Little Women (2019) - Laurie Proposes to Jo Scene (6/10) | Movieclips

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  • @velvetupsidedown
    @velvetupsidedown 4 роки тому +42211

    laurie: we look like a couple
    jo: a couple of besties

    • @pyro_77ygh24
      @pyro_77ygh24 4 роки тому +629

      That had to hurt

    • @jaijai4710
      @jaijai4710 4 роки тому +209

      Rly? I thought it was funny lol

    • @cloud9726
      @cloud9726 4 роки тому +93

      damn 😭💀

    • @greenie9222
      @greenie9222 4 роки тому +78

      Thats a very good reference from Noah and Dixie lmao

    • @hajarsadir5444
      @hajarsadir5444 4 роки тому +25

      I get Dixie d’améliorable vibes lol 😂

  • @anabellacarter5527
    @anabellacarter5527 4 роки тому +14565

    "I can't say yes truly so I'm not going to say it at all." Stunning

    • @sendmemoneythanks
      @sendmemoneythanks 4 роки тому +112

      Anabella Carter I really liked that line

    • @cinematicsxiao
      @cinematicsxiao 4 роки тому +6

      hi ! i've just posted my fan made video of jo and laurie !
      if you want check it out. remember watch it with quality 1080 p

    • @cinematicsxiao
      @cinematicsxiao 4 роки тому +2

      This is my UwU thanks it means a lot for me

    • @hoeney7815
      @hoeney7815 4 роки тому +2

      Does anyone know where to watch the movie ?

    • @jaijai4710
      @jaijai4710 4 роки тому

      @@hoeney7815 its in netflix

  • @samaymodi4626
    @samaymodi4626 2 роки тому +4330

    when she says ‘except that’ at 2:39 and he turns with that glimmer of hope….Always gets me

    • @Astonelle
      @Astonelle Рік тому +134

      Aw man IT'S SO SAD 😭😭😭

    • @hegstad9
      @hegstad9 Рік тому +159

      I believe the director told him to turn with the last glimmer of hope in his eyes ~ and then disappointment ~ too which Timothée Chalamet added the little nod ~ which the director loved.

    • @Astonelle
      @Astonelle Рік тому +8

      @@hegstad9 awh

    • @mitch8088
      @mitch8088 10 місяців тому +19

      ​@@hegstad9 Yes! And then after the turn and nod you just see all the hope leave him for the last time 😭

    • @BLANK__ISEEYOU
      @BLANK__ISEEYOU 7 місяців тому +8

      And then he realizes it not what he hoped for you see his body language shift again to hopeless

  • @priyakshi.7128
    @priyakshi.7128 4 роки тому +12847

    I love how she understood it by just looking at Laurie without even saying what he mean to say.

    • @estrellamarrone
      @estrellamarrone 4 роки тому +226

      Exactly, that part drives me crazy!!

    • @lamdinghi
      @lamdinghi 4 роки тому +302

      cause they're soulmates 🥺

    • @shrinalpatel4350
      @shrinalpatel4350 4 роки тому +86

      Same. It reminded me of when oliver said something along "are you saying what I'm thinking?" in cmbyn. Both understood without actually saying anything.

    • @sarahabib7592
      @sarahabib7592 4 роки тому +97

      I believe it is because a woman always knows! ...espicially when a guy looks at her with those looks

    • @darwis4769
      @darwis4769 4 роки тому +88

      Because Laurie looked thirsty af lol

  • @blairwaldorf7111
    @blairwaldorf7111 4 роки тому +36446

    him interrupting her and saying “i love you jo” when she lists everything that is “wrong” with her kills me every time

    • @ancientnight
      @ancientnight 4 роки тому +773

      It’s the most accurate when a girl tells a guy how much flawed they are and the guy just keeps on saying it... well I did it before watching this so... maybe it’s just me

    • @cheshire123
      @cheshire123 4 роки тому +46

      yeees omg :((

    • @lauriemarie1983
      @lauriemarie1983 4 роки тому +108

      Think this has to be up there as one of my fav movie scenes, acting is stunning, ♥️ this film ♥️

    • @lauriemarie1983
      @lauriemarie1983 4 роки тому +214

      The bit the gets me is when he says "and I'll watch" 💔

    • @walawala1787
      @walawala1787 4 роки тому +18

      same.... i just... cant...

  • @amyrah4637
    @amyrah4637 4 роки тому +23652

    Fun fact: Him interrupting Jo and saying 'i love you' twice was not on the script-
    I cried

  • @johnsmisek02
    @johnsmisek02 4 роки тому +7469

    Greta Gerwig broke my heart when she described this scene as “Laurie and Jo leaving childhood, and Laurie spent his childhood with Jo, and he doesn’t want to leave it without her”

  • @LaaNa-eq5hc
    @LaaNa-eq5hc 3 роки тому +7720

    Jo is just being honest to him. I love how she explains it, turning him down but encouraging him at the same time finding someone better.

    • @LaaNa-eq5hc
      @LaaNa-eq5hc 3 роки тому +97

      And teddy's love isnt that even great because he fall for other girl that easily.

    • @dannyvista6541
      @dannyvista6541 2 роки тому +294

      @@LaaNa-eq5hc He has to move on eventually else he could literally go insane from that kind of love after years

    • @lenadjukic5570
      @lenadjukic5570 2 роки тому +28

      I agree and i do understand that moment verry well, cause i' ve been in that position....Jo being most honest, she couldn be doing him a biger favour

    • @lilylan5870
      @lilylan5870 Рік тому +50

      I can see your point...I also think Jo's right to be honest. But...being encouraged that you can find someone else better by the one you deeply love....I don't know...that kind of feeling hurts a lot. If I were Teddy, I would feel the more she said, the more painful feeling her words caused. I probably would only hope that Jo could say no more after giving her rejection and just let me be alone, crying as much as I wish so as to let time heal me.

    • @magaencina2863
      @magaencina2863 Рік тому +83

      @@LaaNa-eq5hc easily? He fell for Amy 7 YEARS later lol

  • @farahf6740
    @farahf6740 4 роки тому +13264

    The way poor Laurie turns around eagerly when Jo says “except that..” breaks my heart, because he’s still hoping that she’s gonna say yes.

    • @abikinebi6235
      @abikinebi6235 3 роки тому +200

      yea its really heartbreaking

    • @claudiaparra6860
      @claudiaparra6860 3 роки тому +12

      time stamp?

    • @lindsey2432
      @lindsey2432 3 роки тому +35

      @@claudiaparra6860 2:39

    • @claudiaparra6860
      @claudiaparra6860 3 роки тому +25

      @@lindsey2432 pain😔

    • @lachicaarte
      @lachicaarte 3 роки тому +89

      I always saw that part as if he turn back so keep receiving all the pain. Like affronting she her denial. I think he had already lose the hope :(

  • @kaitlynmartin2075
    @kaitlynmartin2075 4 роки тому +11408

    Weirdly enough, this is probably my favorite proposal scene because even though they walk away hurt, a hurtful word is never spoken between them about the other. In fact they go out of their way to insist to each other that they'll find someone to love because they hold each other in such high regard.

    • @sendmemoneythanks
      @sendmemoneythanks 4 роки тому +96

      Kaitlyn Martin yeah. Like in pride and prejudice the proposal scene they say hurtful words to each other cuz he got
      Rejected

    • @liz5473
      @liz5473 4 роки тому +8

      Never seen this movie. Where is his British accent? He’s not convincing me that his character is from whatever time period that is

    • @kaitlynmartin2075
      @kaitlynmartin2075 4 роки тому +133

      @@liz5473 they are in 1860s america

    • @kimmiesue318
      @kimmiesue318 4 роки тому +17

      I agree with you this is my favorite scene also!!! In my opinion this scene is better than the Winona Rider and Christian Bale’s Jo and Laurie proposal scene in the 90’s version of Little Women!!

    • @cinematicsxiao
      @cinematicsxiao 4 роки тому

      hi ! i've just posted my fan made video of jo and laurie !
      if you want check it out. remember watch it with quality 1080 p

  • @JoaoVictor-me6fq
    @JoaoVictor-me6fq 4 роки тому +7712

    The pause that he gives in the sentence "Say yes...and let's be happy together'' makes me think of how simple the situation is in his head.

    • @pinkylolly3995
      @pinkylolly3995 3 роки тому +263

      I always thought that it was awkward, as if he wasn’t really sure himself what comes after

    • @kelgirl99
      @kelgirl99 3 роки тому +323

      I think he always thought that she was in love with him too and that it was just a matter of time, but that maybe she was just too scared to take that leap. Whereas he had no problem just going for it and accepting it if it doesn't work out, she just didn't want to risk their friendship

    • @gfdsa2866
      @gfdsa2866 3 роки тому +22

      What's complicated about it? When it's simply Love??

    • @JoaoVictor-me6fq
      @JoaoVictor-me6fq 3 роки тому +77

      @@gfdsa2866 Unfortunately the feeling isn't mutual

    • @546-apoorvaranjan7
      @546-apoorvaranjan7 3 роки тому +62

      @@gfdsa2866 hah! I would wish love was that easy!
      Falling in love is easy ..... because of all the hormones.
      Being in love is hard it takes work and commitment and sacrifice . The amount which you would only be willing to give and suffer for if you had a solid reason- true unconditional love, which is not present here, it's just friendship and respect .Jo understands that but you and Lauri don't

  • @MojitoMatt
    @MojitoMatt Рік тому +4168

    Its so odd how you can love someone so deeply but that feeling just isn’t reciprocated. Like something is missing for them. Idk if anything is more heartbreaking than that.

    • @Oouri.0.2.0
      @Oouri.0.2.0 Рік тому +10

    • @Slow_Internet
      @Slow_Internet Рік тому +89

      Im experiencing it right now. It truly is heartbreaking

    • @sethplata8013
      @sethplata8013 Рік тому +39

      @@Slow_Internet I'm with you bro, same with you I never loved someone like her but to think that she still wouldn't care for me... it really is heart breaking

    • @baidikbhowmick5165
      @baidikbhowmick5165 Рік тому +22

      @@Slow_Internet been experiencing it for the last 9 years. I still am not over her

    • @124Eline
      @124Eline Рік тому +23

      Same. I've been in love with my best friend for years. But as much as he loves me, he is not now nor will he ever be in love with me. Hurts so much.

  • @Bythewai
    @Bythewai 4 роки тому +6677

    The acting is so good. That slight lean in for a kiss at 1:41 and jo pushing him away as she continues talking. This scene kills me

  • @joashkaiacarvajal7278
    @joashkaiacarvajal7278 4 роки тому +11196

    When he said " and I'll watch " but it ends up being her who was watching, that got me so bad

    • @idklol7392
      @idklol7392 4 роки тому +74

      YES

    • @iknowexactlywhoyouare8701
      @iknowexactlywhoyouare8701 4 роки тому +91

      Christian Bale’s Laurie said the exact same thing

    • @NyanHomeschoolGirl17
      @NyanHomeschoolGirl17 4 роки тому +95

      Juliet Hounsell Yeah Christians interpretation was more angsty whereas Timothee was gentle and sad, both fantastic

    • @dayagarcia3608
      @dayagarcia3608 4 роки тому +74

      He also ends up watching her being happy with the tutor from NY

    • @shital387
      @shital387 4 роки тому +76

      Yeah I wanted Laurie and Jo to be together so badddddd😭😭😭😭

  • @Aggelostououranou
    @Aggelostououranou 4 роки тому +8737

    Timothee Chalamet has some crazy anime hair in this scene and I love it lol. Beautiful scene, beautiful movie.

    • @RomanZolanski123
      @RomanZolanski123 4 роки тому +91

      Perfect way to describe. Hahaha

    • @kmillion9586
      @kmillion9586 4 роки тому +72

      My only problem with him is that he didn't seem to age the same way the girls did throughout the movie

    • @RomanZolanski123
      @RomanZolanski123 4 роки тому +6

      Karson Million very true.

    • @Aggelostououranou
      @Aggelostououranou 4 роки тому +40

      @@kmillion9586 No one really seemed to age at all imo lol 😆

    • @Nattatonka
      @Nattatonka 4 роки тому +16

      Nessie Jr I almost busted out loud laughing but you’re right “crazy anime hair” 😂 I love it!!!

  • @zazazebee
    @zazazebee 2 роки тому +3064

    The whole scene is heartbreaking, but what really gets me is the little head shake at 0:20
    He knows she doesn't want to have that conversation, and he knows he can't go on without having it.
    A small detail, but it's so brilliant!

    • @LaraTang
      @LaraTang 2 роки тому +75

      The way he shook his head reminded me of the mannerisms of Andrew Garfield as Peter Parker!

    • @parulkeshav474
      @parulkeshav474 Рік тому +17

      It's written so well in the book.

    • @fillademilpais
      @fillademilpais Рік тому

      That's right 👍🏻

    • @leilagraham9081
      @leilagraham9081 Рік тому +4

      @@LaraTangshut up i was literally like is it just me or is he giving andrew garfield rn

    • @Beanhill_94
      @Beanhill_94 Рік тому +12

      He’s like resigned in a way. That it has to be done. It cannot be ignored anymore.

  • @peterfrank3365
    @peterfrank3365 4 роки тому +6480

    That cinematography strongly evokes a painting.

    • @anaa8060
      @anaa8060 4 роки тому +51

      Greta gerwig was trying to make it represent a painting

    • @abisena43
      @abisena43 4 роки тому +15

      The facial features of the actors surely helps a ton though...

    • @sherylsabanal1593
      @sherylsabanal1593 4 роки тому

      An Ok movie with a mediocre performance from Timothee Chalamet!

    • @cinematicsxiao
      @cinematicsxiao 4 роки тому +1

      hi ! i've just posted my fan made video of jo and laurie !
      if you want check it out. remember watch it with quality 1080 p

  • @anxiousartist7401
    @anxiousartist7401 3 роки тому +16907

    i’m literally obsessed with this scene when he says “and i’ll watch” AAAAAAAAAHHHHHH

    • @jeffamunoz
      @jeffamunoz 3 роки тому +134

      *Literally breathtaking, I just watched this and thought the same thing* 💙

    • @imthepeachfromcmbyn798
      @imthepeachfromcmbyn798 3 роки тому +435

      But she watched him instead...

    • @ketiberezhiani7024
      @ketiberezhiani7024 3 роки тому +9

      sameeeeeeeee

    • @reaganmackenzie555
      @reaganmackenzie555 3 роки тому +26

      @@imthepeachfromcmbyn798 YOU’RE HURTING ME NOOO

    • @rusul342
      @rusul342 3 роки тому +2

      Hiya! Hoario. What's the problem? I love you, Captain.🥰

  • @randywhitehead9660
    @randywhitehead9660 4 роки тому +5427

    They both have PERFECT hair in this scene

  • @bluecali4na
    @bluecali4na 3 роки тому +2001

    You can still love someone and not want or be in a relationship with them. That’s what makes this scene so powerful.

  • @rogerkincaid931
    @rogerkincaid931 4 роки тому +14997

    The cinematography is breathtaking.

    • @SuperMovieLvr933
      @SuperMovieLvr933 4 роки тому +169

      This movie is breathtaking on literally every conceivable level.

    • @Jo-nb9eb
      @Jo-nb9eb 4 роки тому +12

      It alright

    • @lizr2728
      @lizr2728 4 роки тому +36

      It's all thanks to the amazing director Greta Gerwig

    • @rogerkincaid931
      @rogerkincaid931 4 роки тому +8

      @@lizr2728 - You mean DP Yorick Le Saux?

    • @kross2490
      @kross2490 4 роки тому +4

      Roger Kincaid must have never seen blade runner.

  • @elxcvr7390
    @elxcvr7390 3 роки тому +10490

    the fact that teddy was the one who said “and i’ll watch” but jo ended up watching

  • @emoben3393
    @emoben3393 3 роки тому +17699

    "I'm homely and I'm awkward and I'm odd-"
    "I love you Jo"
    "And you'd be ashamed of me-"
    "I love you Jo"
    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @ashcovenden803
      @ashcovenden803 3 роки тому +1475

      the two i love you jo” lines were improvised by timothée & weren’t in the script, it kills me

    • @h.j.6976
      @h.j.6976 3 роки тому +203

      :( I love him

    • @konanxhidan3202
      @konanxhidan3202 3 роки тому +43

      I love your profile picture

    • @bellayurko
      @bellayurko 3 роки тому +12

      @@h.j.6976 P&P reference??? Mannnn

    • @astridstar2
      @astridstar2 3 роки тому +10

      😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @graycen3910
    @graycen3910 3 роки тому +1049

    when she says “except that” and he comes back nodding to allow her to state what she wants, that just shows how much he loves her. he was willing to hear her out even though he knew she wasn’t going to say yes, he still listened.

    • @PhilipClyde
      @PhilipClyde Рік тому +61

      Well he probably came back cause he thought she might change her mind

  • @raizakm4898
    @raizakm4898 4 роки тому +6401

    'I can't love anyone else Jo, I only love you"
    *Proposes to Amy

    • @amelie_thingz4471
      @amelie_thingz4471 4 роки тому +359

      This confused my emotions and brains beyond belief😂😂

    • @SaraH-jn5db
      @SaraH-jn5db 4 роки тому +330

      Watching it happen then in the very next scene he sees jo with another man and still looks so hurt you know it was to try to replace her not loving Amy as she is

    • @trollingaround6343
      @trollingaround6343 4 роки тому +278

      @@SaraH-jn5db in reality, Laurie does love Amy. They can't say everything that's in the two book of Little Women in a two hours film lmao. In the end, Amy loves Laurie and he loves her

    • @beatriceausten2791
      @beatriceausten2791 4 роки тому +371

      It's hard to tell in the movie but in the books years had past in between Laurie getting rejected by Jo and pursuing Amy. Not to mention that he was still pretty young, eighteen or nineteen I believe, so he was probably being an overdramatic teenager when he said he would never love another.

    • @trollingaround6343
      @trollingaround6343 4 роки тому +26

      @@beatriceausten2791 exactly. the movie is good but sometimes they've mess up things like che scene avere Beth gets the piano but okay

  • @kennemedia01
    @kennemedia01 4 роки тому +5551

    I almost cried because of how intense it felt when Laurie confessed his feelings for her and he felt her about to push him away. When he kept telling her he loved her, I was...feeling too many emotions to even express how I felt watching this scene

    • @victoria-wildflower
      @victoria-wildflower 4 роки тому +36

      You sum up exactly what I felt at the theatre ! I also almost cried, there were so many emotions going on

    • @melinav9045
      @melinav9045 4 роки тому +34

      its ik sad to say i was actually balling, he loved her so much to get let down , and the fact that they didn't have a happily ever after together tore me apart. Though at the end all the loose strings were tied im still a little bit sad

    • @sevlowcreature6727
      @sevlowcreature6727 4 роки тому +5

      Kennedy Evans I did cry

    • @SaraBendjafar
      @SaraBendjafar 4 роки тому

      PRECISELY

    • @legomazzystar
      @legomazzystar 4 роки тому +11

      Kennedy Evans and at 2:35 or so she said there was something else and he nodded hoping that she changes her mind😔😍

  • @newjerseydiablo
    @newjerseydiablo 4 роки тому +7801

    Why can’t Timmy and Saoirse ever be in a movie where they finally just end up together? Seriously, their chemistry together is just so beautiful!

    • @empousi3947
      @empousi3947 3 роки тому +59

      Because the feelings for each over are not neutral

    • @empousi3947
      @empousi3947 3 роки тому +50

      I meant mutual

    • @taylorswiftfan1423
      @taylorswiftfan1423 3 роки тому +80

      Because that didn’t happen in the book....

    • @suktadas9737
      @suktadas9737 3 роки тому +21

      Exactly, if not in the original book why ruin it the movie.

    • @bea8827
      @bea8827 3 роки тому +7

      I need

  • @Romanov292
    @Romanov292 3 роки тому +785

    “And you will live and die for them because that’s your way…and I’ll watch” I will never be able to forget this line. Stabbed me at every side. The chemistry between them is palpable. They did amazing as Jo and Teddy. Just amazing.

  • @binhn.c.7003
    @binhn.c.7003 4 роки тому +5063

    This scene alone wins it for me. It always annoyed me how in the other versions the proposal scene is always so peaceful, with Jo just calmly trying to reason with Teddy. In this one they let them quarrel and you can truly tell how desperate he is to be with her and how desperately she is trying to show him that she doesn’t want that.
    They’re actually fighting and I love that for some reason lol

    • @fatimagutierrez888
      @fatimagutierrez888 3 роки тому +202

      The reason i like it better is because it shows more passion, whereas if they were more calm it wouldn’t feel as realistic or as heartbreaking, it feels as if they care more in this version.

    • @deborahmaeomalza7697
      @deborahmaeomalza7697 3 роки тому +29

      I absolutely agree! Although I have loved the other version the direction of the whole movie was superb for even first-time watchers in understanding the end and how each character revealed themselves, worthy of how they ended up with. This scene, was beautifully and more captivatingly portrayed than other versions, the fighting, the desperation of Laurie, and Jo's insistent rambling trying to explain herself. It all just captured the very moment as it should be. The cinematography is also swelled, it easily became a part of my list of movie adaptations worth rewatching.

    • @mariogar766
      @mariogar766 3 роки тому +22

      It's a modern scene... very modern... we see movement, feeling, touch... in the other versions it is everything calm and surreal...
      1933 and 1949 Jo reiects Laurie embrace him 😳
      In 1994 Laurie Kisses Jo 😳
      Here they are more realistic...
      She reiects him...
      He becomes furios and sad...
      They make higher their voice tone screaming... Realistic!!
      she is sad too because don't love him as a lover but love him the same as an important person in her life (a soulmate without being her boyfriend) and don't want to miss him...
      CHAPEAU Saoirse and Timothé

    • @jasminnoack3075
      @jasminnoack3075 3 роки тому +8

      Because the other scene had this passive aggressiveness that just... sucks!

    • @lola.cruz916
      @lola.cruz916 3 роки тому +9

      Because it's a more realistic portrayal of the human condition

  • @desmona8225
    @desmona8225 3 роки тому +4579

    The open grass field they’re in, them both arguing, the wind going by fast, the yellow Jo’s wearing, and the messy hair portrays childhood so obviously yet it’s such a hidden detail. I love it so much

    • @amxxra
      @amxxra 3 роки тому +9

      i made an edit on timothee chalamet mind checking it out

    • @jordanscoville5033
      @jordanscoville5033 2 роки тому +113

      Also the fact that the vest that Jo is wearing was worn by Laurie in another scene where Jo jokingly get down on one knee and offers Laurie the ring that he then wears on his left ring finger for a good part of the rest of the movie

    • @hermione9445
      @hermione9445 2 роки тому +1

      A hot lrish girl ..

    • @Daisyviolett_
      @Daisyviolett_ 2 роки тому +6

      Not me crying over this DETAIL

    • @hermione9445
      @hermione9445 2 роки тому

      @@Daisyviolett_
      Me neither . she's hot .lol .

  • @hanaahanafi532
    @hanaahanafi532 4 роки тому +2462

    "and I'll watch" that pause he made before saying this made this scene perfect

  • @j.r.nessary8582
    @j.r.nessary8582 2 роки тому +1739

    “I love my liberty too well to be in any hurry to give it up.” Ugh. I feel that! But I also feel Laurie’s heartbreak. This scene forever just hits me right in all the feels every time.

    • @kelgirl99
      @kelgirl99 Рік тому +42

      The funny thing is. She loves being free. And I don't think Laurie would have ever pushed her to give up the things she enjoyed. I get that she didn't love him. But in my opinion, it didn't make sense that she'd end up with the teacher dude either. Laurie, out of anyone in the world, would understand her personality and prospects and would be the one to support them.

    • @realdavidjones1623
      @realdavidjones1623 Рік тому

      @@kelgirl99 I thought she was called Laurie and he was called joe, wow

    • @kelgirl99
      @kelgirl99 Рік тому +1

      @Real David Jones No. His hame is Theodore Lawrence, so all the girls call him Laurie. And Jo's name is short for Josephine.

    • @realdavidjones1623
      @realdavidjones1623 Рік тому

      @@kelgirl99 thank you :)

    • @AnnaBellaChannel
      @AnnaBellaChannel Рік тому +15

      Laurie should have given Jo a few years to enjoy her early adulthood freedom and then asked her when she was 23 years old and he would have got a different answer. Laurie wanted to take his playmate into adulthood with him.

  • @claudiazg9932
    @claudiazg9932 4 роки тому +26883

    Coronavirus can't kill me because i died the day Jo rejected Laurie

    • @Liv-hx9xx
      @Liv-hx9xx 4 роки тому +165

      Same✌🏻

    • @evahernandez4748
      @evahernandez4748 4 роки тому +432

      When I watched the movie for the first time I cried during this scene🙁

    • @l602
      @l602 4 роки тому +256

      I watched the movie 30 minutes ago and I can’t stop crying.

    • @NomadAngie
      @NomadAngie 4 роки тому +279

      I died when 1995 Jo (Winona Ryder) rejected 1995 Laurie (Christian Bale), and I died again now.

    • @sumilangfamily7781
      @sumilangfamily7781 4 роки тому +141

      I just can't over it why she rejected him

  • @samginoble2397
    @samginoble2397 4 роки тому +7008

    I wonder if the camera angle was intentional. They’re standing on a hill so it will seem like one has the high ground and the other appears smaller. In the beginning of the scene Laurie is in the “smaller” position because he is confessing his feelings and being vulnerable, but when Jo speaks truthfully about her probably never getting married, Laurie appears to have the high ground and walks away leaving Jo at a low point. Maybe I analyze to much but I thought it was cool

    • @katkatkatkat463
      @katkatkatkat463 4 роки тому +57

      nice

    • @michelleespinal11
      @michelleespinal11 4 роки тому +123

      Omg your the only person who analyzes moves like me!!

    • @Mo74mmad
      @Mo74mmad 4 роки тому +109

      @@michelleespinal11 lmao no, there are plenty of people who analyze movies

    • @hudamarmash2881
      @hudamarmash2881 4 роки тому +8

      i will send this to my ELA teacher

    • @emelie5872
      @emelie5872 4 роки тому +9

      woah-

  • @aubegrey5645
    @aubegrey5645 3 роки тому +6955

    My daily routine:
    1. Reread this chapter
    2. Rewatch this scene
    3. Recry

    • @danielaraetta8345
      @danielaraetta8345 3 роки тому +15

      its My first time reading, just out of curiosity which chapt is it?

    • @aubegrey5645
      @aubegrey5645 3 роки тому +30

      @@danielaraetta8345 “good wives”, chapter 12

    • @danielaraetta8345
      @danielaraetta8345 3 роки тому +4

      @@aubegrey5645 thanksss

    • @aubegrey5645
      @aubegrey5645 3 роки тому +3

      @@danielaraetta8345 💫🌹

    • @gabyr.883
      @gabyr.883 3 роки тому +3

      Samee

  • @snowflakes7344
    @snowflakes7344 3 роки тому +684

    When I read this in the book for the first time, I kept re-reading it again and again, it was such a strong moment. I love that they made this scene almost the same as the book.

    • @motorcyclephoenix7109
      @motorcyclephoenix7109 3 роки тому +28

      I know they did fantastic and he TOTALLY embodied just EXACTLY how Laurie felt in the book the way it all just came pouring out just wow ❤😍 The tragic beauty of how sad this scene is also I noticed throughout the movie their always chasing each other this is them chasing each other one last time and leaving childhood behind going separate ways unfortunately😢💔

    • @TheZealousNobleman
      @TheZealousNobleman 8 місяців тому +1

      What book is it, I wish to ask?

    • @thanmaya3851
      @thanmaya3851 7 місяців тому

      Its the same title "little women" by ​louisa may alcott
      The movie adaptation is just as good as the original book@@TheZealousNobleman

  • @akshitagupta6015
    @akshitagupta6015 4 роки тому +5087

    To this date I don't know how Timothee didn't get nominated for best supporting actor at the Oscars for this.

    • @heatherbukowski2102
      @heatherbukowski2102 4 роки тому +247

      the male category is always dominated by older actors for some reason

    • @akshitagupta6015
      @akshitagupta6015 4 роки тому +5

      @@heatherbukowski2102 Damn

    • @helens1016
      @helens1016 3 роки тому +41

      Because he's not that good

    • @alisiofficial
      @alisiofficial 3 роки тому +45

      @@helens1016 wait, why? i thought this scene was amazing?

    • @helens1016
      @helens1016 3 роки тому +135

      @@alisiofficial He performed well, and he was once nominated for an Oscar for Call Me By Your Name. But this just wasn't his best work in my opinion. Saoirse was nominated for her performance here which I think was absolutely deserved. She truly outshined him in this. It almost makes you feel bad for Chalamet, lol.

  • @dakota6190
    @dakota6190 4 роки тому +12211

    he loved her too early.
    she loved him too late.
    :(

    • @jcrocks6698
      @jcrocks6698 3 роки тому +1267

      No. He had a crush on her and she never loved him as anything more than a friend or brother.

    • @kawaiipopsimmer542
      @kawaiipopsimmer542 3 роки тому +1515

      Honestly it was kind of complicated I don’t think she ever really loved him in the way he claimed to love her...in the end she said she regretted not saying yes to him and when the mom asked if she loved him she couldn’t say she did..all she said is she wanted to be loved by someone and could learn to love him in that way and her mom responded then that’s not love. She was lonely and felt like she had lost her best friend and then later on found out her LITTLE SISTER married someone who was like her soul mater (not a romantic soul mate) which crushed her.

    • @RachelBlackburn
      @RachelBlackburn 3 роки тому +100

      @@kawaiipopsimmer542 you worded that so perfectly

    • @elanalewis3065
      @elanalewis3065 3 роки тому +378

      she never loved him she was just lonely

    • @dakota6190
      @dakota6190 3 роки тому +8

      @@elanalewis3065 true

  • @jaynew6414
    @jaynew6414 3 роки тому +5124

    no one:
    jo: BESTIE VIBES ONLY, BESTIE VIBES ONLY, BESTIE VIBES ONLY

  • @heyitsali96
    @heyitsali96 Рік тому +320

    The fact that I have watched this scene so many times and it is still utterly devastating shows just how well done it is.

  • @raihanaradhana2246
    @raihanaradhana2246 4 роки тому +4778

    imagine being as attractive as Timothee but still got rejected. rip me

    • @malex027
      @malex027 4 роки тому +170

      if he gets rejected... what can WE expect

    • @xxXmmxx
      @xxXmmxx 4 роки тому +183

      Not everything is about looks. You can't love someone just because of their beauty

    • @10ksubsbeforeschoolstarts63
      @10ksubsbeforeschoolstarts63 4 роки тому +24

      And that’s on David Dobrik and Madison Beer but Timothée is Madison

    • @malex027
      @malex027 4 роки тому +4

      @@10ksubsbeforeschoolstarts63 Omg yes

    • @cinematicsxiao
      @cinematicsxiao 4 роки тому

      hi ! i've just posted my fan made video of jo and laurie !
      if you want check it out. remember watch it with quality 1080 p

  • @7snowdog
    @7snowdog 4 роки тому +2111

    Everyone is all about the rejection but can we talk for a moment about how Jo feels about herself? I mean, she seems to feel totally worthless and insecure. She kept hearing from Meg what she shouldn't do, what she shouldn't say, how she should look like or what she should be wearing, so she eventually believed she can't be loved for who she really is. That actually made me sad the most in this scene.

    • @emilywandosen8472
      @emilywandosen8472 4 роки тому +82

      Her family despised her so much. In
      the book i felt it more. Amy and Meg especially. Jo and Beth are the best
      I couldnt stand Amy and Meg they were plain. Especially meg

    • @7snowdog
      @7snowdog 4 роки тому +47

      @@emilywandosen8472 i know, right? I couldn't stand it reading the book. And seriously, i liked Jo much more, she just was herself the whole time and didn't try to fit in. Meg just wanted Jo to be the next version of her while Jo was awesome the way she was, though no one except this guy seemed to notice. I liked Jo and Beth too, i found Amy annoying and Meg seemed a bit arogant to me.

    • @susanalopez5052
      @susanalopez5052 4 роки тому +88

      Jo practically hides behind her insecurities. Meg tells her to not say “cristopher colombus” so she says it louder. Amy tells her to brush her hair so Jo wears it loose and tangled. She amplifies her insecurities to the max in a way of defiance and to seem confident but deep down she is still insecure about who she is. Which is like, a mood

    • @7snowdog
      @7snowdog 4 роки тому +26

      @@susanalopez5052 i think by doing so she forces them to accept her the way she is. Like, no matter what they say, she still does things her way. Which doesn't change the fact it hurts her they can't just take her for what she is, and she indeed feels insecure.

    • @nabihakhan9455
      @nabihakhan9455 4 роки тому +2

      :/

  • @user-bk1dv5st9z
    @user-bk1dv5st9z 3 роки тому +3738

    1:40 the moment when he leans for kiss and jo avoids... my heart....

    • @therogue1542
      @therogue1542 3 роки тому +78

      SSKDHSJFHDJDHJDND MY HEART

    • @natalyabale216
      @natalyabale216 3 роки тому +199

      NO LITERALLY I ALWAYS NOTICE THAT UGHHHHHH

    • @lachicaarte
      @lachicaarte 3 роки тому +46

      one of the best parts TT

    • @milenagonzalez8852
      @milenagonzalez8852 3 роки тому +17

      NOOO STOP

    • @sarahniemann126
      @sarahniemann126 3 роки тому +80

      Whoa! I didn't even realize that that's what happened. Now my heart is crying..

  • @mwilliford200
    @mwilliford200 Рік тому +364

    The part where he asks if there’s anything more (2:33) and she says no causing him to turn away in complete defeat but then she say’s “except…” and he immediately turns back around to listen closely, holding on to any little amount of hope he has left… gotta love that!

    • @skyaltaria
      @skyaltaria 6 місяців тому +3

      he looks at her with so much hope, and then you can SEE his jaw harden in disappointment when she closes the door on him (again). amazing!!!!

  • @merick1453
    @merick1453 4 роки тому +2723

    1:41 Notice how Laurie leaned for a kiss but Jo kinda pushed back.. man that must’ve hurt.

    • @ang-gh8gg
      @ang-gh8gg 4 роки тому +132

      Mark Christian he’s even staring right at her lips :/

    • @curemysin
      @curemysin 4 роки тому +11

      FR 😔

    • @violet-ut6hg
      @violet-ut6hg 4 роки тому +99

      imagine having to act like you aren’t madly in love with timmy ugh i could never be an actor

    • @sophierose9246
      @sophierose9246 4 роки тому +10

      Kudos to Jo March. I couldn't turn down all of that.

    • @dreamsteddybearsmaster
      @dreamsteddybearsmaster 4 роки тому +1

      LOL I never noticed that... great eyes you have

  • @beagemini9472
    @beagemini9472 3 роки тому +5892

    “ if the main character is a female, she has to be married or die”
    Jo: haha no

    • @medhavikasini
      @medhavikasini 3 роки тому +189

      She did.. get married tho I think I mean she found love at the end

    • @blehh010
      @blehh010 3 роки тому +98

      @@medhavikasini yea. I think the writer wanted to convey that its ok to love and settle down. Your life doesn't have to be a political statement or representation of normalizing stigmas.

    • @jaxonrangerdiesel6406
      @jaxonrangerdiesel6406 3 роки тому +221

      @@blehh010 actually, you’re wrong. The only reason why Jo got married at the end was because the author’s publisher told her that if the protagonist is female, she has to make the female character get married at the end. The author always wanted her to remain single without marriage being the ultimate goal but changed it because of the pressure concerning women at that time. Look it up.

    • @giuliaanichini7667
      @giuliaanichini7667 3 роки тому +69

      @@jaxonrangerdiesel6406 yes, and that actually ruined the book for me. As a young girl I was always disappointed that she married Friedrich. As a woman now, I can probably understand it better, but it's a book for young girls after all...

    • @alicerocksell5379
      @alicerocksell5379 2 роки тому +7

      Did she get married in the series? Cause in the book she did. She married friedrick the german professor.

  • @98tirah
    @98tirah 4 роки тому +12467

    "I'm awkward and homely-"
    "I love you Jo."
    "And we'd be miserable-"
    "I love you Jo."
    Damn can i find a man like that in my life 😂

  • @katiecurran4893
    @katiecurran4893 Рік тому +416

    It's heartbreaking for both of them because Jo doesn't want to hurt him and Laurie's situation is self explanatory.

    • @basrahg.250
      @basrahg.250 Рік тому +7

      He's wearing the ring that Jo gave him! He has loved her for a long time, ever since he knew her, and he wanted to marry her, and now, in the advanced stages of the movie, he is still wearing Joe's ring, and I believe that he still loves her and will not stop loving her, and Amy is still Joe's sister, and he loved Amy, but his love for Joe is of the eternal kind that ends and will continue forever despite From his marriage.

  • @haileymay1656
    @haileymay1656 4 роки тому +3220

    Bruh imagine be able to be in a love story with Timothee TWICE

  • @Sauceinmyrice
    @Sauceinmyrice 4 роки тому +3975

    Lady bird : *Timothée rejects Saoirse*
    Little women : *Timothée gets rejected by Saoirse*
    Me : what next?

    • @cinematicsxiao
      @cinematicsxiao 4 роки тому +322

      THEY WILL NEVER END IN A MOVIE TOGETHER I THINK...

    • @rs-cg7wo
      @rs-cg7wo 4 роки тому +107

      What’s next is that Greta will forbid them from getting together

    • @NehaSingh-ty2vk
      @NehaSingh-ty2vk 4 роки тому +41

      Saoirse is actually attracted to girls - Ammonite.😂

    • @Nostalgio
      @Nostalgio 4 роки тому +41

      They’ll be true lovers in the next one.

    • @kaitlynmartin2075
      @kaitlynmartin2075 4 роки тому +18

      Saoirse and Timothée get together...?

  • @geniehossain3738
    @geniehossain3738 3 роки тому +519

    “and I’ll watch” is probably the most relatable expression of unrequited love in all of literature.

  • @nelle6363
    @nelle6363 2 роки тому +308

    I'm in love with this scene. I just spent the last 20 minutes watching and rewatching. It's so refreshingly natural. They talk over each other, the intense ramping up of movement at the beginning and winding down to the stillness at the end, Laurie's small desperate movement to kiss her at 1:41 and her pulling away, the wordless changes in expression when the other person makes significant argument points. And the editing is flawless. The editors give *significantly* more screentime to Laurie and his reactions than Jo's, amplifying the heartbreak of the situation and allowing Chalamet's stellar performance to truly shine. It feels real, and I think that why I keep returning to this clip.
    I've yet to see the movie, but this scene has me sold.

  • @Atrydka
    @Atrydka 4 роки тому +6954

    She never loved him romantically, why some people still don't get it, even though Greta shows it so clearly? Jo was just terriefied she would be alone whole life, that's why she was regretting that she turned him down.
    Btw, I love their outfits - strict Jo dressed almost like a man and Wertherian, overdramatic Laurie with puffed sleeves.

    • @sparkle9909
      @sparkle9909 4 роки тому +298

      agness2294 I think people believe that Jo and Laurie would be good together, and don’t understand the complexity of the scene when she writes him the letter. They think it’s a genuine realisation of these feelings she’s always had not that she’s fearful of the prospect of being alone.
      People want to believe in Jo and Laurie, especially since other incarnations of the book and movie make them look so much more suited to each other, but fail to understand why Amy is better for him.
      Amy actually desires him, and that is what he needs. They also don’t speak at each other which would eventually strain Jo and Laurie’s relationship.

    • @Atrydka
      @Atrydka 4 роки тому +97

      ​@@sparkle9909 Good point! I am just disappointed bacause - in my opinion - this adaptation FINALLY shows this relationships from very different perspectives and explains perfectly that there are various types of love and sometimes they may be confusing (especially for Laurie, who is looking for someone who would be his mother/parent in a way), so I don't know what else we can do to make people believe it is happy ending :D

    • @sparkle9909
      @sparkle9909 4 роки тому +63

      agness2294 I agree this version really does Amy justice

    • @heresqueenie
      @heresqueenie 4 роки тому +103

      The middle schooler in me will always want them together. Their chemistry (and the actors in this version and 94 version) is so exciting to watch and yes friendship is a great basis for a relationship but as an adult I now realize at this stage in their lives it wouldn’t have been ideal. Do I think Laurie truly loved Amy, not really. I think he wanted to be a part of the March family and could have easily fallen for any one of the girls but I do think Amy helped him mature and grow so ultimately she was the better sister to end up with. My biggest gripe about this adaptation is the dismissal of Fredrich. Jo found her calling in life and married someone who supported her and helped her thrive, the fact that it was left up to the viewer saddened me a little even when it was written that was a radical view to have a career and to be married.

    • @vickireveche
      @vickireveche 4 роки тому +1

      totally agree with you...

  • @maaarianr6848
    @maaarianr6848 4 роки тому +756

    2:40 omg when he turns around you can SEE the vulnerability and hope in his eyes. Timothee ate this role.

    • @noone-sr8jr
      @noone-sr8jr 4 роки тому +13

      RIGHT OMG I REPLAYED THAT PART SO MANY TIMES

    • @inexorable_9945
      @inexorable_9945 4 роки тому +5

      Exactly i noticed it too

    • @juanitaonthego7745
      @juanitaonthego7745 4 роки тому +2

      Yes!! such a powerful performance, with so much nuance ♥

    • @sarah-xp3hf
      @sarah-xp3hf 3 роки тому

      YES TIMOTHEE IS SUCH A GOOD ACTOR

  • @leah6154
    @leah6154 4 роки тому +524

    i never forget how jo always knew laurie secretly loved her. and she always hoped that he wouldn’t bring it up- and she wanted to love him back but couldn’t

  • @hamzamir7784
    @hamzamir7784 3 роки тому +51

    The way he repeats "I love you, Jo." while she's listing her flaws.

  • @Eva-ed4ed
    @Eva-ed4ed 3 роки тому +2760

    The bittersweetness of this scene is so strange. It makes you feel something; not only pitty for Teddy, but also something deep for Jo. It’s knowing that there are some very pure feelings behind the characters in this scene. We have Teddy, who has been in love with this girl that seems like her soulmate since he met her. And then is Joe, who loves Teddy but can’t correspond his feelings, and is doing her absolute best to try to not break his heart without giving up her true self. I wouldn’t like this scene so much of the feelings were reciprocated. I like the purity of two individuals who love each other but want different things from the other. It’s the unavoidable love, the unavoidable harm, the unavoidable loneliness. Two people with a connection that ends up being painful of how much they care for each other; one with an unrequited love, the other one by hating hurting the person she is the closest to.

    • @Giojourney
      @Giojourney 2 роки тому +12

      They loved each other and truly the ending scene seemed so forced to me like Jo didn’t want to be there at all, I think there’s a deeper meaning wanted by the writer but after the ending I hated her lol

    • @mahnoorrafiq6803
      @mahnoorrafiq6803 2 роки тому +5

      finally someone who understands!!!

    • @massielniazoa5531
      @massielniazoa5531 Рік тому

      Thanks for this 🌸

  • @hindbakrari733
    @hindbakrari733 4 роки тому +9609

    The Kate Winslet and Leo Dicaprio of our generation

  • @joefaithfull1674
    @joefaithfull1674 3 роки тому +4494

    Advantages of being called Joe: I get to shut my eyes during this scene and pretend Timmy is talking to me

  • @felicitytumala3348
    @felicitytumala3348 Рік тому +128

    I've watched this for unhealthy amount of times. I admire the lines and their acting SO MUCH. I really think this should have won awards.

  • @audreyteo1312
    @audreyteo1312 3 роки тому +3083

    i feel like their relationship perfectly encompasses the idea of loving someone vs. being in love with someone. Both in the books and in the movie, Jo loved Laurie but she was never truly in love with him. I'm glad that both of them come to the conclusion that they love each other platonically and I think that's beautiful.

    • @mfjdv2020
      @mfjdv2020 3 роки тому +114

      Platonic love is often the best foundation for a lasting relationship, as it's less selfish and demanding. One doesn't expect so much as in romantic love. Platonic love generally lasts longer than romantic love. However each case is different.

    • @newyorkcity6454
      @newyorkcity6454 2 роки тому +7

      @@mfjdv2020 I agree with you

    • @jessicaluk74
      @jessicaluk74 Рік тому

      So true

    • @thekidd2323
      @thekidd2323 Рік тому +11

      @@mfjdv2020 yeah sadly most media and such tell you that unless your heart flutters all the time it’s not love.
      People have a very VERY large misconception of what love is in western societies

    • @Veganstega
      @Veganstega Рік тому

      @@thekidd2323Right, this is only a western thing. Totally!

  • @saoirse1624
    @saoirse1624 4 роки тому +743

    I honestly don’t think I’ll ever get over how his hair looked in this scene...

  • @adak4874
    @adak4874 4 роки тому +2343

    He loved her so early, she loved him so late

    • @cheezyfilmsproductions1842
      @cheezyfilmsproductions1842 4 роки тому +551

      She didn't love him though. In the end she reconsidered because she was lonely and depressed. Feeling heartbroken at Beth's death, and just wanting the comfort of her best friend back.

    • @RomanZolanski123
      @RomanZolanski123 4 роки тому +117

      Cheezy Films Productions yep... I think it’s ok to ship them... but other people go so overboard sometimes and hate her for breaking his heart. We should never be with someone out of pity or loneliness. I love that their relationship shows that soul mates come in all shapes and sizes.

    • @RV-mk9ry
      @RV-mk9ry 4 роки тому +83

      Pingu Nootson They would have been terrible together. Jo was right. Her dreams were different. She shouldn’t have had to accept a proposal from a man who she always saw as a friend and lose the freedom she already had. Jo was very against a life like that. And the fact that she didn’t love Laurie probably made it much easier for her to say no. I love Jo’s character for her determination. I think she’s wonderful. But I don’t think Laurie was her soulmate. What they had was cute and fresh and new. But it would have ended in disaster.

    • @RomanZolanski123
      @RomanZolanski123 4 роки тому +34

      R V exactly. And taking into account that Laurie has no female figures in his life. Of course he’s gonna fall in love with the first thing he sees! Not downplaying their chemistry, but I think if he had a mother or sisters, he wouldn’t fall for his friend quite as hard as he did. So it makes sense that Louisa wrote him that way.

    • @RomanZolanski123
      @RomanZolanski123 4 роки тому +1

      Nishita kunder I mean I never said he didn’t love her

  • @itssab2845
    @itssab2845 2 роки тому +204

    Laurie helped to bring out the child hidden within Jo. Laurie was someone she could have moments of fun with, without having to think about the difficulties of her life. Laurie added the fun like her sisters did. However, Jo by nature was serious, ambitious, wanting to do something in life and Laurie could never be that man who would motivate her or take interest in her writing. He could never encourage her. Yes, of course, he could love her but Jo didn't need the love at the time Laurie proposed to her, she already had love from her sisters and that for her was enough.
    The only reason Jo wrote that letter to Laurie at the end and wanted him back in her life is because at that specific point in her life, she was truly lonely - she lost a sister (Beth), she soon realised how her other sisters (Meg and Amy) were happy with life but she wasn't. Laurie could perhaps bring that happiness back. But no she was wrong, true happiness lied in her writing, in the time she spent by herself, I'd say that's when Jo really discovered herself and therefore wrote the amazing book she did!

    • @Reu8enofleon
      @Reu8enofleon 2 роки тому +16

      Finally, a satisfying explanation rather than “your soulmate just isn’t the person you end up with”. This really explains the why behind it all despite everything that was said and done

    • @TasnimAnwar
      @TasnimAnwar Рік тому

      The comment I was searching for! Thank you! 😊

    • @RoseFrance
      @RoseFrance Рік тому

      Perfectly said ❤ Definitely the best explanation and summary I'm looking for.❤

    • @bhosdaa001
      @bhosdaa001 Рік тому +2

      What do you expect from a guy that you rejected.
      Still wait and comes to you when you feel lonely after you didn’t say yes to him ?
      Oohh what a delusional mindset
      Sick L generation ❌

    • @georgeASD
      @georgeASD Місяць тому

      it sucks how normalized this kind of thinking has become. "true happiness lied in her writing" l've seen too many women lying to themselves with that exact argument, just to find later in life to be wrong and feel lonely.... so much male attention in early life makes women think thats a cheap thing that comes easy. they think love will be waiting for them when they feel like it, but in reality you get only a few good shots in life and youre done.

  • @anaa8060
    @anaa8060 4 роки тому +3688

    The movie is almost identical with the book in this scene

    • @karisalove4356
      @karisalove4356 4 роки тому +7

      Could u tell me where is this place in real ?

    • @littlems4540
      @littlems4540 4 роки тому +22

      Karisa Love I think they actually shot it in Massachusetts but I’m not sure

    • @anaa8060
      @anaa8060 4 роки тому +28

      Karisa Love they shot it in Massachusetts this specific view I’m not sure where but some were in Boston and some in Cambridge

    • @loveharrydaily
      @loveharrydaily 4 роки тому +27

      Ana Alves I was reading the chapter the other day... the main difference is that Laurie thinks she’s really in love with Friedrich and that’s why she’s turning him down. He can’t accept that she can’t love him the way he loves her. 😪

    • @ph2913
      @ph2913 4 роки тому +5

      Karisa Love I’m pretty sure they shot this scene at Gibbet Hill in Groton, Massachusetts

  • @Bklyngurl85
    @Bklyngurl85 4 роки тому +788

    She loved him, but wasn’t in love with him and in there lies the difference between romantic and platonic love.

  • @taylorsscarf1381
    @taylorsscarf1381 4 роки тому +1292

    1994: kissing and quietly sharing feelings in a forest
    2019: screaming and sadness on a hill

    • @nittoburn4
      @nittoburn4 3 роки тому

      Omgg 💖💖💖

    • @spicycatsandthings
      @spicycatsandthings 3 роки тому +58

      2019 is so much better

    • @ittssanaa
      @ittssanaa 3 роки тому +13

      2019 far better

    • @spicycatsandthings
      @spicycatsandthings 3 роки тому +7

      @This Nigerian Loves Drinking Garri lol, objectively, that’s a dumb af comment

    • @amr_12_
      @amr_12_ 3 роки тому

      They love some campy scenery chewing in 21st century.

  • @cf2813
    @cf2813 2 роки тому +67

    one of the best scenes in any movie ive watched in a long time. the rhythm, the dialogue exchange, the script, the subtlety yet sincerity of emotions

  • @nvembertrbl
    @nvembertrbl 3 роки тому +3275

    Jo is such a mature young women, there's a truth in everything she said in defense on why she didn't want to marry him... Laurie loves her with a mere expectation on they wanted to be happy, but Jo sees everything in reality. So, that's a very mature of her to think like that, because most young women, especially in current generation sees marriage as pure happiness, but they don't see the reality to it, the responsibility you have to carry, the chemistry you need to find to make it last, it's not just love.. it is much more than that. I love this scene so much.

    • @546-apoorvaranjan7
      @546-apoorvaranjan7 3 роки тому +85

      Thank God someone in comment section understands it

    • @Aethelhadas
      @Aethelhadas 3 роки тому +64

      I thought everybody is on Laurie’s side and I don’t get it at all. I agree.

    • @aiyisss-2914
      @aiyisss-2914 3 роки тому +70

      Thank goodness for this comment because I'm once in Jo's place and people seems to get angry at me. I just stated what I feel and my view. That's all ').

    • @ttee2304
      @ttee2304 3 роки тому +21

      Definetely! People don't even seem to really understand Jo in that scene.

    • @MustBe1980
      @MustBe1980 3 роки тому +17

      Now explain this to my friends & family 😂 seriously, I’m just like Jo in this regard but people don’t seem to understand why I am. Marriage isn’t flowers & happiness all the time & neither is any relationship (even friendships need some work)

  • @shattermirror
    @shattermirror 4 роки тому +445

    It's interesting how both Jo and Amy understand immediately what he's asking before he says it and refuse it just as fast.

  • @GabiHannah1
    @GabiHannah1 4 роки тому +894

    2:40 when Jo speaks again Laurie thinks that she changed her mind and gives a little nod waiting for her to accept his proposal 😭😭😭😭

    • @sonam10107
      @sonam10107 3 роки тому +13

      frick

    • @giorgiabuttitta4366
      @giorgiabuttitta4366 3 роки тому +37

      I could’ve lived on without knowing that piece of information that broke my heart

    • @vaishnavirao904
      @vaishnavirao904 3 роки тому

      Why did you made me notice that !?!???😭

  • @Karrrterrr
    @Karrrterrr 3 роки тому +173

    1:30 the way Saoirse delivered that line just makes me love her even more

  • @explorerv561
    @explorerv561 4 роки тому +684

    0:40 I find that part to be one of the most human lines in this amazing scene when Laurie states everything he gave up for Jo and then adds the panicked “and it’s fine” to justify himself

  • @elle5305
    @elle5305 4 роки тому +406

    2:40 when she said 'except that-' and cut herself off and he turned back instantly, giving her a little nod as though to say 'go on, i'm listening' my heart died a little

  • @jodiemarie9901
    @jodiemarie9901 4 роки тому +984

    Every one dying over the “and ill watch” but the “you can’t?” Is killing me

    • @SaraBendjafar
      @SaraBendjafar 4 роки тому +5

      ME

    • @ellena211
      @ellena211 4 роки тому +4

      Jodie Marie where do they say “you can’t?”

    • @SaraBendjafar
      @SaraBendjafar 4 роки тому +7

      @@ellena211 1:05

    • @jodiemarie9901
      @jodiemarie9901 4 роки тому +15

      Helen when joe starts talking and she says i dont know why i cant love u, i have tried and i cant, he goes ‘you cant?’ Really sadly and quietly

    • @지영-v7b
      @지영-v7b 4 роки тому +6

      Yeah... That little pause before he says it kills me

  • @agatakrzeminska2314
    @agatakrzeminska2314 3 роки тому +176

    Even though I hated she didn't say yes, I loved it. She is such a strong character, always trying to be true with herself and that's what I admire about her. She is seeing this relationship realistic, I think she also doesn't want to hurt him, even if he doesn't understand it. She doesn't want to fake happiness or fulfilment, she doesn't want to force herself to lie. Even though she is risking a lot, she won't exchange stabilised life for not being independent and feeling like she is just a beautiful face

  • @luli5100
    @luli5100 4 роки тому +244

    You can see the hope in his eyes when he turns around when Jo says she has one more thing to say and then it fades away, this scene it's portrayed perfectly.

  • @Nattatonka
    @Nattatonka 4 роки тому +419

    “And I’ll watch” let’s admit that hits everyone hard in some way.

  • @avasalazar6813
    @avasalazar6813 3 роки тому +2278

    at 1:43 you can tell that laurie wants to kiss jo so badly

    • @TheBinisaMix
      @TheBinisaMix 3 роки тому +121

      And I get butterflies from this very moment. 🦋🦋🦋

    • @mai.vancon
      @mai.vancon 3 роки тому +45

      Well he should’ve gone for it. That might’ve changed her mind

    • @katelynbrown98
      @katelynbrown98 3 роки тому +280

      @@mai.vancon
      No. He did the right thing respecting her expressions and feelings of protest.

    • @ketiberezhiani7024
      @ketiberezhiani7024 3 роки тому +8

      i was thinking the same thing

    • @jaybird5589
      @jaybird5589 3 роки тому +144

      I like that at 1:42-1:43 he leans in like he’s going to kiss her but she leans back. Those little moments of body language acting is what helps make this scene so great agghhh

  • @lucysterloff
    @lucysterloff 3 роки тому +55

    i just read this part of the script and it is so amazing how timmy included things that weren’t in it that truly made this scene so epic. he’s so talented

  • @zulaldemirtas6454
    @zulaldemirtas6454 4 роки тому +1445

    Even though this scene is heartbreaking, it should’ve been like this. Jo never would love Laurie in a romantic way. Later she was upset because she was lonely, she wanted to be loved; we can see that she still don‘t love him romantically.
    Their acting is splendid, and the whole scene is like painting ❤️

    • @bellacooper7937
      @bellacooper7937 4 роки тому +17

      Zülal Demirtaş totally agree. Amy was better for Laurie and in my rational mind I see that but I can’t help that I loved them together and this scene absolutely crushed me

    • @apieceoflife2732
      @apieceoflife2732 4 роки тому

      She was upset later because she was selfish and was jealous of Amy

    • @esthercho6249
      @esthercho6249 4 роки тому +2

      @@apieceoflife2732 She was jealous of Amy bc she found true love, when she hadn't. Not bc she was jealous of her having Laurie. That's not... selfish, isn't it?

  • @charlenemoore4301
    @charlenemoore4301 4 роки тому +537

    Timothée and Saoirse both killed this scene

  • @thebravelass
    @thebravelass 3 роки тому +664

    I love Laurie's nod at 2:40 when Jo said, "except that." He was like go on, say it 😭😭😭

    • @anbn1955
      @anbn1955 Рік тому +8

      like he want listen to her whatever she told to him 😭

  • @mariap.5113
    @mariap.5113 3 роки тому +107

    I am not ashamed at all of how often I return to this video, I just adore Timothée and Saoirse's performance in this specific scene. It´s certainly my favorite comfort video.

  • @mariela994
    @mariela994 4 роки тому +280

    If a single sequence could win an Oscar, this would have. It’s perfect

  • @claireroper4006
    @claireroper4006 4 роки тому +1157

    At 2:40 she sees the ring around his neck, the same ring she gave him when they were younger.

    • @chika_333
      @chika_333 4 роки тому +54

      Claire Richards ooohh!! i thought he was wearing it on his finger the whole time

    • @shamz5722
      @shamz5722 4 роки тому +24

      Wow details!!!!!!!!

    • @SCARLETDOT
      @SCARLETDOT 4 роки тому +22

      Wooohh good catch

    • @nabihakhan9455
      @nabihakhan9455 4 роки тому +14

      HE WAS GONNA PROPOSE HER

    • @coffee-pot
      @coffee-pot 3 роки тому +1

      OOOHHHH excellent catch! You make me love this scene even more

  • @tikiblacher6393
    @tikiblacher6393 4 роки тому +354

    “And I’ll watch” kills me every time, I mean who didn’t start hysterically crying.
    I swear everyone was crying in themovie theater

    • @alondratovar186
      @alondratovar186 4 роки тому

      I was looking for a comment like this; it breaks my heart every time i watch this video

  • @mandagyman6580
    @mandagyman6580 2 роки тому +33

    I keep coming back to this scene again and again. It's just brilliant. The acting was so natural without any overacting. Acting, camera work, setting, background music, clothes... Everything is just perfect. This scene breaks my heart every single time❤️

  • @KP-zd3hc
    @KP-zd3hc 4 роки тому +249

    The fact that Jo’s rejection of Laurie is set against this beautiful, picturesque backdrop just makes this all the more heartbreaking...

  • @romyarie9584
    @romyarie9584 4 роки тому +1800

    Jo: Meg married, Amy off to Europe, another year, you'll graduate and you'll be off on a long holiday... I'm not good like Beth, so I'm angry and I'm restless
    Laurie: you don't have to stay here Jo
    Jo: Why, should we run off and join a pirate ship?
    Laurie: *shakes his head*
    Jo: No, no
    Laurie: It's no use Jo, Jo we've got to have it out.
    Jo: No no
    Laurie: I have loved you ever since I have known you Jo, I couldn't help it an and I tried to show, and you wouldn't let me, which is fine
    Jo: No
    Laurie: But I must make you hear now, and give me an answer, because I cannot go on like this any longer
    Jo: Teddy, please
    Laurie: I gave up billiards. I gave up everything you didn't like. I'm happy I did; it's fine, and I waited, and I never complained because I figured you would love me Jo. And I realized I'm not half good enough, and I'm not this great man --
    Jo: -- Yes, yes you are. You are a great deal too good for me, and I'm so grateful to you, and I'm so proud of you, and I just don't see why, I can't love you as you want me to. I don't know why.
    Laurie: you can't?
    Jo: No, I can't, I can't change how I feel, and it would be a lie to say I do when I don't. I'm so sorry Teddy. I'm so sorry, but I just can't help it.
    Laurie: I can't love anyone else, Jo, I only love you.
    Jo: Teddy, it would be a disaster if we married--
    Laurie: It wouldn't be a disaster--
    Jo: We'd be miserable
    Laurie: No Jo, I'd be a perfect saint!
    Jo: I can't, I can't. I tried it and I failed.
    Laurie: Why does everyone expect it then? Why does your family and my grandpa expect it? Why are you saying this? Say yes and let's be happy together, Jo.
    Jo: I can't say yes truly, so I'm not going to say yes at all, and you'll see that I'm right eventually, and you'll thank me for it.
    Laurie: I'd rather hang myself than realize this, Jo.
    Jo: Teddy--
    Laurie: I would rather be dead.
    Jo: Teddy, don't say that. Teddy, listen, you'll find some lovely, accomplished girl who will love you and adore you, and she's going to make a fine mistress for your fine house, but I wouldn't all right.
    Laurie: Yes, you would, Jo.
    Jo: Look at me! I'm homely, and I'm awkward, and I'm odd--
    Laurie: I love you, Jo.
    Jo: and you'd be ashamed of me--
    Laurie: I love you, Jo.
    Jo: and we would quarrel, we can't help it, even now. I'd hate elegant society, you'd hate my scribbling, and we would be unhappy, and we'd wish we hadn't done it and everything will be horrid.
    Laurie: Is there anything more?
    Jo: No, nothing more.
    Laurie: All right,
    Jo: Except that... Teddy, I don't believe I will every marry. I'm happy as I am. I love my liberty too well to be in any hurry to give it up.
    Laurie: I think you're wrong about that, Jo.
    Jo: No.
    Laurie: I think you will marry, Jo. I think you will find someone, and you will love them, and you will live and die for them because that's your way, and you will. And I'll watch.

  • @kawaiii-chantsuntsun7863
    @kawaiii-chantsuntsun7863 4 роки тому +547

    Laurie's messy hair was a kill. I was shot right through my heart.

  • @francescazanelliberrios3339
    @francescazanelliberrios3339 6 місяців тому +10

    this scene lives rent free in my mind. such a piece of art.

  • @sharonw8995
    @sharonw8995 4 роки тому +101

    That choke in his voice before he says "I figured you'd love me". You can feel his pain.

  • @hennesseyyxo
    @hennesseyyxo 4 роки тому +259

    “I love you Jo, I love you Jo”.

  • @hweirachel
    @hweirachel 4 роки тому +295

    Life lesson: If you’ve loved or sacrificed an amount for someone, don’t expect to be loved the same amount in return. Love is not a bank transaction. And the person you have a crush on doesn’t owe you anything.

    • @kevinjimenez5283
      @kevinjimenez5283 3 роки тому +8

      That's love. You only give

    • @besanissa428
      @besanissa428 3 роки тому +7

      love is not a debt.

    • @Pantano63
      @Pantano63 3 роки тому +1

      She regretted rejecting him later on, though.

    • @renebaebae0600
      @renebaebae0600 3 роки тому +11

      @@Pantano63 no she is not. At the end she ends up with another person right? The teacher guy. She regretted it only bcs she felt alone, not bcs she truly loved her.

    • @Pantano63
      @Pantano63 3 роки тому

      @@renebaebae0600 So she regretted it like I had said? Nice we can agree.

  • @seriouslyschleichstudios2294
    @seriouslyschleichstudios2294 2 роки тому +40

    i love what greta gerwig and the actors did in this scene, what set it apart from others was the energy and the movement and the scene flowed so well and made it so heartbreakingly beautiful

  • @AA-mv9fe
    @AA-mv9fe 4 роки тому +607

    2:39 that little nod kills me he's so desperate for a change of mind by joe , and the way he looks at her at 1:42 , my heart is officially broken 🥺

    • @jahaja6663
      @jahaja6663 4 роки тому +2

      A A yes I thought so too )):

    • @mayangalam2881
      @mayangalam2881 4 роки тому +7

      Yeeessss the slight nod stopped my breath!

    • @iknowexactlywhoyouare8701
      @iknowexactlywhoyouare8701 4 роки тому +1

      You should watch the 1994 version of the movie

    • @AA-mv9fe
      @AA-mv9fe 4 роки тому

      @@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701I actually did see it a while before this came out , I think each movie has it's mood and take on the subject , wasn't really mad at the new one nor hated of the old version after the new

    • @stephanietegio6576
      @stephanietegio6576 4 роки тому

      Yessss 😭

  • @tali5235
    @tali5235 4 роки тому +228

    “And I’ll watch” hurts

  • @halfwaydcent1245
    @halfwaydcent1245 4 роки тому +203

    There is something about the way Laurie goes from 0 to 100 in the span of one second that is so powerful in this performance. Everything is normal and then all of a sudden they both know this moment that has been looming over them is finally happening. And all these emotions and words unspoken come spewing out of his mouth so desperately. Such amazing acting and writing.

  • @rk9585
    @rk9585 Рік тому +92

    when laurie turns back at 2:39 it just breaks my heart every single time. he so desperately hopes to hear what he wants and the speed in which he turns to look at jo is honestly just completely gut-wrenching.