a certain age limit that still reside at home. It's not a replacement of child support.
@@dawnmontgomery73 I never said anything about child support, if you read what I said. I stated it is weird the judge is not giving her the proper advice she needs.
Kathleen K judges don’t give legal advice. You get a lawyer for that or learn on your own.
WipsandChainsCrochet withDawn if a child is receiving benefits from a parent SSDI, they cannot go after that parent for child support so yes, it replaces child support.
This dad appeared genuine, the mom was really harsh in her remarks. She had not gotten over the breskup and wants revenge!
If she knew how hard it is to get disability, she wouldn’t have accused him of lying.
This makes me really really angry. I have a documented disability and my ex and I share 50-50 custody. He was very very abusive. He has residential custody I have an alternate custody we live in two different states. He try to go after me for child support as a way to control me. After he asked the courts to voluntarily waive child support. When we went to court and I explain to them that I lost my job about a year ago and I’m on SSI, the judge basically told my ex husband that I am not required to pay child support because of my disability. I also have sole legal custody of my oldest son from my first marriage and his father does not pay child support at all. We’ve been struggling but we’re doing OK. This mother is absolutely disgusting. Prior to me getting on SSI I worked over 40 to 60 hours a week and had no child support for my son and still provided for my youngest son. This mother needs to get off her butt and she needs to start providing for her children because I feel like a lot of women are extremely lazy these days and things just because they have a kid they can just take everybody’s money. Poor guy
I think the child can receive benefits from social security if the father is disable.
The mother is receiving it for the child; this case was for an increase...
It depends on his type of benefit and how much the family max. If he receives SSI then the child can get nothing
She can all she needs to do is file for it.
If it's SSDI than yes than can get $500 from the government. If it's SSI than no they can't receive anything. But the father has to be on the birth certificate.
That woman making reference to her former spouse's inability to continue contributing to child support obligations when offered the opportunity to rufute his disability claim can not simply say to the court superior:
I THINK HE'S LYING!
Whether the claim one alleges against another is FACTUAL without evidence should not be taken as sufficient reason to resume payment restoration.
That woman is heartless
My grandma died from that. It’s painful and brutal. I feel bad for him.
Love from new York city.. Beautiful queen
Some people are absolutely disgusting. This man wasn’t faking it. She had no right to take him to court
Only a witch does this
Just because you have a disability doesn't give you the right to neglect your kids
@@justinthebeau2590 it’s not neglect if he can’t help it
@@cpclowner11Bravo Neglect is still neglect irregardless of the reason
@@justinthebeau2590 I’m sure if you were in that situation you would have a completely different opinion. Troll
He's cute. I'll take care of him 😘
Same
What about meee
In the state of TX the child is entitled to benefits if one one the parents are on ss and/or disability. Not to mention the parent does not even have to be with you when you go to the ss office.
I did my hearing yesterday I'm the clear with child support my payments is zero
Dear judge you are sweet person
This is the first episode that tugged on my heartstrings ❤️💔
The nerve in this women. He clearly has a severe medical condition and won’t be able to work.
This was heartbreaking. She's not struggling....she's bitter. "He can push the buttons".....lady are you serious??? That is heartless!!!! People can end up bedridden and DIE from MS. Smh ...horrible woman
Look at what happened to Annette Funicello.